Hedonic Adaptation | Why You'll Never Have Enough In Life
What is hedonic adaptation? In this video, we will be looking at the hedonic treadmill and how positive and negative life events eventually lead us all to a happiness baseline (or set point). This video has a ton of life lessons, so I hope you enjoy!
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My baseline happiness has been affected positively by learning about this
@YTIsTakingOverMyLife
Жыл бұрын
I guess mine did too from reading this comment, cause I smiled a lot and blew air out my nose :)
Don’t chase happiness seek contentment 🙂
@flyingchimp12
Жыл бұрын
That’s actually a great point
@NickYates0
Жыл бұрын
I’m not sure exactly how you interpret this but base off I what I think you are saying I’ll give my opinion. In short, I disagree. Contentment is the opposite is the opposite of happiness. While happiness is defined differently by everyone it’s hard to say what “happiness” truly is. I think you come closest to happiness by pursuing meaningful personal goals and becoming “better” than you were yesterday. It’s human nature to chase what you don’t have, build towards what you currently have not, and vision a better future. Seeing progress towards your ideal self/goals gives you a feeling of progress(some would say happiness) and accomplishment which if you continue this path I think your baseline happiness increases but if you don’t pursue a better version of yourself and/or future and are content with who you are today you sacrifice what could be which ultimately leads to regret.
There is a Trick to prolong the Happier state - Conscious Gratitude. Its almost 2 yrs i bought my bike , but it seems quite new , coz many times i spend few seconds in Appreciation and Gratitude b4 starting my ride . And for Unhappy events , knowing about Hedonic Adaptation helps , knowing that howmuch ever these emotions seem Intense and Permanent , return to our Baseline is already Underway.
@rajeshjsl
Ай бұрын
Good way to put the negative ones.
Happiness is fleeting, what I want is peace.
@BRM101
Жыл бұрын
And contentment 🙂
@MetalHeart678
Жыл бұрын
@@BRM101 "contentment is a treasure that is never exhausted"
this is why they say "journey, not the destination" because the emotion at the destination (good or bad) returns us back to baseline. so how we feel with our experiences (appreciating that) is what matter most
i recently found the brazilian phrase tudo passa which translates to everything passes. i live by this because it is a firm reminder that when bad things happen they will eventually pass but also that when great things happen to enjoy them because they don’t last forever.
i agree with thw conclusion: basically, if it won't matter anyways, then don't stress out over the next big thing
That's so truee because money can bring you only momentary happiness which after some limited time it will vanish
There are some things that can raise your baseline. 1. Spending time with loved ones, humans or animals. 2. Progress in anything you choose, hobby, goal etc. 3. Gratitude count your blessings every hour on the hour. 4. Be present and when you can't question your interpretation of what's happening if it's negative replace with positive/grateful interpretation. 5. Be of service to others, find anyone less fortunate than you and help them in some way. These will definitely raise your baseline.
"لكي لا تأسوا علي ما فاتكم و لا تفرحوا بما أتاكم" سورة الحديد آية ٢٣
Happiness is variable, momentary, meaning is forever
@slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447
Жыл бұрын
meaning brings happiness
Some studies show that EXPERIENCES can influence the height and length of those curves more than MATERIAL ITEMS, which cause small quick passing bumps
Baseline of happiness called satisfaction
@dman7106
Жыл бұрын
I cant get no….🎵
@FactsCountdown
9 ай бұрын
No it's called boredom and unsatisfactory nature
I love this, I so simply great video
Great Explanation
Once a lemon always a lemon
This is why "the pursuit of happiness" is foolish
This is a thing that I figured out when I was 13. And that was perhaps 20 years ago or so. Sure, I did not know what to name it back then but it seems like it is the same thing
in other words. if you experience a lot of fluctuations in mental state frequent but minor, sure you will experience more temporary happiness, but i find that the constant negatives utweights the the positives and its almost like your baseline has lowered.
Great 😃 topic
@MindfulThinks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
at some point in life you will start half smiling to the strangers, knowing that their frowning is caused by not knowing what you know
this channel is amazing!
Why try to pursue happiness when you can have JOY.
My baseline of happiness is my dog 😊
Hmm, I find this very frustrating in a way, quite unfair: what can people with a “low baseline” do? Nothing, just accept that they’re more or less depressed / low mood all the time?
@Krod4321
4 ай бұрын
There are some things that can raise your baseline. 1. Spending time with loved ones, humans or animals. 2. Progress in anything you choose, hobby, goal etc. 3. Gratitude count your blessings every hour on the hour. 4. Be present and when you can't question your interpretation of what's happening if it's negative replace with positive/grateful interpretation. 5. Be of service to others, find anyone less fortunate than you and help them in some way. These will definitely raise your baseline.
@Danuxsy
4 ай бұрын
Life is unfair
@Krod4321
4 ай бұрын
@@Danuxsy IT can be, but the good news is you will adapt to the unfairness.
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literally why i quit every single job
Doesn’t seem make much sense to me, there been things that made me feel much better and it lasted months - then it’s just stops working completely - even if I spend years not doing it and then return to it only to find out I don’t enjoy it nearly as much as I once did - and I gave it good several hours
@whateveridc6525
Жыл бұрын
It is because you have to actively escape hedonic treadmill and it fluctuates overtime. Age, experience, circumstances, mindset evolve priorities and gratification overtime. What you perhaps enjoyed at 15 will not be as pleasurable at 60.
i don't know, i have to say that for me yhis adaptive effect isn't really that strong
That’s why I move every 6 months
Giacomo Leopardi
The reason this doesn’t bother me is cause if you drop 1 million dollars on me right now I’m literally gonna live a vastly superior life than if I didn’t have it. EVEN if the time between the happy moments returns to neutral the superior number of happy moments trump the less than I’d have without the millions
@mattdeclas1825
Жыл бұрын
you can find that same happiness without needing something in particular that is holding you back from being happy
@HazzyFcrazy
Жыл бұрын
@@mattdeclas1825 how?
@Wolffanghurricane
Жыл бұрын
@@mattdeclas1825sounds like philosophical nonsense detached from practical reality
Elon musk too
So what do people do when after all their success they're still miserable? Lord it over others who are not as successful
Nothing is eternal
@FinalBoss429
2 жыл бұрын
The hereafter is though
@kingzingo1784
Жыл бұрын
@@FinalBoss429There is none
@Wolffanghurricane
Жыл бұрын
@@kingzingo1784There is 😂 I'll never understand materialists trying to talk philosophically when you believe you're just a meat robot, afterall from a meat robot point of view don't you think humans could just be reprogrammed? Lmao
@Danuxsy
4 ай бұрын
He is right, there is no hereafter and yes we can reprogram homo sapiens, it's known as CRISPR-cas9 @@Wolffanghurricane
But maybe if you keep having good things happen to you, you won't ever have to return to the baseline.
So then I could literally kill someone, go to prison for life, and still be just as happy if I were rich and famous?
@jryce
Жыл бұрын
money is a superficial value, whereas killing someone is a profound destruction of your morality
Thank you 💕 very helpful video. I pray for that; "May ALLAH ALMIGHTY Bestow With HIS ETERNAL BLESSINGS AMEEN SUMAAMEEN." 💐💐💐💐🌿🌿🌿
Humans in a nutshell
Hedonic adaptation: the reason why my dog is never satisfied with just one treat! 🐶🍪