Her Ex Partner Almost Ended Her Life

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Today, join us as Ashley Koester shares her journey of survival and healing. After enduring a series of relationships marked by abuse, manipulation, and violence, Ashley faced a critical moment that left her hospitalized with serious brain injuries. Tune in to hear how she has worked to overcome her past and build a hopeful future.
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  • @TMeyer-ge5pj
    @TMeyer-ge5pjАй бұрын

    This is why society needs to get rid of the idea that you have to be in a relationship. Life isn't a fairy tale

  • @user-ut6kr8rf9y

    @user-ut6kr8rf9y

    Ай бұрын

    AMEN!

  • @ivacvrk5558

    @ivacvrk5558

    Ай бұрын

    With the right man,it is! I'm 14 years with my husband,my soul mate,my everything! He never even raised his voice to me! I get i love you in the morning when we wake up and in the night when we go to sleep,i would gave my life for him and he would do the same for me! My heart breaks when i see real life storys like this one! I hope this woman can find true love and peace!

  • @kellyhuffman5082

    @kellyhuffman5082

    Ай бұрын

    Hey. Ashley, this winterbell56. I just want to say I live you and u miss you on Tic . I love you ❤️

  • @marissa._

    @marissa._

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ivacvrk5558 What was the point of your comment?! Like seriously! 🙄😒 If it doesn't apply to you and you can't **relate**, why respond?! If you haven't been abused, that's great. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. However, like the o.p. said, life ISN'T a fairytale! LITERALLY for the VAST MAJORITY! So therefore, society as a whole needs to STOP indoctrinating and pushing this dangerous, sick and vile narrative that people (*especially women and girls*) "need" to be in a relationship! Its okay to be single and childfree if that's what that person chooses! Singleness is a gift! Its not lonely! So if the story at hand doesn't apply, let it fly!

  • @tranquility9325

    @tranquility9325

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @gracietilert8952
    @gracietilert8952Ай бұрын

    I feel so bad for elderly people Who stay in a lifetime of An abusive relationship.

  • @oliviagraham9958

    @oliviagraham9958

    Ай бұрын

    Why you write it like that

  • @venternicky9599

    @venternicky9599

    Ай бұрын

    The only problem In this world is the humans and their drugs

  • @Gigglypuffx3

    @Gigglypuffx3

    29 күн бұрын

    She's not that old

  • @imanii4u

    @imanii4u

    14 күн бұрын

    I think understand what they’re saying. Older people, especially women, were taught the follow, respect, and honor men. No matter how they are treated. In some religious circles, they told women that abuse was their “trial” and they could never divorce. The devil’s goal is to kill, steal, and destroy. He will use anyone who allows him to achieve his goal. Jesus is the opposite. He loves and cares for all of us.

  • @ElviraMerriweather

    @ElviraMerriweather

    12 күн бұрын

    Gracie, you might be surprised by the number of women who remain in an abusive relationship, even marriage & call it a celebration. Sometimes it thirty, forty, even fifty plus years.😮 Women, feed the nonsense of how they should build a man up.💯😮🙃 What about those bums building you, the women in their lives up? Lyndon Johnson created & signed the bill in the sixties that open a door for women to gradually free themselves. Many women in abuse, would stay because they had no money, that is a key element to being able to leave & survive.💯💯 If she become pregnant, has children, that's another obstacle. Many landlords, (even if she could scrape money together) didn't want children.💯 A woman's hands were tied, so to speak.💯💯😕😕 Those creeps knew that.💯👿👎🏾 However, I don't know a nicer way to say this. Many black females are just as evil as the guys. Straight Up!! It's extremely difficult to feel much sadness, if any for them. The majority of them, tit for that are every bit as evil as many of the guys. I have been treated worse by them, male & female as a whole, than anyone. The evil jealous, insecure females have even topped the guys.💯👿👿👿😕😕🙃🙃🙃 So, my expression is usually whatever, but, I am working on evaluating on an individual basis. It's not easy & will never be easy.💯😮😢😢 Because their evil keeps reappearing!!💯👿

  • @Hephbeu
    @Hephbeu25 күн бұрын

    I’m at a complete loss. Why did she continue to recycle the same men that were ALWAYS abusive and dangerous or get naively involved with men on such short notice? My GOD her poor kids😔. Is this better than being single?

  • @Vixinaful

    @Vixinaful

    6 күн бұрын

    Thats how it works when one doesnt get the right therapy for childhood abuse. Read up on it!

  • @Karlucci7
    @Karlucci7Ай бұрын

    I'm so glad you're still here to tell your story. You will save lives.

  • @DomesticAbuseJourney

    @DomesticAbuseJourney

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for the kind comment!

  • @lusciouslivingtoday
    @lusciouslivingtodayАй бұрын

    Abuse is not just physical and unfortunately when it's done in other ways it's harder to prove. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Noname-ni8qm

    @Noname-ni8qm

    Ай бұрын

    That is it when ends begin. If u hear someone like anal and he is not gay or something weird u know this person is not normal. If is young guy who feel interested just to tey is other thing. Otherwise u accept to be with dirty ps. Same as bdsm . And if someone push u in that is red flag to stop anything with him. For anal rape i dont know even what to comment even. Story getting more scarier

  • @katarzynamariamuszynska2811
    @katarzynamariamuszynska2811Ай бұрын

    She was with so many men and rushing into relationships and almost every guy she been with was abusive

  • @NoNonsense30

    @NoNonsense30

    20 күн бұрын

    She is a massive instigator.!!!

  • @virgoddess3456

    @virgoddess3456

    3 күн бұрын

    Yes, clearly she was not completely blameless. I stayed out of relationships and am alone today because I refused to subject a child to the abuse that I recognized early on just naturally comes with the territory of today’s sexually promiscuous culture. The sexual revolution unfortunately has not worked in women’s favor. We are hardwired for love, but instead we get sexually used and abused over and over. We need to boycott the culture and insist on being respected and loved. It is very hard in one’s younger years when the impulse is so strong to be with someone and have a child, but this is what happens when culture gives in to the dark and irresponsible side of human nature. It’s so hard to find goodness when there is no moral compass anywhere and the only value is feeling good with whatever floats your boat. We are lost.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156Ай бұрын

    The devil is real and uses relationships to destroy us.

  • @theopulentone1650

    @theopulentone1650

    6 күн бұрын

    The devil is not real, men are!

  • @shyreljohnson3271
    @shyreljohnson3271Ай бұрын

    You were in A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP. LIVING AND SLEEPING WITH YOUR ENEMY.

  • @danizay2833

    @danizay2833

    Ай бұрын

    She was a bit selfish and made same mistakes over and over again

  • @Vixinaful

    @Vixinaful

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@danizay2833How the hell is it selfish to leave abusers and try a new guy who seems kind?

  • @elizabethp4064

    @elizabethp4064

    6 күн бұрын

    STOp 😂 victim blaming don't be part of the problem ​@@danizay2833

  • @valerielewis7870
    @valerielewis7870Ай бұрын

    After being in one abusive relationship, I refuse to ever take a chance again. It's not worth it. How did you keep trying for relationships over and over? Be happy being single.

  • @marissa._

    @marissa._

    Ай бұрын

    This. 💯 Wholeheartedly agree. 💯 After hearing and seeing women get abused, including my own mother and MYSELF, I'm glad I've NEVER been (*and never will be*) in a relationship! I remember getting accused of being "jealous" because I didn't "have a man!" First off, in order to be "jealous" of ANYTHING, you first have to possess something that another person wants, needs, is interested in or has a desire for! If you don't have anything that anyone wants, needs, is interested in or has a desire for...how on earth is anybody going to be "jealous" of crap they don't want or need??? 😂 I love being single and childfree! I loved being single and childfree when I was younger and I still love being single and childfree as an adult. No harm, no foul. No added hardship, no added stress, no added suffering, no added struggling. Being single and childfree is bliss. It never fails and you can't ever go wrong with it. 🤷

  • @maureenbennett809

    @maureenbennett809

    Ай бұрын

    Truth 💯

  • @jernisharichard5032

    @jernisharichard5032

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@marissa._Just turn to Christ ❤ that's what really matters.

  • @ContextReallyMatters

    @ContextReallyMatters

    Ай бұрын

    Both are kind of extreme. It's your choice but one bad experience at a restaurant probably wouldn't stop you from eating out. Now if you went to 5 different restaurants and had bad experiences at all of them, I can understand. The person who abused you would probably take joy in knowing they are the cause of you not giving anyone else a chance.

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ContextReallyMattersso true! I fucking hate the comment sections of this videos...I want to cheer everyone that I can and cheer the person in the video but noooo everyone haves to act like edgy teenagers that instead of understand that not every fucking human it's like that noooooo, u agreed with you enjoying being alone, but I don't agree with being a son of a bitch that it's going to let a trauma to defeat them

  • @rachelgilbert708
    @rachelgilbert708Ай бұрын

    I was also punished in that very same way. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @sensimania

    @sensimania

    Ай бұрын

    Abused, not punished. Sorry that happened to you

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    Ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry ❤I hope everything to be alright now

  • @amithebrand5095
    @amithebrand5095Ай бұрын

    After all the abuse, still having kids still longing for a relationship instead of focusing on healing and the kids 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    I have worked very hard on my recovery, you have no idea.

  • @NoNonsense30

    @NoNonsense30

    20 күн бұрын

    @@Ash-ec5iq no we see through your lies. And you should have made sure not to bring children into your bad decisions.!!

  • @ildimed

    @ildimed

    3 күн бұрын

    Don’t judge how people heal. You don’t know her struggle

  • @juliahernandez9572
    @juliahernandez9572Ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. I don’t think people can judge unless you have been through it. Men like this know who to target, sadly they know who is more susceptible to being manipulated. The scary thing is how easily this can become generational, kids are smart they see what we don’t think they will and it’s all they know. I’m praying for your and your children, I’m so sorry 😢

  • @ceceprincess4758
    @ceceprincess4758Ай бұрын

    Nothing is wrong with u. God loves you

  • @dianthis
    @dianthisАй бұрын

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. My situation was very similar. I always thought and sometimes still do think it must’ve been me. I hear what some people here are saying, “Just leave.” I used to say that too. Until you’ve walked in someone’s shoes it’s not as simple as that. Also some, I think are just wired differently? Idk but either way she’s human, I believe she tried her best and I’m happy she’s out of that relationship. I wish her all the best! My heart is with you. ❤

  • @jernisharichard5032

    @jernisharichard5032

    Ай бұрын

    They are called Narcissist. They have no empathy. They play on your kindness. They are oppressed and even possessed by the devil. Use this to turn to Christ. Pastor Kevin la Ewing has videos on this. He is funny and he shows you the real problem. It helped me Alot. May God bless you 🙏🏽.

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    Ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry ❤I hope everything to be alright now, you're such a great and strong person ❤

  • @DomesticAbuseJourney

    @DomesticAbuseJourney

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you! I'm so sorry you endured abuse and I hope you are happy now!

  • @tranquility9325
    @tranquility9325Ай бұрын

    Speed is the weapon of choice for many toxic ppl.

  • @marissa._
    @marissa._Ай бұрын

    (skip to 8:05) Imagine lying 🤥 and saying you "lost touch" of your child when in actuality, you voluntarily gave up your parental rights to your OWN biological child, only to then turn around and ADOPT two kids that AREN'T yours! Like...wtf. 🤦

  • @kevinalleyne361

    @kevinalleyne361

    7 күн бұрын

    Happens quite a bit when men get involved with a new woman who has kids. He then ignores his others.

  • @maddart4445

    @maddart4445

    4 күн бұрын

    He only adopted them for power.

  • @tranquility9325
    @tranquility9325Ай бұрын

    Get a restraining order so that every time he makes contact he can get arrested.

  • @heatherlindquist1899

    @heatherlindquist1899

    Ай бұрын

    Doesn’t happen that way.

  • @Vixinaful

    @Vixinaful

    6 күн бұрын

    Those are difficuot to get.

  • @ildimed

    @ildimed

    3 күн бұрын

    Restraining orders are useless unfortunately

  • @billie44
    @billie44Ай бұрын

    My mother was just like you. I use to help her fight. These guys enjoy abusing these women.

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    Ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry ❤ I hope everything to be alright now

  • @elizabethbarmann5361
    @elizabethbarmann5361Ай бұрын

    Prayers that you will find inner peace and love for yourself and I pray that your daughters don’t follow in your footsteps 🙏😔

  • @truth_hunter
    @truth_hunterАй бұрын

    Ok, so I’ve been in many bad relationships and tolerated things longer than I should have. After my divorce, I decided to work on me. My self-esteem was low and I noticed I always jumped into relationships quickly then think they will change if they love me. So I worked on myself built confidence and reminded myself that I’m a good person and I deserve to be treated well. Next, I thought about what I want and don’t want in a man. I told myself to watch for red flags and not to stay with anyone if I noticed them. Plus, I decided to just talk to guys for awhile before even considering dating them and I wasn’t in a rush to make it a relationship. So if a guy didn’t seem like what I was looking for I’d stop talking to him. It was easy to just stop associating with them because I have good self-esteem and I wasn’t in a relationship it was just talking. I made sure I enjoyed being single and made a life I enjoyed so much that any guy that wanted me would have to be worth me not staying single. Later I met my husband. It just happened we started talking awhile and he was upfront and honest like me. Most guys I’ve talked to or dated were never upfront and they’d try to act like they are so good only to change after 6 months to a jerk. My husband did things for me I never expected from a guy nor did I think those things were something men do anymore. Like open doors for me. We dated awhile then got married. He still opens doors for me and helps me with things. May 24th it will be 2 years of marriage. My point is you have to learn to value yourself and believe you deserve to be treated with respect and love. What you accept/tolerate in a relationship that is what you will continue to receive. You have to respect yourself enough to know when to leave a toxic relationship. But if you know what you’re looking for you don’t even have to be in a relationship to know if a guy is good for you or not. Now, if there are things like flaws and behaviors you don’t like in a man understand that he won’t change after you get married those things you don’t like will get much worse. You must set boundaries and know what you’re willing to tolerate and what you’re not gonna tolerate you know deal breakers. Going from one bad relationship to another is partially your fault because you kept choosing the same kind of men. I know what I’m saying because that was me choosing the wrong guys not seeing my worth and tolerating abuse. If you don’t learn to love yourself you will never know what love is and what being loved is like. Don’t make excuses for a man to be abusive towards you. We all have had hardships it’s no excuse to beat a person and treat them horribly. A partner is like looking for a nice pair of shoes. You must find the right pair of shoes that fits comfortably. You cannot just grab any pair of shoes and expect them to be comfortable. If you pick any pair of shoes then you have to decide whether to keep those shoes that hurt your feet or look for a better pair. You cannot make a person be the right person for you. They are either right or wrong for you.

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722

    Ай бұрын

    That's a great history! It's very weird to see such positivity in this comment sections apparently...

  • @vanessaroper3028

    @vanessaroper3028

    Ай бұрын

    Well said and congratulations

  • @KennethRachel-xi7dv
    @KennethRachel-xi7dvАй бұрын

    He really almost beat you to death. Im so sorry you kept going through that you are better than that!!!!! 💓💓💓💓

  • @kelliwest
    @kelliwest7 күн бұрын

    How tf did Corey agree to a plea deal but then turn around and appeal and get out on bond?!?!? Great justice system we have 🤬🤬🤬

  • @cookdanceandpraythroughit8516
    @cookdanceandpraythroughit8516Ай бұрын

    You are sooo beautiful!!😍Brave‼️‼️ and loved ❤️

  • @aussieoma361
    @aussieoma361Ай бұрын

    For the sake of your children don’t get into a relationship until they’ve left home. Clearly you are not capable of seeing these abusive men for what they are.

  • @Padilla-81

    @Padilla-81

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @vanessaroper3028

    @vanessaroper3028

    Ай бұрын

    Predators can smell either weakness or brokenness. She definitely need to heal before being in a relationship and as you said after the kids are grown-up

  • @shawnamarie84
    @shawnamarie8410 күн бұрын

    I am so sorry this happened to you!I had this happen to me too.

  • @heatherlindquist1899
    @heatherlindquist1899Ай бұрын

    My ex gave me a brain bleed.. and I was married. He never came to the hospital…

  • @lifeisachallenge698
    @lifeisachallenge698Ай бұрын

    I’m happy you still alive today. But you have been tolerated another human do what ever they want to do with your life, what you teach your daughters if you want allowed all this to happened to you. So sad

  • @dianewilliamson4830
    @dianewilliamson483016 күн бұрын

    Your children's well-being ought to be your priority now. Take care of yourself and stop looking toward relationships to create happiness.

  • @Vixinaful
    @Vixinaful6 күн бұрын

    This is how it works when one hasnt been in therapy for a troubled childhood. One violent relationship after another takes place. Been in it for 31 years now, getting help this summer. So she is a classic case, like the rest of us. The comments in here are awful and absolutely lacking in any form of knowledge. Cudos to her for telling! ❤❤❤❤

  • @bem6344
    @bem634414 күн бұрын

    There is nothing wrong with u sweetheart, you just needed to find self love. I hope u found it❤God is with u

  • @GP-dw3hb
    @GP-dw3hb9 күн бұрын

    Why are people not getting private investigators to vet these guys?

  • @Vixinaful

    @Vixinaful

    6 күн бұрын

    Expensive

  • @paulaswyers9348
    @paulaswyers934813 күн бұрын

    I went through similar courts here in Stephenville nl our judicial system is sad and there for the abuser

  • @amybe3
    @amybe3Ай бұрын

    At least for me, everything goes back to growing up when abuse was normalized, and not understand the difference between healthy and unhealthy. And when you go out to the real world, you want to feel “safe” and that only happens in familiar situations. Please be health so that you don't find scum bags again!

  • @5thdimension954
    @5thdimension954Ай бұрын

    We teach people how to treat us. Hit me once it’s your fault, hit me twice it’s mine. I am NOT blaming the “victim” here please don’t go there. ITS NEVER ok to yell, threaten, strike or hit another person. EVER! However, Unfortunately our “victim” mindset culture doesn’t address the internal makings of domestic violence and is too focused on the perpetrators of violence and not the dance behind the couple that dances it. It’s always related to unprocessed childhood trauma on both sides, and lack of connection to one’s inner most being! Always!! I think you helped some people when you discussed how you ignored obvious red flags and justified staying repeatedly in abusive relationships because you wanted the relationship to be a certain way rather than the way it really was! This is HUGE and a repeated pattern of making up a fantasy relationship vs reality. The relationships all got progressively worse over time, never better. The victim gets addicted to the adrenaline rushes that go with constant fight or flight mode and this is not discussed enough in the DV culture. I think you can be a great service to others if you continue to work on your internal split which led you to these kinds of men. I hope you’re not with someone right now either. I really hope you are finally getting to know the real you and are being a little selfish with her and not sharing that with anyone for a while. Keep healing and thank you for sharing your story. You’re stronger than you think you are!

  • @Confessions089

    @Confessions089

    Ай бұрын

    So stalk me once is their fault but stalk me twice is our fault? That doesn't make a lick of sense at all. I'm not victim blaming but I'm going to proceed to victim blame by going into a lengthy explanation of my own personal viewpoints. Viewpoints that are biased and unsympathetic towards victims of abuse.

  • @elizabethp4064
    @elizabethp40646 күн бұрын

    Disgusting for the women in the comments shaming her that it must be her fault bc it happened to her more than once YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. nobody is super happy alone they all want a partner secretly Thank you for sharing your story i can relate to it in so many ways. ❤Jesus found me & while im "happily " single no im not better off alone i want babies and marriage too. I just leave it in His hands now.

  • @KarenGrimes-ru3gc
    @KarenGrimes-ru3gc9 күн бұрын

    Why bring all these men into your children's life 😢

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722Ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry girl❤ you're such an strong and brave woman for keep going❤

  • @Morrocanprincess

    @Morrocanprincess

    Ай бұрын

    Stong and brave? She's sadly very co-dependent! She can't be alone and always has to be with a man. She has to be strong because of her choices. She needs therapy, not a relationship.

  • @DomesticAbuseJourney

    @DomesticAbuseJourney

    Ай бұрын

    I am strong, thank you! I will never let a guy hurt me again!

  • @leanneadams2549
    @leanneadams2549Ай бұрын

    WHY mention if he will reach out ? That stuck me as her wanting him to ! I really hope not !

  • @chartier2525

    @chartier2525

    Ай бұрын

    I was thinking the same thing. She wants him to reach out. What a weird statement. Sometimes ppl never learn until they are no longer alive .

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    I was simply making a point. I do not want to see him or talk to him again.

  • @alisonthomson439
    @alisonthomson439Ай бұрын

    I think it is rather concerning that you also took on the responsibility of being a mother … as you seem to be unable to look after yourself

  • @user-zz2zj3mh9g
    @user-zz2zj3mh9g10 күн бұрын

    Mistake was to jump from one relationship to another

  • @thekurabiye8997
    @thekurabiye8997Ай бұрын

    I don't know what to say. I hope what you said will be a lesson to someone, especially yourself.

  • @sandrajohnstone5813
    @sandrajohnstone581318 күн бұрын

    Feel sorry for the children.

  • @mistysummer3859
    @mistysummer3859Ай бұрын

    I pray for your healing and protection for your children! Also just wanted to know how long ago this was because there is a bruise on the top of her eye lid and small one on the bottom of it!?

  • @DomesticAbuseJourney

    @DomesticAbuseJourney

    Ай бұрын

    It must be the lighting I had no bruises on my face.

  • @irenematt8018
    @irenematt8018Ай бұрын

    why do you want him to reach out again?¿??????

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    I don't ever want to see him or speak to him again!

  • @batninbin9046
    @batninbin904615 күн бұрын

    Tank you for all u saying

  • @CatherineHorn-xo8xv
    @CatherineHorn-xo8xvАй бұрын

    Thank God...U r ere ..after All That..👈🙏🙏🙏..just Love urself ...we absolutely deserve That 🎉....💔❤️🙏

  • @zukosmom3780
    @zukosmom378022 күн бұрын

    Anyone else think she's a fool?

  • @andreahurst6156
    @andreahurst6156Ай бұрын

    You're so brave!! Thank you for your story. A true blessing

  • @princess13sparkles
    @princess13sparklesКүн бұрын

    How dare they reduce his sentence 🤬

  • @hannahm1223
    @hannahm1223Ай бұрын

    I usually have immense empathy for people who share their stories on this channel, but I’m struggling with this one…You’re not responsible for his actions, but you are responsible for giving awful men more opportunities to be awful to you. Boundaries are meaningless unless you enforce them, and by enforce them, I mean LEAVE. I hope you’ve since learned to “love yourself so much that when someone treats you wrong, you recognize it.”

  • @sharonsekhon9475

    @sharonsekhon9475

    Ай бұрын

    These are unfiltered for a reason; not all stories have perfect victims and that is the point.

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    I feel for people who lack the ability to have empathy for other humans. I can't imagine being that cruel.

  • @danizay2833

    @danizay2833

    Ай бұрын

    She was too selfish and made same mistakes over n over again and to get pregnant everytime. It’s like she was willing to sacrifice just to b married and have a complete family

  • @mamathemeat

    @mamathemeat

    Ай бұрын

    God doesn’t want actors. She could have fluffed up her story to make it sound better but she told us the truth. She’s not perfect and that’s ok at least she’s not an ABUSER

  • @vanessaroper3028

    @vanessaroper3028

    Ай бұрын

    ⁠she needed to heal first before starting a new relationship

  • @batninbin9046
    @batninbin904615 күн бұрын

    A now how you feel a feel sorry for you 😢 From me the women in sweden😌

  • @saffronsolo9668
    @saffronsolo966814 күн бұрын

    If someone hits you just once, leave.

  • @KK-mm8ms
    @KK-mm8msАй бұрын

    I just can't withwomen who pick the same dude over and over. They go against EVERYONE around them. At some point you just let them alone to be miserable. Don't get sucked into their problems

  • @Confessions089

    @Confessions089

    Ай бұрын

    No, why are these men all acting in the same manner is what the question needs to be. There's something obviously wrong with a lot of males. Especially the ones who think that it's appropriate to abuse women in any manner.

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    I just can't with people who lack empathy and are uneducated.

  • @mamathemeat

    @mamathemeat

    Ай бұрын

    I’m sure she felt way more stressed and pressed than you do bud… thanks for the shame and rudeness…

  • @jeanniefelix6534

    @jeanniefelix6534

    21 күн бұрын

    There is a lot of bad guys out there, that's why they are alone, they come from dysfunctional families many times, I know cause I've met a few

  • @KK-mm8ms

    @KK-mm8ms

    21 күн бұрын

    @@Ash-ec5iq educate me. Lol. What don't I understand? Give me a break.

  • @jernisharichard5032
    @jernisharichard5032Ай бұрын

    Those are Narcissist's you were with. Turn to Christ and heal. So sorry you experienced all of this. I know how it can be. Keep your head up. God is our REDEEMER 🎉. Pastor Kevin la Ewing has videos on this. It helped me. ❤ May God bless you 🙏🏽

  • @jernisharichard5032

    @jernisharichard5032

    Ай бұрын

    I was in the same thing it's not just DV, it's in a whole nother level these types of people.

  • @towandaward5821
    @towandaward5821Ай бұрын

    🙏

  • @miloteagan4273
    @miloteagan427322 күн бұрын

    Can I ask Where are your children? They need therapy after seeing all this.

  • @dantedevil4962
    @dantedevil49624 күн бұрын

    Look I'm not denying that it was really horrible experience but at what point you thought maybe U should find out why I'm choosing these bad people and maybe not to have children with them sure first time 18 I understand but after that you were not 18 anymore your children paying price work your bad choices

  • @gabbymiles5655
    @gabbymiles5655Ай бұрын

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ddhh3251
    @ddhh3251Ай бұрын

    Ii do not understand men wanting annul sex. The thought of it is so disgusting.Im sorry she went through so much trauma!

  • @ruksyo7904
    @ruksyo7904Ай бұрын

    🤔🤐

  • @shyreljohnson3271
    @shyreljohnson3271Ай бұрын

    Once you see the DARKSIDE of SOMEONE IN PLAIN SIGHT LEAVE IMMEDIATELY WITHIN ANY EXPLANATION. A MAN WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR.OK SO BE SMART.

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    The most dangerous time for a woman is when she leaves, that's what almost cost me my life.

  • @NoNonsense30

    @NoNonsense30

    20 күн бұрын

    @@Ash-ec5iq yet you got into relationship after relationship. And sadly had kids. You subconsciously chose the same man over and over. But continued to jump from relationship to relationship. You even cheated on some.! How can you claim any sort of love when you are the cheater, you are the instigator. You are the one pressing all the buttons to make someone enraged.!! Then you play the victim card.! And you bring children into your circus.! You NEVER put your children first.!!!

  • @cynthiagibson6793
    @cynthiagibson67935 күн бұрын

    And I thought I was dumb

  • @Judy-c3d
    @Judy-c3d3 күн бұрын

    Why is she shaking her head no the whole time? That’s a tell of someone who is lying.

  • @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457
    @beautifullyblessedandnatur745714 күн бұрын

    See being single sounds so much easier even if you may have moments of loneliness. This woman should have been looking for God instead of men

  • @valdezaimee6
    @valdezaimee6Ай бұрын

    ❤️‍🩹

  • @virginiadelarosa1238
    @virginiadelarosa1238Күн бұрын

    I think she had these guys in life because of self hatred.. she probably went through some trauma, she didn't want to hurt herself, so she the man in her life that did..it's like when you hear women say to their friends if something happens to me my husband did it..why, why do they stay with this person???please love yourself, when you see one red flag, be out ✌️

  • @rosario_len
    @rosario_lenАй бұрын

    You need to look internally. Every single relationship was abusive. Why are you attracting monsters. Lightening doesn’t strike twice, but for you it hits every single time.

  • @nessat.v.

    @nessat.v.

    Ай бұрын

    First of all…B@$CH!!. She was young at the time. Yeah on the outside looking in she should’ve paid attention to the red flags after the first experience . HOWEVER, she is not the blame for those pieces of shit that couldn’t control their tempers and hands. Everytime they abused her they CHOSE to. That’s not her fault.

  • @danilaroche1156

    @danilaroche1156

    Ай бұрын

    I agree. Probably unhealed childhood wounds. Be gentle with her.

  • @rosario_len

    @rosario_len

    Ай бұрын

    @danilaroche1156 yes… this breaks my heart. I’m such a girls girl and sometimes my support can come of as blunt. But it she doesn’t heal within she will find another man that that might be worse. It looks like she’s healing from a black eye in this video 💔

  • @vickymoshi6038

    @vickymoshi6038

    Ай бұрын

    Jesus is the answer....should repent and renounce all soul ties...

  • @DomesticAbuseJourney

    @DomesticAbuseJourney

    Ай бұрын

    Maybe we should support victims of abuse. I choose to use my story to inspire others, teach, advocate for justice and most of all I'm here to start a movement. People feel safe in my space, can you say the same about yours?

  • @bambii9620
    @bambii9620Ай бұрын

    💔💔

  • @TheQueen07
    @TheQueen07Ай бұрын

    How long ago was this look like I see a bruise on your face now

  • @rosario_len

    @rosario_len

    Ай бұрын

    Her eye? Yeah I noticed this too

  • @TheQueen07

    @TheQueen07

    Ай бұрын

    @@rosario_len yeah

  • @TheSpiritRoom23

    @TheSpiritRoom23

    Ай бұрын

    Must be another abusive situation she’s secretly in unless that’s a permanent bruise. The stories she’s telling are in her past.

  • @TheQueen07

    @TheQueen07

    Ай бұрын

    @@TheSpiritRoom23 lol I hope not

  • @TheQueen07

    @TheQueen07

    Ай бұрын

    @@TheSpiritRoom23 lol I hope not maybe it’s old

  • @develyamccullough6554
    @develyamccullough6554Ай бұрын

    You seriously need help seek a therapist!!!

  • @priyokabi
    @priyokabi3 күн бұрын

    Sorry to say this, but the problem in her life is she herself! It must have been horrible for the children!

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ23 күн бұрын

    Lady, please accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Don't waste your second chance at life. When you have God's Holy Spirit inside of you, you will discern these people right away and walk in His wisdom to avoid them. God bless. 🙏🏽

  • @michellejalbert-deen1329
    @michellejalbert-deen1329Ай бұрын

    Girl can pick em!

  • @DomesticAbuseJourney

    @DomesticAbuseJourney

    Ай бұрын

    They picked me. Nobody wants this.

  • @DaleneGroenewald-tr9yl
    @DaleneGroenewald-tr9yl3 күн бұрын

    Something is wrong with you!!!!!!

  • @primadonna2819
    @primadonna2819Ай бұрын

    When are women going to wake up to the fact that romantic love doesn't exist?

  • @badgirlhollywood9741

    @badgirlhollywood9741

    Ай бұрын

    What do you define as romantic love?

  • @Confessions089

    @Confessions089

    Ай бұрын

    What's your definition of romantic love?

  • @badgirlhollywood9741

    @badgirlhollywood9741

    Ай бұрын

    @@Confessions089 I suppose it’s something between the way a mom loves a child and having unconditional love I think that men are incapable of unconditional love

  • @jernisharichard5032

    @jernisharichard5032

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@badgirlhollywood9741All men are not the same. Turn to Christ and learn the word of God. It explains everything. The good news. The devil, our sin, all brings our destruction. 😢

  • @TheSpiritRoom23

    @TheSpiritRoom23

    Ай бұрын

    It took me years to finally learn that and since then I’ve been flourishing by myself💙

  • @ojay8961
    @ojay8961Ай бұрын

    Ohh, so she was being a fast azz out here cheating. There usually is a reason, esta la bollitas culpa😂😂

  • @Ash-ec5iq

    @Ash-ec5iq

    Ай бұрын

    There is NEVER an excuse for rape. Your comment is disgusting.

  • @Gigglypuffx3

    @Gigglypuffx3

    29 күн бұрын

    Lmfaooooooo I was like u could atlease hide the cheating part

  • @NoNonsense30
    @NoNonsense3020 күн бұрын

    I feel no sympathy for this woman. She clearly cheated, so don’t whine about anything when you are the CHEATER.! I feel that this woman is the instigator, the fraud, you are not even remotely a victim.!! And playing the suicide card is repulsive. Stop jumping from man to man .

  • @carriesmith9943

    @carriesmith9943

    7 күн бұрын

    Your comment is disgusting! No one deserves abuse! You must be an abuser!

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