I literally am crying writing this. There’s a brother I was introduced to for marriage, I fell in love with him but qadr of Allah things haven’t gone as i thought. I’m so mad at myself I let my guard down too soon and I know I’ve fallen in love with him, literally my heart aches every single day. I needed to hear this podcast. May Allah reward abundantly my dear sisters. Please make dua that Allah fixes my broken heart.

@fatimaabatcha4925

4 жыл бұрын

Hang in there sis, may Allah ease your affairs. I will keep you in my du'a in shaa Allah. Love:your sister in the deen.

@amala1874

4 жыл бұрын

If it wasn't in your naseeb, have faith that what will come from God will be waaaay better 😊👌 He is Al Kareem!

@asmaaali630

4 жыл бұрын

It's never your fault to fall in love with the person you are getting to married with. As long as it's in halal pattern so, it all right so, take it easy on yourself, my dear sister. And hang in there 💜 btw, I'm in the same situation as you alhamdulillah and yeah, it still aches but take it easy on yourself and don't scold yourself 💜

@suziejms

4 жыл бұрын

It could be that Allah is protecting you from something that you can not even see or imagine currently. Use this pain as an opportunity to deepen your closeness with Him and that it is temporary💗 "و اصبر لحكم ربك فإنك بأعيننا"

@maryamnalumwale4118

4 жыл бұрын

Subhana'Allah my sister @Raya R , may Allah SWT strength you and help you get through it all Ameen, and gain all the blessings it has come with from the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful In Sha Allah. He knows Best! And please sis constantly ask for forgiveness it is the best supplication one can ever make to the Lord of the Worlds.

These women are simply beautiful in mind and heart.

*He is breaking you to heal you.* “From the perfection of Allah’s ihsan is that He allows His slave to taste the bitterness of the break before the sweetness of the mend. He does not break His believing slave, except to mend him. And He does not withhold from him, except to give him. And He does not test him (with hardship), except to cure him.” ~ Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah

@mametollyfall8665

4 жыл бұрын

Mimi 94 beautifully said very profound quote 👌🏽

@mariasaber1117

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, beautiful! He is breaking you to heal you. I love that. Thats excactly how I feel one year later after my breakup.

@hamida9553

4 жыл бұрын

Maria Saber I too agree. We often fail to look at the bigger picture, but there’s always wisdom in His plans. “But they plan, and Allah plans. And Allah is the best of planners.” ~ (8:30)

@iamshahin

3 жыл бұрын

Thats beautiful!!!!!

Everything about this channel is so pure n soothing. It’s like your weekly dose of therapy 🙏🏾💚💚

@bintourassoul5052

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed it is 💕

Hard to find beautiful raw sisters like you guys, who don’t wear makeup, don’t wear the latest fashion, and can talk about topics that people say hush hush about....I just love you guys! Makes us feel human again!

@maryamelsayed379

3 жыл бұрын

yes yes and yes!!

@fatimaz1332

Жыл бұрын

Aaaahh man you said it!!!

Let's take a moment and appreciate the decoration and the interior design. Very calming atmosphere honestly.

So many people came walking around with broken hearts That made me cry

I experienced 2 different heartbreaks close in time to each other. And aliyah's advice of praying to Allah subhannallah worked for me. I suggest choosing a time where you can pray and no one is with you, even if it's just 2 sunnah rukuus. And pour your heart out to Allah, he knows what's in your heart but the fact that you have turned to Him and put your trust that talking to Him is going to help you find a way out, you can finish the prayer content that Allah loves you and will most definitely take care of you. Read the translation/tafseer of surah Duhaa. Beautiful! Also, it's very easy to get frustrated that things aren't coming to you quick enough, we must always remind ourselves that something may seem good but it's bad for us or that something that seems bad may actually be good for us. Allah knows it all at the end of the day, and the events in our lives fit perfectly together like jigsaw puzzle. May Allah bless you sisters. Xxx

This talk was so reassuring 🙏 Many of us watched this episode currently experiencing, or having had experienced, heartbreak. If I may share some useful reoccuring tips I keep coming across: -three main adhkaar you should increase during hardship: istighfaar (astaghfirullah), salah on the Prophet pbuh, dua of Prophet Yunus (la ilaha ila anta subhanaka inni kuntu min al dhaalimeen) -dua, dua, dua, as much as you can, whenever you can -firm belief that after hardship is ease, and Allah has your best interests at heart ❤ May Allah make it easy for us all! Ameen🙏

@harunbinyamin1492

4 жыл бұрын

MaashaAllah .......i really loved your opinion ...i believe it heals 100%

@ramatouliembye7593

4 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah this is perfect!

@faeshanoor4129

4 жыл бұрын

I really need to do this to go through this test shukraaan 🙏🏻😓

@roseofjenna

4 жыл бұрын

I love your explanation. Praise Allah because he has given us the formula to deal with all situations in life. Yes, heartbreak too. We just need to remember them and apply them. I truly believe that Allah heals a broken heart, and whatever the type of heartbreak we are facing, patience is one of Allah’s most powerful formulas we have, although it is difficult, but it is that patient we need to have to let Allah heal our hearts

@dahaliabdulai485

4 жыл бұрын

I deserted God and I was punished a great deal up to date I'm still suffering despite repenting many times all because of oppression by my partner. Pls help in prayer.

The tea just keeps getting hotter and better!🥳🥳🥳😍❤

@HonestTeaTalk

4 жыл бұрын

Oh, we bring it to Season 2, alhamdulillah!

@teabooksandallthingscoffee7570

4 жыл бұрын

Maasha Allah 😄😍

I love how the girl in the middle hitting it right on the spot rather than sugar-coating the issue hypocritically...

I have some knowledge to share regarding heartbreak which i learnt from my own experince: STOP LOOKING FOR HAPPYNESS IN THE EXTERNAL , HAPPYNESS COMES FROM WITHIN. find urself and be happy and compelte all on ur own!! People think happyness comes from another persn or external thigs but IM TELLIG U... U CAN BE HAPPY AND COMPLETE ALL ON UR OWN!! Find ur own goals, find ur self , love urself!!! Then u will never get heartbroken. And u will attract top quality relationships

"People are fearful of entering the space of acknowledging the fact that, this hurts!!"- Sister LaYinka... APT!!❤️❤️

Heartbreak shakes me to wake up and help me see I was worth so much more than I was settling for.

@ceynicade4014

4 жыл бұрын

waw so true well said

@mardiyagardad8304

4 жыл бұрын

Bamba Njie so true!

Walahi this is the thing that I just needed this whole while. It’s like you were speaking directly to me Mash’Allah.

@mardiyagardad8304

4 жыл бұрын

Dembo Batchilly Barakallah.

@habibahdawodu5067

4 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah for that.

Truly love how real Aliyah is. She truly brings the raw truth to the forefront of the conversation. Thank you to all 3 ladies, MashAllah

Mashallah! Thank you sisters ♥️ May Allah grant you Allah Jannah. Ameen. Your voices are soooooooooo needed. Please keep going strong. I love what Aliyah said "Allah loves the broken heart...." and then her explanation. Beautiful points from you all. Also, thank you Layinka for outlining in very clear terms that we're human and that Islam has not come to strip us of emotion. It is totally OKAY to love or to be in love. You all are so brilliant talented educated and grounded in Deen. We need your work to go viral and gain a huge platform throughout the world. insha'Allah it'll definitely happen. :)

@alhaydardaliby312

3 жыл бұрын

You've said it all!

MashaAllah. One of my worst heartbreaks was by someone I considered a best friend. I still remember it till this day. Some heartbreak also comes from family. SubhaanAllah.

You ladies are phenomenal Allahuma barik. I'm not a 'commentor', but I just had to this time. Your videos simply get better and better. This one in particular I thought was amazing. I had to watch it in 3 parts because I kept finding myself in a pool of my own tears. Oh this was so organic, refreshing and REASSURING! Heartbreak is a gruesome thing, but they way you ladies addressed it and broke some of it down......i dont know what to say besides jazakumAllah kheyr and may Allah continue to bless you and bless this channel! Ameen.

Asalamualaykum, you three sisters have shared a topic hardly ever spoken about in our community. I honestly hate when someone is heartbroken and then they are given advice to snap out of it and then told that it’s being ungrateful etc.. or likening their sad and down situation to be ungrateful to what Allah has given them and that they should be patient etc. Not everyone who is butt hurt is ungrateful or doesn’t have patience - it’s a human thing to feel sad, down and like life is finished, but it doesn’t mean they don’t like or love their religion! Jazakillahu Khayr for your show. I pray Allah allows you 3 to benefit even more ameen

@HonestTeaTalk

4 жыл бұрын

Ameen!!

@hyrunnisa997

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Absolutely!! Its not so easy to just say move on and get over it...those are some harsh words for people who just went through a devastating relationship. You need time...you need love. You need acceptance and understanding. We should be saying "I'm here for you when you need me". "I empathize and you can cry as much as you need" let's not belittle peoples feelings by telling them to move on.

Alhamdullilah, You are truly doing honest topics. May Allah give more Patient and Imann to Muslim Brothers and Sisters who are suffering and May Allah guide us to the right path. And I will be very appreciated if you do an episode about Uyghur Muslims from occupied East Turkistan. All The Best.

absolutely loved this episode. your voices are so pure and soothing

I will be here every week my sisters. Keep up the good work.

What a beautiful episode, thank you❤️❤️

This was beautiful. Thank you sisters. I really needed this. ❤

❤️thank you for this discussion.

I thoroughly enjoy your talk, and look forward to watching the next one. Thankyou for sharing.

Thank you to the woman in the middle for not swaying away to the different kinds of heartbreak . You have no idea how much solace you brought me with those words 🥺

Everything about this video is AMAZING - esp the ending.

Thanks for the tea talk

I really enjoy you all watching you get together for these little tea talks😆😍

Very much needed to be heard. Thank you sisters because you spoke the truth that has been suppressed.

Such great content! we all needed Honest Tea Talk and I'm loving the consistency with the quality videos!

Beautiful talk. Thank you sisters for being open and honest. It really was helpful.

Thank you for sharing ladies ❤️. My own experience with heartbreak lead to my journey of self love and self worth.

That is the BEST talk I have ever listened to in my ENTIRE LIFE ♥♥

I love that you guys are having these kinds of conversations, this is stuff that we all need to hear because we all go through things like this! Thank you!

Jazakallaah Khayran for these sisters. Wow Subhanallah 💜

Love u all ...everything u all spoke is so much reality and so much true that happens but never addressed and spoken about...

This was truly amazing. I really needed it and it helped me beyond what you can imagine. Thank you. I cried, I listened, and I even took notes. Please make a part 2.

I feel so safe on your channel, I feel like I can be heard without being judged. Thank you sooo much for these videos.

Ok I just discovered you guys today and I have never been so grateful for procrastination. This is amazing and I think i'm going to have a marathon and possibly procrastinate even more

This is just wow... Thanx 4 this..

Absolutely love it as usual ❤️❤️❤️

Really needed to hear this chat

I am in my 50 years and I am soo benefitting from their sessions. Thank you very much !!

You sisters are ace! Thankyou for addressing and advising. May Allah shower his mercy upon all!

Mach'Allah, how peacefull, and heart balancing it is to hear your words Ladies!! I definetly felt being part of the conversation, truth is that 1/2 hour runs too quick, listening to the three of you!! God Bless you all!!💗💞💗

I am so thankful you guys have done this episode, it’s helped me a lot may allah bless you in ways you can’t imagine

I so enjoy y’all sisters that I don’t want the talk to end. Listening to HTT is the only time I get to put words on how I am really feeling. I can’t thank y’all for that. May Allah forgive us all and guide us all.

Mashallah this episode remember me about the story of Zayneb and her husband رضي الله عنها , the daughter of our beloved prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم .

Well said and jazakillahu khayrun for opening this space to talk abiut the untalkable. So real and from the heart. These series have really helped me thru the difficulties im going thru

Amazing advice! Love this part: "Facing the pain is not going to be easy but it's part of the process".

I have never confessed my emotions to anyone before, because i fear heart break so much. Not only romantic emotions but also friendships , i never told my friends i loved them until i was 19 yo. Im turning 20 this year:')

Omg 😱 this video was released at the right time, I think it speaks to my heart and soul because this is what I needed to hear. I am going through a heartbreak, and what everyone around me keeps saying is that someone better will come to your life. But right now I don’t want to hear that, I want to heal and stop this pain Ya Rabb! The level of pain and hurt I feel right now only Allah knows, and he is the only one that knows what’s best for me and knows why this is happening. I will keep praying Thank you so much, I believe this video was really made for me 🙏🏼 you guys have really spoken well in this episode.

@Sumayyahsikiru

3 жыл бұрын

This is so accurate 😭

@spookyfish6981

2 жыл бұрын

"But right now I don't want to hear that, I want to heal and stop the pain." Absolutely. When in pain you can't see that far beyond the next heartbeat and you just want to make it through the day without every breath hurting.

Masha Allah, may Allah bless you guys for this, I needed it

SubxanAllah! 😭 I think it speaks to my heart what Layinka said about Lost. I lost my daughter and every time when I’m happy without her, I feel like I should’nt feel that way 😢

@Sumayyahsikiru

3 жыл бұрын

May Allah grant you succour ya Ukhti. I pray Allah grants you genuine happiness. Your daughter is in a better bi idhniLlaah. ❤

im crying. this channel gave me light. Alhamdulliah for this channel. i am experiencing the same situation where i am inlove with someone else. i am now taking my space and turning over to Allah to ease my pain. it is hard every day and night to feel so heartbroken and u cant even do anything about it. it makes u crazy, but with dua and prayers,i know that i will be well. Inshaa Allah.

Jazaakumullahu khair, thanks so much sisters uve really spoken out my heart today

May Allah put barakah in the tea talk episodes, ya’ll real and I love real honest women

I find these talks very interesting. You don't know which turn this conversation is gonna take and the volume and diversity condensed in this half an hour video is Mind Blowing. Keep making them. Do not stop.

Beautiful episode. Thank you.

SubhanAllah, it seems like these videos always come out right when you need it. JazakumAllah khier sisters, your work is much needed.

Absolutely Sumayah; why do we have to drag people through the processes that made them heartbroken in the first place? Those issues can be discussed later. Let's recognise our common humanity and heal first. Lessons can be learned later.

@ummismail20

4 жыл бұрын

I love your last two sentences, sis = 100%

@SuperCornTVwithMrsDee

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! This I needed to hear so bad..profound words of wisdom, broken down to where even a baby can understand..

I don't want to tear up. I fell in love with someone during my undergraduate Studies for 3 years and my dad rejected him when we decided to get married. I can't say everything but the pain and bitterness led me to depression.

@aisharicci6400

4 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry and am sending you hugs and may Allah swt make it easier for you.

@raxmacail

4 жыл бұрын

I can't imagine sister I am so sorry

@amaldahir3746

4 жыл бұрын

May Allah heal your heart and bring happiness to your life again 💕

@y_4683

4 жыл бұрын

May Allah make things easy for you. Keep making dua because no one can ever close a door that is meant to be opened for you. Know that Allah is most wise. He will give you what you need and is better for you in the perfect time InshaAllah. Don’t lose hope. You have the best of planners planning your life for you. Sometimes we think we know what is best for us but we really don’t. Sister you’re not alone. I pray that Allah gives you the patience you need. Ameen.

@asmaidris

4 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah, people still do this? May Allah make it easy, I know harder said then done.

Can’t describe how much I needed this

This is so real...thank you sisters for making this video. May Allah reward you all.

Gives me Energy ,thank you soooo much

mashallah, we needed these kinda conversation in the Muslim community. We shouldn't feel ashamed for talking about our emotions, we are humans too it ok to express how your feeling👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Love that you always keep it raw and real! May Allah bless you abundantly for the amazing work you're doing. Ameen Ya Rab. Much ❤❤❤

JazakunnaAllahu Khayran Sister.

Jazakumullahu Khayran for yet another honest and accurate discussion. You guys are doing a great job Masha Allah, may Allah bless you. Heartache is undeniably a painful process but discussing it the way you sisters did is helping me to cope with mine and to also realise that heartache is normal and acceptable so thank you once again :)

Masha'Allah another amazing video! I think another type of heartbreak that we don't often talk about is the one we experience when we've done something wrong in a relationship, especially if this results in the end of said relationship. A few key lessons I've learned from this kind of experience is that: 1. Allah swt is the most forgiving, even when we feel unworthy of forgiveness, and we should never place limitations on His capacity to forgive. 2. Forgiving ourselves and receiving forgiveness from the person we've wronged are two completely different things. We aren't owed forgiveness but that doesn't mean we can't make peace with ourselves. 3. We can't change the past but we can learn from our mistakes and use those hard earned lessons to better ourselves. 4. We're all a work in progress. Our mistakes don't define us but the way we choose to deal with them do. 5. Make dua for the person who you lost! They may never be a part of your life again but that doesn't mean you can't actively pray for their happiness and well-being. This is especially helpful if you're dealing with a lot of guilt. Plus the angels will make dua for you when you do this so it's a win-win situation! Jazakallah kayr you lovely ladies for making these videos. Please keep them coming! May Allah swt reward your efforts ❤️

@Sumayyahsikiru

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing!

Ma sha Allah sisters you got me in tears! The talk is real and warm it made me feel understood ,when i myself couldn’t understand somethings . jazakom Allah kollo khair ! ❤️💐

Listening to the"Heartbreak" Issues enlighten my heartbroken heart. Thamks for sharing I needed to hear this. Jazakallahu khair hababti ukhtyies of Honest Tea Talk may Allah subhana wa ra ala grant you true success in the Akhirah. Amin

As a mother that truly requires loving your children unconditionally which means I have dig deep through the judgment from the community, shame that you feel, guilt for feeling that way and truthfully know that your child is enough with all their changes, challenges and getting up after they fall.

I love you sisters for all your work you put in such beautifully honest videos! ❤👍🏼

Asc sister thank you 🙏 so much for this episode I really need this to heart it for my broken heart 💔 now I know how to heal it last three months I was telling people I need space and subhanalaa Muslim people don’t understand giving the person space again thanks you guys for explaining such good way. Sister from Canada 🇨🇦

I appreciate this video so much. I am so happy and whole 💖

Where was this when I needed it??!!!

This is free therapy. Jazakallah!

Honest Tea Talk always awesome Jazak Allah khair

May Allah protect us from going any more heartbreaks or breaking someones heart.

@amala1874

4 жыл бұрын

Ameen!

And jazzakallah Kheyr for the Honest Tea talk sisters really changing the society seeing your videos really make me happy for that may Allah make us those who benefit from it

Thank you so much for this episode. I am happy that you people are reaching out to so many broken hearts nd helping them with your knowledge. Alhamdulillah.

You know sunhannullah these topics you have done are wow so needed and so beneficial and these videos are getting eatched everyday by new people and continuing to benefit people. Iam so grateful for each one of you and what you bring to the honest tea talk table. Amazing ladies Iam a young women myself going through many of the things you have disscussed and because you have shared your expirences you will and have made it easier for many muslims to get through these times jazakallahukhair and may allah grant all 3 of you and me and the beliving men and women jannah al firdous ameen. Thhank you, proud of you guys and honeatly have been a role model for me in some very difficult but made easy alhamdullilah situations

Naima!!! I cant wait for the next episode

Actually i have never known about the existence of this channel 👍. very educative indeed may Allah reward you all

Oh my God I am crying like a waterfall . this is really touching and every word They said really resonated with me. it’s hard to get over a heartbreak you feel betrayed, lose, grief, anger, frustration like all those emotions and trying to be patient at the same time it’s really hard but with every hardship there comes is ease that’s the promise of Allah. And for those who show beautiful patients there is great reward and remedy. beautiful patients is also not just being passive but trying to process and heal and learn. Love the ladies. Keep up the good work. May Allah bless you all

Love you all! The depth in you sisters is mind-blowing which tells me you have been there and dealt with what you are talking about. It is not superficial knowledge, it's experiential. Alhumdulillah for all of you

I love.... these talks. I’ve missed really healthy. Not trashy, immoral talks! I’m so happy I came across your channel!

Ma shaa Allah, well needed talks Baraka Allah fikom sisters

Subhana'Allah! Wow this is just what the ummah need, these kind of role talks. Beautiful discussion my beloved sisters jazaka'Allah khairan for sharing me and everyone else to go back to the drawing board, and to understand that whatever it is am facing or going through is not a mistake but it's there to teach me and make me a better person by the Will of Allah azaawajal. Shukran my sisters and may Allah SWT continue to guide you, grant you all goodness in this life and the next Aameen. And help us all to be steadfast, and have a better understanding of the signs of the Almighty Allah Ameen Ya Rabb.

This episode just did it for me 👌 and I can’t wait for the third episode inshaAllah 🥰

Can’t wait🎉

sisters you have answered to my pain. I'll always use this sentences to help me move forward. bless you all. Ameen

Ya Allah, needed this so much Thank you, sincerely ❤️ alhamdulilah for this channel and these beautiful women. May Allah bless you

Jzk sisters, very potent topic especially giving hope and courage to those experiencing love/lust/desire outside of a loveless / depleted marriage.

This video tugged at my heart strings and was exactly what I needed to hear. It was so refreshing to hear muslim women talking about those taboo topics. Jazakallah Khier sisters may Allah reward you abundantly for teaching me that falling in love is a valid emotion. The dua at the end made me cry!

Well addressed Ma shaa Allah 😊🤝🙏🏻