How My Path of Self Destruction Led Me to My Creator!
Тәжірибелік нұсқаулар және стиль
Sometimes you have to burn it all down before you can build it back up!
00:00 Preamble
12:25 Soul Chat
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Hey brother, I was on drugs for 14 years, I'm 9 years clean man. I'm proud of you! Anyone who reads this, if you're struggling with addiction, trust me, you can do it! One day at a time. It gets easier the next day. Just remember that. Today is the worst, but tomorrow will be better! I love you all!🤜🏼🤛🏼
@daryldavirro4237
25 күн бұрын
Glad you made it out the other side brother
@randyisafilmer
22 күн бұрын
Congrats man and thank you. I appreciated seeing this comment this morning
@Chris.Rhodes
17 күн бұрын
@@randyisafilmer Absolutely man!
@Chris.Rhodes
17 күн бұрын
@@daryldavirro4237 Appreciate you! 🙏
Came for the drywall, stayed for the spiritual advice
@danielkoher1944
22 күн бұрын
Idiots are followers.
Ben, you have 621,000 people that you just bared your soul to AND 621k people that respect you on a deeper level now. Keep being you. You're here for a reason. We all are. Stay blessed!
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Thank you ☺️
@1dariansdad
23 күн бұрын
We wish that 621,000 people would hear his message but that's not really how it works. As I watch this, there are but 18,000 views and only 1,500 likes. What I'm saying is that the subs and likes are drastically different from reality of impressions. Plus, due to our short attention spans, if you could see his metrics, the average minutes watched is probably around 10.
@danielkoher1944
22 күн бұрын
Plenty of prophets full of 💩 here!
@danielkoher1944
22 күн бұрын
@@1dariansdad I was 😂 thinking please just do your video. Accidentally left a good comment until he went off on a psychotic rant. I have worked rehabilitation and crisis unit. It’s a shame he didn’t write a narrative. Decide do I really want my entire life judged? Or do I want to edit out the nonsense? Once you place your soul on social media it’s out there. Before he began his tirade, you could see smooth work progress into ridged slop. I even wrote a comment that an idiot told me he couldn’t understand. Truly makes you wonder how they navigate channels. If the person didn’t understand, or was being obnoxious. It was sad to see they hadn’t attended elementary school.
@danielkoher1944
22 күн бұрын
While losing many that don’t share the same beliefs. Believing they were here for a drywall site.
dude this is pretty wild. I kinda had a rough week and you and i have a very similar story with a similar amount of sobriety. I'm sitting outside of this hotel because I'm travelling and I'm all out of my element and twisted up inside. Going to a meeting is absolutely not an option right now. So I pray sitting there on the concrete in the parking lot. God help me, show me the way, etc..... And I come back into my hotel room knowing that going to bed at 5 pm isn't gonna help this depression. So I put on this video and man did it help. I swear it was an answered prayer. Thank you. Your message was absolutely on point, it got me to think of where I was at when I first got sober, all the struggles along the way, and things are just so much different now. Amazing
@tarahclubb4243
22 күн бұрын
Praise God his video helped you so much 🙌🏼 that’s so amazing to hear. I too was an addict and so was my husband. Now we’ve been sober for 7 years for me, 10 years for my husband and we run a ministry that helps men struggling with addiction come to know Christ 😭
I am glad you shared your story/testimony online. That act alone is very courageous and has great power to show the deep need we all have is rooted in our need for Jesus Christ.
@tarahclubb4243
21 күн бұрын
Amen! 🙌🏼
@Mark_KE8YCV
15 күн бұрын
Amen
I've been in the word for over 50 years and I've never heard such a wonderful testimony as yours. Bravo my Brother!
@danielkoher1944
22 күн бұрын
Go to rehabilitation plenty of brainwashing.
My respect for you just went up one million percent. God bless you my friend!
Thanks Ben. Congrats on your sobriety. You have a gift of speech and story telling. Oh. And you are great tradesman.👍
I’m the opposite, had a very religious upbringing and went to a private religious school through 8th grade. Very quickly became turned off to religious folks, it was not a good experience and there are plenty of reasons currently as well. If all people who call themselves Christian could have a chat like this, and be KIND and empathetic to folks different than themselves, non judgmental, not demanding or self righteous, not insistent that others must only live the way they do, than I think the conversation could become easier. Thanks for sharing your experience, I’m glad you found what you needed and what worked for you
@1dariansdad
23 күн бұрын
Same here. What drove me away from religion was hypocrisy. When the "deacons" would be railing about loving God and Jesus while banging each other's wives on the side... Just one example.
@nathanellison594
20 күн бұрын
I grew up going to all catholic schools and personally had a great experience. I'm not super religious or anything, but I didn't have any bad experiences
@ibealion1
17 күн бұрын
Don't judge God because of your experience with people. You're the only one who loses in that scenario, and the tragedy of it is that God, above all, does not want you to lose. Like, if you can (and I realize it's very difficult) read John 3:16-17 and just take it at face-value, it will change your life. But just tonight, I prayed for people exactly like yourself because I know that the state of mind you have now is hard to escape. But I also know that God can help you escape it if you want to.
@april2057
13 күн бұрын
@@ibealion1 I appreciate your concern, and I’m actually glad you brought that verse up because it has always held my biggest concern on the religion itself (not the people). Nowhere does it talk about us striving to be good people, or to be kind to our neighbor, or to do what is right. It quite simply says that as long as you believe in God, you will have eternal life. And I think that is exactly what is so wrong with all of it. You don’t have to be a good person to go to heaven, you just have to believe. I know that I’m a good person, I try very hard every day to treat others with kindness and respect. If all of that good is overlooked simply because of that one fact that I do not believe in God, that’s not a group I need to be a part of. And if that fact alone makes me a bad person, I’m not bothered by that because I know what’s in my heart. There are definitely a lot of people who take that verse to heart though, they believe in God, but that’s about all the good that they offer. To me, that is the real tragedy. Thank you for praying for me, I appreciate the kind thought.
@ibealion1
13 күн бұрын
@@april2057 As I said, don't judge God based on what you see from people... Also, if your goodness was judged in comparison to God, your record would not be so clean as you imagine. If all your inward thoughts were on display, you, like the rest of us, would be ashamed. And if I'm wrong, then share the darkest thought you've had publicly and prove me wrong. And final thought, folks who truly believe God are the least hypocritical and the most humble people on planet earth. There are hypocrites in bars and in churches, but true believers hate hypocrisy in themselves and turn from it because they know and admit who they really are and they are aware of what they've been forgiven for. Just because you've experienced hypocrites and determined that you are a better person, you really should not judge yourself based on other people. Your comparison to God is the comparison that will be used in the end.
I like working alone as a painter with some music or a podcast. But sometimes you need to talk and laugh and enjoy. The new videos feel this way. Enjoying them a lot. 👍
@rudispruell883
25 күн бұрын
Working alone, as a painter... I hear Bob Ross' voice. I work alone, a lot, too. For a lot of the same reasons. It is more peaceful and comfortable. Plus, I find that being able to paint naked keeps all of the drips and spatters off of my clothes. 😉
@Tom-os4hy
25 күн бұрын
Most painters just cry and moan too everyone they can
@TEAMPHY6
25 күн бұрын
I did the same thing, mudded up a room while listening to this. Almost brought a tear to my eye.
@Danny........
24 күн бұрын
@Tom-os4hy lol not crying, I actually love the work. I can't get people that want to work, so I don't worry, I turn on some music and paint. No worrying about employees' quality anymore. 👌
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
🙂❤️
I have subscribed to your channel for years. Probably during my first years and the last drywaller I hired died of a major cardiac...overdose. I had no idea why I've very occasionally watched you all this time when I've subscribed and unsurrendered from a bucket of channels...until now. I consider that among other things, the work of my Creator. What a privilege and gift to see and hear you today. ❤
I seen a positive side of you a long time ago I always wonder if you believed in God. Thank you for opening up and give us your thoughts about God. Thank you for being who you are and being real.
Coming from someone who's watched pretty much every entry level drywall video on your channel, I'm really enjoying the new "Vancouver Story Time Carpenter" format.
Long time follower…started watching this video because I like seeing the “real work” and not just the highlights. The mistakes you have to go back and correct, the applications that aren’t perfect… But then stayed around for the spiritual talk. Keep being you!
I started watching your videos because of your ability to teach your trade. You are gifted. But now that I see you are a fellow believer and not afraid introduce your testimony in your videos, I appreciate you even more! You are gifted in more than mud work! People I think will listen to your relating God in a personal way as opposed to someone in an auditorium style church. Nice job. Nothing wasted. Love you man!
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Thank you Paul!
Welp, despite not wanting to, I sat through it. It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it was gonna be and I welcome future discussions. I'm fighting with my own demons at the moment and you have given me some ideas. So, thanks.
@jimmybeasley6008
25 күн бұрын
Yep
@wopwop420
25 күн бұрын
Just ask Jesus for help. The worst that could happen is nothing. I struggled myself with drugs and choices. Them one day I put my embarrassment aside and did it. Years later I'm a huge believer. I wish you the best in your life.
@amhainen
24 күн бұрын
I hope you find the path to getting better and free of your struggles.
@tarahclubb4243
21 күн бұрын
Praying for you, even though I don’t know you and will probably never meet you. Curiosity is was led me to the lord, actually I was trying to disprove the Bible and the christian faith and now am serving by helping others overcome addiction
@ibealion1
17 күн бұрын
Demons are real, but God is also real. Whoever puts their trust in Him will never be put to shame. But it DOES require the most difficult choice any human has ever had to make... humility. Most are unwilling. But if you do, you will not regret it!
Loving this style! Sometimes just watching someone do something is better than being told. And I love listening to your journey and insights!
Thank you so much for showing me how to plaster (drywall). I did mum's whole house after she passed away, and two years later started on my own house after a flood tore through the town. Plenty of time to think, sing like no-one can hear, and howl like a hound. It was healing, incredibly satisfying, and I saved a load of money. I hope you post more like this if that's what you want to do. Very best wishes to you and your family.
I like a man who casually uses the word meniscus. It's like mentioning chromatic aberration in conversation without any special note. These are the people with whom to associate on a regular basis.
@jacobpittman1996
24 күн бұрын
They had to teach us to read a graduated cylinder; you gotta know about the meniscus, man!
@JohnWilliams-kj3rh
24 күн бұрын
Are you one of the three 'O's?
Great conversation to listen to while doing some work in my own shop. I really enjoy hearing other's points of view when they speak from the heart. I, myself, am not very religious even though I was brought up in a very religious family. That's not to say I am not spiritual, because I am. I'm just not into organized religion. I have my own relationship with my creator and don't need to share it with a bunch of other people in a designated building on a specific day of the week to prove it. We have our talks when and where the need arises. Congrats on your sobriety. I have never had that problem. I don't understand what gets people into that position... but have such respect for those who find their way out.
So far, in my humble opinion, this is the best and the most inspiring videos of all in this channel.
@vancouvercarpenter
23 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!
You are very natural at talking about such a complicated thing like religion... Maybe this and talking other deep topics is part of your new path, as you look where to pivot. One thing I know is I trust what you're saying much more than I had from any spiritual leader I had growing up in church. I never full on rejected my upbringing nor did I fully accept it, so I feel stuck in the middle. I feel like this topic is great timing to help motivate me to move closer to the correct path.
More people need to hear the message you just laid out. I am pushing 50. Spent 30 and 40s chasing the buck. Now I think am ready for similar change. Bless you Ben!
Love the format. Love your comments. I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Those who move on are missing out on chats with a great neighbor and mentor.
As someone who thinks your imaginary friend is just that, it's not my place to tell you what's true in your life. What I liked about this conversation was that it wasn't disrespectful in any way. It's a conversation about your own experiences without talking down to people that don't believe as you do, all while being empathetic to those views as well. I respect you and your thoughts. Thanks for sharing something so personal. Also, congratulations on 20+ years of recovery. That's no small accomplishment and something to be immensely proud of. I'm glad you're here to have these conversations with us. Thank you for sharing your story.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Thank you ☺️
I avoid all controversial topics on my channel since it's 2024, but I appreciate the open interpretation of spirituality and the honest expectations of practicing any form of adherence to a religion, understanding there's no "perfect life" switch. At the same time it feels like any time something good happens, a deity gets credit, while anything bad is your fault followed by an avalanche of consequences. Being a decent person and helping others (especially animals) is certainly a good start.
Ben please keep doing this comment-as-you-go videos. Good discussions and so helpful to see what TO and what NOT to worry about as you go through the whole routine process of coating.
I really enjoyed this heart-to-heart style video. It’s really refreshing. I’ve learned a lot from watching your videos and they’ve helped me immensely. Looks like others feel the same way. Whatever direction you decide to go, we support it! Take care of yourself.
Loving this. I will say as someone who believes I am moving "dirt and water", I find it comforting and relaxing and spiritual in its own right. I feel very connected to, and in fact part of, a universe also of moving dirt and water. Great chat!
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
We are all part of it🙂. But we might be even more. Unprovable though.
@ibealion1
17 күн бұрын
It's provable if one will put God to the test. For anyone who puts God to the test with an honest desire for a true answer, He will prove it to them. YOU can't prove it, but He can.
@BenRush
16 күн бұрын
@@vancouvercarpenter I wouldn't worry about looking for proof. Everything in life, including what life is, is uncertain. Leave proof to the mathematicians. It's a mysterious universe and a beautiful one. How each of us handles the mystery is perfectly fine and enough, in my opinion. What one person might define as "even more" will be different too. I personally would be quite disappointed if the Judeo-Christian take were right because it seems....too human, too local, too provincial. "Even more" to me is precisely what I believe, and it's enough!
@uknowme1811
12 күн бұрын
@@ibealion1So no such thing as nonresistant nonbelievers?
@uknowme1811
12 күн бұрын
@@vancouvercarpenterYa were Star Dust! Thats pretty freaking amazing and spiritual on its own.. I'm for whatever gives you, hope, meaning and purpose..And damn you make mudding look so easy.
A creator talking about his creator! I’m glad to hear it.
@MrPeach1
24 күн бұрын
its almost like we were created in HIS image. We were made to be creative. I thinks thats qhy he said he connects more to God while he is working.
@danervin2530
23 күн бұрын
I mean it’s in the language through and through. As humans, aside from all else, if there is ONE thing he is, it’s merciful. If there’s another- it’s creative lol.
Thanks for sharing from the heart. I came for a drywall video and got a testimony. Hard to believe there are so many corners in one room!😮
I once took a class in string theory from a professor who made me feel like I could do string theory. He was just that good at what he did. As I watch you mud, it's the same, I think, I could do that. It looks easy. Then I remind myself I tried. You are an artist. This is so much harder than you make it look.
Wow! Thanks for sharing your story. Never in a million years would I have thought that would have been your experience. I’m so glad you got the help you needed! I’m currently struggling to finish a small DIY project and listening to you talk and watching you work away on these jobs you do, I always come away learning something new. Please keep the videos coming!
Thank you for sharing. Came to be soothed by your drywall skills. Had my heart uplifted by your journey. 🙏
Thank you for everything you do and have done. If your life is taking you in a different direction than content creation, you have to do what is best for you, your family, and friends. It takes a strong person to do what you've done. Stay strong and I hope your projects going really well, but I hope you're doing even better.
We're gonna watch no matter what, we just want to see you be yourself and succeed. No point in living if you dont enjoy it. Good luck!
It's nice hearing a professional talk through what is happening.
I've been watching for quite awhile now. I've often wondered if you were a Christian because of the way you talked and your demeanor. I always thought to myself wow he doesn't have a foul mouth and always seemed happy and content. Then I watched this video and now I'm thanking the Lord for this time to listen to your testimony and that you are doing well. Always remember what does a man do if he gains the whole world but loses his soul. Stay humble and seek ye first the Kingdom of God. May God bless you and keep you. Keep on with the words God gives you to share with the world and be prepared for the many blessings he sends your way and may you receive many blessings. Your friend in Chist Jesus our Lord and savior. Keep up the good work.
I'm a 61 y/o female that tackled the drywall in my bathroom because your teaching style made me believe I could do it. It turned out great and watching your testimony last night made me like you even more! You have many gifts and we are all blessed that you share them with us! May God continue to bless you!
IM so proud of you for sharing and doing so good now
Trust earned. I have been watching for years as a self supporting missionary pastor needing to save money. You have helped me learn skills and do work that endures and brings honour. I see the wisdom and life-giving purpose in your testimony. I thank you for carefully and intentionally telling it so well.
Cathartic, Ben. Seeing your technique, as you work and think about greater things, is a tremendous “double-whammy”. Blessings on you, my man.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
My pleasure!
Wow, this was a pleasant surprise. I've been watching several of your tutorials lately and I am just finishing up a drywall project. Loved hearing your story. Keep pressing into God. The goal is to know Jesus Christ in a deeper way. He died on the cross for our sins that we might live. Not sure if you are that far into the journey yet but I hope you will get there.
Hearing you this morning is the reassurance i need, it doesn't fix my worries, but its comforting to hear you be vulnerable and still laugh it off, knowing "i can't do it alone". Praying does get you there, not always on the schedule a person expects. Thanks man.
This has been the best 38 minutes of my day! So much admiration for you!
I’m Heart wormed over everything you said and in the way you said it. You may or may not realize how simply sharing your testimony like this and in such a thoughtful way can really influence someone through their trials. I often say to my friends that religion has been such a bad influence on our culture. I believe that church is supposed to be a place where a bunch of messed up people get together and lift each other up. We will never be perfect, but when your life is full of people who Love you and lift you up, you without realizing it start doing the same thing. Sounds cheesy, but it’s quite fulfilling. Been binge watching the content over the past few months, it’s really been a blessing, and now more than I expected. Thank you Brother!
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!🙏
Thanks for this video. You're a great example and reminder that while vocational ministry (i.e. being a pastor) is one way to minister to others, it is by no means the only way. Sometimes you need to hear messages like these from a drywaller on KZread with a simple, beautiful life story. The timing of this video is a perfect example of what you were saying towards the end about our prayers being answered - I have been struggling with some bad health anxiety recently and "letting go", and this video really did calm me down and help me remember to rely on God's sovereignty and the fact that our prayers will always be answered, even if not in the way/time/place we hope for. Also, I think you made some really great points. Specifically I think your point on dogma is spot on, and very interesting (I'm coming at this from a Christian perspective). I think as a society we lost our faith because we put too much stock into dogma/tradition/etc. While those things really are important, they are meaningless to someone who doesn't have faith in the first place. We need to start with Jesus and the Gospel (again, from a Christian perspective), and then all those other things will be inherently interesting to people. But they won't bring anyone to faith. Again, excellent video and congrats on 20.5 years! :)
"Sometimes you have to burn it all down before you can build it back up!" ... Well said brother.
Thanks for your video. I have been sober for over 20 years now. I can understand what you are saying about God. A higher power in God has kept me on the level. It's never been easy in my journey. But it is well worth it. Proud of you for sharing Amen. You are doing well in your plastering. I, m still plastering at 64 years old.Pleased you are Making good. Of the positives of been sober.
Again thank you. I think we would have had a lot of fun on a job site together, I really enjoy your sense of humor. Now that I've watched this video I understand what drew me to your channel. I've been doing this work longer than you've been alive. Now I know that we had a lot of the same struggles, I'm an alcoholic and addict, sober for a long time. No matter what content you post, I will be here,as I suspect many others will be also. You are a genuine person, you care about your family and you care about people in general. What you did in this video took a lot of courage. Thank you. G-d bless you and your family.
@vancouvercarpenter
21 күн бұрын
Thank you Michael!!!
I have looked down on religious people most of my life. Mostly because a lot of them are very judgemental. But then I had a real tragedy happen and no one to turn to, except god. I prayed, and pleaded and accepted him. And not only did the tragedy subside very quickly but my life changed a lot. 20 years of cyclical heavy depression and pain gone. 2 kids, joy, gratefulness. Of course I still have bad or shitty days. But I thank god every now and then and I should probably do it more. Thanks for sharing Ben, loved listening and watching.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Sounds like you have had a full life 🙂
@ibealion1
17 күн бұрын
Step 2 after faith is yielding. That ends the depression INSTANTANEOUSLY. It's His promise to you.
Sometimes just being honest and doing the best you can is all that is needed. Great video and your channel is not floundering, it's just deciding what it will be in the next phase.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Thank you! I appreciate that!
@Alex_P_19
24 күн бұрын
It's only floundering if you view it from, I'm guessing, a financial or views perspective. From a long time viewer, the quality and depth is as good as its ever been. It's just gone in a different direction. I know comments and praise don't pay the bills but maybe that's not the channel's main role any more. It's engaging viewers in a different way, I've commented more in the last 4 weeks than the last 5 years combined. I have found several times in my life when I finally let go of my expectation of what something should be, and just let it be what it is, it frees me from the mental burden. Currently in one of these phases.
Thank You for being so open We are all on our own journey.
Been a fan for several years. Always knew there was something deeper about you. Hope you keep growing closer to your maker!
I've been subscribed for a few years and have learned a TON from your channel. This was your best video yet, and I hope to see more like it!
You really have a gift for articulating faith in a relatable way!
Loved hearing your perspective on this. I always appreciate people who can be respectful of other’s experiences and beliefs yet open and willing to share their own journey. I have been spiritually lifted. Thanks for reminding us of the bread and butter of faith- a willingness, a humility, an introspection that brings us closer to our Creator, whatever that may be. Really appreciate the soul chat.
Love you, man. You do you. Thanks for sharing your story. I needed it today.
happy for you that you made it out. Its great when you ask for help and you get it.
Allright!!! The VC w/ an edge! It ain't all sunshine out there and working alone ain't easy. Nice to hear you growl.....carry on!!!
I found you just a few months ago and I couldn't be more grateful for it. I am not that great at drywall and or mudding, but I know this, but at the same time want to be. I've learned so much from you. Watching you with your trowels and the way you mudd if so rewarding for me. From the bottom of My heart thank you for doing what you do. Regardless of what you talk about I will always watch. Since ive taken this profession on I have not had anyone actually teach me, I've just been shown a few times and been punished for mistakes. I could just keep going so again thank you and please don't ever stop making these video's congrats on the 20 plus years clean.
My mistake after listening to till the end ,I like you even more,thanks for sharing that,as someone who has been through similar experience,not drugs related, but learning to believe in yourself when at the bottom is a long and difficult process but building that strength works Religion has never been my path but I am now in my sixties and appreciate that I made it happen
Ben, it always means when someone shares their faith. God Bless you and your family!
I enjoyed the vid. Sharing your life journey with us was both brave and honest. Everyone's journey is different but when things work, it can be an inspiration to others.
Thank you for sharing your journey! Also, I appreciate the close-up views of your work in the beginning, It helps to see how the finish should look.
I am really enjoying these videos man. This one especially. You have so really good thoughts on this topic and aome well thought out opinions. You have a platform to share your faith, do it! Do it well. Do it for the Kingdom. Faith is not the same thing as religion. Religion strangles and kills. It is by grace you are saved through faith, not by your own doing, but a gift of God. Not of works so that no one may boast. It is faith, personal faith and personal relationship. One that cant be explained to someone who hasnt walked in it and one thay cant be transferred to another no matter how much we try. Goos talk Keep it up.
Fantastic Video! I have enjoyed your drywall videos for years, got me through renovating my parents' house. After I finished the renovations, I found myself watching your videos sometimes just for fun and often as a meditative escape from reality. And now I'm in a different place and suddenly find your conversational videos to be perfect for where I'm at now. I'm glad you're on a path you find fulfilling and appreciate you sharing your journey. It's definitely helping me, and from what I just read in the comments, it's clearly helping others. I appreciate your integrity and honesty and your willingness and courage to share your thoughts and journey with us! Thanks!
awesome video ben, really like your perspective on this stuff.
@vancouvercarpenter
21 күн бұрын
Thank you ☺️
Glad you made it through the rough patch. Hang in there. Thanks for the videos. Really. I've done a bunch of minor room remodels, and he drywall and taping instruction has been the so helpful.
im half your age maybe butt was connected to this energy some years ago, it faded when big problems showed up and now when the winds slowing down i feel something missing and in need. thank you for reminding. i needed that.
Whoa, Ben unchained, this is rad
Thanks for this. Cheered up an old man. Very good advice. I also appreciate hearing your inside perspective on you tube. You're a good man.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Happy to be of service🤝
Thank you for sharing your store. I really enjoy the new format.
Thanks for your heartfelt message. My religious beliefs are a personal thing. I don't "talk" to the creator, but I have come to better understand my relationship with the Creator. I do believe that man was created in the "image" of the Creator in that a part of the Creator is within me.
HVAC guys looking at whoever framed the furnace in to that tiny closet like 😩
Thank you so much for sharing your spiritual testimony. I started watching your channel because you are so proficient at drywall and I pretty much suck at it. Come to find out you are my brother in Christ and I appreciate what you do. I was called to lead my church for a year and a half as worship music Director when we had no one else to lead the church. It’s not something that I ever wanted but God gives us gifts for a reason. You are drawing people in.by sharing your gifts. Don’t forget that. God bless you and your family!
When I was in eighth grade back in the 80’s everyone was smoking dope. We used to have parties at friend’s houses who had bars in their basements. I went from being an A student in the talented and gifted program to D’s and F’s in remedial classes. But then I decided that one day I was going to meet the girl of my dreams and what would she want with a pothead? So I quit. And a year later I met a really nice girl and we dated all through high school. I should have married her. About that same time I also was trying to figure out what I was. What I believed in. So I studied the Bible, studied ancient history, learned about the early church, went to different church services, and even dated a Jewish girl in college. Learned a lot. But I’ve always admired the Amish and Mennonites for their devotion and simple lifestyle. So now that I’m older I identify as a Mennonite. I’m a software engineer but I live my life simple. No smart machines, no smart thermostats or gadgets, manual tools, push mower, I don’t event have a washing machine or dryer. Wash my clothes by hand and hang up to dry. When my wife ran off to become an alcoholic party girl and I had to raise our two daughters by myself my faith helped me get through the hard times. And now that I’m unemployed thanks to this economy I need my faith even more. Thanks for sharing your story. Faith is different for all of us.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
Wow! Thanks for sharing your story❤️
Thank you and your channel for always meeting me at my level of needs😊
I’m loving the new videos! Super pumped your openness and believe Jesus is going to bless this new season!
I liked that, using the word creator to soften the blow, true not everybody is ready for his name right off the hop. Understanding that I had a spiritual need and doing my best to fulfill it changed my life for the best in every way and helped me to understand what is truly important life
Ive been watching both for many years. Im in the same situation much love homie i hope we progress to be great beings.
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
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Hey Brother! I am always happy to see and hear people express their religious beliefs. I feel like the world needs more of this. Christians have been quiet and subtle trying not to offend, but hearing a very calm and well spoken testament of your beliefs will undoubtedly strengthen others beliefs. I know it does mine. Thank you and keep the content, any content, coming.
You’re a good man, Ben. I wish there were more like you out there in the world. It’d be a better place.
I clicked to hear your thoughts, not learn about Drywall. And I've gained much respect for you and appreciate your boldness to speak out
Love watching you work and have watched many hours of your videos. Not sure what you're doing with the lighting but this is awesome. I can really see what it looks like when you decide it's enough. Will help me know when to stop when i do it myself. Also your take on spiritual discovery is nice. Thank you for sharing that.
I have been watching your videos randomly here and there for a few years now. Loved this !! ❤ something about talking from the heart ..while working that just apeals!!!😊
This was a good video man came at a great time. I been struggling lately with direction in life I’m a few days away from 4 years clean and I’ve been really miserable the last few months. I work for myself and Ive been busy so it’s hard to complain but I definitely need to figure something out. I feel like I’m too busy focusing on work and don’t have enough time for my family or myself . Time for some self reflection and maybe looking to my higher power for some direction
@vancouvercarpenter
24 күн бұрын
It’s hard sometimes. And even at 20 years I still go through it….like I am right now.
I’ve been a long time subscriber and your videos have always been fascinating.
Your best video yet. Love you brother, peace to your journey. Oh, and good job on the drywall work. It looks decent 😝
You are so right. You are speaking history and discussing important topics in such a wonderful way. I love this.
God ( our Creator) cares about all of us. He's demonstrated His unconditional love for us on the cross. Thank you for sharing your experience. Our Creator has given us a revelation of His character in His book. He's the Creator of relationships and longs to restore the broken relationship between Him and His creation. I am going to pray for you. God's people do this. Please keep posting videos. It has been a blessing to me and many others. Isn't that what life is about? Taking what God has given us and using it to bless others.
Thank you for the amazing testimony. I will pray for you every time I walk into my kitchen and look up at the ceiling that the Vancouver Carpenter encouraged me to DIY through your videos.
I appreciate you being vulnerable with who you are. Sharing your story of how God has changed you is good to hear.
I’ve been watching you for quite a while, I’ve always enjoyed your videos because they were super helpful to me as a DIYer. But mostly because of the way you presented them without gimmicks. I watched this from start to finish… keep it up, I found it very encouraging… God Bless you
I've been agnostic my entire life, and yet the humble way you explained your connection to god still resonated with me. Perhaps spirituality is a fundamental human experience, and it's just the high-level particulars we all don't always see eye-to-eye on. I also know the tranquility of spreading drywall mud that you described. It's this rare peace in the world where I have the privilege of taking something rough and unformed, and slowly working it until it becomes more and more orderly. I was pleased to hear you also love coating corner beads; that's always the moment where my brain says "ok, NOW you're a wall; you can fulfill your purpose". I hope this doesn't make you uncomfortable, but I got into doing drywall years ago from watching almost exclusively your videos. Your welcoming demeanor, detailed explanations, and humility made drywall work finally seem approachable in my mind. I can't say if I would have found this fountain of peace if not for you opening that door for me. I'm eternally grateful to you for sharing your time and experience, and I can't help but assume there are thousands like me with a similar story. I may not be convinced of the existence of god, but I'm familiar with the expressions that they work in mysterious ways, and that they work through people. I'm overjoyed that your prayers were answered when you needed help, and as you face this crossroads in your life I hope you find the answers you're looking for. Maybe you'll find a new paradigm or streaming platform that gives you more agency over the content you create, or maybe you'll decide that making videos no longer serves you. I just hope you realize that you have been the answer to the prayers of many (myself included), that we all want you to pursue what you believe is best for you, and that in a way your work and energy is multiplied and carried by us. Sometimes we need to stand on the shoulders of giants so our knife can touch the ceiling that was previously just out of reach.
@vancouvercarpenter
21 күн бұрын
I love this❤️ Thanks for taking the time to share.
More life rants please!!! This was exactly what i needed, I love your analogy about picking up a car. Good stuff dude
Amazing video! Thank you for sharing your truth as you did your thing. I have been watching your videos non stop trying to complete a DIY office revamp that ended up with some hiccups and your videos have helped me a great deal! I’m on my own now because I kind of fired my husband.. I’m way too critical and would be staring at the walls going nuts noticing the imperfections while creating myself. I too went to treatment shy of 5 years ago. That’s when my spirituality took a huge leap. I can resonate with what you shared. I appreciate the bravery and vulnerability in the real world and good ole KZread. Also, thanks for doing what you do on here for us beginners. I found your videos to be the best! Keep being you! Good luck on your journey where ever it may lead.
Thank you for sharing your testimony! I found your video on how to repair torn drywall, and stayed to hear this. Keep sharing your spiritual journey!!
Thanks. Think you are underestimating the value of just watching you work. I lived in Vancouver for about a decade and felt like we were never going to own a home or get accustomed to the never ending traffic jams. Best move was to move for me. Small village of 2000. No regrets at all.
Ben, I truly appreciate you sharing your experience and perspective. Your story really resonates with me and was the reminder I needed-that I’ve been neglecting to pray. Thankful for you and these videos.
@vancouvercarpenter
21 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!