“Don’t just be yourself, create yourself.” Very powerful and it really got me thinking. Thank you for this wonderful video. ♥️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to hear that :)

@LearnWithLilibeth

2 жыл бұрын

8:17

@kulwantvig9226

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq

@malehuseng8196

Жыл бұрын

Maex. St ging

@nawee6801

Жыл бұрын

Yup.. always thought that it's an overrated/overused advice.. " Just be yourself" what if you are a jerk.. do you keep being a jerk...? 🤔🤦🏽

“We are not just the main character in our life, we are the author” 👌🏻🥺💗

@emoses

Жыл бұрын

We are both!

@ussliberty4631

Жыл бұрын

Watch Europa the last battle it completely changed my entire life

@BeDangerousGroup

Жыл бұрын

We are also the antagonist, the secondary characters and the setting. Only you can decide how many pages are in the book. What you don't control are the volumes.

When I had just met my husband, my sister said to me, "do you really think someone like him is going to be in a serious relationship with you" I thought she was projecting but in reality it's because she didn't really know me, the side that he fell in love with, because I'm reserve with mostly everyone and few people know who I really am. That's how it's been all my life feeling like i don't belong but now I don't mind not belonging and standing on my own.

I love her voice. It's so soothing and can help when you're having a bad day and you just need some advice from a big sis.

@MalamaLife

11 ай бұрын

♥️♥️

"discomfort is a sign of your growth" That was deep and eye opening for me. Thx

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ glad it resonates with you

I've heard "You used to be more fun" and it stings. It's just a painful reminder that we can outgrow friendships, but that's ok. Thank you for sharing your story and wisdom ♥️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

So true! Even the closest friendships can grow apart

@fajaroncam9229

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife go to Bali Island.

@ricardomorares7327

2 жыл бұрын

Go to hell then and never get back ! May Jesus Christ burn the devil spirit which is inside of you.

@tanya4219

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife it can be good part of urs lives too.If that was a true friendship,it would never end.

@dayah03y2k

Жыл бұрын

Yup same what im going through right now, feel so sad, but change is inevitable

The courage you have to be so open and transparent about such a difficult topic is beyond inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story and how you learned from it 🙏🏽

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Khaliliah ❤ that means a lot

@Perfectpeace19

2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't of said that better Khalilah.

@m2pozad

2 жыл бұрын

@@Perfectpeace19 Probably not. She says the same thing on all the channels.

"You are the author of your story" . True words. I hope everyone feeling lonely here will build your life better.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

"to accept what was and finally move on."....that's powerful.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

I was widowed 5 years ago at the age of 54. I've spent 5 years clinging to the widow title and living safely in limbo. I needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story in such a thoughtful way.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Big hugs ❤

@SuzannesSimpleLiving

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Tammy… I was widowed nearly 10 years ago and also had the widow title, I learnt to move on because I didn’t want my life to be wasted the same as my partner dying young. Happy to say that I am now in an extremely amazing place. Good luck in whatever you choose to do 😊🇬🇧💕

@shabnammago183

2 жыл бұрын

Same story here but you have to move on as you have one life to be lived and if you have children you have to consider that you are a source of inspiration for them

@Gabi-wm7yk

2 жыл бұрын

My patient told me she just found love at the age of 64!!! Now she is 86 hopping to get well soon in order to reunite with her partner.

It's amazing how 8:59 minutes can have such an impact for the rest of our lifes. I can't imagine the amount of energy you put into each video, but please know that they are timeless masterpieces. ❤

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@christinam6430

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I have a few of Sophie’s videos saved in a favorites playlist because there are so many wonderful lessons that I like to revisit

I decided to change my life recently but never thought it would be that hard. It feels like even my body refuses to leave habits of old life and begin to do things that I really want. I spent about three years in depressed state, and still overcoming it, that's what's making things harder for me. But I know I will get over it. I know I can. But it's harder than it seemed. Your story really is inspiring, and I think I just figured out some things for myself. Thank you.

Sophie, this is so timely. I've been talking to my hubby a lot lately about "changing the narrative", ever since we moved to a new place. 5 years ago, I couldnt code, rollerblade, bake, or dance, and all that changed because I decided to rewrite my narrative. This is so encouraging as I continue to navigate change and growth in life!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy for you! the narrative we tell ourselves is so important! it can be life changing ❤️

@jayjuan919

Жыл бұрын

Did you learn to code on your own?

Maybe you were more fun, but fun for whom? Thank you for sharing this. You have added to the honesty that makes KZread so special, and proved your authenticity once again. I do hope you somehow know how much you are inspiring and supporting people all over the world with your content. Btw, I started my channel after watching your video about starting in 2021 and not only has it changed my life so much for the better, but I went over 1000 subscribers a couple of days ago.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your sweet comment Lauren 🥺❤ that means a lot. And so happy to hear about your YT journey! Congrats!!

@LaureninGermany

2 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife thank you, Sophie! I remember watching your video and feeling so inspired, and I really wanted to tell you. It’s made both me and my husband happier - it’s a beautiful addition to my life, gets me out and about so much more and I‘m meeting some wonderful people here on YT. ❤️🤗 Thank you for all you do!

@nicholajayne

2 жыл бұрын

You now have another subscriber Lauren :)

@coco-bz3kp

Жыл бұрын

You’re so sweet

@LaureninGermany

Жыл бұрын

@@nicholajayne thank you so much!!

Thank you for sharing this, related on so many levels, & I've been guilty of this mentality early on & still working on. Your channel is amazing!

Love this, thank you so much for sharing your story. You're an inspiration!

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your journey! 💕

Thank you so much Sophie!! This video just changed my perspective and I'm so grateful that you are sharing this with us!! Love you lot! ❤

Thank you for much for shading this, I was so motivated ❤️

I absolutely love this video I just found you and I’m in love with the content!! I love that you’re so open and honest and helping thousands of us! We all struggle with changing for the best and dealing with growth and how people precious viewed us! Thank you

You have such a beautiful voice! I felt completely at ease listening to you tell your story. Congrats on breaking the chains to your old story and embracing the new one ❤

I am glad to discover I am not the only one trying to "change my narrative" as you said! It is a pretty long and difficult journey, I often feel lonely because I thought nobody can really understand me, so thank you for sharing such an intimate story with us !

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ Yes! you're not alone

This is just absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing this with the world

I feel so inspired by your story. Thank you for your honesty and for being brave.❤

“To accept what was and finally move on” super powerful!!

Your lifestyle is literally what I'm working on creating. Thank you for creating such a beautiful video and for providing encouraging words 🙌

I just found this video and it bought me such comfort with an incredibly hard time I’m going through. Like a sign from above. TY. 🙏🏻

This is the path I'm currently on. I feel like your message has helped me in a moment of doubt. Thank you!

Love the way you narrate and it's important to be a narrater of your own story.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

😁❤ thanks!!

Thank you so much for having the courage to share your story Sophie, it is truly inspiring. Your channel is seriously such a gift and this video has come at the perfect time. It's such a beautiful reminder that we hold the pen, the brush, and the tools to create the thoughts that shape our life and that part of transformation is uncomfortable growth.

This was articulated so beautifully! So glad you were able to shift your perspective and your life! :)

Thank you for sharing your genuine and resilient self, may the goodness of life always surround you! What an amazing journey of growth you had, you’re brilliant!!

I felt called to look up this topic before bed :) glad you created it! ❤

The courage for narrating your own story and the powerful messages you shared definitely touched a nerve. Thank you for creating this channel. You are inspiring people beyond measures.

Thank you for sharing your stories with healing messages. I love your videos. “Change is scary but also free at the same time” - this is exactly I feel now. Once again, thank you

Thank you so much for sharing your life with us to encourage to live happily being the authors of our lives❤️

is it not wonderful that there is always a possibility for us to change, to grow, to turn our lives around? it's so inspiring to me that we are just one good choice away from starting the avalanche of other good choices that will benefit us. the journey doesn't have to be rushed or flawless, but it needs to be genuine and healing. lots of love from your new subscriber 🥰 your content really resonates with me. thank you so much!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I think the choice is always there :) Thank you for your comment and for supporting me❤️

I think it’s a testament to the transparency of this video that so many strangers feel compelled, yet safe, to share their stories in response. That’s powerful.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ thanks Erik!

Thank you , I needed this tonight and I need to start ! Love you , J...

You have no idea how much I needed to see this today, right now! Thank you so much for your wonderful video. ❤️

"Because everyone's battle is so unique and different." How right you are. I used to play down my mom's narcissm and the pain and trouble she sends the family through and sometimes, I still do. "Hey, some people don't have parents, you do." But it is painful, it is difficult. And accepting that it is a vulnerable part of your soul is the first and most important step. Sending you my support and love!

Thank you for this one - it is so timely and beautiful.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching 😊❤

Sophie, thanks for sharing your story. It is so motivational to not give up on yourself and to change our trajectory of life. Have a beautiful day.

Thanks very much for making this video; I’m currently going through a difficult time and feeling lost and this is quite comforting to listen to 🙏❤️

This was just what my soul needed to hear and feel. Thank you for creating and sharing you Sophie 💜

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ thank you

" I want nothing but the best for me" such strong words, we should always remember to do what's best for us cause at the end of the day we tend to be the most strict with ourselves. Thank you for sharing your story. All I see is a beautiful, strong and capable woman. ✨️💕

I really admire you for being so deep and gentle. Thank you so much for always inspiring us and that what makes you so beautiful!

Thank you for sharing this 🥰 I’ve had my moments in life and I agree these moments have only made me stronger 🙏🏻 productive mindset. Thank you ❤️ blessings

This teared me up. Thank you for this. I needed this ❤

@MalamaLife

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤️

Perfect content. Thanks Sophie! You being 31, so brave and found the true life so early in your journey. I am still struggling to break the walls of tradition, culture, acceptance and yet seeking the peace in mind, happiness and I’m almost 10 years late than you!

this was the best morning video I have ever watched. Thank you and stay blessed ❤️

What a beautiful video! Honestly I can't remember the last time I've seen a video that made me feel this way. Everything is beautiful from the story telling to your voice to the cinematic... That's really incredible! Congrats and thank you for this master piece

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us Sophie! Your strength and courage is so inspiring to so many of us out there ☺️❤️❤️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ aw thank you

You gave me a hope in my difficult times! You gave me a strong motivation!You should be very proud for yourself and your journey!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

♥️ thank you so much

this is beautiful. i needed to hear this. thank you for sharing ♥

Thankyou for telling us this story. It means a lot. Have a good day :) may you and your family always be healthy.

You are wise beyond your years and thank you, I needed to receive this today 💗

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

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Thank you SO much for allowing us to get to know you better on a deeper level. Please do more of these if you feel like it, I really liked this

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being here to hear my story 😁

Your videos serve as journal prompts for me. They're always so insightful and make me really think about what's important in life. Thank you!

This was beautiful, made me rethink about everything I do in my everyday life. thank u so much for sharing this with us. much love

This came in just in time! Thank u for this!😇❤️

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

❤🥰 thanks for watching

"change always comes with discomfort" 🙏 such deep truths, thank you for this✨

@MalamaLife

Жыл бұрын

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Wow ! Powerful ! Thanks for sharing . Lots of love and hugs .

Thank you so much for the beautiful word. I needed to hear that. I want to change but sometimes it get too hard to keep on concentrating on.

Wow this is very inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing this. I really look forward to your videos. ❤

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤🥰

I love your videos and I appreciate how much care and effort you put in your work. The pictures are aestheticly pleasing, and your words are considered and loving. I also love the slow pace of the pictures and your calming voice. All in all very harmonious ❤

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to hear that :) thank you!

I´m sorry to hear what you´ve been through and thank you for your courage for sharing your story with us . And I´m so happy for you because with all miserys you´ve been through you´re still a bright girl i hope you always will be happy and keep going with publishing your video's forever . When I watching your video's I feel comfortable I hope you feel the same while creating them and always you will be happy 😊🙂

your voice is so soothing 😇 And the journey of your thoughts in this video is wonderful 😊🤍

This is beyond inspiring, Sophie. Thanks for sharing your story. You are courageous and resilient.

@MalamaLife

Жыл бұрын

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Thank you for sharing your experience. I could not appreciate it more because I had a similar experience, that I was fostered since an infant and it was an indigenous community. Though I lived with mostly relatives and family friends and not complete strangers, my upbringing was quite turbulent that I had to frequently switch schools, and rotate families. Our physical conditions were very coarse, however, it was mainly the emotional needs of a child not being met. For a long time, I never questioned the way I grew up, always thought it is the way my life is, and internalized my pain and frustration, which led to many negative beliefs in me, such as "I don't deserve to be loved", "others have it better than me" or "no one would listen to me" and difficulty in expressing myself, etc. Your writing and videos are so beautiful, the way you articulated your story has also helped me to process mine. I can resonate so much with your words!

thank you so much for sharing your story. watching your videos is part of my self-care routine, it brings me such peace!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching

This was just so wonderful. It’s been hard to resonate with the new generation of KZreadrs out there but I love your channel and purpose. I’ve been going thru a hard time thus falling into bad habits and mentalities that don’t serve me (especially with buying goodies) and this is a grounding reminder. Thank you!

Dear Sophie, many thanks for sharing your story and inspiring us. I was crying when hearing your story and glad you made your life move on your own way. Wish you all the best, because you are well deserved it!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much ❤️ best wishes to you

You have such a beautiful way of choosing your words and speaking ! It goes straight into our hearts 🤍 Lots of prayers 🤍

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

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So lovely. Hearing your meaning full story my mind get revived.thank you so much

A beautiful message Sophie! I am going through some changes in my life and this resonated with me a lot. More power to u

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy it resonated with you ❤️

Thanks for sharing your story, yes growth is progress, you are a beautiful person And I am so happy to learn that you and your family are speaking and catching up on All things in your life.🌹

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Gloria ❤️

And by creating yourself you change the trajectory of your life, you rewrite your story ❤️ I needed those worlds today, thank you!

When I hear you, it felt like I was listening to my soul. Your voice liberates, your wisdom inspires ❤️ thank you for this priceless connection.

Thanks for sharing your story with us. I really appreciate your inspiring videos. This topic touched me, because I've changed my life too. Thanks for the encouragement, Sophie!💚☀️😇💙

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to hear that 🥰

This is literally a piece of art and I’m so thankful I made this incredibly beautiful and amazing message for us! Ily!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

🥺❤ thank you

"You are not the character of your life , you are author of your life so creat your life." Sweet line ..💙💜

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story that reminds me so much of the power of resilience. You have encouraged many by sharing this!

This is a synchronistic message. I’d been feeling as though I’d been thru ‘too much’ trauma to come back from it ever. Just last night, I realized what I now wanted was to gather myself away from this idea and leave it behind. I deserve not to have to keep carrying the story of how much I’ve been through.

I love your simplicity and calming videos such a pleasure to watch each and every time, thank you for sharing your story.

Your Vibe is contagious that i myself feeling so contempt and free now 💖💖thanks for sharing

This video really hit home. I can relate to feeling abandoned as a child and the spiral an adolescent goes into as a result. I changed the narrative and have so much peace and gratitude. I wish my mother well, wherever she is.

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

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It's so beautiful !! Thank you for this video, it feels so good to listen and see your story. I feel refreshed and not alone 🙂

What a beautiful, powerful and emotional story. Thank you for sharing your healing journey. It really hit home as I am in the depths of deep transformation myself. Thank you for the inspiration and wisdom. I could watch this over and over.

I teared up at the end of the video 🥺🥺 , thank you for sharing this with us, it came at the exact time when I was thinking that we always believe the story we tell ourselves, so we must be careful with the story we choose to embrace, changing the narrative of our story might look like a meaningless step, but it's the first step into changing our lives, it depends on everyone but the foundation of our narrative should come from a place of gratitude not a place of entitlement, a narrative where we feel as the hero and the survivor of our circumstances not a victim, that's what changing the narrative means to me, and as I am writing this comment I am reminding myself of it because it's easy to fall back into the past narrative if we don't constantly remind ourselves with the new one. Have a good week Sophie I am looking forward to seeing your next video 🎁

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's so important to remind ourselves :) I love how you phrased it. I'm so happy that you enjoyed the video. Thank you ❤️

this has to be one of my favorite videos by you, I love the authenticity malma

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

aw thank you ❤️

I don't have many words for it But thank you. This was beautiful. You're a kind soul.

The Change was Scary but also Freeing at the Same time!- It felt like..these words were said SPECIALLY for me to hear them!

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

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Thank you this was so inspiring and profound for me.

@MalamaLife

Жыл бұрын

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Thank you. I needed this so much!

Absolutely! Thank you for this heartfelt upload. I too have curated a NEW LIFE for myself as some years back I didn't like the road I was travelling on. I learned that I held the pen that writes the chapters of my life.

This was truly powerful. Deeply resonated with me in this moment and place in my journey...namaste...thank you dearly 🙌🙏

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching ❤️ glad it resonated with you

Sophie, this was so elegant in its honesty… I already greatly admired your channel and everything you have accomplished with it, yet now I find myself just completely in awe. Thank you for sharing your story… what an inspiration ✨

@MalamaLife

2 жыл бұрын

aw thank you so much Sara. I appreciate your comment so much

I didn't know that I needed this video right now. Our circumstances are different, but we all relate to each other here. I would've cried if not because of lack of tears recently. Thank you for sharing and the message

This video changed something in me. From now on, I'm going to work on changing the narrative to a one that suits me. Thankyou so much for sharing your story, and a bigger thankyou for the quote at the end!