Heal Your Anxious Attachment Style (4-Video Compilation)

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When you need love desperately, it's easy to fill in the gaps and attach to people who turn out NOT to have love to give, and this in turn can activate your CPTSD symptoms. This is one of the ways an "anxious attachment" style can sabotage your trauma healing work. In this four video compiliation, I share some of my most popular videos on anxious attachment, how it manifests, and what to do to overcome its influence your relationships.
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  • @notme2day
    @notme2day2 ай бұрын

    Thank You for posting this. Not only did I listen once through... I listened a second time through as there is so much information to absorb. So much struck a cord within me, that yes, I will listen to this a few times more. We are only the best versions of ourself when we are completely *honest* with ourselves... warts/flaws and all. Thank You for what you do, which is trying to keep many of us on the sane side, with the tools we need to self correct our course. Remember to be kind to yourself, your pets and each other. ❤

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad the video was helpful! Thank you for sharing this :) -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @RoadRunnergarage8570
    @RoadRunnergarage85702 ай бұрын

    I am happy enough just finding people that share my hobbies of model car building and collecting vintage Hot Wheels and Matchbox cars....

  • @scsillay
    @scsillay2 ай бұрын

    its uncanny how you often post something that helps me exactly when i need it XD thank you for all of your hard work and for speaking up and about these kind of things

  • @CrystalClaypool

    @CrystalClaypool

    2 ай бұрын

    she is anointed and graced to do this !

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    2 ай бұрын

    Glad Anna's videos help you! Nika@TeamFairy

  • @babygirlntando
    @babygirlntando16 күн бұрын

    I am so glad I am hearing this in my 20s and I am so positive that this will never be my entire life’s identity. I can’t wait to heal ❤and have better relationships

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    15 күн бұрын

    We're all rooting for you! -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @vmarie44
    @vmarie442 ай бұрын

    Explaining emotional flash backs was incredibly helpful Anna. Reflecting back, this explains a lot. Thank-you for all the effort you put into helping those of us with childhood trauma.

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment! We're glad you are here! Nika@TeamFairy

  • @meagandekkar6377
    @meagandekkar63772 ай бұрын

    I just purchased both of Pete Walker’s books.

  • @Ghanem_1994
    @Ghanem_1994Ай бұрын

    I understand Ashley 100%. I'm 29 yrs old man. Yes I'm handsome and open minded and different. But i had big CPTSD and i'm trapped and always fall in with wrong woman sadly. I'm so alone and work in different city than my hometown so i don't see family or friends. I'm alone with CPTSD, social anxiety and anxious attachment style. But i started now to understand anxious attachment and i'm trying to learn how to move on and be happy and love myself and find love of my life somewhere along the road.

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    Ай бұрын

    You are in the right place. Good luck in your healing journey! Nika@TeamFairy

  • @thetromsky
    @thetromsky10 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Anna. I just finished the first part. That's my situation right now (I'm anxious, he's dismissive). Based on what I learned, when it comes to dismissive person, giving ultimatum is a big no-no. I'd love to hear more of your stories about dismissive avoidant. Because the anxious person, like me, sometimes we don't realize how fast we are to be attached to someone. It's like forcing a flower to bloom before its time.

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching. If you'd like to share your story and ask Anna a question, feel free to write an "Ask the Fairy" letter. You can do it from here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters Nika@TeamFairy

  • @RoadRunnergarage8570
    @RoadRunnergarage85702 ай бұрын

    I just avoid relationships.. problem solved!!

  • @dubliner1303

    @dubliner1303

    Ай бұрын

    YEP

  • @almightybeanchild

    @almightybeanchild

    Ай бұрын

    Best advice

  • @CrystalClaypool
    @CrystalClaypool2 ай бұрын

    Thank you Mrs.Runkle ❤️

  • @cb5284
    @cb52842 ай бұрын

    I resonate with Katie so much. But my guy says he is depressed and I make every thing about me and our relationship. So, I am always stressed because I dont want to pressure him and suppress my emotions.

  • @almightybeanchild

    @almightybeanchild

    Ай бұрын

    Sounds shit

  • @TheLove1Makes
    @TheLove1Makes2 ай бұрын

    Thanks Anna

  • @user-qt6pc9se5d
    @user-qt6pc9se5d2 ай бұрын

    Thanks Ana

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment! -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @lindsaygfeller9153
    @lindsaygfeller91532 ай бұрын

    Where do we ask to address a question? I’m wondering about getting over Limerence with my child’s father. Always obsessing over why I wasn’t good enough and obsessing about the women he is entertaining.

  • @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    @CrappyChildhoodFairy

    2 ай бұрын

    You can write to Anna here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters Unfortunately, Anna isn't able to respond to all the letters she receives on her channel, but we would love to hear from you :) -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @angelirizarry2666
    @angelirizarry26662 ай бұрын

    I was a very sheltered kid who at 20 didn't even know what emotional availability was lol All i knew is that i really loved my ex and was there through thick and thin and.... i was not given the same energy Just a lot of love bombing and a lot of unsafe sex Then they were emotionally unavailable for those things too 7 years 😅 oops

  • @steveguti6452
    @steveguti64522 ай бұрын

    Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for 11 year old Ella in massive car accident did craniotomy surgery draining brain swelling 4 fracures 4 titanium pins from generations 2434 brother Pete Garcia daughter she desperately needs your prayers please pray for her and family God bless you all

  • @tonijohn3606

    @tonijohn3606

    2 ай бұрын

    Praying

  • @leilanirodriguez764

    @leilanirodriguez764

    2 ай бұрын

    In my prayers

  • @RoadRunnergarage8570

    @RoadRunnergarage8570

    2 ай бұрын

    Prayers sent

  • @RoadRunnergarage8570

    @RoadRunnergarage8570

    2 ай бұрын

    Prayers also sent as a Traumatic Brain Injury -( TBI ) survivor.... Praying this young lady can get through the long and hard road to recovery ahead...

  • @BemaSeatAcademy

    @BemaSeatAcademy

    2 ай бұрын

    "Steve Guti" is a for profit bot, not a human. Good prayer requests but don't comment or like

  • @pamelacaballero6111
    @pamelacaballero61112 ай бұрын

    34:00 emotional flashbacks

  • @dubliner1303
    @dubliner1303Ай бұрын

    In hindsight; the shorter time frame is always the worst.

  • @carolynhannaford
    @carolynhannaford2 ай бұрын

    Hmmm….not sure this is exactly CPTSD. This woman’s letter, heartfelt, seems like it’s more than CPTSD issues. Your opening however IS! Always learn something.

  • @steveguti6452
    @steveguti64522 ай бұрын

    Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive wildfires in new Mexico Arizona Colorado Florida California they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all

  • @notme2day

    @notme2day

    2 ай бұрын

    You know what people need even more than prayers?... ACTION. People need donations. Shelter, food, money, even blood donations for those injured ... basic necessities do more for real people and animals than thoughts and prayers.

  • @almightybeanchild
    @almightybeanchildАй бұрын

    Whats with the religious messages bombarding your channel? If you believe in jesus so much go to church to solve your problems. Use your prayers. Don't listen to expertts on KZread.

  • @steveguti6452
    @steveguti64522 ай бұрын

    Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all....

  • @elcuencodelafelicidad

    @elcuencodelafelicidad

    2 ай бұрын

    This is not a channel about that. Please respect the topic of this channel and do not bother others with your religious believes.

  • @notme2day

    @notme2day

    2 ай бұрын

    @elcuencodelafelicidad Agreed, I've yet to see prayer solve anything save a person feeling better about themselves for doing the bare minimum.

  • @AuntyNick.

    @AuntyNick.

    2 ай бұрын

    Oh great... now we have the cult moving in. Please go away, peddling religion is not ok and it's all BS as far as I'm concerned. I'm not tolerant of these lies... ffs !!! I thought this channel was a safe space... !? 😡🤮

  • @aggiepetrofsky5059

    @aggiepetrofsky5059

    2 ай бұрын

    Hi I'm struggling with life. I was hoping to talk about it before I give up. I know this chanel can help. Please help 🙏

  • @user-hx3kd1zn7f

    @user-hx3kd1zn7f

    2 ай бұрын

    Some of the most toxic people can be the most religious, so I agree comments like this don’t belong.

  • @suzannortega6671
    @suzannortega66712 ай бұрын

    Sinful nature is a violation of the creation ordinance. Not to be condemned but not ok .