Relationship Restored

Relationship Restored

Relationship Restored is a relationship community that gives people who want to intentionally build happy and healthy relationships a place to gain perspective, discuss and learn about intimate, familial, spiritual, and business relationships by delivering entertaining, educational, conversation-provoking relationship content and celebrating those who approach relationship building in a healthy way.

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  • @crystalallen6281
    @crystalallen62814 сағат бұрын

    A $ after the number drives me crazy!!! It’s been happening so much lately than I been questioning myself 🫣

  • @lb1798
    @lb17988 сағат бұрын

    Attraction is not always physical beauty.

  • @lb1798
    @lb17988 сағат бұрын

    Drinking to the point of losing your bodily functions is SO DANGEROUS. YOU COULD DIE of alcohol poisoning. You could be raped,robbed,or beaten and never know how or why. Im glad Dre loved you enough to require more OF you, and you Bre accepted his love and help.❤

  • @lb1798
    @lb17988 сағат бұрын

    #DearFutureWifey brought me here

  • @monicalouis8333
    @monicalouis83338 сағат бұрын

    Saw the Dear Future Wifey podcast and never seen your podcast. Blessings to you two!

  • @officialjaybrown
    @officialjaybrown16 сағат бұрын

    This is an amazing interview/ conversation. ❤

  • @nanajones6839
    @nanajones683918 сағат бұрын

    The needy type.

  • @nanajones6839
    @nanajones683919 сағат бұрын

    Agreed! I'm more than ok with a man not knowing his angles.😂

  • @nanajones6839
    @nanajones683919 сағат бұрын

    Yes! Text grammar matters to me too!

  • @er.8109
    @er.810922 сағат бұрын

    there's nothing to deal with , he is controlling just leave

  • @javanwatson8024
    @javanwatson8024Күн бұрын

    Thank you for the solo 🙂

  • @chiantimedley6325
    @chiantimedley6325Күн бұрын

    I miss you guys being on separate couches😂😂😂Heyyyy Rhonda…Heyyyy Dre!!!! Rhonda…. I hollered when you said the dollar sign AFTER the numbers. My ex does that but he’s smart as hell!!! I’m surprised that I haven’t corrected him but will the next time I see it😂

  • @rhondamclendon1171
    @rhondamclendon117121 сағат бұрын

    Girl tell him! 🤣🤣💜

  • @Zine_Ngcobo
    @Zine_NgcoboКүн бұрын

    Dear future wife brought me here.. New subbie all the way from SA🇿🇦

  • @rhondamclendon1171
    @rhondamclendon117121 сағат бұрын

    Hi and welcome to the Real Lover gang! Much love to SA! Make sure you stay awhile! 🫶🏾

  • @Hitmankingjay313
    @Hitmankingjay313Күн бұрын

    I did this maybe twice in my 20's with a lady who dated for 3 years and I just stop talking and I hope she gets the message, I didn't feel bad at all but later down the road I did feel bad a little

  • @Tricyyyland
    @TricyyylandКүн бұрын

    Around 22:00. Rhonda I don’t think that’s petty. A man goes after what they want. If he inconsistent I’m out of there.

  • @brianna32185
    @brianna32185Күн бұрын

    💜

  • @Tricyyyland
    @TricyyylandКүн бұрын

    I wanted to be first 😂.

  • @breeNikki42
    @breeNikki42Күн бұрын

    Facts! This was literally my first marriage.

  • @Alexlittle9
    @Alexlittle9Күн бұрын

    🤲🏼

  • @alw4eva
    @alw4evaКүн бұрын

    The skit she did to announce her being single was soooooooooooooo funny to me. I just love her!!

  • @user-eb3uf3sr3h
    @user-eb3uf3sr3hКүн бұрын

    I don’t think he will be homeless just displaced until he gets on his feet. If he shifted his focus to another relationship then he has to keep that same energy and motivation to find his own place. Men are capable of this task. He’s showing you that he’s capable of being in a relationship you must move on with your life. This isn’t healthy mentally physically nor emotionally for you. Your child deserves a healthy mom. Choose yourself….praying you find healing.🙏🏾♥️

  • @altheawilliams1296
    @altheawilliams12962 күн бұрын

    ….. May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding guard your hearts and mind in Christ Jesus. Give yourself grace and don’t hate just pray for those who harm you. Gods Peace be with you and your lovely children, always and forever!! God blessed. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @altheawilliams1296
    @altheawilliams12962 күн бұрын

    I am proud of you my dear, your courage, the support that we’re there for you when you needed them the most. Thank God for His divine grace mercy and covering over you since day one. I am so glad that you made it through to tell your story which brings you healing and also giving women the courage to get out of that awful situation that they are in so that they too can be set free. May the Lord continue to bless you and you children in abundance. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @YoungCC93
    @YoungCC932 күн бұрын

    It is so crazy to me. The way she gets dragged for having a tame personality. Compared to a hell of a lot of men in her multi-level industry lol. Shit is astounding truly.

  • @NaomiRGlee
    @NaomiRGlee2 күн бұрын

    I am only going to be a cheerful giver like it or not. If its laid on my heart to tip I will. Now its different if i just dont have it so you would not know the difference. Nice show

  • @NaomiRGlee
    @NaomiRGlee2 күн бұрын

    It should be higher tho because i don't want to be in the rain...

  • @NaomiRGlee
    @NaomiRGlee2 күн бұрын

    Me uber eats

  • @JewishKeto
    @JewishKeto2 күн бұрын

    I think I needed to hear this. Thank you both for this video. The truth is someplace in the middle.

  • @ayseferzan
    @ayseferzan2 күн бұрын

    Watching over and over again. Love you guys❤

  • @JMcQueen99
    @JMcQueen993 күн бұрын

    The weapons may form but they won’t prosper🙏🔥

  • @OddWomanOut_Pi81
    @OddWomanOut_Pi814 күн бұрын

    ✨️👌🏾✨️

  • @claudewashingtonkevinthoma6527
    @claudewashingtonkevinthoma65274 күн бұрын

    Too many guests

  • @michellefung9426
    @michellefung94264 күн бұрын

    Amusing Truth worth the wait. 🤣🙏

  • @Romeo615Videos
    @Romeo615Videos5 күн бұрын

    some women can keep a man and some cant. The older women who are like marry me or get out my face are fun to watch age and break down and cry. She has some good crying clips they crack me up every time.... Ahhhh so funny... People without the results should stay quiet. As my son goes to ivy league and my 20 plus year relationship grows older I'm so thankful for my woman. I've seen a lot of women left behind since high school... ahhh well

  • @jatyga3905
    @jatyga39056 күн бұрын

    …… never talking blame is bad bae

  • @jatyga3905
    @jatyga39056 күн бұрын

    Love take bliss sometimes baby

  • @jatyga3905
    @jatyga39056 күн бұрын

    She need a nigga like me

  • @kl6172
    @kl61726 күн бұрын

    Great interview. So curious where in the West Indies her ex-husband is from.

  • @sallyhemings2295
    @sallyhemings22956 күн бұрын

    Why do some people think they can fix others? No one is that powerful!

  • @Tricyyyland
    @Tricyyyland6 күн бұрын

    I hope Ambra understands how powerful her voice is. I don’t know if she’ll ever see this comment. Thank you for sharing and for being transparent. So many things you said about your mindset and why you stayed, stuck with me. I’ve been in your shoes. I’m still trying to accept that my relationship is over. Also I’m trying to accept being no contact with someone I used to love. I am glad you are still with us Ambra. You also give me hope that there is love after heart ache and abuse. Thank you so much. Much love from the dmv ❤️❤️

  • @thorie79
    @thorie797 күн бұрын

    Competence is important in leadership. Consistent competence builds trust. She (or employees) won't follow you if you seem or are incompetent, bumbling and fumbling things. They'll see you as questionable, and then start taking the lead themselves. Sometimes our ego will get the best of us, and we then switch to tyrant mode in an attempt to maintain power or control or just to save face from embarassment. But in the end, if you are bad at whatever you're responsible for, you'll fall apart. The secret to good leaders, is that they recognize their own strengths and weaknesses, and delegate the things that they are not good at to those who are. And delegation doesn't mean the opposite of leadership. If you're woman is great at cooking and caring for the kids, no need to take that away from her. Delegate those responsibilities. And this assumes you can do this without putting stress on your woman. Which means, you're bringing to the table the resources, finances, and planning of the bigger picture for the family. But if you're not doing those things, she's just going to feel stressed out and also feel like she's doing all the work and start feeling like you're a fake leader. The traditional breadwinner husband and housewife roles were based on this balance. It wasn't repression of women. But we can't go back there, so what we can have now is a new kind of hybrid system. Both men and women can take on both roles of caring for the kids, as well as both roles of providing resources. But the danger in that is the "leader" becomes a mystery, and no, you can't have a 50/50 partnership. Just like you can't have two leaders with competing visions. You can, and should, contribute everything you can, but one person should be better at guiding the big picture. And that's an important job. If it's not the man, it can be the woman. Of course, the traditional system is really an intelligent one because women have maternal instincts that kick that help tremendously with caring for babies and kids. This is why even in 2024, we see women handling the majority of childcare in the home. It's not "social programming" - it comes with the hormones, pregnancy, body changes, nursing, and distinct personality differences between men and women. It's not weird, it's natural. In the same way, the leader should be the man. Because women have a tendency to want to feel safe, while men have a tendency to want to contribute in ways outside of direct childcare such as nursing. Men actually can have the time, and the interest, in planning for the family long-term. He can tap into his logical system that isn't full of emotional whims, and think about objectively the best way to move the family forward into the future. And the woman can tap into her strengths of emotions to manage the complicated feelings of growing children. This is a good strategy overall, which takes advantage of men and women's strengths. Trying to equalize it even with a lack of skills involved is like a woke ass company with diversity hiring requirements that ultimately has a bunch of incompetent people doing the wrong tasks and going bankrupt. But in the end, the most important thing as the leader is that the people you lead trust you, and also, are not radical feminists who believe that men with power are all inherently evil. They should be willing to follow, happily, because it takes a huge load off their mind, of fears and anxieties, because you provide that bedrock as a man, proven, time and time again, to be consistently stable and leading the family in a good direction. But if you have a wife who questions your abilities, your decision-making, and constantly shows that she doesn't trust you, the relationship is going to crash in a blazing fire, just as if you had a co-pilot on an airplane who was constantly arguing with you, trying to take control of the aircraft, causing it to go out of control completely and crashing. Men who prefer not to lead should find women who are strong and capable of leading them. And those women should feel good about leading, and not complain in reverse that they wish they didn't have to do the leading out of necessity. Because if they want that, they should find a good leader. But like with many people and the jobs they have, they will likely complain no matter how good the man is (or employer is) because that's just their nasty personality. They believe the grass is always greener on the other side, or they believe they deserve more than anyone is willing to give them. Men should work on gaining the competence to lead. This means having strong finances. This means knowing what it takes to navigate relationships, and not have mental issues. This means being able to call out B.S., having strong boundaries, and refuse to be manipulated This means having a clear idea of what a stable, good family looks like and how to build one. It takes a lot of work to do all of these things, because leadership is hard. But just as a passenger on a plane who wants to get to their destination without dying, it's the responsibility of the leader to make sure that happens safely and even better, comfortably where the passenger is fully satisfied. You want to satisfy the passengers needs, but not at the risk of crashing the plane by listening to the passenger's every whim which can include crazy ideas like opening the emergency door for some fresh air. Tell her no, when she says she wants a break or an open relationship. The "fresh air" will crash the plane, every time.

  • @cyreldmills5298
    @cyreldmills52987 күн бұрын

    This one hit different. Amazing amazing guest.. I love the authenticity, the truth, the heart. Thank you for sharing this

  • @yurigmakeup3219
    @yurigmakeup32197 күн бұрын

    What an incredible interview.. Ambra I just, at a loss for words showing this side of yourself who is just so resilient and powerful! I’m so grateful you’re here with us today and using your voice to help other women and men who may be in a similar situation. I will forever be in awe of you and the love I have for you will never fade gf I’m always here for you! Love you so much🥹💗💗💗💗

  • @AMGTT
    @AMGTT7 күн бұрын

    She old and washed up failed gold digger for sure. Joe is a millionaire now lol she pathetic

  • @amandlax1604
    @amandlax16048 күн бұрын

    Great interview! Thank you for sharing your story Ambra. I’m so proud of you! 👏🏿♥️

  • @Rizzlyricist
    @Rizzlyricist8 күн бұрын

    Yup, Joe definitely abused Tahiri 🤦🏽‍♂️. I was there during his early vlogging days to which Tahiri was a staple of his "show." Then, Joe made a few songs about the breakup on one of his Mood Muzik tapes 💯. I remember the entire "flight of stairs" debacle as well. Once you abuse women [as a man], your days are numbered 🎯. Joe Budden needs to fess up and get his life together 🤷🏽‍♂️. Budden is an emotional wreck who smokes cigarettes to calm his nerves 🚭; and also broke up one of the best groups in Hip-Hop due to his careless business acumen 🔥.

  • @sean3708
    @sean37088 күн бұрын

    A wife is a good thing, but not a partner.

  • @user-ml9bg3dk1w
    @user-ml9bg3dk1w8 күн бұрын

    But intent can help you lessen the impact or worsen it.

  • @brownetime08
    @brownetime088 күн бұрын

    Recognizing the limitations of what can be attained with 1 vs 2

  • @breeskilove4817
    @breeskilove48178 күн бұрын

    Kudos to our girl Ambra. We Gems love you and celebrate the woman you are and the woman who is committed to helping other women be their own hero also. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ROA1988
    @ROA19888 күн бұрын

    Great Episode!