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In my 12 step program for abuse survivors, I’ve learned that before learning healthy ways to recover from abuse, many of us see others as revulsive… In addition to my program, these videos are helping me to look at people - esp guys - with more grounded compassion. Nice work! 👍

@alexorlandocross

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for such a balanced comment, great to promote nice guys across KZread and have it recognised

I just discovered this man channel and I find it refreshing that someone doesn't bash nice guys for being nice, nowadays it is almost a bad thing to be a nice guy, (nice guys finish last) and (everybody likes the bad boys), and so on...... don't get me wrong, being "the nice guy" isn't always a good thing, like being there for people who don't really care about you, saying yes even when you don't want to, being too self-critical, I have delt with these things and so much more, but I think it's absurd that being nice is almost considered a bad thing, like being a "fuck boy" is celebrated despite the fact that I've seen how it destroys one's soul. My goal now is to embrace what I've always been without changing myself for others, so I'd like to see more videos about nice guys and how to improve! very underrated channel, keep on the hard work and many thanks bro!

@alexorlandocross

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much bro. Glad you’ve taken something from it and my content

If nice = attractive and tall, then sure initially. But being perceived as nice is dangerous with modern gals

@alexorlandocross

Жыл бұрын

Looks make a difference for sure

Just become a MMA fightER to proteek whamen bro

I was raised to be a compliant person who puts everyone else first. Its so bad and takes so long to unlearn

@alexorlandocross

Жыл бұрын

It doesn’t need to be unlearned, just utilised in a healthy way

Was going to bash the video in your comment section, but given that your advice isn't exactly terrible.. tho the problem is that nice guys are typically weak as far as nature is concerned. Women know this and can/ will take advantage.

@alexorlandocross

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely spot on about nice guys being typically weak. Goal is always to be the exception