How to Ask Your Boss for Something and Get a Resounding YES - 3 Step Framework

In this video you'll learn how to ask your boss for a raise, time off, work from home privileges, visa sponsorship, or anything else MAJOR that you need their support on.
This video will give you the framework on how to do this, followed by 2 real life examples. Because, let's face it, many of us could be doing this better. We are taught to view these asks and negotiations as a time to stick up for what we need and deserve, that we often forget about taking advantage of this moment to build a great relationship and find the win-win in your ask.
If you follow this framework your boss will be enthusiastic about granting your request instead of feeling like they are giving up something for you.
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  • @SelfMadeMillennial
    @SelfMadeMillennial4 жыл бұрын

    FREE DOWNLOAD: Get the “Put the Promotion in Motion” 6-page guide to put you on the path to earn a raise or promotion at your next job. Find it here: madelinemann.ck.page/0d6e7d1288

  • @ashleyrose5170
    @ashleyrose51703 жыл бұрын

    I havnt had a boss that’s been about mentoring in a really long time. Just kinda have to deal with people playing hot potato and making sure you have proof you’ve done your part so no one can put any blame on you.

  • @BrookeMotis
    @BrookeMotis Жыл бұрын

    This was a super positive way to Approach this. Found this very helpful and less overwhelming like most content out there on the topic. Thanks you!!!

  • @killianmerdrignac2077
    @killianmerdrignac20772 жыл бұрын

    Great advices, thank you!

  • @kumarwaghani5479
    @kumarwaghani54796 жыл бұрын

    I can see the effort in these videos therefore I subscribed to you. I hope your channel grows, it is very useful. Lol hope you remember your initial subscribers once you become famous

  • @SelfMadeMillennial

    @SelfMadeMillennial

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kumar, it's people like you that make me excited to post these videos, your support is so appreciated! Thanks for watching and subscribing :D

  • @kumarwaghani5479

    @kumarwaghani5479

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SelfMadeMillennial oh this is the comment I was talking about! You rock, Madelyn!

  • @parklife101
    @parklife101 Жыл бұрын

    This was super helpful!

  • @diannervlog7109
    @diannervlog71096 жыл бұрын

    i hope ur channel grows to a million, You. kinda enlightened me

  • @SelfMadeMillennial

    @SelfMadeMillennial

    6 жыл бұрын

    I hope it does too! Your support helps, thank you!

  • @diannervlog7109

    @diannervlog7109

    6 жыл бұрын

    @@SelfMadeMillennial nice ur replying to messages... thanks

  • @diannervlog7109

    @diannervlog7109

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SelfMadeMillennial Thank you for responding to my message. This means a lot to me.

  • @linaaouidi5854
    @linaaouidi58545 жыл бұрын

    Your advices are awesome 🥰

  • @SelfMadeMillennial

    @SelfMadeMillennial

    5 жыл бұрын

    😄😄

  • @wasnae8675
    @wasnae86752 жыл бұрын

    I am a teacher, and I want the school's headmaster to change my timetable..I don't know how to do it.

  • @kyleighsmith6081
    @kyleighsmith60816 жыл бұрын

    These videos are awesome. I wish I would have watched this before having some difficult conversations with my boss. Definitely subscribing so I don't miss out on more. Thank you!

  • @SelfMadeMillennial

    @SelfMadeMillennial

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching Kyleigh!

  • @blondieloxblondielox386
    @blondieloxblondielox3863 жыл бұрын

    Been there 5 yrs boss can i have a vaccation in jan no march no april????

  • @dreenaweena3938
    @dreenaweena39385 жыл бұрын

    So I just started this chill job where I help out taking care of dogs since it’s a dog daycare place. I started about 2 weeks ago and in 2 weeks my parents are playing for my 21st on the 10 of August and. I want the 10th - 11th off bc you know I’m turning 21 how exciting! My actually bday is on the 8th but I don’t mind working on my bday bc the big day is on the 10th. How would I ask for the day off in this situation. I just know it’s too early to ask but then again cmon now 😔

  • @SelfMadeMillennial

    @SelfMadeMillennial

    5 жыл бұрын

    Adreena Rodriguez happy early birthday! I would ask as soon as possible, giving more notice increases the odds they will say yes. Also explain it the way you explained it to me, that you understand it’s a big ask so soon, but that it’s quality time with your parents. Stay humble and I think you have a good chance at them saying yes.

  • @thisismycurrentusername
    @thisismycurrentusername3 жыл бұрын

    I'm planning on asking my boss for a full-time position when I'm currently part time.. I'm so nervous 🙃

  • @Jenifah2007

    @Jenifah2007

    2 ай бұрын

    How'd it go?

  • @thisismycurrentusername

    @thisismycurrentusername

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Jenifah2007 I got it! And then another promotion shortly after.

  • @vt4316
    @vt43164 жыл бұрын

    This is terrible in terms of a sales scripting of reasons. I need a handbook to regurgitate what to say. This is all mindset and no sales! What if your boss doesn't care about you and hands your co-workers time off. Then you are scooted. Sales techniques for stuff like this. Open, transition, close! What if you are a newbie looking to use the boss. Since the boss grinds you.

  • @bhaiyyu
    @bhaiyyu4 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are very useful and well made. I have a question about asking for a promotion. I have performed beyond expectations in my current job ( that I got because of your banf binder strategy) but I don’t know 1) if I should ask for one at all after one year. 2) what’s the right way to ask? Will it be taken as me being “too ambitious” if I ask?

  • @SelfMadeMillennial

    @SelfMadeMillennial

    4 жыл бұрын

    Given that you have performed beyond, I would say yes, have the conversation. I also have a way for you to plant the seed in their mind / get them committed to a promotion later down the line if they don’t give it to you now. 2 videos: First, is straight up how to ask for a raise/promotion: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qoJ32KSyg9C5oLg.html Second, is how to get them committed to giving you a promotion in the future: kzread.info/dash/bejne/q352w9NshrKohps.html

  • @bhaiyyu

    @bhaiyyu

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SelfMadeMillennial Thanks!

  • @aminrastgar
    @aminrastgar4 жыл бұрын

    It would make it sound more effective if you put names on the people involving in the examples, thanks

  • @freelancedentist9480
    @freelancedentist94802 жыл бұрын

    Women truly are master manipulators thank you for your knowledge of the dark arts

  • @FTjuni0r
    @FTjuni0r4 жыл бұрын

    As a female: low cut tshirt, as a male: fight ww4 make a million dollars for your boss, bring the president some cake cause ur boss baked it, then u can have a day off