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How To Buy CLOTHES You'll ACTUALLY WEAR | AVOID REGRET PURCHASES

How to buy clothes you'll actually wear - here are some things to look out for and avoid if you've purchased something you've regret (we've all been there)
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For reference, I am 160cm or 5'3. I wear an AU 6, XS. EU 34 and US 0 (I take one size down in US sizing). I am more pear shaped and often need to size up one size for pants for it to fit well at the hip. For jeans I am usually a W25 (esp in Levi's), though depending on style, I also often go up to a W26.
ITEMS FEATURED IN THIS VIDEO (in order)
Navy Silk Bias Skirt 0 - Lee Mathews - alternatives I like bit.ly/3BsQFtQ OR bit.ly/3Sc0VwB
Black Knit Skirt XS - AJE bit.ly/3vtf2E4
Silk Taffeta Skirt 0 (runs small, I recommend one size up) - Tibi bit.ly/3Sgs2Xi
Light Yellow Trousers 34 - Sezane - same style diff colour bit.ly/3oKvNqG
Navy Trousers 34 - Filippa K
Mentioned: Textilepedia book bit.ly/3zmFd09
Charcoal Blazer with invisible closure XS - Low Classic bit.ly/3SgVdK3
White Drawstrong Pants OS - Urago bit.ly/3JgtO6Q
fits me well on large side (would fit someone imo 1-2 sizes larger than me also)
Navy Oversized Blazer XXS - Tibi
Black Jacket With White Trim bit.ly/3pbrXXF
White Sheer Blouse - Uniqlo (but a very long time ago) - online selection is quite small, this is different fabric than mine bit.ly/3Q0qVJG
White Shirt worn XS - Colourful Standard bit.ly/3zn1eMz
Black Asymmetrical Neckline Top OS - Lookast bit.ly/3cNAkFT
Black Belt With Silver Buckle - Sezane bit.ly/3JgIbIh
Kangaroo Jumper XXS - Tibi bit.ly/3BwTVVm
Patent Boots - Miista
Cream Silk Skirt XS - Venroy bit.ly/3zjxkIT
Green Dress US 2 - Sezane bit.ly/3cUczw2
Navy Jumpsuit XS - & Other Stories (haven't tailored, slightly long but not long enough to tailor) bit.ly/3oIFPbS
Doesn't appear to be on US site yet (usually it comes out soon - slight difference in release time) bit.ly/3PPxnDg
Cropped Blazer XXS - Tibi (old)
Light Blue T-Shirt S - COS (colour sold out, same style) bit.ly/3zkuzqW
Polka Dot Shirt S - Sezane bit.ly/3Bv5Ov0
Black Shoulder Bag - APC bit.ly/3zidwFX
WHAT I'M WEARING
White Top - COS (but in store from sales)
Kangaroo Jumper XXS - Tibi bit.ly/3BwTVVm
Pamela Card Earrings bit.ly/3OMwD0y
Rings - Mejuri
10% off your first Mejuri order here mejurifinecrew.sjv.io/P06x5Y
Lipstick - 3ce smoked rose
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - 00:36 Intro
00:37 - 02:55 Fabric
02:56 - 04:54 Thoughtful Design
04:55 - 07:07 Quality/Wearability
07:08 - 09:35 3 Word Rule
09:36 - 12:06 Ways To Wear
12:07 - 14:05 Size Up Or Down
14:06 - 15:48 Subtle Nuances
15:49 - 17:26 Something I Recently Learnt
17:27 - 18:08 Outro
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DISCLAIMER: Affiliate links are used above. This does not change the price of the item for you however I will receive a small percentage. This video is NOT sponsored. For business enquiries, contact me on helen@lumieredhelen.com

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  • @jasminetyxo
    @jasminetyxo2 жыл бұрын

    Love the point about buying basics with a personal style twist. I’ve always found myself gravitating to “basics” that have a touch of my feminine and elegant style. It makes them more me and still allows for easy mix and matching in my wardrobe

  • @starryc4460
    @starryc44602 жыл бұрын

    Love the last tip especially….I’ve realized that I’m someone who buys lots of duplicates, and as a result, I often feel quite bored with my wardrobe. Really enjoy your videos!💕

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! When I learnt the last tip, it just made so much sense even though it's the opposite of what I always hear :)

  • @alexa_viola
    @alexa_viola2 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I enjoyed this so much. You are so thoughtful and practical and it is so fun to see how your style has truly developed. Top points for me: - the size chart doesn't know that you're shorter/taller etc. (love the subtle humor in how you said this!) - wearing multiple ways doesn't have to equal just mixing and matching for essentially the same outfit - basics often cater to everyone and therefore no one in particular so it really pays off to look for those that suit us best Also loving seeing the "ugly" pieces coming in, like the sezane patchwork top and this sweater. Definitely thinking about DIY-ing my own fun animal-embroidered sweater, inspired by you!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching :) And I'm always impressed by anyone who can DIY things, good luck on this project I hope it turns out great!!

  • @lifeontheledgerlines8394
    @lifeontheledgerlines83942 жыл бұрын

    This came at a great time! I decided to do a no buy month for July and I have some purchases planned for August, so I'll definitely be using these tips. I loved your last video on things to consider before purchasing a piece and am so excited to watch this one now! Thank you so much for your fantastic content :) Edit: I just finished watching the video, and I love your nuanced and carefully considered advice. Even though you talked about fabrics in your last video on shopping, you found new ways to elaborate on it and all of the other topics you covered. Love it!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much (esp for watching both)! :) Fabric is one of those things I could talk all day about haha. I really appreciate you watching and I hope your no buy July went well :)

  • @emilychen2036
    @emilychen20362 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your thoughtful styling tips every week. Really enjoy watching your videos Helen❤

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Emily! :) Hope you had a lovely weekend xx

  • @kyliechapman6499
    @kyliechapman64992 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this clip. Some useful tips that I hadn’t thought of before. My biggest regret buy seems to be shoes. I try them in store and they fit but after wearing them a few times I realise that they are mega uncomfortable and never wear them again. Such a waste of money, but for some reason this happens over and over again. Not sure if there is a solution for this.

  • @lifeontheledgerlines8394

    @lifeontheledgerlines8394

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah yeah, that happens sometimes. My best piece of advice would be to go and wear them while browsing the store for as long as possible, rather than putting them on for just 5 or so minutes trying them on looking in a mirror, and also to shop for shoes at the end of the day.

  • @SaschaBraus77

    @SaschaBraus77

    2 жыл бұрын

    When shopping for shoes, shop for them in the evening. Go out beforehand, go for a long walk or go through every other store before you go search for footwear. Cause then your feet will be swollen the same way they'd be if you are on a busy day, wearing your shoes. Then when they are swolen you can make a better choice regarding comfortness cause if the shoe is comfortable while your feet is already sore, they will also be comfortable when your feet is relaxed.

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching Kylie! Gosh, I hate a shoe purchase that ends up being disappointing because there's no fix. I love the advice below! I'll just add on that certain styles of shoes will never be super comfortable walking shoes. I found myself purchasing styles that were just not right for the amount of walking I do. I also find that certain brands run narrow/wide in fit, and choosing the right width can make a huge difference. After buying shoes I like to just try them on carefully at home multiple times before committing to keeping (as Sasha mentions below that different time of day/heat can change our sizing)

  • @marahelwig2237

    @marahelwig2237

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree with all the previous comments. Also, find out what the store's return policy is. What I do when I buy a new pair of shoes is wear them at home (on a carpeted surface) for a few days. They won't look like they have been worn at that point, and if they are not feeling comfortable, return them. Just make sure you are complying with the store's return policy. Another thing you can do is check to see if any other retailers in your area stock these shoes, and if they do, buy the shoes at whatever store has the best return policy.

  • @jaderhiece4318
    @jaderhiece43182 жыл бұрын

    Great video ☺️. I definitely get over excited about one or two elements of a piece and fail to consider it as a whole and how it will meld with other things. Especially online shopping. I also tend to feel avoidance of simple or basic pieces because I don’t want to feel boring. From this video I think I’ll put a little checklist of considerations together so I can find some interesting basics and versatile things 😊.

  • @notaclue822
    @notaclue8222 жыл бұрын

    Hi. New subscriber here. I'm a lot older than you are, but i love your style and find your tips to be a cut above the usual...very thoughtful and unique. Thanks for the post.

  • @Thishandleisalreadytakenwtf
    @Thishandleisalreadytakenwtf2 жыл бұрын

    You're like the big sister I never had❤️ thank you for making my 'blue Mondays' better😂❤️

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are too sweet! My pleasure, thank you so so much for watching xx

  • @Thishandleisalreadytakenwtf

    @Thishandleisalreadytakenwtf

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DailyHelenJ you're welcome 😊❤️

  • @SoNick25
    @SoNick252 жыл бұрын

    Three words is really trending now. Just like capsule wardrobes did back in the day. I really don't think we need to put ourselves in those boxes. It ultimately leads to us having similar outfits and/or multiple colours of the same thing. Totally guilty! My husband always says 'don't you have one of those already?' after I buy yet another pleated skirt!!!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    It definitely is trending! I like it as a bit of a tool to use, but not necessarily forcing ourselves to fit perfectly into the 3 words (if that makes sense). My partner says that a lot too haha, I think for me it's sweaters. Thank you for watching x

  • @Steph_1215
    @Steph_12156 ай бұрын

    Very nice explained! Thank you, you are amazing!

  • @ivanajukicgloban6627
    @ivanajukicgloban66272 жыл бұрын

    I realize I can dye white sheer clothes,so thay are stil suitable for warm weather because they are light but I don't have to worry about being sheer.I recently dyed my white midi skirt into pale blue.

  • @jolissourires
    @jolissourires2 жыл бұрын

    this is such a good video!! thank you for all these tips, been feeling like my style has been stagnating in past months - the point that stood out most to me was considering whether or not a new item of clothing challenged my personal style. I realised I got a few pieces like that recently, and they definitely bring so many fresh perspectives to my wardrobe! I'll definitely keep your tips in mind moving forward ♡

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor31592 жыл бұрын

    Hey! Lumiere you're looking too too too pretty in all haul I have no words for you and I really love your vlogs so so much and I wish you reach 70K Subscribers very very soon!☺️✨💖

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh you are too kind, thank you! Have a lovely week xx

  • @sosman4264
    @sosman42642 жыл бұрын

    Another really thoughtful and well articulated video. Thank you ❤️

  • @tracyw2
    @tracyw22 жыл бұрын

    loved your advice at the end! love hearing and seeing what you're learning so I can also learn from them as well!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Tracy :) Heard it a few days ago and immediately wanted to share as I had never thought about it like that. Have a lovely week ahead x

  • @annaklaus8377
    @annaklaus83772 жыл бұрын

    Excellent tips, thanks Helen.

  • @jumplc
    @jumplc2 жыл бұрын

    Love the jumpsuit! Thanks for the great tips :)

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much! Have a lovely week ahead xx

  • @gia-144
    @gia-1442 жыл бұрын

    Such a great and informative video!!! Thank you!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad it was! Thank you very much for watching xx

  • @ultramildy
    @ultramildy2 жыл бұрын

    I really like your style. Can you please do a video with more affordable clothes?

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I can definitely try to do a video on this :) xx

  • @ultramildy

    @ultramildy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DailyHelenJ thank you so much :)

  • @kimhunter9208
    @kimhunter92082 жыл бұрын

    This video was thought provoking.

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Kim :) xx

  • @likewise6867
    @likewise68672 жыл бұрын

    this 3ce lipstick looks so good on you!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! Purchased a few years ago and since then, I feel like I just stick to the 1-2 lipsticks instead of trying every colour like I used to.

  • @aryelgiroux-portelance2540
    @aryelgiroux-portelance25402 жыл бұрын

    Loved the video! Thank you ❤️

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much :) x

  • @athag1
    @athag12 жыл бұрын

    A well-thought-out video with fresh, interesting content.

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching!! :)

  • @carobriceno
    @carobriceno2 жыл бұрын

    Hello! Lovely video! Could you share the lipstick you are wearing? Thanks!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I'm wearing a 3CE lipstick in the shade Smoked Rose. It has been my favourite for many many years :) x

  • @annagavrenkova6524
    @annagavrenkova65242 жыл бұрын

    great one, thank you!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad Anna, thank you so much for watching xx

  • @hannahlarsdotter9826
    @hannahlarsdotter98262 жыл бұрын

    Where is that long brown coat from? Love it!

  • @lynnfox8376
    @lynnfox83762 жыл бұрын

    Really useful tips. Thanks.

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lynn! :)

  • @Martina_E
    @Martina_E2 жыл бұрын

    Such great tips!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much :) xx

  • @kateanette9398
    @kateanette9398 Жыл бұрын

    If you have a style, not sure how adding "new and fresh" instead of "replicating what you have" is a good idea. Of course, if you want to change or update your style, but if you actually know what you like and wear 🤔? Sometimes replacing and replicating what you already have might be smart?

  • @trixi1608

    @trixi1608

    Жыл бұрын

    I think you always have different options even within a particular style.

  • @_inflection3209
    @_inflection32092 жыл бұрын

    Hey lady, this was a really helpful video. Everyone's been talking about three words to describe your style. Do you think it would be wise, for the people who are on a style journey, and don't really know what's good (and looks good on them) to use three words to aspire to?

  • @_inflection3209

    @_inflection3209

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also, do you steam your clothes? If so, do you have any recommendations for one?

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    I use the philips comfort touch steamer and so far so good! I feel like if I'm at the start of my style journey I would focus more on saving images, figuring out what I like and dislike - shapes, colours, proportions and so on. When I have a good idea, I would use the 3 word rule to summarise my style (and join together all the things I like to have more clarity on my personal style). Thank you for watching!!

  • @l77481
    @l774812 жыл бұрын

    Great video. Where are the red sandals from please?

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    They're from Charles & Keith :) From a year or two ago but there are some similar options they sell xx

  • @kcwong8934
    @kcwong89342 жыл бұрын

    Would u mind telling me the brand of the black polka blouse? I been looking for a polka blouse that is easy to matcg

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Of course! It's from Sezane in a size small. I have it linked in the description box if interested xx

  • @seonmi1412
    @seonmi14122 жыл бұрын

    Hi Helen, please can you share your experience shopping & Other Stories and Sezane in AU? Shipping, any custom charges and returns info would be very helpful. Thanks!

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey Vanessa, both have been very easy to shop from for me. I've never been charged customs for any online shopping unless it exceeds 1000 AUD. Shipping and returns for Sezane is free over a specific amount. & Other Stories charges 25 USD for returns so I try to be a bit more careful xx

  • @seonmi1412

    @seonmi1412

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DailyHelenJ Thank you for the info and for another great video!

  • @kimberlyperrotis8962
    @kimberlyperrotis89622 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn’t invest more in expensive, very oversized items now.

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think if oversized is not your style then the trend might not be as hot right now. But for me, I've been wearing oversized things here and there since I was in high school so I know it has some longevity :) Thank you for watching xx

  • @sarareynoso1380
    @sarareynoso13802 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos! And really loved this one 🤍 my favourite tip was the last one 😊

  • @DailyHelenJ

    @DailyHelenJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sara!! :)