When a narcissist comes back to you.....its not because they love you. They either want to relish in your pain and failure, OR, if they view you as successful, then they will absolutely see you as the "happy meal with legs". Just know they are not coming back for you, they are coming back for THEM.

@Portia620

3 ай бұрын

It’s a challenge for them and when they get you back then they hurt you more.

@nickf2170

2 ай бұрын

@@Portia620 Yes, that is true. They see you as only a stop gap, until they can land the big fish they are really searching for. And of course, they will make your life miserable through out this process.

@mariannebowman6114

2 ай бұрын

Amen

@alaalfa8839

2 ай бұрын

Sam Vaknin said from books, of experts, the only way to deal with a narcissist , is to become a narcissist yourself……therefore narcissism is contagious, narcissism is a defense mechanism toward other narcissit…..but as you break up and move on, you may get back your true self personality.

@melissaschmitt4415

2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

That statement that you don’t know you’re in a relationship with one until you’re out of it! Is very true.

@TwoScarvesComedy

Ай бұрын

Yep. Realized it afterwards.

@shyn3872

Ай бұрын

Nah I realized while in it

@lifeofaninteriordesigner1305

Ай бұрын

So true!

@gigisgucci

26 күн бұрын

Nah you can realize during

@LooseCan88

23 күн бұрын

agreed, it's like you can't do the math problem until after your out.

Narcissists can’t stand being alone with themselves.

@willembeltman

2 ай бұрын

I cant stand being alone anymore am i a narcissist?

@SoundsBogus

2 ай бұрын

​​@@willembeltman Do you check all 9 boxes for NPD? Are you filled with guilt and shame? Did you have horrible traumas at age 0-3 where you never actuated your own personality, was never differentiated, never weaned off the tit? Do you depend on others to define who you are? Are you a nothing, empty shell when others are not around? Do you feel like a victim where it's everyone else's responsibility to make you happy? Everyone else's fault for your failure to launch? No? Probably not a narcissist. We are social creatures, not intended to be alone in isolation, but healthy people are okay living with their own thoughts, spending time in their own company. Narcissists can't even get their head around the fact others are separate, with different perspectives. They can't be alone because there's nothing there. There can be no self-reflection if there's no Self.

@Fingerscrossedout

2 ай бұрын

​@@willembeltmanwell it could explain that you're not healthy but so is hyper independent. Best thing to do if you're scared of being alone is by fighting this fear by being alone. It actually was the best thing for me but look what works for you! 😊

@Fingerscrossedout

2 ай бұрын

​@@willembeltmanwell it could explain that you're not healthy but so is hyper independent. Best thing to do if you're scared of being alone is by fighting this fear by being alone. It actually was the best thing for me but look what works for you! 😊

@tracyewilson3536

2 ай бұрын

Nor can they rest.

He lost his marbles when I moved 500 miles & across the Pacific ocean to save my own life. All of them.

@deborahcurtis1385

2 ай бұрын

Nothing gets under their skin more than loss of control. Dangerous people.

@rainrush3484

2 ай бұрын

I moved to Alaska and started a whole new life. Life is good now❤

@slizzle6632

2 ай бұрын

I’m otw to do this now I was worried about my kids as the father but to be safe and be a parent I have to get us a house. I have a parenting plan in place because they won’t let me take them but I’m scared. Is it worth it?

@lilfairycupcake

2 ай бұрын

good for you!

@El_Peto

2 ай бұрын

I'd guess the Pacific Ocean to be sufficient on its own

One of the scariest parts for me was realizing *they know*. They know what they're doing. They know they're abusing you and making you miserable, they just don't care about you and see it all as justified. This was a close family member for me and I got away finally but holy crap. Imagine if you were financially or otherwise dependent on them.

@justchilling_XD

26 күн бұрын

Yeah, they know, my mother would stare eyes open at me to see my reaction when she told me something was my fault (when it was others fault) and if I just made even a small gesture even if I didn’t say anything, after a few seconds of silencie she would give a small creepy smile,

Going NO CONTACT with any abusive personality is key. Leaving without them knowing is key as well, unless you plan on having a police officer present for their ultimate freak out.

@vivainvestparaguayvivainve2321

3 ай бұрын

You made ALL points! 1. I don't care WHAT she was. 2. Going NO contact. 3. Don't let them know. That I did wrong. I ended up with knife cuts all over my body, a gun at my head and sleeping with her to get the gun, running half naket to the police. 4 officers with shoot guns and my lawyer friend to get her out of my house. Don't miss number 3!

@ashton1952

3 ай бұрын

@usersz So true. They go crazy and are not safe to be around when they rage away

@ashton1952

3 ай бұрын

​@@vivainvestparaguayvivainve2321 that's horrible 😞 glad you could get away and hope you are doing ok now

@vivainvestparaguayvivainve2321

3 ай бұрын

@@ashton1952 Thank you so much. It was 1. of november 2022. She didn't respect the restraining order for 3 month. I was not right in my head for 6 months, but now I'm fine.

@JumpWatson45

3 ай бұрын

Yes leaving in secret is key especially if they have to get stuff or u have to get stuff out of the house.

the only way you can get one up on them is to dump them, before they dump you.

@NopeNotTodaySatan

Ай бұрын

Silently!!!!

@dunraptoress5126

Ай бұрын

@@NopeNotTodaySatan Agreed, better they not know until you're loooooooong gone.

In case you’re wondering, catching them in the act and calling out each of their narcissistic tendencies and holding them accountable for being self-centered with respectful and collected dialogue doesn’t work at all, and will likely cause them to become incredibly irrational and sometimes dangerous. Make it your goal to get out, you can’t help them. They don’t want help. If they did, they’d be better people. Just because you understand the problem doesn’t mean it’s up to you to help. Take your understanding, and use it to make sure you’re okay. You’re not being selfish, especially since they don’t actually care about you. If they did, hurting you would mean something to them instead of you having to defend the validity of your pain

@valeriemoore7834

Ай бұрын

💯‼️

@glynis1007

Ай бұрын

Well said. I agree. You can lay out all the truths, data, logic, compassion, understanding etc., they just shut down completely, even if you’ve laid it out perfectly neutral and as a team player, they will basically disassociate and go on the defensive. It’s exhausting and completely unfixable. I know, I’m in it right now. Lord help me.

@valeriemoore7834

Ай бұрын

@@glynis1007 Pleeeeeaaase don't wait 26 yrs like I did. I am still healing after 13 yrs of getting out. GET OUT as fast as you can and don't look back, look within... ❤️

@hggtg

Ай бұрын

You're a hundred percent right thank you❤

@NopeNotTodaySatan

Ай бұрын

I called out, stood up for myself & my boundaries. Told him I knew what he was doing as well. You know what happened?? Be became so incredibly extra passive aggressive the POS physically attacked me. I’m covered in bruised. Almost a month later & I’m still recovering physically. Mentally & emotionally it’s going to take a while. Looking back I can’t believe the “little” things he “accidentally” did to me physically. These people are dangerous.

The lack of research data might because Narcissists usually have almost non-existing self-reflection, no empathy and remorse. So they don‘t see the point of seeking out professional help as they think there is nothing wrong with them. The problem always lies with the others.

@queenofphillyshoagiessubs8456

2 ай бұрын

Spot on ! They don't believe that they're the problem.

@valarielewis64

2 ай бұрын

Say it louder 4 those in the back 🎉

@kadianbrown4007

2 ай бұрын

This is so very true

@Lyddiebits

2 ай бұрын

Yes. My husband is an alcoholic and drug user, I am not. He says he is not willing to put up with my "outbursts and meltdowns" (I had a mental breakdown in December 2023 and it culminated in an ultimate breakdown in January) and he will keep drinking until he is done but he will not get help for anything and will not go to a therapist and say *and he said this in a whiny voicw* "my mommy hurt me". I said, no one is asking you to talk about your childhood (in fact it was MY mom who molested me, and I have gotten help for that) I'm asking if you're willing to work on our marriage together, with me. He told me he was done being married to me on April 13th and said he wanted me gone. I've been living with friends since then, a stable, peaceful home. I love who my husband could be, used to be, but devastated 💔 he isn't him anymore, I've been living in a fantasy movie in my head. Being thrown away is extremely painful for me, he knows this and I believe, he has used this against me.

@saulescamilla3605

2 ай бұрын

“The problem always lies with the others”. Those words you said have a lot of multiple meanings it perfectly describes the narcissist. They do sleep with others, they the problem, always lying to people. They always think the problem is someone else not themselves. They also always wearing a mask among other people and are so different with you. I’m probably missing some more but I’m glad you said those last words it was very poetic to me, in a weird way hehe.

Sometimes there is no way of knowing you are dealing with a narcissist, especially if it is the people raising you. It is brutal, grotesque and evil all wrapped around a smile 😢. I feel it took chunks of my soul and now I have to live my life with not just the trauma but with missing pieces of information. I am so tired

@NotYourOrdinaryDogWalker

3 ай бұрын

Keep getting educated. It's going to pass-you will feel better if you keep doing the work.

@041882

3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry.

3 ай бұрын

Feel Ya. You hang in there!

@jenniferbyrne4567

3 ай бұрын

True! Our brains are made to internalize the abuse and think it’s our fault that our parents are treating us that way. It’s nature’s crappy way of keeping us alive from an evolutionary standpoint. I’m sorry this happened to you!!

@daniellucas6831

3 ай бұрын

I was raised by a covert narcissistic mother and my father was absent until I was 14 but he's also narcissistic so it's been a struggle untangling from the toxic cycle. Luckily I met an amazing woman who has supported me and helped me become more self aware.

Being in a relationship with a covert narc was the most disturbing and most life changing relationship i ever had. I watched videos like this before i entered the relationship but i could not imagine how it would be in reality. Listen to Chris!

@grow2be

3 ай бұрын

Same. I made it 40 years and then I just couldn’t anymore. The last punch sealed the deal.

@teralecole316

3 ай бұрын

I felt every word you wrote. I walked down the exact same path. It changes you permanently. Nowadays, when interacting with people I can literally feel my subconscious scanning for threats, gauging whether the person I’m interacting with is a cluster B. My tolerance level is so low now and any perceived red flag has me blocking people.

@NN-re7cy

3 ай бұрын

​@teralecole316 💯 Same. I block toxic/abusive people with the swiftness. No explanation necessary.

@RedHeadForester

3 ай бұрын

It's comforting to know I'm not the only one who was watching videos like this before (and during the earlier months of) my most recent (and so far only) relationship, but I still didn't notice it until after I ended things.

@user-tl7rv9bi4n

3 ай бұрын

@@RedHeadForester Crazy isn't it! But it's a clear sign that we learn the best from experience. And it might indicate some amount of grandiosity if you enter relationships with people where you clearly recognise red flags only to ignore them out of so called love.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. Married 23 years to a covert narcissist. He divorced me and kept dating woman#3 who he was cheating on me with. After 6 months, he started hoovering me again with stage 1 love bombing. Problem is, I studied narcissism for 3 years and finally figured out what the hell was occurring and told him to go back to his mistress. He still doesn't have a prime supply so he intermittently keeps hoovering me.

@billybobwombat2231

3 ай бұрын

I had a 23 marriage to a covert too, been out for 13 years, took a few good years for me to understand it as well, once you understand the creeps you're on the front foot, until then you're on the back foot, they're actually very basic predictable monsters, I can smell them these days.

@PantaRhei-wz5zn

2 ай бұрын

Good for you figuring out the scheme of things. Less chance you will have a weak moment, and let yourself be sucked in again. Stay strong*

@greghostetter3959

2 ай бұрын

Knowledge is power! 💪 Esp when it comes to this!!

@lilfairycupcake

2 ай бұрын

the worst part is not knowing. now that we know, none of their bs works.

@Janis_Even

2 ай бұрын

The narcissist will never forget you. But no matter what he is trying to get out a reaction of you. Negative or positive You should ignore it. Much love to you

I am currently ghosting my narcissist. I find it hilarious the persistance they display attempting to pull me back. 😊

@lisafowler7563

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@JANEYZANEY

Ай бұрын

Amazing

I am living proof that a narcissist does not change because I’ve been married to one for 32 years countless counseling, pastoral, counseling, therapist, begging, pleading none of it worked. Yesterday was my first day of my divorce hearing and the last one is in June. I’m finally getting out it’s taking me five times, but it’s happening. He’s very nice now and very cordial because he said he got saved and he knows the Lord and he is being very kind to some degree but he’s still drinking and can be very nasty. I cannot live with this anymore he went to counseling and quit because he only went to get our marriage saved not to get fixed and helped, so I continue to move forward without him

@smokingcrab2290

3 ай бұрын

How did you miss the red flags while dating?

@usuallyichargeasacrificiallamb

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations! I'm so proud of you for making it out!

@Monipenny1000

3 ай бұрын

@@smokingcrab2290 what makes you think that she knew about, heard of, or had an understanding of NPD when she fell in love? Have you ever heard the phrase, "Love is blind"? There are a myriad of reasons why we miss the red flags.

@CodyCole80

3 ай бұрын

@@Monipenny1000💯 I first started hearing about narcissism about 10 years ago. I’d never heard of it prior.

@sampal5352

3 ай бұрын

Happy for you, and impressed. That’s incredibly hard. Best always.

I spent 12 years with a narcissist who was physically, mentally, emotionally and financially abusive. We had 4 children together so leaving wasnt easy. I finally found the strength to leave over two years ago, I was a shadow of my former self, I no longer wanted to live thats when i knew I had to leave. I now have a beautiful home for me and my children and ive found peace and happiness. I feel truly blessed.❤❤❤❤

Covert Narcisstic best friend of fifty years went way past the point of no return with insulting my wife. I called him out, left. one week later I called and he answered with a pithy condescending attitude. He was reminded of his vile statement, was reminded of my zero tolerance for disrespect, and I ended a friendship of 50+ years. oddky, two dats later, easily forgotten. Life improved immediately. Sad, he brought me no comfort as a friend. Just a taker.

@Portia620

3 ай бұрын

That’s a true vulture! They take and take. Pay attention to what people ask of you and what they give

@CodyCole80

3 ай бұрын

It’s funny how we realize how worthless people were in our lives once we finally detach ourselves.

@CodyCole80

3 ай бұрын

@@Portia620 🎯

2 ай бұрын

the comments in youtube have been a great comfort. Never feels lonely here. Friendly helpful peoplr.

@amarbyrd2520

2 ай бұрын

@@Portia620 Sometimes - if they're parents - they don't ASK. They just EXPECT. And entire families and neighborhoods and surrounding "family" circles can enable them.

Run as fast as you can (silently) and NEVER look back. Seriously, I speak from experience. Delete everything of that person & go NO CONTACT. It’s the only way to heal & move forward from these diabolical creatures.

@NopeNotTodaySatan

Ай бұрын

@daisylane5721 - So sorry you’re going through this. I did as well 12 years ago. Sounds exactly like my ex husband. That’s incredibly typical for these creatures to lie, lie, lie…..

@NopeNotTodaySatan

Ай бұрын

@daisylane5721 - I know you want to say SO much to this horrible person. Take it from me & many others…. SILENCE is your weapon. Any reaction is food for them. I understand how hard it can be but you CAN do it!!!! Make his DISRESPECT your CLOSURE!!! Sending you tons of love!! You can do it!!! 💛🌻

These are the most thick headed individuals you will ever meet. By the time they realize you are gone you forgot you ever cared. You've been gone for years and they had their wake up call a decade ago. Yeah very thick headed.

@sherrie1111

3 ай бұрын

This is exactly 💯 it! I can't wrap my head around it because it just doesn't make sense. I moved out in July, and we sold our home. He bought another one as did I. We are literally in court going through divorce proceedings. He has done everything to slander me to every single person he knows. I had a male friend come to my home and help me with some things I can not do myself....he lost his frigan mind, texting everyone saying I was cheating and no I wasn't, saying how bitter he is, litteraly texting my friend everyday with warnings about me. I'm like wtf..dude we are over, like do they really believe it's not over.. can't make any sense of it at all. It is almost May , I've been gone 9 months with no contact at all.

@fainitesbarley2245

2 ай бұрын

Yep. They think they can pick you back up if they want to - unless you left in a dismissive, indifferent manner.

@sherrie1111

2 ай бұрын

@fainitesbarley2245 oh I blew shit up and called him out told him he was a narc and I saw through him like glass...hahahaha didn't know what I know now...should've left quietly

@sherrie1111

Ай бұрын

@FlyingMonkies325 The irony to your comment, is the exact reason I finally figured out what he was and why he is the way he is...I googled passive aggressive and guilt complex because he was so passive aggressive and guilty about everything and it never made sense....so silly me...of course the passive aggressive continues, he's a covert narc

@clintonnagy1662

Ай бұрын

​@FlyingMonkies325 Well, that explains me in a nutshell. I'm the one who is sick, needs help, stalks, carry guilt, passive aggressive, anger issues, & unaddressed emotional issues. I set out to be better, but I pick the same broken women and end up with a bigger broken heart then the woman I picked before. So, I ask you....who is the narc? All the signs show me the truth. I display many traits. 😢 Maybe it's the traits I adopted from several broken narc relationships???

Call them out on the behavior. Tell them they are out. Make it known. Its KEY. be safe. Remember you are not leaving them. They are getting rejected from your world,

@Dreareoxo

2 ай бұрын

Banished. I banished him.

My ex cheated on me and was doing drugs with a low life bum while I was working. Was half way through remodeling her house, we got sober together 4 years earlier...I loved her very much. I was devastated but after I left I realized how much $$ she had been taking from me. Life got so much better without her. 9 months later I bumped into her at the store she looked terrible. Super skinny and it broke me down. I know I can't save her, I can't trust her so there's no point in wasting another second on her. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her but she changed my mind.

@RIDDYxMUSICH

2 ай бұрын

Stand firm and no contact. God has your back.

There's no research on narcissism because narcs never admit that they have it (they're narcs, they think they're perfect)

@LooseCan88

23 күн бұрын

yes sir, bingo

They want to viciously Destroy you

The narc I left after 22 yr of marriage, in 2008, "spiraled" for about 5 minutes, then he had a new supply and treated me like he'd never known me. Pardon me if I have no pity for that monster. 🎉

@RaisingMyWildflowers

2 ай бұрын

I hope he never feels interest you again. I promise it's so much better that way.

@janm9610

2 ай бұрын

Mine spiraled for a week then got a new supply and got engaged even before we were divorced and they don't care

@beautifulspirit2973

Ай бұрын

It was the day you gained your freedom. They are absolute monsters

If you go immediately no contact, you don’t know what happens to them & you don’t care

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. Or if you have kids, get something like “My Family Wizard” so everything between the two warring factions is in writing-which is the only way you’ll have an iota of a chance in court.

@Katie_Woo

Ай бұрын

Exactly 🙌 I have no idea what the narcissist is doing and I have no interest because for the first time in almost 3 years- it's not my mess to clean up 🥰🥰

@dawnramberg9784

Ай бұрын

You got that right!😂😂

These people are demons , the psychotic rage the black eyes 👺terrifying , if you don’t obey the revenge is off the wall . run run if you can , the one I knew normalised abuse , I was so afraid I felt I could not leave , especially when they threaten your family , , I walked away no matter what they do , I’m gone for good , it’s like the air is no longer poisoned 🤮

I received a crash course here online after I was targeted by a narcissist and my intuition was telling me to run, which led me to this channel. I escaped relatively quickly but damage was inflicted, no contact initiated, my life imploded. He found out my dog passed away last week and used that to show up, uninvited, to my home. I would not let him in, of course and he sped off, got a DUI and resisting arrest and is still in jail because he has burned every bridge in his life, including that with his parents and siblings. These people are soulless goblins, nothing more. If you are currently ensnared, I pray you can find the way out, the sooner the better.

@CodyCole80

3 ай бұрын

Wow!!! 😏 That’s crazy.

@wendydaniel1110

3 ай бұрын

Good for you. You weren't pulled back into the web...

@lilfairycupcake

2 ай бұрын

its truly amazing how self destructive they are.

Supply is literally as powerful as love for them. "ITS NOT LOVE". From 20 years experience in a relationship with a narc mother of my children, 3 yrs on my own after leaving and counciling. Leaving this person is the only option! Trust me. That goes for friend, partner whoever. LEAVE! You are not human to them, you are fuel and a guinea pig. And a status toy. I wish you peace on either side of this!❤

@deborahcurtis1385

2 ай бұрын

I narrowly escaped a romantic relationship with someone like that. Instinct preserved me, as he was talking about his ex on the first date with me, utterly obsessed. After that he went back to her, and didn't tell me. Then I saw them together and said nothing. I just became unavailable. He told me many years later he was in an unhappy relationship and had a child (with someone else) but I thought: sort yourself out, I'm not going to be a third party in this. So he didn't sort himself out.. Then we got in contact via social media just professionally, and he tried to draw me in. By then he was divorcing but obsessed with getting back at her. His son is a mess - drug dependent. He expected me to come and see him, and instructed me to 'get your ass up here'. I live interstate. I said 'do not speak to me like that ever'. He was shocked. Since then had a few phone conversations but what I noticed was his capacity for rage. It's enormous he's always angry with me or someone. He puts me on silent treatment but I never really notice. Recently he blocked me. He's finally go the message. He was trying to turn me into someone who expects to be mistreated.

@melissaschmitt4415

2 ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@blackswan1983

Ай бұрын

Now your children are alone with a monster.

They will torture murder anyone or anything that is an object of your affection or they think could be an object of your affection. Especially a beloved pet.

@shoutuckerdidnothingwrong

2 ай бұрын

I hope you're not speaking from experience.

@user-xe3co5gj5h

2 ай бұрын

@@shoutuckerdidnothingwrong unfortunately evil predators seek out lovable gentle natured people and when they are angry at them they target what they love most This is why GOD said YOU MUST LOVE JEHOVAH YOUR GOD WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART SOUL MIND AND STRENGTH AND LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF AND PRACTICE MERCY NO ONE CAN KILL GOD AND NO ONE CAN HURT WHO YOU LOVE MOST IF YOU TREAT EVERYONE EQUALLY AND TREAT POOR PEOPLE GOOD AS YOU WOULD THE RICH THEY CANT KILL EVERYONE YOU LOVE Those scriptures protect our loved ones from our enemies. Divine wisdom

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

@@shoutuckerdidnothingwrongI dunno about the other commenter but as a child with this flavor of crazy, yes they abuse every. living. entity. Or if you were my birth mother, she broke off the turn signal in one of those big old steel tanks of a car, so it seems even inanimate “objects” get abused too. They’re Equal Opportunity Destroyers.

sometimes the primary source is their mother - who they are enmeshed with like a wife without the intimacy - and everyone else is secondary

@Welpkim

Ай бұрын

Yes! My ex would compare me to her all the time. She was no paragon and had a bad habit of being a busybody. It was like he was married to her, when his father died it was like he was trying to take his father’s place. He befriended all of his dad’s friends and hang out with them and his mother. It was crazy.

My narcissistic neighbor tried so hard her desperation was pathetic. Cut off supply and go no contact. Grey rock and ignore them. They hate it. Block them.

I truly wish this video gains wider visibility. It's been challenging to find content like this while I've been evading a narcissist for four years. His relentless efforts to impact me negatively almost seem like an odd fixation. Strangely, he has never found someone to fill my shoes. He is obsessed with telling people he loved me and I left for no reason even though he was extremely emotionally distant and incredibly unfaithful.

@user-zl9uj4ve5b

3 ай бұрын

I agree. I hope it gets widespread distribution because I have come to believe that there are millions of narcs out there doing havoc to people's lives.

@OTR392

3 ай бұрын

youtube hides many creators talking about this subject. They are trying to prevent a global awakening against rejecting narcissism.

@REM12-21

2 ай бұрын

​@@OTR392Indeed you are correct about a global conspiracy. They scrambled the letters of the word anti-christ to create "narcissist" , minus the"h" which is silent. It is the spirit of anti-christ that is in the world today

I realized I was one of the secondary supplies that was being groomed to be the primary. But even before he could promote me, the primary went silent. Sent him to spiral and in effect forgot about me and discarded me. It was so difficult. I loved him, or I should say, I loved the image of me through him. Learning to move on now.

Narc older sister tested me by banning me from her family 8 years ago. She wanted to see if I'd fight to see my niece and nephew and beg her "forgiveness" for whatever she imagined I did wrong to hurt her fragile little feelings. Well, I gave her what she requested. I've been no contact since that day including her kids. Just this past weekend I got a text from her cell but I could tell right away it wasn't my sister's words. She had her 26 y.o. daughter type it and I immediately blocked the number with a reply, "I don't do toxic relationships". The narc will ALWAYS try to poke your old wounds and the only time you'll be free from them is when they die.

INFJs make great primary supplies for narcissists. Finally escaping the abuse after being married to one for 23 years. Watching him spiral this time is actually entertaining.

@nushunbrushed

2 ай бұрын

Word.

@marygoodson4920

2 ай бұрын

what is INFJ?

@swirlingfudge

2 ай бұрын

Whenever I do the Briggs/Meyers test, I come up as INFJ. But I’m watching these videos and wondering if I am a narcissist.

@zachmathers3480

2 ай бұрын

💯 can confirm.

@sassierover

2 ай бұрын

I didn’t know this. I am INFJ. Makes sense.😔

Watching someone meltdown is frightening and dangerous, but it feels like the natural endpoint to all their behaviors leading up to this point. You can see the desperation and witness the public outbursts, and once you see the outfall it is impossible to not see that, they are showing the sad core that has been so willfully hidden all their lives. Even the most empathetic or abuse resistant person will see this as the final self destructive act.

So true. I was dating a (suspected) cluster B woman for half a year, she started taking jabs and lashing out at me, telling me she loved me but not being present and i couldn't feel any love. She said something essentially unforgivable so i told her it's done and why. And called her out for being self-centered. Next day she kindly asks me to bring a couple things she left at my place down to her car after work. I tell her I think it's a better idea if I leave it out for her to get and we don't see each other. Then she suddenly turned into a monster, saying the wildest, cruelest things in an attempt to hurt me. Luckily it was so over the top and obviously wrong it didn't even bother me. I'm sure her plan was to ambush me and go nuts if I brought these things out for her.

No contact with emotional terrorists.

@NopeNotTodaySatan

Ай бұрын

Funny you say that. Told my ex the other day that I don’t negotiate with terrorists. He lost his shizzzzz lol

Your way of presenting concepts concerning narcissism is entertaining making a painful subject easier to distance ourselves from while understanding better what is happening.

Likening a narcissist to the "Spike" character, looking at people as "Happy meals on legs" is absolutely brilliant...Nacissists suck the joy and the life out of people after seducing them (aka love bombing). Great job!

Not falling for this trap anymore ...

Even if you don't know them, one tell tale sign is that they go straight into portrayal on social media

Loved the video and please make more. Keep on with the graphics as it really helps me understand the key points.

My ex figured it all out. Whenever he has to discard his primary source of supply (or gets discarded himself), he promotes his mother to that position until he finds a new one. It never takes long, so he doesn't have to go back to an old source. I'm confident he won't try to hoover me. Right now, his primary source of supply lives on a complete different continent, but he had his mother move in with him. It probably makes it way easier for him to cheat on his primary source.

@ashleykathryn9038

3 ай бұрын

My ex is the same way with his dad, lives with him. Gossip buddies. Always talking crap about someone.

@beatitcreep.

3 ай бұрын

@@ashleykathryn9038 It's the craziest thing, right? My ex and his mother have absolutely no boundaries. She was extremely emotionally incestuous. She would even wear my clothes without asking for permission first.

@ahsenaktitiz9163

2 ай бұрын

Same with my ex and his mom and even his cousins 😂

@beatitcreep.

2 ай бұрын

@@ahsenaktitiz9163 his cousins!? That's another level haha

I've realised from this that I've become someone's source of secondary supply - I was temporarily his first, but I've been demoted so the primary must be back in the picture now.

Very informative video. I lived this nightmare LIE for 12 years, now in a 11 plus months divorce process. RUN!! They NEVER change for the better

ah, i'm safe, i was the secondary supply. lol. I left before i became some zombie "Friend". These narcissists are truly everywhere and I realize how low i saw my value towards them. I always felt I needed to fight to get loved...now, i realize that's not it. I walk away because I learn to give me , some love and a break from these creatures of the night

This makes so much sense in hindsight. I'm a child of a narcissist and was her supply when my father ran dry and my brother moved away.

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

And then, you did the same! I hope?

Ideal supply for narcissist: either unawoken super empath or covert narcissist.

@claudiasbarra1044

3 ай бұрын

How can a covert narcissist who also needs supply can be a supply for a narcisst??? Maybe you think of a codependent empath who is NOT a covert narcissist but some times seams to be one.

@lionspirit360

3 ай бұрын

@@claudiasbarra1044 A covert narcissist is the perfect servant and incredible idealizing the narcissist and let the narcissist abuse him without limit in return for acces to supply. Dopamine, pain, sadism, money, service and so on...

@claudiasbarra1044

3 ай бұрын

@@lionspirit360 this is a codependent, NOT a covert narcissist 😉...no, a codependent is not sadistic. But I don't know if this can be true because a covert narcissist feels also empty inside and needs supply to fill this emptiness. This cannot be filled by a narcissist....or the covert narcissist has other targets for supply. I was married with a covert narcissist for over 25 years and I am a codependent. The covert narcissist absorbed my whole lifeenergy and good character traits and projected all his terrible stuff onto me and I absorbed it.....without being aware what happened until discarded completed broken. I was left and thought that I was the narcissist.I really became a terrible person. It took me 9 years to recover mostly. It is not so easy to see through all this and to discern.

@TerraDactyl-hc9ff

3 ай бұрын

I’m thinking I haven’t woken up yet. My ex broke up with me last night at my job on my break and tried causing a scene to humiliate me. Ruined my night and tried not to let it affect my job. Some coworkers witnessed him yelling at me and he tried painting me like this terrible mother and person. We live together so I told my daughter I would be sleeping in her room. He’s also caused issues between me and my 16 year old daughter as well. I came home this morning and wanted to stay away so I could have some peace and he wanted me to go in the room with him. I did but was emotionally checked out so I just didn’t talk or anything to keep my anxiety at bay. He started laughing because I was sad and wanted me to pretend like he didn’t humiliate me at work. Now hes trying to say we should talk even though he said I was the problem and he didn’t do anything wrong in the relationship. I haven’t been responsive at all. I lost everyone because of him. I don’t have anyone to talk to anymore besides my sister who lives a few blocks away from me. I just feel dead inside and defeated. I just want to be alone. Tired of him throwing stuff at me and constantly blaming me for everything. He’s excluded me and shows my daughter attention and now she’s on his side. They’re both saying I’m the problem and argumentative just for expressing how I feel and speaking up on things I don’t like. I have no safe place in my own home. No one to talk to and I just feel so alone now. I don’t feel comfortable being around my own child because I feel so betrayed. Literally was going to take out a loan so she can get a car and have all the things I didn’t have growing up. It just seems so unfair. What’s the point of being a good person when people don’t even care about you and only what you can do for them. He started showing his true colors after I got him his new job where he’s only making 2 dollars more than me and literally took credit for him getting this job when I created his resume and got him fake pee for his drug test because he smokes weed. I just feel so defeated and want to shut down.

@chocolatesouljah

3 ай бұрын

Thanks that explains a lot! I worked at a school where there was a really mean covert narcissist pulling puppet strings. It was a nightmare and I would spill my guts. I’m wittingly to the flying monkeys/servant subservient covert narcissist. The big kahuna puppet master quit. The rest of the narcissists, there were three of them, came out of hiding. It was wild. It was as if they were calling of bees and the queen fled, and they didn’t know what to do. Oh yeah, they did focus on me! Because they knew that I was a meal if you will. But by then I didn’t buy into any of their nonsense. I no longer work there and super grateful!

In my experience, they don't really care as long as they have someone else to parasite off of. My ex girlfriend broke up with me and was with her ex boyfriend the next day.

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

@John_SzwedThass right, my friend. I wish I could send just one message to parents: “Don’t hang around in an abusive relationship. It’s a horrible model for us kids.” And the end of this story hasn’t been written yet. Remember, this is a Marathon, not a Sprint. Best wishes, you can do this.

@goldfinger-ub3fl

Ай бұрын

This exact scenario has just happened to me

@matthewbaumann630

Ай бұрын

@@goldfinger-ub3fl That sucks man. Did she go back to her ex?

I have a spiritual friend who is a full blown Narcissist. Time and time again he’s super toxic and gas lights me and does everything you said in this video. My excuse to keep talking to him is because I dont have any other spiritual friends. But I need to let go of this desire of mine to have someone listen, cuz this is too much toxic gas lighting bs.

If you have the energy and stomach for it, just treat them as shitty and dismissively as they treated you. Once you realize what they are, they are a paper tiger. If however, you are free of them, like not in the process of a divorce, just move on and enjoy your life. Not yet divorced, but I am loving having my own life again. Once it’s final, I’ll never think of that turd again.

@whoisimani44

2 ай бұрын

Same. Separated but not divorced yet.

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

If you have kids, please don’t do this. We already have enough “role models” for unacceptable behavior and very unhealthy relationships. Get your legal stuff together and leave. We need one. sane. parent-and it isn’t gonna be either of the drama kings or drama queens.

@dontbeadogsbody3564

2 ай бұрын

@@tundrawomansays694 no children. He was the child. In every way.

Silence is golden. Don’t engage with them on any “bait trap” level. You’d be surprised how easy it will be to forget they even exist

keep in mind, some people lack boundaries and will publicly display their grief cycle, denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. These symptoms will be very comparable when viewing the narcissists intermittent cycles.

Well done. Spot on analysis. Self destruction is inevitable.

I love Buffy as a teen! I truly believe vampires are real life narcissists! They are all about looks and sucking the life out of others to feed their own needs! I love the graphics as well! They are so helpful! Lastly, I think your bold statement has merit, people look for familiarity and if we come from unstable homes, we will go looking for the same or the complete opposite which is also bad! I think humans have unfortunately normalised narcissism/abuse unwittingly, because it’s all we know! Home, school, work, government all the same cycles of abuse!

This was a great summary. I feel like this is exactly how things work in their heads. As a victim and once primary supply I think you nailed it!

This video is so awesome 😂❤ Eff these crazy's you can do %100 better then these aliens!!!

I do know that I am in a “relationship “ with a narcissist. I have actually known for years. Because of financial reasons I could not leave him yet. When financial abuse is also present ( and lots of physical violence) it’s not just a matter of I know that he is a narcissist so I am going to pack up and I am leaving . For someone like me it has to be strategic.I left before and I was hoovered, I was stalked and my life was in danger. Be safe out there people. The monsters aren’t under the bed.

Omg - this was the best analogy for me. I too am a huge Buffy fan almost to your level of dedication & remember this line!!! This is the best way I could have heard this information! Btw, I such a fan I had a bulldog once named Spike, but his AKC name was "William the Bloody"!!!

I moved away from home when I was still in high school. I was both my dad's obsession and scapegoat. He ended up pulling a rifle on my mom and siblings a week after I left - although it ended okayish. My mom ended up calling me for help instead of the police for whatever reason - but I just called 911 instead of going back. Police didn't even arrest him and nobody stepped in to help my siblings. I'm in my 40s now and he still goes in streaks of obsession with me where he's stalked me, calls 30+ times daily, shows up unannounced and searches my property until he finds my kids or me. I have cancer atm, so he's taken a step away luckily - I think it makes him feel weak or like he's mortal maybe. I'm hoping he stays away for good.

@kimrobinson6285

Ай бұрын

Good luck with your treatment. ❤🙏

This is great. So true and especially useful; helped me heal it by being aware and realistic not just naïve and hopeful. THANKS !

I love how simplisticly you explain this. I may show it to my person about their ex/ child's other parent. I think this would simplify it for them so well and the strategic word of control is important

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

Google “Harpy’s Child” (and change the gender if it fits.)

Wow. Perfect diagram of how they think at this stage. How are you so young & able to articulate this terribly destructive part of the relationship with the narcissist?? You nailed it!

Amazing. You hit the nail right on the head! For a year or so now I was the, Primary source of “supply” for my lady friend. She was beautiful, and I was an Empath, and worse, codependent. I just screamed, Primary. I did everything for this woman, and ignored all the red flags. To say that I was a fool would be an understatement. Then recently I was able to get on her iPad, at this point the bells and whistles were so loud they were deafening. There I found, just as you said, all her secondary sources of supply and I was gone. Empaths are great until you screw them over. I packed all my bags left, and said nothing. I went dark, blocked my phone, social media and disappeared. There was no point in confronting this individual. This is a total a losing effort. They are too good at what they do to get in argument with. I can only hope that she finds a new primary, and does not try to hunt me down.

The absolute BEST video I have ever come across in the years I have been looking for answers. Thank you for posting this!

This is great content and so well presented. Thank you😊

Just found your channel! Great video! I think this is exactly what happened with my narcissistic ex friend. I ran into him recently at a show in the town I moved to, after 4 years… gulp… he tried to act like nothing ever happened and it was just old friends picking up where we left off and also “oh here’s some ways I’ve become more humble or changed etc” which is believable ONLY to the extent that he’s changed his tactics. But he’s the same manipulative fool he always was. When I tell you I drank at that show … 😂 Unfortunate that he now knows where I hang out and has a mutual friend that he comes to visit here sometimes. Wish me luck moving forward!

@MiRiAmetje

Ай бұрын

Good luck! ❤

I normally don't watch youtube psychology essays but this video was really clear and matter-of-fact. Good job.

Yay a fellow buffy fan.. lol.. so much fun. I enjoy your vids they are very insightful. Thank you.

Excellent summary. This is the first video I have watched on your channel and I am impressed. Thank you and blessings to you and your team!

We cut ourselves off from a narc nearly a year ago. So far the most that's been tried is a few texts and calling by using someone else's number. Last we heard of anybody interacting with this narc, she had cornered someone who had once dated her kid. She was trying to get this person to date her far more submissive son who despite his age still lives with her and refuses to move out she didnt act very friendly when she was told no.

Trait #6 I was heavily bullied in school. So I have a monstrously high emotional stamina, and emotional resilience to all kinds of tantrums and abuse..... Unfortunately, this makes me a very prime picking for people like that

@SirenaSpades

2 ай бұрын

I find this to be the opposite. as a redhead I was bullied a lot in the 70's and my father was a narcissist. This makes it very obvious to me when someone tries the same tactics. I may be marchevellian.

I have a friend who is really considering divorcing her narcissistic husband. Watching this to prep for that

@rhast57

Ай бұрын

She did. Update. This has been so helpful.

This video was incredibly insightful, like i knew but thanks for the confirmation👏🏽💯

Let's talk about the narcissist is a parent. When they realise they have been unmasked and have lost you, they just aim at destruction.

Exactly what happened to me and I'm the perfect target

I didn’t know I was with a narcissist for 4 years until I left. And even till today even though all the traits fits perfectly, I’m so brainwashed it’s hard to believe.

First time on your channel and this breakdown is really good! You explained their collapse very well. I have a parent who is going through this now! I've intuited this but you broke it down. No, Narcs don't change. They feel comfortable in their mental state. At least for now. I would loved to have come into this knowledge younger. It's a long journey to awareness and recovery.

For four and a half years, I thought my relationship was just plagued by poor communication and incompatibility. Little did I know I was entangled with a narcissist who would leave me emotionally and mentally shattered. It was only after she discarded me in the most brutal way and two therapists diagnosed me with CPTSD that I began to understand the trauma I had endured. Fourteen months later, I'm still grappling with the reality of what happened. I fell in love with the most evil, complicated, and messed up person I have ever met. I'm not perfect myself; I have ADHD tendencies, act impulsively, and carried unresolved childhood trauma. Despite these flaws, I'm a good person who cares deeply for others. But she, with her cute, charismatic exterior, exploited every part of me. She broke me in every way possible. Her lies, betrayal, and abuse left me in a state of shock, comatose for months. I couldn't understand how someone could be so cruel. She manipulated and abused me, and I saw all the red flags, yet I stayed. Why? Because of my own unresolved trauma, my need to be loved, and my belief that things would get better. She exhibited no empathy, no compassion, and no accountability. Her grandiose sense of self, selfishness, and constant lies were a daily torment. She gaslighted, manipulated, and cheated, all while portraying herself as a high-moral individual who criticized others for the very things she did. She painted herself as the victim, creating conflict out of nothing and blaming me for everything. During our holidays, she would secretly message other men and then lash out at me. I even babysat her kids while she went on dinner dates with exes. She would withhold affection, ruin holidays, and rage at me for not validating her. I gave her everything-gifts, financial support, love-but got nothing in return. Her cruelty extended to mocking my needs and feelings, leaving me in a perpetual state of anxiety and depression. I experienced severe health issues, my nervous system was in tatters, and my self-esteem was obliterated. She love-bombed me at the start, but it was all a facade. Her true nature slowly revealed itself through passive-aggressive comments, stonewalling, and constant criticism. She compared me to her exes, manipulated me with sex, and accused me of things I hadn’t done. She self-harmed to manipulate me, threatened suicide, and raged at me for not soothing her. Everything was always my fault, and she projected her own insecurities onto me. I was always walking on eggshells, afraid to say or do anything wrong. Our relationship was transactional; I was never good enough, and she was never interested in my well-being. She discarded me cruelly, smearing my name and accusing me of being the narcissist. Even after the breakup, she tried to gaslight me and manipulate my emotions. Her previous relationships ended similarly, with her exes driven to despair by her toxic behavior. After a year of healing, educating myself on NPD and BPD, and piecing together the nightmare I lived through, I realized the extent of her malevolence. Her own family had gone no contact with her, a testament to her destructive nature. I learned that she had been diagnosed with a personality disorder, which she projected onto others. Now, as I continue to heal, I recognize her for what she truly is: a beautiful siren masking pure evil. A virus that infected my life, leaving scars that will take time to heal. But I will heal, stronger and wiser from the ordeal.

@andymorin9163

15 күн бұрын

damn... this made me realize that my problems (trying to get a fearful avoidant back) are just a drop compared to the ocean you're going through. sending well wishes ❤

Spike bouncing around and exploding is hilarious I'm sorry 😂

@Christinalovesturtle

2 ай бұрын

Agreed! & speaking from a place of trying to rebuild after one of their final trap attempts including affecting my job in a career I'd had nearly 20 years while I was the primary income earner in the household raising our young son, no less. So loving! 😐

In the middle of rewatching Buffy series & that example using Spike and that classic quote landed super fantastically. Best reminder, will remember that quote forever! thank you, explanation is great!

@chrisseitercoaching

Ай бұрын

What season are you on?

These videos are so eye opening to me. My Father-in-Law is going through this right now after being married almost 30 years (together almost 50) with a narcissist. He cut her off last year on May 31st, 2023. She left, went to another state to love (with another man), but over the last year, she'd been attempting to keep tabs on him. He went no contact with her. He's very sick now, and now I have 7 voice mail messages he received with her BEGGING him to come back, saying she knows he'll get better if SHE comes back to take care of him.

Hello. New here. This is the first video of yours I'm watching. It came across my feed. All you needed to do was say "Buffy" and I subscribed 💪🏽❤

Oh I agree with you. I was a secondary source.. But they kept moving that place and I knew when it felt wrong but couldn't tell you why. Now with time and distance...I see it clearer. I agree with what you've presented here. Well done!

This is exactly where I am now, and have been for years. We cohabit for financial reasons, and his secondaries are all from social media. When he loses one or two he starts love bombing me and we go through all the steps. It’s beyond exhausting, but I have kids to think about, so I’m hanging on in there.

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

Please don’t “hang in there for those kids.” It sends and demonstrates a horrible model of relationships as well as messages to us about *our value-* Which is less than zero and not surprisingly, we end up in dysfunctional/abusive relationships too. Please don’t use us as an excuse for enduring abuse. That’s no life for us either. Good luck, *do it for the kids.*

@IReallyLikeSnails

2 ай бұрын

@@tundrawomansays694 I absolutely agree, I think I didn’t word it well. I come from an abusive childhood myself and my parents stayed together “for the kids”. It was a war zone. I wouldn’t wish that on my children. I meant that I am hanging on in there in the sense that I am trying my best to assert my boundaries, and trying to show them that although I cannot move out I can still be an example of showing strength in trying circumstances. I also try not to “blame” their father, which puts them in a terrible position also.

***I call her Remote Control*** I currently live with one of the biggest Narcissist in the world. Todays date 6/17/24. Page Crossing. Springfield, Missouri. As a matter of fact, she is currently controlling the A/C. From 72 degrees up to 75. What a Bia Bia. First it was the relationship, so we split and she left to the living room. Then the Nintendo Switch, because that gave me happiness. She took it and it sits in a drawer to this day. Then it was the cat. She would take her on my days off with her to work, because she knew that was happiness. She first said she doesn't spend enough time with her, then it switched to "Shes my emotional support cat, and I'll do what I want with my cat!" Now its the A/C switch. She tried covering the only entrance in and out of my room, (Fire Evacuation Plan Non Existent) but it only blocked her from the entrance to the bathroom. She will claim that she was blocking the cat from entering my room. But cats climb. It did. Ran straight into my room 😂. Well that stopped. So now she thinks she has streamline communication to the office of our apartments, and she tells them everything that upsets her. Regardless of cold hard facts or even an inkling of truth. All he said she said stuff. I am talking about Fiction Novels here. She speaks of everything that she made up in her head also. Then she'll say, well I was in pre-law and they tell you to use context clues and then make a hypothetical assumption off of the information gathered to give you an educated guess. Assuming makes an Ass out of you and me! I'll give you an example. Because she lacks confidence, she tries to bring down everyone around her to boost her own ego. Wherever she goes, the dark cloud above her head will always rain poison. She told me on May 15, 2024 @ 12:57 PM that I was downstairs in the neighbors unit. 12:58 PM I respond with "No been here at the shop" At this moment I am literally finishing my lunch, in the parking lot of the automotive shop I work for. Also let me add, I am a loner. I thrive by myself, so I don't need the attention of others. One thing I learned in my teenage years through my 20's, and 30's, is that I despise drama. Everything about it is crap. So I tend to shutdown when it comes to that. This lady thrives, bathes, intertwines, mingles, etc. in Drama. She absolutely loves it! Farewell Remote! Take Dat ish witchu!

Terrific video very intriguing I went through it with my girlfriend for nine months the dynamics involve with this unless you’re aware of it are debilitating

This is a great video on what goes on behind the scenes. Ty❤

I used to watch you years ago for relationship advice. I love this elevation of content! I trusted you then and I trust you now. 😌👌🏽

My mum is a narcissist. Rn I'm looking for a new home to avoid her conpletely but I already introduced the no contact tecnique. Blocked her everywhere, noise reduction headphones always on at home and no talk or response to everything she says. She keeps on spiraling between guilt shaming me and anger. Today in fact she become violent towards me. Luckily I studied her work schedule and I'm always out of the house when she's in.

I Am autistic. For every major event, and between them, in my life. These narcissists have fooled me over and over and over. The narcissist changes, but.. cannot keep up there nuance s. Because I learn after burning as autistic person usually does. Cannot find a true friend than my mom, or husband. So in my last breath, or ten breaths before, I hope that I found the feeling that I have mastered to detect them, and can save my autistic grandchildren for misery.

Your about 10 minute mark, changed my brain. I'm 43 and not joking. Thank you and be well 💓⚡

narcissist had a good streak with their main supply thats why its so difficult to find a replacement

This was awesome! Wow! Very interesting.

Dude. You sir are a very good communicator. Like the humor.

Faccccccctttsss!! This was the most realistic description of the whole lil system. I used to notice that the other supply was at a safe distance. Not really knowing him but then things started to leak out .. one of the was promoted as I ran dry … per-say.. I was made a monster for reacting to crazy making behaviors .. in which I allowed . I also had a high tolerance for abuse because that was part of my child hood

People with narcissistic traits often don’t go in for treatment, and definitely not at the rates that those with BPD do. That’s why there’s a lot less research on them. Sadly, the treatment outcomes for those with narcissistic traits or NPD are not good.

@ashton1952

3 ай бұрын

It's the one clinical disorder that makes life and work impossible for everyone else around them, instead of themselves. Also makes it harder to diagnose by a professional, but those who have to put up with it daily, know.

@Dr.Sucheta

3 ай бұрын

@@ashton1952oh yes, we know alll too well

@wendyyang4717

3 ай бұрын

Narcissists are always right and they will not seek help. My covert narcissist of 30 years ex husband of 5 kids, continued his next relationship as a narcissist until he passed away

@SirenaSpades

2 ай бұрын

BPD don't go for treatment either... also BPD usually also have dual narcissism traits.

@tundrawomansays694

2 ай бұрын

I refer to BPD as “Border Lion Personality Disorder.” They’re no treat either.

Very interesting video! I liked a lot of the points you make- especially about why "secondary sources" often don't know they're even a source. I was also intrigued by your mentioning of there being not really any research done on narcissists ability to recover- The thought that immediately popped into my head is that maybe there's not much research on it because getting a narcissist to even acknowledge their mental health to themselves, much less be willing to even try to do anything about it- is very unlikely in a lot of cases.

Thank you so much for this education. Feeling very blessed to have this knowledge moving forward. God bless. ❤

This video literally made me feel like I opened my ears and learned a new language I feel like my third eye awakened i am starting to understand narcissists more and more