Dr. Gabor Mat'e was my older brothers DR. for many years in the Down Town East Side here in Vancouver, He managed to calm the beast inside my brother. Graham adored Dr. Mate and he showed my brother love and respect. My brother always asked me if I wanted to meet him Graham's inner life improved just knowing someone cared.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome. Thanks for sharing Merry. Sending you and your brother lots of love. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

@merry-lynnallison3002

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the 'LOVE' My brother Graham died from Liver Cancer in a hospital here in Vancouver where he was treated as though he wasn't even a person. I sat with my brother after he removed his breathing tube. After a few seconds he was gone I sat with him for an hr.after he died and no one even came into the room to mark the time of his death. No wonder he took so many drugs. He was treated as though he wasn't even a person right up till his last breath. Anyone considering trying drugs needs to come to Vancouver get on the Hastings street bus and see where doing drugs will lead you. Graham suffered in the Down Town East Side for 30 years. If you want to know the face of hatred check out the poor souls trapped in the Down Town East Side of Vancouver where you either become a victim or an abuser. I am so happy my brother has gone from this world. @@Top10Rules

@Pop99920

3 жыл бұрын

Mary. God bless your brother. May his soul now rest in love and peace x

Dealing with pain. I ran from my pain for so long. It is hard to deal with yourself sometimes. But there comes a time that we have to listen to yourself.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

You can overcome your pain soon Tammy. Rooting for you. #Believe ❤😊 - Dondon

Wow. I will watch this again, but the addiction that stands out most for me is that of trying to make myself understood. Definitely a family of origin thing as both my parents have serious personality disorders. They have never admitted their own wounds, so never addressed them. I’ve always had this delusion that if I could just get both sides of a disagreement to understand each other, we could all live in peace. But when I am authentic to myself, I care a lot less about whether I am understood or others are happy with my stance. All we really CAN do is make the best, most true and true to self decisions and let the results take care of themselves. I’m not responsible for results: I’m only responsible for me. When I live in that, I am healthier, happier, and have less pain. I am a work in progress. ❤️

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Wow thanks for sharing this. Love this one: "I’m not responsible for results: I’m only responsible for me. " 💯 #Believe - Dondon

@ursulazahel5074

2 жыл бұрын

That is fantastically said. Thank you

Addiction is always caused by deep rooted pain ! I plan on ending my addiction to wine on Sunday for Life ! Thank you for caring and sharing so much Great knowledge! ❤️🌻🎁🙏

I appreciate that Dr Mate shares his own difficulties related to managing his childhood trauma.I have learned so much from him. Thanks for sharing this video!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped Zdravka. Sending you lots of love. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

An observation: I find the intro music and your manner very jarring/not appropriate for such a deep subject. Perhaps all your other videos are like this but it disconnects from the intent of the video in my view. The goal is healing, not entertainment. It feels like you're trying to sell something. His words are gold, so thank you for summarizing this either way.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry about that Mag. We appreciate sharing your honest feedback about this. Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

@suzeb7005

3 жыл бұрын

Yes i agree, if you still interested, there are proper interviews & talks with Gabor & professional interviewers. Not videos cut & put together. To me Gabor is a Brilliant Man, his research & knowledge on all topics from Trauma & Childhood Development, Stress & Sickness, ADD/ADHD to Addiction & where & why it happens.

@beickus

3 жыл бұрын

exactly, why don't you edit the video and put yourself out

@kcajmortsnnew1488

3 жыл бұрын

@@Top10Rules I came here seeing Mate's name , and damned near exited at the drum circle....too loud , too cute , too much the reason i don't watch t.v. i think it insults the good doctor.. and then , J.P. ! ! !...good lord !

@emh8861

3 жыл бұрын

Blah blah blah

Love you, Gabor!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sweet. Thanks for watching. #Believe ❤😊 - Dondon

He's so engaging! Your in the company of greatness 🙏🏽which l have just acknowledged. Will read his book for more hidden gems💫

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome. Thanks for watching Sandra ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

I've seen all of these clips and more at different times from Gabor, thank you for pooling them into item form, it was interesting : ) .

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it Green eyed cat. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

He’s one of my favorite speaker ..

THANK YOU. This excerpts... jewels! Im am on my way to ... all of the above!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome. Keep going Irena. Let's go! #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

Understand the source of my pain. Thats the thing I have to work on. And I just put a reminder in my google agenda to start working on it. #BELIEVE

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Keep going. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

He is definitely my favorite Hero.👍

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sweet. Thanks for sharing Palma. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Thanks for this great inside! Health is zo much more than the right food. Take away make my error your power

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Tiny. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

You did a great job of all of all of Gabor. He is an expert.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

Is it true that frightened people get angry and angry people make mistakes, hurting themselves and others. I think so most times but my friend said I'm talking about myself. Which I don't think is true for I very rarely become angry. I've got other stuff I work on but anger hasn't really been my dragon to slay. Thank you. P.S. I'm working on these principles as never before. This video has been super helpful. I'm recovering from a hard fall but want to further create my blessed life and live in the wonder of my grateful Self in every way seen and unseen and in a loving reality with goodness for all as well. Take care, be safe, stay well. We got this!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Kathleen, much love ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Excellent selection, man. Thank you and congratulations.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Outstanding points, this is affecting numerous faucets of our globe. #Believe Life, Thanks Evan Carmichael, DR. Gabor Mate , Much needed information.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked Terri. Much appreciated. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

I really like the content, very helpful, but the intro music and tone of voice is distracting and stressful..

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry about that Magda. Thanks for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

One of the few solemn voices in the world...

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sweet. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

If you are skeptical or like what he says, I highly recommend watching the longer videos of him speaking (hour plus ones really get into the science of these things more) and/or read his books. He is a bit short sighted in some areas that he doesn't have knowledge in and how that also effects these issues but what he says is definitely supported by a lot of research that is coming together the last few decades. Overwhelming evidence. Not the only advice and avenue to take into consideration but very much good advice and true.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the suggestion 😊 #Believe - Dondon

It's sad that people are suffering like this. & It very hard, sometimes to find a good counselor. Also to get the person who needs this help, to get it. 🙏🕊️

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

I was very happy and relieved to hear that it is a good idea to actually share my inner child experiences with my parents and that it is okay to leave this home if I need to. My major addiction is trying to understand so that I can fix people/codependency. I find it so very hard because I now know that I’ve been dating my dad. Also, my plan is to tell my dad tomorrow about the sexual abuse that I encountered when I was only 1 years old by a family member priest and the next when I was two years old by my own father, then peeing my pants and watching others laugh at me. The next one was when I was 14 years old and my uncle on my dads side would spy on me when I was getting changed.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry for what happened to you Erica. Sending you lots of love. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

@ericaflynn4379

3 жыл бұрын

Top 10 Rules For Success / Evan Carmichael Thank you, your response is very kind and helpful 🌷

Well explained 🙏🏻

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad to know Brown Yogagirl. Thanks for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Good for you Evan, great video! #believe

Alice Miller, as seminal read... great acknowledgment!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching DL, much appreciated. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Great advice, release it

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Yayyy! #Believe ❤😊 - Dondon

I will never run away from my problems and I will learn to be patient

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Keep going. #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

Im so depressed, i feel like giving up sometimes sadley im dealing w a drug addiction & it alll connects too the trauma in my childhood, i really feel like i dont love myself 😞

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sending you lots of love Brandon. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

@canoslo6126

3 жыл бұрын

Reach out for help. You are NOT alone. Most localities are dealing with people in trauma and addiction because so many people ARE hurting. There ARE resources! Some are free and some do sliding scale. Do not give up on you even if you feel like everyone else has. Your next angel might be right around the corner. And you, yes, I mean YOU, are indeed worth it. You are worth saving. You are worth healing. Believe me. You are worth it all even if it seems dark right now. Watch nature’s example every day: night and darkness always have to make way for day and light. Walk towards light. Step by step, it will get better. ❤️

@mikeking3826

3 жыл бұрын

The only thing that eased my depression naturally, without meds was mag64 it’s called, 64mg magnesium per day, cheap and really helped. Unfortunately still fighting anxiety, but at least I’m not so suicidal, hope this helps.

@omarez6896

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeking3826 depression is/can be related to gallbladder problems... Look/read on it. Take care

@mikeking3826

3 жыл бұрын

@@omarez6896 I have also had acid reflux for decades, I think that is also related to gall bladder issue, I drink a little acv with my meals now, helps a lot. Thank you for your support

During lockdown I set myself the task of learning how to unlock the gateway to the subconscious mind. My reason for this was basically because I had noticed my attachment style

@zoehutchinson8053

3 жыл бұрын

To sum up a long story, thank you Garbour. It’s the first time in my 44 years anyone has come close to understanding my anxiety and addiction issues. And you hit the nail on the head in only a few sentences. I love how you so eloquently pass on a lifetime of knowledge, it’s beautiful. X

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful to you. Much love. 😊❤️ #Believe - Feb

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

😊❤️ #Believe - Feb

Great stuff ! "Addiction begins in pain and ends in pain", and is a secondary battle as an attempt to solve a human life problem. Really great stuff.. and medical training doesn't provide this stuff

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

I didn't know this video was going to be for me.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it resonates. Sending you lots of love #Believe ❤😊 - Dondon

@Herkimerdiamond

3 жыл бұрын

I guess this video is for all humanity

All of them but # 4 ~ mindfulness can be summized as: figure out the root of the issue the pain that causes the addiction, then pull it out.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching Sofia. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

I like Dr Mate quoting Alice Miller, both European Jews (Hungarian and Polish) who escaped holocaust. What treasure their work is.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

My biggest take away was to develop severe hypothyroidism at age 45. What I am going to do about it is to begin a liver/gallbladder detox flush 6 day program tomorrow. I will repeat this monthly until all of my liver stones have passed. Then I will possibly get my full thyroid function back!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

@melanija0427

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Alisa. If you don't mind sharing what exactly you are doing? Can you order that liver gallbladder kit? I have low thyroid too.Thanks

Big takeaways : Be willing to leave the family. The addict is usually sensitive and creative.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

True Self is one of the virtues called Superior Practices in Nichiren Buddhism based on the Shakyamuni's teachings in the Lotus Sutra or in Sanskrit 'SadDhama Pundarika Sutra".

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and for watching 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

Amazing 👏 I been in recovery for 2 years, I lost my marriage for my sex addition, I was so ignorant and helpless until I started therapy and my recovery group.. And this video just give me a bit more knowledge about it

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Happy for you Hugo. Keep going man. #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

In the regrowing up process, how important is acknowledging the age you're at, to the process of overall healing?

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

I'd say it's vital. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

All good and thanks for collecting and summarising some of his work. But really now... Why J. Peterson popped up in this video?🤨

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

Very good 👍

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad that you liked it. Thanks for watching ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

You know with all of these Recovery Cancer stories they never mention that probably Shannon most likely received intense chemotherapy treatment for years. And other intense Medical procedures. But just listening to this guy leaving out all of is giving the impression that Shannon just confronted her family and stood up for herself about the abuse and Presto the cancer is no longer working. Now having said that I do believe that trauma can cause physical illness and that resolving and processing and psychologically healing from that trauma and being free of it can help your body to heal.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Maté is great, but what you make of his teachings -10 easy "rules" to live by is totally beside the point. It's not that easy - and it's not a set of rules. To make it even worse, the audience has to read more beside the point redundant information on the side... I wish Matés teachings were handled more carefully and with more understanding.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching Karin. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

Pretty cool

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

Believe Don't ignore the trauma nice

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Keep going! #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

Anyone know the book he was talking about in point 2?

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

I believe its The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller. Thanks for watching Charlie. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

@charliehobson33

3 жыл бұрын

@@Top10Rules thanks :-)

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Charlie. Much love ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

#Never give up

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Never ever Terri. #Believe ❤😊 - Dondon

Interesting how Gabor at 20 minutes how he talks about Medical school does not teach anything about the source of addiction but only deals with the behaviour of addiction, of which Gabor states is a symptom. Likewise in standard allopathic treatment, Doctors are trained to treat physical symptoms with pharmaceuticals and neglect any investigation into the cause. With this kind of mindset, standard medical practice is doomed to fail in treating addiction.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

There's help if you can find the right counselor.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Yayyy! #Believe 💛😊 - Dondon

Maybe in my diary? And I'm not sure I know my real self

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sending you lots of love CP. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

NOW

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Much love 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

God ,,are we about to actually learn something useful that we can apply ?????

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

Thought inspiring content from Gabor and very well presented, but the intro and comments from from Evan were like a car sales pitch. If I hadn’t known Gabor was worth listening to I’d have turned it off before the intro was over.

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you're feeling inspired! Thanks for watching! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

@TomTom-df9ph

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. The intro was everything that Mate isn’t. He deserves so much more respect. He is the a brilliant man. Who understands so much through his own pain.

Why be so loud !!!!

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry about that Caroline. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

@caroline0566

3 жыл бұрын

@@Top10Rules ,Sorry ,I was not expecting the loud voice at the start ,Scared me

@Top10Rules

3 жыл бұрын

It's fine Caroline. Sending you lots of love ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

@caroline0566

3 жыл бұрын

@@Top10Rules aww You're so lovely ,Thank you for your compassion .Have a great evening, beautiful .