How to be an Elegant Woman kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKGds9iFoq7bk7w.html

I've never seen a negative reaction to my feminine glowup, to be honest... people have very positive reactions and give me compliments about my outfits or the way I look in general. I feel like people treat me even nicer just because I wore a cute dress or skirt on that day. I've probably just been lucky enough to not having encountered jealous or catty people so far. However, my typically feminine behavior that's more calm and laid-back is often misunderstood as being disinterested or aloof, even though I'm just introverted lol. Especially in the workplace! But I've explained to people that this is just my personality and since then, they seem to be cool with it. I feel like people in Western society are used to women being more assertive and bold, but I've never been that way and don't see any reason to change that. You can be ambitious without being loud or in-your-face.

@saffy771

3 жыл бұрын

@Taylor Aww, you're welcome! Knowing my comment made you happy makes me happy in return haha. Don't be scared, just stay true to yourself and there will be people who appreciate you for your real self. Of course you can't please everyone, but that's impossible anyway. If you're naturally very shy, quiet or introverted, coming out of your shell a bit doesn't hurt, but never to a degree where you have to fake a different personality you don't have. Being introverted or naturally quiet is awesome! I think it's cute. Best of luck on your feminine journey, it's definitely worth it and it's so much fun! Plus you'll meet likeminded people who understand and appreciate you and your goals.

@dreamymelody12

3 жыл бұрын

@@saffy771 I love your comment 🥰 A lot of females in the west try their hardest to *not* be feminine and it makes me sad 🥺 I'm glad that being feminine brings us happiness ❤️

I love that you express your Christ nature on your Channel!!❤️

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

That is a very sweet thing to say, thank you so much!

@justcuzisaidso5386

3 жыл бұрын

Sameeee

@vintagep5549

3 жыл бұрын

Same lov it

@laurelflorio7292

3 жыл бұрын

this is beautiful and gives hope 💜

@mariellachristine4302

2 жыл бұрын

same

I love how Dr Michelle says "My dear", it gives me a sense of hope, safety and determination of " I can do this. I can become that woman",😭❤️😭

@patriciascorner4686

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you can ❤️🤗

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

You can and you will. Much love to you!

@tlb98

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. She is eloquent and encouraging us all to grow. ♥💚

@simonembatha7707

3 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf thank you Queen, I love and appreciate you ❤️

“In every you do, you do it with excellence… No matter who does or doesn’t see it, God sees it.” So powerful. God bless you.

@drmichelledaf

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching honey!

That analogy of the fragrances blew my mind.

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad it resonated with you love

“No security outside of God “ ❤️Thankx you sis ! I needed this 🥺

@loveinautumn3978

3 жыл бұрын

Yes sis! I depend on God everyday.

I am so grateful for this channel. I truly believe Yah lead me here. He is doing a new thing in me and I’m excited about it! Thank you for walking in purpose. This video was literally an answer to my prayer this morning!

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Amen! He surely is. You are so welcome my love. I am wishing you the very best on your life journey.

@makerealmeals

3 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf Thank You! 💕

@jesusislord1john196

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. God bless you all.

@Sierra000

2 жыл бұрын

APTTMHY! 😁

@artforchrist5065

Жыл бұрын

Same here sis! The Lord is so good, so thankful for Dr. Michelle & this channel!

Whewwww I got chills because I have so much confidence and faith in God. Even when it seems all odds are against me, he has showed me so much favor and things always work out! I’ve gotten jobs that I know I wouldn’t have got without God. He has been so good to me! I can go on and on! I can not do it alone and I’m so happy that I don’t have to! #subscribed!

@Kai-rc8cj

3 жыл бұрын

Please go on and on!! 🥳

@VictoriasDAbomb

2 жыл бұрын

I always say I can't do it without Him and I don't want to!! I'm sticking with my God

Your freckles are cute!

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Lol thank you sweetie

@lolade6687

3 жыл бұрын

For real. Like the freckles made her even prettier 😍😘

U look like a teenager girl without makeup, so cute!!!!

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Lol thank you love

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahah She does. My mom and I were saying the same thing. Love the freckles and the moles. 🌸

Thank you for not being ashamed of the Gospel! You're a wonder.❤

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

Michelle always is so authentic and true to what she believes. I comes across in all the videos I have been binge watching 😍

Thank you so much for these videos! I was raised by an abusive father that raised me like a boy. Due to the trauma it molded me into a masculinah. He never valued me nor my mother which gave me severe insecurities. But now that I’ve been getting closer to God I realized I was raised so wrong Plus I didn’t have a strong confident female in the picture due to my Mom being abused by my dad. I knew I needed to make a change in the way I behaved I’m so happy I came across your channel & that fact you just so happen to be a believer too, that was God🙏💕

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to hear that my love. I pray that the love of Jesus surrounds you and heals all of the wounds inside of you and you can become the woman He created you to be. Much love to you!

@jillgreene9225

2 жыл бұрын

You are the feminine lady you pray, envision & feel deep in your Spirit....WE all have a story however, we are taking Yah's advice given thru Dr.Michelle on how to do & be much BETTER...WE CAN & WE WILL BE BETTER ....Dr Michelle is a blessing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Amen!

I literally felt as if the screen isnt there. As if u are directly talking to me. I am so grateful that I have stumbled upon your channel. You are the big sister I never had. Love you🤗💖

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Aww that is so sweet! I love you too and thank you for being here my dear

Dr. Michelle must have gotten married these past few weeks 😊 there's a change in her name

thank you for being apart of my self healing!

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome my love!

I am 13 years old and watching how to be feminine 🤔 I watched a ton of your videos and noticed that, yes I a bit masculine, not to much but enough to know that I need to change for myself and the Lord. 😊 Also thank you for this video, very informative 👏

@nahambohilma8598

Жыл бұрын

Wow, be blessed young lady ❤❤🥰 l do wish l had this info when I was ur age,but God has still blessed me with youth so l will change in His timing 🙏 ❤

@drecool85

6 ай бұрын

This is so beautiful and adorable and inspiring. . . I hope you are doing well and that I have a daughter with the same spirit as you !

How encouraging it is to place our confidence in God and to rest more in our femininity! When we trust in Him we are free to be in peace rather than to argue or demand. We are free to wait for His provision rather than seeking provision from a man who is not pursuing our best interest. Thanks for this reminder Dr. Michelle.

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Beautifully said my dear!!

@TracyTranquility

Жыл бұрын

Beautifully stated Sis

I swear when I need a therapist I can always click on your channel & the fact that you express your Christian roots helps even more!

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

Yup!! so true. Therapy has helped me through the tough of dah tough. Michelle's voice and spirit calms the mind and soul

Having confidence in God was right on time ! Thank you Dr.Michelle ❤️

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome baby

I love when u involve god. I am not a christian but I have my own belief in accordance to my own religion. And i love this. ❤

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetheart. Blessings and love to you

so glad to see all of my feminine girls who also love Christ

I have fallen in love with your channel. Incorporating Christ in your overall message and not centering personal feminine growth entirely on getting material things is integral. Your message puts all of the important aspects of living a Christian, productive, and feminine life into a beautiful pink floral scented envelope and delivers it in a well spoken and graceful tone. Well done. SUBSCRIBED ❤️

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Wow what a sweet comment, thank you love!

Every time I watch Dr. Michelle's videos, I can feel the warmth and love through the screen. 😌💞💞

I never considered that self confidence and self esteem were not 100% correlated. But now that I think about it makes sense. I used to struggle with confidence, but didn’t struggle as much with self-esteem.

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Yes my dear, most people think they are the same thing and it's good for you to know the difference. I am happy that you no longer struggle

@myhairdays9783

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

Yay!!! You are my favorite doctor in the whole world!!

@cynthia4338

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 😍💯

I don't know how many times I kept same hairstyle because I got complimented on it, even though I personally don't like it anymore and I wanted to change my hair . Wow this video got me

@TracyTranquility

Жыл бұрын

Yes be free Sis!

I kept this in my watch list for days. Prayed for confidence this morning and then I watch this - God gives us exactly what we need

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

He sure does! He is always on time. Much love to you!

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

You can do it Duval. It took me years and years. I started just writing positive notes to my self and seeing my self in that happy place and saying words to my self. I also said "I love you. Look at me I. Love. You. Your are the mother of all parts of you. How can I not love you for giving me life." Sounds intense I know but I have survived some heavy stuff. Took small steps but I believe you can do it. What we hold in our minds - show up in our lives. Blessings and light to you

Omg you are unbelievably adorable! I’m a make up girl so I don’t shade it ever but you are such a cutey barefaced! You look like you pick flowers and bake cookies! Precious 💕

It always feels good to see a video from you, God blessed me with your channel in 2020. Thank you for being a blessing.

I had my headphones on so loud when you clinked the candle and spray together. That clink pierced my soul. 😂

@tamaraglenn1574

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Oh nooooo so sorry!!!!!

3 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf 😂 it’s ok! I just had you on speaker the rest of the video! ☺️ I’m loving your content. I would love to see what you eat in a week. I’m trying to find more healthy meal options. Just a thought.

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaaa mine too 💞

Learning not to care so much about what others think of me has helped enhance my confidence.

I'm not one to comment on KZread frequently but I wanted to express my gratitude. I value how you have given us this valuable information free of charge. Especially when other femininity gurus are charging hundreds which I as a college student and others during these covid-19 times cannot afford. I appreciate your ministry and the presence of the Holy Spirit of your videos. You are encouraging us to change our lives and our relationships with God. Thank you so much!

Beautiful message, as always. Thank You for adding the last part about relying on the Lord, and seeing ourselves as His precious daughters. We need to respect ourselves in order to become the feminine women He created us to be! 🌺

Omg you have freckles! Your are so gorgeous without makeup too!

Can you please tell us about books we can read about these topics and even more. I love to read and I would love to know your book clubhouse or recommendations

@nnlzikhali5700

3 жыл бұрын

Co-ask!

@nakangujuliet2150

3 жыл бұрын

Read the art of seduction♥️♥️

@Melonmilk

3 жыл бұрын

I second this ! We need a feminine book club

@Lifestarring_me

3 жыл бұрын

@@Melonmilk I agree!

@goldenrule4193

3 жыл бұрын

Anything by David Deida is talking about the masculine/feminine essences and how they relate to each other. Highly recommend.

I am doing some research and re-watching your videos because I am transitioning into a Style and Femininity coach and this video blessed me so much especially when you were talking about the confidence of God and not having to put yourself into stressful situations because He's already planted fruit inside of you was the confirmation I needed!

Every time I watch your videos, I sit a little taller and I’m more aware of everything I’m doing. THANK YOU

I’m so glad you mentioned spending 2 hrs with God daily ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ love to hear that because that’s the most important thing yet overlooked by many. I haven’t heard KZreadr mentioning this kinds of things. I really appreciate you for boldly mentioning this!!! So proud of you please keep doing it. I love listening to your videos because there are life changing!!! Please keep doing it!!! Love you your sister in Christ ♥️♥️🔥🔥

The exercise and nutrition part is SOOOO important. I love feeling confident when I eat well. This video is one of the best ones I've seen. You've reiterated the things that impact out confidence. God doesn't make mistakes. Embracing who we are and being confident in God is what actually makes us confident because He never changes. There's a saying: "believe in yourself" and this is so misleading because like you said we are hard on ourselves. This is spot on

I need this so much! I’ve been praying because I have been feeling so lost. I compromised myself and did something i wasn’t proud of but with this message I stopped it. Thank you

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

I am so thankful to hear that love. Keep seeking God and He will be there for you whenever you need Him. He loves you.

@cbanda3815

3 жыл бұрын

I wish you great strength in what you’re going through. My boyfriend is battling the same demon.. it’s been trying for both of us

Watching your videos really helps my mental-spiritual state and growth. I appreciate your work. God bless you my dear sister in Christ. ❤

I love your channel!! I love that you discussed having confidence in Jesus, its so important

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your love!

Just to say about her highlight, it is GORGEOUS

I thank for having come across your channel, I make time to listen to your podcast atleast twice a week and I'm growing! Thank you for your work, you are indeed God sent. And about this video, I really needed to hear this in order to grow in my career.

I always like the video before I even watch it because I already know I’m going to take something from it. You always drop gems; so thankful for your channel

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

That is super sweet, thank you love!

@jillgreene9225

2 жыл бұрын

So TRUE , I LIKE N SAVE 4 future sharing & listening 2 or 3 more times🙌🏽

Empowered Women, Empower Women.

God!!!;I love this girl!!! She is close to perfect!!

@jesusislord1john196

3 жыл бұрын

Hola. Remember Exodus 20:7, and God bless you!

Thank you for this! 😍 I’m on the way to my own self-discovery and I’m super excited to bring out my own potential. I think this is what I needed to watch. I haven’t finished watching the video but I feel like it’s going to truly empower me! 😍🥰🦋

This video was perfectly timed, and so good for the soul. I've been operating in survival mode for about the past year, and have been running on masculine energy. I'm not happy at all. I've been putting my confidence in everyone and everything but God. Thank you for always hitting home with your messages. 💕 Also, your are so right about gaining information from others that are not like us. I am so thankful for KZread, as it gives me the ability to listen to and learn from men and women all over the world, from all walks of life.

U are gods child very educational and much need messages in my life

You just set me free with this! Thank you🤗

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! Glory be to God!! You are so welcome love

@RebelforaSpell

3 жыл бұрын

💚💚Hahahaaa Me too. I feel like I can do anything. Step by Step. You can all FLY

Thank you for your beautiful presence on KZread...your content has helped me in the way I carry myself and embracing my womanhood 🌹

I had a strong relationship with God. When I didn't care what I could get but being a friend of God. However there were certain things that happened and I prayed with faith. I just didn't see the answers to these prayers. I wasn't asking for trinkets or luxury. I felt so disappointed. And began to wonder if prayer was even needful because of these series of things including my nephew's death. I have been doing things "in my own power" since then. I just convinced myself that atheists do this all the time and unlike myself, they weren't getting their hearts crushed from unanswered prayers. Then someone comes along & shares how amazing God has been to them and I'm wondering what is wrong on my end?? I have tried but I don't think I can fully let go of my conviction that God is truly out there. You give me hope to try God again

@melaniemcgee6272

3 жыл бұрын

That was so beautiful.

@babyangelic

3 жыл бұрын

Faith becomes the most freeing choice at a point. I was 21 when I lost both my parents and an engagement. I was crushed and lost, I understand why you doubted everything, for I did too. However, I learnt that choosing Faith released my heart of so much pain and anxiety. This is what faith means, is to stick to it, even without proof for a while. There are not losses, only Divine redirections. I'm 23 now and I'm the strongest I've even been, and loving God in the most sincere way. Keep speaking to Him, He has you.

@hummingbird4335

3 жыл бұрын

@@melaniemcgee6272 Thank you

@hummingbird4335

3 жыл бұрын

@@babyangelic I teared up reading your reply. God bless you and thank you.

I really appreciate your channel! I’m so glad my friend sent me one of your video. Now I’ve been watching your content since#Godconfidence

Thank you 😊 I’ve been binge watching your videos all weekend

Personal excellence stood out to me. There is truly something uplifting about knowing you honestly did your best.

The Queen is back !!

I found you by searching for "becoming more feminine" and I WISH I would have found you sooner!!! I LOVE your videos! 💜 thank you so much for sharing! God bless you!

You are a breath of fresh air!!!! 💕

Thank you so much. I needed this.

I swear you are a blessing!

Great analogy about the different sprays

This is so uplifting! Thank you for this soul boost.

LOVE this channel Dr. Michelle 💗💗💗

Thank you so much Michelle for this video. It really spoke to me. ♥️

It’s 2am on this side of the world, I’ve just found your channel and have been binge watching your videos! Your channel is an answer to prayers for me 😭🙏🏾❤️ God bless you! xo

Great video!! Thanks for sharing your wonderful insight! In addition to continue the metaphor a woman could also be a reed diffuser which is totally independent and smells lovely without any day-to-day maintenance once it’s set up.. lol

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh perfect! I love it! Thank you for sharing love!

Thank you so much Dr Michelle for this! You truly are an angel ♡

Your video has always been a blessing to me. Thank you

I loved your metaphor on perfumes 🤗❤️

So excited for this video. Was praying about becoming more confident :) Thank you dr michelle

Amen! Thank you for this wisdom and instructions.

I’m so grateful for you and your videos, thank you for the great content!!!

it's so easy to forget my FAVORITE tip you gave about being a woman which is personal excellence! thank you for reminding me to keep that godly mindset :)

I love you!! God bless and tysm for these videos Queen💝

Ohhhh wow I love your analogies💜so beautifully and well said thank you

Thank you so much for this video. I,m so happy that I’ve found your channel

Amazing video,thank you Dr.Michelle!

I’m so thankful that o discovered your channel. I needed this! Working on being softer and more feminine. Also how I allow others to interact with me! Please keep this amazing content coming. Love the analogy too between candles/ room sprays and etc.

Thank you for this beautiful reminders Michelle x

I'm so grateful for this channel. Thank you sis.

Truly appreciated this. Do everything with excellence

GOD! GIVES! YOU! EVERYTHING! YOU! NEED! AMEN!!!!!!!! :-)

You touched on so many things, this video was excellent. Thanks doll.👸🏽

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, I happy it was helpful. Thank you for watching love

I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for all the love and guidance💕💕

You are an amazing speaker!! So beautifully said... thank you for sharing this content!

Omg I am always anticipating your videos popping up in my timeline. I swear it makes my whole day! Keep doin great things Dr. Michelle. We appreciate you!

This video blessed me tremendously! I’m so glad I found your channel 🧡

Amen Sister! Thank you so much for this. You are so right about the ballet I took it when I was a child and I have good posture to this day.

Your channel has been one of the best things that I have found. I am ready for the journey ahead! Thank you for the wonderful content

I love your videos so much! Your channel and ideas are so unique! 🥰

Thank you so much for your genuine words. Thank you for being so real and relatable. ❤️

I love this channel, I watch your videos and when I can’t I listen to your podcast. You’re honestly goals !!

I grew up with my dad so I’m not the most feminine but thank you for this series because you are really teaching me how to be a feminine woman

Thank you for another wonderful video! I really enjoy the idea of doing things right and not cutting corners. I used to be so fast paced and always rushing and doing things quickly, but now I realize it is more feminine and much better to be deliberate, take your time and do it well!

@drmichelledaf

3 жыл бұрын

Yes my dear. It is so good that you've slowed down. Much love to you

@LevelUpYourLife

3 жыл бұрын

@@drmichelledaf

I just started listening to your podcast and watching your KZread videos for about 6ms now. I just want to say thank you. Thank you for your sweet spirit, for teaching me how to be a gentle, confident, and feminine Godly woman. Your information is so helpful and I am grateful.

Thank you for this video!! I struggle in having confidence in myself. But listening to your videos, taking notes, and praying really helps!!! Thank you for all you do!!

I love these videos. We get so caught up in life and forget to take care of us 💜

Thank you for being used by God ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼 will one day proudly say you lead me to femininity in a Godly way ❤️