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@bakabaka73 Жыл бұрын
I always think of the quote from the Office. “I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.”
@zugmeister314
4 ай бұрын
At 51 I’m just getting a feel for that. All I can say is think about what matters to you and try to pay attention.
@logicsoundinc
4 ай бұрын
These ARE the good 'ol days. Keep making memories.
@bakabaka73
4 ай бұрын
@@logicsoundinc Yeah, that quote has really made me take a step back in certain moments and realize these are the times Ill be thinking about when I'm older.
@logicsoundinc
4 ай бұрын
@@bakabaka73yep, I’m 46 and still making memories as often as I can. I look upon tomorrow, today, and yesterday as fondly as I do any day 25 years ago.
@Matt-kw6gl
4 ай бұрын
@@bakabaka73me too man. I’m 35, and every now and then I do find myself just for a second taking an extra minute during certain occasions to take it all in, especially at large family gatherings. We always reminisce on the past, but we need to learn to take in the present and enjoy it.
@aUniqueWaffle2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes a short hits you in away you can't stop listening
@danieldiaz6023
Жыл бұрын
Why Nixon why
@goobiej
Жыл бұрын
For 30 seconds😂
@davidnorman4612
Жыл бұрын
Stop committing evil. When you see injustices, intervene and stamp it out… and maybe you people wouldn’t feel so depressed.
@Qtrcirfwd
Жыл бұрын
Lol. "in away" sounds like my dogs name. I'm Native American.
@RbRnAngelz
Жыл бұрын
facts
@nousername15242 ай бұрын
This was supposed to be my comfort show, but after this episode ended, I just sat down and stared at my desk for a few minutes thinking about life.
@user-to2ne4lg2j
Ай бұрын
What’s the episode
@samuelibrahimovic8508
Ай бұрын
@@user-to2ne4lg2jdon’t be stupid, and just watch the whole series from the start till the end
@hiransh
Ай бұрын
@@user-to2ne4lg2j how I met your mother. season 8 episode 20 , d series which changed my life completely , do watch, my most favourite series ,its quotes its songs .... amazing
@JCDay
Ай бұрын
I just finished this show and bro I was so depressed, the ending could have been better, the alternate ending could have also been better, but in the end, its just a show, and we gotta let go
@katwiltz1134
29 күн бұрын
Now everything is just anxiety and a balloon that has been released full of helium it is out of context no one will ever really know are you invisible kind of feeling that I was just smiling going through my feed and this hit me like a train and you saying it made me have to actually experience it but whoever you are I feel you
@TonyStorm21 Жыл бұрын
"There are people in this world who prefer solitude. But there is no one who can withstand it."
@ericanders3078
5 ай бұрын
Makarov?
@Dankshin0bi
Ай бұрын
Actually , only the strongest of us can
@TahmkenchTheCatFish
Ай бұрын
I can.
@TonyStorm21
Ай бұрын
I didnt expect this comment to attract the edgy teens, but what else did I expect really.
@Dankshin0bi
Ай бұрын
@@TonyStorm21 I’m 28 , I have been on a solo journey chasing my dreams across the United states , I am of course not there yet, but I am working hard everyday I live completely alone always do you know why? Because I must become a master of myself and my mind. In order to do that you must be alone.
@VestingKnight10 Жыл бұрын
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it"
@labeastchange9088
Жыл бұрын
This comment hit harder than anything right now for me I'm still lving in the past hoping and wishing I could change this or that and it's never coming back and I want to live in the now I remember my dad when he was 40 and now he's nearing 60 like I don't even realize how much time I missed with him and I think I'm starting to realize how bad that really is I've been so caught up in my own bullshit that I couldn't even see what was in front of me that was important please listen when I say this cherish what's around you cause one day it will all be gone none of us want to admit it but deep down we all know the drip finally stops
@jefftX
Жыл бұрын
@@labeastchange9088 my dad died at 65. I was 22. I don’t regret much as we had a great relationship and I did spend a lot of time with him, but I didn’t get enough. He was my male mentor and role model. Losing him I lost a part of my soul that has never come back.
@pepetrueno8722
Жыл бұрын
Buehler, Buehler…
@jonathanderbidge598
Жыл бұрын
I look around and I’m pessimistic. I seize what I can control and I’m optimistic. The trouble is finding the reality of both to be equally acceptable
@onemanwithin
Жыл бұрын
True
@FQ99 Жыл бұрын
Therapists when your card declines:
@jordanmicahcook
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@sadia2395
Жыл бұрын
😂👏🏽
@User2jn
Жыл бұрын
''anyways, good luck on that thing''
@emmanuelafoakwah8968
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@captaindiablo604
Жыл бұрын
the best comment possible
@hadilshah4466Ай бұрын
Parents are getting old, Friends and cousins getting married, Your surroundings are changing fast And yet we are like TED stuck in the past, Because that was the best thing that happened to our life.
@Kocgpt
Ай бұрын
Your comment reflect literally me bro
@hadilshah4466
Ай бұрын
@@Kocgpt ahh atleast am not alone
@cmosley119
Ай бұрын
The best is yet to come! Eternal Glory thru Jesus Christ!
@bpdbhp1632
Ай бұрын
Couldnt have said it better
@michaelross1464
Ай бұрын
You’re right. More right than I think you know. The best thing that happenED is gone. But don’t give up on that amazing thing that’s yet to come. And it only ever arrives if you make it happen.
@Faust_YT5 ай бұрын
Story of my life. Almost all of my friends have their own family. I failed an attempt to build one 10 yrs ago and I wasn't able to recover emotionally. I'm just jumping to one distraction to the next, while praying my parents to live long. It's just me at the end of the day after a busy work. But it's fine, I'll be alright. Once you accept things the way they are it's not too bad.
@Overcome808
3 ай бұрын
Hey man. Take care, it will be alright
@WhyBother_357
2 ай бұрын
God Bless Youv
@__1201
2 ай бұрын
Don't let anyone shame you for being alone. There is nothing wrong with being alone as long as you are at peace with youself and live a happy life.
@JoybuzzerX
2 ай бұрын
Right there with you.
@charliewilton_
2 ай бұрын
Sounds like a skill issue
@trenticeberg40672 жыл бұрын
The first time i saw this even i got chills. Seeing it again after forgetting about it have me chills again. Thanks for the reminder
@yancavalcante7260
Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. This happened to me right now. Kinda sad, really.
@trenticeberg4067
Жыл бұрын
@Sam Athor ight bro... hardy har har. Thanks for taking your precious time to type this comment. It will be remebered in my suicide note 💀
@DarkSolidity
Жыл бұрын
Ted wanted Robin so bad, and it hurt him so bad when Barney mentioned that he and Robin were looking for a wedding caterer, a pain that becomes overwhelming when you realize he’s having a conversation with his subconscious and he was actually saying those things to himself. He was intentionally hurting himself.
@vampvhs
Жыл бұрын
@Sam Athor you seem sadder than the message behind this video, somehow such a stupid and meaningless comment evokes more pitiful and pathetic energy than a string of words should, I hope you’re happy, bc by the arrogance portrayed in your comment, you surely don’t seem it, you seem disconnected from the combined feeling this video gave the rest of us, which means to me that you do not have friends or people to feel along with, and thus you are more alone than the fictional character, perhaps that’s why OPs comment and the video evoked such an ignorant and unnecessary response from you
@bluewizard8318
Жыл бұрын
Wow. Even THIS GUY got chills.
@ironyobwoc Жыл бұрын
this sad moment was immediately followed by the SADDEST moment on the show, which was when ted explains that if he could go back to this time, he wouldnt be at the bar or at robots vs wrestlers, he would go see his future wife who he had not met yet in the memory which is even more devastating at the end of the show when you realize that she had died a long time ago and this scene was him wanting to see her again
@christmas90s54
Жыл бұрын
Was his wife Robin? I never saw the ending
@americantaco5344
Жыл бұрын
@@christmas90s54 No it was another woman, but she passes away and the whole show was him talking to his kids about his life and how he met their mother , but it was also him asking their permission to pursue Robin and to start dating again. Because he believed he was ready and wanted their understanding which he gets and goes to robin with the blue french horn
@db9944
Жыл бұрын
It seemed pretty obvious early on Tracy had died, so that never shocked me or bothered me when it happened in the finale. What bugged me was 8 years of why Ted and Robin don't belong together, only to put them together anyway..
@theme34xcp
Жыл бұрын
dammm.. But what happened to robin Barney? I thought they ended up together too.
@gobbluth6910
Жыл бұрын
@@americantaco5344 how is Robin single in the future? Did Barney die?
@ebeneezerscrooge2942 Жыл бұрын
I’m 43. Been alone a long time. I think when I came home from the army was the last time I was with any friends. 2005.
@samanb1268
4 ай бұрын
🫂
@Darskul
4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry brother, truly I am. Might do you good to try and reconnect with some old friends if that's a possibility.
@kieranprice5496
4 ай бұрын
Same man, leaving service is shockingly lonely
@groovydolph
4 ай бұрын
Checking in on you brother. Hope you’re still out there man. Been there recently as well, gotta share some stories with us here in the comments
@papadrew7198
4 ай бұрын
Hold on brother brighter days are ahead
@trestoncoleman855 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my life atm. All my friends are making families and here i am still sitting at the pub.
@Bowhunter493
4 ай бұрын
The fact that you're even AT a pub means you're an irredeemable loser. May as well just keep going.
@fromashes7818
4 ай бұрын
Brother man I'm here with you.. 28 and lonely
@fromashes7818
4 ай бұрын
I hope things work out for you. That everything bad in your life turns to joy, and you be given a childlike happiness when you experience each day for the rest of your days.
@trestoncoleman85
4 ай бұрын
@@fromashes7818 same boat bro. I hope the same for you and if nothing else hopefully we can drink and laugh at a pub.
@mattripodi6474
4 ай бұрын
I suggest, trying be alone somewhere else other than 1. Home (to avoid only staying in all the time) 2. The pub Parks, gallery's, movies, botanical gardens. I do wish you well, new hobbies help.
@Ozmarc254 Жыл бұрын
No words could ever possibly describe the depth of loneliness that this scene captures. A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth an ocean.
@youknow227
7 ай бұрын
A picture is worth a thousand words But this scene is worth a library
@khanetia
5 ай бұрын
A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth nothing because we watched it for free on KZread shorts.
@patrickbreiding310
5 ай бұрын
Tv for stupid people
@brandonmullwray9924
4 ай бұрын
.... And I drown in it every day since my divorce.
@Hamdini10
4 ай бұрын
Cringe
@TJ-ve8sv Жыл бұрын
This is a real lesson in life. As life goes on, everyone does too. And even if you're living your best life, you're the only one who cares.
@youdontexist.
Жыл бұрын
Ok. Just one more Short.
@BalmaneGames
Жыл бұрын
Until you have a children
@62shredderdude
Жыл бұрын
@@youdontexist. just…..one…..more
@Gmgo38
Жыл бұрын
Bars!🎉
@Generic-usernam3
Жыл бұрын
That’s actually really sad that you feel like you’re the only one who cares about what’s happening in your life :/
@AnemeTemenA6 ай бұрын
It does hit differently when pass your 30s
@jillybeangaming
4 ай бұрын
it hits hard when you're in your 30s too to be fair. I think he's in his late 20s by this point in the show, maybe early 30s.. dating as you get older is tough, and it can feel like you're gonna end up alone, but the truth is that people are dating longer and getting married much later than they used to back in the day.. it's not a great thing.. but it does give hope to some folks who are in their mid thirties to 40s and aren't married.
@matt59fire
4 ай бұрын
From all the complaining I see from people I've come to the conclusion that I have mental issues. I wanna say I'm probably on the spectrum. Because tbh, I have family and friends. Seeing my friends once every few weeks is honestly enough for me. And I have alot of cousins and what's not. I don't really feel a rush to get into a relationship. It's just not something I've ever strided for.
@hailcthulhu419
4 ай бұрын
It hits hard in your 30s too. I'm 39 and all I have are my parents and my dogs. It could be worse, but it's lonely as hell.
@oles629
4 ай бұрын
@@hailcthulhu419 Yeah, parrents and dog here as well.. I`m 33 and this hits hard! But, let`s make the best of it, there's no second chance in life unfortunately! Enjoy the weekend, greetings from Norway :)
@uncle_Samssubjects
4 ай бұрын
@@matt59firethat's a life not worth living.. what a miserable selfish life because of a little fear..
@kizitookorie32502 ай бұрын
How I Met Your Mother just knew how to teach life lessons in their episodes.
@THE202
Ай бұрын
“The great moments of your life won’t necessarily be the things that you do, it could also be the things that happen to you, now i’m not saying you can’t take action to define the outcome of your life, you have to take action…and you will” The last bit is so subtle yet holds sooo much weight!
@codyschubert81652 жыл бұрын
This was not the short my recently dumped ass needed 😂
@yalc-04
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha true but it's been 6 months hopefully it's better and you can laugh harder now
@MidwestMagicMan
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully it’s better and you’ve realized you’re never truly alone. You always have yourself to love you and to love, and there’s always more people in the world who’ll appreciate who you are. Never give up, never give in to the feeling of loneliness. -someone also dealing with a breakup from a long term partner
@FangCWAEmu
Жыл бұрын
Hoping you're alright now king
@kizzyjem
Жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing okay, stranger 😊
@andrewmcvea4825
Жыл бұрын
Luv you. Keep the chin up. ☘️
@drdiabetes7469 Жыл бұрын
Going through that right now. I grew up with my 2 best friends, i moved across the state with them and we worked the same job, now theyre both recently married and we all arent talking as much, we hang with eachother once in a while suddenly and try to plan out some trips but its not a regular thing. I mainly see them at work and talk in passing. I feel like ive not even started my life yet and they've reached the end point in theirs...... and now im kind of alone and ive been in that shitty job grinding for so long i dont know where to go or what to do. The Irony here is how i want to be an actor/director and id much rather be sitting in Ted's seat saying this on camera; just acting instead of laying on this bed typing this out basically doing the same thing but forreal. I dont know what happened, or where the time went, and each day i feel more and more alone because my brothers are living their own lives and im just..... existing.
@randomrickreviewsrrr4662
Жыл бұрын
You still got time use it.
@tacocat318
Жыл бұрын
You may not get it now, but someday you might. 1.) Brotherhood is not contact, it's in the soul. Those worth keeping as your brothers, it won't matter the time or the distance, when one comes a calling it's like neither ever left. It's about rivalry and change, it's standing on two sides of a canyon, seeing eachother at the peak leading those still climbing it and knowing it was through your hardships together that you were both able to achieve such heights. Furthermore life truly is a play, and as the scenes change so too must the actors, for better or worse. 2.) Life is what you make it and part of that is adapting your plans to your circumstances. You may never be an actor on the big screen or a director of it, but you can still be both. You can play a role in others lives, or discard your own to play a character who isn't you. You can get to a position where you direct others in the great film of life. I'm not speaking out my ass, I'm speaking from experience. I've drifted all my life, the friends I've found and lost. The pain of distance that still hits. The ones worth a damn, I can still call up and see the Brotherhood is still strong even if we can't meet or do anything. I had to abandon my dreams and ambitions because I got a bad pull on the genetic lottery that barred me from pursuing the path I wanted and still want most. It took me awhile to realize that while officially it may have barred me, I can still pursue such interests and apply them to other areas of life to fill that role in an unofficial capacity. The only difference between the screen and life is, life has goals but no paths. So sing, act, dance like the whole world is watching, and don't be afraid of change in cast or scenes as life is always changing.
@justblack5596
Жыл бұрын
If you feel alone go get a GF or find new Friends cause that is what a Human is. we need Communication or we will die little by little. if you feel you hate your job. just quit. i khow it may sound easy just saying it but it is another thing to do it. you can keep that job and blame yourself why i didn't quit or just quit and go to an acting class. you need the fear of not having a stable income of money as a boost to reach your dream. it is almost never Late. the almost part is because of death. don't let it because late ... .
@BlueBamboo9
Жыл бұрын
Take the leap, man.. Even if you fail (Which I hope you don't), you tried. Honestly, that's a lot more than a lot of people can say. Believe it or not, a lot of people really don't go for their dreams. They settle. And settling has been so normalized that if you go for even the smallest of risks, you're considered dumb or selfish. That's why you see people with incompatible S/O's. "Arguing is just the norm in a relationship." Or you see people constantly talking about traveling or acting... Meanwhile, they're mindlessly shaving off their own life working a job that they hate. A lot of people will call that "Being a man." Or "Doing what needs to be done." I call it being a Fool. I'd much rather die knowing I tried to achieve my dreams than live a long life feeling like I didn't live at all.
@JAntonSaad
Жыл бұрын
Yes, but you're free to pursue your dreams, and they now have a myriad of obligations. Such as life it is right now, embrace your opportunities. One day you'll get married too, have children, and visit your friends for kids' playtime. There's no rush. Until then, pursue your dream while you can and waste no time to invest in yourself. Affectionately, a stranger.
@BrianHuis Жыл бұрын
Remember friends, just because you miss one chance does not mean you will not get another. Embrace life, but do not let words like these discourage you, life will never stop throwing these at you if you put yourself out there. Stay awesome.
@irshadjaffar9113
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for these lines
@cesarlanderos7627 Жыл бұрын
It's sad because Ted has this idea of what the love of his life is supposed to be and he searches for a decade to find it and when he does, we realize while we've been watching this story unfold, his wife had passed a couple years earlier
@sincerelyyours2694
5 ай бұрын
I didn't get it I beg you to please explain it again
@euizanagi722
5 ай бұрын
@@sincerelyyours2694 Well spoiler alert for this old movie. Ted is basically telling his kids on how he met their mother, Ted was prompted to tell this story due missing his wife who died by an unknown illness a couple of years ago. So basically Ted is telling his kids how he met their departed mother.
@blockedhaat
5 ай бұрын
@euizanagi722 and it was all to teach his kids many valuable lessons and respectfully open them up to the idea of him finding love again after his "one" and wife has passed.
@Twix2304
4 ай бұрын
@@euizanagi722well, he tells it for another Reason too.
@wufy9
4 ай бұрын
I thought for a long time that he never met his wife and she had passed away while he was still looking for her and the kids were just his imagination.
@linkfiedproductions2246 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ this was a dark ending for an episode
@NA1c158
Жыл бұрын
He was in denial about his friends moving on and letting it depress him. Him seeing the truth is necessary, not pretty though.
@NOST0PLOSS
Жыл бұрын
Kinda foreshadows the tone of the ending
@Dr_Lyrical1360
Жыл бұрын
Good thing i believe they ended it with a lighthearted barbershop quartet😅
@Kirito-yb4eg
Жыл бұрын
That too for a sitcomm
@fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335
Жыл бұрын
This is actually "how I met your mother".. He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother".. . If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted... It was Robin all along..
@MrAmunai Жыл бұрын
it doesn't matter who you are and who tells you, but if you hear a "you're all alone" like that, it hits. it just hits.
@solidsnakeandgrayfox Жыл бұрын
The majority of my friends have moved on gotten married, or have passed away. I've been to over 25 funerals in 10 years. I'm a caretaker for my mom, lost my fiancee as she was one of those people. I have 2 cats and I'm alone and it hurts, I isolated myself, due to needing to be strong to survive the trauma, I was isolated because of the trauma as no one wanted to be around me or even attempt to understand me. I didn't want to push them away. However, I was suffering and I'm still suffering to this day.
@trackboy17 Жыл бұрын
This is top 5 saddest moments. When ted realizes that all his friends are moving on with their lives but he still at the bar alone.
@smeefbeef367 Жыл бұрын
This show came out when I was 9, and my family watched it religiously. I rewatched it again at 20 and realized just how much it shaped my perception of relationships and love. A great show, that’s brought a tear to my eye several times.
@handleunavailable Жыл бұрын
honestly HIMYM had some very serious and emotional moments....and this is one of them.
@howimetyouruniverse9 ай бұрын
Barney drops the hardest quotes
@austinj1924 Жыл бұрын
This hits hard. Really hard. It truly sucks being alone. Lost friends never knowing what I did wrong. And then you're mid life. And all alone.
@chasingmypinnacle
Жыл бұрын
I have no family, and my friends live thousands of miles away.
@lesbiansaregoodandch
Жыл бұрын
You're only alone this instant, it doesn't have to be like that forever. Nothing in life is permanent except all our inevitable deaths. I've been alone for years now, and id be a liar if i said it's easy, especially since i once had a child on the way and a beautiful girlfriend. But you realize the only person from stopping you from being happy is Yourself. Look inward and try to find peace in the solace. Everyone dies alone in the end, it's up to us in life to choose how and who we spend it in the short time we're here.
@lesbiansaregoodandch
Жыл бұрын
@@chasingmypinnacle its time to make new ones, man. What's stopping you from doing so? Even if it's just reaching out to old friends via texting, going at it all alone is ruff.
@joany7166
Жыл бұрын
Work on yourself and be happy with who you are. People who appreciate you for being you will gravitate towards you. This is nowhere near the end and you need no more motivation than doing it for yourself. It can only be bad for soooo long bro, only way you can go is up. Stay strong
@chasingmypinnacle
Жыл бұрын
@@lesbiansaregoodandch The old friends were never friends. I am technically successful, and have everything going for me. It’s hard when you don’t have any family or have any friends to see or talk to. All I do is work and train.
@Tran1193 Жыл бұрын
This hits hard. I'm going to be in a very similar setting in a couple years. I only have 2 pairs of friends. They've gotten married to each other recently and the subject of kids are coming up more and more often. I'm making the most of it and cherishing all the time we have left, because I know that I'm going to end up like this.
@zacharysutton3170
Жыл бұрын
Advice try to move on while spending time with them because you may find new friends or someone to spend a life with such as a spouse and then you can familial activities and hangout with your current friends again and as well if they are a true friend they will continue to hangout with you it obviously won't be as often though because they will have new responsibilities the best thing to do though is find happiness 😊
@ashrafshelmani
Жыл бұрын
Try to find someone and you will be 3 happy couples ❤
@riverlady982
Жыл бұрын
If nothing else continue to be there when they need you while living your life and be like an Uncle to their kids.
@bensmith5231
Жыл бұрын
I'm like this now :( :(
@geekymetalhead5112
Жыл бұрын
24 still tryna get my shit together, yet I feel this Hella
@verybigdogface8401 Жыл бұрын
What is this. My body feels lowered. My heart feels passing. My mind is clear of nothing. This short hits WAY to hard.
@JP-vr7od4 ай бұрын
I’ve been alone for over a year now. No arguments. No heartache. No stress. I only feel peace. And bliss. Being alone is what I’ve always wanted.
@MrCodeman2036
4 ай бұрын
Stop the cap
@sophornphen4509 Жыл бұрын
One of the scariest things in life is to live for however long you did but still die alone. It's not how much money's there beside you or in an account that lets you go in peace. It's the loved ones who love you back.
@lexiconprime7211
Жыл бұрын
Everyone dies alone.
@mu6192
Жыл бұрын
Grandfather died but that trust fund is still going and flowing in the family. So it does matter! #COLLEGE_4_LIFE #NOSTUDENTDEBT
@sophornphen4509
Жыл бұрын
@Mu Haha, you kind of proved my point. Your grandfather loved you enough to give that to you. And you in return, will be ever grateful.
@Fraggr92
Жыл бұрын
Alone is how we enter this world, and alone is how we will all leave it. There's no getting around that fact. Doesn't matter how many friends or loved ones you surround yourself. Ain't nobody can cross that final threshold with you. In other words, you'd best get used to being alone. Because unless you can learn to become comfortable with it, you're going to be in for a bad time when your time comes.
@mu6192
Жыл бұрын
@@sophornphen4509 you said whatever they do or make doesn’t matter in the end when they die alone if they ain’t surrounded by family. So him making sure the money goes to the bloodline instead of the government is more of a smart business decision than anything else.
@Madoutlawz Жыл бұрын
I lost my whole family. Literally everyone died except my daughter. Even though she is my world it is still very eerie.. Some people don't know what "Alone" is . Good luck and Good Bless 🙏🏼💙💙
@spotonwashing5712
Жыл бұрын
Jesus is with you bro im with you bro don’t lose hope may the lord be with you he is close to the broken hearted
@fa14fighterjet
Жыл бұрын
No matter what, don’t give in to the sad emotions. Put them to use in a positive way, and as long as you take care of yourself and live a healthy life consistently, things will only get better. I’m with you.
@Madoutlawz
Жыл бұрын
@@spotonwashing5712 thank you for your kind words! 🙌🙌🙏🏼
@Madoutlawz
Жыл бұрын
@@fa14fighterjet I really appreciate your reply. Thank you!! 🙌🙏🏼
@Drekic
Жыл бұрын
I relate too well. sorry for your loss
@Elemenace Жыл бұрын
This feels like a lesson in trying to live in the past and how lonely it can be if you don't try to adjust to the present and prepare for the future.
@grantkruger36895 ай бұрын
Sometimes being alone is better than the people who were only pertending to be your friends.
@MrQuestiel
4 ай бұрын
Sigh. They were not pretending. Life just happens. Listen to what he said. Friends sometimes have more responsibilities than you you eg kids. That's it. If he had made his own family and was also busy with kids, then meeting once to see friends won't hurt as much. This is how mums stay friends meeting once for brunch. or dads who meet once in a while for boys night. It's when you are perpertually free because like may people in this generation you thought it's better to "live your best life" and not take on any responsibilities, now you blame them for "never caring". Are you more important than the new responsibilities in their lives like kids and dying parents?
@johnnk3256 Жыл бұрын
Get used to it. Soak in it. Accept it, as hard it may be. And you'll never feel alone ever again. That's the key.
@thestormtrooperwhocanaim496
Жыл бұрын
If sigma was ever used truthfully. It would be for this comment. Additionally remembering the fond moments with your loved ones to keep you moving forward. Whether to honor them or to work on yourself so you can see them again and show how much you have grown. Is strength.
@pabloaragones1647
Жыл бұрын
I think this is a flawed take that a lot of people are taking nowadays. Humans were never built to be alone, and never will be. You have to have to always keep and open heart to new things and people and you will never be alone, stop telling yourself that reality is this sad thing because if that’s what you think of it that’s what it will be. Go out more and meet people and just be happy, stop this accepting sadness because it gets you nowhere and eats you alive.
@johnnk3256
Жыл бұрын
@@pabloaragones1647: Accepting sadness? No. It's not about being sad or moping around. It's about being comfortable in their own skin. Some people are introverts, not everyone is built for being a part of the community.
@tinkujiya1332
Жыл бұрын
@@pabloaragones1647 well what about people being in chronic illness?? I had TMJ been having it for 15 years
@Wyrm7774
Жыл бұрын
Or you know, join a club or something
@camanquedesel Жыл бұрын
Saddest moment in the show
@lizddpyoga7476
Жыл бұрын
Especially after you see the finale.
@tatereno
Жыл бұрын
No No it was not
@camanquedesel
Жыл бұрын
@@tatereno yes it was yes
@jakubromatowski4894
Жыл бұрын
One of the saddest. The moment when Marshall found out that his father is dead, Barney's argument with his father. And creme de la creme- La Vie en Rose by Tracy from season 9, episod 16
@camanquedesel
Жыл бұрын
@@jakubromatowski4894 I don’t remember for marshal but if it’s the vocal message of his father it was cracked by joke at the end. Barney argument was tough and you can relate to him but more upsetting than sad tbh. And Tracy well I don’t remember well but if it’s after she found out for her dead husband well we barely didn’t know her and never seen him so hard to empathize tbh. On the other hand Ted’s loneliness that pushed him to imagine a whole day like he’s reliving memories and add more stuff to have a full day to cope his loneliness who is snapped back to reality by Barney without seeing it coming is so strong. Everyone can relate at one point and there’s no other thing that comes to play than pure sadness
@trevorthompson22984 ай бұрын
These comments always make me feel a little better. It sucks to go through everything you go through as a person but its nice to read you not alone.
@drtokubunsАй бұрын
What I've learned is exits in life are not equal. Sometimes people just grow apart, and in the moment, you don't even realize this is the last tike in your entire life you'll talk to this person
@MCSgt117 Жыл бұрын
Once, just as the street lights came on and you had to head home, your friends and you played together for the last time. Live for the moment.
@fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335
Жыл бұрын
This is actually "how I met your mother".. He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother".. . If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted...
@garrettsaunders8654
Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@artinrohani6741 Жыл бұрын
My worst fear is being alone… not having anyone and feeling as if everyone who cares for you is just putting up a front is the most suffocating thing. It even makes death sound a little bit nicer
@32lara32
Жыл бұрын
fear it not. it 100% will happen.
@yawninghamster7238
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@asaremperor
Жыл бұрын
First of all: The hardest thing anyone will have to do is learn to be alone with themselves. You can never be sure of people's feelings or intentions. Even the ones who claim to love you the most can stab you. That's why you learn history, that's why we write our memories. You have to be brave and face the music because at the end of the day, buddy, you only have yourself. And as long as you are friends with yourself, you will never be truly alone. Trust me, there are better, bigger things to be afraid of.
@artinrohani6741
Жыл бұрын
@@asaremperor that’s the problem, I despise myself the most out of anyone. I could make a small mistake but depending on how bad I feel about it I may never forgive myself. I’m not sure how to forgive myself nor do I think I deserve it
@thalesgprime
Жыл бұрын
Ah man, there is always someone else to meet. A new friend, a new lover. Life is a cycle of losses and gains.
@shadowx82565 ай бұрын
The beautiful thing about this is that while it can be painful when your friends find lives of their own... It doesn't mean you've missed your shot. You gotta get out there and find something for yourself. YOU make YOUR life.
@ericmottrom47716 ай бұрын
i cried in this ep, twas so sad
@enterprisewhiskey8999 Жыл бұрын
That "look around Ted, you're all alone" hit so hard
@fishtanker Жыл бұрын
This twist alone makes the episode one of my favorites and it always will be For the longest time
@syndicateoff6139
Жыл бұрын
This show was my life rl I’m Ted
@thaatguuy2 ай бұрын
I remember I was watching this when I was 22 and now I am 28. Crazy how time flies and yet I still remember this scene like if it was yesterday.
@rishavrai99999Ай бұрын
Thank god that i watched this show during my school/college days(and naruto too) little more wiser
@vikramraj8998 Жыл бұрын
It broke my heart when Barney said you are all alone to Ted. The scene was Ted's imagination, but still
@johnwilson8218
Жыл бұрын
What season and episode was this?!
@josevictorroling5984
Жыл бұрын
@@johnwilson8218 season 8 episode 20 - the time travelers. One of the best ones.
@cayden12 Жыл бұрын
"It's better to be alone than to be in bad company" - George Washington.
@drx3373
Жыл бұрын
Learned that the hard way after a breakup. Hanging around people that didn't fit in my life. Before the split she was the only person I had been doing things with. But one shouldn't isolate themselves either. Just be happy alone while searching for the right people, get out of the comfort zone.
@ryanhamstra49
Жыл бұрын
Pretty sure that was Lincoln….
@MrAnwer96
Жыл бұрын
@@drx3373 both of you are wrong it was said by Philip The Last , the elder brother of Genghis khan son.
@drx3373
Жыл бұрын
@@MrAnwer96 false. It’s actually from Kanye West
@sir-reynauld-the-kleptomaniac
Жыл бұрын
@@drx3373false it was from Sigmar Unberogen, founder and protector of the empire.
@thereject505 Жыл бұрын
It sucks to be all alone but it's worse being in room full of people and still being all alone
@marcelllamarck658322 күн бұрын
a friend once told me " when the adventure ends, you need to begin a new one. Don't fret about the good old days, because all days in your life will become good old days eventually"
@ShintaTakama4 ай бұрын
It's scenes like these why I tell people "fiction" and dramas are inspired by real-life events or emotions. Every story has a moral if you care enough to see what it is, and there's never a wrong answer but there is always a more correct answer.
@gabe6625 Жыл бұрын
Kinda how I feel when I look through my friends list seeing if someone wants to party up again. Those days are past but I somehow can’t remember the last one I had.
@Audacity_zx
Жыл бұрын
Honestly it’s kinda sad and it’s me right now just don’t hit the same anymore
@thekidd7
Жыл бұрын
Grow up, Gabe.
@gabe6625
Жыл бұрын
@@thekidd7 haha aw man you just don’t understand the feeling. Kinda like the last good day you had as a kid with your neighborhood friends. You can’t remember the last day it was, but in a way you sure do miss those carefree times.
@mcmjr405 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes being all alone isn’t a bad thing. Sometimes it’s the best thing because it’s the only way to find out who you really are and what you really want to do in your life.
@ronnocyam7167
Жыл бұрын
Yeah but being with people you care about and love is the only thing that will bring you actual happiness
@mcmjr405
Жыл бұрын
@@ronnocyam7167 how so? Can you not be happy in solitude?
@ronnocyam7167
Жыл бұрын
@@mcmjr405 no you can't
@SkyMarshalEmir
Жыл бұрын
@@ronnocyam7167 You are wrong, if you outsource all of your happiness from another person, that’s when you’ll never be truly happy. It is important to be self-functioning and besides; if you’re not, then you shouldn’t look for a relationship in the first place and focus on solving your internal problems first. Possibly with a therapist.
@ronnocyam7167
Жыл бұрын
@@SkyMarshalEmir didn't say you shouldn't be self-functioning. Even if you are youll still be depressed if you have no one you care about and talk to.
@AmzAkhtar Жыл бұрын
how i met your mother is one of, if not the best tv show of all time. I wasn’t even born when the show first aired, and i’ve just finished watching it. This episode, hit me so hard, it gave me depression. And that one episode where Marshall’s dad died. I love it so much and i hate it so much, only because i cried for 2 days straight bcuz i couldn’t finish the episode because it was so sad.
@2st4864 ай бұрын
"the future will not past and the past won't overtake the present. all that remains is an obsolete illusion" epica - the phantom agony
@zezevillamares2733 Жыл бұрын
As an immigrant who just started studying a year ago and takes no vacations nor spends money on parties or drinks, this feels like the few opportunities during which i allow myself to have a drink or stop smiling and start thinking on the path i went through. Feels kinda lonely specially in new year or birthdays but one can be happy alone and it wasn't that way before so it may not be like that forever, stick to what's important and keep going, keep moving forward. A virtual hug for who needs it, u got this ✌🏾🔥. Ps ketchup should be considered a tomato smoothie
@yvonnemartinas1922
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@garrettsaunders8654
Жыл бұрын
Keep grinding.
@GentleGiantJoe Жыл бұрын
This hurts more than it should. Fuck.
@alexanderwolfsberg4 ай бұрын
Neil Patrick Harris doesn’t get enough credit for how good a actor he is when given good lines and a good character
@leonolsen3 ай бұрын
As a kid I hated this episode. Maybe it’s cause I wasn’t ready to face the reality that life is a little lonely and cold, but now that im older I love this episode. I always learned wise things from this show
@MasterScopesvids Жыл бұрын
Thank you to whoever posted this video. You may have just changed my life for the better
@victorthefatherless2419 Жыл бұрын
This show had some of the deepest episodes, and then it got even deeper after you re-watched it a couple times
@petn4607
9 ай бұрын
Do you kwon what episode and season is it?
@victorthefatherless2419
9 ай бұрын
@@petn4607 season 8 episode 20
@AlvaroLbaez14 күн бұрын
The most beautiful piano piece I’ve ever heard, you are all alone is simply perfect
@HybridSpektar5 ай бұрын
When you hear the memories of your friends in your head, you know their a memory. Barely remember their faces anymore. And perhaps it's better like that.
@abrahamazuara1839 Жыл бұрын
This was one of my favorite episodes just off this scene
@yashtripathi2359
Жыл бұрын
which episode pls
@abrahamazuara1839
Жыл бұрын
@@yashtripathi2359 the time traverlers
@cookercross47 Жыл бұрын
Life can be so sad sometimes ngl
@automaticwriting4220
Жыл бұрын
Welcome to life
@ryankane4984
Жыл бұрын
And so happy and beautiful and hurtful and boring and exciting and scary and yeah, that’s life, that’s what makes it worth living, it’s so much more than just one thing
@ricco3
Жыл бұрын
For some of us it’s most of the time
@deadpoolnerd10 ай бұрын
It hurts to feel this way, so alone despite those you know. Unselfishly you're happy for those around you their accomplishments, their achievements. Yet despite all your efforts to do for yourself also, it always feels like you're still left behind. Stuck on the past when things were more simple when things were happy. You find yourself being the only one looking back. As you just inevitably feel like a bit player a chapter in their stories as they go on. And there you are alone hurt. With nothing more than memories of a time you can never return to. You're more alone than ever.
@jadeArieldavies
5 ай бұрын
Stay strong keep your chin up you will find peace 🙏
@andrewaverill2216Ай бұрын
For the longest time, I thought I was the last one at the party, but it turns out I was the only one to survive😮
@wolfehologram3539
15 күн бұрын
The last of my childhood friends passed away just as COVID was beginning. The cancer had come back and he didn't have the strength or the desire to fight it again. We toasted ourselves and our many fallen friends for New Years, and then he had the audacity to ask me if I'd be okay after he was gone.
@jeverydk Жыл бұрын
Lost gf and friends just before covid. Being alone, knowing my former best friends are together, makes this short hurt
@tylersoto7465
Ай бұрын
I feel you on feeling alone. Ever since covid happened people have been divided and alone. Being alone is not the worst fate , you get the peace, quiet and tranquility you need. If you don't like it then try seeing a professional to talk about it, try talking to people or friends etc .
@CoronaCuddles Жыл бұрын
First time I've ever seen this, and it hits hard. Figured I would have gotten other chances, and those chances never came.
@brandongiambra5 ай бұрын
Who says being alone is a bad thing? Stay true to yourself and nobody can betray you, nobody can cheat and lie on/to you. Less drama to deal with and less responsibilities. If you can handle being alone, you can do anything.
@robhul5950 Жыл бұрын
this is the best episode, sometimes i just randomly watch that episode to remember how sad life can be.
@dragondagger24 Жыл бұрын
Ow, my chronically depressed ass did not need this
@plowman1266
Жыл бұрын
I hear ya
@nickoblack8229
Жыл бұрын
Not alone
@GreedBoi
Жыл бұрын
Y u sad bro ?
@plowman1266
Жыл бұрын
@@GreedBoi you a troll, bree?
@tysondavis9684
Жыл бұрын
Go to the gym
@blooddemon1702 Жыл бұрын
Being alone isn't so bad once you become used to who you are. When you make that connection with yourself it changes you sometimes for better or for worse. Some thrive others falter. And some find strength to keep going no matter how far or lonesome the journey. It's not all bad just hard.
@regular-user Жыл бұрын
When you see this for the first time, it really hits you and you just as sad as him. It is crazy good how good the scene makes you feel the emptiness.
@AstraAstarte5 ай бұрын
I feel this......I'm 27 and I've never been so alone in my whole life
@Teenangst
4 ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing OK, and find happiness. Sometimes, it’s OK to feel alone, and even be alone, but don’t let that stop you from reaching out. You would be surprised by the amount of people feeling just like you, who just want someone to say “hello”. Maybe you can be that person to start saying “hello”…
@misskitty8092
4 ай бұрын
You are not alone.....we're ALL here. Even if we strangers can lean on each other from a distance - we're here with open ears and eyes to hear you out. So don't worry, I'm a great listener
@RK-ln6kg Жыл бұрын
Wow this scene is powerful. There are many people out there like this.
@balls9896 Жыл бұрын
At one point or another we all have to deal with being alone. Some deal with it by settling with a partner who isn’t right for them, some fuck anyone and anything they see isn’t fit for them. All this does is just delay the inevitable loneliness and sadness that we will all encounter. Embrace loneliness and sadness and make them your ally. The sooner you embrace it the better you can deal with it. Being alone ain’t the be all and end all. You just have to accept it for a while and be comfortable with it. And then move on from it. This ain’t a dress rehearsal.
@32lara32
Жыл бұрын
A-1 post. apropos user name.
@sadia2395
Жыл бұрын
One comment I agree with 😅 .Others think ' you gotta hold on to somethin' ,' go travel' yes absolutely, but the starting point of it all is that fact that yes we are alone, people will keep comin in through one door and leave through the other, but we have ourselves.always.isnt that comforting 🤷🏻♀️ No abandonin, no drama.just us for us.Idk ,I find it comforting 😅
@user-hb5md1pm5w4 ай бұрын
No one can stop you when you have an big anbition and you are a dreamer❤
@theevilteacher4 ай бұрын
When you depend on your buddies to go out and go to the movies or a show then these things happen. That's why going by myself has never bothered me... and since I have God in my heart, I'm never alone 😌
@tylersoto7465
Ай бұрын
Same here. Being alone is not the worst fate. It brings you peace, quietness and tranquility. It give me time to spend time with God even sitting in my yard at night everyday for years
@Issa.nicholas Жыл бұрын
The algorithm really knows how to make you laugh one minute than have you psychoanalyze yourself the next…
@deoceeluke2151 Жыл бұрын
The” You’re all alone “ tone hits different
@MrEddie0683 Жыл бұрын
As long as you have real friends….. you are NEVER alone
@Titan-td6yy Жыл бұрын
Just like Ted, I too raised my head and looked around and realized that I am Alone. 7 years has gone by since I lost one of my Best friends and 7 years I wished time would stand still
@tylersoto7465
Ай бұрын
I'm sorry you had to deal with that Titan'. Your not alone in this ok we all experience loneliness in life. You can overcome this moment ok. You just need to reach out to others. But remember being alone is not the worst fate. It can bring you peace, quietness and tranquility in life. I pray God's grace and peace of mind is with you.
@OddsYT Жыл бұрын
words cannot express how this is my biggest fear by approximately 100 billion miles
@Joseph.M.
Жыл бұрын
Dont let it be kid, you still have time.
@zeddicuszulzorander9582
Жыл бұрын
If you feel like this is a likely outcome, then change your behavior.
@OddsYT
Жыл бұрын
@@zeddicuszulzorander9582 I know this may come as a surprise but if it was that easy I would have done it already
@zeddicuszulzorander9582
Жыл бұрын
@@OddsYT Not doing something because it's "too much" or because it's "too late" isn't a healthy habit to have. You do not need to change everything or do it all at once. Take the time to think and consider what you want to be and what you want to have. Then, set an objective. It may feel like a negligible one. It may feel like the results of this one objective aren't helpful in any particular manner. But that's an improvement, and if you adopt this way of thinking, over the years, by accumulating those objectives, you will definitely change.
@im_a_bot404 Жыл бұрын
I got goosebumps Watched 2nd time and got goosebumps again 😞
@NEWMEDIATECHCLUB2 ай бұрын
I replayed a scene in my head all the time
@ose19985 ай бұрын
This scene and what happens after it always brings tears in my eyes. It feles like this great group of friends left him to proceed with their life while Ted is running in circles for 8 years. But its not their fault and its not Teds. Everyone got on and and far but bot Ted actually. He got everything he ever wanted in his career but deep in heart he knew the real goal was to find the one girl. Iam sad how this show ended because he got everything he searched for in 9 years and she got snatches out if his arms in few episodes. Batneys 3-4 year character development was gone with one episode. And he ends up with the love of his life that didn't deserve him and caused him years of pain.
@JesusChrist-jh6jo Жыл бұрын
I felt bad for the character of Ted every single moment he was the one that always tried the hardest but is the one that got their last and then the wife died so soon for the character
@Antisociandy4 ай бұрын
"You can’t cling to the past, because no matter how tightly you hold on, it’s already gone."
@tafaragadze64325 ай бұрын
This moment didnt have to hit this hard. The way everyone left the bar one by one until there was noone else left.
@thejoeman0123 Жыл бұрын
Ted is my most relatable character in all of media. The poor lad goes through so much. This was my favorite episode and not just because of the song they do at the end, but how eye opening lonliness can be
@brianaustin2135 Жыл бұрын
And that’s how it happens folks…life moves like a river and if you don’t hold onto anything you’ll be all alone too
@devanman7920 Жыл бұрын
Ohhh for the people in their early 30s watching this it hit home
@danielstevens38695 ай бұрын
This one hit me pretty hard a couple of years ago. I've been single for almost 10 years now, and back then, I thought I might find that one elusive woman. I saw this the same day I realized she doesn't exist. It hit me pretty hard.
@jadeArieldavies
5 ай бұрын
Don't worry friend everyone finds their way and when it's your time you will know life is just unpredictable so be kind 2 yourself because you don't know what tomorrow might bring 🙏
@patrickpepper2490Ай бұрын
Take the kindness and honesty of that nice kid you were and just try the best you can with it. This place is done for.
@ignoremeimjustbad1462 Жыл бұрын
ive been alone my entire life , im 33 now and at this point am okay with it
@Christian-rb8wk
6 ай бұрын
Not really. We're never really okay with it.
@arrow2380
4 ай бұрын
@@Christian-rb8wknot okay with it, but accepted that this is what life is going to be and got comfortable with that idea.
@seancurtis11995 ай бұрын
Dude made so many of his own problems by obsessing over this ideal of love meanwhile how many times does he betray peoples trust, lie, cheat or lash out, the dude didn't need "the right girl" to come along and fix everything, he needed to fix himself first and stop obsessing about a fantasy
@kekkelito28754 ай бұрын
Yea i felt that.... But when were alone, were training our minds for the next challenge in life, we just got a little headstart, stay blessed my indigo friends ❤️
@Stoned420Guru Жыл бұрын
This isn't about being alone or not having people there for you, because he does, it's just about moving on. Appreciate all that is and keep going.
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I always think of the quote from the Office. “I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.”
@zugmeister314
4 ай бұрын
At 51 I’m just getting a feel for that. All I can say is think about what matters to you and try to pay attention.
@logicsoundinc
4 ай бұрын
These ARE the good 'ol days. Keep making memories.
@bakabaka73
4 ай бұрын
@@logicsoundinc Yeah, that quote has really made me take a step back in certain moments and realize these are the times Ill be thinking about when I'm older.
@logicsoundinc
4 ай бұрын
@@bakabaka73yep, I’m 46 and still making memories as often as I can. I look upon tomorrow, today, and yesterday as fondly as I do any day 25 years ago.
@Matt-kw6gl
4 ай бұрын
@@bakabaka73me too man. I’m 35, and every now and then I do find myself just for a second taking an extra minute during certain occasions to take it all in, especially at large family gatherings. We always reminisce on the past, but we need to learn to take in the present and enjoy it.
Sometimes a short hits you in away you can't stop listening
@danieldiaz6023
Жыл бұрын
Why Nixon why
@goobiej
Жыл бұрын
For 30 seconds😂
@davidnorman4612
Жыл бұрын
Stop committing evil. When you see injustices, intervene and stamp it out… and maybe you people wouldn’t feel so depressed.
@Qtrcirfwd
Жыл бұрын
Lol. "in away" sounds like my dogs name. I'm Native American.
@RbRnAngelz
Жыл бұрын
facts
This was supposed to be my comfort show, but after this episode ended, I just sat down and stared at my desk for a few minutes thinking about life.
@user-to2ne4lg2j
Ай бұрын
What’s the episode
@samuelibrahimovic8508
Ай бұрын
@@user-to2ne4lg2jdon’t be stupid, and just watch the whole series from the start till the end
@hiransh
Ай бұрын
@@user-to2ne4lg2j how I met your mother. season 8 episode 20 , d series which changed my life completely , do watch, my most favourite series ,its quotes its songs .... amazing
@JCDay
Ай бұрын
I just finished this show and bro I was so depressed, the ending could have been better, the alternate ending could have also been better, but in the end, its just a show, and we gotta let go
@katwiltz1134
29 күн бұрын
Now everything is just anxiety and a balloon that has been released full of helium it is out of context no one will ever really know are you invisible kind of feeling that I was just smiling going through my feed and this hit me like a train and you saying it made me have to actually experience it but whoever you are I feel you
"There are people in this world who prefer solitude. But there is no one who can withstand it."
@ericanders3078
5 ай бұрын
Makarov?
@Dankshin0bi
Ай бұрын
Actually , only the strongest of us can
@TahmkenchTheCatFish
Ай бұрын
I can.
@TonyStorm21
Ай бұрын
I didnt expect this comment to attract the edgy teens, but what else did I expect really.
@Dankshin0bi
Ай бұрын
@@TonyStorm21 I’m 28 , I have been on a solo journey chasing my dreams across the United states , I am of course not there yet, but I am working hard everyday I live completely alone always do you know why? Because I must become a master of myself and my mind. In order to do that you must be alone.
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it"
@labeastchange9088
Жыл бұрын
This comment hit harder than anything right now for me I'm still lving in the past hoping and wishing I could change this or that and it's never coming back and I want to live in the now I remember my dad when he was 40 and now he's nearing 60 like I don't even realize how much time I missed with him and I think I'm starting to realize how bad that really is I've been so caught up in my own bullshit that I couldn't even see what was in front of me that was important please listen when I say this cherish what's around you cause one day it will all be gone none of us want to admit it but deep down we all know the drip finally stops
@jefftX
Жыл бұрын
@@labeastchange9088 my dad died at 65. I was 22. I don’t regret much as we had a great relationship and I did spend a lot of time with him, but I didn’t get enough. He was my male mentor and role model. Losing him I lost a part of my soul that has never come back.
@pepetrueno8722
Жыл бұрын
Buehler, Buehler…
@jonathanderbidge598
Жыл бұрын
I look around and I’m pessimistic. I seize what I can control and I’m optimistic. The trouble is finding the reality of both to be equally acceptable
@onemanwithin
Жыл бұрын
True
Therapists when your card declines:
@jordanmicahcook
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@sadia2395
Жыл бұрын
😂👏🏽
@User2jn
Жыл бұрын
''anyways, good luck on that thing''
@emmanuelafoakwah8968
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@captaindiablo604
Жыл бұрын
the best comment possible
Parents are getting old, Friends and cousins getting married, Your surroundings are changing fast And yet we are like TED stuck in the past, Because that was the best thing that happened to our life.
@Kocgpt
Ай бұрын
Your comment reflect literally me bro
@hadilshah4466
Ай бұрын
@@Kocgpt ahh atleast am not alone
@cmosley119
Ай бұрын
The best is yet to come! Eternal Glory thru Jesus Christ!
@bpdbhp1632
Ай бұрын
Couldnt have said it better
@michaelross1464
Ай бұрын
You’re right. More right than I think you know. The best thing that happenED is gone. But don’t give up on that amazing thing that’s yet to come. And it only ever arrives if you make it happen.
Story of my life. Almost all of my friends have their own family. I failed an attempt to build one 10 yrs ago and I wasn't able to recover emotionally. I'm just jumping to one distraction to the next, while praying my parents to live long. It's just me at the end of the day after a busy work. But it's fine, I'll be alright. Once you accept things the way they are it's not too bad.
@Overcome808
3 ай бұрын
Hey man. Take care, it will be alright
@WhyBother_357
2 ай бұрын
God Bless Youv
@__1201
2 ай бұрын
Don't let anyone shame you for being alone. There is nothing wrong with being alone as long as you are at peace with youself and live a happy life.
@JoybuzzerX
2 ай бұрын
Right there with you.
@charliewilton_
2 ай бұрын
Sounds like a skill issue
The first time i saw this even i got chills. Seeing it again after forgetting about it have me chills again. Thanks for the reminder
@yancavalcante7260
Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. This happened to me right now. Kinda sad, really.
@trenticeberg4067
Жыл бұрын
@Sam Athor ight bro... hardy har har. Thanks for taking your precious time to type this comment. It will be remebered in my suicide note 💀
@DarkSolidity
Жыл бұрын
Ted wanted Robin so bad, and it hurt him so bad when Barney mentioned that he and Robin were looking for a wedding caterer, a pain that becomes overwhelming when you realize he’s having a conversation with his subconscious and he was actually saying those things to himself. He was intentionally hurting himself.
@vampvhs
Жыл бұрын
@Sam Athor you seem sadder than the message behind this video, somehow such a stupid and meaningless comment evokes more pitiful and pathetic energy than a string of words should, I hope you’re happy, bc by the arrogance portrayed in your comment, you surely don’t seem it, you seem disconnected from the combined feeling this video gave the rest of us, which means to me that you do not have friends or people to feel along with, and thus you are more alone than the fictional character, perhaps that’s why OPs comment and the video evoked such an ignorant and unnecessary response from you
@bluewizard8318
Жыл бұрын
Wow. Even THIS GUY got chills.
this sad moment was immediately followed by the SADDEST moment on the show, which was when ted explains that if he could go back to this time, he wouldnt be at the bar or at robots vs wrestlers, he would go see his future wife who he had not met yet in the memory which is even more devastating at the end of the show when you realize that she had died a long time ago and this scene was him wanting to see her again
@christmas90s54
Жыл бұрын
Was his wife Robin? I never saw the ending
@americantaco5344
Жыл бұрын
@@christmas90s54 No it was another woman, but she passes away and the whole show was him talking to his kids about his life and how he met their mother , but it was also him asking their permission to pursue Robin and to start dating again. Because he believed he was ready and wanted their understanding which he gets and goes to robin with the blue french horn
@db9944
Жыл бұрын
It seemed pretty obvious early on Tracy had died, so that never shocked me or bothered me when it happened in the finale. What bugged me was 8 years of why Ted and Robin don't belong together, only to put them together anyway..
@theme34xcp
Жыл бұрын
dammm.. But what happened to robin Barney? I thought they ended up together too.
@gobbluth6910
Жыл бұрын
@@americantaco5344 how is Robin single in the future? Did Barney die?
I’m 43. Been alone a long time. I think when I came home from the army was the last time I was with any friends. 2005.
@samanb1268
4 ай бұрын
🫂
@Darskul
4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry brother, truly I am. Might do you good to try and reconnect with some old friends if that's a possibility.
@kieranprice5496
4 ай бұрын
Same man, leaving service is shockingly lonely
@groovydolph
4 ай бұрын
Checking in on you brother. Hope you’re still out there man. Been there recently as well, gotta share some stories with us here in the comments
@papadrew7198
4 ай бұрын
Hold on brother brighter days are ahead
Reminds me of my life atm. All my friends are making families and here i am still sitting at the pub.
@Bowhunter493
4 ай бұрын
The fact that you're even AT a pub means you're an irredeemable loser. May as well just keep going.
@fromashes7818
4 ай бұрын
Brother man I'm here with you.. 28 and lonely
@fromashes7818
4 ай бұрын
I hope things work out for you. That everything bad in your life turns to joy, and you be given a childlike happiness when you experience each day for the rest of your days.
@trestoncoleman85
4 ай бұрын
@@fromashes7818 same boat bro. I hope the same for you and if nothing else hopefully we can drink and laugh at a pub.
@mattripodi6474
4 ай бұрын
I suggest, trying be alone somewhere else other than 1. Home (to avoid only staying in all the time) 2. The pub Parks, gallery's, movies, botanical gardens. I do wish you well, new hobbies help.
No words could ever possibly describe the depth of loneliness that this scene captures. A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth an ocean.
@youknow227
7 ай бұрын
A picture is worth a thousand words But this scene is worth a library
@khanetia
5 ай бұрын
A picture is worth a thousand words, but this scene is worth nothing because we watched it for free on KZread shorts.
@patrickbreiding310
5 ай бұрын
Tv for stupid people
@brandonmullwray9924
4 ай бұрын
.... And I drown in it every day since my divorce.
@Hamdini10
4 ай бұрын
Cringe
This is a real lesson in life. As life goes on, everyone does too. And even if you're living your best life, you're the only one who cares.
@youdontexist.
Жыл бұрын
Ok. Just one more Short.
@BalmaneGames
Жыл бұрын
Until you have a children
@62shredderdude
Жыл бұрын
@@youdontexist. just…..one…..more
@Gmgo38
Жыл бұрын
Bars!🎉
@Generic-usernam3
Жыл бұрын
That’s actually really sad that you feel like you’re the only one who cares about what’s happening in your life :/
It does hit differently when pass your 30s
@jillybeangaming
4 ай бұрын
it hits hard when you're in your 30s too to be fair. I think he's in his late 20s by this point in the show, maybe early 30s.. dating as you get older is tough, and it can feel like you're gonna end up alone, but the truth is that people are dating longer and getting married much later than they used to back in the day.. it's not a great thing.. but it does give hope to some folks who are in their mid thirties to 40s and aren't married.
@matt59fire
4 ай бұрын
From all the complaining I see from people I've come to the conclusion that I have mental issues. I wanna say I'm probably on the spectrum. Because tbh, I have family and friends. Seeing my friends once every few weeks is honestly enough for me. And I have alot of cousins and what's not. I don't really feel a rush to get into a relationship. It's just not something I've ever strided for.
@hailcthulhu419
4 ай бұрын
It hits hard in your 30s too. I'm 39 and all I have are my parents and my dogs. It could be worse, but it's lonely as hell.
@oles629
4 ай бұрын
@@hailcthulhu419 Yeah, parrents and dog here as well.. I`m 33 and this hits hard! But, let`s make the best of it, there's no second chance in life unfortunately! Enjoy the weekend, greetings from Norway :)
@uncle_Samssubjects
4 ай бұрын
@@matt59firethat's a life not worth living.. what a miserable selfish life because of a little fear..
How I Met Your Mother just knew how to teach life lessons in their episodes.
@THE202
Ай бұрын
“The great moments of your life won’t necessarily be the things that you do, it could also be the things that happen to you, now i’m not saying you can’t take action to define the outcome of your life, you have to take action…and you will” The last bit is so subtle yet holds sooo much weight!
This was not the short my recently dumped ass needed 😂
@yalc-04
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha true but it's been 6 months hopefully it's better and you can laugh harder now
@MidwestMagicMan
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully it’s better and you’ve realized you’re never truly alone. You always have yourself to love you and to love, and there’s always more people in the world who’ll appreciate who you are. Never give up, never give in to the feeling of loneliness. -someone also dealing with a breakup from a long term partner
@FangCWAEmu
Жыл бұрын
Hoping you're alright now king
@kizzyjem
Жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing okay, stranger 😊
@andrewmcvea4825
Жыл бұрын
Luv you. Keep the chin up. ☘️
Going through that right now. I grew up with my 2 best friends, i moved across the state with them and we worked the same job, now theyre both recently married and we all arent talking as much, we hang with eachother once in a while suddenly and try to plan out some trips but its not a regular thing. I mainly see them at work and talk in passing. I feel like ive not even started my life yet and they've reached the end point in theirs...... and now im kind of alone and ive been in that shitty job grinding for so long i dont know where to go or what to do. The Irony here is how i want to be an actor/director and id much rather be sitting in Ted's seat saying this on camera; just acting instead of laying on this bed typing this out basically doing the same thing but forreal. I dont know what happened, or where the time went, and each day i feel more and more alone because my brothers are living their own lives and im just..... existing.
@randomrickreviewsrrr4662
Жыл бұрын
You still got time use it.
@tacocat318
Жыл бұрын
You may not get it now, but someday you might. 1.) Brotherhood is not contact, it's in the soul. Those worth keeping as your brothers, it won't matter the time or the distance, when one comes a calling it's like neither ever left. It's about rivalry and change, it's standing on two sides of a canyon, seeing eachother at the peak leading those still climbing it and knowing it was through your hardships together that you were both able to achieve such heights. Furthermore life truly is a play, and as the scenes change so too must the actors, for better or worse. 2.) Life is what you make it and part of that is adapting your plans to your circumstances. You may never be an actor on the big screen or a director of it, but you can still be both. You can play a role in others lives, or discard your own to play a character who isn't you. You can get to a position where you direct others in the great film of life. I'm not speaking out my ass, I'm speaking from experience. I've drifted all my life, the friends I've found and lost. The pain of distance that still hits. The ones worth a damn, I can still call up and see the Brotherhood is still strong even if we can't meet or do anything. I had to abandon my dreams and ambitions because I got a bad pull on the genetic lottery that barred me from pursuing the path I wanted and still want most. It took me awhile to realize that while officially it may have barred me, I can still pursue such interests and apply them to other areas of life to fill that role in an unofficial capacity. The only difference between the screen and life is, life has goals but no paths. So sing, act, dance like the whole world is watching, and don't be afraid of change in cast or scenes as life is always changing.
@justblack5596
Жыл бұрын
If you feel alone go get a GF or find new Friends cause that is what a Human is. we need Communication or we will die little by little. if you feel you hate your job. just quit. i khow it may sound easy just saying it but it is another thing to do it. you can keep that job and blame yourself why i didn't quit or just quit and go to an acting class. you need the fear of not having a stable income of money as a boost to reach your dream. it is almost never Late. the almost part is because of death. don't let it because late ... .
@BlueBamboo9
Жыл бұрын
Take the leap, man.. Even if you fail (Which I hope you don't), you tried. Honestly, that's a lot more than a lot of people can say. Believe it or not, a lot of people really don't go for their dreams. They settle. And settling has been so normalized that if you go for even the smallest of risks, you're considered dumb or selfish. That's why you see people with incompatible S/O's. "Arguing is just the norm in a relationship." Or you see people constantly talking about traveling or acting... Meanwhile, they're mindlessly shaving off their own life working a job that they hate. A lot of people will call that "Being a man." Or "Doing what needs to be done." I call it being a Fool. I'd much rather die knowing I tried to achieve my dreams than live a long life feeling like I didn't live at all.
@JAntonSaad
Жыл бұрын
Yes, but you're free to pursue your dreams, and they now have a myriad of obligations. Such as life it is right now, embrace your opportunities. One day you'll get married too, have children, and visit your friends for kids' playtime. There's no rush. Until then, pursue your dream while you can and waste no time to invest in yourself. Affectionately, a stranger.
Remember friends, just because you miss one chance does not mean you will not get another. Embrace life, but do not let words like these discourage you, life will never stop throwing these at you if you put yourself out there. Stay awesome.
@irshadjaffar9113
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for these lines
It's sad because Ted has this idea of what the love of his life is supposed to be and he searches for a decade to find it and when he does, we realize while we've been watching this story unfold, his wife had passed a couple years earlier
@sincerelyyours2694
5 ай бұрын
I didn't get it I beg you to please explain it again
@euizanagi722
5 ай бұрын
@@sincerelyyours2694 Well spoiler alert for this old movie. Ted is basically telling his kids on how he met their mother, Ted was prompted to tell this story due missing his wife who died by an unknown illness a couple of years ago. So basically Ted is telling his kids how he met their departed mother.
@blockedhaat
5 ай бұрын
@euizanagi722 and it was all to teach his kids many valuable lessons and respectfully open them up to the idea of him finding love again after his "one" and wife has passed.
@Twix2304
4 ай бұрын
@@euizanagi722well, he tells it for another Reason too.
@wufy9
4 ай бұрын
I thought for a long time that he never met his wife and she had passed away while he was still looking for her and the kids were just his imagination.
Jesus Christ this was a dark ending for an episode
@NA1c158
Жыл бұрын
He was in denial about his friends moving on and letting it depress him. Him seeing the truth is necessary, not pretty though.
@NOST0PLOSS
Жыл бұрын
Kinda foreshadows the tone of the ending
@Dr_Lyrical1360
Жыл бұрын
Good thing i believe they ended it with a lighthearted barbershop quartet😅
@Kirito-yb4eg
Жыл бұрын
That too for a sitcomm
@fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335
Жыл бұрын
This is actually "how I met your mother".. He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother".. . If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted... It was Robin all along..
it doesn't matter who you are and who tells you, but if you hear a "you're all alone" like that, it hits. it just hits.
The majority of my friends have moved on gotten married, or have passed away. I've been to over 25 funerals in 10 years. I'm a caretaker for my mom, lost my fiancee as she was one of those people. I have 2 cats and I'm alone and it hurts, I isolated myself, due to needing to be strong to survive the trauma, I was isolated because of the trauma as no one wanted to be around me or even attempt to understand me. I didn't want to push them away. However, I was suffering and I'm still suffering to this day.
This is top 5 saddest moments. When ted realizes that all his friends are moving on with their lives but he still at the bar alone.
This show came out when I was 9, and my family watched it religiously. I rewatched it again at 20 and realized just how much it shaped my perception of relationships and love. A great show, that’s brought a tear to my eye several times.
honestly HIMYM had some very serious and emotional moments....and this is one of them.
Barney drops the hardest quotes
This hits hard. Really hard. It truly sucks being alone. Lost friends never knowing what I did wrong. And then you're mid life. And all alone.
@chasingmypinnacle
Жыл бұрын
I have no family, and my friends live thousands of miles away.
@lesbiansaregoodandch
Жыл бұрын
You're only alone this instant, it doesn't have to be like that forever. Nothing in life is permanent except all our inevitable deaths. I've been alone for years now, and id be a liar if i said it's easy, especially since i once had a child on the way and a beautiful girlfriend. But you realize the only person from stopping you from being happy is Yourself. Look inward and try to find peace in the solace. Everyone dies alone in the end, it's up to us in life to choose how and who we spend it in the short time we're here.
@lesbiansaregoodandch
Жыл бұрын
@@chasingmypinnacle its time to make new ones, man. What's stopping you from doing so? Even if it's just reaching out to old friends via texting, going at it all alone is ruff.
@joany7166
Жыл бұрын
Work on yourself and be happy with who you are. People who appreciate you for being you will gravitate towards you. This is nowhere near the end and you need no more motivation than doing it for yourself. It can only be bad for soooo long bro, only way you can go is up. Stay strong
@chasingmypinnacle
Жыл бұрын
@@lesbiansaregoodandch The old friends were never friends. I am technically successful, and have everything going for me. It’s hard when you don’t have any family or have any friends to see or talk to. All I do is work and train.
This hits hard. I'm going to be in a very similar setting in a couple years. I only have 2 pairs of friends. They've gotten married to each other recently and the subject of kids are coming up more and more often. I'm making the most of it and cherishing all the time we have left, because I know that I'm going to end up like this.
@zacharysutton3170
Жыл бұрын
Advice try to move on while spending time with them because you may find new friends or someone to spend a life with such as a spouse and then you can familial activities and hangout with your current friends again and as well if they are a true friend they will continue to hangout with you it obviously won't be as often though because they will have new responsibilities the best thing to do though is find happiness 😊
@ashrafshelmani
Жыл бұрын
Try to find someone and you will be 3 happy couples ❤
@riverlady982
Жыл бұрын
If nothing else continue to be there when they need you while living your life and be like an Uncle to their kids.
@bensmith5231
Жыл бұрын
I'm like this now :( :(
@geekymetalhead5112
Жыл бұрын
24 still tryna get my shit together, yet I feel this Hella
What is this. My body feels lowered. My heart feels passing. My mind is clear of nothing. This short hits WAY to hard.
I’ve been alone for over a year now. No arguments. No heartache. No stress. I only feel peace. And bliss. Being alone is what I’ve always wanted.
@MrCodeman2036
4 ай бұрын
Stop the cap
One of the scariest things in life is to live for however long you did but still die alone. It's not how much money's there beside you or in an account that lets you go in peace. It's the loved ones who love you back.
@lexiconprime7211
Жыл бұрын
Everyone dies alone.
@mu6192
Жыл бұрын
Grandfather died but that trust fund is still going and flowing in the family. So it does matter! #COLLEGE_4_LIFE #NOSTUDENTDEBT
@sophornphen4509
Жыл бұрын
@Mu Haha, you kind of proved my point. Your grandfather loved you enough to give that to you. And you in return, will be ever grateful.
@Fraggr92
Жыл бұрын
Alone is how we enter this world, and alone is how we will all leave it. There's no getting around that fact. Doesn't matter how many friends or loved ones you surround yourself. Ain't nobody can cross that final threshold with you. In other words, you'd best get used to being alone. Because unless you can learn to become comfortable with it, you're going to be in for a bad time when your time comes.
@mu6192
Жыл бұрын
@@sophornphen4509 you said whatever they do or make doesn’t matter in the end when they die alone if they ain’t surrounded by family. So him making sure the money goes to the bloodline instead of the government is more of a smart business decision than anything else.
I lost my whole family. Literally everyone died except my daughter. Even though she is my world it is still very eerie.. Some people don't know what "Alone" is . Good luck and Good Bless 🙏🏼💙💙
@spotonwashing5712
Жыл бұрын
Jesus is with you bro im with you bro don’t lose hope may the lord be with you he is close to the broken hearted
@fa14fighterjet
Жыл бұрын
No matter what, don’t give in to the sad emotions. Put them to use in a positive way, and as long as you take care of yourself and live a healthy life consistently, things will only get better. I’m with you.
@Madoutlawz
Жыл бұрын
@@spotonwashing5712 thank you for your kind words! 🙌🙌🙏🏼
@Madoutlawz
Жыл бұрын
@@fa14fighterjet I really appreciate your reply. Thank you!! 🙌🙏🏼
@Drekic
Жыл бұрын
I relate too well. sorry for your loss
This feels like a lesson in trying to live in the past and how lonely it can be if you don't try to adjust to the present and prepare for the future.
Sometimes being alone is better than the people who were only pertending to be your friends.
@MrQuestiel
4 ай бұрын
Sigh. They were not pretending. Life just happens. Listen to what he said. Friends sometimes have more responsibilities than you you eg kids. That's it. If he had made his own family and was also busy with kids, then meeting once to see friends won't hurt as much. This is how mums stay friends meeting once for brunch. or dads who meet once in a while for boys night. It's when you are perpertually free because like may people in this generation you thought it's better to "live your best life" and not take on any responsibilities, now you blame them for "never caring". Are you more important than the new responsibilities in their lives like kids and dying parents?
Get used to it. Soak in it. Accept it, as hard it may be. And you'll never feel alone ever again. That's the key.
@thestormtrooperwhocanaim496
Жыл бұрын
If sigma was ever used truthfully. It would be for this comment. Additionally remembering the fond moments with your loved ones to keep you moving forward. Whether to honor them or to work on yourself so you can see them again and show how much you have grown. Is strength.
@pabloaragones1647
Жыл бұрын
I think this is a flawed take that a lot of people are taking nowadays. Humans were never built to be alone, and never will be. You have to have to always keep and open heart to new things and people and you will never be alone, stop telling yourself that reality is this sad thing because if that’s what you think of it that’s what it will be. Go out more and meet people and just be happy, stop this accepting sadness because it gets you nowhere and eats you alive.
@johnnk3256
Жыл бұрын
@@pabloaragones1647: Accepting sadness? No. It's not about being sad or moping around. It's about being comfortable in their own skin. Some people are introverts, not everyone is built for being a part of the community.
@tinkujiya1332
Жыл бұрын
@@pabloaragones1647 well what about people being in chronic illness?? I had TMJ been having it for 15 years
@Wyrm7774
Жыл бұрын
Or you know, join a club or something
Saddest moment in the show
@lizddpyoga7476
Жыл бұрын
Especially after you see the finale.
@tatereno
Жыл бұрын
No No it was not
@camanquedesel
Жыл бұрын
@@tatereno yes it was yes
@jakubromatowski4894
Жыл бұрын
One of the saddest. The moment when Marshall found out that his father is dead, Barney's argument with his father. And creme de la creme- La Vie en Rose by Tracy from season 9, episod 16
@camanquedesel
Жыл бұрын
@@jakubromatowski4894 I don’t remember for marshal but if it’s the vocal message of his father it was cracked by joke at the end. Barney argument was tough and you can relate to him but more upsetting than sad tbh. And Tracy well I don’t remember well but if it’s after she found out for her dead husband well we barely didn’t know her and never seen him so hard to empathize tbh. On the other hand Ted’s loneliness that pushed him to imagine a whole day like he’s reliving memories and add more stuff to have a full day to cope his loneliness who is snapped back to reality by Barney without seeing it coming is so strong. Everyone can relate at one point and there’s no other thing that comes to play than pure sadness
These comments always make me feel a little better. It sucks to go through everything you go through as a person but its nice to read you not alone.
What I've learned is exits in life are not equal. Sometimes people just grow apart, and in the moment, you don't even realize this is the last tike in your entire life you'll talk to this person
Once, just as the street lights came on and you had to head home, your friends and you played together for the last time. Live for the moment.
@fab-freshaquaponicbiospher6335
Жыл бұрын
This is actually "how I met your mother".. He was sad, lonely, desperate and willing to accept that Robin will never be his..... That is true story of "how I met your mother".. . If Robin was single or Ted was not alone, it would have never happened.. So the mother was his fallback last option.. So sad that she meant so little to Ted...
@garrettsaunders8654
Жыл бұрын
Well said.
My worst fear is being alone… not having anyone and feeling as if everyone who cares for you is just putting up a front is the most suffocating thing. It even makes death sound a little bit nicer
@32lara32
Жыл бұрын
fear it not. it 100% will happen.
@yawninghamster7238
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@asaremperor
Жыл бұрын
First of all: The hardest thing anyone will have to do is learn to be alone with themselves. You can never be sure of people's feelings or intentions. Even the ones who claim to love you the most can stab you. That's why you learn history, that's why we write our memories. You have to be brave and face the music because at the end of the day, buddy, you only have yourself. And as long as you are friends with yourself, you will never be truly alone. Trust me, there are better, bigger things to be afraid of.
@artinrohani6741
Жыл бұрын
@@asaremperor that’s the problem, I despise myself the most out of anyone. I could make a small mistake but depending on how bad I feel about it I may never forgive myself. I’m not sure how to forgive myself nor do I think I deserve it
@thalesgprime
Жыл бұрын
Ah man, there is always someone else to meet. A new friend, a new lover. Life is a cycle of losses and gains.
The beautiful thing about this is that while it can be painful when your friends find lives of their own... It doesn't mean you've missed your shot. You gotta get out there and find something for yourself. YOU make YOUR life.
i cried in this ep, twas so sad
That "look around Ted, you're all alone" hit so hard
This twist alone makes the episode one of my favorites and it always will be For the longest time
@syndicateoff6139
Жыл бұрын
This show was my life rl I’m Ted
I remember I was watching this when I was 22 and now I am 28. Crazy how time flies and yet I still remember this scene like if it was yesterday.
Thank god that i watched this show during my school/college days(and naruto too) little more wiser
It broke my heart when Barney said you are all alone to Ted. The scene was Ted's imagination, but still
@johnwilson8218
Жыл бұрын
What season and episode was this?!
@josevictorroling5984
Жыл бұрын
@@johnwilson8218 season 8 episode 20 - the time travelers. One of the best ones.
"It's better to be alone than to be in bad company" - George Washington.
@drx3373
Жыл бұрын
Learned that the hard way after a breakup. Hanging around people that didn't fit in my life. Before the split she was the only person I had been doing things with. But one shouldn't isolate themselves either. Just be happy alone while searching for the right people, get out of the comfort zone.
@ryanhamstra49
Жыл бұрын
Pretty sure that was Lincoln….
@MrAnwer96
Жыл бұрын
@@drx3373 both of you are wrong it was said by Philip The Last , the elder brother of Genghis khan son.
@drx3373
Жыл бұрын
@@MrAnwer96 false. It’s actually from Kanye West
@sir-reynauld-the-kleptomaniac
Жыл бұрын
@@drx3373false it was from Sigmar Unberogen, founder and protector of the empire.
It sucks to be all alone but it's worse being in room full of people and still being all alone
a friend once told me " when the adventure ends, you need to begin a new one. Don't fret about the good old days, because all days in your life will become good old days eventually"
It's scenes like these why I tell people "fiction" and dramas are inspired by real-life events or emotions. Every story has a moral if you care enough to see what it is, and there's never a wrong answer but there is always a more correct answer.
Kinda how I feel when I look through my friends list seeing if someone wants to party up again. Those days are past but I somehow can’t remember the last one I had.
@Audacity_zx
Жыл бұрын
Honestly it’s kinda sad and it’s me right now just don’t hit the same anymore
@thekidd7
Жыл бұрын
Grow up, Gabe.
@gabe6625
Жыл бұрын
@@thekidd7 haha aw man you just don’t understand the feeling. Kinda like the last good day you had as a kid with your neighborhood friends. You can’t remember the last day it was, but in a way you sure do miss those carefree times.
Sometimes being all alone isn’t a bad thing. Sometimes it’s the best thing because it’s the only way to find out who you really are and what you really want to do in your life.
@ronnocyam7167
Жыл бұрын
Yeah but being with people you care about and love is the only thing that will bring you actual happiness
@mcmjr405
Жыл бұрын
@@ronnocyam7167 how so? Can you not be happy in solitude?
@ronnocyam7167
Жыл бұрын
@@mcmjr405 no you can't
@SkyMarshalEmir
Жыл бұрын
@@ronnocyam7167 You are wrong, if you outsource all of your happiness from another person, that’s when you’ll never be truly happy. It is important to be self-functioning and besides; if you’re not, then you shouldn’t look for a relationship in the first place and focus on solving your internal problems first. Possibly with a therapist.
@ronnocyam7167
Жыл бұрын
@@SkyMarshalEmir didn't say you shouldn't be self-functioning. Even if you are youll still be depressed if you have no one you care about and talk to.
how i met your mother is one of, if not the best tv show of all time. I wasn’t even born when the show first aired, and i’ve just finished watching it. This episode, hit me so hard, it gave me depression. And that one episode where Marshall’s dad died. I love it so much and i hate it so much, only because i cried for 2 days straight bcuz i couldn’t finish the episode because it was so sad.
"the future will not past and the past won't overtake the present. all that remains is an obsolete illusion" epica - the phantom agony
As an immigrant who just started studying a year ago and takes no vacations nor spends money on parties or drinks, this feels like the few opportunities during which i allow myself to have a drink or stop smiling and start thinking on the path i went through. Feels kinda lonely specially in new year or birthdays but one can be happy alone and it wasn't that way before so it may not be like that forever, stick to what's important and keep going, keep moving forward. A virtual hug for who needs it, u got this ✌🏾🔥. Ps ketchup should be considered a tomato smoothie
@yvonnemartinas1922
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@garrettsaunders8654
Жыл бұрын
Keep grinding.
This hurts more than it should. Fuck.
Neil Patrick Harris doesn’t get enough credit for how good a actor he is when given good lines and a good character
As a kid I hated this episode. Maybe it’s cause I wasn’t ready to face the reality that life is a little lonely and cold, but now that im older I love this episode. I always learned wise things from this show
Thank you to whoever posted this video. You may have just changed my life for the better
This show had some of the deepest episodes, and then it got even deeper after you re-watched it a couple times
@petn4607
9 ай бұрын
Do you kwon what episode and season is it?
@victorthefatherless2419
9 ай бұрын
@@petn4607 season 8 episode 20
The most beautiful piano piece I’ve ever heard, you are all alone is simply perfect
When you hear the memories of your friends in your head, you know their a memory. Barely remember their faces anymore. And perhaps it's better like that.
This was one of my favorite episodes just off this scene
@yashtripathi2359
Жыл бұрын
which episode pls
@abrahamazuara1839
Жыл бұрын
@@yashtripathi2359 the time traverlers
Life can be so sad sometimes ngl
@automaticwriting4220
Жыл бұрын
Welcome to life
@ryankane4984
Жыл бұрын
And so happy and beautiful and hurtful and boring and exciting and scary and yeah, that’s life, that’s what makes it worth living, it’s so much more than just one thing
@ricco3
Жыл бұрын
For some of us it’s most of the time
It hurts to feel this way, so alone despite those you know. Unselfishly you're happy for those around you their accomplishments, their achievements. Yet despite all your efforts to do for yourself also, it always feels like you're still left behind. Stuck on the past when things were more simple when things were happy. You find yourself being the only one looking back. As you just inevitably feel like a bit player a chapter in their stories as they go on. And there you are alone hurt. With nothing more than memories of a time you can never return to. You're more alone than ever.
@jadeArieldavies
5 ай бұрын
Stay strong keep your chin up you will find peace 🙏
For the longest time, I thought I was the last one at the party, but it turns out I was the only one to survive😮
@wolfehologram3539
15 күн бұрын
The last of my childhood friends passed away just as COVID was beginning. The cancer had come back and he didn't have the strength or the desire to fight it again. We toasted ourselves and our many fallen friends for New Years, and then he had the audacity to ask me if I'd be okay after he was gone.
Lost gf and friends just before covid. Being alone, knowing my former best friends are together, makes this short hurt
@tylersoto7465
Ай бұрын
I feel you on feeling alone. Ever since covid happened people have been divided and alone. Being alone is not the worst fate , you get the peace, quiet and tranquility you need. If you don't like it then try seeing a professional to talk about it, try talking to people or friends etc .
First time I've ever seen this, and it hits hard. Figured I would have gotten other chances, and those chances never came.
Who says being alone is a bad thing? Stay true to yourself and nobody can betray you, nobody can cheat and lie on/to you. Less drama to deal with and less responsibilities. If you can handle being alone, you can do anything.
this is the best episode, sometimes i just randomly watch that episode to remember how sad life can be.
Ow, my chronically depressed ass did not need this
@plowman1266
Жыл бұрын
I hear ya
@nickoblack8229
Жыл бұрын
Not alone
@GreedBoi
Жыл бұрын
Y u sad bro ?
@plowman1266
Жыл бұрын
@@GreedBoi you a troll, bree?
@tysondavis9684
Жыл бұрын
Go to the gym
Being alone isn't so bad once you become used to who you are. When you make that connection with yourself it changes you sometimes for better or for worse. Some thrive others falter. And some find strength to keep going no matter how far or lonesome the journey. It's not all bad just hard.
When you see this for the first time, it really hits you and you just as sad as him. It is crazy good how good the scene makes you feel the emptiness.
I feel this......I'm 27 and I've never been so alone in my whole life
@Teenangst
4 ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing OK, and find happiness. Sometimes, it’s OK to feel alone, and even be alone, but don’t let that stop you from reaching out. You would be surprised by the amount of people feeling just like you, who just want someone to say “hello”. Maybe you can be that person to start saying “hello”…
@misskitty8092
4 ай бұрын
You are not alone.....we're ALL here. Even if we strangers can lean on each other from a distance - we're here with open ears and eyes to hear you out. So don't worry, I'm a great listener
Wow this scene is powerful. There are many people out there like this.
At one point or another we all have to deal with being alone. Some deal with it by settling with a partner who isn’t right for them, some fuck anyone and anything they see isn’t fit for them. All this does is just delay the inevitable loneliness and sadness that we will all encounter. Embrace loneliness and sadness and make them your ally. The sooner you embrace it the better you can deal with it. Being alone ain’t the be all and end all. You just have to accept it for a while and be comfortable with it. And then move on from it. This ain’t a dress rehearsal.
@32lara32
Жыл бұрын
A-1 post. apropos user name.
@sadia2395
Жыл бұрын
One comment I agree with 😅 .Others think ' you gotta hold on to somethin' ,' go travel' yes absolutely, but the starting point of it all is that fact that yes we are alone, people will keep comin in through one door and leave through the other, but we have ourselves.always.isnt that comforting 🤷🏻♀️ No abandonin, no drama.just us for us.Idk ,I find it comforting 😅
No one can stop you when you have an big anbition and you are a dreamer❤
When you depend on your buddies to go out and go to the movies or a show then these things happen. That's why going by myself has never bothered me... and since I have God in my heart, I'm never alone 😌
@tylersoto7465
Ай бұрын
Same here. Being alone is not the worst fate. It brings you peace, quietness and tranquility. It give me time to spend time with God even sitting in my yard at night everyday for years
The algorithm really knows how to make you laugh one minute than have you psychoanalyze yourself the next…
The” You’re all alone “ tone hits different
As long as you have real friends….. you are NEVER alone
Just like Ted, I too raised my head and looked around and realized that I am Alone. 7 years has gone by since I lost one of my Best friends and 7 years I wished time would stand still
@tylersoto7465
Ай бұрын
I'm sorry you had to deal with that Titan'. Your not alone in this ok we all experience loneliness in life. You can overcome this moment ok. You just need to reach out to others. But remember being alone is not the worst fate. It can bring you peace, quietness and tranquility in life. I pray God's grace and peace of mind is with you.
words cannot express how this is my biggest fear by approximately 100 billion miles
@Joseph.M.
Жыл бұрын
Dont let it be kid, you still have time.
@zeddicuszulzorander9582
Жыл бұрын
If you feel like this is a likely outcome, then change your behavior.
@OddsYT
Жыл бұрын
@@zeddicuszulzorander9582 I know this may come as a surprise but if it was that easy I would have done it already
@zeddicuszulzorander9582
Жыл бұрын
@@OddsYT Not doing something because it's "too much" or because it's "too late" isn't a healthy habit to have. You do not need to change everything or do it all at once. Take the time to think and consider what you want to be and what you want to have. Then, set an objective. It may feel like a negligible one. It may feel like the results of this one objective aren't helpful in any particular manner. But that's an improvement, and if you adopt this way of thinking, over the years, by accumulating those objectives, you will definitely change.
I got goosebumps Watched 2nd time and got goosebumps again 😞
I replayed a scene in my head all the time
This scene and what happens after it always brings tears in my eyes. It feles like this great group of friends left him to proceed with their life while Ted is running in circles for 8 years. But its not their fault and its not Teds. Everyone got on and and far but bot Ted actually. He got everything he ever wanted in his career but deep in heart he knew the real goal was to find the one girl. Iam sad how this show ended because he got everything he searched for in 9 years and she got snatches out if his arms in few episodes. Batneys 3-4 year character development was gone with one episode. And he ends up with the love of his life that didn't deserve him and caused him years of pain.
I felt bad for the character of Ted every single moment he was the one that always tried the hardest but is the one that got their last and then the wife died so soon for the character
"You can’t cling to the past, because no matter how tightly you hold on, it’s already gone."
This moment didnt have to hit this hard. The way everyone left the bar one by one until there was noone else left.
Ted is my most relatable character in all of media. The poor lad goes through so much. This was my favorite episode and not just because of the song they do at the end, but how eye opening lonliness can be
And that’s how it happens folks…life moves like a river and if you don’t hold onto anything you’ll be all alone too
Ohhh for the people in their early 30s watching this it hit home
This one hit me pretty hard a couple of years ago. I've been single for almost 10 years now, and back then, I thought I might find that one elusive woman. I saw this the same day I realized she doesn't exist. It hit me pretty hard.
@jadeArieldavies
5 ай бұрын
Don't worry friend everyone finds their way and when it's your time you will know life is just unpredictable so be kind 2 yourself because you don't know what tomorrow might bring 🙏
Take the kindness and honesty of that nice kid you were and just try the best you can with it. This place is done for.
ive been alone my entire life , im 33 now and at this point am okay with it
@Christian-rb8wk
6 ай бұрын
Not really. We're never really okay with it.
@arrow2380
4 ай бұрын
@@Christian-rb8wknot okay with it, but accepted that this is what life is going to be and got comfortable with that idea.
Dude made so many of his own problems by obsessing over this ideal of love meanwhile how many times does he betray peoples trust, lie, cheat or lash out, the dude didn't need "the right girl" to come along and fix everything, he needed to fix himself first and stop obsessing about a fantasy
Yea i felt that.... But when were alone, were training our minds for the next challenge in life, we just got a little headstart, stay blessed my indigo friends ❤️
This isn't about being alone or not having people there for you, because he does, it's just about moving on. Appreciate all that is and keep going.