As a shy person I appreciate this advice .

@nirmalkesavan7920

3 жыл бұрын

You are not shy, simply you have low self esteem and low social skills

@icequeen5551

2 жыл бұрын

@@nirmalkesavan7920 shyness is a thing

Another great video. I would love to see a video about getting into a relationship with a woman that has been abused. Letting her know that not all of us men are like the demon that she was with. Letting her know that we will be there for them and not hurt them. Thank you Miss Stephanie.

@gentilechristian220

4 жыл бұрын

John Schlicker I wish there were more men like you. Most men don’t want a damaged woman. Men can help women bring back self confidence that was probably lost in her life somewhere.

@NikkiGRocks4Ever

2 жыл бұрын

@Kryliss Norwind. I think you have a great suggestion. Thank you for being a truly good quality man. It sometimes takes years to heal and be restored.

That is Satan talking a person down and making a person feel worthless. When a person confirms and claims they can and will accomplish something good in their life that is God who gives them that authority spiritually. ❤👍 You're doing a good thing helping people 😊

@1jw298

4 жыл бұрын

Amen to that! Praise and glory to God!

@cjennings6179

4 жыл бұрын

Satan & his VICTIMIZED FOLLOWERS think & talk NEGATIVE with RIDICULING REPORTS. DRILLS. LECTURES.PRESSURES to INFLUENCE more victims to buy into his ideas BAIT. WE MUST BE HYPER Vigilent.💡💡💡 HIGHLY ALERT👍. HIGHLY AWARE. ON GUARD👍👍💡 AWAKE!! SpideySENSES ALERT!!! Put UP WALLS OF PROTECTION for our emotional love tanks!)! Protect our hearts from emotional damage!💡💡💡💡🔎🔎🔬🔬🔬🔬👌👍 TAKE your Stand!!!!!👍 Be HAPPY!!!😃 BE SAFE!!!!🔬🌝

Confidence comes from knowledge of self. Tell yourself the truth over emotion. Learn critical thinking skills. Grasp the truth of self. Understand yourself. Know how you lie to self. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Practice reasoning in judgment. Catch yourself a zillion times in bad judgment and correct it.

@ryansommerer188

3 жыл бұрын

The truth of yourself over emotion can actually be negative. That the true you actually does suck. People only tell you you're lying to yourself and to stop being negative towards yourself because they just want to give you phony positivity with no substance and mostly from people that actually don't know a thing about you (social media is very very guilty of this) People can be confident, but they also can be truthfully confident in knowing they are not good enough to be successful the way they want to be successful because they don't have the tools/skills/knowledge/physical attributes to be that. Yes, they can become knowledgeable, but people outnthere do suffer in not able to grasp certain concepts. Think of athletes in their field like basketball. No matter how some try as much as they like with multiple repetitions, a lot of them simy can't improve their free throw shooting, or 3pt shooting, or better ball handles. For students, a lot outnthere suffer from too much anxiety that they just can't do well with tests, and because of their certain makeup, not even placebos/anxiety pills help at all. No different also with a lot of males out there that have a physiological make up with too narrow of blood vessels/nerves that they simply from the very beginning of their sexuality they suffer ED and its untreatable. No matter hiw much you want to think positive and not have anxiety issues, ED is not going to go away. That's when many have to rely on "who you know, not what you know."

The past few months have been pretty rough. I'm going through a divorce, hunting for a new job, and taking the chance on some creative endeavors. These videos have been an invaluable resource for me as I finally figure out who I am and what my values are. They bring me back to earth when my negative thoughts get a little too much. Thanks for posting them!

I notice tasks that require both physical and mental assertiveness go much better when are taken on slightly aggressive. Things, people will beat you up unless handled properly. Not abusive just determined. The world tends to eat the meek.

I just want to let you know .. a lot of your videos hVe truly changed my life and I just wanted to say THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH !! God bless you so so so much ! I wish you nothing but more blessings and love ! Stay blessed

Just came across your channel this new years eve and listened to you through midnight into 2021. I pray all this transformation is in my life in this new year. You a beautiful person inside as well as out and I love you and what you do🎀💖🌺

@isabellavalencia8026

2 жыл бұрын

You can make it happen!!!! Goid luck

You are so right on everything I have never learnt to care or love myself enough as I have let narcissists manipulate me I am thankful I found your channel Stephanie

Taking action is the first thing to do. Learning how to substitute the negative thought for a positive one, training our minds to be more positive ♡

The bully in our head is there for a reason, it was made in childhood to keep you in check so you won't be outcast from your family, which is the worst thing that could happen to a human child. By ignoring it and not addressing the root issue all you're doing is pushing it under the floorboards. It's still going to be there, and the more you resist it the more it will persist. you need to take that part closer to you and not push it away. See it, hear it, understand why it's acting like this, its because underneath there is pain. It's not self love to call a part of yourself a bully and turn away from it.

Being afraid to make someone angry has been a real problem for me and I have been afraid of their anger of them being cross and withholding love. And I always say yes to the point of having no time for things that are important to me and have no time for self care. I really need to do work on saying no with grace and having boundaries without fear of anger or a relationship not being close. Not being worth their love unless I please them. Because on my own I don't deserve their love. I always felt this way with my mother and other people I love. That they won't really love me back unless I enslave myself saying yes to every thing even when it doesn't feel good or feel loving to be asked to do those things constantly.

@dianediane1245

2 жыл бұрын

I need help in this area too. I am learning to set new boundaries and it makes a world of difference.

@ginadiluca9931

Жыл бұрын

OMG you sed it, i'm so exactly like this and as well in My childhood experiece😅 a people pleaser that need to say stop and focus on self love.. now in therapi, in Hope to heal After a terribile discard from an ex narcisst boyfriend.. starting to get Happy that he woke up in me a big thing i havet to get Better in...Hope we'll get there ❤️💪

"I just can`t stop looking & listening to you"!!!

@brianboyd5910

3 жыл бұрын

"I know your man feels the same way(Beautiful)"!!!

I'm so thankful that I randomly came across your videos as I was getting lost in KZread. I'm finally ready to do the work and live my best life, I grew up with an abusive mother and toxic family so there's so much to be undone from all of that but I know I'm more than my past and more than anything in the world I want to be happy. Thank you so much for being a light in the world for people like me.

I definitely needed this. I need to build self confidence and learn self love. I was in a narcissistic relationship for 7 years. I totally lost myself and how to take care of me. Thank you so much. ❤️

@sialo6373

3 жыл бұрын

David Hatch, I can relate,, it wasn’t easy during the break up, i was a mess and couldn’t even see myself.. i got lost in relationship.. and recovery os struggle and my healing seems slow.

@sialo6373

3 жыл бұрын

How are you now after a year?

@David.801

3 жыл бұрын

@@sialo6373 it has been a process...I have had some very difficult times and have had some really amazing times. I have learned who I am and that I am enough...and that that right person might come along and they might not. But I do know I will be ok no matter what. Because I love me for me...and in the end, that's all that matters.

@sialo6373

3 жыл бұрын

@@David.801 I hope I get to that place soon. The memories hurts, the future life that will never happen anymore.. the wound of deceit and betrayal , I will not wish for anyone to experience. Would you say, you are now healed and at peace. It has been a year for me now but I still quite struggle.. and just still miss the relationship which was actually fake and it was just me who was actually in it. Found that out when the “mask” fell off . I wasted my 3.5yrs that will never come back. Time is a precious commodity in life, & so as emotion.

@David.801

3 жыл бұрын

@@sialo6373 You will get there. It was 8 years living in a fake relationship. I dont look at it as time wasted. But a time of learning, it was still very difficult when the bomb dropped because I thought I loved her. Time does heal all wounds. You will become stronger and a believer in yourself from this. Just keep moving forward....

Your videos are amazing! You really are making a difference in people’s lives and it’s nice to see that in the comments 😊 I hope to inspire that way too! ❤️

Hey! Just wanted to let you know that your videos have helped me discover sooo many things about myself, I didn’t know I was empathetic and codependent, your videos are very helpful, thanks a ton!

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Love love love this!

Your channel has been so great. I have found you at a time when i need to hear these things the most

you are making a big difference in many people's lives, Stephanie ! Bless you and truly thank you☆

I started watching your videos around March 2019 and I have learned so much about self love! For the first time in my life I am learning what all of this even means. Forever grateful for your videos during this time in my life :)

Watching your videos: It is very relaxing and calming to listen to your tone of voice and mimic and choice of words. It probably lowers my blood pressure and puls. And of course plenty of tips and inspiration. Thank you, Steph.

U have helped me with a very difficult breakup day 32 w a narcissistic woman very painful ty I start every am w your videos and similar ones but u my favorite!!! Ty so much it is so easy to become complacent and stay stuck in the obsession of the fantasy of this person ty

I absolutely LOVE this reminder of what I should be doing.... Thank you. All your videos show your true confidence, seriously! 💖

👍👍💖Thank you Stephanie. You are a gift to all of us on this path in life to understand the what's, why's, and how to fix the problems so that we can find safety, healing, and positive growth in our lives.

Another great video, feeling like a losing battle with this positive affirmation but you're giving me the courage to keep going. Thanks Stephanie!

Appreciate your videos so much! Thank you for being able to explain everything is such a peaceful and knowledgeable way. You’re awesome 👏🏽

It’s so nice to listen to you and I learned many things from you today!!!

Awesome!!! Great information! You help a lot of us who don’t have the resources to get the guidance and information we need. God bless you and keep fighting the good fight!

thanks with pleasure

I can't get enough of your videos! ❤️

As usual I have learned and relearned (kinda forgetful) a ton from the video. Where I got lost along this journey is one thing but where I’m headed is exciting. Your teachings and your knowledge have truly helped me have an epiphany or two. I’ve taken notes and they are great reminders and help when I need them. I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💫

I agree with you so much about the importance of words!

I discovered your channel very recently and am IN AWE of the content you gift us with!! 🥰 thank you 💕

Thank you so much Stephanie

Thank you for your help Stephanie 😊

Me too I m so thankful to you for creating this channel you are so tender and compasionate!

You are so awesome to present such great topics always so very helpful to me. I look forward to all your videos. Thank you for your time and energy putting them together.

Your videos are very inspiring and are full of positivity. Your videos on narcissism are very good.

You are my hero Stefani ❤️ thank you for all lovely work you give to me ❤️

Thank you Stephanie, you're awesome

Thank you, Stephanie!!! I learned so much. Now I need to apply it to my life. I still deal with these issues on a daily basis as well. Thanks for sharing.

I believe you ,thank you!! You have the gift of insight..

Thank you Stephanie. Bob

Thank you so much stephanie I will be applying these amazing principles into my life for good God richly bless you, wishing you a lovely day xx

You are my healer. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

You hit the target right in the middle... Thank you I can do this I can love myself in a healthy way and I can go forward feeling better about myself...WOOHOO ... world here I come ❤

Your amazing. I wish you were my life coach. Thank you for your videos

Thank you Stephanie,

Wow this helped so much! I care so much about what others think and change myself for other people .. and this has helped a lot :)

Thank you! Your videos are very relatable

Thank you for these tips! I need them and have just started to act on them

Thank you for this vid! In a job search for 6 months and starting to feel really crappy that there’s been no progress. I see who I want to be and WILL manifest that. Thank you for the kick in the butt! 👏

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

YES!! Don't let the fear of not having found it "yet" take you away from believing it is out there.. because it is. It will come. Imagine already having it. Try living like that for a few days.. just feeling what you would feel if the job you wanted was yours.

Thanks Stephanie!

Thank you ❤️

Thanks love❤️

fabulous information so helpful I really needed to hear this today

Great advice, Thank you.

you are awesome 💕 so well said ..

You're the best! Thank you for all the great information. :)

Thank you so much for helping us,💞

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Oh you are so welcome my dear! Thank you for supporting the channel!

You’re soooo good . I need you. I’m going thru a lot of problems. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

thank you for guidance!

Greetings from Dallas Texas. Thank you for your channel!!!

Thank you friend!

Thank you so much ma'am.

SOOOO glad I found you 💝

Thanks Stephanie, great video

So motivating !! ❤

Your channel is great help to me...because i used to be in a narcissistic relationship...thanks God! Im no longer with him...thanks for your advices...really appreciated!!

Love this, i have listened many times.

Wow great video! I loved your detailed examples in each area. I am coaching a few professional women right now who are struggling with confidence and public speaking. I appreciate your work! Thanks 🙏

I love your channel Stephanie. If you have a free coaching session I so need it. I am in recovery from an ex narc and need coaching for the next step in recovery and become that new person I need to be!

Thank you. I posted any first lengthy video today. I felt a bit confident but it was mainly of just DOING IT! I did get some constructive criticism from one person and it made me insecure and it def got to me. Thanks for the boost up.

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

I have been there!!! Just know that not everyone is going to "hear you" and that is ok.. Just doing it is the hardest part.. you should be so proud of yourself. It is a learning process.. heck I'm still learning!

Great video! Thank you.

A lot of love and happiness from Brazil and Russia. Love u!!! thanks, Stephanie!

I did enjoy this video very much. Thank you!

Thank you so so very much. God Bless you 🙏🏻🎶🙏🏻💙

Thank you 😇

Great tips!

💝💖 Stephanie, you are amazing !

thank you you helped me!

I love hearing from you Stephanie. Thanks again for your opinions and wisdom, and I wish you well! And at 3:30, I think the feeling of "unfamilar territory" are the words that may accurately describe those unsettling, foreign feelings associated with practicing positive and honouring affirmations.

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.. thank you.. thank you :)

Thank you

I love this video💗 you are so great☆

That was super helpful thanks 🥰

naice.. great way to boost up the confidence!:)

your great!!

Thank you! :)

Being a Visual learner I really love those sub titles 💌

thank u

Thank you so much for your video's Stephanie 💗 I really needed to hear this. was just thinking about this earlier, how i need to set more boundaries. it's something I've struggled with for years! Especially having low self esteem 😔 it's held me back for so long and has affected my life ever since I was a child. I'm tired of it and I'm doing everything i can to change.

@deborahawe5428

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica Young your not alone

@dianediane1245

2 жыл бұрын

I have been setting new boundaries and it makes such a huge difference. I feel more empowered not letting other's be unkind to me.

I have always been the person who loves me the most.

Love this vid. Thank you. If you haven't done so already, can you make a video about emotional numbness and how to feel again?

@AmberShadow

4 жыл бұрын

Melisusy21 I agree!

I been through this reset

you're officially my life relationship coach

I love your videos Stephanie (I'm coach and psychologist myslef) and I realle like your vibes, your knowledge and authenticity ! :) Great! Thanx! Greetings from Europe!

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Hello! Thank you so much.. do you have a channel?

@milokaz2753

4 жыл бұрын

@@StephanieLynCoaching Hello Stephanie, no, I don't have a channel. I just like watching good videos with a good content! And yours are amazing! If I had one it would probably not be in English because I'd love to bring some knowledge and encouragement to my people in my mother tongue (which is slovak)! Thank you for your amazing work and great content! Many greetings right now from Switzerland! :) Kamila

It's hard to be confident when everyone is so negative towards to me

@StephanieLynCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

I understand but it is a practice and you are doing great! Just trying to create the bubble because their energy is not about you.. :)

@BrotherTree1

4 жыл бұрын

I think it's great that you recognise your feelings. They're very much understandable and it's the first step towards working towards confidence, provided that's what you want to have!

Good video

Negative thoughts and programming is a real thing... I wish the people that send these vibes out can understand that. Maybe anxiety wouldn’t have to exist so much in individuals that are awesome and always pray and do other things for others.

Thank you for your videos! I can't see my therapist right now with this pandemic. So I found you on KZread and you have helped me very much. But I so have a few questions for you. How can you take care of you self and have people think your being selfish?