bottom line is if your perceived as a "high status" male than act as one

@MrNapalm313

6 жыл бұрын

InnerPower Thankyou my brother!

With great power, comes great responsibility

@Wavy_Godd96

7 жыл бұрын

Derrian Flemings bruh 😭😂🤷🏿‍♂️

@ericbonaparte9790

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@jedd1999

3 жыл бұрын

Exact Same thought I just had!

@puvendranpillay3096

2 жыл бұрын

And great game!

What women are looking for is CONGRUENCE. If they assess you to be a good-looking guy, then they assume you must be a ladies’ man, and therefore must be confident and have good game. Anything you say, do or emote that contradicts their mental model of how you should act - and it could be something VERY subtle that you don’t even realize you’re doing - will cause their “female intuition” (which is really their hypergamous filter) to put up red flags. Remember, men communicate *overtly* while women communicate *covertly* (and they ARE masters of covert communication), so it could be something as simple (and perhaps unnoticeable to you) as your facial expressions, body language, eye contact, or how much (or little) confidence you convey. This is one big reason why women who are initially very attracted to you will wind up saying they “don’t feel the chemistry,” or just ghost you, while you sit there wondering what happened. Good looks can be a blessing and a curse if your game isn’t on point.

Nothing quite like the confidence that comes from real life experience. I built my own house, fronted a band, taught myself how to do a ton of things. I don't lack confidence now because I've done something. Chicks pick up on that, and seek that in a mate. If you're young and unconfident, figure out what you want to do for right now (other than chicks), and pursue the holy fuck out of it. Educate yourself, get a job in the area, even if you have to do entry level stuff for a bit. Gain experience. You will get more confidence as your character and life experience deepens. Quality chicks will look for that. It will pay off after age 25.

@MrDunn490

6 жыл бұрын

Mateo Carlos My Ninja!

@gondwanaman9362

3 жыл бұрын

Great advice

@jternesto1981

Жыл бұрын

Necro response, but everything you said is accurate. Most importantly whatever you love or have a passion for monetize it, or work in that field. The money, confidence, and women will follow🍻.

Attractive guys game has to be DECISIVE, direct and to the point....the less you say and Emote, the better. Like Locario said she already has a High Opinion of you based off your image...Youre at High Risk of Over Selling and Ruining that image if you go in with average Joe game. Your flow should be more BIG DADDY KANE...Let HER fantasize with no interruption.... Like Rakim said "NO Mistakes Allowed.

@jamesmcmccray8255

5 жыл бұрын

sadelover100 that’s deep I’m a good looking guy and I always felt that I had to approach women like I was ugly or an average joe, but now I see I need to use my looks and get to the fucking point

@PaulTC777

2 жыл бұрын

With hot nordic girls I just put my two fingers up and I tell them come. Nordic girls are used to reserved guys. Im from Barcelona, Spain.

dude women aren,t complex they take simple things and situations and complicate them in order to justify the myth

@Hshjshshjsj72727

5 жыл бұрын

Y u here then? Anyway, that's true. But some ppl like me never learned anything like this and have hangup from parents that were weird about sex and mingling

brotha I listen to a lot of your videos and have never responded but this one was on point and made me see things crystal clear .......keep giving out the the great advice.

another tip for guys when u approach. speak louder it'll make u seem more confident

@Gahddahffi

7 жыл бұрын

The point is to BE not SEEM.

@benromeromontoya9493

5 жыл бұрын

SuperSimpSociety fake it till you make it faceass

This is such a rare message, and so damn true. Good looking guys do NOT have it easy

@brandonwombacher2559

11 ай бұрын

Good Looking Guys have a harder time with women.

@mr.soundguy968

8 ай бұрын

@@brandonwombacher2559 They have it easier attracting them but keeping them entertained is usually harder.

Thank you so much Locario! Pretty boy syndrome has been affecting me my whole life and now thanks to you I finally get it!

its crazy that you had to make this video but it was needed. I have lost many insecure pretty women because I didnt make it clear that i wanted to be with them

Thank you so much!! I wish you were my life coach.

this video explains it perfectly...good job and thank you i needed that

100% best break down i've ever heard. I've been struggling with this for 2 years. Because i am good looking i dont obvious choosing signals they are so subtle to be barely noticeable. I reached a point where i was like fuck it i'll cold approach but even then girls are scared and intimidated and reject me. So now I dont know what to do. Approach get rejected. Sit back they approach me but when i try to dance with them its half hearted and it fizzles out

@pchardwarefanboygamingzzz16

2 жыл бұрын

they dont find you attractive and you probably dont have game to compensate, you nothing more than a 6-7.

Basically Remember your social Standing and play to it.

Great video!👍🏾

this guy makes the game sound beautiful lol

@jariostereo1494

5 жыл бұрын

dfs gr Because it is.

tnx bro... as a good looking dude i find this very helpfull

Now this is some real next next level thinking. I've never heard this explained like this before.

Yo my G nice video man.

Mr locario you are the best, you say the truth as it is.

good shit. learn from him because he's a genius.

so true i never knew why this chicks didn't let me hit know I know why my game was fuckin weak

I've had to nurse a relative for 10 years and lost my game. im athletic fit and very attractive , and now I'll practice my confidence every day by talking to random hotties this message has helped heaps

This deep. I think this is what has happened to me.

@googlewantstoknowyourlocat1115

5 жыл бұрын

You're not very good looking tho. Not built.

Makes sense, why I’m a really good looking guy but girls turn me down, cause I have no game! Then I see ugly dudes with bad chicks and I’m like wtf but what you said makes sense!

Women have told me I intimidated them at first. I asked why did you approach me they said You are so sexy I couldn't pass up the chance. Your swag and confidence I love your edge and style Your deep voice is such a turn on. Your so smart I love talking to you

@voltrondoji7439

Жыл бұрын

A you don't have any problems like the other pretty boys you got game but I'm assuming these women look average if they approach you

@genovasquez8361

Жыл бұрын

@@voltrondoji7439 the average and below average I have to approach unless there a BBW... A woman with tig ole bitties and a touch of ugly is the one difficult to pull. They act conceited. In my city pretty girls are aggressive, if they feeling your personality or feeling your look they will approach you. The 8s and above approached me all through junior high and college and even my 30s. My ex wife was a 18 year old slim goodie who is an 8 in the face she initiated contact and got my contact info and even requested our first encounter in person. Which led to sex. The first time I was in the friendzone was when I was 16 and ole girl was 3 in the face her name is Trina. I have had other girls dark skin, short and with tig ole bitties like Trina but all of them had a certain look facially. My preference is a skinny girl with breast too big for her body. But the women like that who are under a 5 in the face either reject me or give me a hard time. They are typically mean or hard to get along with and if I do get with them now that I'm older they are inconsistent. I digress I'm not a pretty boy..I have edge and little thug to me

Lol what sucks is when you're a good looking nerd smh

@hotfella4659

6 жыл бұрын

C4Zero What sucks even more is when ur goodlookin guy and been alone for 3 years and ruined part of ur height growth when u were 14 and half and tried psychdelic drugs 6months ago what fuckd ur head up and ruined ur libido, yea it sucks for me badder

@realtruth1448

6 жыл бұрын

hot fella damn smh wtf?

@hotfella4659

6 жыл бұрын

KND Clan yea

@Sigmanovar

6 жыл бұрын

hot fella how did u ruin your height growth?

@raw5889

5 жыл бұрын

Deadass yo

Good game right here

Needed to hear this man thanks.. it really is stupid

Am a white guy in London (UK), I keep in shape at gym and have a great physique. Bizarrely, a lot of black girls show interest in me. Typically they tell me they never normally go for white guys.

This all makes sense and it pisses me off lol Good info though, Locario.

so what do you mean it's your behavior that dictates whether or not she she'll be attracted to you

hey Mr locario I got a question for you about the online dating I used the copy and paste method you say to do I got more response but when I give the woman my number and tell them to call or text me they never I dont know what else to do

bruh this is my life real talk

good stuff brother break it down. I love it when you do that hahahaha

All #facts... been there first hand

Im like, just don't let them act funny with you.

Were u on " I love New York

"It's fucking stupid" lmao

Mr. Can you please explain or talk about the reason why black girls in Europe reject black men?

@cliffbangaway6652

2 жыл бұрын

Not only black men it a cultural thing. Sone cultures are threatening here in the eu

I see the high value thing and it's a shame cuz I'm a joker

I've approached women multiple times and they will jump as if I startled them. Following that they blush and always tell me that for whatever reason I scared them. They never explain what exactly startled them. But they always are open and friendly afterwards and always give me their # after that initial conversation. It's weird. I always take into account being a gentleman... Not the thirsty type at all. Just wondering what that reaction might mean

Being physically attractive Is both objective and subjective. I get ur point on the other hand it is also true that the more physically attractive you are the more mistakes you can make until you are out of the door. No?

@mr.soundguy968

9 ай бұрын

True, but the more insecure a woman is, the more you need to reassure her that you genuinely like her, so if you get insecure before you truly tell her how you feel about her then she's gonna think that you're insecure or not sure about _her_

@mjordan5382

9 ай бұрын

@@mr.soundguy968 right right

Relax and Let them Project on you. Basically?

The younger me thought…Well I was above the rules. Probably still am to some extent that’s to vague to tell. But Right now. I can’t call it. It was hard on a young so call player, that had no one in his life secure or wise enough to give him the rules to the game. when 19 Keys pointed out that there are tribes of haters out there. I was like hail yeah I confirm that 100 percent. I just never heard anyone else with conscious Authority or experience put it in such away that would clic with me. I was really appalled😱 by it. But now I just see it for what it is. Those Red Pill guys. Made since In some ways. But they were to narcissistic for me to really grasp too. It really does seem like KZread holds back information until they feel your ready for it. It has something to do with that age and whole algorythym stuff. It seems to me that they would give me access to everything I needed to know about 10 years to late. But oh well. It’s like they say. Better late then never. Then tic Tock and Instagram came out. With more relatable videos. Yeah: I could charge it to social media. For somewhat leading people astray. or I could just charge it to that old saying. When the Student is ready the master would appear. When it came to women I forfeited my power and independence for survival and comfort. Women act like they don’t use comfort,genderfication, sympathy for minipulating. But they do it all the time. They use to tell me to calm down with all the constant reminders. And just let a bitch live out in her head whatever she wanted to believe. I eventually would not repeat to them what I’ve already told them many times before. I was tired of hurting there feelings and had figured by now they knew my position. Some tried to cut me down to there level. While trying to get me to depend on them. Then they had the nerve to wonder what happened to all that stuff I use to do to stAy so strong. Well: it went out the window with that part of their game that they don’t take accountability for. It was to bad that in my case I allowed myself to be drafted into a jealous hearted family. Who felt comfortable putting my life on hold for theirs. It’s true. Once I get in comfortable situations it’s hard as fuck for me to get out of. The strongest and most clear minded that I have ever been was when I stayed alone. It was when I found out that I was facing 10 years child support. For a baby that turnt out not to be mine. And been down to only one job. While just getting ready to start school for psychology that my depression started kicking in. Then I let my family move into the sanctuary that I had created for my own sovereignty. It all lead to my downfall. I was to fresh and new to my own independence. To bring back into my home the same type shit that I was finally getting away from. I agree not just because some dating coach said so. But because of personal experience. Be aware of women who throw their children to quick into y’all relationship. Vetting who you date first is principle for self protection. And never play house with just a friend you have no interest of been with for the rest of your lives. Women are different. I can’t tell them that I’m not trying to settle down with them but yet keep spending all that time with them. If I do give them hope that they have a chance. They end up taking that chance way to fast and to far. The blame falls back on me. By the time they fess up. Or come to the realization of what they did to get there own feelings hurt. It’s to late. That realization never came until after in some form or fashion they made me feel the pain they felt. It wouldn’t be till much later. Would they figure out what they was feeling was overly felt. Some of them gave me hell because they thought they was in love with me. But I knew that it was more so infatuation then love. To say the least, It was clear for me to see that we wasn’t on the same frequency. They was all about me trying to change for them. Yet proved themselves unwilling or incapable of changing for me. The best that the OGs could tell me was that women where emotional creatures. But judging by the results in there lives. that may have been something they knew but not something they ever got a handle on. I mean let’s face it. Our women are strong willed then a muthufucka. There Probably the most strong willed, driven, Tramatized, and most emotional race of women on the planet. It’s been scientifically proven that trauma runs through black peoples DNA even more so then other races. It’s a shame that the people who are glorified in our media or the one’s who learn how to exploit tramatization to there advantage. But can you really blame them for playing the best hand that they were dealt? It’s like that old saying goes. Hurt people’ Hurt People.

This niggas god

Think this is something I really didn't understand... Like every chick asking if I really like them n shit... Calling me dangerous... Never understood why when I be showing it

trueeeee so true damn

fuck mate， this is so so true. girls get intimated to me all the time. sigh

@TreyGoose

7 жыл бұрын

xuxu4life it sucks haha I'm attractive to everybody lol I get stared at everywhere I go. dudes girlfriends be staring haha

@TreyGoose

7 жыл бұрын

xuxu4life I notice if I'm talking if I'm at the gym or in a store and I happen to ask a random person or worker a question and they're next to girl the girl will pay attention to what I say and give me her full attention like a puppy haha it's crazy

@SolorockinOne

6 жыл бұрын

xuxu4life I know right. I go through the same shit.

@cliffbangaway6652

2 жыл бұрын

@@TreyGoose damn i go through the same. I'm a young, attractive man who gets stared at all the time in public, but I do nothing and beat myself up for it. And I'm wondering why. But the only response I get is that I'm scared. I'm not sure why or of what, but I can talk to a girl I don't like, but when she likes me, I freeze and turn into a bot. I transform into Frozen. I'm not sure why. I'm not sure how to approach a girl I like, and I'm afraid of a girl who likes me. Do you have any suggestions?

@voltrondoji7439

Жыл бұрын

@@cliffbangaway6652 hey I read your story maybe I can give you some suggestions, seems like you have attraction anxiety freezing is a sign of nervousness

I have always been told by women that I was a handsome man, but I never had game but still get the pu**y. Why this is so because over time if they are feeling you sooner or later they will give in and approach you on their own time. When they get to know me they realize they are more attractive to me because of my intelligence. All through my life I will have guys puzzled that I never chased women but end up if I chose to, get what they could not get. Guys would say that I could not ever get a woman with that type of mind-set and no game, but what guys don't know it's guys like me that get the girls they mess with behind their backs, although I'm not that type but the potential of this happening is always there.

I’ve been told that I look like a famous singer from my country. Some pretty boy shi, I honestly don’t like it. Because I feel that they expect this typical bad boy and I ain’t no boy.

Swear the god .... story of my life...

@Mike-zy8in

5 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/hneHt62CmM3LptI.html

yes chicks seem to assume im "that guy" but I didnt know just thought they saw an avg dude but no there expecting a diffent lvl out of me yeah I seem out of their league from there point of view its crazy

@ultrararesabra6159

6 жыл бұрын

bro, not to burst your bubble but...you look like a fucking foot.

Im a fairly good looking dude and older women like me. More than the ones my age. I always think about that

@alexs983

Жыл бұрын

No bro they do like you just shy clear sign you very good looking is the older women saying it serious.

Bruuuuh they stay saying i look like i got tooooo many hoes 😭😭😭😭😭

@cliffordj7970

5 жыл бұрын

Pierre Matthews-Martin same bruh 😂

Looks are subjective, guys shouldn't worry about looks too much, that's for women

good s*** bro

This video is interesting but shouldn't we not care what women think regardless?

@jcfit5972

6 жыл бұрын

These are not the droids your looking for

@ausayahrahemuel3376

6 жыл бұрын

Devon Murray I think so. To busy been thirsty for approval. Fuck that say what you wanna say.

💯

Most black women find me very attractive, but white women, Asian and Latinas are not into me. I wonder why this is?

@anthonydunkley7844

2 жыл бұрын

Because you're not conventionally attractive

@MrSivram28

2 жыл бұрын

@@anthonydunkley7844 That's it I guess. I wish it was the opposite. Beautiful black women will not leave me alone

it. seemed I did better when I was dustier I improved my look a lot they hit me with the you must have all these "girls" they seem intimidated now

@shan5445

6 жыл бұрын

looool have you looked in the mirror?

I feel like a foot lol forgot I wrote that I'm a 37 year old dude good comment

💯💯💯💯

i had charged a chick to the game yesterday on r 1st date 4 refusing 2 kiss after 2 tries.. She gone!

@PLINISHMEDIA

6 жыл бұрын

Never show non sexual attention...when your in a non sexual environment

@malikr2271

6 жыл бұрын

Kirk Reeves did u say that right?

@onlyinamerica5883

5 жыл бұрын

@@malikr2271 he didn't

SIR...PLS...SAY POINT WISE POINT IN UR VIDEOS...PLSS....N ADD SUBTITLE...

I kissed this girl that told me I was cute then I think she got intimdated

Seconded.

Women aren't visual like men we can see a hot girl an want to have sex because we a hardwired that way women arent like that they lean on there emotions an how you make them feel more than anything. Keep this in mind guys if you can make a girl laugh or feel comfortable she will like you easily

@damanij9747

2 жыл бұрын

Women are definitely visual.

If you are that "good looking" you don't even have to approach no chick...they approach you. TRUST ME!!!!!

@ruirui7794

6 жыл бұрын

PharaohLawLess1 Not entirely true....

@stevemendoza7188

6 жыл бұрын

Bullshit!

@Paaka

6 жыл бұрын

You ain't lying if they approach you first and just say something to you then you know you can flirt

@princesalahadeen5798

6 жыл бұрын

Na I’m light skinned 6’4 225 I intemidate most people

@shan5445

6 жыл бұрын

loool you in a dreamland. They won't come to you cos they will be thinking who does he think he is he has to come to me.

#MGTOW