How To 69

Ahhhh the infamous 69 - it has its haters and it has its fans, but this video is for those who want to give it another shot or try it for the first time! We’re giving six amazing tips for having a mind blowing 69 session.
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  • @akadirnilavane2861
    @akadirnilavane2861 Жыл бұрын

    Super explanation!

  • @myopiniongoodyouropinionbad
    @myopiniongoodyouropinionbad4 ай бұрын

    I love it, only thing I don't like is that her mouth is inverted and her tounge isn't hitting the same spots. Still great tho

  • @stephenfoxall9655
    @stephenfoxall9655Ай бұрын

    Agree with everything including that taking it in turns to pause so other person who is receiving can give receipt total concentration.. part of session preferred with addition of rimming to boy to girl good.

  • @maryhightower4842
    @maryhightower4842 Жыл бұрын

    One of our faves

  • @timledbetter3262
    @timledbetter3262 Жыл бұрын

    Yes I've done it MANY times

  • @Kahawai68
    @Kahawai68 Жыл бұрын

    One of our favourite things. Absolutely love it.

  • @geno5169

    @geno5169

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re so lucky

  • @samwalker3441

    @samwalker3441

    5 ай бұрын

    Yep. Me too.

  • @sylivacolburn8292

    @sylivacolburn8292

    2 күн бұрын

    You can say say that again ha no problem I am ready anytime 😅😅❤❤

  • @BradGoodridge
    @BradGoodridge Жыл бұрын

    Love it, need more!!

  • @HilaryHilaryTalom

    @HilaryHilaryTalom

    4 ай бұрын

    Gi❤

  • @sylivacolburn8292

    @sylivacolburn8292

    2 күн бұрын

    I am ready now and I love it ❤❤😅

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 Жыл бұрын

    Do you have any advice on a husband could try again with his wife or get his wife trying to please him again??

  • @kananababbana4024
    @kananababbana40243 ай бұрын

    Love it😊

  • @Turtleman2-m2b
    @Turtleman2-m2b Жыл бұрын

    I love it to pieces! Unfortunately, my late wife who passed away from lung cancer, never did like it. I won't love to find a good woman who loves it! I jave benn without for a few years! I keep hoping i will find a good woman!

  • @user-do8pb2ww2q
    @user-do8pb2ww2q5 ай бұрын

    69 is amazing!! Just not as easy as you get older

  • @marilynlandis5058
    @marilynlandis5058 Жыл бұрын

    69 years old!!!

  • @HA-fc9bb
    @HA-fc9bb6 ай бұрын

    YES.....YES........YES

  • @HA-fc9bb
    @HA-fc9bb6 ай бұрын

    THE BEST......beautiful and fun for both......Wife loves this every time

  • @jn7420
    @jn7420 Жыл бұрын

    Healthy man here. Love being on the bottom, enjoy the wonderful view!! Girls look great in any and all positions !!

  • @chas4x4
    @chas4x4 Жыл бұрын

    I love it she doesn't

  • @james-jg8iu

    @james-jg8iu

    4 ай бұрын

    Your not doing it right

  • @armandob5227
    @armandob5227 Жыл бұрын

    I have in my way younger years.

  • @andrescerda4730
    @andrescerda4730 Жыл бұрын

    When me and my B-M did it we talking about we loved it and we did it for 29 minutes you know who I’m talking about Beautiful!💎

  • @Rawnervzz

    @Rawnervzz

    Жыл бұрын

    thats an ideal time imo i dont understand the confusion once your there something takes over

  • @the-fantabulous-g

    @the-fantabulous-g

    9 ай бұрын

    Shoulda done it for 69 minutes ohhhhhhh Yeah I’ll see myself out

  • @robertmcmillan5640

    @robertmcmillan5640

    5 ай бұрын

    no need to be watching the stop watch . You write 29 minutes like it's a stop watch in your head . just enjoy and forget what time it is to reach orgasm .

  • @chas4x4
    @chas4x4 Жыл бұрын

    yup

  • @neilbeech4093
    @neilbeech4093 Жыл бұрын

    I have never done it, heard of it and that's it

  • @sachinrv1
    @sachinrv14 ай бұрын

    My most fav

  • @shanbeck74
    @shanbeck74 Жыл бұрын

    69 one of my boyfriend and I's favorites though we don't do it every time so it doesn't get to be routine or boring.

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    I Am Interested

  • @georgechalmers8614

    @georgechalmers8614

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ericfreshcorn3590 ayoooooo

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    @@georgechalmers8614 Now I Need A Woman Open And Single

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    @Nicholas TV what are you doing

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    @Nicholas TV Too Much Info There dude

  • @sreejamokthala45
    @sreejamokthala45 Жыл бұрын

    Really a good tips

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!

  • @takeflypics
    @takeflypics Жыл бұрын

    69! Love it! I just love to give way more than I receive, but I def wont say no!! LOL

  • @billygraham9267
    @billygraham9267 Жыл бұрын

    Two attractive people here.

  • @francisbradley1027
    @francisbradley10274 ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @XPac-lj7jk
    @XPac-lj7jk Жыл бұрын

    Great video! Could you use the raincoats in another video? Maybe how to get your partner wet or something?

  • @sadiesmith2590

    @sadiesmith2590

    Жыл бұрын

    WtF to Xpac 4275

  • @sambathchan8830
    @sambathchan88303 ай бұрын

    I love it so enjoyable

  • @chiranjeevgogoi671
    @chiranjeevgogoi671 Жыл бұрын

    ME AS A TEEN WHO DOESN'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT 69 CAME HERE CAUSE OF JENNA ORTEGA VIDS😂

  • @ashaamoli4513

    @ashaamoli4513

    4 ай бұрын

    😱😱😱😱 what a coincidence same

  • @johnizitchiforalongtime
    @johnizitchiforalongtime Жыл бұрын

    Yes, my wife and I do it rather regularly.

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    Would you share her ? are you from ohio

  • @johnizitchiforalongtime

    @johnizitchiforalongtime

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ericfreshcorn3590 NO, get your own wife.

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    @@johnizitchiforalongtime Okay i Had Husbands share there wives with me before Sorry to Bother you

  • @johnizitchiforalongtime

    @johnizitchiforalongtime

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ericfreshcorn3590 This my second marriage, plan to keep her for a long time, were in our 70's

  • @ericfreshcorn3590

    @ericfreshcorn3590

    Жыл бұрын

    @@johnizitchiforalongtime Okay Thanks John Sorry i asked

  • @hamidrezakhodarahmi1719
    @hamidrezakhodarahmi1719 Жыл бұрын

    I wished you could illustrate this in detail

  • @temilolaakinrinlola2535
    @temilolaakinrinlola25355 ай бұрын

    Let see the practical styles

  • @ChrisVail-di5mw
    @ChrisVail-di5mw2 ай бұрын

    so that's how to do it. Damn, I only got as far as sixty-eight and a half.

  • @kencrittenden29
    @kencrittenden29 Жыл бұрын

    My favorite number Lol

  • @capayton8624
    @capayton8624 Жыл бұрын

    69 is a very good year 😉

  • @treehann
    @treehann Жыл бұрын

    69 but it’s only good if people wash up first down there and everywhere

  • @jefferyking8132

    @jefferyking8132

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree, as a man my nose get right up in my wife’s rear. Oral is always more enjoyable when all involved get washed up.

  • @dorothymcallister6354

    @dorothymcallister6354

    Жыл бұрын

    One should wash up before any kind of sex... Keep it clean 🫧

  • @tomfazio2965

    @tomfazio2965

    10 ай бұрын

    Or you will taste yesterday enchilada and fried beans

  • @ronaldyardley8965

    @ronaldyardley8965

    7 ай бұрын

    @@dorothymcallister6354 of course, goes without saying!!..

  • @janetstory594
    @janetstory594 Жыл бұрын

    Just saw a video today that said people are contacting throat cancer from oral sex, due to papilloma virus. 😢

  • @jameslester5048

    @jameslester5048

    Жыл бұрын

    i'll take my chances

  • @ewoutvan-manen3583
    @ewoutvan-manen3583 Жыл бұрын

    69. My favourite

  • @kristinheim3006
    @kristinheim3006 Жыл бұрын

    ♋️

  • @GracieB-zc8cq
    @GracieB-zc8cq Жыл бұрын

    Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me

  • @keithbutler9067
    @keithbutler9067 Жыл бұрын

    69 Absolutely love it too bad it's not as popular as it should be

  • @fitroytoby1187

    @fitroytoby1187

    Жыл бұрын

    🎉 up by By❤

  • @rebeccacarreiro7631
    @rebeccacarreiro7631 Жыл бұрын

    That is good for people who are younger if your both olddd no wayyy your bones will crack lol

  • @sharjeelmoon2998

    @sharjeelmoon2998

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol🤣

  • @jameslester5048

    @jameslester5048

    Жыл бұрын

    77 yo male/75 yo female.........yes it is a little more difficult but just as fun as it was 50 years ago.

  • @NN-sj9fg
    @NN-sj9fg6 ай бұрын

    69 - personally side-by-side is more comfortable.

  • @onewaytoplay
    @onewaytoplay Жыл бұрын

    I prefer 96. That’s 69 with man on top. I can get in a few sets of push-ups at the same time

  • @LisaBenjamin-jt4mq

    @LisaBenjamin-jt4mq

    2 ай бұрын

    Had that with my ex husband. NEVER again. Nearly suffocated and choked, and ended up having excruciating panic attacks when he totally ignored my panicked efforts to buck him off in order to be able to get air as well as to not choke. I'm never subjecting myself to THAT level of vulnerability again, even if my partner is actually in tune and loving. That was straight up traumatic.

  • @kelleysweat8099
    @kelleysweat809911 ай бұрын

    I have...

  • @PrezCamacho
    @PrezCamacho Жыл бұрын

    I like to 68......then owe one later.

  • @Teramydog
    @Teramydog Жыл бұрын

    69 4 ever

  • @panliu7310
    @panliu7310 Жыл бұрын

    why 69?

  • @markterrance6676
    @markterrance6676 Жыл бұрын

    Once I got married 69 went out the window

  • @Turtleman2-m2b

    @Turtleman2-m2b

    Жыл бұрын

    That's sad!!

  • @user-io8nv4hm5b

    @user-io8nv4hm5b

    Жыл бұрын

    Wife and I 69 everyday because we love giving each other pleasure Very intense. Alan sharkb8

  • @ronaldyardley8965

    @ronaldyardley8965

    7 ай бұрын

    Married Life!!..

  • @jaapongeveer6203
    @jaapongeveer62033 ай бұрын

    Side to side is best. It allows the woman to open here legs more for greater access.

  • @robdittes5228
    @robdittes5228 Жыл бұрын

    69 absolutely 💯

  • @gwsomaha9983
    @gwsomaha9983 Жыл бұрын

    I prefer 77, you get ate (8) more.

  • @ronmcgiffin6686
    @ronmcgiffin6686 Жыл бұрын

    its the best

  • @bwashburnff
    @bwashburnff Жыл бұрын

    69!

  • @KariN-or3sc
    @KariN-or3sc Жыл бұрын

    69 most awkward thing EVER

  • @BBD40

    @BBD40

    6 ай бұрын

    Awkward? no it’s great, it’s fun

  • @koombaloomba
    @koombaloomba Жыл бұрын

    Club of 69

  • @lauraz2896
    @lauraz2896 Жыл бұрын

    I’m too clumsy 😂

  • @ElizabethFinck

    @ElizabethFinck

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @paulliles7971
    @paulliles7971 Жыл бұрын

    A bit, she not like

  • @mrswinner44
    @mrswinner44 Жыл бұрын

    69 new to it

  • @user-tn4jc8ng4d
    @user-tn4jc8ng4d Жыл бұрын

    UHHHHHHHHHHHH DADDY

  • @CapsuleClubssss
    @CapsuleClubssss Жыл бұрын

    ♋ means cancer

  • @grantsmith4548
    @grantsmith4548 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @TheDekysar
    @TheDekysar Жыл бұрын

    69💥

  • @brattanybs
    @brattanybs Жыл бұрын

    69…meh

  • @RevivedAscendmp.4
    @RevivedAscendmp.4 Жыл бұрын

    Wow🥒🥒🤑👶🏻🤙🥰🥰🥰

  • @jeromebukam1235
    @jeromebukam1235Ай бұрын

    Club 69

  • @stephen1464
    @stephen1464 Жыл бұрын

    Wife loves it as long as she is on top, no problem with me!!

  • @prathikshetty1952
    @prathikshetty1952 Жыл бұрын

    Takashi 69🤣

  • @guntherpetutschnig2705
    @guntherpetutschnig27053 ай бұрын

    Sexposition69 its great

  • @madelinegreenler7100
    @madelinegreenler7100 Жыл бұрын

    69!

  • @tammyl.swanson7764
    @tammyl.swanson7764 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @maggieclowrey8812
    @maggieclowrey8812 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @robkirk6623
    @robkirk6623 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @mteegarden
    @mteegarden Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @mattbodewitz251
    @mattbodewitz251 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @maryhightower4842
    @maryhightower4842 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @gregoryfisher6156
    @gregoryfisher6156 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @caseygunning3249
    @caseygunning3249 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @sanderstar1000
    @sanderstar1000 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @natassiavillella9666
    @natassiavillella9666 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @spaskanatov1446

    @spaskanatov1446

    Жыл бұрын

    Браво Natassia 69👏👏👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

  • @billthompson3147
    @billthompson3147 Жыл бұрын

    69

  • @jessicabelliston1573

    @jessicabelliston1573

    Жыл бұрын

    69