1.Look good 2. A woman that can be happy on her own and doesn’t need a guy to make her happy. The only way a couple will stay together is that if there is 5 times more positive emotions than negative. So make it easy for him to make you happy. Guys just want to be able to hang out with you without it having to be a weird hard interaction. Be easy going. 3. Strong eye contact 4. Having a life of your own, don’t be smothering. There is a power dynamic and the more power a guy has the less likely he is going to fall in Love with, have your own things going on and your own independence not so much that you don’t have room for him but so that it’s not all about him and you have value and you therefore have more power and an equal footing. 5. Focus on things you have in common, when people break up they talking about what they don’t have in common. 6. Emphasize your uniqueness and things that make you, you. 7. Believe in him and encourage him and compliment him on his traits that’ll help him reach his goal.

@MarticaMM916

6 жыл бұрын

Yo yo yo Yo yo yo 🏆

@seniorpapadelacruz6619

6 жыл бұрын

Too, intelligent for him. Nothing in common.

@indiewoods4878

6 жыл бұрын

Yo yo yo Yo yo yo thank you 🙏

@cynthiamarquez3370

5 жыл бұрын

I don't agree with some of this..you dont have to be a supermodel to get a guy...yes look your best and yes maintain your appearance...and guys like it when you can be a lil vulnerable and dependent on him..ask your man for help with something he will love it....it is a crazy feminist mindset that men don't need to provide to be in an intimate relationship with a woman...dont give up the cookie so easily girls..make him work for it

@Jassywazzy1

5 жыл бұрын

Child this too much. I’m just gonna focus on my career and stacking my paper🤑

The eyes locking is a big one. Sometimes scary lol. Makes you vulnerable.

Do a part 2! This was amazing!

Keep up the good work Matthew ❤❤❤❤❤❤

You are good at this Matthew ❤❤❤

You are good at this Matthew ❤❤❤❤

Love this!

I thought that the personality is the most important. Thank you for posting.

*Trying to manipulate or use irresistible ways to make someone yours may not lead to a fulfilling and lasting connection. Instead, focus on being yourself, communicating openly, and allowing the relationship to develop naturally. When both partners feel valued and respected, a strong and meaningful connection can naturally blossom.*

These all points are just amazing and it will help me Alot in future if one follow these points it will definetly work...i believe 😊😊

love the tips

This video is SO good!! Saving it

Thank You for the Eye Opening Insight you have given us. I have been following and adopting your guiding I have always had it in me I just needed to wake up the real me inside. And I like the real me....

Brilliant advice.thnku

This is such a great video!Thank youuuu.🤗💕

Brilliant advice. Appreciate your videos.

I love your videos. So helpful and insightful. You are awesome! Thank you for the encouraging advice!

@mateodelacosta7688

6 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Yeah Matt, I've heard number 7 before and I've been doing that, and everytime I do it he changes for the better

Wowww, You’re on it. You’re good! You make sense. These are doable to me.

Thank you for sharing.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

Love ur videos 💯💯

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

You sir are a saint.

Wow. Excellent advice! Saving this in my "Dating advice" playlist.

I love watching your videos handsome coach..I love the way you talk..you're so charming

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

We're so glad you love watching the videos....and that you're enjoying everything else :)

Beautiful

The way you make a man feel about himself, is the way he feels about you.

@velvetpixiecake5310

Жыл бұрын

👎 Nah that's codependence.

U speak the truth

IM SOLD! JUST SUBSCRIBED 😊

That means that he wants a woman to show others rather than for himself.

@Dtella55

4 жыл бұрын

He wants a trophy female to feel grandiose and get attention as supply...love should be natural not staged!

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

@@Dtella55 - He wants a woman he can be proud to show others that he's with. He wants you to be a decent human being and someone that makes him look good. And there's nothing wrong with that.

Wow number 4 is *so* important

Love your self first

I am all ears Matthew ❤❤❤❤❤❤

As a matter of fact there is nothing like common grounds

It doesn't seem to be so difficult the way you put it.

So true😃

Hey Matt! Good morning!!! Can you please do a video on how to make it easy for a guy to feel comfortable and have fun around us? 😁 Thank you so much!!!

@ms.anderson6678

6 жыл бұрын

Monica Levy Tyler 😊😂

@Dtella55

4 жыл бұрын

It is based on the guy being understanding and his personality which is innate...not everyone is understanding nor has fun personality....

@wandalange6022

4 жыл бұрын

I agree we do need s video on this topic.

@penelopefeline1651

4 жыл бұрын

Tots agree! That's wat I need!!

Lol! I think, I have all that trait 😂🤪 I am an easy going person. My late husband was so proud of me. Even if I am ageing, I look sexy and beautiful on his eyes. There is no perfect marriage though. We had little fights like a petty quarrel lol! Oh! Today may 14, it’s his 2 nd year death anniversary. I miss him every single day.

@wandalange6022

4 жыл бұрын

That is awesome. I have been married twice. The second one was a hellish nightmare... I regret not learning these things 20 years earlier. I am 63 and praying for a good man To come along to share all of life's pleasures and let that dopamine flow to and fro...blessings to you. May this new decade bring you more happiness than you have ever known

@joniramirez9584

2 жыл бұрын

You were fortunate to know you were sexy & beautiful in his eyes.

@tanyad3052

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate to you I lost my husband July 15, 2011 My daughter was about 18 months old it's by far the hardest thing that I have ever gone through. We didn't fight not bad the odd disagreement but it's so hard 10 years and they say it gets better well 10 years down the road now I am better than before but I still cry missing him. My friends & family say your only 40 u gotta get out there meet somebody but I don't want to I'm not ready secondly I am scared to death to date again lol....

doesn't being easy means too available for him

Normal men love Nobel character ladies....sweet honest lovely and beautiful.

It's kinda weird that I got an add for Mathew Coast while watching this video lol

Yes need that thank you I agree I have an ex he really disrespected me so I want to try to move on from him but my dating is not going good right now because of all this disaster

@wandalange6022

4 жыл бұрын

Don't give up Put him behind you go forward and take your time. You will meet someone far better that the Love you share will be better than you can imagine. But my dear you have to let go of the stone...

what do you think or have to say about the age difference?

@wandalange6022

4 жыл бұрын

It does not matter. My brother married a lady 14 years older She had a daughter 13 years younger than him. Cherish what you have if that is what you still want..Enjoy your time here on earth..

Thank you Matt. I got your emails.

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Matthew's cute 💋😘😍

Can you do a video on how to get a guy interested in you again after they lost interest. I only found ONE video on this topic!

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

Yep, I can do that

All these is EGO, not LOVE.

If a man says "I want to see how it goes." What exactly does that mean? Just asking for a friend.

@bethanyscobbie1037

4 жыл бұрын

It means .. he is keeping his options open . And your friend should say .. hmm if you don't know what I'm worth .. then your not worth my time..and then back off .. tell her to stop t3xting calling him as much .. give him space and in that space she should take stock of .. what he actually brings to whatever they have .. hope this helps 🤗

Thank you so much Men I love you honey you are my special and only love you sweetheart forever trust you women strong deeper conaction and happy lifetime love you

@avaf6998

3 жыл бұрын

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@avaf6998

3 жыл бұрын

I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back

YO! MATT? Where are the captions for the deaf and hard of hearing??

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

On the lower right hand side of the video when your cursor is hovering over it, there's a gear and it says "Settings" when you put your cursor over it. And where it says "Subtitles/CC" change it from "Off" to "On"

#4 Is wrong IMO. MEN DO WANT POWER.SOMETMES CONTROL. I allow my husband of 3 decades to believe he has it!!

Hm....I naturally did all these things. Still got left on read 🙄😒

@avaf6998

3 жыл бұрын

I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back

@avaf6998

3 жыл бұрын

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Do you love me?

This sentence pull man away....

Want them to look u in the eye and feel like they can just fall into your eyes? Lol I accidentally figured out what all the suddenly was making men say this. I had a bar tender almost reach over and kiss me. He was in his late 20 and I was 45. I freaked out at first, but then realized why men were acting like this. I was 40 lbs over weight as well. Guess what it was. Hint, it was something that boost a hormone in women.

@wandalange6022

4 жыл бұрын

I am happy for you..

👏

Men it seems are worse than women when it comes to love. They say we're too sensitive. Lol. Then why do men fall in love quickly than women do? Lol What about men saying look I just wanted a have a good time I don't want a serious relationship. What happened to those kinds of guys? Lol since when did the guys show up that are worse than girls in wanting marriage and girlfriend's? LOL

@clarenceboddiker9559

5 жыл бұрын

Lol... Derp... Lol

@toptiergamers5656

5 жыл бұрын

Even though we chat shit its our duty to care of our women

Hello Matt could u do a video explaining what it means when a guy opens up to u telling u personal information about him and family tells u he's attracted to you text u every day wants to met that hes fallen in love then when u plan to met up he pulls away and say it won't work then he says he wants to met up but it won't work because there will be excuses in the future. Then he stalks my Facebook messenger????????

@reason5591

5 жыл бұрын

Possible nacissist. Research how to identify a man that is narcissistic to compare your experiences with him. If you feel he is, then block him completely out of your life.

@nicolehumble8526

5 жыл бұрын

I say believe what he's saying "It Won't work " now that's the truth outta his own mouth!

@shirleymartin4938

2 жыл бұрын

Hes just playing with your head..DO NOT SLEEP WITH THIS MAN EVER

What to do when the guy is not ready to remove his sunglasses at any cost?

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

His sunglasses?

@tunnispecialist3872

5 жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast he wears sunglasses all the time...doesn't remove it? How to make eye contact?

@shirleymartin4938

2 жыл бұрын

That's a guy who's hiding his eyes so you can't see that he's lying to you.

Number one…men just want models!!!

not every women can be sexy, true love experiences are not always with sexy hot people.

You should really stop sending messages like that whdn clesrly you have no clue whst love is

YeS... paintfyùl! Thatsa whyim s9 dad

You have your things going on is supply for the predator (narcissist) who preys on his target...he will mirror you with his false illusion then make a 360 degrees with the mask falling off....

that's pleasing all the time and displeasing oneself.. that's so pathetic...self first before anyone for how can u give something u don't have...my goodness... I always prefer to be real...if i am mad, i will show it...idc if he gets turned off...it just shows he doesn't really the one or he's fake .

@shirleymartin4938

2 жыл бұрын

You're telling the truth girl if a guy can't handle the truth, or handle a little justifiable anger he's not really in love with you or mature enough yet to have a real adult healthy relationship. Of course how you express the truth or your anger is a big deciding point here also. As in any relationship, express your truth & anger in a loving way & he will see YOU as a mature adult It takes patience & a LOT of control on our side, but it's the best way to gain their respect at the very least. And maintains your dignity as well. Control of oneself is everything.

Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

Thank you, but is it really possible to believe a man? That's the Question.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

It depends on the man...

This is bs you know all i hear is what men want, how to please him, how to get him attracted to you....ladys if you have to go to great lenghths to get him to notice you then hes not the one you should be with

@wandalange6022

4 жыл бұрын

Sweetheart take his advice. He is more educated on the subject You will see this someday down the road, I only hope it is sooner than later...take it from a 63 year old lady that had your mind set. Let go and grow..👠