How to differ: The ethics of differing: آدابِ اختلاف

How to differ with some one in a more effective and productive way
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  • @zubeda4883
    @zubeda488318 күн бұрын

    I have a huge respect for Prof Javed Iqbal. He explains everything in a comprehensive manner from all angles and easy to understand. Please continue with your good work. This world needs people like you. I am learning so much from you. Thank you.

  • @zartanshaaki1992

    @zartanshaaki1992

    13 күн бұрын

    Yeh shakhs Sahil Adeem ki budtameezion ko downplay kernay mein masroof hai, aur kuch nahi

  • @faridaqadir3174
    @faridaqadir317419 күн бұрын

    Sir you are a very wise and a very well educated person. When differing and discussing anything, choice of words is extremely important. I do not know Mr. Adeem much, but I saw this program under discussion. The venom with which Mr. Adeem was generalizing and calling women "jahil" was extremely abusive repulsive. No one has the right to use abusive language even if he claims to be a religious scholar

  • @Arslan_writes_yt

    @Arslan_writes_yt

    19 күн бұрын

    Dr. Javed Iqbal has explained very well MashaAllah. I just want to add that normally we don't watch the whole video for 1hr or 2hr. Sir Sahil Adeem was telling the translation of the verse of Quran which was the same as he said. The thing is that nowadays we are far away from our holy book so we could not understand the actual meaning of an Arabic word. We have to see both sides and definitely we can't attack on anyone's intentions

  • @dontlosehope2723

    @dontlosehope2723

    18 күн бұрын

    The thing is that he had arab teachers and in arabic this word is not used like we use it in urdu, in urdu its considered an offensive word...May be he is unaware of the negative impacts of this word as he dint have pakitani teachers.

  • @farzanafarooq6117

    @farzanafarooq6117

    18 күн бұрын

    ​@@dontlosehope2723i don't agree with you. He lives here .he delivers lectures here.

  • @dontlosehope2723

    @dontlosehope2723

    18 күн бұрын

    @@farzanafarooq6117 No he might know....but when you have been brought up in Arabic language course you dont find it offensive...i myself when read this word in arabic language in a hadees first time i being a pakistani had a thought that Rasulullah s.a.w is using such a word but then you become aadi hojana...Actually we dont read in Arabic alongwith Urdu tarjuma that is why culturally we get very offended by this word...and also the way how ppl in our society use this word..like a gaali ya ghussa ya apni bharaas nikaalne k taur pay , ghalat "lehjay" main...its just my thinking ,i will keep good gumaan about him as Rasulullah s.a.w told us to refrain from badgumaani , badgumaani sab say bara jhoot hai..something like this.

  • @umermunawar5867

    @umermunawar5867

    18 күн бұрын

    Mr sahil adeem was right but his way of talking as usual was rude n arrogant He must have same etiquettes which Dr sb is mentioning

  • @user-nc5of7hb2b
    @user-nc5of7hb2b17 күн бұрын

    🍃🌸اسلام علیکم استاد محترم، میں اپنے رب کی بے انتہا مشکور ہوں جنھوں نے ہماری زندگی میں اس قدر خوبصورت ،تحمل مزاج ، نیک لوگ رکھیں ،جو ہمیں زندگی کو بہترین طریقہ سے گزرنے کا سلیقہ سکھاتے ہیں، اللہ کریم آپکو اپنی امان میں رکھیں آپ نا صرف میری بلکہ بہت سے لوگوں کے لیے روشنی کا باعث ہیں 🍃

  • @ghazaliteachings
    @ghazaliteachings19 күн бұрын

    سر جی آپ ساحل عدیم کی بھی کچھ تربیت فرمائیے. ❤️ جزاک اللہ خیر

  • @uzmaasher97

    @uzmaasher97

    18 күн бұрын

    As well as Khalil ur Reman qamar both person need to tolerate other people

  • @GADHAZEESHANGONADAL

    @GADHAZEESHANGONADAL

    18 күн бұрын

    💯😢

  • @simplestatement1543

    @simplestatement1543

    18 күн бұрын

    قُلۡ اَفَغَيۡرَ اللّٰهِ تَاۡمُرُوۡٓنِّىۡۤ اَعۡبُدُ اَيُّهَا الۡجٰـهِلُوۡنَ‏ (اے نبی ﷺ !) آپ کہہ دیجئے کہ اے جاہلو ! کیا تم مجھے بھی یہ مشورہ دے رہے ہو کہ میں اللہ کے سوا کسی اور کی بندگی کروں ؟ Az-zumar 39:64

  • @GADHAZEESHANGONADAL

    @GADHAZEESHANGONADAL

    18 күн бұрын

    @@simplestatement1543 Acha phir me b keh sakta Sahii Adeem Ki ma bhe jahil our yeh khud bhe jahil

  • @Sistreeideas342
    @Sistreeideas34213 күн бұрын

    A o a Dr sahab ap ki baat itni monasib hai kay dil mutmaeen ho jata hai hum kuch bhi nhi yeh baat bilkul theek hai sahil adeem sahb ko Deen ka bilkul nhi pata or wo quran ko bhi nhi janty sirf kuch references lay atty hn or kuch nhi bhi kash wo ap ki is video say wo baat smjh lain warna yeh itni zada tadabur wali batain sahil sahb ko smjh nhi Anni Allah ap ko salamt rakhy ameen

  • @waseemahmed7762
    @waseemahmed776218 күн бұрын

    Sahil adeem is a public figure and he should control his hate behavior with people. He must respect people.

  • @priyankdhyani

    @priyankdhyani

    18 күн бұрын

    A true momin directs all his respect only to Allah and Rasool pak SAWW. No respect for people who are against Islam.

  • @simplestatement1543

    @simplestatement1543

    18 күн бұрын

    قُلۡ اَفَغَيۡرَ اللّٰهِ تَاۡمُرُوۡٓنِّىۡۤ اَعۡبُدُ اَيُّهَا الۡجٰـهِلُوۡنَ‏ (اے نبی ﷺ !) آپ کہہ دیجئے کہ اے جاہلو ! کیا تم مجھے بھی یہ مشورہ دے رہے ہو کہ میں اللہ کے سوا کسی اور کی بندگی کروں ؟ Az-zumar 39:64

  • @MalikMalik-vc9pj

    @MalikMalik-vc9pj

    15 күн бұрын

    ​@@simplestatement1543 bandagi aur Kisi say tamiz say BAAT krnay different hai.

  • @FalconNewsx

    @FalconNewsx

    15 күн бұрын

    Direct your advice to the rude raging feminist.

  • @zartanshaaki1992

    @zartanshaaki1992

    13 күн бұрын

    @@priyankdhyani Lanat hai tum per

  • @ghulamrasoolshahzadaofficial
    @ghulamrasoolshahzadaofficial18 күн бұрын

    ڈاکٹر صاحب میں آپ کی بات سے سو فیصد متفق ہوں..

  • @adnanshokat99
    @adnanshokat9917 күн бұрын

    ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بڑے آدمی ہیں مالک آپ کو سلامت رکھے۔۔۔

  • @ABDULRHEEM-kr1kr
    @ABDULRHEEM-kr1kr19 күн бұрын

    Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders...................

  • @theenlightenedone1283

    @theenlightenedone1283

    19 күн бұрын

    علاج 72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی اسلام = امن و سلامتی فلاحی ریاست اللھم' لبیک پاکستان زندہ باد❤

  • @bushrafatima3149
    @bushrafatima314919 күн бұрын

    Sahil Adeem jis level ki baat kartay hein unfortunately masses ki understanding ka woh level nehi hae. Lekin sab say pehlay alfaz aur lehjay ko dheema rakhna aur us k baad samnay walay k understanding level ko samjhay baghair hum kisi ko kuch sikha nehi saktay. Sir Sahil Adeem ki niat par toh shayad he koi ho jo shak karay but human psychology hae k hum niat say ziada alfaz par attention detay hein.

  • @Dil-ka-qalam

    @Dil-ka-qalam

    19 күн бұрын

    I don't know anything abt this incident but want to say that words do matter. None is going to check inside u or ur intention. Atleast we can't expect from the general public. But we shd try to see the real intention but there r very few ppl who do that.

  • @simplestatement1543

    @simplestatement1543

    18 күн бұрын

    True

  • @simplestatement1543

    @simplestatement1543

    18 күн бұрын

    Hindu culture sy he nahi ham nikly

  • @sundasa7098

    @sundasa7098

    18 күн бұрын

    Alfaaz are extremely important. What exactly are you trying to hint at? Scholars agar masses ko bat samjha nhi sktay to unka faida kia? Yeh acha hai ... bat krni nhi ati to ye bol den k masses k samajh se bahir hai. Wah

  • @qabeelbinadam

    @qabeelbinadam

    17 күн бұрын

    Sahil Adeem ka ye permanent tareeqa ha ke vo samne vale se bat nahi karta, vo us ko portal bana ke larger audience ka brainwash karta ha, ab aisa brain wash hua ha ke pooray munafiqistan ma maghaz ki nehri beh Chali hain to ye credit to ha us ka banta ha, maafi mange girl ko BHI credit jata ha, it's all for the better. Hum aisi qaum numa jathay ka murabba hain ke aise he jab hum ok doosray ko zaleel large to sudhray he or Rah e raast pe range, abhi to Sirf state bank ne raast nikala ha. or ye batae ke Pakistani aurto ko kis baat ka takabbur or akar ha, han mard BHI jahil hain, aur aurten BHI, Sahil Adeem se ittefaq nahi karta, 95 nahi 100% mard or 100% aurten jahil hain. SAHIL ADEEM se sawal ha ke ye 5% ka evidence de ke vo jahil nahi.

  • @ednanayub
    @ednanayub18 күн бұрын

    قوم کی آبیاری اشد ضروری ہے تا کی فتنوں کی بارش میں اپنی اپنی چھتری کھول لیں اور بچا لیں خود کو ایمان کو مگر پھر بھی یہ ہوائیں سب کو چھو کے گزریں گی۔

  • @salmakazi5750
    @salmakazi575018 күн бұрын

    بہت عمدہ بہترین مگر معذرت کے ساتھ comments پڑھ کر لگا کہ ہم میں نہ مانوں والی قوم سے تعلق رکھتے ہیں اللہ تعالیٰ ہمیں ہدایت عطا فرمائے آمین جزاک اللہ خیرا

  • @anumramay4141

    @anumramay4141

    17 күн бұрын

    True ... or es ko hi jahalat hi kahty hain.. And we are into it..

  • @zubbrabb

    @zubbrabb

    16 күн бұрын

    Bilkul sahi 😊

  • @MuhammadKashif-cf1ms
    @MuhammadKashif-cf1ms18 күн бұрын

    Sahil Adeem and Khalil ur rehman jesy logo ko iklhaq ky daiery may kisi sy disagree krna chahye aur jazbat py control krna chahye specially in public.

  • @S.Sam.01
    @S.Sam.0119 күн бұрын

    100 true words !! jazak Allah khair

  • @deenorduniyadonosawaren239
    @deenorduniyadonosawaren23919 күн бұрын

    عمدہ اور اہم نکات

  • @user-SSKYT111
    @user-SSKYT11116 күн бұрын

    Dr shaib Marey pass ilfaz Nahi Hein. Bus inta khena chahoun ga ke ap ki video sekhene waloun KO bohat Gia howa hsi. ❤❤❤❤

  • @nosheenahmed3231
    @nosheenahmed323117 күн бұрын

    Finally a knowledgable & well mannered person explained it👏👏

  • @yasimeendurrani1209
    @yasimeendurrani120915 күн бұрын

    Please remember ... "Let us agree to disagree without being disagreeable"

  • @haqnawazkhan552
    @haqnawazkhan55216 күн бұрын

    پروفیسر صاحب۔ بہت عمدہ۔ بہت نفیس طریقہ سے آپ نے یہ بات پیش کی اور سمجھائی ۔

  • @smssa3627
    @smssa362717 күн бұрын

    Kitni sahi baat samjhae hy ma shaa Allah. Ya Allah logun ko adab ahtram samjh ajaen آمین

  • @EddiePayG
    @EddiePayG4 күн бұрын

    Boht hi umda tareeka aur mere nazdeek bilkul sehi tareeka, lekin aj kal k doar mei kisi k pas itna waqt nai hota k is process se guzray. Mere aksar is baat ko face karta hun plue mai mehfil k adaab ka hissa samajhta hun kisi ki baat ko pura sun'na aur phir us ki baat ka jawab dena, aksar mai thought process mei ek behtareen jawab de sakun wo moment guzar jati hai aur baat kahin ki kahin nikal jati hai.

  • @ahmedabbasi637
    @ahmedabbasi63716 күн бұрын

    Assalamalaikum, Bohat umdah.. Doctor sahb apny apny zarf ke hisab se kitni basic bat asani se logo ko samjha di.. Kash log apki batao ko samujh sakain.. Allah apko sehat ata farmain.. Ameen.

  • @humeraalvi305
    @humeraalvi30518 күн бұрын

    Beautiful way of explaining, may Allah give hidayah and hikmah to all brothers and sisters....Ameen

  • @sajjads2728
    @sajjads272818 күн бұрын

    Good advice, Javaid Sahib. Our prophet called only one person JAHIL. Imagine if he would have called all of the Quresh Jahil. He never did, and there are obvious morality reasons for that.

  • @Careercompass178

    @Careercompass178

    16 күн бұрын

    @@sajjads2728 He S.A.W called him AbU Jehl...NOT JEHL

  • @abdulraufhafiz664
    @abdulraufhafiz66418 күн бұрын

    ساحل عدیم کے بیانات میں اکثر proudness کا پہلو ہوتا ہے

  • @redrosered5539

    @redrosered5539

    18 күн бұрын

    ye aap ka zavia e nigah hai

  • @yasmeenalvi1410

    @yasmeenalvi1410

    18 күн бұрын

    Agree 💯

  • @tabinda460

    @tabinda460

    18 күн бұрын

    It's his aggressive way of talk .so.please calm down why cant we e focus what he said it's right or wrong

  • @aamnasajjad113

    @aamnasajjad113

    18 күн бұрын

    Not proudness but rudeness

  • @nazs3332

    @nazs3332

    17 күн бұрын

    Arrogance is the right words for his attitude, which is disliked in Islam

  • @mrsgilani5488
    @mrsgilani548818 күн бұрын

    Yes,yes aur samjaen. Students aj ka bi ethics ,sa bohat dooor hain.

  • @kamrannasir1002
    @kamrannasir100217 күн бұрын

    Dr. Sb. words are not enough to appreciate you. May Allah bless you more. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @HUSSAINI.5
    @HUSSAINI.519 күн бұрын

    Absolute such, Alhumdulillah we have which is Qur'an. Our lens towards things which be Quranic. Our true Identity is Muslim. We are not limited but limited here in this world.

  • @sam35827
    @sam3582718 күн бұрын

    Sir your argument hits jackpot but valid only if arguing parties are equal but in this case Dr Adeem considers himself above the argument so he wants belittle the other participant Who is jahil is anybody’s guess

  • @Shahkhalid-qv1gq
    @Shahkhalid-qv1gq18 күн бұрын

    Sir aap nay affirmation k baraya may Jo wazahat ki, esi mafhoom say imam Ghazali (r.a) nay b ek osol lika hay munazeray k liy. Masha-Allah 💖

  • @farmeensheikh1206
    @farmeensheikh120618 күн бұрын

    Sir you are a humble and polite person and explained this topic very well❤

  • @mohammadanisains9432
    @mohammadanisains943218 күн бұрын

    السلام علیکم ڈاکٹر صاحب آج بہت سریع و بلیغ باتیں اختلاف پربتاءیں شکریہ

  • @jawadhaider2823
    @jawadhaider282317 күн бұрын

    جزاک اللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب بہت ہی اچھے انداز سے اپ نے سمجھایا خاص کر یہ کہ کسی کی نیت پہ شک نہیں کرنا

  • @SaleemKhan-vy8nm
    @SaleemKhan-vy8nm19 күн бұрын

    Jazak Allah. Absolutely right

  • @abdulshakoor-dv5cy
    @abdulshakoor-dv5cy18 күн бұрын

    یہ صرف اندازے گفتگو اور الفاظ کا چناؤ ہی ہوتا ہے جو لوگوں کو اپکا گرویدہ بنا لیتا ہے۔ بڑے بڑے پڑھے لکھے اور جہاندیدہ لوگوں کو آپ کہتے سنیں گے کہ میں تو طفل مکتب ہوں، کم علم ہوں اور آپ سے کچھ سیکھنے آیا ہوں اپنے آپ کو عقل کل سمجھ کر گفتگو کرنے سے مسائل پیدا ہوتے ہیں

  • @muhammadKhalid-mo1wu
    @muhammadKhalid-mo1wu19 күн бұрын

    Very rightly said mainly we should be tolrent to each others.

  • @mumtazziad2630
    @mumtazziad263016 күн бұрын

    Excellent JazakAllah khair mujhe ap ka andaze guftogo bahut pasand hay ap ki positivity bahut appeal kerti hay salamat rahein sehut o tundurusti key sath Ameen

  • @talatzubia9229
    @talatzubia9229Күн бұрын

    JazakAllah kher Dr sahib buht hi achy Sy aap NY ikhtelaf ko kis Tarah karna chaye samjhaya sehat k Sath Khush rahen

  • @khanmujeebkhan5776
    @khanmujeebkhan577617 күн бұрын

    Simply, in such cases when people have different views about any notion then listen carefully and say 'we agree to disagree'. Act sensibly, be calm and don't be arrogant or insulting!

  • @Ahtshamnasir072
    @Ahtshamnasir07215 күн бұрын

    Thanks to be enlighten my dull soul and mind on this sensitive topic thats are very responsible for goodness and productive to an a relationship just for differancial debate. So nice of you ... Your fragrance should more be Allah gave barkat in your life Respected Gentley Mr Eternal/ javed Iqbal . Javed nama ❤

  • @alibinshakeel34
    @alibinshakeel3410 күн бұрын

    Subhan ALLAH❤ JazakAllah Bhaiyya🎉

  • @user-zq6fj6sn6h
    @user-zq6fj6sn6h19 күн бұрын

    بہت خوب جزاک اللہ خیر

  • @dancesongs2611
    @dancesongs261115 күн бұрын

    MASHAHALLAH Kitna Acha smjha rhy ha ye oti ha educated person kasy baat karta hai...

  • @asifaparveen254
    @asifaparveen25418 күн бұрын

    Mujhy lagta hy hamen yh sochna chahye k jis base py females ko lailmi ka kha gya hy Kya us k bary mn males janty hn I think taghoot ka meaning males ko bhe nh pta hoga to males or females ka qasoor nh hy balk yh pori society ka fault hy

  • @muhammadwaqas3369
    @muhammadwaqas336918 күн бұрын

    Sahil adeem r Khalil ur Rehman ek mental admi h media b en logo ko bulata h or clg uni wale b....Kamal h

  • @noor_alanoor

    @noor_alanoor

    18 күн бұрын

    Aap bohot bada claim kr rhe hain.

  • @DrtalkAnimated
    @DrtalkAnimated18 күн бұрын

    Huge respect for you sir Prof Javed Iqbal

  • @javedjamot4738
    @javedjamot473816 күн бұрын

    سر رہنمائی کے لیے بہت شکریہ ❤❤❤

  • @engineerbhai5676
    @engineerbhai567618 күн бұрын

    Ma shaa Allah boht acha explain kiya ha Dr sab ne.

  • @hometedtalk7994
    @hometedtalk799417 күн бұрын

    JazakAllah for sharing your ideas! May Allah give me and others the "taufeeq" to implement these procedures in our day-to-day conversations with unlikely-minded people.

  • @quratulainmansoor1249
    @quratulainmansoor124918 күн бұрын

    Assalamu alaekum apki guftagu ne meri soch k bohat se dareechey kholey

  • @HifzakhanKhan-eq4gk
    @HifzakhanKhan-eq4gk19 күн бұрын

    MaShaAllah sir❤🤲

  • @shaziakamal2650
    @shaziakamal265016 күн бұрын

    "we both agree that we disagree on certain points" well said statement.

  • @shabanasohail6319
    @shabanasohail631918 күн бұрын

    MashaAllah ashfaq sahib ka bad ap ki bato ma bohat asar h Allah ap ko sehat wali Zindagi dy amen

  • @bahadarkamal9142
    @bahadarkamal914219 күн бұрын

    Sir aap ki har video sy bohat kuch sekhny ko mil jata hai Allah aap ko ajar dy Ameen

  • @khawar79
    @khawar7913 күн бұрын

    Khoobsoorat ...... bohot bohot shukriya

  • @dr.m_amir
    @dr.m_amir19 күн бұрын

    very beautiful message

  • @musioo7
    @musioo718 күн бұрын

    Is waqeay k Baad ab tak ki best video

  • @salmanahmed6695
    @salmanahmed669517 күн бұрын

    I think difference in anything or matter one may differ but definitely in a decent way. Nothing shall be taken as personal. Egoist behaviour always damages you

  • @salmanahmed6695
    @salmanahmed669517 күн бұрын

    Absolute truth and awareness no one has. U right sir

  • @nelofarjaffry660
    @nelofarjaffry66018 күн бұрын

    Boht hi behtreen tareqa se bataya ❤

  • @hidayatullah8370
    @hidayatullah837016 күн бұрын

    Ethics of Differing: " RESPECT" Remember the Ethics of Differing Opinions: R: Respect E: Empathy S: Stay Calm P: Professionalism E: Engage Constructively C: Clear Communication T: Tolerance

  • @mahnoormuqdis.8181
    @mahnoormuqdis.818117 күн бұрын

    Deen se jis jis ne dor kiya h Allah Pak unki akhrt ujden

  • @fatimaabbasi6485
    @fatimaabbasi648519 күн бұрын

    JazakAllah khair, Sir ❤

  • @user-lk3ke1yf6d
    @user-lk3ke1yf6d17 күн бұрын

    AA .main AP ko bht Shok se sunnti hun .AP ny bht zaberdast points btaaiaya Hain

  • @rummankhan4620
    @rummankhan462016 күн бұрын

    1. What is my true identity 2. Appreciation 3. Affirmation

  • @user-qo9nh2sk8o
    @user-qo9nh2sk8o18 күн бұрын

    Wonderful sir,behtreen arguments,defined wonderfully❤❤❤

  • @sofiaraza2262
    @sofiaraza226219 күн бұрын

    Specifically socalled scholars ko jazbat pe control kar k bolna chahye

  • @Arslan_writes_yt

    @Arslan_writes_yt

    19 күн бұрын

    Dr. Javed Iqbal has explained very well MashaAllah. I just want to add that normally we don't watch the whole video for 1hr or 2hr. Sir Sahil Adeem was telling the translation of the verse of Quran which was the same as he said. The thing is that nowadays we are far away from our holy book so we could not understand the actual meaning of an Arabic word. We have to see both sides and definitely we can't attack on anyone's intentions

  • @drhammadhaider3115
    @drhammadhaider311519 күн бұрын

    With all die respect doing all this will make you such a homeopathic person to whome no one will listen and try to understand I gave example of salman asif siddiqui he is a gem of a person but honestly how much impact he has on society just because he is a gentle soul no one bothers about him

  • @genuineidea6043
    @genuineidea604319 күн бұрын

    Very well said but normally people hate each other inside and they are looking to find something to make fuss with and when they get this chance, they don’t let it go. 90% of people don’t listen to understand, they just listen to respond. The scenario you are presenting here is an ideal scenario which doesn’t exist. People are not that sincere these days, if you ask them “let’s talk” about it, they won’t even want to talk about “it”( any misunderstanding). They want you to say sorry without understanding the matter. This is very general comment, not about the particular situation you are referring to. I have something to discuss with someone for a very long time but can’t find anyone who could understand my point. Can i send you my question?

  • @binteismail6444
    @binteismail644419 күн бұрын

    Best and wise advice Sir👍

  • @amjadfiaz4830
    @amjadfiaz483019 күн бұрын

    Mashallaha jnb tnks

  • @AzeemKhanAukSunConsultantsLtd
    @AzeemKhanAukSunConsultantsLtd12 күн бұрын

    Respectfully these days people want us to first come to the point and then give the Tamheed. Thanks

  • @C.B.A.gallery
    @C.B.A.gallery18 күн бұрын

    Sir aap ki videos bohot informative or motivational hoti hain. Aik sawal tha k bachay ager incentive deny se bhi BAAT nhi maan rhy ya kehna nhi maan rhy to kia krna chahiye. Parenting pe aap ki bohot se videos Dekhi Hain or us per Amal bhi kia Jo aap ne hidayaat di parents ko. Thank you JazakAllah Dr.

  • @abrarulhaq5768
    @abrarulhaq576818 күн бұрын

    Love from Kashmir sir... Thankyou for the words of wisdom

  • @MrAbdullahArif-nr3xf
    @MrAbdullahArif-nr3xf8 күн бұрын

    Agreed and sir I would say we should respect everyones opinion we should respect each other.

  • @sheikhhashimi5082
    @sheikhhashimi508217 күн бұрын

    شکریہ کے مستحق

  • @MUsman-197
    @MUsman-19716 күн бұрын

    Sir you always give us the best lessons completely agree to your three points i-e Identity, Appreciation and Affirmation

  • @kamranaslam7865
    @kamranaslam786518 күн бұрын

    Sir, you explained very well, i learned many think this discussion, thanks for your wise explanation

  • @zebashaheer5173
    @zebashaheer517317 күн бұрын

    Very well said I hope we all learn To be against sin not the sinner

  • @user-li7to1up1b
    @user-li7to1up1b18 күн бұрын

    Exactly Sir u are such a asset of our country

  • @ishasaqib2618
    @ishasaqib261818 күн бұрын

    Much needed topic. Jzak Allah sir

  • @syedmuizzahmad
    @syedmuizzahmad18 күн бұрын

    Well said. JazakAllah ❤

  • @Mohammadali-tn3ro
    @Mohammadali-tn3ro18 күн бұрын

    Is this possible to treat the ppl in this society right now,,,,, every single person feels like he is the smartest person in the world 😢

  • @anchkanch
    @anchkanch18 күн бұрын

    Insan KO Dekh kr bhi idea ho jata hey Kay ye reasonable admi hey ya nhi... Rational hey ya emotional hey..... Rational shakal say bhi rational lgta hey, emotional shakal say hi crazy lgta hey

  • @asdflkjasdfasdlfkj
    @asdflkjasdfasdlfkj19 күн бұрын

    very helpful Thanks ❤

  • @uzmashah1839
    @uzmashah183917 күн бұрын

    ساحل عدیم نے جو کہاسچ کہا انہوں نے بہترین تردید کی ہے اوریا مقبول جان کے چینل سیکھنے سمکھنے والوں کے وہ ویڈیوکافی ہے

  • @nasreendar4644
    @nasreendar46447 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this great information Allah bless you sir and all of us

  • @owaissyed1912
    @owaissyed191218 күн бұрын

    *اختلاف کے آداب* توجہ کی ضرورت امام شافعی نے فرمایا: تمام اختلافات مباحثہ سے جیتنے کی کوشش نہ کریں.. کبھی کبھی "دلوں کو جیتنا" "مناظرہ اور بحث جیتنے" سے زیادہ اہم ہوتا ہے! "کہنے والے کی بات " پر تنقید کرلو مگر "کہنے والے" کی عزت اور اس کا ادب کرو... ہمارا مشن "بیماریوں " کو ختم کرنا ہے… نہ کہ "بیماروں" کو ختم کرنا- اللہ تعلی ہمیں ہدایت دے آمین

  • @shakilahmad211
    @shakilahmad21118 күн бұрын

    Think Win-Win (Mutual Respect & Benefit) Seek First To Understand Then To Be Understood (Mutual Understanding) Synergize (Creative Cooperation)

  • @muhammadfayyaz5296
    @muhammadfayyaz529618 күн бұрын

    Well done doctor shaib

  • @musioo7
    @musioo718 күн бұрын

    💯 agreed But wo larki jis agenda k leay bethi thi wo us ne Pura kr lia

  • @kiranferasat8903
    @kiranferasat890316 күн бұрын

    Jazak Allah khair

  • @Islamicstories1309
    @Islamicstories130918 күн бұрын

    Very informative video thank you so much

  • @aaronnawaz5219
    @aaronnawaz521914 күн бұрын

    Buht acha smjhaaya❤

  • @haqbahoochiniotfurniture
    @haqbahoochiniotfurniture19 күн бұрын

    You are great sir

  • @kashifnazir5973
    @kashifnazir597315 күн бұрын

    Zbrdast ❤️ sir very valuable video for me❤

  • @SH-yp2ud
    @SH-yp2ud18 күн бұрын

    MashaAllah very well explained.

  • @aqsajameel7059
    @aqsajameel705918 күн бұрын

    Shukriaaaaa Dr sb😊

  • @sunnyreon7415
    @sunnyreon741517 күн бұрын

    Thank you Sir for your well wishing advice Lekin problem hi na hoti agar haqeeqatan neeyaton me garbar na hoti. Sara masla hi isi beimaani or buri niyyat ki wajha se hai. Bohot se log sahi/haq/fact ko ainaad ya ghuroor ki wajha se jhutlatay aye hain. Hum me se koi bhi dilon k haal nahi janta, ye alfaaz o andaaz hi hain jo bazahir is taraf ishara kerti hain k fareeqeen me se koi ya dono hi darasal naik niyyat I k sath maslay ka hal nahi chahtay bulkay apni supremacy ko qaim rakhnay ki gharz se ya buray background or culture se haasil shuda asraat or unhi baatil aqaid or aisay ancestors ya companions/team-members ki taeed or khushnoodi k liye illogical or problem-end pe kharay ho ker behes kertay hain. Duniya ki majority achhi hoti agar majority log shayateen ka shikaar ho ker u k pakkay dost na ban چکے hotay.

  • @jamieducator
    @jamieducator18 күн бұрын

    Excellent video ❤