I love this podcast! I will say I didn’t like the initial conversation of maybe she shouldn’t leave because it’s a “good relationship” and marriage is just the legal binding. If it’s important to her, it’s important to her. Plus you have to think of worst case scenario, something happens to him, decisions need to be made, etc.. only a WIFE can do those things legally. Not a girlfriend. If it’s important to her she should stand on that. I appreciate Angela’s input this episode, especially her emphasizing that there is a man out there who will marry her because saying “the streets are tough” in the beginning of the episode implies she might not be able to find better.

This hit hard because 10 years about to be on for 11 and i am getting tired of waiting

Court house wedding would be appropriate if finance is the issue

@allisonlebby1907

Жыл бұрын

Most definitely

Marriage is a spiritual covenant. It’s God’s design. More importantly, it’s his design to marry the “right” person. I wonder if she is being honest with herself when she says that they have a great relationship. There are probably other issues that are being overlooked due to the marriage issue. If it not important to him now, it’s not going to be important in two years. They are probably not each other’s forever. Follow your intuition always, always!

@elleofellemanagement526

Жыл бұрын

Agreed! When marriage isn’t important it’s because they don’t feel it. I’ve experienced that myself. I know of people who didn’t want marriage then they met the “one” and they married them asap. It’s the feeling you’re suppose to receive when it’s “your person”💯

@andrewgoss6486

Ай бұрын

@@elleofellemanagement526 it is mathematically impossible for every female in America to each have a man. Several percentage points of females will be left alone. As a female ages, the number of available men drops precipitously. By the time a female reaches 65 there are only 53 men for every 100 female. 99% of men don't survive their 80's.

Im going on 15 year still no ring decided to give him one more year, if he still doesn't know....im going on 41 yr and him 54, apologizing to my self and move on.

@andrewgoss6486

Ай бұрын

If you are 41 then you should probably stay where you are. There are not a lot of men under 50 that are willing to date a female over 40. Those that are willing usually have a rotation of at least three deep. Your best bet is to help him maximize his 401k and enjoy your retirement life in 10 years.

My brother just proposed to his girlfriend of 9 years this week!! They both had kids already, bought a home together, and essentially knew that they were going to spend their lives together, but life happens, and this is the timeline that worked for them.

Very true... Two years = NO DIFFERENCE

Can you guys please host a couples retreat! Me and my fiancé would definitely come! I just love this podcast, you speak to so many women! ❤

3/3 there you have it ladies. #dontbecomeroommates 18months TOPS!!!! 💨

The fact that these 3 women are married and don’t seem to understand the institution of marriage is insane. Marriage is not just a document. It’s a legal binding contract that allows for certain provisions. If anything happens to him in the eyes of the law she’s nobody to him. All decisions will fall to his family, no access to benefits etc. she is the mother of his child. Rhea, if it’s not a resounding yes it’s a NO. Him giving you that timeline is just a pacifier. Him saying he doesn’t value marriage as you do is all you needed to know to make your deserve. I’m sure you love him, but you have to love yourself more 💕

@LasBlackUnicrn

Ай бұрын

Thanks lady on the left for cleaning it up and letting her know there is a man out there that will marry her 🥰

Keep Going

It’s giving cheetah girls

💞💕

If you were a guy what type of female would you marry and why.

@andrewgoss6486

Ай бұрын

I think that I would be willing to marry a woman who is clearly more than I could ever get the rest of my life. I am 45, fit and financially well off. There is always a new 22 year old that wants to be my next gf. The only difference between most females in their 20's and females over 30 is youth and youth is always available. I am sure that there will come a day when my ability to attract a female will start to decrease. At this point, as time goes on I continue to get more muscular, more wealthy, more healthy, and more skilled at how I dress and impress. Every female wants to feel irreplaceable, but most listen to the same music and watch the same shows so they are almost all very interchangeable. I have yet to meet a female that was not easily replaceable.

I am always open to marriage. Whenever a female brings it up I always ask her to make a sales pitch. Tell me what I get out of it. Tell me how I benefit. I always ask them to tell me what they are proposing. I know the costs. I know the risks. I would like to know how its not a terrible decision for me.

It has been my experience that No_Wife=Peaceful_Life. Peace is very expensive. I know guys who gave their ex-wife hundreds of thousands of dollars up front and thousands each month so that they can have their peace back. A wedding ring doesn't just cost thousands of dollars. The real cost of a ring is a man giving up his peace. I hear a lot of females saying that they deserve a ring. I would like to know what, specifically, a woman thinks is worth a man giving up his peace...and 50% of his income and assets. What makes a female worth having a ring?