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My HoneyDew this week is comedian, Big Jay Oakerson! (The Bonfire, Legion of Skanks) Big Jay Highlights the Lowlights of growing up with a single mom, being a single dad, and co-parenting.
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Why doesn't sickler have more subscribers. This is one of the best podcasts out there. And sickler is one of the best.
@Tha1leeG
Жыл бұрын
I asked a few friends and acquaintances the same thing and their replies were that it’s his laugh that irritates them especially when wearing earbuds 😂
@Tha1leeG
Жыл бұрын
His patreon is fire… he needs to share quarterly just one episode and more people would join/watch!
@bigwill-pn5xc
Жыл бұрын
@@Tha1leeG how loud are these ear buds? Lol
@brbapappa
Жыл бұрын
Maybe because the guests are not known/famous.
@codyb9205
Жыл бұрын
@@brbapappa hes had quite a few celebs
My wife and I saw him (Big Jay) with another couple. BIG mistake. Other couple got wasted and made a scene. He focused on our table and tore them up!! He's great! We don't talk to the other couple anymore.
@AkaFigga
Жыл бұрын
Great story. What a great way for a toxic friendship to end
@JRush374
Жыл бұрын
Jay is a friend filter
@shogunpla4388
Жыл бұрын
I always get front row tickets whenever hes at the funny bone in albany , my girl and I are part of it almost every time.
@TheOutdoorDude
Жыл бұрын
@@shogunpla4388 Probably a good time. We were part of it in a bad way. He even pointed out how embarrassed my wife and I were. I don't drink, but the other couple got drunk and heckled. Syracuse Funny Bone. We have tickets to go back...just to two of us lol.
@shogunpla4388
Жыл бұрын
@@TheOutdoorDude oh shit I don't drink either dude, had pancreatitis out of the army and stomach hasn't been the same since. Last time we went he sang country to my girl lol. I watch the bonfire heavily so I always try to throw In a reference the few interactions we've had.
Big Jay is one of funniest most humble dudes in the game. Love him
@lj_hepp
Жыл бұрын
Really wish he had a podcast instead of that xm show.
@GrrillaFinger
Жыл бұрын
He takes a basketball loss like a chump though
@austinpark7126
Жыл бұрын
@@lj_hepp he has 2 podcasts, legion of skanks, and the sdr show. In addition to the bonfire on sxm
"I'm not an academic, I'm more of a creative" thank you for clarifying that Jay 🤣
@BC_816
Жыл бұрын
🤣
@OMWU
Жыл бұрын
Is that him right there
@stonecoldsteve_hogsten
Жыл бұрын
What's strange about that quote is..I find him to be one of the most intelligent comics out there. His way of describing situations, super quick comebacks, full 100% honesty, and just overall comfort within himself makes me believe his IQ is very high.
As a new dad this episode was inspiring. The sum of her mistakes won't change my love. Thanks for a great episode. Happy toozdee yall.
@82PeRK
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. People who dont have kids Just dont know wht UNCONDITIONAL TRUE LOVE IS until the moment they see their child. I didnt want a kid until literally the second i saw my son. ( i was having non stop stress the whole time, also, i was thinking im way too selfish) Then the whole time im just wishing i had him sooner.
@astralblue
Жыл бұрын
As a dad of two lil daughters, just be there. Know you're not perfect, but strive to be for your kiddo ✨️ you got this 💪
@jnease205
Жыл бұрын
I found it on Spotify. I wonder how good his audio only is
@JRush374
Жыл бұрын
You'll be alright
Jay is such a genuine dude. I'm stoked for his special!
Sickler is such a positive and caring dude. He deserves all the praise and love. Also, he is definitely funny. Let's not forget that.
Big jay is one of the most underrated entertainers and comedians ever. Every time hes on screen he says something that genuinely cracks me up.
I listen to Big Jay a lot and I’ve always wondered more about his story. Sickler is so good at making these conversations normal. Great episode.
Good afternoon night pants family! I love you all this community brings me so much joy. I'm glad I get to be apart of it.
I'm ready for this one. 2 of my favorites. Really wish you would release the Mike Rainey episode on the main channel, not because I'm too good to pay for the patreon but the guy is a legend with On Perc's
@Ginnyjulep
Жыл бұрын
For real. It was heartbreaking when Rainey realized Sickler had no idea who he was. I wish the LA comics would make more of an effort to learn about comics outside of their city.
@Intranasal
Жыл бұрын
RainTrain in da house
@RedBernie
Жыл бұрын
@@Ginnyjulep hard to when you got an entire life to focus on already
Should be a good one. Big Jay is hilarious. Get well soon Sickler
Big Jay is one of my top five favorite comedians and top five podcasters
@lj_hepp
Жыл бұрын
hardly can call him a podcaster.
@marcb5594
Жыл бұрын
@@lj_hepp LOS ???
Feels good to see two great dads of girls who want to keep spreading the good message. You guys are hilarious!
The way that Shick beard story ends is hilarious. Thought the red carpet was being rolled out for him.
The View count the subscribers all of it is far too low. Ryan, you put on an amazing show and your podcast is second to none. Big Jay we love you, thanks for being you my guy
Oh my god, I'm so glad I saw this before work. Dream episode of Honey Dew right here.
That "what if I'm a runner too..." feeling is a heavy one. Thought about that numerous times when I've walked away from bad relationships and the prospect of having kids. The actions of parents cut deep.
This is great! Now we need Sickler on LOS!
@stuckinadazzee
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah doggy
@bretthoulihan8312
Жыл бұрын
We will chant his name for sure
@Crenshaw17
Жыл бұрын
Sickler could have a Laugh off with awkward laugh guy
Big Jay's crowd work is impeccable
I already liked it just bc it’s Ryan but also expecting to like it bc of the guest🥰
@scottiesucks
Жыл бұрын
he will get there , cream rises to the top baby!
@82PeRK
Жыл бұрын
More like other way around IM LISTENING FOR BIG JAY
Love JO as a person so much
Saw the thumbnail and “Oh shit…” this gonna be 🔥 Tooosssdeeeee!
Crackle Crackle! Great to hear Ryan's Disney laugh to Big Jay stories.
Big Jay can do a solo podcast, he’s such a storyteller.
Jays fingernails are exactly how I imagined them to be 😂
Really happy more people are getting to see Jay and experience him and his humor, he has always been not just one of my favorite comedians but also best podcast guest and host, it always gets said but his crowd work is some of the best in the world off the cuff, and he is just a really humble dude, that came up with some of the biggest comics in the world and he just still slugs it out , leaves a soft footprint wherever he goes, feel like he will be the next Dave Attell, the best comic in the room but happy to be at a level of fame where they can walk down the streets of NY and not get hassled to much.
Loved the episode. I’m a Philly girl, so I especially enjoyed all the “local” chat.
@shanestephens4728
Жыл бұрын
Go Birds
i dont think i could love 2 people more than big jay and sickler. awesome pod
Was in Philly for a wedding, go out for a smoke ,this fucking guy is outside my hotel, one pant leg rolled up (in winter) smoking a cig in fingerless gloves, this dudes the man
Bruh!! I needed this deep girl dad convo👏 thank you
7:35 Damn. Jay just informed me that I’m broke.
@rafes8206
Жыл бұрын
Comrade, a majority of people making over 100k in America are living paycheck to paycheck. Minimum wage in like the 50s translates to 112k now. We are all broke, we have nothing to lose and the world to gain.
Jay and Ryan! I clicked so fast so I can kick it with these funny cuties!
Big J is hilarious, is interesting has a good story. He deserves more love especially from philly
My ex came out to me January 2020 and you support them because that’s what you do right? Keeping positive we tried an open marriage for the sake of our kiddos (now 8 and 10) and the stereotypical family unit. As a now divorced Dad, finding independence has been an unforeseen blessing as I am able to focus 100% when the kids and I are together without any distractions. Thank you Jay and Ryan for these conversations as a lot of the topics you discussed truly resonated.
This ep was a banger! I’m 24 atm and I could not even imagine having a newborn currently.
I love Big Jay. I saw him at the Atlanta airport late last year and did the fan girl thing and told him he was my favorite, he was super cool, shook my hand, asked me where I was heading and general b/s for a minute. He looked like he’s been working out.
@allstopblue5717
Жыл бұрын
lol. He looks as fat as he always has to me
I fucking love these guys right here! What a couple of stand up fathers.
Big Jay that's my dude. I was lucky enough to see him in Bristol TN on the dragstrip with Bert. I was close to the front and at the end he saw my LOS shirt and hit me with the skank sign which I politely returned. Legendary moment. I pee'd a little
27 minutes in, and waiting for Jay to confess that he is still *TECHNICALLY* married. 😆
@cracklecracklebaybay5612
Жыл бұрын
28:00 Ah, there it is. Just needed a little more patience. 😆
@timgibson8790
Жыл бұрын
True skanks here. I was thinking the same thing. I'm so happy that you exist
@seanperkins1117
Жыл бұрын
Jay needs his own Crack Amico theme
Genuine good dude that got his foot in the door.. hes got a vibe that makes you want to hangout. Gravitated to him when i saw him on rogan tell the story about his skitzo cousin... soooo funny... and the laugh is one of a kind
Been waiting for this episode since day one of the Dew. Did not disappoint.
Love listening to Jay talk. So much fun to listen to
This is the perfect podcast for Jay bc he has to talk and talk about himself
@CH-ml4rz
Жыл бұрын
😂👏🏻
Big fan of the show from day 1, recent fan of Big Jay. As a 35 year old father of a 14 year old who has just moved in with me from his mothers, i really enjoyed this episode. Thanks Big Jay, I really needed to hear your perspective to know I’m on the right path. Thank you both 🙏🏻
Me and my girl just split and I have a lot of co parenting on the horizon. This podcast was cool really put things in perspective, thanks guys
@Miodrag.Vukomanovic
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like she used you and can now get you for child support. It goes to show it's better to be manipulative than put in any honest effort into being self reliant.
after hearing his family story, explains why as a grown man in 2023 , he thinks fingerless gloves look cool
Sickler, even tho ur a filthy,soulless ravens fan, i have to say u got one of the best podcasts. The atmosphere u create brings a certain kind of honesty out of guests that ive heard countless hours of before. Many times, if i listed my favorite interview from alot of people, ur interview with them would be at the top. Salute my friend
Just realized Sickler is Big Jays perfect therapist. Big Jay should call in once a month
I'm a simple man. I see Big J, I click
Love Big Jay. Love Sickler. Such a great podcast.
I'm from Detroit, MI. 30 years old. I've been addicted to Heroin, Crystal & Crack. Homeless on the streets in & out of jail & rehabs. But I was a baseball prodigy. My father was called up by the Detroit tigers to tryout to be 1st baseman. Blew his ACL 2nd tryout. Tried to play through me as I grew up & I didn't even realize it. He coached our travel teams & all. It was a lot of pressure. I caved. I pitched. Threw that heater. I always looked for a social crew to hangout with. Once I found my "crew" around highs school I dropped sports & completey abonded my studies & sports. I traumatized my Macedonian family because that was frowned upon to do such a thing, stray away from the family. I got into heavy drugs pretty early. Poppin pills and partying. I went to Macedonia at the age of 19 where I slept with my step sister. Ruined my father's marriage. If you want the rest of story. Come have me on Sick man. Huge fan 🧡
As a huge skanks and honeydew fan this is amazing. You need to get Luis J on. Dude grew up in a crazy environment.
Shout out sickdog for the bo knows shirt. Bo knows tennis and bo knows big jay is the OG Philly dawg. War Mode
@shanestephens4728
Жыл бұрын
SODTAOE
Before even watching, I know this is going to be gold!
I love Jay. I listen to him probably 5 podcasts a week but if you have noticed what I have, he takes the longest route possible from point A to point B in an opinion or a story. I mean, it always pays off but zero brevity.
Seeing Big Jay Saturday in NashVegas!
This guy is funny. Wish he had a podcast we could all listen to.
That introduction to HoneyDew, with that sultry voice got me JUICED UP! Holy shit!
As a man, I respect Jay just breezing past all the "grimey stuff" he did.
Thanks for this podcast. Being a newly single dad of 2 girls (10 and 12) who’s working on this whole co-parenting thing I related to alot of what y’all discussed. Thanks for making me laugh today.
Lunch break Sickler, let’s go! Love Big Jay!
Big Jay is an inspiration. Great comic and person
I love big Jay, good dude and killer comedian🤙🏼
HoneyDew is that #1 hitter baby 🫡
Yes please and thank you!!!
I see Big Jay, I click **throws up skanks hands**
Jay without fingerless gloves tf
@austinarnold155
Жыл бұрын
Rare form
This gone be a good one. Lemme grab the popcorn.
Big jay is the nicest dude ever. Never fake, and in person is really the nicest guy. You hear it from anyone that knows him or meets him.
I went from avg C/D student in high school until I started smoking weed to mostly B's with the occasional A. Definitely helped me but didn't pay any attention to it at the time
Big Jay is easily one of the top five comedians right. Even comedians I like struggle to make me laugh, I’m really not an LOL-er, even if I find it really really funny. Jay is one of the few stand up comedians who can make me laugh out loud
I'm such a fan of him. I'm also from Philly. I have met Tom Kline so that's hilarious that he was talking shit about him. He was so spot on about him.
Been a fan of Big J forever! Love to see him on the HoneyDew 🤘🏼
Big Jay, the 90s called. They want their frosted tips back.
The cab driver story is hilarious.
Loved this ep, definitely have to have Big Jay back.
Woohoo Big J =) It’s a good day!
I like his hey bear joke on this is not happening . Big Gay Jay has ring to it too, great show
Big Jay being this candid is beautiful tugging at my nut hair strings thank you 🙏
My dad had the same "conversation" with me at that same age. "Pot never hurt nobody" and that kind of shit. Now at 43, I get it. It's never hurt me. 😆
You can always get the rundown on your favs..🤛 annd you are not the only one that has gone through all the good stuff 🤠
So glad to hear Ryan hit that Welcome Back!
Finally big jay 🙌 👏
I'm stuck in an airport at 130 am after they canceled my flight but this conversation is keeping me cozy lol
Love Big Jay!!
"You don't love her because of the sum of her mistakes." Big Jay fucking spittin
Big Jay is so amazing. What a story.
Lol....”pot comes from the earth”. So does poppies, and cocoa trees.
@BazookaTooth707
Жыл бұрын
As does cyanide and arsenic lol
Been Waiting Mr. Big, Great Ep 👌🏽
@dillanmontgomery3890
Жыл бұрын
Found a bonfire fan lol Shane’s mr mrs big comment was great
Man I love big j.
I was so sure Big Jay had already been on the Honey Dew that I would have been willing to throw hands over it.
I'm so glad you are talking about being a parent and being split up. I'm currently going through this right now and it's something I'm terrified over.
Great episode big jay is the man cant wait for special in April keep smashing honeydew
Big Jay is one of the best at roasting.
Man f*** the crab feast! I subscribed. 5 stars
Came here for Big Jay. I'll be returning for Sicklers laugh.
Sickler MD is the best at this!...regardless what Sickler thinks. Lol I wish I laughed this much in therapy.....like a DOCTOR!...(Cocos voice)
PunchLine Sacramento loves Big Jay!!
That whole Philly 76’ers basketball story was friggen great! 🏀 👎😂 Big Jay you are a comedic treasure sir. Of course Sickler is a beast as always 🙌