How A Man Should Dress Casual As An Adult
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As you get older, you look more mature. And your casual dress should also look more mature. How to dress casually as an adult can be a little confusing, right? Like, how do you take items that men of all ages wear -- t-shirts, jeans, sweatshirts -- and somehow make them age-appropriate? It's certainly possible and in this video I'm revealing seven strategies and simple wardrobe upgrades as well as sharing five different casual outfit ideas. Enjoy!
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0:00 - Introduction
0:58 - Sponsor Message
1:51 - Keep Things Simple
2:53 - Focus On Proper Fit
4:23 - Develop A Personal Uniform
5:55 - Upgrade Your Jeans
7:12 - Upgrade Your Footwear
7:44 - Upgrade Your Outerwear
8:21 - Have A Go-To Sport Coat
9:28 - Look 1: Weekend Ready
10:07 - Look 2: Rock 'N' Roll
10:47 - Look 3: Summer Casual
11:27 - Look 4: Jeans & Sport Coat
12:16 - Look 5: Summer Contrast
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Many comments asking about the chocolate suede trucker. It’s from our own collection and can be found here: hespokestyle.com/product/suede-trucker-jacket/
@VanWelij
Жыл бұрын
I love the jacket, but it's sadly way out of my price range. Are there any alternatives you recommend that are slightly more budget-friendly?
@texarican_77
Жыл бұрын
$2,500? Waaaaay out of my range
@JP100AND1
Жыл бұрын
Ahh I love that jacket, but just saw it's the price of something from Saint Laurent! Looks like I'll be sticking to my crappy clothes for now ha!
@sahilagarwal6601
Жыл бұрын
@@VanWelij yeah man the jacket was out of this world but the price, oh my god. 2295 usd. i live in India and u could get a branded one for like 5-7k inr which still be expensive for an average man but still be under 80 usd
@m.m4982
Жыл бұрын
Wowzers. At that price the jacket doesnt look so good. Was thinking maybe 150 bucks.
I'm not the target of this video; I'm 23. But I have been working in an office environment since I was 18, and dressing in a classic style has helped me be taken more seriously and helps me be confident meaning I've progressed faster. For young people watching this I'd encourage you to pursue a classic style with your own twists.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Great advice, Stuart. Thank you for sharing.
@philipklink5406
Жыл бұрын
Good for you Stuart. If you present yourself well in the business environment good things tend to come your way. You're going to have a very bright future! Cheers! Phil
@fancynancy2888
Жыл бұрын
Good for you! As the old adage goes, “clothes make the man”.
@australianpatriot
Жыл бұрын
23 is your opportunity to wear a nike tech fleece tracksuit and some air forces
@chadwaite5418
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting
I have one strong opinion when it comes to a sports coat and jeans together, and that is that the sports coat needs to have a very coarse texture. I think this video has great examples of both doing it incorrectly and nailing it. The outfit when explaining the concept seemed too jarring to me with the very wide thread of the light wash jeans. However, the outfit in the lookbook portion was *chef's kiss*. My personal favourite sport coat to wear with jeans has to be in a Donegal tweed.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Spoken like someone who may have followed this channel for a while! 👍🏻👍🏻
@tonyherdina9142
Жыл бұрын
How about in warm weather or with a tee shirt? I thought a tweed was weaved from wool and therefore more appropriate for cool weather.
@OsHue-xq7nh
Жыл бұрын
@@tonyherdina9142 linen is a warm weather alternative. However, not all linen sports coats will pair nicely with jeans. Take it on a case by case basis.
@ShyGuy1066
Жыл бұрын
Rockin the tweed sportcoat (or tweed 3/4 topcoat) with jeans and white tennis shoes since the late 70s!
@jakemeyer8188
Жыл бұрын
My jeans are usually holy and ripped style, so I always go for the opposite with my sport coat...smooth and crisp. Otherwise I think I'd look like a giant hairball haha
Please put out more videos to dress casual. Most of us don’t live in the corporate world and want better tips to look good with casual clothes. Please put out more like this 😉!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Noted. And thanks for the comment!
@Brandon_letsgo
Жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle Hey Man, what do you recommend for those living in a very hot places like Brazil? It's 32C down here today...
@sonicccc323
Жыл бұрын
@@Brandon_letsgo linen shirts, polos/short sleeve shirts, shorts, cardigans, lightweight & zipped/buttoned outers, and 30s or light tshirts.
Lots of misunderstanding in the comment section. The video was meant for people who wants to transition from a youthful look to a more "serious" look. He gave some good baselines and reference points. It's up to us to put our own little twist and character. Like any rule in fashion, nothing is absolute.
Just wanted to say that your videos have been very influential to me. Understanding how clothes should fit (I'm a smaller guy so that comes with it's own problems), the idea of having fewer, better clothes, and the idea of having a uniform really changed how I think about my style. Feel like I am finally hitting my stride, and people do notice! Thanks again!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome, Stephen. Appreciate you taking the time to comment and share that.
I started watching this channel long ago to get ideas for gifts for my husband. I'm still watching because much of this can be translated into great tips in general. Classic, simple, timeless. Basically less can give more❤️
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Dani! Appreciate the continued support.
Band shirts forever!!! I’ve collected too many to stop wearing them now 🤘🏼
@prettyllady
Жыл бұрын
donate them, because older men wearing band shirts is a terrible look! SMH 🤦🏽♀️ it looks like you're trying so hard to look cool & young again. LOL not even my teenage son wears them 😂
@aurin_komak
Жыл бұрын
@@prettyllady what's wrong with you lol
@majusmajode784
Жыл бұрын
@@prettyllady stereotype bullshit
@theman1526
Жыл бұрын
@S Meh, There's a balance you can get away with wearing band shirts.
@behindyou666
Жыл бұрын
Never stop wearing them, adulthood doesnt mean giving up your identity and personality!
I am 23 years old and lately i have found these kind of videos quite great, ive always dressed in comfy and relaxed clothes, but now i opened my eyes to these amazing posivilities and how as an adult i can actually take care of my outfit, i care now and im happy its never too late
I really feel your feelinga that you didn’t feel yourself after trying too hard to dress different. I have gone through the same feeling recently as I was trying to dress like influencers I followed and I lost my personal style and felt frustrated like what I’m doing because I myself didn’t like the adopted style and lost getting compliments also. Now I’m restoring my personal style gradually and feeling confident by wearing my own choices.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Awesome. Thanks so much for sharing that!
When I lived in a surf town in California, where everybody wore surf wear or hippie clothing, my uniform was super classic American prep, “dressed as an adult.” I often wore sport jackets and jeans as my casual look. I felt more confident a step or two more dressed up than everyone else in town. I moved to Boston recently and I sense myself going edgier and edgier, because I feel the more formal cues I get here are just so staid and sleepy. I see myself adapting more and more runway looks, both as I go more formal, and when I go casual. I think as a forty five year old, I find it entirely age appropriate to wear looser fits and more progressive Japanese inspired looks, leaving behind the more classic American looks I used to wear. Older men can be more fashionable and trendier without looking like a twenty year old hypebeast. The secret to not overdoing it though is paying attention to small details, wearing things pressed and unfrumpy, and as you say, showing power in simplicity. Just not necessarily classic.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
thanks so much for chiming in!
@trcs3079
Жыл бұрын
Hypebeasts never looked good, and that's a possible contribution of their physical body. My theory is that they wear hype clothing to conseal their insecurity of their physical form, thereby percept their clothing as acceptable to their social community. Case in point, if you exercise, have a healthy life style that reflect your body, majority of clothes will look good on you. That's my blabbering tho
@Tee55118
Жыл бұрын
Jeans and blazer never worked for me. But yeah, the key is clean, tailored, attire. Jeans call for a leather or cotton jacket; woven pants permit a blazer or sport coat.
This is great - I've watched a few videos of this kind, and this is the best I've seen so far - really nice balance of explanations and examples. And never too prescriptive.
I’m 50/50 on this video. This video has great suggestions, but I kinda mix my clothing , with casual and comfortable. As you get older who really cares what others think. Some days I like Jordan’s and jeans or joggers. While on other days I may wear chinos and some wingtip shoes, or some Chelsea boots. So as we age wear what’s more comfortable, as adults we should care less what others think.
@iFryTube
2 ай бұрын
I agree There are famous people in their 40s, 50s that dress with graphic tees all the time, even cuts in their jeans and people compliment them. It really should be about what fits your personality more than anything. Just dont be cringe and hold onto the past and if you're young, dont dress too old all the time because one day you wont be able to pull that off.
Hey Brian - this is a great video, maybe my favourite since your "25 essential items". Its useful for most of my day to day situations and shall take inspiration from this, I like the outfits which are really well thought out, and the filming seems to have stepped up to the next level. More content like this please!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Great to hear! Hoped everyone would like this one.
I agree 100% with these style tips and follow them myself already being at 21 years of age. Though with the graphic tees I think whatever age you are you can still wear them as long as it’s not some crazy, over the top print. I think more simple graphic tees wearing it on the weekend with a flannel, jeans, and boots could be a nice look in fall let’s say.
Great video! Really loved how you explained the concept behind choosing each
Loved the summer looks!! Thanks for putting this together. Have been wrestling with this very topic being mid-30s.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for the comment.
@dnegel9546
Жыл бұрын
Same here... Seems most videos like this its always oh put on a sports jacket or some type of jacket and layers.. Like bruhh its 110+ outside.. Wth..
Once I find a style that works for me. I buy 10X of that outfit and wear it for the next 5 years. It may sound boring, but it works
@toby9999
Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I do. I have about 10 t-shirts in grey, another 10 in black and so on. And when there's a jeans sale, I'll buy two pair.
@KunaiKrazy
6 ай бұрын
If you get basics that work for you then all you have to do is add variety to the basics. Easy wardrobe building.
@iwantcheesypuffs
4 ай бұрын
@@DM-ur8vc OK. That made me chuckle. I take my work cloths to the dry cleaners, and I wash my every day cloths in the washing machine.
Love how you pair the outfits with the appropriate time pieces. Speedy , Sector dial, Spitfire and VC elevates the look. Think watches accentuates the look to a whole new level. Great video!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@nate2188764
Жыл бұрын
Killer watch collection. Agreed. The VC is on another level, but those Longines sector dials punch way above their weight class.
I love your style of videos. You create interest and with your positive rhetoric you make me want to dress better and learn to appreciate details. Thank you.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
So great to hear that! Thank you for the continued support.
Great video. My biggest struggle is being myself but being age appropriate. You've given me some good tips. Thank you
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
Fantastic video sir. I’m a firm believer in keeping things simple, clean and stylish.
This is like an alpha male convention for clothes. Wear what you want, guys.
Respect your simple straight forward advice. Well tailored or fitted clothes in classic styles are easier to intermingle and add to the collection.
A sneaker that is most appropriate for a man is an 0xford sneaker where the eyelet tabs are attached under the vamp. This is much more age appropriate than a full eyelet derby sneaker. The original Sperry Top Sider company, now known as just Sperry, makes a classic oxford sneaker. Target has an affordable version at $15. A great outerwear option is a full zipper cardigan sweater, plain front in light grey or charcoal.
I'm slowly trying to build a capsule wardrobe and simplifying as you mentioned. The one thing I'm having a hard time wearing are my white leather sneakers. I have issues with my feet and a running shoe with athletic insoles just feels better for me.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
What brand are they?
My go to casual style (in winter at least) is brown chelsea boots, dark jeans (usually grey or dark blue) or chinos, a simple t-shirt and henley style jersey on top (I have several in different colours, such as black, burgundy, off-white, and blue), and for outerwear usually either a black bomber jacket or navy peacoat.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Awesome. Thanks for sharing, Liam.
Love it Brian! I do feel it's more difficult to dress casually and look age appropriate these days. I think one look people can also fall back on is the classic white/black t-shirt with jeans! Oh and that IWC ... 🥵 - Han
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You’ll see more of that watch in the next video.
First time viewer of your channel...great video! I love your "keep it simple" take on how to dress! I learned about you from RMRS, who gave you a strong recommend.
Huge inspiration for the way I want to start dressing. Haven’t changed my rocker style since high school and I’m almost 35.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Glad to help out! Thanks for chiming in.
@orlog3343
Жыл бұрын
Hey man you can still dress like that, just make it more mature if you want to 😉
@cheesesteakphilly
Жыл бұрын
Rocker style is still okay. Just lose the distressed jeans, wear a solid shirt colour and lose any chains and studded bracelets!
Very informative video. I'm 72 years old and trying to find my style. Thanks for sharing your tips.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome, Larry! Thanks so much for chiming in and best wishes.
@phildunne2632
Ай бұрын
Good advice...taken on board thanks .
I agree with all your recommendations!!! Great video, Brian. Those suede jackets are fantastic.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks.
Blue Owl and Selfedge are both good places to look for jeans. Both businesses have helpful staff and can recommend jeans to you based on measurements. They've got a lot of different high quality brands.
No dress code is at the mercy of someone’s age. It’s about preference, wear what makes you feel good, regardless.
I love the combinations!!! Wonderful video. 🔥
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks! Glad to hear it.
The blue sportcoat with Khakis is also appropriate for any impromptu court appearances, wedding guest, or any opportunity you’ll be on TV without having to spend the money on a whole suit. If you are an American or can legally CCW in your country sportcoats are great for shoulder, OWB, and IWB (but not appendix) holsters with a tucked-in shirt. Plaids, tartans, and patterns also help to naturally cover any printing from your weapon
Totally with you on the uniform idea 👍 I literally have dedicated sections in my closet with different formality with this idea in mind 🙂 I have my formal uniform, my smart casual uniform, my casual uniform and then my vacation/weekend uniform 😅 all in similar “classic” style and color scheme ✌️ some might think it is boring, but when you first find your style and double down on it, dressing just gets so much easier and you always know that you will feel good wearing what you do 😃👍
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, as always, for the comment Lasse!
Love the black and tan outfit. Looks mature, yet still a bit fun and edgy.
I definitely am not the target audience, as I am currently just 20, but it puts into perspective that I've realized I'm currently navigating the more "youthful" side of fashion without even trying, you know, graphic t-shirts, sweatpants, I'm not a big fan of shoes but the ones I have that finally chose for myself have that sportier look while keeping a slightly minimalist and modern, almost futuristic look, I love them, but the paradigm I'm seeing is this video made me realize I wont love them forever, I'm all up for evolution, iteration and change, but all things I like now, are things that wont be passable in 10 years, and interestingly enough I'm subconsciously getting prepared for it as I've been getting a lot into watches, and looking to make my first "nice" watch purchase, a humble Timex Fairfield 41mm, yet its a first step, so I'm slowly leaning towards the more elegant and understated side of things the time when it becomes a necessity rather than a style choice is coming, and I'll be ready for it
A great video to make is how to pack for those special event trips 4-6 days which require a suit but then being able to style those pieces with the rest of your casual pieces for when the special event is over.
Good timing by the algoryth, ive been working from home for the last year and my style has suffered due to complacency on my part , just added to my shopping list a pair of white leather snickers and a new pair of black pants. Tysm
Just watched like 15 videos on fashion and finally came to the right one.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Sweet! Glad you found the channel!
Great video, Brian. Totally agree about sport coats. Thanks again.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You bet! Thanks for watching and the comment.
I've been in the process of slowly transitioning to a more "classy" or grown up look to go with my age. I'm 28 now and for about the last year I've been trying to put my finger on exactly what you've neatly laid out in this short video. Whereas I've put together my conclusions by trying to observe other folks who I "like the look of", you've quickly summarized the key points in a way that is going to DRASTICALLY simplify my next shopping outing. I can't thank you enough for this video.
Got some good ideas out of it. Really been wanting to know how to dress up while not trying too hard either. Got urself a sub!
Nice, this is basically what I do, or at least I think so. I'm 40, I dress in a workwear style, not at all the style usually presented on this channel (I don't wear suits at all; five years working at a funeral home will put you off suits). However, I look several years younger that my age and do not always get taken seriously. Anyway, I like this video whereas some videos here do not apply to me and my style.
I'm 18 but I prefer this kind of style compared to the typical flashy and oversized T's other people my age usually wear. I think they look great, but this kind of fashion looks and fits better with my taste and personality.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Cheers, Nathan! You've come to the right place.
High School.. Those were the days. Nike Air Force 1, Graphic Shirt, Baggy Pants, outfits were so easy.
@retrocloud760
6 ай бұрын
Yes! The good days.
Great video! I recommend avoiding jeans made of cotton-elastan mix. I guarantee you the look of a straight / slim straight 100% cotton pair of jeans looks way better.
Today I learn that I'm a 26 year old that dressed like a 40 year old. Man I'm boring.
@KIMKiKim141
Ай бұрын
You're not alone man
I love how even being a mature and classic option looks still fresh and youthful without being being tryhard or inmature like a emo
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks.
@ADCFproductions
Жыл бұрын
What do you have against Emo? what did we ever do to you? :(
I've been dressing the same since high school. Plain black t-shirt (with optional flannel or plain black hoodie), slim black jeans, and simple black sneakers (Vans, Converse, etc).
Great advice though. I'm 20 years old now but looking back at my teen years I've been wearing some darker shades of clothes. A black-fit t-shirt and some Levi's straight-cut blue jeans are some of my safe choices. And as for shoes, black leather shoes are for me. And to this day I still wear them because they still fit me 😅
It’s great to see that there is still a guy with a such good taste that can drive us to the good direction…..
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
😎
I enjoyed this video and totally agree with you. Personally, as a man in his 60s, I try to choose my wardrobe that fits me ( luckily I wear same size as I did in my 30s), and I prefer good quality fabrics that have nice texture. I am not a fan of denim, so you rarely see me in jeans. I prefer European cut, which is more slender and it works for me better. In most cases, when I buy ready to wear, it fits me perfectly ( again, it’s mostly Italian brands). I prefer soft knitted jackets, as well as bomber jackets. My biggest weakness is sweaters, I just love them! I stopped counting at 70. I just don’t have anymore space! As far as sneakers, I prefer the ones in leather that are more shoe like, not as athletic looking.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for chiming in and congrats on wearing the same size 30 years later!
Great inspiration! Thank you for sharing. Love the VC by the way
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks! It’s a beautiful watch.
All the suggested outfits are great! Thanks, Brian!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
Hey, Bryan, I've been following since a while. I'm 61 and overweight and have discovered it is not a problem if I wear the right clothes. I see many men my age wearing joggers and oversize sweatshirts, with baseball caps and they seem older and floppier. My style is very conservative but I always try to follow the current trends. I clearly understand that fit, quality, style and a careful grooming are my to-go rules. Your channel helps me with new alternatives to remain current without loosing elegance and for most of my friends I remain as a role model for style. Thank You!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
So happy to hear that, Mario. Appreciate your comment and best wishes to you.
i dig your style my man, that said - people should wear what they like and feel comfortable in. who cares how old you are , be yourself and express yourself through your clothes if you want to!!
@user-tx4wj7qk4t
2 ай бұрын
No, you should dress like an adult and not whatever infantile bad taste you have. You're postmodern moral relativist nihilist viewpoint destroyed society
Quite a delicate thread to walk on but thank you for making this so simple and inspirational.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome. Thanks for the comment.
Love the summer time look! Very clean
As a new old 41 year old fresh out of his reckless youth chrysalis, I really appreciate these tips. Was constantly googling the past year, looking for “semi-casual tech office middle age fashion,” but your simple advice is something I’ll definitely remember from here on out. :) Also, video length is 13:37, and this advice is definitely 1337. :D
I'm less than a month away from turning 50, and even though I agree that there are some things adults should avoid wearing such as ripped jeans or character t-shirts to me its more of dressing for the occasion rather than for a specific age, I mean if you are going out to walk your dog why not wear jeans with your gym sneakers and your favorite cap regardless of your age. Sometimes its more about feeling comfy. Now as far as your video goes, I like the recommendations!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You're right -- dress for the occasion.
@jumpAmonkey
Жыл бұрын
It's NEVER about feeling comfy.
I’m 24 but this vid got recommended to me, which is totally understandable since my fashion style tends to lean towards casual up to the smarter casual side since I work in an office setting. While I do enjoy wearing streetwear from time to time, I strongly feel like casual is more versatile and timeless =) So this video got recommended on the right time I guess, as I’m looking to expand my wardrobe.
I use a polo shirt with an old surplus green wool shirt as a sort of light jacket. Works great with a pair of slacks or cargo pants. Usually I throw a hat on too.
Love it! can we get more summer looks with this concept? Here in the desert the scorcher does not take kindly to coats in the summer
@Sshooter444
Жыл бұрын
Linen!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
As mentioned, five looks for a variety of seasons.
Agree that a “uniform” aka personal style is the most important thing besides fit. From a younger guys perspective, I think older men who are wearing something that they would’ve always worn before looks fine as long as it looks *natural*
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for the comment.
45 yr here. I'm constantly complimented on my style. I just wear plain stuff that fits well most of the time. I have like one or two expensive items, jackets and shoes mostly. The rest is cheapo stuff. Ow wait I bought an expensive pair of pants for my dancing sessions. Cuz you gotta look cool when dancing.
I liked almost all of the outfits you showed. The jackets look awesome.
All you need is two hundred grand a year and a meaningful social life👍
Absolutely agree 1000% with the comment on fit. I see so many men in their 40’s, 50’s and beyond looking so sloppy. It’s just a horrible presentation.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for chiming in!
@orlog3343
Жыл бұрын
100% but ironically nowadays it’s the opposite, young people wearing super baggy clothes and older guys wearing clothes that are waaayyyyy too tight thinking it’s a slim fit Everyone should just wear clothes that fit !!! 😂
I agree with everything besides the Denim jacket !
I’ve been watching quite a few men’s style videos over the last few days and advice on spring, winter and autumn outfits has been great for here in New Zealand. We are going into winter now. The interesting thing I see popping up again and again are the really stark differences in summer outfits in the USA vs here in NZ and Australia also. Americans have a very different way and ideas of dressing in summer. Americans would be shocked at how much jean shorts and flip flops are worn in summer in this corner of the world in summer. Jean shorts are also extremely common in Europe.
It was when I saw the style of Steve McQueen that got me to dress more like myself, all in the name of fit.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Nice. Can't beat the king of cool.
@ByakkoProductions7770
Жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle At 24 years old from Southeast Asia, even the King of Cool reached his style spirit to me.
Just wear what you want
haha I'd dress up like that for brunch or whatever but when I get home it's back to basketball shorts INSTANTLY. I would never sit around my house dressed to the 9's like this lol
Great stuff here! Earned my subscription in the first minute of the video. How do you feel about shorts for the extra hot and humid days of summer? Any tips for styling?
I am 42 ,I dress as I feel Not what my age dictates From skinny jeans and leather jacket to oversize tops and Jordans Nothing wrong with breaking the rules in this case
I think it depends on how you define "adult", these looks make you blend into the background like the majority of the adults out there. Having one or two statement pieces per look will make you feel more lifely, unless you prefer being the uncle next door at your 30s/ 40s
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
You're already onto the advanced advice stage of this.
So glad to have these look videos back again!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Finally getting back into the groove.
@Merfin22
Жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle Happy to hear it! Cheers friend!
Great.videos as usual Brian! Nailed it on the “looks”, too. One small thing I’d change is swapping out the white jeans for a grey pair initially. But that’s just me…
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment.
Sorry, just because I’m 30 doesn’t mean I should dress like a generic Kohl’s catalogue model.
Very informative thank you every much! I had one question for you : is it ok to wear a pair of jeans without a belt? In the case you are wearing for example a dark blue pair of jeans, a white shirt tucked into and eventually a business casual jacket?
@talavb9301
Жыл бұрын
It's pretty much always OK to not wear a belt, provided that your pants fit.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
I would say to go by feel. Does it look right? If yes, then it's okay
Hi. Could you give some examples/ideas on how to wear a seersucker suit? Shirts with ties and shoes. Neckties vs bow ties. Straw fedoras vs boater hat.
The hightlight for me is definitely your watch collection. Keep it up!
Dudes you dont need to be boring after 40
@Gnefitisis
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, this guy's just a tool.
@melarchuleta8886
Жыл бұрын
He is boring!
@YA-qg5hh
Жыл бұрын
I am 25 and i dress very similar to him, just look at the jacket in the thumbnail.
@poohoff
Жыл бұрын
You don't need to look like a clown to not be boring, there are other ways to entertain people around you
@boxerj
Жыл бұрын
If you stay in shape and have a muscular/athletic build you can pull off just about anything. Build your temple gents!
Whilst I agree with the majority of the style points as mentioned in this video, there are one issue I need to take with this, as well as most "How to dress like an adult" videos out there: Sneakers. I preface my remark by stating that I have been a sneaker-head for more then a decade, so I had been dressing from the feet up for a long time. As a 40+ year old "adult" now most of the louder and trendier sneakers out there are not something I will dabble in anymore. However I can't help but cringe every time I get to the part of these types of videos about casual sneakers, and the go-to are "plain white/black/brown/navy low top or lace-ups". Guys sneaker cultures are no longer the domain of the youth. It is acceptable to rock a pair of Jordan 1, or Nike Dunks, Or New Balance 574, or Adidas Superstars etc etc with your outfit, as long as the colourway matches with the rest of the outfit. It is such a shame to see the great outfits in these type of videos being bog down by another pair of boring plain sneakers. Me personally (and I accept my bias), I would find those who can throw together a great mature outfit up top, and then ground it with a nice pair of Air Jordan 1 hi or low sneakers that completes the ensemble, more interesting. This tells me that this guy knows what he likes and he not's afraid to rock it, and also he's not just wearing what's "accepted". So go out and check out what sneakers out there interest you, and then just wear it! I grew up longing for a pair of Reebok pump hi-top, and I now wear mine with slim jeans or chinos cuffed, and a plain regular-fit sweatshirt or trucker jacket. I cannot tell you how many times I have been complimented by youth and adults like, telling me either how cool those chunky sneakers are (by youth), or that they remember them when they were younger, and where they can cop a pair (by adults). Either way they are conversation starters.
Hey Brian Always Enjoy Your Fashion Videos Thanks For Your Style Tips !!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Many thanks. Glad you enjoyed it.
This is the channel I have been looking for. Thanks!
good general advice. Just a comment, I am spending a few weeks in Milan and Turin right now. To my shock the Italians, men and women, all ages, are mostly wearing sneakers and most of those are the gym/running sneakers. They pair sneakers with practically everything. So dont discount funky gym shoes from smart casual outfits. Italians are some of the sharpest dressed people.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
All depends on the person, for sure.
@retrocloud760
6 ай бұрын
Cool. I like sneakers that match my pants in color mostly
I'm not a big fan of denim but you're spot on here. My favorite example of the worst way older men dress down and don't act their age: Men over 50 wearing speedos!
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
I feel like there's a balance point with the example you give. I'm always envious of the old Italian men in their Speedos basically saying I don't a f---, just livin my best life!
@TheTerryE
Жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle That's true. Of course, one could applaud that kind of devil-may-care individuality for almost any fashion choice!
The trousers in Look 3 are great. Been looking for smth like those.
I like these (and the summer targeted videos) as looks for occasions like "the dressed up barbecue with friends", "the dressed up lunch at the hoity toity restaurant" - you're dressed to impress, but it's not going black tie. But as an adult male in a hot country, these all seem only suited to a winter/autumn temperature - in summer or I'd be like the wicked witch doused in water and melting away, where temps are frequently in the 30C or more. It'd be interesting to see more takes on outfits for situations for summer temperatures that were more casual, or didn't look like I was spending the day on a yacht or croquet at the country club.
He Spoke Style is the real OG ✨💪
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
✌🏻almost 10 years now.
@supolepdenkichu7606
Жыл бұрын
Way to go,Sir! I can only manifest He Spoke Style getting bigger and bigger 🔥
Real men don't care about "the rules" or "the way they should dress". What they do care about is their family, friends, hobbies (dressing nicely is fine!) and just being an all around good guy.
These depend on the region you're from. For temperate climates, these styles may apply but for humid tropical countries like Singapore, they're not applicable.
Loving the watch collection!
With the utmost respect, I think some of the advice in this video is a little bit outdated. I’ll explain why. (Bear in mind I’m British and my location/family background mean things may be different than in the US). Slim fitting jeans are something that, these days, look decidedly 2010’s. When I see someone wearing them, I generally assume they’re a bit behind, and tbh they don’t really flatter anyone as much as one might think. Straight jeans/chinos etc. not only look better on everyone and are more classic, but are actually much more modern and common to see. Something else that is certainly outdated are the very minimal white sneakers mentioned here (think common projects etc.) They remind me of the TMF aesthetic in 2015-2019. The same minimal look can be achieved with other white sneakers (I recommend white Reebok Club C85’s) but looks much more modern and also looks like one’s not trying too hard (in the kind of setting I spend most of my time in, a sort of laid-back preppy sprezzatura is most common, and it actually looks pretty great.) The look of the 2010’s was “I’m trying really hard to look well-dressed and slim.” Whereas I think the 2020’s, particularly in Britain, are characterized by “I’m laid back, I’ll throw on some looser fitting menswear/casual wear and still look effortlessly well-dressed.” As I say, I may be blind to the fashion scene in the US, and from what I’ve seen the US is always a bit behind the UK in this regard. Just giving a little advice.
@Sshooter444
Жыл бұрын
I think you're confusing slim fitting jeans with "skinny jeans."
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Agree
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment.
@billysinge8977
Жыл бұрын
@@Sshooter444 no, slim fitting jeans (as opposed to skinny) are just as bad.
@billysinge8977
Жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle thanks for reading it my friend 🤝.
Thank you for advising men how to dress like adults. I'm a woman and I'm so sick of guys in their thirties wearing baggy crap from Goodwill or even worse, dresses.
Less pieces you can do more with, well said 🤙 thanks for another great video Brian.
@hespokestyle
Жыл бұрын
More to come! Thanks, Jeremy.