When I go to a party I just end up eating cake in the corner and talking to strangers about my holiday plans.

@milascave2

3 ай бұрын

A lot of people do.

@theonlychild4719

2 ай бұрын

Much better

@christinemerritt974

2 ай бұрын

That’s my preference for a party. Food and drinks and wholesome small talk. Some laughter.

@khweziza5397

2 ай бұрын

Oh yay! You're so virtuous!

@christinemerritt974

2 ай бұрын

@@khweziza5397 yes. It feels good to not need to wear a rubber mask when I want to talk about my lifestyle.

‘It’s a space where people can really convince themselves that they are ok with things that they are not.’ Interesting observation.

@athens31415

2 ай бұрын

Self-Gaslighting.

@kubli365

2 ай бұрын

sounds like polyamorous youtube

@ManuMiAS

2 ай бұрын

uh sounds like church and real life

@PolishBehemoth

2 ай бұрын

Sounds like forcing yourself into wickedness for the sake of public approval even if you feel bad about it. Ive felt this with sexual partners in the past. Truly sickening and anti humane.

@athens31415

2 ай бұрын

@@PolishBehemoth I suspect the "public" in "public approval" are groups of sociopaths and their ilk that these people associate with to make themselves feel better. Some people are desperate to "keep up with the Joneses", even if the Joneses are crooks and psychos. It's terrible. It's like being in a Cult.

This sounds like a introverts worst nightmare.

@LeonExile05

2 ай бұрын

😂

@cuber5003

2 ай бұрын

As an introvert, besides it being completely degenerate, yes it is the worst nightmare, Unironically.

@amiarizzo

2 ай бұрын

@@cuber5003 🤣🤣

@doointhedoo

Ай бұрын

yeah I would probably be completely creeped out and leave within minutes of arriving. this crap is totally over the top hedonism

@fernandofaria2872

Ай бұрын

I would just be in a corner thinking about my next Elden Ring build or something 🤔

Honestly, just sounds like a lot of effort for hedonism

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

Yeah like the Japanese culture isn’t known for that. You hypocrite

@m.w.1759

3 ай бұрын

We can only hope

@dorobo81

3 ай бұрын

then it's not hedonism, all this sounds pretty awful.

@neoxyte

3 ай бұрын

I'm happy just having one partner to give all my love to. These people seem genuinely unhappy.

@SPINNINGMYWHEELS777

3 ай бұрын

it's not effort for the bored zionist elite that produce this garbage. he didn't mention the children involved.

Imagine the STDs being passed around , both sexually and spiritually. Be safe out there.

@Pllayer064

3 ай бұрын

They'd probably get sued and shut down if they don't require a paper from the clinic from their clients

@JohnGaltShadow

3 ай бұрын

@@Pllayer064 in my experience and knowledge, they don’t require that

@algore4u

3 ай бұрын

​@@Pllayer064 I've been to multiple sex parties before as an observer. They definitely don't check that ever

@MCorrigan

3 ай бұрын

​@@Pllayer064😂 I don't know where you're from, but in The UK swinger clubs don't ask for any proof of clear STD's. They sell condoms, and also recommend you bring your own, but that's it.

@AC-nw8cq

3 ай бұрын

Doxypep is out now. Reduces STDs transmission rates as much as 50% for syphilis and gono, and 88% for chlamydia.

this is a lifestyle that I'm happy to know very little about..

@jamess6719

3 ай бұрын

Well you sound boring

@fundifferent1

3 ай бұрын

yet you saw the title and clicked the video, watched and engaged with the comments. Proabably touched yourself a few times too. But it feels less dirty if you post a judgy comment.

@reybeltran1209

3 ай бұрын

​@@fundifferent1Your sexualized brain just can't imagine watching a KZread video without touching yourself lol

@jackalope_hunter

3 ай бұрын

@@jamess6719 butthurt old swinger detected

@jackalope_hunter

3 ай бұрын

@@fundifferent1 found the 60 year old snowflake

Every swinger I've known was about as attractive as the average employee at the DMV. They tend to have dull personalities and a real needy energy about them.

@WiLLy2xs

3 ай бұрын

No lies detected 😂 I know two ✌ couples that use to be in these clubs and they asked me and my partner at the time if we were interested and it was a big no. I definitely would've been the one losing out in the situation.

@NoahNobody

3 ай бұрын

Yep same here. Some ugly couple wanting to get my wife interested. @@WiLLy2xs

@cmh9932

3 ай бұрын

Agreed most if not all people that I've met in those lifestyles we're old unattractive with off-putting personalities. It probably has to do with where I live though. Florida is where America's old people go to live their best life before they die. The Villages being a perfect example not the only example however, it's everywhere.

@tomondiek2839

3 ай бұрын

most women in their 40s clinging onto youth

@ZekeBriarcliff

3 ай бұрын

@@cmh9932 Florida is America's syphilitic wang, after all... ;)

One of the best vacations I ever had was to Birmingham. No orgies or sex involved, but lots else to do, some lovely art, aquarium, pen museum.

@hswonderX

3 ай бұрын

Lmao

@gdimond2060

3 ай бұрын

Congrats lol

@Leckyinx

3 ай бұрын

Okay? Ahah

@Pllayer064

3 ай бұрын

My best vacation was not going to Birmingham.

@YIBUSA

3 ай бұрын

Birmingham, Alabama has all of the above and the orgies all conveniently offered at a typical family reunion! Roll Tide!

Talking about that woman who was uncomfortable knowing her partner was next to her with someone else is pretty sad. Power to people genuinely enjoying it, but it seems like many folks are just traumatizing themselves

@perseusrex614

3 ай бұрын

she felt sad..... as she was under someone else "playing". what a dumbarse...

@michaelmcfadden1622

3 ай бұрын

Can't be good for you mentally

@maximilianomadrigal6661

3 ай бұрын

I mean wasn't that person literally having sex with someone else at the exact same moment? That was a laughable example

@paparoach007

3 ай бұрын

@@maximilianomadrigal6661 the girl was having sex with someone else at the exact same moment but from what it sounds like she wasn't enjoying the experience but also watching her boyfriend railing another bird in front of her probably made her feel even worse. Like my uncle used to say (he was a heavy swinger back in his days) "swingers clubs are meant for single people, not for couple's therapy" lmao and it's so true. I hear it time and time again of couples fighting or breaking up because they wanted to experience other ways of exciting themselves sexually and it all goes tits up (pun intended ironically) on their first experience. I've personally been to a few when I was single and it was a lot of fun and it healed me from my break up with my ex because she cheated on my 3 times with people we knew for years the smelly cow.

@becky2235

3 ай бұрын

​@paparoach007 sorry she done that to you. Love youre user name though lol

This sounds like something from a nightmare.

@Erica-cf1xb

3 ай бұрын

The monkey life is a nightmare where they are the hero coming to save the day by jumping into the freak off. But she didn't mean to. Lol

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

@@Erica-cf1xb I mean, religious texts call this type of behavior wicked for a reason. In their own eyes these people think they're good and upright but in reality their ways are twisted.

@g.h.7661

3 ай бұрын

@@Erica-cf1xbis this english

@jamminjoe44

3 ай бұрын

Someone elses nightmare, is another persons paradise.

@mike287slashm7

3 ай бұрын

@@stoiccrane4259 Not true. In esoteric traditions sex orgies are permitted. In any event, If you can control someones sex drive, you control their whole life.

I cant begin to imagine the STINK of those "get togethers". 🤢🤮

@sallthings3343

2 ай бұрын

Yes!🧟‍♂️🧟‍♀️

@MontezJackson-vo3cc

Ай бұрын

Gwaf I'm hollin😂😂😂😂😂😂

@EvySurvived

Ай бұрын

Whatever you do don't sit on the furniture

@godrules3596

27 күн бұрын

Ass juice, body odor and fish smell 🤮😂😂😂

@tenorly

25 күн бұрын

A late friend of mine, who worked for Hugh Hefner in New York in around 1966-70 (and attended a number of his orgies), said the same thing. And that the men with small wieners (usually the majority) would sometimes become hostile if they saw you were packing.

I’ve got zero desire to mix with the kind of people that are into this

@Bae23745

3 ай бұрын

No less risky than modern hook-up culture 😅

@livinagoodlife

3 ай бұрын

@@Bae23745 it’s not about risk. It’s the general sleaziness of it. At least with hookups there is generally some conversation leading into it than just making eye contact with someone and gesturing for their dick to enter you

@clericaltotalitarian

3 ай бұрын

@@Bae23745 That is also gross and should also be illegal.

@Bae23745

3 ай бұрын

@@clericaltotalitarian Yeah, adults shouldn't be able to have sex with other adults!!! Hahaha

@clericaltotalitarian

3 ай бұрын

@@Bae23745 Not that, i said hook-up culture.

So it's basically like playing a sick game of twister but after your done you are covered in body fluids with a stranger loose pubic hairs tangled with your owns.

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

And?

@arfriedman4577

3 ай бұрын

These people that do this don't mind it. They're having a good time.

@jsbmx2039

3 ай бұрын

So gross

@vivalapita8484

3 ай бұрын

...that's......that's the point

@heymansowhat

3 ай бұрын

​@@PresidentKamalaHarris. And well you will most likely have a std, even if condoms are used. Things like gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, HPV can all be transferred very easy even wearing condoms, also from oral/kissing/saliva. Not to mention there is no test or cure for HPV and can cause cancer.

i think the correct term is 'superspreader event'

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

Yup popularized by unmasked trump rallies

@ursulatroxler7428

3 ай бұрын

I agree

@handlemonium

3 ай бұрын

Happening to be a carrier of COVID would make it even more so xD :P

@SIGSEGV1337

3 ай бұрын

@@handlemonium imagine getting gonorrhea, herpes, covid and the flu in the same day

@c4un544n5

3 ай бұрын

​@@handlemoniumcovid is probably one of the least concern

People are free to do as they please but I guarantee these practices catch up with you and leave you broken

@NattyByNature-

3 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Erica-cf1xb

3 ай бұрын

Who gonna catch them if everyone is wearing a white mask? That's snitching and against the rules.

@guillaumem9953

2 ай бұрын

*will…

@krisgrym

2 ай бұрын

Broken?why?

@dlilinger

Ай бұрын

@@krisgrymbecause it shameful and not good for your mental and physical health.

2:55 Perhaps "itch" wasn't the best word to use in such a topic. LOL

@zaakzaakk3280

3 ай бұрын

Its actually very accurate

@paparoach007

3 ай бұрын

I thought that as well lmao. When she said "I got an itch" I thought I bet you f*cking have xD

@realSimoneCherie

3 ай бұрын

Ya that’s when the color grading changed for me

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

@@realSimoneCherie A slave to sexual impulse. Like a dog barking at a car.

@JudgeyJudgeyable

3 ай бұрын

Yup the story did not go in the direction I expected

The mask wasn't for disguise. She just came straight from the club... Edit: she

@j.a.pimentel7265

3 ай бұрын

you mean she

@galaxsee

3 ай бұрын

You can see it's a woman

@austinbaer5559

3 ай бұрын

@@galaxseeyou mean a gay man?

@galaxsee

3 ай бұрын

@@austinbaer5559 no, no, woman for sure. You can see the moves. And what she says also. No man would say things like this.

@ahsanaslam9718

3 ай бұрын

It’s a she

2:30 Imagine putting "Orgy Monitor" on a job app😂

@92bagder

3 ай бұрын

Sound hilarious I imagine a referee with a whistle tossing yellow or red flags

@The_Quaalude

3 ай бұрын

Where do I apply ⁉️

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

@@92bagderif you showed up to one of those parties I’m sure we would laugh you out the room

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

@@The_Quaaludeare you promoting harmful substances in your username?

@meterano7

3 ай бұрын

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. yes

I've always been curious about the dynamics of swinger parties. It's fascinating to see different perspectives and experiences.

@Bae23745

3 ай бұрын

You should check out the FetLife life style groups if you're interested

@Ameraca

3 ай бұрын

how you got 6 mil

@BillyJack85

3 ай бұрын

Yea sin is super interesting

@penewoldahh

3 ай бұрын

​@@chris64kbots cant make a question like this on a video like this without much human interaction

@penewoldahh

3 ай бұрын

Smart gadgets warehouse

I've no doubt in my mind some of the saddest people attend these 'parties'. Kindoff like that Black Mirror episode where people in a club try hard to feel anything through hedonism.

@Markussiemens658

2 ай бұрын

absolutly my thoughts bud

@Unmaleable

2 ай бұрын

Typically women in their 40s whose husband have erectile dysfunction. I'm with a married 47 year old chick now that admitted it to me. I have hard suspicions she's a swinger. Because of the locations she goes for vacation. She also likes going on cruises which are filled with swingers. Stay away from chicks that like going on cruises without you.

@bartafterdark900

2 ай бұрын

100% people with major self esteem issues, personality disorders, drug problems and depression.

@khanabychkova5265

2 ай бұрын

What episode is this?

@doingtime20

2 ай бұрын

@@khanabychkova5265 San Junipero if I'm not mistaken.

I searched KZread for a 3D printed Stanley Cup and this popped up in my feed!

@handlemonium

3 ай бұрын

That's what I would bring to the club.

@Jenjin1313

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Cloudnine2024

3 ай бұрын

Some videos are pushed into your feed because of paid promotion. VICE is paying to get this video to show up in everyone's feed from a certain age, geographic region, etc.

@theonlinecrunch7874

3 ай бұрын

it pooped up?

@handlemonium

3 ай бұрын

@@theonlinecrunch7874Well I bet there's definitely poop involved sometimes......unintentionally 😏

I, at 21, had the opportunity to take a free cruise with a couple buds. There was literally dozens of offers to swing. Every single person was at least double our age, some triple. The smiles on the husbands faces while they talked about it was some of the creepiest stuff ever. Some of the wives had the persona of lets get this over with to make him happy and get on with our lives. Looking back it was hilarious.

@theNash619

3 ай бұрын

So how was the swinging?

@wayfaringstranger8430

3 ай бұрын

Where do we sign up, don't be stingy.

@iLoveTheBamx

2 ай бұрын

​@@wayfaringstranger8430hedonism cruise. You're welcome.

@iLoveTheBamx

2 ай бұрын

​@@wayfaringstranger8430also look up any lifestyle resort or lifestyle cruise.

@adamsmith1813

2 ай бұрын

Lmao what cruise line?

Eyes wide shut

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

Fiction movie with fake settings. Conspiracy theory

@newsystem420

3 ай бұрын

Movie based on a true events💀

@komradestahlin8795

3 ай бұрын

Was just thinking about that

@PabloVelasco-hr3ko

3 ай бұрын

Epstiens case begs to differ, plus the following cover up on clientele@@PresidentKamalaHarris.

@jgotti2042

3 ай бұрын

Only difference is that Eyes wide shut was a pedo thing with reference to underage kids.

There are no boundaries effectively through communication in these areas. Too many conflicting parts, people, emotions, mind state..etc. just like these polygamous relationships. Always conflicts in those relationships. Jealously, spite, manipulation, greed, anger...all the worst emotions come out and that's how people get hurt for seeking pleasure with strangers.

I've had many opportunities to join a group orgy but have never had the desire to act on it. To me sex is a spiritual experience that should be respected and shared with your soulmate or twin flame. I think it would be spiritual exhausting sharing your partner with so many other people, and then taking on their energy afterwards. I think people who are non-monogamous end up forgetting how to have that true connection with their primary partner, cause sex is so tainted, and that's the only dynamic of a relationship they have is just based around sex.

@kenofken9458

3 ай бұрын

I've had many opportunities to join in a group orgy too. And I took every single one of them!🤣😁

@nellieshoals

3 ай бұрын

This would just apply to swingers, not all non-monogamous people.

@kenofken9458

3 ай бұрын

True, although there is considerable overlap these days. Plenty of us who have poly relationships also participate in swinging.

@chrispekel5709

2 ай бұрын

I'd love to do it but I'm too self conscious about my small man boobs, which I have despite not really being particularly overweight (I need to lose about 5kg apparently), so I'll never do it

@nothinbutms

2 ай бұрын

losing connection with self through the process too?

Just imagine the smell after awhile😳

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

Like a gym or any other place with large body of people. Try going to a GameStop or anime convention.

@Zach0451

3 ай бұрын

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. You've never had sex have you

@CornPopWazABadDude

3 ай бұрын

🤢🤮

@oohweeoohwee9222

3 ай бұрын

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. Lol

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

@@oohweeoohwee9222same with trump rallies

Theres literally a few ppl we can all think of who: 1. outright own super yachts 2. can book the fanciest of hotels np (and do weird things in those rooms...yuck) 3. Frequent Sex Parties $75K/year (minimum) 4. Also are mega rich + have publically "clean" images Vice does a great job shedding light on the more lascivious versions of life and the folks w/ money that frequent those sides.

@paparoach007

3 ай бұрын

Sexual experiences like swinging/swingers clubs have been happening for millennia, sex was a very popular commodity back in the days of the Roman Empire, Victorian Era etc.. because it allowed the poorer people in societies to earn a living. These days mainly in America sex has become far too expensive and more dangerous. In Amsterdam's Red Light District it used to be around $80-$120, now it's at $180-350 depending on where you go. Sex is a natural thing for us to do and appreciate but these days all of it has changed and not in a good way.

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

@@paparoach007 It's people who perverted it.

@missbraindamage

3 ай бұрын

​@stoiccrane4259 people "perverted" swinging?? Pretty sure it was already perverted 😂

@thinktwofold

2 ай бұрын

@@paparoach007 I'm afraid your way of looking at it is false. There are consequences to women that enjoy sex, and rewards for men that do the same.

@getfreemazes

2 ай бұрын

thank you for that ancient goat-enjoyer wisdom

yeah I love swinging. it's [describes trauma, abuse and discomfort for six minutes]

Thinking you live a fulfilling life but in actuality it's a hollow existence

"Eyes Wide Shut" was a documentary. Change my mind.

@kenofken9458

2 ай бұрын

That movie was silly AF to those of us in the actual swinging lifestyle.

Y’all need God

@noegonzalez6555

4 күн бұрын

There's nothing sinful going on here

@LilbertricarGomezcastrum

3 күн бұрын

There is ​@@noegonzalez6555

@rikkithomas9384

2 сағат бұрын

Amen 🎉Ashàe

I used to be with someone who was very much into that scene. They said they were polyamorous (and I am not, they said they were going to be exclusive to me), but they continued to go to kink clubs and pressure me to go with them all the time because it’s their lifestyle and I should partake into things they like. I was never comfortable with the idea of “sharing”, being touched by others, or watching others do things. I feel as though in those situations, it is not “Don’t knock it if you hadn’t tried it”. That doesn’t apply here. Long story short, they came back home one night and got de dressed for bed, and They were COVERED in bite marks, hickies, and they smelt like other people (that particular sweaty smell that’s mixed with other stuff). They told me they wouldn’t, and they did. I packed my bags a week after and moved away I found out the caught HSV and are still going to those clubs to this day. So I dodged a major bullet. Some clubs done check for STDs and people don’t care…

Craigslist: FREE 10x near new mattresses

@benlikeswave2278

3 ай бұрын

😂

@hsk2909

Ай бұрын

🥴

@kjackass4942

25 күн бұрын

ay😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It just makes me feel sick and sad and I want to cry. It is not about what is normal or not, it is about people changing value of love and intimacy to value of unlimited sex... hard to put my thoughts together, but it feels and sounds wrong.

@kenofken9458

2 ай бұрын

There's a very easy solution to your dilemma: Don't get involved with it if it's not your thing.

@drwho9319

Ай бұрын

@@kenofken9458there’s a better solution, making this illegal to avoid issues.

Finally!!!!!! After a longtime VICE is back again, with it's "INFORMER" series.

@partysmoke

3 ай бұрын

It’s a reupload

@aubreytraverse.

2 ай бұрын

damn @@partysmoke

The combination of the mask, the tone of the informer’s voice, their accent, and speaking cadence/rhythm that makes this audio totally incomprehensible to me. There’s nothing wrong with their voice; it’s the combination of factors that makes them sound like Charlie Brown’s teacher.

@stefanostokatlidis4861

3 ай бұрын

The voice is intentionally messed up in order not to like it. This is feminism for you.

@veritas4364

3 ай бұрын

@@stefanostokatlidis4861 WTF

@dinar7082

3 ай бұрын

​@@stefanostokatlidis4861 whaat?😂

@missbraindamage

3 ай бұрын

​@@stefanostokatlidis4861what 😂

@NotMaxr3fund

3 ай бұрын

​@@stefanostokatlidis4861 Bro???

the funniest thing I ever heard was in a documentary about either hugh hefner or larry flynt and the guy was reminiscing on the wildness of the 60s, he was clearly on the zesty side of things and the way you could see him fondly remember participating in what he called a "gravy train".....to this day I never want or need to know whatever that means. 😆Ppl nasty bruh. I mean have fun, but damn....call me modest. No other trees in my forest please. I couldn't even imagine.

@grinsRwins

3 ай бұрын

Lol

@caslikes

3 ай бұрын

well, urban dictionary says a gravy train is like a job or agreement that's very easy but also lucrative. there was only one sexual definition which was definitely wrong, since that sexual act has another name.

@milascave2

3 ай бұрын

Well, I know what a "train" means. It is when one woman gets fracked by a bunch of guys, one after another. I imagine that "gravely train" refers to that or something similar.

@MaiaWilson-mr8vy

2 ай бұрын

Ppl nasty af

@richskl6631

2 ай бұрын

The gravy train reference would basically mean whatever was happening was happening in abundance. But yes, nasty.

Some sickos in the world.

@mindfulstoic3095

2 ай бұрын

Clearly, but hey, "you should not judge" lol

@bitchesgonbebitchesluvthemhoes

26 күн бұрын

this is so tame compared to the other vids vice has made lmao

Why do ominous music! And vibe 🤣

@simon3314

3 ай бұрын

Show me a journalistic video without it !! 🤣. And this one with a sort of 'latest James Bond set & villain ' aesthetics... at least 50% of journalistic videos are actually 'nothing creatively dressed as drama'.

@Copper_Heart

3 ай бұрын

​@@simon3314the music fits the scene perfectly. Mysterious and yet cautiously inviting.

@remixisthis

3 ай бұрын

Need some stock ukelele music to lighten up the vibe

@chicofrijoles

3 ай бұрын

@@remixisthis 🤣

@bleakaf

2 ай бұрын

​@@remixisthis😂😂😂

Didn’t realize how upset this topic would make people in the comments. Considering how many awful things this series has covered, this is fairly benign.

"What's the password" "Oooooooorrrrrggggggggy."

@g.h.7661

3 ай бұрын

Dude, don’t embarrass yourself, they changed it to “orgy pile”

@blakfisk4077

2 ай бұрын

Great always sunny reference

@tylerw.5458

2 ай бұрын

“Oh I come here for the free snacks”

the image randomly turning into negative with part of what he said in big font became increasingly funny when it emphasized things like "WHOLE RESORTS" and "UNWANTED 24/7 SEX" lmao.

@chrispekel5709

2 ай бұрын

It's a she

Very sad and dark times for the world.

@nwmacguy

2 ай бұрын

You should read up on what the Romans and Greeks were into, this is nothing new.

@bigguyCI-hn9nz

2 ай бұрын

@@nwmacguy stop. Ain't no way you being serious

@chrispekel5709

2 ай бұрын

This sort of thing has always existed, and it's not common. What is actually sad and widespread is...well, just watch or read Vice. It's a problem and it's everywhere. Society is sick. Up means down now

@Warsie

Ай бұрын

​@@bigguyCI-hn9nzhe is. The Romans had giant orgies for saturnalia

Sex for sex is no fun. People think they can do away with their emotions but it only works for psychopaths.

@davidadams2395

3 ай бұрын

Many people have casual sex all the time. It can be great fun, and it can feel empty, but sex without emotional entanglement is not relegated to psychopaths. I had fun experimenting while young and have been in a loving, exclusive relationship for nearly two decades.

@galaxsee

3 ай бұрын

Ppl who like dark rooms would not agree 😅

@dereknueveuno

3 ай бұрын

pretty easy when you have your life set up far as good relationships with people in your life hobbies/passions. So added sex on the side without the big emotional labor of a full relationship with others on the same page is easy and fun. All the chicks i hooked with wanted the same, few times i thought of wanting more with a few but i knew we only mainly allied sexually so i didnt push for more.

@becky2235

3 ай бұрын

​​@@dereknueveunowhat ever helps you sleep at night! Emotional labour? So you want to be alone?

@realSimoneCherie

3 ай бұрын

The stretch of the century

It’s all out there - good and bad, all I can say is be careful. It’s a minefield out there.

Treating sex this way shares a lot of parallels with shooting up larger and larger methamphetamine doses because the dose you used to take is dull like water.

@aiojcxs0932czxlkm

2 ай бұрын

detox every now and then

Swinging is the right space to feel inadequate about yourself and uselessly chase after validation.

Omg urethral what??? Ouch omg my jaw dropped and I out loud said WHATTT

@simpindulgence6384

2 ай бұрын

A smooth and properly lubed insertion feels good. The instrument used is typically made of stainless steel or silicone.

@user-bk9fk2tq2z

2 ай бұрын

@@simpindulgence6384 You do you

@Hi-Phi

2 ай бұрын

"Living his best life". Apparently.

@tiIebreaker

2 ай бұрын

Every guy simultaneously felt a terrible pain in their crotch area after hearing that, for sure

@stacya1094

2 ай бұрын

@@tiIebreaker I felt the pain too and I'm not a guy, it sounded soo painful

Man I would be so paranoid of getting disease lol. These people are reckless and brave at the same time.

@Erica-cf1xb

3 ай бұрын

Can't get sick if you been sick. Some are super spreaders for a reason.

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

Without the brave part.

@bifstryker9738

2 ай бұрын

Yeah I would be in there with a full body condom on, way too germ phobic

@chrispekel5709

2 ай бұрын

I was pretty promiscous when I was younger, and often careless and I never caught anything. I wouldn't be worried about sex clubs at all as everyone must use condoms

@krisgrym

2 ай бұрын

​@@chrispekel5709sure mate sure 😂

I experienced swinging in three different countries.Swingers in my experience were jealous,insecure,prudish with more rules and regulations than a West Australian mine site or a local council.Among the most sexually unliberated people imaginable.The complete opposite of what I expected.

@lucidnonsense942

3 ай бұрын

Tell me you were the unsafe person that got asked to leave, without telling me you were the unsafe person that got asked to leave...

@bonghead6621

3 ай бұрын

@@lucidnonsense942 So your the prude who wont admit they are a prude.No the opposite.I was simply liberal minded unlike most swingers.Also hard to ask someone to leave events they were hosting so I just mostly sat out while the double vanilla with extra vanilla"Sexually Non Liberated" did their vanilla thing.Hard to be unsafe when your not even turned on.

@ithinkimhipster502

3 ай бұрын

​@@lucidnonsense942I do not condone and am immediately repulsed by people who engage in this lifestyle but your comment was too fucking funny. +1 like

@bonghead6621

2 ай бұрын

@@ithinkimhipster502 Why be repulsed at the voluntary actions of others? If you saw how prudish many swingers are you would pity them not be repulsed.

@bonghead6621

2 ай бұрын

@@lucidnonsense942 You sound like the prude in chief.I assume been UNSAFE,a very OH&S term is simply having a sex drive.Swingers are by and large people to stingy to hire escorts, that would be more honest.

Wow! Thank you to Vice for finding someone who would talk about the sex clubs. And a special thank you to the person who felt comfortable enough to share info about the sex clubs. The interview was so good and informative. ❤

Way to make a fundamentally enjoyable experience feel like an angsty, exhausting chore 🙄 The desperation is palpable.

@ajaxjaxxy3537

3 ай бұрын

that's what i'm saying! i know for a fact that there are shitty sex clubs and shitty people who attend them but there are still incredible places out there for consenting kinky people to open up and explore the pleasure in this world

@WanderlustSwingers

3 ай бұрын

Exactly @@ajaxjaxxy3537

@WanderlustSwingers

3 ай бұрын

Preach!

@manny251000

3 ай бұрын

Lmao cope

@YoYo-rz2qg

3 ай бұрын

Oh, the literature !

SUGGESTION: I would love to hear a voice actress/actor over these testimonies, it would make it easier to watch/hear. Just a suggestion.

@topofthemornintoya

15 күн бұрын

why?

To each their own i suppose, but all of this is fucking disgusting honestly. Not to mention the emotional damage and baggage that inevitably ensues for people engaging in this sort of sexual promiscuity and debauchery.

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

Yes, brother. A twisted degradation of life for cheap thrills and dopamine spikes. Imagine all of the good these people could actually direct their attention and resources to instead of living to disperse their own filth and fluid among strangers. Especially the hyper-affluent with the material wealth of nations. To whom much is given much is expected and they fall so erroneously short of the mark. Existing for ego instead of the All. We all have our struggles with vice and temptation but they relish in theirs!

@-Opiate-

3 ай бұрын

@@stoiccrane4259 well spoken. Yes, I have had many many many struggles myself. We all suffer from one sort of temptation or another. Drugs are one thing for sure, but physically mixing bodily fluids with strangers let alone multiple strangers at once is beyond the pale imo. All else is arguably a personal issue or struggle but the entire sex for sexs' sake is nasty af. At least with drugs the high lasts longer I suppose but all of these sexual deviants and "free lovers" are all such broken people, not that I don't understand and empathize to a degree but damn, an "orgy pile"?????!!!!!! WTF. If someone thinks that's OK and an acceptable risk etc than there isn't anything I could say that would help them pull their head out of their ass. The most intimate and physically personal thing you could do or share with someone and these nasty fuckers act like young rabbits.......ughhhhhh no thanks.

@silentserenitys7102

2 ай бұрын

It seems cultish and just disgusting

I took a course in abnormal psychology in college. The instructor stated that people who are normal have monogamous relationships between a man and a woman, it is the healthiest lifestyle psychologically. Swingers would tend to be people who are nymphomaniacs or people who do not care who they sleep with, a low moral compass. You can see in almost every culture that a marriage between a man and woman is best. Fetishes are considered abnormal, although so many people are messed up, so what is normal? I listen to what this man in the video is saying, and I wonder how he ended up in the places he went. I have looked at people that sleep around a lot, and they do not seem to be very happy people. It is like they are looking for love in all the wrong places. Then again there are so many guys that would have sex with just any woman, they seem to have no soul. When it is like that, it reminds me of the time my cousin and her husband, both psychiatrists, made me watch Looking for Mr. Goodbar, and told me be careful about looking for people for sex, you don't know what could happen. I was about 21 at the time, and most of the people my age were into multiple partners. I guess they were trying to scare me into having a good life.

I loved this interview. I found the voice very hard to understand though and had to read the subtitles for most of it (like 90%).

I missed these Keep them coming!

This is honest and i appreciate that.

I can appreciate that this is definitely undercover and you can’t tell the person‘s voice the sex obviously visual what they look like. As opposed to some of these channels that say oh, we’re not gonna give the name but they show the feet or the person or they give the name and they don’t show the person because they want to protect them.

@chrispekel5709

2 ай бұрын

It's a woman. They've tried way too hard to hide it and so given it away. Look at the proportions

I think that this person is talking about my place of employment.

I was looking for documentary about unit 731 and KZread recomended this

@sakurakitsune6947

3 ай бұрын

😂😂lol Same

Doing this once will make you depressed for life

@kenofken9458

3 ай бұрын

That's why I do it regularly🤣

@milascave2

3 ай бұрын

If you are really, really, really emotional fragile. And if you are, something else will make you depressed for life if it isn't that.

@dastanjan320

3 ай бұрын

​@@milascave2is better to be depressed because of the regret of not doing something în the past when you could (like doing a bungee jumping or seeing a movie with friends you were invite but redused) than being depressed that you did something unhumane as an orgy.

@drpoundsign

2 ай бұрын

"Quo Quobbicka Quo Quo Quo." "YES-Miss Othmar??" Charles SCHULTZ...What a Genius.

@Gulag00

2 ай бұрын

why depressed? cause normal sex will never be as fulfilling?

As someone who’s a decently attractive and has been approached for said “parties” I can honestly say that sounds like an absolute horrid time and nothing I wanna be apart of.. a bunch of effort just to defile yourself

My opinion on sex parties/orgies/swingers/etc. is this: As long as everyone is over 18, consenting, & are enjoying doing whatever tickles their fancy, then I'm happy knowing that they're having a good time. I'm not particularly interested in these activities & I've never personally been party to such events, but it's nobody's business what consenting adults do with/to each other. I feel the exact same way about religions, sexual preferences, skin color, & pretty much everything else. There are 2 things that I wish could somehow be regulated though... 1) People should have to be properly educated, informed, consenting & proven capable of having & raising children (aka "we need a lifeguard at the Gene Pool" theory lol) 2) Politicians being limited to a certain amount of time in office, a salary cap, and criminalizing the act of voting for themselves to get a raise, especially when they keep cutting funds on important things & shutting down government workers due to our ridiculously immense amount of debt. Just my opinion though!!! 🧐🧐🧐

@tennesseeoperator4925

2 ай бұрын

Yah that'd be great if stds didn't exists, in reality that's ridculous

@KeterMalkuth

2 ай бұрын

With regards to politicians, the issue is that most of those things aren't actually the source of political corruption. The main issue with politicians is the fact that every wealthy and powerful organization or entity who has a vested interest in an issue will bribe the representative one way or another in order to have them vote according to their desires. AKA, Lobbying. That's why, ironic and backwards as it may seem, there's actually evidence to suggest politicians being better paid actually *reduces* corruption and results in better political representation. Obviously, though, that's not ideal, as paying politicians an exorbitant amount of money in the hopes that companies aren't willing to bribe them even more doesn't really track. This is compounded by the fact that, important consideration, if you need to get your name out and have thousands of people vote for you to win a seat in office, how do you do that? Obviously, advertising. How do you get that advertising? You pay hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars to campaign. You're not going to get that solely via donations. If you want to have success, you have to accept "Generous donations" from these same wealthy entities who have a vested interest in certain decisions being made. End result, it's literally impossible to become a politician, specifically in the U.S., without already being corrupt by the time you win the seat. Now, I'm not saying I know the solution. I don't. But the single biggest thing that would "Fix" the political system instantly would be if the most powerful players in the economy were incapable of directly interacting with our political figures. How do you achieve that? No clue. Perhaps make a political campaign fund paid by taxpayer dollars, and ban all private or donated funding. Sequester all Federal politicians and their direct families in a dedicated section of Washington D.C. until their time in office is up, with no direct access to anyone except government employees? Perhaps, though maybe a bit extreme. Allow for politicians to make incredible amounts of money, based upon approval ratings and other positive metrics of their constituents, in order to encourage pursuing the needs of the people above all else? Just spitballing ideas. Maybe some that are particularly dystopian, but maybe that's what's necessary. Either way, the primary source of our political woes come down to who *really* pays the paycheck of our politicians, and it has nothing to do with their official salary.

@NIITR0NIICEA

Ай бұрын

Our opinions align

Sound engineer really did their thing here.

I’ve been to quite a lot of these parties in different countries and also worked as a domina. And I must say that ppl who like extreme stuff (that’s apparently men in most of cases, I don’t think I even know personally a woman tho really likes extreme) they are not living their best lives. They are not okay! They need love and approval and they are seeking for it in that places, that can give them a feeling of something good. Some emotional connection, that last only for few hours or even minutes but anyway. I don’t think they are able of building healthy relationships. At least I don’t know any. I don’t dont wanna generalise everyone but thats just what I’ve seen.

I’m so happy that I’ve NEVER been interested in this type of debauchery. Ur not just taking huge health risks but ur opening a portal to every spiritual infirmity that all these ppl have that u have no clue about.

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

Romans 1:24 "So God abandoned them to do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other’s bodies."

@azaiahjohnson6583

3 ай бұрын

Amen. In Jesus' mighty name‼️ Thanks for the verse, brother.

@chrispekel5709

2 ай бұрын

The health risks are very low if you use condoms. It's more about the mental health of women who might get talked into it by partners and not really want to. I don't think many men are affected badly, but I'm just guessing

Half way through the video and iam already half dead, this woman knows EVERYTHING wtf

thanks for the subtitles

Informer is back!

I really liked that this episode showed the production staff more. Just kind of made it seem like the interviewee wasn’t all alone. 🤷🏼‍♂️

This sounds like those Hollywood mansion parties that are often talked about.

Wait, so every part of being a swinger isn't great and perfect?😵

Damn, I never get invited to the freak offs 😭

I just wanna know where can I get one of those masks at?

@Erica-cf1xb

3 ай бұрын

At the institution of prostitution.

@gavinhudson5251

3 ай бұрын

Where do I sign up?😄@@Erica-cf1xb

I love the informant series wish there was like a I Survived formula full length episode alternating between three stories

When they said the urethra one bro that gotta hurt like hell

KitKat in Berlin is an example

@ljubovv5610

3 ай бұрын

Been there but wasn’t as extreme as it was presented here. No orgies whatsoever lol

@mysteryY2K

3 ай бұрын

so much 4MMC and meth parties in berlin

Thats how all of those odd political bills happen. Business deals. Actors. Singers. Etc.

When I first moved to los Angeles and realize how often and casual ppl here talk about these kinda parties I was horrified… it scared me and gave ne anxieties about what’s on everyone’s mind for a good 2 years…. The thing that worked for me is definitely stay away from ppl and crowds that talk about this casually, what you do on your free time is your choice… 😂 don’t throw it around at ppl when they didn’t express any interest.

Channel 4 have done a few documentaries now on swingers and parties

As someone who contracted Herpes from his first girlfriend, I would hate to know what one can pick up here. You'll definitely get your money's worth.

@fundifferent1

3 ай бұрын

Why do people frame getting stds as something that was done to them? You had unprotected sex just like she did at one point. it's not her fault.

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

A cocktail in a room. A club brewery of infection.

@clericaltotalitarian

3 ай бұрын

@@fundifferent1 It's literally her fault then...

@user-bk9fk2tq2z

2 ай бұрын

I got Herpes from the woman I lost my virginity to...that was 10 years ago.

@stoiccrane4259

2 ай бұрын

Sounds like a fun time. She still in your life by any chance?

so how do i find them in my area “asking for a friend”

@gmaheybaby1283

2 ай бұрын

Google

@alicefleugel

Ай бұрын

Have the right connections

@Bae23745

27 күн бұрын

Fetlife

I remember going to a spring break party back in 2018 btw i was 16 at the time and i was there till midnight it was basically on a beach and there was this girl who was around 17 or 18 dancing with some guy who was around maybe 20 or older so im not gonna lie this girl was dancing on me to and i remember asking the guy if this was his girl and he said nah i have a girlfriend bro he literally showed a wallpaper on his phone of him and his girl together looking like a perfect couple PERFECT MY ASS 🤧

No age restriction for this? Interesting what they age restrict on here

This may be his experience but as a regular attendee of swinger and BDSM parties his experience is unique, mostly very kind, very sweet people who just want to feel good , Brits may do it different but each to their own 😊

@lucidnonsense942

3 ай бұрын

BDSM clubs/parties tend to be more careful around consent and aftercare etc. Plus the community kicks unsafe people out quick smart. Het vanilla places are so much more lax and impersonal. Pretty much what the interviewee said tbh, there's some grim bs allowed that wouldn't fly in the kink scene.

@cweretelnyk

3 ай бұрын

I actually get the feeling the speaker is a woman. Either way, I suspect they were specifically asked about the negative aspects of what they've experienced.

@RafaelUlloa85

3 ай бұрын

same. after listening to the way this person speaks, and, if you look at some of the close-ups, you can also see this person has wide hips. it's very likely to be a woman@@cweretelnyk

@fukksnowy

3 ай бұрын

y’all all going to hell man😂

@algore4u

3 ай бұрын

I thought this was a woman

Consent is wonderful, and boundaries are important. Be safe. YOLO

@ThePlaguedRaven

3 ай бұрын

Pig.

@rigobacsi6300

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, and do not waste that only life you have, because after it, you will have to spend an eternity in either Heaven or Hell. Jesus Christ loves you, so seek Him, believe and trust in Him, and turn from your wicked ways, so you shall be saved. He died for your sins, so you can go to Heaven if you believe in Him and give up all wickedness for His sake.

@ThePlaguedRaven

3 ай бұрын

@@rigobacsi6300 Okay well that's just a load of garbage. Religion is the most obsolete, delusional waste of a life ever created. Get with the times weirdo.

Vegas' swinger clubs are exactly like that minus the racism. Seen some things at The Green Room, had a lot of fun (single forever) but, all in all, you can tell who are the tourists when you see them bring the escorts as described in the video

@Pllayer064

3 ай бұрын

Black tgirls wooo

@WanderlustSwingers

3 ай бұрын

Yeah but the Green Door isn't exactly the best location in LV for clubs

All experience need to be shared. So others can learn. While enjoying the experience, some people shared the experience with others so anyone can enjoy and learn by doing

Why do they pressent this as such an unexpected thing, like, yah, people like weird things, specially on that context...

I think the only people who truly enjoy it fully are psychopaths. The rest are those seeking escape or fulfillment through hedonistic pleasure only to find themselves caught up in addictions that are not conducive to contentment but rather stimulates endless craving, which is a hell in its own.

@Bae23745

3 ай бұрын

What the heck are you talking about? Why does it matter as long as everyone is a consenting adult. In this world, there are much more important things you should be concerned about

@geoffy8245

3 ай бұрын

@@Bae23745 There are much more important things you should be concerned about other than my comment.

@AC-nw8cq

3 ай бұрын

That's a gross overgeneralization. Please, there are tons of countless married, monogamous psychopaths out there.

@geoffy8245

3 ай бұрын

@@AC-nw8cq Didn’t say there weren’t psychopaths elsewhere. So what’s your argument?

@joao3547

3 ай бұрын

​@@geoffy8245having internet arguments isn't worth it

Finally vice cooked some good shits

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

Staged and your gullible

@Andrew-dd3yt

3 ай бұрын

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. Almost threw up looking at your picture and name

@eternalva

3 ай бұрын

​@@PresidentKamalaHarris.lol what's with that pfp and name

@FruitFlyKilla

3 ай бұрын

​@@eternalvaHe's a troll who's trying way too hard.

In this day and age with so many std's some of which are fatal I'd be hard press to attend one of these parties.

How do we know this isn't fabricated? Anyone can wear a mask and tell a crazy story.

@intothevoid10

2 ай бұрын

That’s what I’m definitely leaning towards here. The scene is actually really consent focused and healthy so this person just surrounded themselves with degenerates and then told vice about it. It’s not reality

So this is what Tom Scott has been up too since retirement... No kink shaming here, do whatcha do y'all!

@Other_gmail

2 ай бұрын

?

Nothing can convince me that people who are into this stuff were not victims/perpetrators of SA at some point

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

You were probably a victim of SA. That’s your experience not theirs

@RastamouseTV

3 ай бұрын

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. okidoke

@Praisethesunson

3 ай бұрын

People can also just be gross

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

@@Praisethesunson how is it gross?

@PresidentKamalaHarris.

3 ай бұрын

@@RastamouseTV you are projecting mister okie dokie

Member that show back in the day called something like diary of a London call girl? I learned about these exact parties from a specific episode. Anyways creepy imo

"living their best life" yea something tells me that's not true.

@stoiccrane4259

3 ай бұрын

Yup. People of twisted behavior struggle to tell truth from falsehood.

There is no way on earth this behaviour can be considered psychologically normal. It's just like some total malfunction in the human brain, the same way some people's brains reward them for killing someone. People say 'it's harmless, it's a safe environment' - but the bottom line is, a lot of people in those kinds of environments are most likely suffering from psychological problems (I know this from meeting people who participate in this kind of stuff) and it's sad that it's just enabled by one another. If you respect people and have empathy, you simply would not participate in this kind of stuff because you know the potential damage you care causing. It'll be full of narcissists and people with personality disorders.

Vice does it again. Time for an Emmy.