This is the best video I ever made idgaf

@useryt100-v9m

3 ай бұрын

hey man

@cohlly

3 ай бұрын

I think that one movie film u made on the Jack denmo account is the best YOUVE made

@radfoo72

3 ай бұрын

​@@cohllyVideo Title?

@ryanfoltz4878

3 ай бұрын

Jack, I can relate to everything you say so much. You are one of the few KZreadrs who just gets it. Been listening to your content more often and my life is getting so much better.

@AlansAbudantCorner333

3 ай бұрын

I’m grateful this video found me, listening to it while doing homework. It was like the real big brother talk I needed. Thank you for making this video.

I been an overthinker my all life. Its a blessing but yet a curse.

@Yuri-nc9vl

3 ай бұрын

most likely a curse!

@ethanieldude1

3 ай бұрын

Definitely a curse. Wish I could go around on autopilot like so many others and form connections/relationships easier. Some people don't have an internal monologue and my theory is that you develop one due to anxiety lol, mine is very loud

@MrSomeone123

3 ай бұрын

@@Yuri-nc9vl Yeah bro it is.

@MrSomeone123

3 ай бұрын

@ethanieldude1 I can relate man. I never approach a girl in real life my overthiking makes it so worse not only that it drains u so bad, I get sucidle issue to the point where I can't no longer and just rage out and break stuff. It's more like a curse but jezz man is there anything we could do about this?

@Yuri-nc9vl

3 ай бұрын

@@ethanieldude1 mine too, but I have adhd and some times I have manic episodes....so it's a possibility I'm bipolar and thanks to that I couldnt do something for long periods of time like keeping a routine...I got alot of healthy issues because of that and missed golden opportunites to make big money, ohh and I forget dyslexia which makes me sound like an analfabet....and yes I complain alot, I became quite desperate about my situation

This man is like that one uncle who literally drops the greatest piece of advice you'vd ever heard and plays it off like it's no big thing.

@Denmosocial

3 ай бұрын

I hope it feels that way. When I listened to it a second time before thinking I was blown away ngl

I spent an evening on the streets at the age of 17. With pandemic and family issues, I couldn't take it anymore. My brain cells were fried up beyond repair, so I thought. What do you then? You do what every teen would've done: Run away from home. Three times I did it, all three attempts failed. Yet, it taught me something many of my friends are still to learn: People do things only if it's beneficial for them. A sad truth, especially given my religious upbringing and "loving thy neighbour as thyself". "The world had changed", I told myself. I was wrong: The world hadn't changed, it just showed its true form. Those events led to my sinking into the hopeless pit of cynicism. Years later, I still thank God for the experience. Strength comes through pain: The more you suffer, the more you learn to harness you will. You finally learn what "think before you speak" really means. The issue then becomes thinking about your thoughts and how and why they occur. I guess I'll just have to carry on, still searching for the final piece of the puzzle.

@inker1972

13 күн бұрын

Plandemic

@kugelblitz81

8 күн бұрын

Well, you are what you overcome, that and God works everything for the good of those that love him

"DO NOT LET YOUR LIFE BE RUINED BECAUSE OF YOUR OVERTHINKING." Much needed words for someone who suffers from anxiety. You're a total inspiration.

@Denmosocial

3 ай бұрын

boom

"If you have a dream do not care what anyone thinks about you, why would you live your life based on what a mortal man thinks about you. This is your life this is your world make the best of it" - Alex Eubank

@charlieserling5893

3 ай бұрын

Nah

@DanielRodriguez-cr8ns

2 ай бұрын

why nah? ​@@charlieserling5893

"Lean into what makes you different". Very nice.

@Denmosocial

3 ай бұрын

facts

I resonate with this a lot. All my life I have overthought everything. Now, it’s even more apparent with dealing with girls. I’m in my early 20s and have no experience of any sorts (physical, emotional, etc) with girls. When I see my peers around me getting with girls, I begin panicking for myself because if this hasn’t happened to me yet, will it ever? Idk man it’s gotten so bad that that’s all I can think about throughout the entire day, because to me that’s my biggest issue. My mind always goes fucking blank when I try to even talk to a girl, I start overthinking in my mind for what to say and do. Like at what point is it good to break the touch barrier, what should I say to get her to come back, etc. It’s tough out here

@CALL_AND_BARGINS

3 ай бұрын

DON’T DO nothing, DO less.

@the_boss2194

3 ай бұрын

@@CALL_AND_BARGINS what’s that supposed to mean

@Solid_Snack

3 ай бұрын

Be content with yourself. Dont think that you need a girl to make you whole or she needs you to make her whole. Be joyful and think that you will dominate and make happy moments regardless if she likes you or not.

@the_boss2194

3 ай бұрын

@@Solid_Snack I’ve been told that a lot but honestly it’s not working. I’m doing well in every other aspect of my life EXCEPT with girls. I’m confident in that if I’m able to go the whole way with just one girl, my life will be complete and then I’ll truly be confident in myself because this is the literal one thing holding me back. Like how tf am I supposed to feel confident and good about myself if I literally cannot get any girls???

@Aphrynx

3 ай бұрын

@@Solid_SnackI think that people are actually just super closed off now days. Like he said in the video people don’t hang out anymore, and that goes for men and women. We’re all people, psychologically different but we’re all human and grappling with the same stuff, it’s all the same and we vaguely follow the same patterns in life. If you want a girl approach her talk to her. Whether she’s interested in you or not is actually secondary to talking to someone. When you talk to someone you open the possibility for meaningful relationships. Even if they aren’t interested in you they might just appreciate someone talking to them in the first place.

Appreciate all of the advice & consistent uploads Jack

thank you for the help denmo.

Thank you so much, it's like a big brother telling you reality

Love your message bro... I’ve been an over thinker most my life too and wanted to see what would happen if I embraced it and went all in. For awhile it was going pretty good and then at some point it just started to feel like hell quiet honestly and now I think I gave myself ADHD woops

This video was genuinely so amazing and everything is spot on, id recommend everyone who suffers from anxiety to watch.

I had a lot of similar problems to these denmo. I’ll always remember when I was in first or second grade I had a teacher she was from Africa and I only stayed at the school for around one or two months and when I left she told me something right before I left she told me, believe in yourself. No single thing I had ever learned in school helped me more in life than what this lady told me, I’m sure you can relate.

This video was very much in leu with me. I’d say in the past my overthinking has kept me from doing many things in my life(I’m 24 as of this writing), mostly in terms of my purpose, talking with girls, and just bettering myself as a person. All in all I’m making strides to change that Mr.Denmo god bless you bro🙏🏾.

Oh my gawd... I totally regognize myslef in this overthinking/artist. I'm 21, depressed, live at my mom's house... And I love cinema. I wanna write and directed movies since a lot of years now. But this "creative" desire scare also the shit out of me, because that's the ULTIME PURPOSE I want for my life, and if I don't make it (like today), I feel unhappy, depressed, and feel like I not deserving to be alive. It's hard to explain, but my dream of making cinema, the most beautiful thing in my life, is also MY FUCKING WORST enemy in my life, it block my entire life. It's hard to explain but... I wanna be a perfect director, with unique style, with unique voice, with a whole coherent artwork : That's permits me to FEEL HUMAN and ALIVE. But, I put a lot of pressure about this false idea. I'm already someone, I'm already one person. But in my mind I'm nothing, if I don't became a famous artist... The worst in that story, is that I'm scared of making cinema (work on set, with other people, making my own shorts), because, in fact, I'm a beginner (I'm not already a artist with style, with strong messages ect...) and when I shot something my camera, I compared this unconscusly with my "futur perfect version of myself" - and I'm disgusted by the work I make today - that feel like rubbish for me... And it's a viseral circle because, when I shot something and I feel really bad and I feel like I'm sucks (because perfectionism ect...), I say to myself : "It's not for me. I'm not good at it. I'm not gonna be a director ect...". I'm sorry it's hard to write such a complex feeling... But to resume. I think too much, that is scare me for doing, so I do nothing, and over and over. I think too much about cinema. I want every frame to be like a beautiful painting (I want my shot to be pretty, good looking. A GREAT FORM), and I want this shot, this form, TO HAVE A STRONG MEANING, A SENSE, A BACKGROUND MESSAGE (because for me film without message is just porn, like tiktok or PH or Marvel movies, it doesn't make sens, it's just products ya know). So I wrote some ideas on my google docs, ideas of stories, but it's not shape or forms, it's just messages, senses ect... Even in the conception or in the devellopment of my stories/script, subconsiously, I avoid the most "action" part in writting : scenes and script... Its scared me. Today, I cannot write a fucking script because is not gonna be perfect... Man, I hate overthinking. I have this feeling that, to live my life, to move forward, I have to let this goal away, because he's a huge brake in my mind - so in my everday life - but If I get "dumber", and I move away, and get a small job like every average person, I'm scared of getting unhappy, because I'm not gonna have any purpose. It's a cursed to be depressed because you have a PURPOSE and you cannot realise it - and to let this purpose away and feel lost and too normal in your life. Sorry for faults I'm french. Thanks Denmo for your videos. I hope someday I will understant it, and doing it !

@nxsleepr

Ай бұрын

Thanks for writing this. It’s sad to say that I’m in this exact same position but I ended up getting a job. I wouldn’t say I gave up but it feels that way. My goal is my life so I still try and improve myself everyday but getting home after an 8+ hour shift and trying to fight at perfectionism is starting to hurt my soul a bit, I genuinely think you’ll be fine getting a job whether it be part-time or full time because nobody said you had to quit your passions that’s what motivated me to get through the day and without that goal I think I’d want to quit life. The income will also give you access to so many more options for your goals. Sorry, I really don’t have much advice for fighting off the thoughts of getting the perfect scene/angle/composition just try not to be so hard on yourself once you get over this hurdle I bet you’ll make some beautiful films.

Beautiful video Jack. You are such a well spoken and articulate dude that can get a point across so strongly. I needed this video as a reminder to myself. God bless you

Great vid. You have a very similar mentality to mine. Very cool to see how many people resonate with what you say as well. Ive always felt that being an overthinker is a blessing and a curse as I worry about things that haven’t yet happened but I also have the ability to think of every possible outcome of a given situation and have been able to guess that outcome with pretty high accuracy.

I like these type of videos a lot and It seems you are very wise Denmo, I always feel like I’ve learned something or see a new kind of perspective after watching you. Much love

Really enjoy your channel and the raw authenticity of it. Thank you for sharing all the experience and keeping the channel for all of us real. All the best to you :)

You’re a very wise man. Not to like feed you ego or anything, and this video is one of your best that i’ve seen!

Oh Denmo, I just needed to reaffirm my prior correct conceptions. A beacon of clarity in a hazy sea of uncertainty. Thank you my friend.

I don't give a shit if anyone thinks or say im not normal🗿

@Denmosocial

3 ай бұрын

its not about them. its about you

Thanks Jack

You are the realest youtuber out there bro

The real question is... Can you the eye roll thing like the thumbnail? Denmo going undertaker mode would be great lol

I use overthinking like a special power or something,in my hand I go through many and many scenarios,and if I can say so, because of my overthinking I learned how to be good at lying

Video hits different for me. THIS is why I’m on the Denmo channel journey!

Good to hear somebody else thinking along the same lines as I have for the past few years

Trying to get my angle on how I view your channel yet, but very thought provoking idea at ~18 mins.

I only recently found you, but you are already my favorite KZreadr. I know this may sound weird, but listening to you makes me feel like I'm listening to the older brother I never had lol

Absolutely wild. 10 minutes in and its like listening to my own experience and thoughts. This will inevitably help with interpretation of this...gift, we've got. Excited to see what the rest of this video holds. I have this on my list of topics to cover for a new channel. 🙏 Edit: It got much wilder. The accuracy of similarity is uncanny, we'll have to get in touch. Wow. Even the end of video gray-scale story. Thank you.

Good job Jack. Even if only 15k people watch this, if it reaches 5k people then you have done more than 99.99% of all people to help others. It's helped me for sure.

I'm glad you made this video, and I'm even more glad it was recommended to me and I watched until the end

This video is good Denmo! That's the one I needed

TBH I've reached that point to where I'm off the rails but somehow hanging by a thread and I'm glad I took the chance to look this up and know that I'm not alone when it comes to having anxiety and overthinkin. Honestly watching this is the wake up call I needed, thank you @Denmosocial.

That thumbnail hits the mark pretty hard with how I feel with overthinking. 😂

Mr. Denmo, I gotta say bro. You give away too much information for free. I was able to peice together what I'm doing wrong in my life without taking your socializer class! Hehe, thank you

Great video!

This is great denmo thank you. Can you make a video on how to get started doing yt?

I needed this video 10 years ago. I’m 30, no GF, no friends, no career and am struggling to take control of my life. Overthinking everything has left me stuck. I’m only now trying to put in the hard work that it takes to change. I’m still panicking and fearing that it might be too late though. I never had guidance or videos like these before to help understand or put into words what I’ve going through this whole time to take action.

@Maravone

2 ай бұрын

I'm 32, was close to a similar situation as you at 29. No gf, no career. Had a friends group, but I ended up spending all of my 20s closing myself off, detaching from life. I only started taking steps to get out of this enormous pit I had dug out of myself at 28. 4 years later I can say I'm much, much better. Had a couple of short relationships with girls, reconnected with some friends and made new friends too. Got a pretty solid job that I like (most days). I'm still struggling and fighting and still getting my shit together. But its genuinely never too late. And nobody gives a shit about age. Everyone's too busy with their own problems anyway, they wont have the time to judge.

@power_shutdown2832

Ай бұрын

@@Maravone Thanks. Didn’t see this repones till now. Perhaps there’s still hope for me after all.

I see being an overthinker as a blessing. I refuse to refer to an ability as a curse. It all just depends on how you use it. My Father taught me to be a defensive driver which taught me to "overthink" situations by looking ahead in order to be prepared and have contingencies in place for potential pitfalls. Injecting optimism into your thought life and having it as the default setting has been key for me, otherwise you see potential negatives, overthink them and become overwhelmed. Perspective is Everything because it's the lens by which we perceive life. When your perspective has been tainted or needs adjustment, it's like driving a car with a muddy windshield.

@CALL_AND_BARGINS

3 ай бұрын

A REITERATION- meaningless. THE DESTINATION. The Praise Principle, limitless zeroness draped with names. Cool beans. I was just typing, and had nothing to say.

@radfoo72

3 ай бұрын

@@CALL_AND_BARGINS lol I can tell. No harm no foul because nothing was received and nothing lost🤪

this is wild. I feel the exact same way. I am incredibly ambitious, I want more out of life, but I remember wishing I was naïve and simple minded, instead of being an Overthinker. My mind seems like a prison sometimes. I see so many around me, enjoying life, carefree, and not worrying about anything. I used to envy that. I mean, how can you go clubbing every single weekend, and all you talk about is the latest rapper, sports, and fashion? Crazy! all I want to talk about is goals, the future, investing, etc. But nobody cares to talk about that. It's lonely Years later, I surpassed every single one of them in the socio economic ladder. do I still wish for a simplistic mind? Sometimes. but I suppose it has its pros and cons

Watch it all love your vids bro love from Mozambique 🇲🇿

Needed this video 3 years ago when I wanted to leave college. I’m graduated now but would’ve saved me 3 years

This resonates with me, and I noticed video gaming was my vice, I didn’t have to think anymore so I played games and I still do enjoy video games but I gave them up, I’ve been so stressed not playing them but more productive with my passions, definitely a blessing and a curse

im 23 rn, the weight of my conciousness is hard to carry, i feel that i know too much for my own good, im lonely as hell, i cant connect with people very well, im emotionally inmature, and all this things i just have the option to work on them, but from time to time, the thought of how awesome will i be if i keep trying, how cool will i be when im 40 and a fucking sage of life, some times this thought outweights the pain that my today me has to endure, so its a nice bit of hope.

Denmo ur a legend luv ur vids

yeah, I can relate, my problem lays in the fact that I'm comfortable at being alone and not having the urge to socialize at all. I can be sitting in my room for weeks without the need to see any friends of mine. And that all because of my anxiety outthinks the logic and natural urge to socialize. Thats how I perceive it in any case.

your best video yet bro

This honestly helps a lot, like honestly

@Denmosocial

3 ай бұрын

glad it helped my brotha

I've been socializing and making "friends" but no one ever wants to actually do anything. Or we'll make plans and they flake last minute. So I end up going to concerts and festivals by myself. While I'm there I'm the only person there by myself. Every one else is there with their friends and that makes me feel like shit that I can't seem to convince someone to come with me. Even if I pay for it they still won't come. All they have to do is show up and have a good time. I'm taking a quick road trip to see the eclipse Monday. For 2 months I asked everyone I knew if they wanted to come and everyone said "wow that's cool but I have work/school/kids and so on. So now I'm going by myself. A few weeks ago I went to my friends wedding. He called me a few days later and told me of all the people there I was his only friend who actually showed up. The rest was his family who had to be there. Why does no one want to do anything anymore?

@jumpiko4553

3 ай бұрын

I know exactly how you feel, and I came to the unfortunate conclusion that it’s time for new friends, first I will try to talk with them about it but I know I need friends who want to do shit that’s fun and things that grow us. I hope you can find the same soon.

For me, overthinking is as much a blessing as it is a curse.

The hard part of overthinking is always being right

@CALL_AND_BARGINS

3 ай бұрын

WRONG

this video made me cry. because I realized that no one really judged me when people looked at me. I've always done things to please others, which in the end I didn't like and others didn't like.

Tryna be an engineer; I do overthink a good bit. Now college isn't bad or anything as long as it benefits society not no business or degree that common sense and information online can give you. I feel that overthinking can be a blessing and a curse. You overthink about things which can give you anxiety. Or you can control it somewhat by thinking about your work. If you're stuck on something, you can move on and think of solutions in the meantime. Just don't overthink social situations just problems. This video explains all of this stuff and a good vid.

Brilliant video

Very talented vocals. Kinda a NOS in social environments.

36, went through a "midlife" crisis 3 years ago. I've been desperately trying to dig my way out. Its a lot of work and i dont know if it will even make a difference. All i know is that I don't have any other option, i've already burned the boats. Do yourself a favor, instead of digging your way out later in life, just course correct now like Denmo is advising.

All I know is, no matter what choice I make, there's going to be something wrong with it. Legitimately wish I don't exist in the first place.

Lovely video denmo

140 likes, 740 views. Denmo's real one really f with him 💪💯

Lets get it🔥

My uncle one said overthinking and procrastinating is making excuses to NOT live the life you deserve because it requires you to get out of your comfort zone, take risks, and make leaps of faith. And when it came to advice about approaching women and the fear of rejection, he said "if that's the case you might as well just stay in your room and never come out".

Thanks bro

God dayum, you nailed it again Denmo

i am and have always been an over over over over thinker

First one , i guess I'm actually not normal.

for being an extreme overthinker never been able to ask a girl out for date. I am 20 I could die rather than getting rejected.but I want to change when I see my friends are getting laid ,you know intense pain inside me kills me. why didn’t I approach her I ask myself all night long

@heydani6678

3 ай бұрын

You’re a grown man. Stop being pathetic

@heydani6678

3 ай бұрын

I got rejected so many times just walk away nobody cares

Nailed it. Spot on.

this video hit me like a truck

Ive always tried NOT to be normal… honestly i think its one of my best qualities

"A guy can be happy sleeping on a mattress in a garage." lol. True. Guys focus on procuring the basic necessities while women are more concerned with the embellishments.

Value packed, full of useful information. You’re a wise man, denmo. Cheers

I will say overthinking is a blessing and a curse while it does help you see things clearly and differently and not wasting life with the herd MAN overthinking can lead you to some dark DARK thoughts too

Overthinking is a superpower if you can mainly control it. As Tristan Tate said...

I’m about to graduate high school in a few months… Im in between going into sales or getting a trades degree. I got accepted into uni but I realized It’s not what I want to do, however it is too late to apply for trades this year so I’ll be taking a gap. Tryna give me some advice? Thanks if you answer

I have hyper fixation

You should make a video being sociable or getting girls in high school

In jail I got enaugh time to reflect myself now life all good 😌

9:57-10:06 I had that experince when i was 15yo. I bought trw from the tate brothers, because i wanted to make money online. In the end i did nearly nothing and cancled the membership after 6 months. For that reason my mom is against these courses. I was the most embarricing thing ever for me. Now i always pretend that i only know what i want to the next 3 year and not further (when ever some ask me "EVEN BY MY FAMILY". In reality i know what i want to do until 2030. That experience was in one way good, that i stop talking and started doing more. There are tons of side effects. - I am introverted and know less emotionaly availebile. - I lie or don't talk about how i feel (today), nearly never. ...

Me: Oooookay, let's open up my laptop, let's see what videos KZread recommends to me today. Denmo: If you see this video, you are not normal

I need hear this 3 month ago bro 😢☹️☹️🙏🙏🙏

Welcome to bahgdad buddy

Hey denmo, you ever read the count of Montecristo?

For anyone interested in further discussion about this I highly recommend the book "Curse of the High IQ" by Aaron Clarey.

I'm 38 and i awakened 4 years ago. Thankfully i have no kids nor wife so i am managing to change my life to the roots. Quit smoking, quit drinking and quit many other bad habits. I'm very spiritual now. One of the limits i'm breaking now is dating girls thanks to you! 👌🙏🕺

Is @denmo early 20s or late 20s?

Lmao, i am that paranoid schizo 🤣 shoulda brought a parachute man

Who else peeped the title change👀😏

Put the nail in the coffin. This was real.

me and subastian i hope he's ok with me saying this we have adhd and elisha he's weird hopes he does well tho but I feal like me and him are like 5 years more mature I'm 12 he's still 11 I think

I must be different cause at 30 i still feel theres way more to life to be done. Seems like peoole get to this age or after 25 and think "yeah just stick with medicre life no need to do better just be average" i dont get it. Average was always boring to me. Work til your old then die? Kind of life is that? A wasteful one.

WHO CAN BURN THEIR MONEY? Its authority may stem from irresistible suction. TAKE NOTE. Your telephone might be tapped. Cherish this cycle of defeat.

@CALL_AND_BARGINS

3 ай бұрын

I’m not crazy.

I’m neurodivergent of course I’m not normal

I’ve been a over thinker all my life and I don’t think it’s ever benefitted me lol

@Denmosocial

3 ай бұрын

time to accept it and move forward tho

@Yuri-nc9vl

3 ай бұрын

​@@Denmosocial overthinking just dosn't dissapear like magic...also can be a sympton of ADHD/depression or high anxiety ..or schizhophrenia...our brain is so complicated...I wish if I had smart enough I would became an psyhiatrist, alot of people struggle with mental health these days.

Literally don't care I have "age of Mythology with the the Titans DLC" my 6'6 235lbs 12% bodyfat Handsome fluent in 3 languages with blue eyes genetics die with me

How old are you?

How old are you

What’s normal