HIV Stigma - I have judged.. other people are going to judge me

It's one thing to know people living with HIV, it's another thing for it to be you. There is a human side to HIV in Australia that needs a voice. Confronting the stigma surrounding HIV today will open a dialogue in the community and break down discrimination.
Hear some inspiring real stories from Queenslanders living with HIV and the stigma they and their loved ones deal with every day. Hear how, despite the many misconceptions surrounding HIV, they continue to live and love life to the full.
For support and information about HIV visit the HIV Foundation Queensland at endhiv.qld.gov.au/

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  • @back2mineCT
    @back2mineCT10 жыл бұрын

    My utmost respect to all the brave folk involved with this project

  • @aidennewington2913
    @aidennewington29138 жыл бұрын

    big hug to all those living with HIV. No room for stigma.

  • @venicemackay9244

    @venicemackay9244

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Aiden Newington yes but there will allways be stigma because hiv is incurable i am sorry for this i wish it were not like this but it is. i would not hate some one if they had hiv but i would ask how it happened and if it was partly there fault for being a slut ect rather than because the condom broke they were raped or there partner lied to them cheated on them ect.

  • @matthieuahmed8318

    @matthieuahmed8318

    7 жыл бұрын

    Venice Mackay, you are just a huge moron... read this MORON... You have no idea what people go through that they become HIV positive. It doesn't matter how people contract HIV. People don't necessarily go out to get infected with HIV. Stop your ignorance and I wish you'd be HIV positive so that you'd walk in our shoes. DUMBASS!!!

  • @venicemackay9244

    @venicemackay9244

    7 жыл бұрын

    i reported you for abuse for saying you want some one to get hiv your sick

  • @matthieuahmed8318

    @matthieuahmed8318

    7 жыл бұрын

    go ahead... I'll report you back.... your ignorance is your gift...

  • @justinamusyoka4986

    @justinamusyoka4986

    4 жыл бұрын

    I like to keep off those who bring rubbish to my life by stigmatising me,i never give them room.I learnt i'll be by myself the rest of my days.

  • @ferrierepc
    @ferrierepc Жыл бұрын

    As an HIV+ person, I am very aware of how people CANNOT get infected....yet, oddly, with my late mother and my husband, if I cut myself doing something, or there is any blood at all, my blood, I automatically become hyper aware and I deal with my little cuts or whatever, as much as I can, alone. My mother, when this would happen, objected to my objections that she should not touch me...and the same goes for my husband. I say to not touch me...and he just laughs and tells me to shut up. I know, intellectually, that putting a band aid on my finger will not hurt them in any way but then my survival instincts kick in and I begin to think that if he has even a graze, naked to the eye, somewhere, that I can, in that moment, be a risk for him...My husband does 1 test a year, even though there is NO way he could be infected, but just wanting to be 100% sure, he takes the test. I have been positive for 31 years and, until today at least, though my numbers have never been great, I have not had 1 infection related to HIV. May change tomorrow but as of today, I am ok...thanks to the meds I began taking in 1994, which at the time were numerous, 30ish pills a day of mixtures of meds, a cocktail of meds, which then went to 3 pills 2x a day which is now at 1 pill a day and in future, as it already exists, probably an injection once a month. I am a social worker by trade and education and have worked with HIV people for decades and used my experiences with the psychological aspects of being positive...but sociologically have not suffered, at all, as others have, being told my blood is "dirty" which is the most offensive thing one could say, I imagine. I have been fortunate with friends being educated enough about the illness and how they can and cannot get it as it is a very difficult virus to get.....unlike Covid, which is so easy. One can have blood on blood contact and most likely, you still won't get it. The conditions for transmission must be perfect. When I go to schools and churches to talk about it, there is such warmth and caring given to me and it is I, typically, who need to comfort those listening to me as they are so moved by the stories I can tell them about me, about those I know, and it is so good for them to see me, a middle aged man, husky, not looking sick in any way (again, at least not until today at least) smashing the images they had of what a person with HIV looks. Anyway, that's it..and I am glad for those in this video and pray that they are still there, fighting, educating and I hope that they are loved, especially by themselves. Cheers!

  • @cjh3458
    @cjh345810 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely brilliant short video. I take my hat off to everyone involved. It's so to the point. Well done!

  • @AM-nw5ch
    @AM-nw5ch10 жыл бұрын

    WOW!! These are very powerful,meaningful and inspirational stories of which all participants and their significant others should feel very very proud. What a sensational contribution they have made to HIV prevention. Congratulations.

  • @matthieuahmed8318
    @matthieuahmed83187 жыл бұрын

    I love this video. I watched it over and over again. Was diagnosed in April 8th, 2016. I can't stop crying even just now. My friends and family are confused and scared seeing me crying without them knowing what I'm really going through. I can't tell anyone and I'm so depressed as if this HIV thing were a black hole inside.

  • @nobaso620

    @nobaso620

    6 жыл бұрын

    Matthew Ahmed You don't have to be sad about it your perception of the disease based on the societal stigma. Live your life to the best of your ability.

  • @soongeeren

    @soongeeren

    4 жыл бұрын

    Matthieu Ahmed, you should at least let your parent know about your current situation, this can surely let you feel better.

  • @bmoregood6878

    @bmoregood6878

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @tupikahielos4758

    @tupikahielos4758

    4 жыл бұрын

    My prayers

  • @justinamusyoka4986

    @justinamusyoka4986

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just connect with your creator and most of all repent.I've lived with the virus for 30 years now and every one close to me knows.I lost my husband because he denied everything said about HIV and refused meds.He feared how people would handle him but i myself knew i had one lifetime and its upto me to make it worthy living.Arise and walk.

  • @fdomdo205
    @fdomdo2058 жыл бұрын

    This video is absolutely brilliant. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I would so much like to take you all in my arms. Thank you for making people realize that HIV is a "chronical disease, not a death sentence". God bless you

  • @rachelsnyder5510
    @rachelsnyder5510 Жыл бұрын

    I don’t think getting hiv or any other std means you are dirty, life can change in an instant and only the brave can survive. You guys are heroes.

  • @rathnarekha9600

    @rathnarekha9600

    2 ай бұрын

    When you have std and hiv you are dirty

  • @Thinkbeforeyousleep
    @Thinkbeforeyousleep10 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant, powerful video. Thanks for sharing.

  • @mikeybear
    @mikeybear10 жыл бұрын

    Powerful. Inspiring. Thank you.

  • @MNJGaGa
    @MNJGaGa7 жыл бұрын

    Anyone who is afraid to get tested, please do so before it progresses and makes your life worse, or you infect anyone else. Trust me guys knowing that you could infect someone else even by mistake would rip your soul apart! Brilliant Video.

  • @tamahrafreshour7981
    @tamahrafreshour79819 жыл бұрын

    This is not fake I was diagnosed in 2003 anyone that needs support, education, or newly diagnosed or living with HIV or aids come join my support group the voice of HIV don't be scared to know your status knowledge is power protect yourself get on meds asap this goes for those affected also

  • @nielharris8961

    @nielharris8961

    8 жыл бұрын

    I been living with HIV for over a year, interested in support groups

  • @tamahrafreshour7981

    @tamahrafreshour7981

    8 жыл бұрын

    facebook.com/groups/1530443993891721/

  • @grantcran9492
    @grantcran94929 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video. Well done everyone involved. You're an inspiration.

  • @lonniesapp2636
    @lonniesapp26364 жыл бұрын

    Great video !! Hugs from Florida

  • @robertward2888
    @robertward28883 жыл бұрын

    I just deplore the tern,"dirty". I am HIV POSITIVE. That's what you have to be,"positive ". I was ignorant of this disease when I contracted it. My advice to everyone. Love who you are. Educate yourself. Get tested often. Practice safe sex always. Know who you are having sex with. NEVER just take someone at their word.

  • @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn
    @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn20 күн бұрын

    My deepest respect to all people on this video. God bless you all.

  • @lovedaljit33
    @lovedaljit3310 жыл бұрын

    Such a great video .you guys are so brave to admit openly on you tube . God bless you all .

  • @justinamusyoka4986

    @justinamusyoka4986

    4 жыл бұрын

    Before you conquer outward stigma you should first conquer self.To accept the condition.

  • @fdomdo205
    @fdomdo2058 жыл бұрын

    A special hug to Von. This lady is just... unique ! Thank you Von ....

  • @billymccaughey3741
    @billymccaughey37414 жыл бұрын

    Love love and more love to all.♥️♥️♥️

  • @faizabelaaraj6885
    @faizabelaaraj68859 жыл бұрын

    I feel very very sorry for those people who get judged because they're HIV positive. HIV is not curable and that's the main reason people stay away from those who are infected, I am so aware that it doesn't help them to get over what they have but HIV is a very serious infection. It continues to infect each part of your body until it becomes AIDS, and that's the end . we should all be very careful and aware of what we do , keeping our selves safe is a responsibility.

  • @jessicab331

    @jessicab331

    5 жыл бұрын

    faiza belaaraj you are just as ignorant...

  • @sarita78870
    @sarita788708 жыл бұрын

    absolutely brilliant video ! I just got tested atoday and comes out Negative. I have truly respect for people who comes out positive. None is different, a status doesnt define who you are

  • @wendymills4693
    @wendymills46934 жыл бұрын

    So brave 😘

  • @omarbain6927

    @omarbain6927

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was born black I get stigma just for that am I brave?

  • @omarbain6927

    @omarbain6927

    4 жыл бұрын

    Brave for catching AIDS?

  • @Simply_Sadie
    @Simply_Sadie6 жыл бұрын

    this would have been so much better if the music wasn't so loud

  • @willynelson9595
    @willynelson95954 жыл бұрын

    There is no judging. Let’s give people a big ole hug. Jesus said something about judging......maybe someone can fill in the blanks for me

  • @MariaSanchez-tn9zp

    @MariaSanchez-tn9zp

    6 ай бұрын

    (Matthew chapter 7) "Do not judge others or you too will be judged" Jesus loves you

  • @starsigngirl9789
    @starsigngirl97893 жыл бұрын

    That blonde woman is beautiful xxx has such a warm soul xxxx

  • @claudiahillman6035

    @claudiahillman6035

    3 жыл бұрын

    i want to appreciate dr.owobu for giving me back my life again, i was diagnose of HIV/AIDS after the use of dr. owobu herbal medicine i got cured, all thanks to dr.owobu I will forever be grateful.doctor Owobu on KZread...

  • @Thomas-fu8vp
    @Thomas-fu8vp4 жыл бұрын

    MUM:'If they d like it, they can lump it'. Who could have it better?

  • @idiossodre4635
    @idiossodre46356 жыл бұрын

    não teremos cura nunca pra essa doença, infelizmente

  • @Sanddancer1
    @Sanddancer110 ай бұрын

    turn the music off ! i cant hear what they are saying

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan5 ай бұрын

    6:03 It’s a little interesting that one guy’s partners would wash their HANDS 🙌 before and after sex. 😂

  • @rustyshields7190
    @rustyshields71906 жыл бұрын

    I understand "Stigma" when it comes to things that have 0.000000000000000% chance of getting it. . . . .like sitting next to somebody or shaking hands. . . .that is just dumb. . . . .but when it comes to sexual contact there is always a risk of contracting it from a person who is positive. Not wanting to take that risk isn't stigmatizing, it is a statistical likelihood. Even if there is only a 0.02% chance of getting it through sex with a positive person. . . any risk at all is still a chance. . . . it only takes one time and you don't just get 0.02% of it. You get 100% of the HIV all the way for the rest of your life. What are the defined boundaries of what "HIV Stigma" is?

  • @jessicab331

    @jessicab331

    5 жыл бұрын

    Charles Shields nothing is 0%... even a dna test doesn’t say 100%.

  • @Deevine_

    @Deevine_

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rusty Shields your right. People should be afraid of getting HIV. People should be afraid of getting anything that could potentially kill you. People are still dying from AIDS. The Stigma is there because it was caught during sexual content and out of all of the sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS is the only one that can kill you. I can not catch diabetes from a person. I can’t catch High blood pressure from a person. I can’t get cancer from a person. People want to remove the stigma AFTER they catch the disease. Before they contract it, they are the same ones stigmatizing it.

  • @laurencsikistvan6630

    @laurencsikistvan6630

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Deevine_ Before you say something stupid, educate yourself on how you can "catch it". Let me help you start, you won't get it through casual contact (hugging, using the same toilet or bathroom, sharing utensils etc.). The chances of getting it through that is 0%. And there are still people believing that you can get it by merely looking at an HIV positive person, and that's a problem.

  • @lizichell2
    @lizichell29 жыл бұрын

    Why do god botherers pollute every comment thread on youtube?

  • @Perfectpearl
    @Perfectpearl4 жыл бұрын

    "You will hear someone say don't sleep with him. He's positive." GOOD ADVICE. I don't see the problem.

  • @Derrako
    @Derrako9 жыл бұрын

    haven't had a test. Too shit scared to get one. Last thing I need right now is to be told that.

  • @BCL1185

    @BCL1185

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** That is part of the problem with HIV. People don't want to know their status. We should all know. Knowledge is power.

  • @tamahrafreshour7981

    @tamahrafreshour7981

    9 жыл бұрын

    You need to know if you come up poz come join my group the voice of HIV knowledge is power protect yourself you need to start Arv's asap if so

  • @jessicab331

    @jessicab331

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brian Ledford do you read these comments? The stigma and ignorance is what is still helping it prevail.

  • @tupikahielos4758

    @tupikahielos4758

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was too , just went last week HIV doesn't kill but ignorance does

  • @jaggass
    @jaggass5 жыл бұрын

    Im glad im single and don't take drugs.

  • @bladebrown4341

    @bladebrown4341

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was single didn't do drugs, but someone on a bus stuck me with something in my back. Now I am

  • @pavelpavlov8764
    @pavelpavlov87649 жыл бұрын

    We could talk a lot , and there will be many opinions, but there is just one importent thing - WE ARE HUMAN , I'M PERSAN!

  • 4 жыл бұрын

    I love the Aussie accent..? They always finish sentences as if they are asking a question..? I wonder why they do.? I suppose that's why they make good police officers and game show hosts..? But, Australian women are usually hot and sexy.? So i will let them off.? Also, why would that women need to tell people her son is HIV positive? The only time this needs to be told to someone is before sex, obviously.

  • @findoggfini8581
    @findoggfini85814 жыл бұрын

    There should be a HIV registry especially for these people, I love the optimism, but realistically humans still have desire, an urge to commit whatever is within their hearts. Sorry but better the devil you know, than the devil you don't.

  • @rejasrivero
    @rejasrivero8 ай бұрын

    I cried🥲

  • @sharonpuckett1441
    @sharonpuckett1441 Жыл бұрын

    How do u believe in a friend that has not bothered to say he has hiv??

  • @jc2007rose
    @jc2007rose5 жыл бұрын

    HIV Positive people ARE NOT DISCLOSING THEIR STATUS. This would end if they did.

  • @brookbrook5424
    @brookbrook54244 жыл бұрын

    please. go everybody in ethiopia and there's.hiv midesn you be come negative we pray of the god and he is mam

  • @justinamusyoka4986

    @justinamusyoka4986

    4 жыл бұрын

    What medicine?

  • @brookbrook5424

    @brookbrook5424

    4 жыл бұрын

    go in Ethiopia. the medicine is terst the god you coming negative the location is baher dar wenkshe kedus kedus gebral

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