How Confident People Deal With Social Rejection
In this one, I answer a viewer's question about how to deal with social rejection without getting depressed. It requires two very important mindset shifts.
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In 2003 I began professionally teaching clients how to competently socialize with strangers and achieve amazing results. Over the last two decades, I’ve conducted live programs every weekend in over 30 countries and 100 cities around the world, where I demonstrate these skills live on the spot, push clients beyond their conditioned boundaries, and provide descriptive and actionable feedback. As one of the top 5 most experienced coaches on the planet, I’ve helped over 10,000 clients achieve their goals. I strive for authenticity in my teachings and am highly passionate about creating deep, lasting, identity-level change for the students I work with.
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try game in a wheelchair, 2-6 girls at a time will just follow you home, 1 or 2 will actually push you there, while 2 more will sit on each of your legs grinding their crouches on your legs to get themselves off on the way to the pad. Found this out when I used to live a block and a half away from the club, them trenches are crazy when your a peacock on wheels
@NeanderthalNatty
2 ай бұрын
Savage 😂
Every rejection is one step closer. I just feel happy to meet a person even if she is not into me its just fun
I found that going a into cold calling sales job gave me a lot of the benefits of going out and approaching. It also helped me with the ability to just talk a lot of crap and express my self freely.
This video helped open my eyes. A few hours ago I was mentally struggling with the paths I have to take in my current situation, and I did not want to give up on my goals, I was feeling all of this turmoil. After watching it made it easier to look at my negative thinking and blocked it out. Thank you, ill checkout more videos as I work on myself.
That shirt. I love it
Best dating coach hands down.
Great shit brother, keep it going!
Confident people understand that they reject people, too. We all do it. We ignore their presence, we don't want to look at them, etc. Everyone does it.
I needed this. Thank you.
Man I miss my pandurr sweatshirt. Lost it on vacation. Wish ya still made em!
Thanks, Jeff! Thanks for everything you and RSD have done and continue to do for the pick-up community. Greetings from Eastern Europe. Here not a lot of people practice it actively and even tho Ive shown every single 1 of the guys I hang out with RSD and what you are about, only 1-2 have agreed to do it/show some interest. I guess its the same with women - I am for some and not for others. To feel like a beggar is something I do not wish to anyone. We gotta believe we are doing something worthwhile and just get better. On my original comment you replied that you're having fun when out and I realise it would help me if Im having more fun, rather than being so invested in the approach. But you're dead on when you said it's not for the weak of heart. That's so true for me, Im like in horror movie. We gotta man up. No excuses.
@CharismaMastery
3 ай бұрын
yes this ones for you lol
@kockoklosharcheto
3 ай бұрын
Love your content, Jeffy. If you ever travel to Eastern Europe you will crush it completely here (I can speak with certainty about Bulgaria because this is where I live). Nothing you havent seen, truly confident people are so few and far between. Only problem is that not everyone speaks English.
@pr5pr
2 ай бұрын
it's just a numbers game with a low ROI. and you gotta stop taking it so personally. develop yourself, understand what you can offer to the world, build value in yourself, and you will not need approval from a random woman on the street to determine if your existence is valuable.
I love this man ❤
Thank you.
Bro wtf straight bars all video I couldn’t handle it . Great video!!!
@CharismaMastery
3 ай бұрын
real talk only here
@andremorales4848
3 ай бұрын
can I join this gangster party?
@pahyzhahyz9634
3 ай бұрын
“straight” is the last term I’d use to describe this guy. He lives in SF for a reason.
@CharismaMastery
2 ай бұрын
@@pahyzhahyz9634dumbest comment of the day 🏆
Keeping it real here, I love it. You present a very helpful perspective on this topic.
@CharismaMastery
3 ай бұрын
as always lol
"Underlying psychological condition that you are unaware of" 😆
@CharismaMastery
2 ай бұрын
Awareness (without shame or guilt) is the first step to change
I liked the part where you redefine the metric of success to something that is under your control. Sounds similar to a progression plan in the gym where you can better and enjoy the small achievements. Do you have a simple plan for things to focus on (which increasing challenges) when you are a beginner in approaching random people?
Jeffy show 3 nice set btw
Can you do a video on your body transformation post 40? I was at your hotseat years ago and you were didn't look this good. Or at least a post on your workout and routine. 🙏
@CharismaMastery
2 ай бұрын
I take a lot of drugs
as for me when someone rejects me, I think it is just not my type of people, not chill type of people or whatever
I have that T-shirt and I forgot why I bought it.
@CharismaMastery
2 ай бұрын
Because it’s cool
@markothwriter
2 ай бұрын
@@CharismaMastery yes, that was it.
Mode of transportation…. lol If you know you know
@xWingzTV
4 күн бұрын
the infamous van lol
2:20, 12:30
How do you only have 500 views after 4 hours of it being uploaded Jeff?
@farcyde2948
3 ай бұрын
What we do is niche. Most people don't even believe it's real.
@aokayproductions5312
2 ай бұрын
Agreed. Some people I turn this on to look at me like I have issues lol. Which fair.. but thenirony is I listen to what's bothering them. Show them a video totally related( rsd or current Owen. Or Julius) and they'll blow it off from "click bait title" "it just doesn't resonate" I don't know if people are ready?
Example of blablabla after aproach? Keep going, you da shit!
There’s no such thing as rejection, it’s just “not now”.
AIDA - Have you made your decision for Christ?
I don't like everyone, YTF should everyone like me?
can we take this guy's advice seriously? i mean, he's always wearing this shirt? hopefully he has many copies of it, otherwise what does it say of him as a human? let alone a clean one. Jeezus. Just kidding, i had some free time to troll on the inter-net
@CharismaMastery
2 ай бұрын
🤦
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