I cried when he said this behavior does not mean you have done something wrong. The shame and guilt are crippling. I cannot tell you how much your videos have helped our family. Thank you so, so much for your channel. I have been watching for about a year and the changes have been very noticeable. You are truly changing lives.

When we learned to calmly walk away from our sons verbal assaults they decreased in frequency! And now they rarely occur! Game changer!!

@ADHDDude

15 күн бұрын

That's great!

The fact that you are familiar with this behavior, specifically the knife threats, is so huge to me. I’ve dealt with that and discussed with therapists and they never help with how to react to it. I truly appreciate you!

@ADHDDude

23 күн бұрын

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

Dear Ryan, can you please make a video where you talk about parents with challenging children and how the parents can best care for themselves? Specific reccomendations to be able to have the mental bandwidth to be able to handle outbursts and arguing and stay calm while doing it?? Emotional regulation is very hard for me as a parent also all 4 people in our family have ADHD. I am so burned out mentally that I unfortunately give in to my children's behavior a lot of the time. Thank you.

@ADHDResourceSpecialist

24 күн бұрын

His membership site will help! Sign up!!

@Caratdarla

24 күн бұрын

I feel your pain. While our son is the only one in the household with ADHD I bear the brunt of his behaviors. My husband has not educated himself on ADHD or ways to parent it. Its a lonely island I am on and frequently find myself on the verge of tears. The emotional toll effects every area of my life.

@ADHDDude

23 күн бұрын

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You are a God send

@ADHDDude

23 күн бұрын

That's very sweet of you, thank you

Your video describes my son, except that he is 38 yrs old. It is a nightmare. He didn’t do this as a child, started around 21, and has gotten worse and worse. Are there other adult children doing this?

@ADHDDude

15 күн бұрын

He's not an adult child, he's a grown man and if he is making anyone feel unsafe with his behavior, that needs to be confronted, and there many need to be police involvement. Being an adult with ADHD does not give you a pass on how you treat others or behave.

Oh my…. wow..

Hi Ryan, These videos have been very helpful. Thanks you soo much for doing this. I am sure many other families in the US are experiencing this, but there is a major shortage of some medications in the US and it is increasingly getting harder to keep a reliable supply around (and you wonder why the US has such a mental health issue). How would you suggest dealing with the lack of medication with school and home? Academics are doing fine, but behavior is crumbling at an accelerated rate? What can we do as parents to be supportive of the child and the teachers? Thanks again

@ADHDDude

23 күн бұрын

I have many videos on behavior here at the channel, as well as the behavior playlist. As for your question I don't think I'm able to answer broad questions like that accurately as every situation is context dependent.

This is my grandchild lately he alway's use knife and alway's say he will commit suicide he's only 10 year's old😢

@ADHDDude

25 күн бұрын

Please feel free to show his parents this video.

@Eva-mf7sd

19 күн бұрын

This video is excellent.

Yh I definitely talk too much. He's rude even more

@user-dt6po4yc5c

4 күн бұрын

If he don't get a reaction from me, he bullies his younger brother and he gets alot of emotional reactions.

@ADHDDude

2 күн бұрын

Are there daily expectations in place for him earning the things he wants? PLease see my video here about daily expectations.