I am a childhood abuse survivor by my then stepdad, this song and songs about surving abuse really hits home for me... I listen to hard rock and heavy metal to help release my feelings

I agree, a lot of people think this music is bad for the psyche but it releases anger and helps the victim forgive the victimizer(s) sometimes. Angry music helped me as a teenager exhaust my anger and get along with my peers.

Yes you're right, Chad was abused. He now helps others with his music. It helps me.

@kennethholbrook7090

4 жыл бұрын

I love chad hes my favorite artist he did hellyeah and godsmack.

@willl84

4 жыл бұрын

@@kennethholbrook7090 he did Mudvayne not Godsmack

The damage from severe child abuse doesn’t just go away it just disappears in day to day life. The second you remember or someone asks about your dad everything comes flooding back emotions and all even the fear is so fresh it’s like being there again.

The cycle of violence. This song is me! When I feel that rage build up inside of me. I will go sit in my car and listen to this song. One of the hardest things is breaking that cycle. I recommend taking a second and listening to their song called better Man. This band is one of those bands that gives me strength to make sure that my children never have to go through what I went through. I got a chance to meet Chad at a meet and greet a few years ago. Told him that. He basically said that's why he does it.

@chrispanasuk

4 жыл бұрын

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This song makes me break down every time I hear it.

It hit me in a different way seeing Vinnie, man. (Drummer). Rest In Peace to the hardest hitting drummer ever. Still can’t believe it and it’s been so long now. Such a good/deep song.

It sure sounds like he went thru it..deep lyrics in this song.

"When you forgive you love and when you love God's light shines on you" 🌫⛅🌞 A quote from the movie INTO THE WILD that always stuck with me!

This hits close to home for me and I find it cathartic to belt it out with passion and anger. You can tell when someone has lived through it, and Chad definitely has.

Thanks sir!!!! My father taught me how not to be. Growing up I couldn't wait until I was big enough to fight back but he luckily died when I was 14. When I tell people my life was much better without my father they don't understand it. Great reaction and very insightful !!!!

@MrMyers-oe6xd

2 ай бұрын

Psychological abuse sucks too. I am sorry you had to endure that pain.

On their album Undeniable. They put a live version of this song. Chad says that he wrestled with himself about putting this out. He says this happened to him and he wanted those that went through this. That they are not alone.

Man.. it's so good to see Vinnie beating those drumheads..

I’m glad you finally got to this song. I suggested it over a year ago. When I was going through some harsh times. But I guess you need to be a Patreon to get in.

@Modern-Renaissance-Man

4 жыл бұрын

Not true at all. It was written down and would have eventually been drawn out of the bingo ball and if you've been following me for a year then this should be very clear to you.

The pain was very hard to listen to. I pray that this guy over came.

Mudvayne, Happy is another powerful song about toxic relationships

Chad Gray the lead singer went through abuse with his family, and eventually raised by his grandmother until she passed away in early 2000"s.

This song is so powerful

Hellyeah, Moth is great. It's about self destructive behavior.

Playlist. Love how the dissonant chords at the first part of the song goes with the lyrics. So sorry that thesongwriter had to go through this. Me too baby. Me too. Amazing that you're helping others.

My abusive father died when I was 12, I'm now 51. I will never forgive that human waste of a person, thanks to him I struggle with PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder). There are some days I can not function due to this issue, I can't hold down a regular job, I have been self employed for over a decade now due to this.

First time hearing this. I like it!!

I LOVE THIS SONG. I lived this. I'm grown now- Grandma age... I DID NOT pass this on to the next generations. PLEASE... do HellYeah's: "Better Man"... OH YEAH.

@ladybird1782

4 жыл бұрын

Alcoholin ass is my favorite he'll yeah song

I liked this. I dig the subject matter of the song.

When I actually read the lyrics along with listening to the song it just made more sense and more amazing just understanding it through both.

Five finger death punch, coming down. It has a powerful message that needs to be heard by all.

This song cuts me deep 😢😢😢😢

Philip Anselmo has touched on this topic a few times in very very dark songs. Pantera-25 Years Superjoint Ritual-It Takes No Guts

If you like this song you should try out the song moth by the same band

@willl84

4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love the guitar and bass riffs in Moth.

This is a good band

Music like this makes me so angry, but not because I hate the music. It’s more the context, I suppose. I myself wasn’t really physically abused, but one of my best friends actually lived through a lot, that nobody should have to go through. What’s worse, is that he’s one of the nicest people I’ve ever met, when in most other circumstances, you’d expect people to rage and rail against the world, trying to make others feel the same way he did, to make the world actually SEE him. Instead, he is one of the kindest, most forgiving people in the world that I have EVER met. I can’t tell you guys what he’s been through, because it’s his past, not mine. But yeah, it just goes to show- people have a choice in life as to how they react to situations like that, whether they want to believe it or not. As for me, I didn’t really have much in the way of a ‘nurturing’ environment, aside from my grandpa and my cat. I wasn’t really expected to survive past the age of 15, due to sickness, so my parents and sisters didn’t exactly waste any effort or time really bonding with me. I don’t like it, but I can’t say I don’t understand the logic behind it, either. But yeah, despite my childhood, my friend had it much worse. He has severe ptsd, anxiety, he gets massive night terrors, and many other issues. Luckily he knows that me and our other friends are here for him.

The Everly Brothers track you did , I can’t watch in the UK ?

I would be interested in what you think of the band Architects. They lost their principle songwriter/lead guitarist(and twin brother to the drummer) recently and their most recent album is about coping with losing a piece of ourselves when the people we love die. I would highly recommend the song Royal Beggars. Appreciate you man and have been enjoying your channel.

Loved this. Deep song. You should check him out in the band Mudvayne too. "Do What You Do" by that band would be a good workout song for you.

This is the first time I've heard this. Unfortunately I didn't understand what he was saying until you explained it. I'll go back and listen again. Remember, to err is human, but to forgive is Devine. Note: I just watched again and i got it. It reminds me of a song by Pat Benitar (Hell is for Children) It's about child abuse too. The songs are different sounding and recorded years apart. It's a different take on the same subject. Maybe i officially request the later on Patron next month.

@angerkun

4 жыл бұрын

What's not to understand?

@wandamarie1892

4 жыл бұрын

This song is about abuse from the hands of his father. The singer grew up that way. That is what it is about. And hush cuz it is kept quiet.

@barbaramatthews4735

4 жыл бұрын

@@wandamarie1892 Thanks, i listened a second time and really paid attention to the lyrics. The first time I was listening more to the music than the lyrics and didn't know what he was saying. I get it now. Remember that I said that I had never heard it before. So it took me longer to understand.

@angerkun

4 жыл бұрын

@@barbaramatthews4735 halestorm did a cover of hell is for children. You should check it out

@wandamarie1892

4 жыл бұрын

Lyrics. You pray for quiet, Inside your head the screams won't silence I remember those days The terror past our home, the fear that's in your bones, It just won't go away, no. The strangle holds, the insulting names, The wound up shirt around his fist, the nose to nose beer stinking breath. Thrown down onto the floor, so battered, bruised and sore Choke down on the truth of it, and touch it until you break your neck Hell's where I was born! Hell's where I was raised, This hell is where I'm from and this hell is where I'll stay. The hush is all I need, to hush the misery The hush that belongs to me, like the hush inside of dreams Just be still and pray, and let the noise just fade away. Retain to violence Atop your heart like a secret closet, So no one can penetrate You just can't stand the touch, affection weighs too much, You push everyone away from The reckoning! The bitter stings, Whipped so bad I pissed myself still with a beating stub held belt If this reminds you of home, you better know you're not alone Hold the gun up to my head, I'll pull the trigger on myself! Hell's where I was born! Hell's where I was raised, This hell is where I'm from and this hell is where I'll stay. The hush is all I need, to hush the misery The hush that belongs to me, like the hush inside of dreams Just be still and pray These are the memories. In me You didn't want to know! You didn't want to know! These are the memories we keep We don't want to show! We don't want to show! By now you need to know, (You're not alone) Hush is all I need, hush the misery Hush belongs to me, like the hush inside of dreams Hell's where I was born! Hell's where I was raised, This hell is where I'm from and this hell is where I'll stay The hush is all I need, to hush the misery The hush that belongs to me, like the hush inside of dreams Just be still and pray and let the noise just fade away

One I listen to when I'm "like that" that you might want to check out: No Excuses" by Alice in Chains".

Could I send you a I inspirational poem I wrote

What genre is this considered? It was just ok for me & i was hoping that id enjoy more with the sound ... but i kinda didnt.. however it was super heartfelt

@integrity101

4 жыл бұрын

Hard Rock

That's allready what the world was for my Boyfriend because of his Mother Stepfather and Stepmother!!! But he can't forgive.... it was much too much

There's a Christian band called disciple called love and hate that sounds like this

Good song !! I call it Rage music...