HOW TO be intentional during SINGLENESS (8 Tips!)
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Thank you Mollie for joining me in sharing about HOW TO be intentional during those years of SINGLENESS! :)
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Thank you for this video I needed to hear this. I'm 37 and I'm still single and to me living for God is the most important thing in life.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
AMEN SISTER!!! I AM PINNING THIS COMMENT! It is so encouraging to me!
@schlookie
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 38, and still single. For the exact same reason as you! I have to admit, I do get lonely sometimes though!
@Anna__online
4 жыл бұрын
I am 46 and single.
@nakiasimone
4 жыл бұрын
alicia mcdowell amen sis!
@msaries5
4 жыл бұрын
im 48,yes im married but have been seperated for almost 18 years i think but in this life all im focused on is serving God...im not single but the tips are really good,i love your channel an your moms bible flip through i wish she had a channel..
"don't put the blessing above the Blesser" ♥️
1) stay grounded in the Lord (Ask God to reveal sin, and for Him to reveal where your heart is at ) 2) Pray (Pray for others, as well as your future spouse) 3)What do you want to teach me 4) Surrender 5)Be disciplined (fasting, memorization, scripture reading) 6)Keep a journal 7)Surround yourself with a community of believers 8)Minister to those around you 9)Walk with dignity (be a woman of valor:)
@xitlaliramos8687
4 жыл бұрын
Franky B thank you I like this!!!
It's so refreshing to see young people so in love with the Lord and longing for Him. God bless you Ashley and Molly you are beautiful and God has more amazing things for y'all.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Fran Cali aw thank you so much! Praise God!!
I am currently attending a Christian college and seeing all my friend engaged or with someone has been a struggle, but this video has helped me a lot and giving me the resources to understand that been single is not bad and take advantage of this time to serve the Lord.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Nicole Vallejo that is awesome praise God!!!!
I am56 and still single living for Jesus. Great tips.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for your encouraging comment! May God fill you up day by day. May he strengthen you and encourage you with His steadfast love!
@HOHNancy
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 50 and still single. :) Yes, these tips are great! 🙂
the way God uses this channel to talk to anyone walk in Christ is amazing! Thank you for letting this platform be used by God and talk to women about this and any other subject. and yes! I made it all the way to the end of the video! propably re watching and taking notes too!!! haha blessings!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Yay! PRAISE GOD!! THANK YOU!!!!
Mollie should be in more videos. Preach girl!!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
AMENNNNNN!!!!!
Friendly reminder ladies that God is the perfect husband. There’s no need to look when He’s already there. His love is the purest and is righteous. He loves you for who you are. (You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you. Songs of Songs 4:7 )
@chanellecarter4828
4 жыл бұрын
Abdul Aziz sex is not the root of a healthy marriage 🙄
@estellexix9164
4 жыл бұрын
@Abdul Aziz it's kind of figurative, all u think about is sex. That says ALLOT about you.
@estellexix9164
4 жыл бұрын
@Abdul Aziz you decide nothing you can't even stop it if you'll die tomorrow, next week next year. Neither can i, but I trust in God and Jesus' sacrifice for those years. Instead of being rude seemingly giving me control but still none of us can control anything scientists haven't made a single cell why should we rely on them.
I needed this so much during my singleness ❤️
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Mya Lxuh amen! Praise God!!!
I’m 29 ... just a fun fact ... and I’m grateful for y’all. ✊🏾👏🏾👏🏾 i watched to the end btw
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
NakiaSimone haha YAY!!!! Thank you!!!
@skylarrenay1280
4 жыл бұрын
NakiaSimone Yes It’s so Good to wait for the one your suppose to be with.
I made it to the end! lol. I am 27 and I don't have a desire for a relationship/marriage. I'm so satisfied with my singleness and feel that it is a gift. I am living for the Lord and I'm right where He wants me. But I loved the video. You and Mollie have such wisdom!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Laura Wipff thanks :) praise God for giving you contentment !!!!
This is just the greatest thing! I’m really struggling right now because I just wanna be in a relationship so badly but the Lord tells me I’m not ready yet. So every single time I opened KZread this video ALWAYS showed up on my exploring page at the very top. Every single day since you uploaded it. So today I finally watched it and let me tell you: I’m convinced the Lord used your video to speak to me and guide me. I’m beyond grateful for your video! Hopefully my comment shows you how God uses you in beyond wonderful ways! May God’s blessing be with you ❤️
Aww I love Mollie and her wisdom!! You two are such cute roomies! 😆💗
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
:)))))) Praise God. Love, Mollie
21, God recently called me to an intentional year of singleness! Haven't been emotionally single since grade 8 so it's been SO HARD, thanks girls for putting this together
What up y’all. This is my personal goal. I clicked so fast when I saw the notification 🎡
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
EEEEK YAYYYYYYYYYYYY
As a man, i can tell you, this video its such an amazing blezing for me. Thank you sisters, for the words and the example that you give to us God bless you Girls
Movie suggestions for Mollie: 1. Overcomer 2. Fireproof 3. War room 4. Touched by Grace 5. Courageous 6. Grace Card 7. Flywheel 8. Breakthrough 9. Faith like Potatoes 10. Ordinary people 11. I can only imagine
This is so refreshing! I want to be intentionally single that’s my heart’s desire! Thank you! It’s time to get to work!
Yep. Made it til the end. Will do all of these things. I will walk with dignity and enjoy all my single years serving the Lord.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
YAYYYYY!!!! Praise God!!!
@TechnicalRITAPAWAN
4 жыл бұрын
he how are you
@IsadellaEstelPolanco
4 жыл бұрын
Hello. I'm good. How are you?
@TechnicalRITAPAWAN
4 жыл бұрын
@@IsadellaEstelPolanco i m good
@TechnicalRITAPAWAN
4 жыл бұрын
@@IsadellaEstelPolanco welcome to nepal
For young girls( nah,oké, also for young man) it can be difficult to be single. But waiting for your treu love is worth it. If you let God lead you in this then you will recognize your future husband ore wife. As for my self; i did not choose to be single in the first time. It realy hurt me that i was single. I wanted to be married and have a family but not for the right reasons. It was because i thought it was normal. Every one my age married and were having children and i wanted to be like every one else. Normal. But i found out later i was not able to give love in a romantic way. Not to man not to woman. I think it is called A-sexual. I grieved over that and then accepted that i was different and would not have children. The reason is that i have autism and a family of my own i could not handle. I have talents in other areas. And that is good. If there are more people like me, Take courage. You going to be okay.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the honesty and for sharing your story! Praise God that He is working in your life in mighty ways and using your story to help others!
"grow your spiritual muscles"♥️
nobody: Ashley this entire video: AMEN!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Grace Marie 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love this! “Don’t waste your single years” 🙌🏼
I am in a hostel where there is no one of my faith... I feel so lonely and lost...it's really hard.... Please pray for me Ashley and Mollie u guys are so so gud.... Please reply...☺️☺️
That’s from She’s the Man!! 🎶 welcome welcome welcome welcome🎶😄
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
YESSSSSSSSSS
@hephzibahmakhetha4371
4 жыл бұрын
Oh! I didn't even know that! But then again I didn't really watch the movie
Just saw your quiet time and wanted to see more of molly so here I am. Keep spreading the love of God. 💙
Wow for young believers you guys have a level of maturity that shows the grace of GOD IN YOUR LIVES, look what God can do when you steadfastly submit yourselves to Him great job guys love this
You're so young! You have plenty of time. There's so much for you to do and experience. It's a whole different story when you have waited 4 decades like some of us. That's when its actually difficult.
@thevegantitian
4 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it. Im almost 30 and Im wondering when I will get married. It does get hard when you get older. Men tend to want younger women too.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
I pray God would continue to strengthen you and fill you with His steadfast love ❤️❤️❤️
@thevegantitian
4 жыл бұрын
@@coffeeandbibletime Thank you so much sister. Love you guys and God bless you both! ❤❤❤❤
you're videos are extremely inspiring!!! As a young minister i find it so refreshing to see other young people on fire for God, and desiring to please God with not just their words but their lives as well! God bless you ladies!
Wow! Such a great video! I love Molly’s wisdom on this topic. God is really comforting me in my season of singleness. At my church the sermon on Sunday was about singleness and 1 Corinthians 7 and now my favorite Christian influencer comes out with a video exactly about the same subject. It’s so amazing how He works and how He interweaves our lives and story with fellow believers! ❤️
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Ann amen sis!! God is on the move!
LADIES!!! First off I thank God for leading me to this video and thank you SO MUCH you guys for making such video. This has been such an eye opener because I’m at this point in my life where I’m letting those desires take control over me rather than living it to God through prayers. As you mentioned it’s really important to NOT waste the waiting and we need to be seeking him first and put all those things behind because he knows indeed what we need and so we need to glorify our extraordinary papa because it’s his timing not mine. Also keep me in your prayers (I’m 20) as though my I’m constantly battling to keep my eyes on him and not the ‘cute guy or man’ I see across the room etc. I LOVE your content. What you’re putting out there is much needed for the soul. Thank you a million times and ladies remember that God has something greater in store for you!!! ☺️💓 enjoy your journey through Christ, stay bold!💛 cheers!!!💕😍
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Carla Bellefleur you have no idea how much you encouraged us with this comment! Thank you SO MUCH!!!
I made it to the end 😁 thank you SO much for this!!!!! I needed this. So much!!! 😁😁 being single ain't as easy as it seems, but with God we can be completely filled up despite that❤
Watching while I eat breakfast during quarantine! Enjoying every bit, Molly is GREAT! This video has been such a blessing. Thank you beautiful sisters...🤗💕😊
This is 😍🥺 I for sure needed this. Thank you, girls~ may the Lord continue to keep you both ♥️
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Praise God!!
@TechnicalRITAPAWAN
4 жыл бұрын
he how are you
Thank you ladies in sharing these great points to younger ladies like your age.but it gets harder when your single after a divorce o young Widow or older.God bless you both and stay strong and in holiness before God.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
I will be praying for you Rosa. May God be with you during this hard time. LOve, Ashley
This was such an encouraging video, all 24 minutes of it! Living intentionally in my singlesness has been something the Lord has been pressing upon me recently. Thank for all of the amazing tips and resources!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
PRAISE GOD!! I hope and pray this would encourage you to seek the Lord during this season :)
Y’all have such a happy spirit with your channel!! It’s amazing!!
I love the sound of laughter!! It means there’s so much joy!!
She’s The Man ❤️ So glad you guys just did a video on this topic🙏🏾😘
Made it til the end. Love the point on singleness.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
C.Chenelle Williams ❤️❤️❤️❤️
That last part really got to me! I don’t want to settle either. Dignity is something I had forgotten about , and y’all just reminded of it. Thank you!
Made it to the end! Love you girls!! I’m so encouraged and my heart is full!!!
I watched to the end! Molly is great! You need to have her in more videos!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
AMEN!! Right? Mollie is so amazing!!!
I love the longer videos! Great advice for your time of singleness. It is a gift from God and a time of preparation.
She's The Man!!! One of my favs!!!
Yes! Watched it to the end!! That was so good. Thank you
I’m taking notes as I’m listening to these two beautiful girls. You have no idea how much this video means to me.
I love your room mate!!! What a CUTIE!! She should do more videos!! Thank you for sharing so much TRUTH❤️ We need to hear it!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Prudhomme THANK YOU!!!! I love her too ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So grateful for you ladies !! Such an important topic no one tackles enough !!! 💕💕
You guys are speaking so well. Bless you, is a blessing to listen to you two.
oh man this video !! I am currently dealing with my first breakup, so this was so encouraging. I’m excited to see what God has for me in this period of singleness! thank you for your lovely videos 💕!!
I am blessed with your ministry. I am single and I want to pursue God. And you know it is everyday surrender. Eventhough I have read or watched about Christian Singleness, there are still times that there’s a voice saying there’s something lacking. Well I know what the truth is, that the Lord sustains me because He is Almighty. Praise God to your ministry, I pray many women out there will be blessed too just like me. ❤️
This was so beautiful. I nodded through each of the points! I decided to begin intentional singleness last year and it's amazing what God has been doing in my heart! Thank you ladies ❤
Made it to the end. Thank you for this video, it’s great information/reminder of how to not waste your single season, but use it to grow focusing on God.
Watched this again today while suffering physical pain what an absolute BLESSING you ladies are what an incredible vlog and look how far you’ve come from since this Ashley! Molly is so cool too blessings.
You guys are such a blessing, truly underrated praise the lord 😍🙏🏼💛
Thank you guys for this! It’s so encouraging!
Such an encouraging video! You girls are so sweet. I love what you said about being a woman of dignity.
This is SO helpful!!! I have a really hard time being the only single friend left in my group and everything this past month or so has been God showing me that I need to seek him first! This video gives such practical tips for us single ladies out there!
Made it to end, you guys gave a great advice. May you both continue to be blessed in His name!
Wow! I'm so thankful for your willingness to hear the Lord and then sharing this powerful message with us. May the Lord bless you, gals!♡
I’m going to watch and rewatch this video every single time for refinement!!👍🏼🙌🏼
Thank you so much for that. May you both continue to grow faithful in the Lord and continue sharing His will for us. God bless! Praying here in the Philippines for all of you ♥
thank you so much for this video. yall are so beautiful and smart and everything you had to say spoke to me in my new season of singleness with the Lord.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Lauren Jones amen ❤️❤️❤️
this was so helpful, thank you!! & thank you for allowing God to speak through you both and being faithful to His call to go out and disciple 💗 what an encouragement :)
KZread was just playing in the background and this video popped up. I watched this awhile ago, and found it to be encouraging. But right now, I am in the midst of a trial. I deeply care about someone and am highly interested in him. But I've been struggling with the situation of liking him and not knowing how he feels. Watching this video again, it was encouraging and eye opening for me. Thank you for making this video, it has helped me soo much. God Bless, Ashley
Thank you for this video! I'm in a stage of my life where I'm still discerning my future vocation. Great tips! Love your channel!! Continue to spread the good news with that much conviction and courage! God bless!!! 🙏🏼🙌
Love this, really working on just growing spiritually and trusting that God will provide what I need in His timing.
I did see it till the end and I'm not single lol yall had so much insight in this topic for young women to have hope and treat themselves with respect!
You both are great! This was a blessing. I will keep both of you girls in my prayers.
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH! We need it !!!
Best video ever❤❤ So encouraging and life changing. Keep going girls! Don't ever settle and keep pursuing God's heart!
God speaks to me through the both of you ❤️❤️ Love you both 😘 This came just right in time . What a blessing 😊
Loved this, have been hearing dignity a lot, and I knew deep down God was talking to me, I just didn’t know what He meant until now. Man God is always right on time and amazing , thank you Jesus. I needed this and I’m so thankful to God for bringing this my way and for the wisdom and insight He’s given y’all and for sharing it! God bless you!
Hi ladies. Thank you so much for this I’m 30 and have been single for 3 years. All of this really blessed me. And it’s awesome to see such young women in Christ glorifying God. My favorite part was about tv shows (the bachelor) because many Christians don’t see an issue with watching anything we want. But I believe if it’s giving a negative view or not glorifying God (shows like green leaf) we shouldn’t watch them. And sometimes it can be discouraging when so many just dont see it that way or don’t want to. So thanks ladies. God bless!
This video was sooo helpful. It’s so amazing how God will place something in your life just when you need it. I praise God for you girls ❤️
I loved this! I could immediately tell why you love Molly...her wisdom is so rich and you can tell she is passionate when she speaks!! This whole video was a perfect reminder of what I should be doing during this time...thank you for using your platform to proclaim God's Name!!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Candace praise God!!! THANK YOU!!!!
Thank you so much for making this and being vulnerable about your singleness because it can be hard so thank you.
I was so inspired by you that I am going through several years of intentional singleness myself!
This is so great for me right now. I am just finishing up a year of singleness with my best friend and I want to end it strong and looking to God
aah! this video is everything i am needing to hear in this season in my life. thanks so much for letting the Lord speak through you. love you guys! 💕
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
awww praise the Lord! SO SO encouraging to hear your comment. You are not alone! God is with you and will strengthen you!
I loved this so much!! I made it to the end and took notes, it was so important to watch this, I hope mollie is doing well!!
Love you both you are amazing!!
I love this!!! You are both so well spoken and help me understand, both beautiful ladies of God working for his glory!! Such a great video!💖💖💖
Thank y'all so much for a beautiful topic because it was well needed. And being silent and meditating on God's word have a blessed and beautiful night
Loving these type of videos ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for making this video! It was so encouraging, truthful and fun to watch. I have decided that 2021 is going to be my intentional year of singleness. I heard about this idea from your channel. For a while, I thought I didn’t need to do an intentional year of singleness but it turns out it’s exactly what I need! I really needed to hear the tip about being spiritually disciplined and growing stronger in those disciplines in this time of my life🙏🏾✝️💟
Ladies! Thank you soo much for your message ! It is soo helpful and encouraging !!! you are amazing !!!
This video came just in time!!! What a blessing!!!😊🙌
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Praise God!
I absolutely loved this video and it is so perfect for this season I am in - thank you!
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting :) Praise God!!
Thank you both🎉🎉 Really this is so good..I am so encouraged and this helps me to stay intentional in singleness..
I needed to hear all of those points thank you so much for sharing y’all are amazing!!
The last point about dignity really hit home, thank you🙏
NEEDED THIS 💛
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Just Nay Praise God!!!!
I’ve just read the accompanying blog and purchased one of the books listed in its resources. I’ve also emailed the blog to myself. That’s a keeper! Thank you, Ashley. 💋💕
I made it all the way to the end and really enjoyed it!! Thank you guys for speaking on this topic. I really needed it 💕
@coffeeandbibletime
4 жыл бұрын
Yay! Praise God!!! Praying for you!!!
Oh, Ashley! Oh, Molly! May you sense a definite blessing in your spirit for sharing honestly, but maturely, about your current place in life. You are so right on, gals! I'm much older than you two, but I can tell you, the day is either here or coming when you will realize how God is walking right beside you, giving you the gracious attitude you are serving Jesus with daily at this time. Do not take it lightly that we say and mean, GOD BLESS YOU IN ALL YOUR MOMENTS! Hugs of appreciation, Miriam Pearson
You ladies are so lovely. I clicked on your video and your advices are so encouraging. Thank you for sharing God's Word with love. May the Lord protect you and continue to use you to encourage Christians, especially young Christians. God bless both of you. ❤️🙏🏾
Christ bought you with His blood so don't let no one treat you less than that. This video blessed me so much ladies ❤️
Yes! Thankful for you guys💜😌