HOW TO BUILD YOURSELF AS A WOMAN, STOP COMPARISON AND OWN YOUR FEMININITY

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Today we talk about how to build yourself as a woman, stop comparing yourself, and own your femininity. Remember, if you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor BetterHelp. Click
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  • @br4ps-blue
    @br4ps-blue8 ай бұрын

    You reflect so much healthy confidence, positivity, and love. You make me feel so comfortable. An OG here. Go Taty 💗

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    This was so sweet, thank you angel 🥹🫶🏽

  • @skyylovespace
    @skyylovespace8 ай бұрын

    *it’s a blessing to be genuinely happy for others despite where you are on your journey. i’ve never understood jealousy / hater mentality. this world is big enough for all of us to win* 💗✨

  • @wonhur885
    @wonhur8858 ай бұрын

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

  • @wonhur885

    @wonhur885

    8 ай бұрын

    Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

  • @wonhur885

    @wonhur885

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

  • @kaleaholson9340

    @kaleaholson9340

    8 ай бұрын

    Or…realize that things happen for a reason despite how shitty it is. Maybe someone else will appreciate you more.

  • @AA-vt4wx

    @AA-vt4wx

    7 ай бұрын

    Scammers

  • @musicianshipcreative3660

    @musicianshipcreative3660

    7 ай бұрын

    Careful that could be a scammer!@@wonhur885 Just keep working on yourself, find new hobbies and show yourself a lot of compassion. It sucks when a long relationship ends that does not mean it's the end for every relationship especially your relationship with yourself. Write down how you feel and simplify it. You're still thinking about her probably means your love was real. Be happy for that. The feelings of loss will pass but it will take time. I don't know your situation but the fact you stumbled hear and told your frustrations authentically is absolutely wonderful. All will be well soon.

  • @floralcapacity7319
    @floralcapacity73198 ай бұрын

    This is exactly what I need! Thank you

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Yay im so glad it was perfect timing! ❤

  • @keepingupwithr
    @keepingupwithr8 ай бұрын

    Girl you grew soo much as a person love this new version of Tatyy

  • @cathrynchastain2307
    @cathrynchastain23078 ай бұрын

    Man, I so needed your boost of positive energy. Thank you as always ❤

  • @jasminesimone1869
    @jasminesimone18697 ай бұрын

    So proud of you taty. You changed me just from watching your videos and I'm so thankful I came across your channel years ago luv u :)

  • @candzjordann
    @candzjordann8 ай бұрын

    you're always on point , which is what i need . thank you , i love you 😘

  • @madisonfaith3
    @madisonfaith38 ай бұрын

    “it’s such a privilege to be you” is such a beautiful perspective thank you so much for this 🥹🤍

  • @giselle1014
    @giselle10148 ай бұрын

    been watching you for 4 years & your videos never miss! i love the girl talks especially 🤍thank you for being like an older sister to us: )

  • @MojenasWorld
    @MojenasWorld7 ай бұрын

    You are amazing. Happy new year, girly. Thank you for pouring all of that positivity into me. I’m currently on a healing journey & this was helpful 💕

  • @tatianareid9185
    @tatianareid91858 ай бұрын

    Your metaphors throughout the whole video were on point!!! 💖

  • @Dazzle_Manuel
    @Dazzle_Manuel8 ай бұрын

    Been inspiring me from Day 1, keep making amazing videos like these !

  • @claudiaduv
    @claudiaduv8 ай бұрын

    always so inspiring! thank you for this!

  • @raybaezxoxo
    @raybaezxoxo8 ай бұрын

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR U TO POST LOVE U TATYYYY

  • @jessicajanene2001
    @jessicajanene20018 ай бұрын

    thank you for this Taty, i needed to watch this!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @444sunnibiswas
    @444sunnibiswas8 ай бұрын

    thank you taty for all you do!!!

  • @thetamarashow
    @thetamarashow8 ай бұрын

    I love love love this video ! Yess to comparison steals your joy & yess to roadblocks help shape you 🫰🏾🫰🏾

  • @khlotheglo
    @khlotheglo8 ай бұрын

    You are so special taty, thank you for sharing your wisdom with us 🤎

  • @Rachael_mm
    @Rachael_mm8 ай бұрын

    You uploaded On my birthday 🥹❤️😭😭😭couldn’t be happier!🫶🏼

  • @fiy538
    @fiy5388 ай бұрын

    Taty you always post at the right time 😭❤❤

  • @tashipearson8
    @tashipearson86 ай бұрын

    I love this background. It definitely brings the message you’re saying. I’m feeling like calm, soft, love etc

  • @whitneyyrose
    @whitneyyrose8 ай бұрын

    beautifully said, appreciate this so much.

  • @Amaarah_loots
    @Amaarah_loots8 ай бұрын

    Aggg Taty like the light in a dark room❤😊Always giving us the best advice💯

  • @uthandowakwamnguni446
    @uthandowakwamnguni4468 ай бұрын

    Taty this video is gold!!! Wow I love everything thanks for everything Taty

  • @paisleygarrett1975
    @paisleygarrett19757 ай бұрын

    i instantly love your content and your energy ! the advice you gave was for everyone and it made me feel more inspired and confident and hopeful just by listening. i’m not sure what your faith is but do you think u could do a talk about that too. i feel like a lot of women need it

  • @Yuyu-yg1vh
    @Yuyu-yg1vh8 ай бұрын

    heyy taty, I really appreciate your videos and advice. I also like the fireplace set-up so far. Love you hope to see another video soon xx

  • @allysons.1024
    @allysons.10248 ай бұрын

    I loved your video, it really touched me in an emotional and soul level. I don’t comment on videos but This video made me feel really special and helped me realize that you’re right!! What makes me as a woman is not necessarily what makes the next person a woman. I know I and many other people appreciated this video. Keep doing you keep being inspiring because what you are doing is really touching souls- it touched mine. Thank you Taty🌺♥️ Your metaphors really deliver as well

  • @gracygl5446
    @gracygl54468 ай бұрын

    Would love makeup tutorials your looks are gorgeous 😍💕

  • @chalkandrubble5702
    @chalkandrubble57022 ай бұрын

    Love your energy girl!

  • @stephanieesquivel9187
    @stephanieesquivel91878 ай бұрын

    I NEEDED THIS 🤧😥♥️

  • @user-gr8fq9vo4p
    @user-gr8fq9vo4p8 ай бұрын

    Thanks Taty💗

  • @graceaureliadarlingxx
    @graceaureliadarlingxx7 ай бұрын

    I Look up to you thank you I needed this Taty 💖🤧👑

  • @GrowWithAmirah
    @GrowWithAmirah3 ай бұрын

    Just found your channel❤ subscriber now. This video gave me some strength

  • @jaedaharrington2554
    @jaedaharrington25548 ай бұрын

    Your gorgeous and i needed this video ❤

  • @uthandowakwamnguni446
    @uthandowakwamnguni4468 ай бұрын

    So happy for this!!!!!

  • @kusalwalukwesa6807
    @kusalwalukwesa68078 ай бұрын

    I missed you girl so much, she is back, looking beautiful as always ❤

  • @Tshego_Genevieve
    @Tshego_Genevieve8 ай бұрын

    Love your hair sis!😍

  • @prettynatalie4876
    @prettynatalie48768 ай бұрын

    🥰🥰🥰 glad ur back

  • @CholesWorld_
    @CholesWorld_7 ай бұрын

    Found this right on time! I’m working more on my femininity because baby I’ll wear some Jordan 1s/dunks, quick! But I agree with you that it def comes from my heart rather than my full aesthetic.

  • @xanah_
    @xanah_8 ай бұрын

    Missed you, and NEEDED THIS!! watching asap🤎🤎🤎

  • @S.Diaries1010
    @S.Diaries10105 ай бұрын

    Gurl this is real talk thank you ❤

  • @officialstephbaby
    @officialstephbaby8 ай бұрын

    Miss you 🥹💞 so glad your back 💅🏼

  • @tahrajones3303
    @tahrajones33038 ай бұрын

    So happy ur back! I miss ur grwm videos

  • @rolineheim9841
    @rolineheim98418 ай бұрын

    This found my a such a timely moment. Taty I just want to thank you for your honesty as well as your vulnerability. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences, they really do help me. I'm always so excited to see what you have coming next! So much love and appreciation ❤

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Don’t make me cry!!😭 thank you so much ❤

  • @kaleaholson9340
    @kaleaholson93408 ай бұрын

    Started watching you in middle school and now I’m a college girly with so much knowledge I owe to you!

  • @hubbabubba8860

    @hubbabubba8860

    4 ай бұрын

    Me too 🥺 time flies

  • @tarrenisaacs2970
    @tarrenisaacs29708 ай бұрын

    I love how you explain things

  • @taylormilan7554
    @taylormilan75548 ай бұрын

    missed you Taty

  • @laurenciadale9166
    @laurenciadale91668 ай бұрын

    Get well girl ❤

  • @esha.desaii
    @esha.desaii8 ай бұрын

    girl you always pull through with the best advice! ❤Looking amazing as always!

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much queen ❤

  • @yellowsicko106
    @yellowsicko1068 ай бұрын

    Hey Taty, thanks for this video, I always have the feeling of like needing this pep talk type videos from time to time yk? And you provide!!! One point I would like to pin out is: What is feminity, and all this womenhoodness, has it really to do with our sex, or is it something everyone should nurture and explore, I love your way of talking about it not expressing it out of looks and style, because I sense, that a lot of these girltalk ytubers are on the side of, dressing yourself up making yourself ready (if that's your thing its great) but I have the feeking tus excluding many and thats why I like your approach on it more. But still, what does this feminity thing mean? I hope you have a great weekend ❤❤❤

  • @Sculsiveesi
    @Sculsiveesi6 ай бұрын

    Gems in this video thank you for this 😍

  • @Justcanary8888
    @Justcanary88888 ай бұрын

    Pretty as always, thank you for this video because I needed it❤️

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you love ❤

  • @tyzhanae
    @tyzhanae6 ай бұрын

    Very classy video 😊

  • @5X.
    @5X.8 ай бұрын

    I needed this. ❤️

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    I got you ❤

  • @vernamusic23
    @vernamusic238 ай бұрын

    Love it❤ all truth!

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

  • @jocelyngolden1
    @jocelyngolden18 ай бұрын

    Yasss The QUEEN is BACKKKK!!!!

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi queeeeen ❤

  • @kadijahmarcet
    @kadijahmarcet8 ай бұрын

    And she’s back! ❤️❤️

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Hiiiii ❤

  • @FamMontgomery
    @FamMontgomery8 ай бұрын

    your really inspiring and you always have great tips!!!

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you, that is so kind to say!!

  • @kiaragibson2738
    @kiaragibson27388 ай бұрын

    I love you so much your my favorite KZreadr 🖤

  • @PoeticEE
    @PoeticEE7 ай бұрын

    The makeup is so pretty

  • @user-xy9iu5bb3l
    @user-xy9iu5bb3l7 ай бұрын

    ❤ feminine is expressing yourself and being happy and enjoy life to the fullest that's what I live by enjoying life and working hard .

  • @kendallsnoe5788
    @kendallsnoe57888 ай бұрын

    I LOVE YOU

  • @nicolengadna7945
    @nicolengadna79457 ай бұрын

    My favorite setup was when u did the relationship q&a

  • @LalaineLalaineLalaine
    @LalaineLalaineLalaine8 ай бұрын

    Love you our Queen Taty 😍👑🥰

  • @LenaBinaa
    @LenaBinaa7 ай бұрын

    I like this setup . It’s giving I smell like fresh Diamonds 💎

  • @akuakarikari6022
    @akuakarikari60227 ай бұрын

    I have the BIGGEST GIRL CRUSH on YOUU💗💗

  • @toyyaaa_
    @toyyaaa_8 ай бұрын

    It was so empowering to hear you say that femininity really comes from the heart. For me, I hear from guys sometimes that I don’t dress girly enough which really hurts my heart because I can do sneakers and heels. Thank you soooo much for saying that🩵

  • @VictoriaWElise

    @VictoriaWElise

    7 ай бұрын

    I feel this! I get most attention when wearing dresses and heels. We are beautiful no matter what ❤ as you said it’s from the heart

  • @prttymissthing
    @prttymissthing8 ай бұрын

    I love this woman

  • @eldadhailemeskel8257
    @eldadhailemeskel82578 ай бұрын

    i love u tati

  • @shantebrowne5067
    @shantebrowne50677 ай бұрын

    Gorgeous ❤❤

  • @tierrabrown4703
    @tierrabrown47038 ай бұрын

    I miss you💛💋

  • @magathaebai7114
    @magathaebai71148 ай бұрын

    #CongratsQueenForBecomingACollegeGradAndThankYouSoMuchForBeingInspiring

  • @mina8XO
    @mina8XO3 ай бұрын

    Just for the record, I've always seen you as super feminine, its like Powerful YET soft and feminine. Its lovely when its genuine :)

  • @alisaahms
    @alisaahms7 ай бұрын

    Idk if you’re able to reply to all comments, but I had a 2 part question. You mentioned emotional intelligence and emotional safety, how are they different? And do you have a video on building your emotional intelligence?

  • @linalaeza
    @linalaeza5 ай бұрын

    My bf is a DJ could you make a video on how you adjust to that lifestyle? Without comparison etc 😩

  • @nialunga2257
    @nialunga22578 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry I laughed at "screw missing" even though that's not what she meant😭

  • @mosetsanatlhabanelo4555
    @mosetsanatlhabanelo45558 ай бұрын

    😅😅I came running from Instagram ❤🎉

  • @tina_khay.x
    @tina_khay.x8 ай бұрын

    Gurl I love u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ebiaredekomani-pz5em
    @ebiaredekomani-pz5em7 ай бұрын

    Femininity is literally my biggest struggle now. Im the jeans and t-shirt kinda girl and that makes me feel very less feminine. Ive been looking at your makeup and jewelry the entire time, it's so feminine. I don't even know how to do my own makeup

  • @graymaplanka
    @graymaplanka8 ай бұрын

    Dang I’ve never been this late😂

  • @kiaralawson8803
    @kiaralawson88033 ай бұрын

    Bring back the makeup tutorials 😭

  • @eliorabenerugaba3967
    @eliorabenerugaba39677 ай бұрын

    What's your necklace called😍😍

  • @user-zz8oz1zp3y
    @user-zz8oz1zp3y8 ай бұрын

    John 3:16 ❤

  • @beerottman7425
    @beerottman74258 ай бұрын

    I am an a og tatty 😊

  • @wellenjeje
    @wellenjeje8 ай бұрын

    Y she look so much like sweetie

  • @devonlea01
    @devonlea018 ай бұрын

    You look beautiful 🩶

  • @kadirahassan1099
    @kadirahassan10997 ай бұрын

    You are gorgeous ❤❤ waouh 😍😍

  • @kenyatah907
    @kenyatah9078 ай бұрын

    I’m not sure if I missed it but why did she stop doing the iconic intro when she’d wait to give us a few minutes to like and subscribe ?

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    I thought y’all would be over it 😭

  • @kenyatah907

    @kenyatah907

    8 ай бұрын

    @@TatyCokley omgggg hiii!!! love you so much! An O.G present sisssss we could nevaaaa!! That’s you all day! 🥰😂🫶🏾 Iconic & I like the fire place set up so far

  • @ambradanielle
    @ambradanielle8 ай бұрын

    🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @Indiglorious
    @Indiglorious7 ай бұрын

    I’m confused 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @randomthoughts3011
    @randomthoughts30118 ай бұрын

    ✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @dariocline
    @dariocline7 ай бұрын

    Respectfully, can your man fight?

  • @laurenciadale9166
    @laurenciadale91668 ай бұрын

    I thoughr ya boo thang was a boxer?

  • @TatyCokley

    @TatyCokley

    8 ай бұрын

    He is both! 🥰 He started boxing this year

  • @stephanieesquivel9187
    @stephanieesquivel91878 ай бұрын

    Please do a femininity video ♥️

  • @SurjitDhiman-pi8ph
    @SurjitDhiman-pi8ph8 ай бұрын

    Very nice video You tube channel ALL THE BEST Happy Christmas festival All of you family members CHRISTMAS ❤ WELCOME INDIA my home Imiss you My mobile & my life Global world ❤❤❤❤

  • @Splash_goodness
    @Splash_goodness8 ай бұрын

    So you just gonna come back and pretend like you didn’t abandoned us 😂😂😂😂

  • @mina8XO
    @mina8XO3 ай бұрын

    Ps girl, your videos have lifted me up, speeecially after a break up. Ill always recommend your videos 🫶

  • @welcometojaylasworld2401
    @welcometojaylasworld24016 ай бұрын

    Pray that you be happy for others. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @gotamekanicole
    @gotamekanicole8 ай бұрын

    Okay no I’m just getting to the end 🥹🤧 I really really needed to hear this. Thank you so much 💕💕. I’ve struggled for a really long time with expressing myself properly and really embracing and sharing my femininity.

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