How Pros Dominate the Mental Side of Trials | Gaining Confidence

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Name: Matt Sheldon
Age: 28
Height: 6' 0"
Weight: 170 lbs
Nationality: USA
Job: Professional Soccer Player
Current Team: FC Tulsa
Current League: USL Championship (USA 2nd Tier)
Last Team: Tulsa Roughnecks FC
Previous Teams: Waterside Karori FC, Saint Louis FC, Orange County Blues, SG Kinzenbach
Position: RB/LB/RM
College: UC Davis (D1)

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  • @MrIsles192
    @MrIsles1922 жыл бұрын

    Asking about a team mates football boots is a good conversation starter.

  • @anifexsson6780

    @anifexsson6780

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just hit them with the how r ya

  • @farhanshaikhvloins3755

    @farhanshaikhvloins3755

    2 жыл бұрын

    Which intro music is this can u tell the name

  • @kingaufswag

    @kingaufswag

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yo1049 😂😂😂😂

  • @mrghost00000
    @mrghost00000 Жыл бұрын

    Confidence Tips:( in new team) 1. Greet everyone before training 2.stand up straight + eye contact 3. Start a casual conversation in locker room 4.hop straight into pre-training rondo 5.ask to join passing or two touch Before training session. 6. Confidently ask for the ball 7. Repeat same action after a mistake 8. Take feedback with confidence: Look in the eyes and say got it! 9. Dont be the first one off the field. 10. Start up a casual conversation after session. And the most important train more. More than everyone and you will be 100% confident player. Everyday become better than you was yesterday confidence will actualy come

  • @danfearon1343
    @danfearon13432 жыл бұрын

    Matt, another great vid about a subject that is not spoken about enough. My young daughter who has exceptional skill struggles in this subject and we are working on bringing up the confidence quotient so thanks for posting this.

  • @hrishikeshsarma6012
    @hrishikeshsarma60122 жыл бұрын

    CANNOT emphasize enough how true this is. I'm someone that usually doesn't talk much but I'll walk into rondos knowing I got this shit. I got called out by a teammate in training for playing a risky backheel pass in defence. But it worked out. CONFIDENCE. I did the fancy stuff again. I had a good session. No one said a thing after I pulled off risky moves while it worked. They'd play the ball into me even when I demanded it in risky spots. I have the confidence to wriggle out. If I fail? I'll do it again, while obviously being aware and sensible. This is one thing you learn from players like Neymar. They'll lose the ball, come back up like nothing happened, win the game.

  • @LOLBOI-hq5ix

    @LOLBOI-hq5ix

    2 жыл бұрын

    do u play in india? how old r u? ty

  • @hrishikeshsarma6012

    @hrishikeshsarma6012

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@LOLBOI-hq5ix yeah from India, 19 yo

  • @harambey

    @harambey

    2 жыл бұрын

    Soccer is simple, dudes who play scared simply don’t understand the game enough Confidence is the side effect of experience The most confident man in the world won’t be confident in a soccer game cause he doesn’t have experience

  • @hrishikeshsarma6012

    @hrishikeshsarma6012

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@harambey word.

  • @kmud7750
    @kmud77502 жыл бұрын

    Ten minute Tuesday. Great topic and solid points

  • @AthleteExpress1
    @AthleteExpress12 жыл бұрын

    Love this topic, so many players freeze when trialing for big clubs so this info is so valuable 🔥🔥

  • @anifexsson6780
    @anifexsson67802 жыл бұрын

    Everything you said is completely correct. Mentality>Skill

  • @qbraham.
    @qbraham.2 жыл бұрын

    4 minutes in and I’m already motivated to be more confident

  • @thesoccerlifestyle1449
    @thesoccerlifestyle14492 жыл бұрын

    Matt I was at the Lou City vs FC Tulsa game on Saturday. I watched you a lot and I'm looking forward to your highlight tape because I know it was a difficult game for you and your team.

  • @moneyuzigreen6975
    @moneyuzigreen69752 жыл бұрын

    Nice video👍 I’m 14 and my goal is to play professional at the highest level and I’ll definitely take this into action

  • @JasonFam
    @JasonFam2 жыл бұрын

    I literally just started training with my new team in Germany (I’m from the U.S) yesterday. This video couldn’t of come at a better time haha.

  • @efrainautzbach1559
    @efrainautzbach15592 жыл бұрын

    Hey Matt, could you do a 2-min Tuesday on playing for a team with negatives teammates/coaches? How to deal with them? Especially if they are #1 in the state...

  • @ppsaneesh7225
    @ppsaneesh72252 жыл бұрын

    This video was like a doctor solved my old problem in a second .

  • @CalvinFox31

    @CalvinFox31

    2 жыл бұрын

    haha that's awesome

  • @davidhill5988
    @davidhill5988 Жыл бұрын

    My dad always said, you have a free pass to be cocky on the pitch but as soon as you leave the pitch, you leave your cockiness there. He called it a light switch, you switch it on when you're playing and switch it off when you're done. That metaphor always stuck with me

  • @kysemajel2923
    @kysemajel29232 жыл бұрын

    I have a combine at the the end of this month. This helped a lot!!

  • @CalvinFox31

    @CalvinFox31

    2 жыл бұрын

    good luck man wishing you the best!

  • @marquessantiago6932
    @marquessantiago69322 жыл бұрын

    I love these 10 minute Tuesday’s

  • @fnslowed
    @fnslowed2 жыл бұрын

    Bro i have a trial tommorow wish me luck!

  • @ghsapash9302

    @ghsapash9302

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good luck 🤞🙏

  • @qoyummusa2722

    @qoyummusa2722

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good luck man.. have fun

  • @fnslowed

    @fnslowed

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ghsapash9302 thanks man appreciate it❤️

  • @rahulcr7911

    @rahulcr7911

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good luck bro... Where r u frm?

  • @fnslowed

    @fnslowed

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ghsapash9302 thanks!

  • @andreasfootball6285
    @andreasfootball62852 жыл бұрын

    I understand exactly what your saying. I have that problem that when I mess up, I don’t want to make that mistake again so I maybe don’t show for the ball. But instead I should get on with it and try it again to further improve myself. Another great vid!

  • @Domfinity
    @Domfinity2 жыл бұрын

    Needed this vid Matt. Thank you

  • @KevinCabrerafitness
    @KevinCabrerafitness2 жыл бұрын

    Love ya bro! Amazing advice! Thank you so much!

  • @LuisHernandez-fj9ru
    @LuisHernandez-fj9ru2 жыл бұрын

    Very good advice! I appreciate you taking the time out of your busy schedule to do these videos ! 💯🙌🏾

  • @punishernine9147
    @punishernine91472 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matt! Great video!

  • @jeffwongvancouver
    @jeffwongvancouver2 жыл бұрын

    Very good points!

  • @letsplaysoccer1338
    @letsplaysoccer13382 жыл бұрын

    Matt does it once again, great video🔥

  • @mkramos07
    @mkramos072 жыл бұрын

    Another accurate and amazing insight by Matt Sheldon keep on putting out bangers on and off the field mate!

  • @AdroitXO
    @AdroitXO2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video Matt!

  • @afonso4587
    @afonso45872 жыл бұрын

    great video! Really appreciated that!

  • @simongomez6998
    @simongomez69982 жыл бұрын

    You are the best, Matt!

  • @hamad21_.7
    @hamad21_.72 жыл бұрын

    What a great video matt! You really helped me! Best of luck for the rest of the season👊

  • @bakijr11
    @bakijr112 жыл бұрын

    thank u for that vid god bless u matt good luck on ur career

  • @timothyabakani1155
    @timothyabakani11552 жыл бұрын

    Great vid, defo needed this

  • @gustavburke162
    @gustavburke1622 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what I’ve been needing to work on so thank you very much Matt

  • @aaronwang3735
    @aaronwang3735 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Matt great video

  • @kelvinjr3878
    @kelvinjr38782 жыл бұрын

    So true Matt I really needed this

  • @sammountain8760
    @sammountain87602 жыл бұрын

    The mental side is the real area that’s holding back my progress. This video has been huge for me - thank you so much Matt ❤️

  • @dasilvasantos4340
    @dasilvasantos43402 жыл бұрын

    This advices are gold,thanks matt

  • @PaulSmith-pr7pv
    @PaulSmith-pr7pv2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Matt superb video!

  • @divyanbhasin7341
    @divyanbhasin73412 жыл бұрын

    great vid this really helps thanks

  • @soccerskillz7911
    @soccerskillz79112 жыл бұрын

    thanks matt ive been struglling with confidence

  • @sanatanism660
    @sanatanism6602 жыл бұрын

    Wow one of the best videos of matt . must needed as I would be going to the trails of I league in october

  • @hakimi4795
    @hakimi47952 жыл бұрын

    REALLY HELPFUL VIDEO.

  • @michaelarchibong7542
    @michaelarchibong75422 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Matt, going to a new team soon and this is really helpful 🙏🏻

  • @olleegerhag4668
    @olleegerhag46682 жыл бұрын

    This actually helped me so much. Thanks Matt

  • @whygoldberg10
    @whygoldberg102 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matt. I needed this.

  • @ArturoGarcia-py2so
    @ArturoGarcia-py2so2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Matt! I have trials for my high school team this week. I really needed this.

  • @manuelmeza5526
    @manuelmeza55262 жыл бұрын

    This is so good, and what you say applies to other things. Thanks for the upload!

  • @jk10fac42
    @jk10fac422 жыл бұрын

    Great video lots of good tips

  • @tjg119
    @tjg1192 жыл бұрын

    I feel this is one of the most informative and helpful videos I've seen

  • @dvee9119
    @dvee91192 жыл бұрын

    Great video, Matt! Videos about confidence will be so valuable to a lot of players, so please create more! If you could do a video for gaining confidence in a game the way you did for a training would be great :)

  • @elijahpressman5614
    @elijahpressman56142 жыл бұрын

    dude matt, this is the one big thing a struggle with as a high school soccer player. This video helped out a ton thank you.

  • @snowxy1010
    @snowxy1010Ай бұрын

    This really helped thank you

  • @byaruhangabenonbenson5812
    @byaruhangabenonbenson58122 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is some good info Thanks so much 🙏🙏⚽

  • @npawkazekage026
    @npawkazekage0262 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this

  • @yasuotop1348
    @yasuotop13482 жыл бұрын

    Super Helpful thanks!

  • @kaelenmatascastillo3765
    @kaelenmatascastillo37652 жыл бұрын

    Literally first day of college preseason is today and this video was already out and ready. Very helpful in my opinion, even as a goalkeeper, which tends to be a lonely position. Thank you!

  • @elev8te_
    @elev8te_2 жыл бұрын

    Bro amazing video, you just posted this at the right time because I’ve got college trials/pre season training with my college team tomorrow! (It’s not American though so no D1 or D2 or whatever). Thank you so much Matt!😇

  • @oscardodotempleo
    @oscardodotempleo2 жыл бұрын

    I needed this so much 😭 Thanks Matt. Your videos are always helpful 🙏🙌

  • @penultimategaming9722
    @penultimategaming97222 жыл бұрын

    thanks matt u got me through this summer and now ready for day 1 tomorrow goat.

  • @andrewsmith5742
    @andrewsmith57422 жыл бұрын

    Loved the video! I’m always struggling to shrug off and forget about errors I make during games or on the training ground!

  • @jonas9402
    @jonas94022 жыл бұрын

    Thanks matt just watching this video gave me a boost of confidence

  • @Ruben-pb3ro
    @Ruben-pb3ro Жыл бұрын

    Matt, i love your videos, you’re giving me so much more motivation. 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @stevenvian05
    @stevenvian052 жыл бұрын

    Love the video Matt! Thank you :)

  • @jayonekayyy3089
    @jayonekayyy30892 жыл бұрын

    thanks Matt this actually helped my a lot with my confidence and it overall makes me more brave on myself in what I do on and off the field

  • @zaimliu02zaim53
    @zaimliu02zaim532 жыл бұрын

    This is soo inspirational, kinda on a plateau now bc of this confidence issue, great video!! thx Matt

  • @gemma_fitzpatrick27
    @gemma_fitzpatrick272 жыл бұрын

    I can’t tell you how much I needed this 🙏 You should just call it ten minute Tuesday 😂

  • @ohenelord
    @ohenelord Жыл бұрын

    Very helpful thank you.

  • @seasy7
    @seasy72 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Matt this really helped

  • @Brandonsavage25
    @Brandonsavage252 жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @christopherfowler1010
    @christopherfowler10102 жыл бұрын

    Really needed this, Ive had a really rough time with trials and I have been leaving every trial knowing I am better and should have done better and I dont get on the teams ive wanted to and think i deserve to. I totally relate to shying away, I wont call for the ball, and when im on the ball i play too safe. I always try to move on from things in tryouts but its really hard those mistakes really eat at you if you let them, especially for me where i set pretty unrealistic standards for myself. But next trial I will make sure that when I make a mistake to move on like nothing happened and go to the next play.

  • @Soccershotz0_0
    @Soccershotz0_0 Жыл бұрын

    Thankyou this vid helped me alot

  • @li-fongbrandonchen2794
    @li-fongbrandonchen27942 жыл бұрын

    Really need this one. I got a trial in 4 weeks. Thanks, Matt!

  • @BeathaShimplidh
    @BeathaShimplidh2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing Video!

  • @jimmyyancy7982
    @jimmyyancy79822 жыл бұрын

    Imma use these tips Matt. I love the mental game. It’s sooo important, I recommend this to any youngsters!!!

  • @daniellepope6332
    @daniellepope63322 жыл бұрын

    That was the best vid yet keep it up

  • @momoadem
    @momoadem2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot Matt ! From Belgium!

  • @carsonstille3275
    @carsonstille32752 жыл бұрын

    Never have really had a problem playing with new people in tryouts, it’s the first few training sessions with the new team that’s a struggle with me, but this advice is very useful

  • @thomasburke3956
    @thomasburke39562 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful. Thanks Matt. Also, only 6 days till the B'day!

  • @elijahtumuhairwe-embabazi4000
    @elijahtumuhairwe-embabazi40002 жыл бұрын

    It's so cool how these simple steps can lead to so much more confidence in training and on the pitch. I'm new to this channel but am learning so much, so thanks a lot Matt.

  • @wavveyk
    @wavveyk2 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video , helped me a lot and I’m sure many others benefitted as well . Thank you ❤️

  • @xavierulshafer8652
    @xavierulshafer86522 жыл бұрын

    Great video, I’m switching positions for a season and I’m kinda nervous for it. This video should help me.

  • @Patrick-Messi10
    @Patrick-Messi10 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mentor ❤️

  • @lookdbandit
    @lookdbandit2 жыл бұрын

    This video is exactly what I need for my son. You've explained eloquently. Thank you!

  • @SebastianRojas-uu2cp
    @SebastianRojas-uu2cp2 ай бұрын

    this is amazing, really will help me getting more confidence

  • @asante2801
    @asante28012 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏽man…you keep releasing the best content for Footballers…Thank you

  • @Jalen_fut
    @Jalen_fut2 жыл бұрын

    Today is my first day of training for my college team. There’s no coincidence that I stumbled on this video at this exact moment, hours before we get on the pitch. Thank you for a fantastic video. I’m definitely going to be way more confident and try and change my mentality. I’ve always been that kid who “goes back in there shell”, so I’m going to be more outgoing and use different body language to demand the ball. Great video again!

  • @leoredrin392
    @leoredrin3922 жыл бұрын

    This was the best video i've seen in a long while

  • @zainshah5417
    @zainshah54172 жыл бұрын

    This is great advice, thank you.

  • @diadiaa892
    @diadiaa892 Жыл бұрын

    I play netball but all of your videos are applicable in some way! I really appreciate it man!!

  • @handfullofsean
    @handfullofsean2 жыл бұрын

    move on from mistakes, what a simple yet essential piece of advice

  • @dblplayss6166
    @dblplayss61662 жыл бұрын

    Perfect video for my current situation Matt thank you! Currently on trial at a league one club in England and it’s going well, however I’m a very introverted person and not the most confident when it comes to meeting new people but I’m confident in my ability, I will try applying these tips for the coming weeks of my trial and see where it goes👏🏻

  • @johnny8416
    @johnny84162 жыл бұрын

    damn i really needed this sometimes i get to upset during the game but i need to be more positive even if i mess up thanks bro 🙏🏾

  • @oj2701
    @oj27012 жыл бұрын

    Great vid I needed this video because I have a trial today

  • @javigodoy824
    @javigodoy824 Жыл бұрын

    This is actually exactly what i needed for my current situation. common Matt W

  • @seanlee3398
    @seanlee33982 жыл бұрын

    thanks man, appreciate it.. good insight

  • @zacharyzemmels7391
    @zacharyzemmels73912 жыл бұрын

    I have just moved to Spain from the US to play for a 5th division team here. Knowing I can do these things already makes me feel more excited and less nervous for my first training session next week. Thanks as always Matt.

  • @nobodyhere2155
    @nobodyhere21552 жыл бұрын

    Needed this, thanks.

  • @CalvinFox31

    @CalvinFox31

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lets go lets keep grinding !

  • @jdwrld2396
    @jdwrld23962 жыл бұрын

    This gotta be Your best video 💯💯

  • @oliverweng114
    @oliverweng1142 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant video

  • @er1824
    @er18242 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this vid, tomorrow i have a first session with new team

  • @tr1ksh0t14
    @tr1ksh0t142 жыл бұрын

    Thank you SO MUCH for making this. I already feel more confidence after watching this, and now I can't wait to see if I actually succeed with these tips. Confidence is such a HUGE struggle for me. Ill edit this comment to tell you if this worked. (I already know it will)

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