I love how you focus on it being feminine rehab because I feel like I’ve always been extremely feminine but was surrounded by extremely masculine women that it always made me feel awkward and oppressed so this is therapeutic for me coming into adulthood and going on a rediscovery journey

@Lynn-ip9sh

2 жыл бұрын

I read something the other day that said "Rejected because of everything right with you." That happens so often, especially to a beautiful woman residing in her feminine energy.

@ardielle5520

2 жыл бұрын

This😌 always was made fun of or hated on for being feminine

@nickandchrismom

2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾❤

@Colourandwellbeing

2 жыл бұрын

My story My Mum and I have always been perceived as weak by many women including black women because we have a natural soft voice and warm demeanour. I grew up ashamed of being this way. I am returning to who I always been

1. Authenticity To Your Nature - Be authentic to who you are as a person, doors will open for you when you are authentic because you are like no one else. 2. Having Manners - Looking people in the eye when you're speaking to them, saying "Please" and "Thank You" 3. Smiling - Shows that you are approachable, open and full of joy. When you smile you come off as more trustworthy, warm and personable. 4. Lending A Hand / Offering Assistance 5. Have Grace in Interactions - Know how to excuse yourself and bring peace to a situation. Learn how to diffuse situation in a classy and subdue way.

She starts listing the traits @6:09 💕

@speakintothemicb

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Christine.

@ruele.

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@Aviao100

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much man

@cathymarie9727

2 жыл бұрын

Whew Thank you

@zamasishi881

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂legend

I was a cheerleader in High School. Cheerleaders smile no matter what is going on around them or how they feel inside. It trained me to smile all the time. It is actually one of the most beneficial things I have learned. Strangers love when you just smile at them. You can see it in their reaction. I smiled at my babies all the time. I smile at my kids and say good morning. At 45 I now have some serious wrinkles around my mouth but it from a life of smiling.

In a world telling us to compete with men, this channel is so refreshing

Dr. Michelle, can you dive more into how to graciously excuse yourself and divert from inappropriate situations, conversations, and questions? Very much needed!!

@cicigetthat07

2 жыл бұрын

I second this! Something I struggle with all the time, I just end up laughing lmao

@leighannethomas3667

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, this would be interesting.

I love being around those people that beheave so effortlessly charming and make you feel special. It makes me want to be with them all the time.

this is my favorite topic I always tell people charming beats looks 90% of the time alot of the time people wonder why someone they feel is less attractive has the attention of someone and it’s normally the effortless charm

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Exactly!!

As a blk man, I salute all of you ladies. Black women are the most gorgeous women in the world. I love and appreciate all of you! Keep up the great work.

Such a ray of sunshine! You are beyond appreciated and blessed beyond measure! Thank you 🙏🏽 🥰 Your videos have brought many breakthroughs in my life and I thank God for you 💖💖🙏🏽✨

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you my darling. God is amazing in the ways He reaches His daughters. So happy you are here.

Starts at 06:08

Thanks for relating how charm and charisma can land you a job. Sometimes employers look at energy too.

@Colourandwellbeing

2 жыл бұрын

This energy has worked in my favour for years but I didn’t know exactly what I was doing right. Now I know I am warm and charming 😃😘

THANK YOU for including a hijabi girl in your video ! :') I felt seen and included ,and yes , beautiful :') 👏🏻👏🏻😍✨

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Of course!! Thank you for watching love

@IAMLilianChanel

2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥺😍😍

You are warm, genuine, relatable & ELEGANT...THANK YOU 🙌🏽

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

That is very sweet! Thank you love! 🤍

Your channel has helped me so much!!! After 20 years of being single and 10 years out of the hood, I finally know how to be a soft, supportive woman and I found my Yoruba king! 🥰

@ms.kristine1819

2 жыл бұрын

@ACKAH Abigail Thank you beautiful ❤️

@Colourandwellbeing

2 жыл бұрын

Wow I needed to hear this. Thank you for this comment

I am poorly with Covid and watching this in isolation. Michelle has made me feel so lifted, happy and inspired. She is the sister we all need 💕

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thanks love praying for a speedy recovery 🤍✨

@rosegold7352

2 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf Amen, God bless you too. Thank you for helping us women discover our inner femininity and to shine inside out. I feel much more confident and happy as your videos have taught us to accept ourselves and not to be envious of others. You are beautiful sister, keep smiling and shining too!

@jillgreene9225

2 жыл бұрын

Hey sis🙌🏽

@nickandchrismom

2 жыл бұрын

May God heal you in Jesus name amen

@rosegold7352

2 жыл бұрын

@@jillgreene9225 Thank you Sis 💜

Our feminine teacher.. please accept all of my greetings and respect 🙏🏽✨

I am religious and always pray to God to help you even though I am from a different sect... Be SURE THAT YOU ARE REALLY GREAT

Dr. Daf Thank you so much for answering my prayers and making it clear that there is nothing wrong with me. I was naturally a feminine woman, with a natural soft and warm voice and willing to support others. I always loved dresses, fragrances, skin care routine. However being a dark skinned lady most of my life I have been shamed for just being me. I have been made to feel weak; a doormat; fake and superficial my some many women including some from my own community and family. With you channel I am moving forward into self acceptance and understanding that May way of being has served me in life. And above all that my loving Jesus loves me exactly as I am. I have the birthright to be a gorgeous feminine dark skinned lady. My God bless you and your family always. Amen

YOU ARE SO welcoming.. EEEEEASY on the ears of course easily beautiful to the eyes & that flashlight smile is pure sunshine...YOUR Knowledge poured out is GREATLY APPRECIATED....I never understood why people wud say to me that I am charming, electric, attractive & sensual sexy...I never tried to be these I wanted understand HOW...I now know my MOM was everything I listed above & much more....I desire my INNER Beauty & charm to be more irredescent ...therefore 2022 will see me DEVELOP, COLOR & SHOWCASE Inner talents & character....Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❣

It's always a joy to see you, Dr. Michelle! I remember all the way back to the natural hair content :) and now a fragrance launch? Truly a beautiful evolution.

I’ve been binge watching your videos for the past few days! I love them all. Thank you for shining your light and spreading God’s word. 🙏🏼❤️

@Lynn-ip9sh

2 жыл бұрын

Same here I never get tired of Dr. Michelle's videos! 💖

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetheart!

I just started watching you a few days ago and I literally prayed for this type of video! God is good May He bless you and thank you for allowing Him to use you as a vessel!🙌🏾💞

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Wow God is great! I'm happy to hear that love!

Hey Michelle! Thank you so much for this video; I just wanted to thank you for including a hijabi in this video, it’s truly so rare to see in these videos, and I appreciate it so much! Sending so much love and light🤍

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome love 🤍 Thank you for watching babe 💋✨

This channel has changed my life in the best way possible.

I love this video , so glad you’re back 💓💓

This channel must have millions of subs,,, women all over the world need you Doc,,, I watched other videos and channels about feminity but none addresses the topic like you

Such a beautiful video Ms. Michelle! Thank you for always sharing your wisdom 🙏🏽💗 Can’t wait for the next video.

I truly love all of your videos. You have become my official life coach 😀

Great video, I appreciate all of your tips 💖🌹 I absolutely love grace in conversations. It often gives interactions so much more value, less drama and peace. May God bless you ☀️

I'm the kind of person that becomes incredibly offended when someone takes a harsh tone with me. However, I found that when I respond with a soft and understanding tone, it completely diffuses the situation.

@drmichelledaf

Ай бұрын

That is wonderful introspection!

This may sound crazy because we don't know each other lol but I would like to say thank you so much and I love you... like seriously. Watching your videos has helped me in ways I didn't even know I needed. Because of your videos my family is loving the new version of me and my husband is loving my growth and change. I must say, I couldn't have done it without you. Congratulations on your marriage keep doing what you do. You are truly amazing and beautiful 🤗🥰💞

You are a whole new vibe😩😩💕💕💕💕💕i looove love your aura🤗🤗💖

I am very grateful that i found your channel! Its truly helped me sooo much

I'm painting my home & for the last 5 months I rarely watch T.V. however, listen to you & others on teaching "FEMININE SELF IMPROVEMENTS" Thank you Dr.Daf you are a continual gift in my FEMININE level up life...When The Most High connects He & I...it will be a positive poetic & proper Masculine (Him) Feminine (Me) dance💞 ....We shall genuinely smile at each other walking down the aisle to the altar, both joyfully exchanging our spirit- filled " I do's".💝 💝💝💝💝

The peacemaker gem was so needed! This is something that I’m working on. Thank you Dr. Michelle! So helpful 🌺

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful love! Thank you for watching!

I love your content Dr. Michelle! Thank you and God bless you for walking into your purpose

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

You are so kind thank you and God bless you too honey!

Love, Love, LOVE THIS! Xoxo

Im a sophomore in college and I definitely will be using these!!! So glad I found you

Thank you for emphasising personal characteristics and individualism.

I just love how you say, “sit back, relax, grab something to drink” lol it just makes me giggle. Love your content Dr. Daf!! ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

I really respect and admire you ,,,,, please continue SUPPORTING US

I needed this content... Thank you for sharing.

Thank you Dr. this is so helpful!

God bless you Michelle. I always get excited with these videos. Charm us something I was born with.

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetheart 🤍 Yes never lose it!

The video I have been waiting for

You're such a beautiful soul, so much wisdom 💖

You are so beautiful ❤️ I love your videos and how far you have come!

Thank you so much for this video! ☺️🌄

Looking forward for part 2. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome babe!

Loving these video dr.

I love you Dr. Michele, thank for the great content, its help me so much

Everyday I learn something new and am greatful because alot have changed in my life

Many many many thanks for sharing your GREAT CONTENT

Hey..this is so helpful. I am learning so much..i appreciate u sharing...i am saving up for your perfume...thank you

Lovely, I’ll be taking a few tips along with me 😊

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

That's great!

You’re so elegant and classy😍

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you honey!

You are a true Blessing thank you

lovely content

Thank you for this video

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

You are most welcome sweetie!

Thank you!💕 you make me feel like home

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Aww what a sweet comment, thank you honey!

Thank you ❤

This is powerful

l enjoyed this video, i was wondering what lashes are you wearing? i have a similar eye shape and I am looking for lashes to enhance my eyes

I love you Dr Michelle ❤️

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

I love you too!

I never waited for a channel like your channel,,,,, Please Please Pleeeeeeeeeeeeese continue such a series

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! Will do!

@fatimasalem264

2 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf THANKS A MILLION

100% true Doctor A couple of my Hotel chefts told me They Hired me becasuse of my smile....lol I asked Chef not becsuse I am a good Chef ?lol He said that too.🤣❤ The Guy I like as well likes my smile Nice Video as Always Blessings 🌹

Love good advice you give people🥰🥰🥰🥰

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetie!

Ty!

Please continue to help us

Dr. Michelle you definitely have that... glow! If you know what I mean 😉

I work around a lot of people that take advantage of my manners. What should I do it's starting to brush on my happiness.

I love charming woman

Babies of the family, especially from big families usually have the natural charm.

How to handle criticism and judgement for being a housewife in a classy way?

Hello beautiful!! GOD BLESS YOU MORE AND MORE 💓💓💓💓

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much my love! God bless you too!

Hi Dr. Michelle I really love the short clips you include in your videos. If I might ask where do you get them from?

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

I get them from storyblocks :)

@Meditations89

2 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf thank you ❤️

Women of the world neeeeeeed you

Hi Michelle, Love your content! Overall I’ve been charming, nice, and like to make people laugh. With age I’ve been trying to be more softer and gentler, but I’ve noticed people have been mistaking this for weakness. The actions and the things said by these particular people lead to me to believe that my softness is something they can belittle, press, or mock. What do you recommend in situations like this? Because I catch myself fighting the urge to say something slick to let them know I am not the one. What is a less rough way of going about this?

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! It could be many things so it's tough to pinpoint. But you may need to work on being more assertive and/or using savvy communication in those situations. It's also going to be helpful for you not to internalize their behavior. I will speak more on this in the future. In all things seek God for guidance and He will show you.

Please continue.,,,, pleaseeeeeeeeee

Beautiful video

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you love 🤍✨

@MaryamAli-vd1xv

2 жыл бұрын

💖

I miss you ❤😘❤ DIVINE LOVE ❤ THANK YOU ❤🙏😘

You are such a great LADY

How can I be a feminine woman as a partime mother.

Hi Dr Michelle you are so beautiful and sweet, I'm super thankful for the Lord bringing you to my tablet, I'm a seeker and student, I love big and hard and I luv luv Jesus so so much!! My beautiful mommie left me Clueless, she was so lovely pretty sexy and alluring chsrming, she made friends like drinking water, I have struggled to be strong and feminine a lady classy like my mommie, until your videos I couldn't pin down her strength who she was and her charm,she was ethereal angelic other worldly, I'm so grateful God Jesus is in my life and I have rediscovered my little girl and my joy hope love for life, Shalom shalom Blessings my dear friend Michelle

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

You are most welcome love! I am thankful the Lord has brought you here and allowed you to discover the missing piece. Blessings and love to you!

4:14 ❤

I have to say this, Botox and fillers make already pretty women look like smurfs, takes femininity down all the way

Sensing a baby glow 🤭

From childhood until now, the fact that charisma matters more than qualifications still makes me mad enough to spit. (And I’m aspie, so I’m never, ever going to win any charisma contest. I still wonder how many jobs I have lost out on because of it, where I was more qualified but less charismatic, so this stupidity has literally cost me money and years of employment.)

@elliegrubb1421

2 жыл бұрын

You can have charisma in your own way. You need to be yourself. Practice practice practice. Most things don’t come easy to people but it doesn’t mean they can’t be done. Do what you can and be proud of yourself.

Love your videos but they are so long 🍷❤️

How can I keep up with the children and being feminine

@Colourandwellbeing

2 жыл бұрын

Great question. I would love a video on this .

How do I receive your perfume?

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Hi love, visit the website www.fineforever.com and you can purchase it there.

1. Be Authentic ( Be yourself, Be comfortable in your skin) 2. Having manners (Please & Thank you) 3. Smiling 4. Be helpful, offering a helping hand. 5. Knowing how to excuse yourself and being peace to a situation. 💖💖💖

❤️👑❤️

Thanks. Wonder how they choose these ads though. An ad about knives/violence on a feminine video? Wierd

@drmichelledaf

Жыл бұрын

Ugh they need to do better!

Thank you for this video

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure love!