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Healing the inner child in the EMDR Therapy Preparation Phase

Healing the inner child in the EMDR Therapy Preparation Phase is often necessary to help stabilise clients who have an attachment wound with a history of significant child trauma and/or neglect. By doing this, along with other 'parts' work, and various stabilisation techniques, we can help our complex presentation clients remain within the window of tolerance during the desenization phases of EMDR Therapy. Join Dr Michael Paterson OBE, EMDR Europe Accredited Senior Trainer, as he describes how you may help your client heal their hurt inner child.

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  • @AG-ej7wm
    @AG-ej7wm Жыл бұрын

    Your channel is underrated, more people should see it.

  • @ohiotherapist
    @ohiotherapist Жыл бұрын

    Michael, thank you so much for your suggesting these videos to me. I meet with that individual tomorrow and look forward to using this script. 💙

  • @user-wc6qo1hq3w
    @user-wc6qo1hq3w7 ай бұрын

    You made the complex thing so nicely understandable... I thank for my inner child abondment

  • @geoattoronto
    @geoattoronto Жыл бұрын

    You are combing parts work, or Internal Family Systems, with EMDR. The blend action is a new one to me.

  • @janeeheimdal4603
    @janeeheimdal4603 Жыл бұрын

    I am new at providing EMDR therapy and really appreciate your videos! Thank you so very much!

  • @Samtastic5000
    @Samtastic50003 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video. I knew I wanted to do some inner child work with my client, but I wasn't sure where to put it into the process. I also appreciate the guidance as far as what if hugging the little child is too much. Brilliant.

  • @seanacai
    @seanacai3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Michael, thank you for such an interesting and informative piece. It's great to see you again (from one of your past pupils of the EMDR course)

  • @annabellademus9719
    @annabellademus97192 жыл бұрын

    Really good, helps a lot thank you, let's continue GOD BLESS YOU.

  • @lovesings2us
    @lovesings2us2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful! Thank you so much I love especially how the desire and imagination of the child-part plays such a significant role. This opens the way for delight and healing in a magical way that is not always present in the earnest, rightly scientific, healing ways of much of psychology.

  • @jonniemaemiddletonlotte6747
    @jonniemaemiddletonlotte67472 жыл бұрын

    Thanks again. So helpful.

  • @mavibretas
    @mavibretas2 жыл бұрын

    I love it and I can see how this technique will benefit my clients. Thank you for sharing. Im EMDR in training

  • @nahimabella
    @nahimabella2 жыл бұрын

    Thank-you 👩‍👧

  • @user-ks9yi5zx4l
    @user-ks9yi5zx4l3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video

  • @alicejoshua5598
    @alicejoshua55982 жыл бұрын

    It has helped me alot

  • @jimoshea7559

    @jimoshea7559

    2 жыл бұрын

    What if the client cannot see the child? Can the client imagine what the child looks like?

  • @essanders08
    @essanders083 жыл бұрын

    You videos have really been helpful to me. I have a complex client which has an angry part that the client is frightened. We have worked on identifying the usefulness when this part emerged. I would love to see a video regarding the integration of this part or any other information on the angry part with complex clients with high dissociation

  • @MichaelPatersonOBE

    @MichaelPatersonOBE

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'll produce a video about working with an angry part. Hopefully this will be in the near future.

  • @essanders08

    @essanders08

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MichaelPatersonOBE yes!! I so look forward to it 🙂

  • @wendi2819

    @wendi2819

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MichaelPatersonOBE yes. Anger management is something I need. Thanks.

  • @patriciaguerrero2551
    @patriciaguerrero25512 жыл бұрын

    Hello Dr. thanks so much for this great useful video. My son is developing a fear to swallow, and he is 5 years old. How can I help him to overcome this issue?. How can I contact you?

  • @AG-mb7wl
    @AG-mb7wl Жыл бұрын

    ✔️

  • @karianned3211
    @karianned32112 жыл бұрын

    😊

  • @katinamiller5843
    @katinamiller5843 Жыл бұрын

    When you HAVE to be “the parent” at the age of 7… to keep your sibling happy and feeling safe

  • @helenomstreken7577
    @helenomstreken7577 Жыл бұрын

    How can i assure my inner child when i believe im worth shit. Im a loser, i cant protect or comfort this kid, i am that scared kid. It would mean nothing.

  • @MichaelPatersonOBE

    @MichaelPatersonOBE

    Жыл бұрын

    It would be very difficult for you to do this yourself. My video series is designed to inform EMDR Therapists so they can then support clients such as you and guide them through the process. Whilst many people feel they could not personally meet the inner child's needs, a relational resource could be used. Examples of such a resource I've seen are: The mother of a childhood friend, Mrs. Weasley or Hagrid (Harry Potter), Mary Poppins, Marvel characters. The resource is one the client is able to identify with and recognize that it has the necessary qualities to meet the inner child's needs.

  • @helenomstreken7577

    @helenomstreken7577

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MichaelPatersonOBE i really appreciate your response. I wasnt feeling too well when I wrote my original comment and have since started actual emdr therapy, which is confrontational but positive. Thanks again.

  • @BharatSingh-il6jh

    @BharatSingh-il6jh

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@helenomstreken7577 did it help?

  • @GMc-iw2fy
    @GMc-iw2fy4 ай бұрын

    I found this example very distressing. I think I have CPTSD. Deep down, I don't trust anyone. I only really feel at peace and whole with animals, dogs, birds, etc. I would have to have an imaginary dog reassuring my inner child.

  • @katinamiller5843
    @katinamiller5843 Жыл бұрын

    This shit kills me…

  • @futures2247
    @futures2247 Жыл бұрын

    there a near delusional belief in what any therapy can do - and a near total ignorance around the critics of the research literature - i'm sure someday we will see the 'walk on water protocol'