I needed this! Thank you. 💖 1. Common courtesy 2. Gracious 3. Show interest in others 4.Compliment

@TheModernLady

5 жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome! 🥂 I’m delighted you enjoyed the video and are inspired to be charming with others!

Good day! I am sixteen and am really trying to obtain overall positivity and gracefulness. Yet, I think it is very hard to do so, when (let's say in school) you are put into inescapable situations with very crude, rude or negative people. In fact, very often people who love gossiping about people who try to improve their personality. Also, it's sometimes strange to be the only odd one out, when many other girls nowadays sadly look down on being a lady and self-improvement. Any advice? Have a nice day!

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Alyssa, thank you for your question. The life of a lady always involves taking the high road (and is not easy or convenient). Rudeness, negativity and gossip may be popular, but you don’t have to engage in those activities. It sounds like you could use more positive, kind friends in your circle. My suggestion would be to keep your head held high, even if you’re looked down upon for being a lady - and find some new like-minded friends! Perhaps you could join a new club at school or sign up to play a sport that you’re interested in to make new connections! The life of a lady doesn’t have to be lonely! Good luck!

@emmaw.8176

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Alyssa! ☺️ I know that this an older comment, but I just turned 17 and I’m in sort of the same boat. I’d like to improve myself and live a more elegant lifestyle, but it’s difficult to find likeminded people in my age group. If you’re looking for friends that have similar interests, I would love to get to know you better!

@pamelahough3896

5 жыл бұрын

Im am 28 y.o, married. My friends are ladies on their age of 60 and 65. I love hanging out with them for a coffee or even just give them a call. No BS, just pure maturity ❤

@ke-rendee2109

5 жыл бұрын

Im 14

I always look forward to your videos! One of my resolutions is actually to compliment someone at least twice a day. Have a wonderful new year!

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching Jenna! That’s a fabulous New Year’s Resolution! I love it! 😊 Happy New Year!

When you talk, I feel like you look right into my heart

Thanks for all your terrific videos. You are making the world a better place. Have a happy and prosperous new year.

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

😊 Thank you so much, Virginia! I appreciate you watching my channel. My KZread journey has been so delightful, I’m glad you find the videos helpful! I hope you and your family have a blessed and Happy New Year!

please keep making videos, I'm learning a lot.

Thanks for the tips .....you are really a help to me and other ladies out there....i always look forward to your videos

You really are something else.

Love your videos and your attitude ❤ Much love and respect to you🤗

Love the tip and advice on the topic and more that has me wondering and what to do when it happens and

I agree! I think everybody believe you, because you are also charming. 😊 The problem is, when you are charming, most of the people don't know how to handle with it, they abuse , will be addicted of you and don't leave you alone anymore. You don't need to be a vip to have alot of fans or everyone want to be your friends. That's take alot of energy .

Hi Mam, I am very fond of your videos. Your videos are amazing. I am in love with your style as well :-) I would like to tell you that I respect you & Love you as you are doing such a nice job through your videos. I also wanted to say a big thankyou to you for always replying to my comments. And at last , I would like to wish you a very Happy New Year..2018. Hope to see more videos from you. Regards, Surabhi Pandey.

Your videos have helped me to improve the quality of my life thank you

Wonderful video! Truly listening to someone speaks volumes and always relfects well on yourself. Love your beautiful outfit, btw. Thank you for your inspiration! xo- Cara

@TheModernLady

5 жыл бұрын

Cara thank you so much for watching and your compliment! I’m happy to hear the video inspired you! Yes, today we are all so busy that we rarely listen to one another, it’s very important to listen as a way of showing respect. 🥂 You’re welcome!

I hope all is well ❤ Would like to see more videos!

I always look forward to your videos they’re so amazing.

@TheModernLady

5 жыл бұрын

This comment made my day! 🥂 You are so sweet! 😍 Thank you for the support and KZread love!

I love your videos. Very informative ♡

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

😊Thank you so much! I’m delighted you find my channel helpful!

Happy to of find your oage! Thanks for sharing

YOU are charming, Devoreaux! :) Thank you for your lovely videos.

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

💛Thank you for the kind words and for watching, Christina! I appreciate your support!

Great video!!

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! I’m so delighted you enjoyed the video!

I love your necklace😁

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

I love this video and your channel. They coincide with what my religion also teaches me :) keep up the good work.

You look great!

@TheModernLady

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

Hey! I've recently found your channel, and I have a question. Just today, I was sitting on my own in the 6th Form block of my school, and some men made some sexist comment towards me. Now, I usually have a very quick comeback, but I kept quiet today. How would a lady come back to a rude comment while maintaining dignity and not losing her cool? Thanks! :) xxx

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Hi Amy, thanks for watching my video! I think the best course of action to take is to a stand for yourself, instead of keeping quiet. If you’re comfortable with it, you can address the harasser directly and tell him how it makes you feel when he says something inappropriate, for example “Please don’t make sexual comments to me. When you do that, I feel uncomfortable. I prefer you respect me, or just don’t acknowledge me at all.” A second option would be to address the harasser and define the behavior then explain it is distasteful, for example “Making overtly sexual comments to complete strangers is inappropriate. Please don’t speak like that to me again.” How do you typically respond? You mentioned you usually have a quick comeback when situations like that occur.

@amy__foad2648

6 жыл бұрын

The Prep Pursuit thank you for your detailed response! I will try and put these both into practice. Usually, I'll say a remark which cuts them down to size, and stuns them. However, in the heat of the moment these remarks are not always polite. Thank you again 😊

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome, Amy! I understand! An initial reaction is typically fueled by emotion, which totally is understandable because anyone is likely to be angry too, if someone made those remarks! I’m glad you found the advice helpful!

Is it possible to be uplifting and elegant while being depressed and savage (as in coming back at people with honest powerful words)?

Love your outfit! Are the details on your website?

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching my video! I found similar items from the pieces in the outfit I'm wearing and I added them to the video description! :)

@eyeduhh

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

😊 You’re welcome!

Hi Mam, This time I want your favour. Can you suggest me personally or through your videos...How to deal with Ex Friend?? (One with whom you don't want to talk)...& With Ex Boyfriend?? (One with whom I wanted to talk). I believe that sometimes it's necessary to ignore such people..but if I am such a kind of person who can't ignore..then what to do? I don't want to loose my grace by ignoring. If I am talking, am I compromising with my self respect.?? Please suggest. Regards, Surabhi Pandey.

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Surabhi for watching my video. If you want to no longer communicate with your ex-boyfriend, I would suggest you tell him you think it’s best that since you all are broken up, you go your separate ways, including communication. He should understand. If he does not honor and respect your request, it is not improper to let him know again you want to stop communicating and if necessary, begin to ignore him. Hopefully he will respect your wishes and be polite to honor ending communication since your previous relationship has already ended. I hope this is helpful! Have a wonderful weekend!

@surabhipandey9762

6 жыл бұрын

Thank-you so much Mam.

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

😊 You’re welcome!

How to control anger?

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

The best way to control anger is to take a few deep breaths before saying or doing something that would later be regretted. Taking the high road in a difficult situation when you are angry is not easy, but is always worth it.

E amo seus videos. A elegância, cortezia, bom modos no tratameto consigo mesmo e com os que encontramos no nosso caminho a cada dia, é um bálsamo para mim. Este ano eu tenho um único objetivo: eu vou remodelar minha alma, eu vou ser feliz com o que a vida se apesentar. A Todos eu desejo Vitória e um abençoado e auspicioso 201. Gratidão pelo post

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

😊Thank you so much! I hope you have a Happy New Year!

@bubblybubbles4023

6 жыл бұрын

The Prep Pursuit where do you get your clothes. Can you do a video on how to dress like a lady and places to get clothes

@TheModernLady

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching my video. I buy my clothes from a variety of places including department stores, thrift stores, online shops like eBay and local boutiques in Dallas, Texas, USA. Thanks for your video request about how to dress like a lady, I will add it to my list.

You are saying the same tings as Tracy Hansel sometimes word by word.

Intro is to long..

Happy to of find your oage! Thanks for sharing

Happy to of find your oage! Thanks for sharing

Happy to of find your oage! Thanks for sharing