Hey Steve: She’s Not Showing Affection || STEVE HARVEY

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She loves her man, but she’s not so good at showing affection. How can she step it up?
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  • @JoshuaOtusanya
    @JoshuaOtusanya5 жыл бұрын

    Whoever is reading this I wish you continued success in life :) -Josh Otusanya

  • @yanicketienne1464

    @yanicketienne1464

    5 жыл бұрын

    Likewise Josh Otusanya, likewise.

  • @nakialowe933

    @nakialowe933

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Josh O Show thanks

  • @JoshuaOtusanya

    @JoshuaOtusanya

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yanick Etienne thanks Yanick! stay in touch :)

  • @safaril2949

    @safaril2949

    5 жыл бұрын

    For you also my friend. Be Blessed.

  • @wealthy1234

    @wealthy1234

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Josh. I am successful continually in life in all good things. It is so.

  • @AngelBee
    @AngelBee5 жыл бұрын

    Sis better secure that doctor, they ain easy to come by

  • @lacyedesouza2144

    @lacyedesouza2144

    5 жыл бұрын

    Angel Bee Amen!!!!

  • @SJ-tb2wq

    @SJ-tb2wq

    5 жыл бұрын

    If he loves her he's not going anywhere. Maybe they complement each other. The fact that she put it out there shows she cares and wants to change for him. I think they'll be fine.

  • @raa8504

    @raa8504

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @LovelyPeach40

    @LovelyPeach40

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen and he's Black one justing, I would know what do.

  • @LovelyPeach40

    @LovelyPeach40

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SJ-tb2wq she trying get help cause there might be somebody watching how she treat him and he's complying just saying affection go alone way.

  • @iamproject100
    @iamproject1005 жыл бұрын

    "We trying to secure the doctor" *doctor claps for himself*

  • @silverdragon5507

    @silverdragon5507

    4 жыл бұрын

    He's probably like "wtf is goin on" lol

  • @marleneram3526

    @marleneram3526

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@silverdragon5507 LMAOO I was dying at that part

  • @BrooklynBaby-1

    @BrooklynBaby-1

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂 😂 🤣 🤣

  • @tryphenaeady8560
    @tryphenaeady85605 жыл бұрын

    Steve done took us to church!!! LOL!!!😂

  • @ninaluscious

    @ninaluscious

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @RoyalMasterpiece

    @RoyalMasterpiece

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂🙏❤

  • @tori-ann1161

    @tori-ann1161

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen to that

  • @TessaAz

    @TessaAz

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was sitting in my living room shouting along with the audience like we was at Church 😭😭😭😭🤣

  • @katsneed7623

    @katsneed7623

    5 жыл бұрын

    He had me about to go in...LOL

  • @MsRae-ev9hs
    @MsRae-ev9hs5 жыл бұрын

    Girl you found you a polite RESPECTFUL man with an ACTUAL CAREER with money where he also helps people too??? Girl you better learn how to show affection and quite playing!!!

  • @geremymason5936

    @geremymason5936

    4 жыл бұрын

    She knows how - she just can't bring herself to because she's not attracted to him. She better get over herself and just do it because she will have some stiff competition at some point and they won't hesitate.

  • @rosettajones1161

    @rosettajones1161

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know that's right because it should be easy to show him some affection. What is she talking about? Even if he is not a.Doctor it would not be hard since it is a natural thing. Especially if you like the person a lot like she said she does. Hmmmm watch out b4 somebody in Steve"s audience tackle the Doctor and really show him some real affection! LOL!!

  • @rosettajones1161

    @rosettajones1161

    3 жыл бұрын

    On second thought it doesn't seem like she is attractive to the Doctor. It is easy to show affection when you are attractive to them. Yes he has a great career with prestige but she does not seem to let that go to her head. I was feeling that it should be easy but you cant say that based on what a person does for their career. You have to be drawn to more than money. That may not be what she is interested in altogether. And she wants to feel chemistry on a deeper level not the visual of what he can buy for her materialistically.

  • @fiorela6194

    @fiorela6194

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right!!!Ha, ha, ha.

  • @mariamimi8497

    @mariamimi8497

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@geremymason5936 what made you believe she’s not attracted to him ?? So y’all assume anything now ??

  • @orlicca8813
    @orlicca88135 жыл бұрын

    Uncle Steve so dramatic! LOL I love him

  • @quamemonac9600

    @quamemonac9600

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @Tavialatrice

    @Tavialatrice

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @johnmoore4714

    @johnmoore4714

    2 жыл бұрын

    Too dramatic 😉

  • @CarlaSophieMar

    @CarlaSophieMar

    Жыл бұрын

    Steve was showcasing his Leo Moon 😂💛

  • @vanessacopland
    @vanessacopland5 жыл бұрын

    He hugs .. she pats his belly🙄

  • @xarmmymufandaz3690

    @xarmmymufandaz3690

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like seriously though 😑

  • @stepstoleaps

    @stepstoleaps

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @alexisshumba721

    @alexisshumba721

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 "there there" basically

  • @liliw3977

    @liliw3977

    5 жыл бұрын

    vanessa copland po’ thang🤔

  • @annarose8913

    @annarose8913

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like a dog!

  • @jb33rd
    @jb33rd5 жыл бұрын

    The way Steve throws his card and walks behind the platform will never get old this by far is one of my favorite episodes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @peggymiller3045

    @peggymiller3045

    2 жыл бұрын

    AMEN!

  • @ruthmphahlele4569

    @ruthmphahlele4569

    Ай бұрын

    my favorite part!!!!!!🤣

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate28625 жыл бұрын

    *I can't, I won't, I'm not. These words should be removed from your vocabulary.*

  • @kalebtamrat9282

    @kalebtamrat9282

    5 жыл бұрын

    U cant but the grace of Goddess in u can

  • @oowahwah

    @oowahwah

    5 жыл бұрын

    But I can’t 😂😂

  • @etf42

    @etf42

    5 жыл бұрын

    what?

  • @thandiweluluphiri5

    @thandiweluluphiri5

    5 жыл бұрын

    They are important when confronted by negative situations I won't get a bribe, I won't sleep with you I can't cheat.....I can't accept failure.

  • @Ari_princess21

    @Ari_princess21

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm not is aggressive I like that one 🙍

  • @EllePlowPlow
    @EllePlowPlow5 жыл бұрын

    Steve A WHOLE fool!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @EllePlowPlow

    @EllePlowPlow

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anne Day for real. 😂😂

  • @queenmaz7nomusa411

    @queenmaz7nomusa411

    5 жыл бұрын

    This man gives me life😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @RoyalMasterpiece
    @RoyalMasterpiece5 жыл бұрын

    We trying to secure the Doctor! Preach Pastor Steve! 👏😂❤ Sending love to my fellow single women and men. May you find God's very best. ❤

  • @godswillfavorblessed7926

    @godswillfavorblessed7926

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen Sista!!

  • @lacyedesouza2144

    @lacyedesouza2144

    5 жыл бұрын

    RoyalMasterpiece Amen Sister!!❤️

  • @ellerose6835

    @ellerose6835

    5 жыл бұрын

    Back to ya beautiful!

  • @dashelledisna6239

    @dashelledisna6239

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen! Let me Recieve it💝😍💯💎

  • @PoshSpice-89

    @PoshSpice-89

    5 жыл бұрын

    RoyalMasterpiece amen!

  • @traceyhall8979
    @traceyhall89795 жыл бұрын

    Bless her heart!!! Affection is hard when you aren't use to receiving or giving it, but it's a learned behavior so damn it, PRACTICE!!!

  • @joshuamoore2341

    @joshuamoore2341

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Natasha Williams naw. I have to have spent enough time getting to know you to be that comfortable. I don't even big my mother much. Much less for other people. So yeah. It's a real thing.

  • @joshuamoore2341

    @joshuamoore2341

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Natasha Williams I'm sorry 1. I was hoping that I didn't come off rude so I'm sorry that I didn't recognize you weren't talking to me since its a comment section and all. But ok.😊 That's great your upbringing don't affect you in that way as well. Not everyones the same as your initial comment also points out. My understanding is off naturally. I typing from a phone not inside your head. I'd lick my woman in all the right places when to chips are down so yeah. 🙂

  • @joshuamoore2341

    @joshuamoore2341

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Natasha Williams clearly it made no sense to you. 😂 Oh. Well such is life. You are right that you're assuming I'm bringing gender into this. When that was one of the furthest things from my mind. It's all just perception of each other's statement sense you see it as me being off topic and I get where you're coming from when you say I spoke as though we spoke about those things. So you are correct in that regard. My comment plain and simple was aimed at the whole idea, that display of affection is affected by upbringing. Though we didn't discuss what I spoke about. The basis still stands. At least I think so. 😕

  • @joshuamoore2341

    @joshuamoore2341

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Natasha Williams ok. So most times people go into talks with some kind of preconceived notion. So it affects how we approach things one way or the other. You could try to curtail it but ultimately that's just how it is. Unless some how you perceive exactly where that person is coming from.

  • @joshuamoore2341

    @joshuamoore2341

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Natasha Williams same to you. 😊

  • @thanuyaap4906
    @thanuyaap49065 жыл бұрын

    I love Steve's reactions to finding out the guys have some sort of science degree/job

  • @RoyalMasterpiece

    @RoyalMasterpiece

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @myinsignificantopinion799

    @myinsignificantopinion799

    5 жыл бұрын

    He's a doctor!!!! Stop downgrading his profession.

  • @lindokuhlekhumalo.

    @lindokuhlekhumalo.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Confirm 😍😍😭

  • @JazZyFr3sH021

    @JazZyFr3sH021

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yess, I love it

  • @phoenixez1734

    @phoenixez1734

    5 жыл бұрын

    The man is a doctor! Respect the level of dedication, discipline and hard work for his achievement. He earned the title.

  • @MsAnonymm
    @MsAnonymm5 жыл бұрын

    PLACE YOUR FEET ON SOLID GROUND....I'm dying 😂😂😂

  • @funmiade575

    @funmiade575

    5 жыл бұрын

    As in, just so funny. "And let the church say amen". Lmao.

  • @tanjahthompson1402

    @tanjahthompson1402

    5 жыл бұрын

    I Was Dying At That Part Too Like 🤣🤣🤣

  • @godschildjcreigns2976

    @godschildjcreigns2976

    5 жыл бұрын

    That the old black pastor sayin!😂😂😂😂

  • @cakedfacekenya

    @cakedfacekenya

    5 жыл бұрын

    Won’t you come! 😂😂

  • @jpat989

    @jpat989

    5 жыл бұрын

    If you grew up in a Black American denomination or church, you have heard this many times.

  • @AfricanWithNoFlies
    @AfricanWithNoFlies5 жыл бұрын

    She needs to practise letting go, she is holding onto something.

  • @over50andfantabulous59
    @over50andfantabulous595 жыл бұрын

    Gurrrrl if you don't. . . Another woman will fo sho

  • @lacyedesouza2144

    @lacyedesouza2144

    5 жыл бұрын

    Over50andFantabulous Preach!!!!!

  • @factnofiction1142

    @factnofiction1142

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Steve should had said that to her.

  • @Teeyah2

    @Teeyah2

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sho nuff!!!

  • @katsneed7623

    @katsneed7623

    5 жыл бұрын

    If she don't I will.

  • @dawnspage5091

    @dawnspage5091

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes. She not used to this calaber i dont think

  • @lenaj5629
    @lenaj56295 жыл бұрын

    The doors of affection are open , won't you come?

  • @RoyalMasterpiece

    @RoyalMasterpiece

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @tmmedia9600

    @tmmedia9600

    5 жыл бұрын

    AMENNN!

  • @tmcneal6

    @tmcneal6

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤣😂😂

  • @solmadden6086
    @solmadden60865 жыл бұрын

    Pastor Harvey just walked in 4:02

  • @lailahlyn9428
    @lailahlyn94285 жыл бұрын

    I wasn't the most affectionate person either until I met the right guy

  • @TlhomphoDitedu

    @TlhomphoDitedu

    5 жыл бұрын

    lailah lyn facts

  • @lauriemtz8616

    @lauriemtz8616

    4 жыл бұрын

    lailah lyn yeah! Simple and to the point without being preachy. 😊

  • @chinwezenwankwo5599
    @chinwezenwankwo55993 жыл бұрын

    This my best "Hey Steve!" of all times. Steve's reaction when he learnt the man is a doctor is priceless! First drops his paper and walks off stage. Came back and screamed at the lady: "Are you crazy? Are you out of your mind?"😂😂😂😂😂

  • @the-one232

    @the-one232

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree. The best part. I've laughed so hard. 🤣🤣

  • @crownarealone
    @crownarealone5 жыл бұрын

    Omg I love Steve!! As a person who never received affection as a kid I can completely relate to her. It's like having feelings but not knowing how to show them. It can also be overwhelming trying to receive love from others.

  • @zazabrown732

    @zazabrown732

    5 жыл бұрын

    It can. I used to be.like that too. I'm much improved now. My cure? Babysitting. Kids will teach you how to express your emotions because they give love wholeheartedly and you cannot in turn deny them your affection. You'll learn to give back what they give to you real quick lol

  • @Shewas-kathybates

    @Shewas-kathybates

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zazabrown732 Thats a really good tip very true

  • @zazabrown732

    @zazabrown732

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Shewas-kathybates 👍

  • @crownarealone

    @crownarealone

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zazabrown732 That's so true because since having my child I've softened up ALOT! Still a working process though

  • @fdoctor79

    @fdoctor79

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zazabrown732 True statement. Children do have a way of turning a heart of stone, into a heart that is pliable.

  • @yeisolana
    @yeisolana5 жыл бұрын

    we tryna secure the doctor 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tamaraburgess4877
    @tamaraburgess48774 жыл бұрын

    When he pretends to lick a neck..... I DIED🤣🤣🤣

  • @ladyt4062
    @ladyt40625 жыл бұрын

    Just because he’s a doctor does not make it a perfect relationship. Some times showing affection takes time.

  • @lesliegivens6585
    @lesliegivens65855 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE ME SOME STEVE HARVEY 😍😍

  • @tanjahthompson1402

    @tanjahthompson1402

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me Too Girl ❤

  • @laurasmith2157

    @laurasmith2157

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here 😂 🤣

  • @PeachEs____
    @PeachEs____5 жыл бұрын

    That awkward pat on the chest

  • @footballhotspotmedia
    @footballhotspotmedia2 жыл бұрын

    Steve harvey is the GOAT!!!!!!

  • @donnaballance7703

    @donnaballance7703

    2 жыл бұрын

    U said that right he's a absolute GOAT

  • @Nubian2049
    @Nubian20493 жыл бұрын

    I like when Steve said we trying to secure the doctor 😂

  • @fayepatrice1672
    @fayepatrice16725 жыл бұрын

    I love affection. I cannot get too much. There is probably a reason she feels that way. She needs to explore that and deal with it. Otherwise, doctor or not, maybe he is not the one for her, because people that love affection don’t feel that they are in a relationship without it. It’s that important.

  • @prncessbaby16

    @prncessbaby16

    5 жыл бұрын

    There probably is a reason she feels that way yes, but some of us aren't affectionate people no matter how hard we try, because that just isn't our love language. Steve says don't blame her parents, but if she didn't experience it growing up, it may come as strange or odd to her. I feel the same way but my husbands love language is physical touch so I try to be more affectionate but he knows it's just not something I personally like and that's ok. Doesn't mean I don't love him.

  • @fayepatrice1672

    @fayepatrice1672

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@prncessbaby16 If you are able to overcome it to give him what he needs, that's great for you guys. As an affectionate person whose husband was not, I feel that that was a major problem in our relationship.

  • @prncessbaby16

    @prncessbaby16

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@fayepatrice1672 thank you. I feel like the least I can do is compromise a little. It's not the end of the world if he wants to cuddle or wants one extra kiss. I can tolerate it but when I'm feeling like it's affection overload, I let him know in a nice way I can't handle anymore and he understands. He said he just appreciates that I even try to be more affectionate because I know that's his love language. You can't love a person the way u want to love them, you need to love them the way they need to be loved I believe. It sucks that your husband didn't realize that. I'd rather give my husband affection instead of strain the Marriage over something so simple that could eventually lead to divorce. I'm not going to melt or my skin won't peel off if I cuddle with him lol. Yeah it's hard being affectionate for me, but like Steve said, she can still try and she can let her boyfriend know when it's getting too much at that moment for her.

  • @fayepatrice1672

    @fayepatrice1672

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@prncessbaby16 Sounds like you have a mature attitude about this. Wish you guys the best.

  • @rolorobbins2933

    @rolorobbins2933

    5 жыл бұрын

    Patrice guarantee she was raped. My mom is same way even with me

  • @pearlljewels7330
    @pearlljewels73305 жыл бұрын

    I can understand where she is coming from...it's just going to take a little time that's all. And before she knows it she'll be right there.👍

  • @Shewas-kathybates

    @Shewas-kathybates

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @sammybee1929

    @sammybee1929

    5 жыл бұрын

    My thought exactly

  • @badgyaltt3737

    @badgyaltt3737

    5 жыл бұрын

    True. Took me some time to realize I'm not cold and unemotional. I just haven't allowed myself the appreciate, acknowledge and express the positive feelings inside of me to the world

  • @BaseballKing44

    @BaseballKing44

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pearll Jewels she better do it quick, he’s settling honestly. With his status he could do better and be spoiled with affection and probably whatever else she gives if not more, without even asking. He’s the prize here.

  • @SayPennita

    @SayPennita

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@BaseballKing44 the fact that he's crazy about her probably means he's not selling himself short. She has a career, can probably stimulate and challenge him. She is also actively seeking ways to be better for him.

  • @wondergirl2582
    @wondergirl25825 жыл бұрын

    i died at 4:26 when the woman stood up

  • @vliciouss

    @vliciouss

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmaooo ! She was filled with so much joy and might

  • @caseyj5597

    @caseyj5597

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂💃💃💃

  • @k.alvarado6237
    @k.alvarado62375 жыл бұрын

    Ok... but did he have to start at level 10, yelling 👀. Poor thing was like 😬😬

  • @MimiHawk

    @MimiHawk

    5 жыл бұрын

    I noticed he does that often

  • @angelinaad209

    @angelinaad209

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know right 😂😂

  • @conswizzle

    @conswizzle

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol I was kinda thinking the same thing. Why was his response so aggressive? 😂

  • @monawilliams286

    @monawilliams286

    5 жыл бұрын

    LMFBO, he did snap tho! I think because of "I can't" especially when the I can't is to something so natural/human and the person is a grown woman still blaming the behavior on childhood. Doctor or not, I'm not sure if she's that into him. I used to think I wasn't affectionate until I met the man I liked ;-)

  • @laceyjackson4056

    @laceyjackson4056

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ar3g

  • @kwazzik5453
    @kwazzik54535 жыл бұрын

    The part where he said lick his neck is killing me😂😂😂😂😂🤣😅🤣👍👍💗

  • @MzFarayola
    @MzFarayola5 жыл бұрын

    OMG...Steve took us all to church tonight..."Let the church say Amen!!!!" 😂😂😂😂💗🙏🙏🙏

  • @shanettacole5674
    @shanettacole56745 жыл бұрын

    Steve is the man!!! If you listen closely you will laugh and learn something at the same time!!! I absolutely love him and his messages!!!!

  • @msdhonifanpage3317

    @msdhonifanpage3317

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup right ..were you from shanetta

  • @Iwish387
    @Iwish3875 жыл бұрын

    Steve is so dramatic... I love it lol.

  • @ezoism7685
    @ezoism76855 жыл бұрын

    damn Steve almost want to marry ´the doctor himself xD🤣🤣🤣

  • @lauriemtz8616

    @lauriemtz8616

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ezoism !! YUP!!🙌🏽🤣😂

  • @KJig5
    @KJig55 жыл бұрын

    I disagree with Steve. If you were not raised around or shown how to be affectionate, there isn't just some switch you can flip to go opposite. You can see that clearly with her when doc put his arm around her @ 1:42, it is EXTREMELY awkward for her to receive affection.

  • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

    @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

    5 жыл бұрын

    Doesnt have to be public display. But the privacy in your own home no excuse for that. She trying to force herself to feel attracted to him. That is called settling.

  • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

    @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Jeremy Honeycutt thank god you said it! She dont want him no point in sugar coating it. She dont want to take the time to look else where cause he is a doctor with money.

  • @KJig5

    @KJig5

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Jeremy Honeycutt after looking back I see your point. The audience laughs at him @ 1:15. But their response changes @1:58 as if he is Idris Elba when they find out he is a doctor. But I still disagree with Steve's broad opinion that people in general can just "all of a sudden" become affectionate if they change their mindset. That is not true at all

  • @namreh72

    @namreh72

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you totally, but if she keeps that up she won't have dude...it's good she asked Steve, but she might need a therapist to help get her to the point of showing affection to him.

  • @sherifaboyer

    @sherifaboyer

    5 жыл бұрын

    KJig5 I used to think that too. Until I met and married my second husband. Now I am all kind of affectionate.

  • @joelcrutcher7507
    @joelcrutcher75075 жыл бұрын

    This woman on Steve Harvey, look like Eartha Kitt.

  • @buutifuleyes

    @buutifuleyes

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤭

  • @hmghmg8125

    @hmghmg8125

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @harekzigzagon376
    @harekzigzagon3765 жыл бұрын

    Steve has left the building yall!!😂😂

  • @kc836
    @kc8365 жыл бұрын

    I want to go to this church!😉😂💓

  • @khadijakin5755
    @khadijakin57555 жыл бұрын

    Its not about someone professional that u have to secure him/her it’s all about character love and loyalty that should matter money is not everything in life it’s all about happiness don’t love for money

  • @lavenderbliss2177

    @lavenderbliss2177

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly and he would not even be attracted to some of those thirsty overly affectionate women screaming just because he's a "Dr."

  • @Jay-jb2vr

    @Jay-jb2vr

    5 жыл бұрын

    But people think money is everything

  • @Jay-jb2vr

    @Jay-jb2vr

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Casandra Young stop living to just pay bills.... *LIVE FOR OTHER MEANS*

  • @RDCFemmes

    @RDCFemmes

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's not about the money, it's about security and money contribute to it. After all money is one of top 3 reasons for divorce so money matters and that is just fact.

  • @Aritul

    @Aritul

    5 жыл бұрын

    Was looking for a comment like this. I completely agree with you.

  • @meditativedestinations3117
    @meditativedestinations31175 жыл бұрын

    I was just like her when I started dating in my twenties. I wasn't raised being affectionate either. By the time my parents tried to incorporate affection (huggs/I love u's/etc.) it was too late. It was awkward receiving it by them (in my late teens to early twenties). Which followed into my dating life. However, over time it improved... I'm talking many many years. At 40, there are still moments where it can feel awkward... Especially during initiation!!! But I come to find, the right person brings it out naturally. Now I find myself asking, "Is it too much?" because he's NOT use to affection... Go figure😌😄.

  • @kimflowers8111
    @kimflowers81115 жыл бұрын

    Amen. That was a hallelujah moment Steve. Doctor!! Oh Doctor !!. 😂😂

  • @david4134
    @david41345 жыл бұрын

    That was the most epic Steve Harvey moment towards the end!!!!

  • @nikaf4298
    @nikaf42985 жыл бұрын

    I used to be the same way lol but if you love him enough you will become affectionate for sure! Steve a fool though😂😂😂 my brother probably still got student loans

  • @jenniferhill8776
    @jenniferhill87765 жыл бұрын

    audience sounds like the track to Sunday service.

  • @Thebamnel
    @Thebamnel3 жыл бұрын

    😭🤣😂 can’t stop laughing! Definitely one of my favourite Hey Steves

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial5 жыл бұрын

    She's probably uncomfortable being affectionate right now. But I think she'll learn from Steve's piece of advice.

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio5 жыл бұрын

    That was hilarious 😊😊😉

  • @wavez415
    @wavez4155 жыл бұрын

    He had a momemt 😂

  • @DanA-zf8bt
    @DanA-zf8bt Жыл бұрын

    I don’t blame her. Not everyone is comfortable being physical. It just takes time. Doesn’t matter if he’s a physician or not

  • @SnowFoxParty
    @SnowFoxParty5 жыл бұрын

    Artist + Doctor = You Can Never GO broke lol

  • @Netherwolf6100
    @Netherwolf61005 жыл бұрын

    She gonna lose him. All its gonna take is for one woman to look him in the eyes while he's feeling lonely and tell him that he's the greatest man she's ever known. He'll be out of that female's reach the very next day. But I think its for the best. If she's that distant with a man who loves her, she just need to be by herself. He's a doctor. He'll find another woman in *NO TIME*

  • @suzanpeters4709
    @suzanpeters47095 жыл бұрын

    This couple is just darling! I love Steve's advice and he's so genuine. xo

  • @beautifulty777
    @beautifulty7775 жыл бұрын

    She's not blaming her parents she's acknowledging that there's a mental block bc of not being around affection and when she tries things feel awkward.

  • @jennyeddins7809
    @jennyeddins78095 жыл бұрын

    It’s not in my nature to be affectionate either and any time I initiate it, I feel hella awkward 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @MimiHawk

    @MimiHawk

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @jpat989

    @jpat989

    5 жыл бұрын

    Then you must get with a similar person. To be a naturally affectionate person and being with someone who isn't, is hell. I once had a boyfriend like that. I would call him cold fish. He would only touch me when he was horny. That experience taught me what I needed in man. I crave affection. I kiss and hug up on my children freely. My husband does the same.

  • @gillianwhitelocke9614

    @gillianwhitelocke9614

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good way to learn

  • @ohheyitssoumy5959
    @ohheyitssoumy59595 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE steve and his advice are usually solid but not today. The power of the mind works on everything EXCEPT trauma... you can't heal illnesses from power of positivity... and coming from a broken home is surviving trauma.... people who had a poor image of marriage or saw abusive/toxic marriages from their parents become TRAUMATIZED. I come from a broken home, my father had multiple affairs, we all knew including my mom and she stays thinking it's "for us"... they never curse or hit but they bicker A LOT,,, there's NEVER affection or romance between them it's like a boring routine room-mate relationship.... my parents never told us they loved us or owned up when they did something wrong and because of that we all had issues apologizing after messing up or saying "i love you"... till this day i can't say i love you but i'll show it in actions... it's not going to be fixed from "positivity"...i had to swallow my pride to apologize after mistakes so i don't lose people i care about and taught my damn self to express my feelings more but it's still hard. please understand in cases of kids with broken families it's not gonna be fixed this easily and this is a poor advice.

  • @ohheyitssoumy5959

    @ohheyitssoumy5959

    5 жыл бұрын

    An actual helpful advice for this woman is: 1)baby steps... try one affectionate comment/gesture a day and it will eventually become a habit it may take time but it'll get more comfortable for you 2)if you're not already try talking to a professional about how your parents' marriage made/makes you feel bc it's the source of the problem and still affecting your current relationship(s) 3) don't compare yourself to your partner or other people who had different experiences bc that makes it worse... understand that you're different people with possible different love languages and it can still work but you'll BOTH need to understand and speak the other person's love language... 4) her partner needs to only be more supportive of her trying and understand she had a traumatic experience as a kid with poor example of a relationship so it's not as easy for her and if he cares for her he needs to be supportive of that 5)keep a journal on you and write down how you feel if it's hard to vocalize it just start with getting it out of your system through letters/diary then slowly start with talking in front of a mirror then to someone (your spouse)

  • @hawaiianrussian1047

    @hawaiianrussian1047

    5 жыл бұрын

    True but let’s be honest...your only seeing it from a woman’s side just because Steve took the guys side on this one...😂😂😂 for example...what if a guy wasn’t showing his woman affection because of “traumatic experiences” EVERY GIRL WOULD SAY “LEAVE HIS ASS!!!” And you wouldn’t think twice to hear him out on his “traumatic experience “ of why he’s not showing his wife/girlfriend affection lol but as soon as the roles are reversed and Steve takes the guys side “ STEVE YOUR WRONG YOU SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING SHE HAD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES!! 🙄😂😂😂😂

  • @ohheyitssoumy5959

    @ohheyitssoumy5959

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hawaiianrussian1047 no that's not true at all, anyone who thinks this way doesn't understand what its like coming from a broken home or isn't mature enough to be supportive regardless of. like i said,i come from a broken home and it made me fearful of relationships/marriage... i don't want kids bc i don\t want to end up like my folks. the last guy i dated had the exact same experiences, same issues with family and he was also broken bc of it but it made me like him even more, that he gets it... we talked about personal things we wouldn't usually share and it bonded us further. if your partner knows your past and uses it against you or doesn't at least TRY to be understanding and supportive then they're not the one for you.

  • @christianone6611

    @christianone6611

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ohheyitssoumy5959 I get what you're saying and the advice you gave is great advice for the abused. The problem is that for someone who came from a healthy affectionate happy home...they can demonstrate what healthy looks and feels like. They can be patient to an extent... But if you can't jump on board the happy healthy train while it has pulled into your station...it WILL eventually go away cuz healthy people don't want to turn into dysfuctional people by staying with unhealthy people that won't change. Yes, it's scary... But ya ain't gonna die from a hug, or love. You survived hell on earth but the real test is can you leave it behind and enjoy heaven when it is offered. I dated 2 dudes from unhealthy childhoods that were marriage material but couldn't let go of their old mindsets to embrace happy change. My parents were happily married and madly in love for 65 years. I totally knew the ropes of how to have a healthy dynamic but whenever the bf would start to veer us toward hell, I would redirect toward a heavenly type of approach and they would not listen or change. They tried yelling and screaming insults instead of trying the calm, kind, positive communication that I was demonstrating. So I had to cut 'em each loose even though I cared...or we BOTH would have been living in hell and not just one of us. Point: Change the mind as Steve says and jump on healthy mindsets and people when they come...or they will soon be gone.

  • @Querin_TAO
    @Querin_TAO5 жыл бұрын

    🤣😂🤣😂 I'm convinced something is wrong with Steve!!! I'm over here crying!!!😭🤣😭😂

  • @lydiakitara3125
    @lydiakitara31255 жыл бұрын

    Oh Steve hahahah , too funny...if u open a church, am flying all the way from the UK to attend

  • @drivenbythechills
    @drivenbythechills5 жыл бұрын

    Steve's so hilarious man, i'm addicted of watching his show here! Keep on going Steve, you the man for real =)

  • @A_Notes
    @A_Notes5 жыл бұрын

    @4:04 where the organ player steve harvey done turned into revereand harvey

  • @sarahjackson1897
    @sarahjackson18975 жыл бұрын

    Some people tend to think you're being weak when you show affection and others grew up in families where they were not shown displays of affection like hugs, kisses, and affirmations. It's completely foreign to them. Whatever the case may be counseling can help and allowing yourself to be loved by someone who is patient and loving enough to show you helps too. Usually women tend to put up with not receiving the affection back that they give so it's interesting to see a man going through this. l'm really impressed with brotha man and l am happy for her. He seems like he really loves her and is willing to work through this. A man has to really love you in order to be patient like this. Looks like you got a keeper girl! l pray everything works out for them.

  • @Ebn_Makkah
    @Ebn_Makkah5 жыл бұрын

    First time am actually proud to be a doctor

  • @yane499
    @yane4995 жыл бұрын

    Plot twist Steve : Are you crazy about this women ? Guy : mmm not really.

  • @SnowFoxParty

    @SnowFoxParty

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmaoooo

  • @JazZyFr3sH021

    @JazZyFr3sH021

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤣🙈

  • @mrembo254
    @mrembo2545 жыл бұрын

    Uncle Steeeeeeve!😂😂😂😂 We went to church on this one! Secure the doctor!🤣🤣🤣

  • @BettingOnBeccaTV
    @BettingOnBeccaTV5 жыл бұрын

    He was like let me give one word answers so I don’t say anything wrong

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess5 жыл бұрын

    "Let's Change What We Put Out Into The Universe.."

  • @patriciagurwitz509
    @patriciagurwitz5092 жыл бұрын

    Too funny!! Hysterical like always. Steve Harvey is in a class all of his own👍🏼💓🎩

  • @ladyqcreativedesigns4928
    @ladyqcreativedesigns49285 жыл бұрын

    Either she's not attracted to him, or she doesn't like to be touched. It sounds weird but I actually have an acquaintance who told me that she would cringe at the thought of being rubbed or caressed. She loves her husband very much. I'm a massage therapist, regardless of it many benefits, there are people who hate to be massaged as well. Its unfortunate.

  • @ladyqcreativedesigns4928

    @ladyqcreativedesigns4928

    5 жыл бұрын

    @herkeda I dont know, but anything is possible. Whatever it is, it's not normal. 🤷‍♀️ Her husband is not very understanding of her loss for affection. I hope they seek counseling or something.

  • @ladyqcreativedesigns4928

    @ladyqcreativedesigns4928

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Jeremy Honeycutt Wow 😳🤔

  • @Aritul

    @Aritul

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't know why but I got the feeling that she was not attracted to him.

  • @nickey6631
    @nickey66315 жыл бұрын

    This was just simply the best 🤣😂☺ Steve had to bring the audience back the woman was like hey I gotta hug in kiss for you Dr. Lol the best... let the church say Amen!!!!!!!

  • @allanajackson38
    @allanajackson385 жыл бұрын

    I know where she is coming from. My childhood was without bugs and kisses for my mother. I grew up in a single-family home so I did not know what a relationship looked like. Forever when I became an adult and had my own children I chose to break that cycle by hugging them and letting them know that I love them daily. This can be done. It does feel awkward though.

  • @charntew2247
    @charntew22475 жыл бұрын

    Steve, you are "stupidly funny" and ironically that's intelligent! :-))

  • @BettingOnBeccaTV
    @BettingOnBeccaTV5 жыл бұрын

    Steve is over here preaching to women all across America with this one 😂😂

  • @tokunbohodubanjo5301
    @tokunbohodubanjo53017 күн бұрын

    “He happy with you!” I love how Steve just loves to speak his gangster English as a tribute to his roots.😂

  • @MoonBeamsChild
    @MoonBeamsChild5 жыл бұрын

    Steve got me in tears. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mzdedeo
    @Mzdedeo5 жыл бұрын

    At 2:35 it sounds like someone called her stupid and Doc immediately turned around like he was ready to defend his boo! Girl you better hug 🤗 and kiss 😘 that man! Use the app called “love nudge”! It’s actually very helpful for couples especially those with this problem!

  • @factnofiction1142

    @factnofiction1142

    5 жыл бұрын

    I said it but I don't think they heard me from the TV screen.

  • @godswillfavorblessed7926
    @godswillfavorblessed79265 жыл бұрын

    Yes yes she will get it soon enough. I hope! She's just so independent that she can only see her forrest before the trees. He has to present to her that he can help make it more greener. That's what it takes for a woman who has been the Ranger over her Forrest.

  • @kathleenauguste831
    @kathleenauguste8315 жыл бұрын

    Who knows maybe that’s why he so crazy about her...cuz she’s not over praising him, or not too crazy about him... once the woman gets crazy about the man, he starts acting up... a whole lot of us showed plenty of affection and the man still left. Clearly, he loves her for her.

  • @esterf7064
    @esterf70645 жыл бұрын

    Steve took us to church! Lmao 😂

  • @jsmum196
    @jsmum1965 жыл бұрын

    When he first put his arm around her and she patted his chest. When she said, "That's why I'm tryin to be affectionate!" after he said he's a doctor. This girl ain't into this man! He needs to find a woman who actually loves him for him! Gold diggers are gonna be all around him!

  • @andrewmarchbankd321

    @andrewmarchbankd321

    5 жыл бұрын

    You hit the nail right on the head my friend!!!! If you love him or her, you're going to be affectionate point blank. The doctor obviously loves and cares for, but she's not showing it back in return. I say this, I'm moving on and goodbye lol! There's a thing called appreciation here and she's not showing it. This is exactly why SOME black men choose to date white women. I'm not saying that all my black sista's are like this at all, but some just don't realize it when they've been blessed with a man who is hard working, has a great reputation, good qualities, educated, handsome, comes from a great family, loves God, and has morals and values. Like I stated before, she's elsewhere doc! She doesn't even realize that she has a Boaz right before here eyes for God sakes! Maybe if she ran upon a bozo that's not about anything, It'll probably change her tune??? I would've dipped along time ago man lol! A man wants his woman to be affectionate period!

  • @lauriemtz8616

    @lauriemtz8616

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hawaii and another person assuming she’s a gold digger. And that she’s not into him. Damn🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Crystallightreikihealing
    @Crystallightreikihealing5 жыл бұрын

    Sister better get it together and learn how to be affectionate Steve I'm available lol

  • @rudonikki8489
    @rudonikki84895 жыл бұрын

    i lost it, when Steve started preaching!!!!

  • @blessedndhlovu1023
    @blessedndhlovu10235 жыл бұрын

    Best 2 minute service I've ever been to! #secureTheDoctor

  • @healingypsy
    @healingypsy4 жыл бұрын

    I don't think I've smiled so wide in my life till my cheeks hurt.

  • @kayelatty1244
    @kayelatty12445 жыл бұрын

    dam this doctor is fine. becarefull before you loose him.

  • @trisha9697
    @trisha96975 жыл бұрын

    We should also be thankful that the doctor likes black women

  • @danielposey5331
    @danielposey53315 жыл бұрын

    I ain't gonna be in no relationship where there is no affection!!

  • @jsmum196
    @jsmum1965 жыл бұрын

    Steve!!! You're the best!

  • @triniboy853
    @triniboy8535 жыл бұрын

    I feel sorry for that doctor it’s obvious she’s not attracted to him but is attracted to his profession and the stability it offers. SMH 🤦🏾‍♂️ poor dude.

  • @justinmitchell8343
    @justinmitchell83435 жыл бұрын

    They actually look good together.

  • @RDCFemmes
    @RDCFemmes5 жыл бұрын

    When he said absolutely, i had tears in my eyes.

  • @thandiweluluphiri5
    @thandiweluluphiri55 жыл бұрын

    You already asking the question means you are already affectionate my beautiful sister.

  • @ninaluscious
    @ninaluscious5 жыл бұрын

    If Steve open a church I'll go

  • @virgilgeorge6579

    @virgilgeorge6579

    5 жыл бұрын

    Steve knows a lot about church. His mother was a Sunday School teacher for 30+ years before she passed away.

  • @dollarroll2000
    @dollarroll20002 жыл бұрын

    Society treat doctors like they are all great people.

  • @teachertransformed2813
    @teachertransformed2813 Жыл бұрын

    It’s the “won’t you come” for me🤣🤣🤣

  • @ruthchitakunye2943
    @ruthchitakunye29435 жыл бұрын

    Let the church say amen😂😂

  • @RoyalMasterpiece

    @RoyalMasterpiece

    5 жыл бұрын

    AMEN

  • @theprincessaviela5475

    @theprincessaviela5475

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @BlaqueRose23
    @BlaqueRose235 жыл бұрын

    I get the changing of the mind idea, but please believe what we see and don't see growing up plays a GINORMOUS role in the way we behave as adults. Let's not get it twisted.

  • @crg6146

    @crg6146

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @shaniquamcneil7759
    @shaniquamcneil77594 жыл бұрын

    Mayne I love Steve 🤣🤣🤣❤️

  • @TT-th1gb
    @TT-th1gb3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao steve is not only a hilarious bond builder for could be couples & actual couples but he's also a wise man that has grown logically & spiritually 🙏🏼

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