Which are you? Lots of friends or Lone Wolf? Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction 1:22 Are they really your friend? 4:04 Having many friends 6:57 Being a lone wolf 11:28 Accomplishing your mission 14:07 Which are you?

@geoms6263

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Jordan B Peterson: 'Young men need a gang'

@Denmosocial

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@@geoms6263 big facts

@philipsolzz

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Thanks for this Jack; you couldn’t have posted this at a better time. I’ve been on the self-improvement grind for about a year and a half now and I’ve made significant progress in all areas of my life except for my social life. It was only until very recently that I realised that I don’t really have much of one. Not because I’m socially awkward or anything but more so because I’ve been so focussed on my purpose and therefore I’d consider myself as more of a “lone wolf” at the moment. I decided it was best to distance myself from my old group of friends who aren’t really on the same wavelength as me in terms of self improvement and striving for bigger things. So lately I have been making a conscious effort to seek out more like-minded individuals and hopefully we can provide each other with lots of value. What you said at around 15:08 really resonated with me and is basically the course of action I’ve been taking recently. I think it’s incredibly important to socialise with others, even if they don’t share the same level of ambition as you, to develop and maintain your social skills (as I quite literally forgot how to speak to people for a little while) but still making your goals the priority and not forgetting the bigger picture. I hope you find the time to read this and I just wanted to say that I really appreciate your videos and the advice that you give. Cheers from the UK 🇬🇧

@Denmosocial

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@@philipsolzz Glad to hear bro. Hopefully my other videos resonate with you too. I'll be uploading multiple per week assuming my editors can keep up with my work ethic

@philipsolzz

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@@Denmosocial haha let’s hope they can 😅

Wow, I gotta admit that I'm actually liking this version of Jack Demno, aloot of mature stuff coming out of him keep it up

@Denmosocial

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buddy I'm gonna win you guys over with these haha. Lots of good advice and insights coming

The worst part about gamers is that they are so alone that lets say you end up playing video games with them, even just once, then they instantly expect you ( me in that case ) to play with them/talk to them on the daily ( if you don't, they'll end up spamming you/asking what's going on as if it was a huge deal ), but I don't want to be your friend, I just wanna play video games sometimes. It just pushes me away from wanting to talk/play with any of them really.

@Denmosocial

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yup I can imagine its like that with gamers 100%

@CHARLESAUVET

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Well... i have a group of friends from high school, that i like playing with (nowadays quite a lot actually, compared to high school) But, i've played with people i never met online you know, and i rarely if never ask them if they wanna play. i just don't push my luck cause i don't wanna force them onto it, it's be silly i do do this with my close friends from high school, because i know them personally, and there's expectations to play daily some times

@MrMagoo-rg8er

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@@Denmosocial yeah, cuz all gamers are the same just like all people that are in great shape are dumb? Wait Arnold the body builder is also known to have a high IQ

@Enrikoh

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One of my "friends" did that some time ago, so I told him to stop calling/texting me every single day and he did

@zVampiirePlatypus

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This is not true at all bro you just encountered someone strange.

Lone wolf. Still am. Always will be. Had a bad start to life, in and out of care system... adopted... Distant relationship with adoptive parents. Never felt belonging. All I wanted was my own family and a purpose that I never had. I didnt know myself, where I came from and felt a huge hole in my existence ... So I longed for a family to mould in my own way. Had plenty friends through school but as I hit later teen years I realized I didn't enjoy partying and drinking and couldn't be arsed with fake people. Im pretty shy but as jack says found it easy to make relationships with People with mutual interest. But bit by bit my so called friends slipped away. I met my now wife at college (uk college) we got together, then we went to uni together... Lived together, Grew close, shared the same vision. We wanted to be young parents with our lives ahead of us instead of old ones struggling to keep up... My last remaining friends disappeared until it was just us. Me and my ONLY true friend to this day. My uni education turned out a complete flop, as did hers... so I trained as a site carpenter.. did great landed an apprenticeship at a great firm thought I was set for life. My body did not cope, it broke down i came in the door crawling. Surgeon told me my ankles where fawked and that I was done or id be in a chair. I have degenerative ankles and arthritis. I was broke, my firm kicked me on disability grounds i was on the scrap heap surviving on disability benefits and her wages. It was soul crushing. We then struggled to make ends meet for many a year, my wife was low paid and I was out of work. Then my son came along, I decided to quit all hope of working in the near future and look after him myself to avoid extortionate nursery fees. It was the shock of all shocks to the system, the loneliness, the thanklesness, the tiredness was like no other. I realized men really have to adapt and re learn how to be nurturing, it doesn't come naturally to us. We haven't got mothers instinct. I suddenly realised how so many women felt. I was on the scrap heap with a beautiful child but this child demanded me to be everything when i felt like nothing. Thankfully time passed and I got there and grew into my role and learned to swallow my pride about what I believed all men should be. I was taught a big life lesson in humility. Now I realize my goal is to be the engine and support to those around me but its still incredibly difficult, as a man your rare and out of your comfort zone a stay at home parent the support of friends is zero as they all work and kids arent interesting to them and you need to be incredibly self motivated and mentally robust. I am now a stay at home dad of three beautiful children as my daughter was born early this year. We have achieved greatly as a family through so much adversity. My wife is studying her arse off for us and is due to complete a course to greatly improve our income. We made it, we bought and sold houses using my carpentry skills and are now living modestly on a middle class street near a great village school. We made it but we made it alone and at a cost. There has been so much sacrifice but we have our valuable legacy, our home and our three beautiful children. During my five years at home raising three kids under five I have watched every jack denmo video going ...became an accomplished dad of young children, an accomplished fluid artist and have started learning spanish. I hope as pressure lifts the future will be more relaxing and less stressful but the ground work is there. Whichever way you look at it your experiences shape you. Just be ready for what comes your way. well done if you read all that and thanks haha wish you all happiness in your life and anything can be achieved that is important to you if you set your mind on it and focus.

@Denmosocial

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Epic story brother. This was very useful and im sure itll help a lot of young guys out. Didn't know I had fans that were fathers of many children haha

@dannygallaghermisc7593

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@@Denmosocial nice one jack. Yeah been here for years, im not exactly old only 32. Love the channel keep up the great work your an inspiration to many young men out there!

This is the type of content we need Jack, you're doing a massive service to young men & women everywhere. Great work as always buddy, thought provoking content and you'll make a hell of a film director one day.

@Denmosocial

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cheers mate thanks for the support. Tell your friends too

Working on a project that made me to minimized most of my hangouts and hobbies, but every night going to bed hits different when I get the satisfaction of progress. Also, thanks for your advises, it's motivating and gives me a nice perspective.

@Denmosocial

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Brother you're on the right path. Sometimes you just need to hear it from someone else

Thanks Jack, wouldn't call myself a lone wolf but I definitely don't dedicate the majority of my time on activities and habits that don't get me anywhere. I only give my friends essential time and that has only increased the quality of our time together even if its less of it! This video reminded me of why I am doing this.

@Denmosocial

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atta boy. Seems like you have your head on straight

The difference between friends my circumstances and friends by intention. This winter, I met up with 3 friends and all of us hadn't seen each other for at least 4 years. That was truly a golden moment. And seeing how each of us change was awesome too

liking these new styles of videos your posting a lot jack, lots of value and it's relatable

@Denmosocial

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Glad to hear man. Tell your mates theres more like this coming

Loved seeing your view on this topic! Can relate with the friends for activity part. As you said it doesn't have to be bad but it's important to be aware of it.

@Denmosocial

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glad to hear it resonated with you bro. Yeah its so true.

Jack I always thought your pranks were funny, but these last few videos have resonated a lot with me & my situation & made me rethink some things. This series fawks, thanks brother 💯

@Denmosocial

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Cheers brother glad to hear. Making these is enjoyable for me. But I'm also still doing pranks so you guys will get both now ;)

Last couple of weeks it feels like I am lost and not getting anything done even though I should be motivated and having the time of my life living in a dorm with friends which was something I always looked forward to. However the hype is gone and now I just feel empty chilling, parties and smoking weed every day. This video really helped me put things in perspective. It might be time to focus on my goals, which is to write and film a movie I’ve been wanting to make for a long time. Even if that’s unrealistic or a long shot I need to finally focus on it and actually start and grind for it. Even if it’s just to find out I’ve failed.

@Denmosocial

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Brother I'm with you. Time to start on that journey man. Powerful stuff

Just discovered you such an underrated channel with lots of useful information thank you

thanks king, now it all makes sense. Keep up the content, really really appreciate it helps a ton.

@Denmosocial

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glad to hear buddy. This is just the beginning- lots more helpful stuff coming soon

Really liked this video, liked the part where you said your friends because y’all have the same hobbies/interest outside of that y’all aren’t friends. Really helped my self awareness thanks Jack!

8:50 to 13:00 hit a bit hard. I commented on a previous video about working 100hr weeks on rocketry shit, really appreciated your reply. Great advice on focusing on the long term vision, makes me feel less like an ass when I tell my friends no to a party invite. god speed, jack

@Denmosocial

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damn dude true that does apply! hits me hard too sometimes haha

Keep making your videos man! Thank you for the effort you put into these works!

@Denmosocial

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thanks for the comment bro! Appreciate the support

I love the new style of ur videos keep it up buddy!

@Denmosocial

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glad to hear man! More like this coming every week

keep it up DENMO love your ideas your perspective of life in general

@Denmosocial

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cheers bro glad to hear. Tell your mates too!

I've definitely fallen into the trap of fake socialization. It's easy to say "oh I'm a lone wolf" when the reality is you have no idea how to socialize and you're a total Melvin. That Melvin bit at the start was too accurate.

@Denmosocial

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all good brother we're gonna crush 2023

@kenandrieling5885

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There are lots of people out there that are not worthy of being your friend either

@akshitrajputhere

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@@kenandrieling5885 Not everyone tho

@akshitrajputhere

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I relate to this fake socialisation thing

As you get older, a lot of friends move out, get married and stuff and you get more lonely, that's the harsh reality

@Denmosocial

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it is bro but you can be aware of it and make it work for you

This is definitely one of the most powerful videos that I have ever watched. Thank you

@Denmosocial

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Thanks Vito. Just wait until you see some of the other videos, makes this one look like nothing!

Jack, many factors make up a true man and constantly trying to be the best version of yourself is the true goal, it hasn’t been easy but I can say right now I am at a level that I’m very happy about with the consistent effort of improving and taking the next big step forward, your content truly made me step out of my comfort zone, try new things and strive to be the best possible and capable young man I can be for that I truly want to say thank you, your one of a kind man, keep chasing your goals and we got your back like you’ve always had ours, cheers bro.

@Denmosocial

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glad to hear brother. Thats epic and I am gonna be blasting out a bunch of videos like this to help you continue improving!

@ryanstefan6726

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Happy to hear man, we appreciate the consistency and dedication Keep it up

Enjoying the new content that's being put out. Cheers.

@Denmosocial

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glad to hear man thanks for the support

Literally the most legit youtuber on serious and social skills contexts... I'd like to meet you in person one day Jack, thanks for your great efforts to making such videos

Quality content at its peak, Keep doing this, sure youll get great views

@Denmosocial

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multiple times per week brother

Lol the typos in the captions. But on a serious note. You have just given me an amazing idea. Something I was looking for is software that turns sheet music into Midi files. It's a void that I need and am sure others need too. I'm about to be a lone wolf again lol

@Denmosocial

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haha yeah bro I know my editor is ESL he made a couple typos ;)

Keep up the great work brother!

@Denmosocial

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cheers broski you too

Love you bro keep up the good work jack

@Denmosocial

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cheers homeslice

Keep these videos coming Jack💪🤝

@Denmosocial

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will do mambo. tell all your homies

Yessss jack thanks for the insight

@Denmosocial

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no problem bro. more videos like this en route for you

Am glad , I subbed to this channel

@Denmosocial

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I am glad too. Tell your friends

damn this is so spot on.. never got bored once

@Denmosocial

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glad to hear your enjoying it and staying captivated

I started out as the lone wolf that had friends and social skills. I dont know what happened but now I feel like I dont as much anymore, I have been pretty secluded the last 2-3 yrs. People still invited me to stuff a lot the 1st year and I'd see them every once and awhile then it slowed down and then I moved. I still go to the gym, and Its worked great for me professionally I have a SaaS company I have started not blown up but we have some revenue and low churn, but unless its business meetings or discussion I feel so socially inept. I have been trying to work on it again recently prolly why I have found this channel.

One of the best videos you made 👍

@Denmosocial

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so far... I look forward to making an even better one for you next week. Be sure to tell your homies

i'll definitely pick many friends over alone, but i dont need too many... about 6 close buddies to hang out with and make memories is perfect (i guess it's more than 6 if u count their girlfriends/wives)

I'm definitely a Melvin lol. I need to change that before I get too old, though. I've been wanting to write novels, but it's just hard getting motivated. That stuff you were saying about being too much in a comfort zone is exactly one of my biggest problems. As far as banging hot chicks, you'll eventually find this out when you hit your 30s, but it's not easy. Many of them are married and/or have kids and many of the ones who are single still want that. I have no interest in either one, so that doesn't leave me with a whole lot of options. I'm also ugly, so there's that too.

@Denmosocial

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all good brother. We can improve you

It's like i kinda fall between two bro, yeah I'm that guy that lonelies, but i feel like i should have goals and getting things done.... Living in abusive environment, felt so alone and having trouble to relate to society in general, yet I'm here try to remind me of my personal issues, you were right actually, i have to get rid all those distractions and dopamin drips, because i do feel dead inside this past two years

You told us who you really are!! Great Jack!!

@Denmosocial

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glad you found this useful Fakhr

Honestly a great video. Better than talking 90 % about women all the time

@Denmosocial

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agreed

The part about streamers hits really hard, right now it's probably my second worst addiction after p*rn. It's way worse than video games cause when you're playing at least you are experiencing something cool yourself (even though it's fake), but with streams you're just watching, kinda like a game c*ckold lol. And also the chat on streams is highly addictive. Even when you don't type anything there yourself you still get those dopamine hits and a fake sense of connection, which is pretty fucked up. I have to admit that before this video I was very hesitant on giving up this habit, but right now I should probably do something about it

@Denmosocial

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All good brother. You caught yourself and atleast now you're aware. Now that you know, share it with your friends who also fall into the same vices and help pull them out too

I’m definitely the lone wolf type. But the involuntary kind of lone wolf

Here is a personal experience: I was allways a very sociable person, from my early teens till my 19 years old I was the Guy that had a huge Amount of friends (some of them even said that i should be mayor, cause i knew everyone on my hometown), BUT I had a big dream and all of a sudden I isolated myself Very Very hard for one year and a half, nowadays I'm one step away from reaching my biggest goal, but It is extremelly hard to be Alone and also grind all the time, nowadays I feel rusty as if I have forget How to sociallize and this confussion makes me sad, so I would say to anyone that thinks about going on this path "grind as hard as you can, but don't let this go too far as I did"

Ayy look at my boy jack dropping content left and right

@Denmosocial

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multiple per week brother

@mattfenimore99

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@@Denmosocial pay attention yall this is dedication ^

Good shit bro, alone wolf here not really tho I got my brother on the same page and a friend so got 3 lonely wolves working together the goal is 1 billion dollars in 5 years we see it very possible

@Denmosocial

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thats an epic goal buddy

makes me appreciate my best mate who plays guitar with me. we have plans to move to the city and start a band

@Denmosocial

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brother thats awesome. support your mates like they support you

I realised that I've started to spend time with things that I don't have to use my brain and it's destroying me. This video could be a wake up call to go back to my old productive self that I was maybe a year ago.

@Denmosocial

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atta boy hope its what gets you back on track

You are my favorite KZread ever

@Denmosocial

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thanks bro. You tell your buddies to check out this video too?

Nice animations dood lmfao

Thanks for the video, I found you through psyched substance :) Awesome advice, it spoke to me well

I 100% agree with you jack. I am in this entrepreneurial journey and tbh I just realized I am such a lonewolf cause I have the social skills but didn't wanted to talk to many people or initiate conversations cause that's not helpful for my business until unless I find a person with similar interests as me or someone I could learn from something.

Man I hate the term lone wolf cuz it sounds cringe but denmo's description fits me very well. I don't hang out with friend much anymore, just too busy renovating my rental property, researching stocks or working (overtime). However, I'm very lucky to have a group of boys I always kick back with and always welcome me when I come back. Some of them are lone wolves too, we understand each other and sometimes meet up when we can. My girlfriend gets very annoyed at my antics lmfao

I'm more of a lone wolf and self employed but I'm trying to balance having a social life with my friends on the side, because I've isolated myself in the past and it made me pretty depressed. Loving your new channel and direction in content dude, keep it up.

0:49, that segue is smoottthh

@Denmosocial

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ayyyyyyyyyy

This video will shape everyone who is looking for success in everything he's doing

@Denmosocial

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thats right sir.. here to help

I'm a lone wolf like you and find myself having to distance from most of my old friends since they are no longer on the same wavelength as me. I own my own business and have big plans to be financially independent in 5 years. Where do I meet more like-minded, success-oriented people? Would love to link up with you sometime buddy!

@Denmosocial

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good question brother. I'll do a video on that. For now I suggest joining a gym with a sauna and talking to the other guys in the sauna. and then after that, start talking to them at the gym. And then possibly joining a boxing/mma gym. Those are the easiest pathways to making a tribe.

I thought I was lonely but this video made me realize I am a lone wolf.

You and Hamza should 100% do a collab

@Denmosocial

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hell yeah

Epic videos

@Denmosocial

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cheers mate

There are a lot of people out there that are not worthy of being your friend. I would rather be lonely than be with people that annoy me

7:32 watching other people have fun playing video games is a wierd one IMO lol.

@Denmosocial

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Yeah that one I think its more-so people have low attention spans while simulatenously wanting to feel like there hanging out with friends. Hence seeing movement on screen plus hearing a guy talking

I miss your funny content too denmo...FAWK 😂😂🙏🙏

@Denmosocial

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me too bro. Dw tho... movies/tv shows in 2-5 yrs

you're awesome

@Denmosocial

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so are you Sharaf- cheers

Wow never this early!

@Denmosocial

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every time

This video is a fucking banger and should be turned into a book, just sayin

@Denmosocial

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bro maybe it will one day. Share it with your friends tho and join our discord

I work night shifts and work 12 hour shifts in law enforcement (I’m 18 out of HS) how do I make more friends?😂

@Denmosocial

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just go out and talk to people or join groups, clubs, activities etc when you dont have your work shifts lol

dude I wish if could be in usa i have so much ideas to create and do but im stuck in my country because it needs money to go there ....... I WISH TO BE THERE

@Denmosocial

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I'm in Canada brother!

Oh man I had this playing for some reason through youtube autoplay, although I do watch your vids a bit sometimes, and then I heard this lone wolf thing in the background and sounds like me so much LOL I very frequently debate with myself why I choose not to associate with others who like me, and it's precisely because I think too much of "can this person bring me some growth somehow" - like now I have a months-old new friend I see super frequently because we're both into music and that feels amazing, getting stuff done, and my best friend of years I've not been talking to some time on and off and he lives just down the street, and I feel bad sometimes thinking "I should invite him to stuff..." - but he rarely initiates fun and new things, feels to me for a long time that he just waits on me because "I can provide" - so slowly I stopped inviting him so much, especially as he denied quite a lot given how often I did things and invited him, ending in rarely inviting him to stuff.. this sounds so iffy written but that's basically what I feel somewhat award for you if you reach the end

It's not that the guys you play the game with only care about the game. They like hanging out with people that they don't dislike therefore you still benefit them when you come on the game. The problem is that they don't like you in a personal way, by that I mean that you are basically replaceable and in your absence, any other guy will feel the same to them.

Red pilled denmo

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

based leopoldo

jk bro i watched all your video. good stuff

After you're a loan wolf for long enough people stop calling you.

Something very strange happens to me: I never get invited anywhere, but every weekend as soon as I invite my friends they are super down. I really love my friends and all but at the same time it feels weird that I always need to be the guy who organizes and leads all the get togethers besides the birthday parties. Got any brutal honest advice for me? Love your videos, keep it up 😉

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

when you become the leader everybody makes themselves available. But if nobody leads them they go to their own devices

money...you need money to meet up with anyone...or else you feel like you are a person who doesn't have anything in table...

@Denmosocial

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this is true too muhammad

Straight fact talks

what if your parents are the ones not allowing you to go out (having strict parents) 😭

@Denmosocial

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thats a conversation you gotta have with them brother. maybe its to help you?

❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

koala eh

I want to be a lone wolf like DMX..... “DMX isn't a lone wolf. DMX has the Ruff Ryder crew. You can't stop, drop, and open up shop alone. You need people to help you!” - Seth Rogen (“This is the End)

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

seth rogen was the GOAT

Getting ticktock and replica AI girlfriend advert when watching content such as this. The algorithm is really trying hard to addict me isn't. If algorithms even Work that way.

When you get older your family and yourself is all you need ppl just use you

He's right, y'know.

@Denmosocial

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buddy which one are you?

@MicahPotts

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@@Denmosocial lone wolf. Big things are coming..

This was an eye opening and oddly depressing video

@Denmosocial

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interesting brother. That is essential for change though

@Denmosocial

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interesting channel bro!

@sealontour

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@@Denmosocial Bro, you should come make some worldwide content! Where you trying to link?

🤘🤙🧡

@Denmosocial

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cheers man

WHITE HAMZA

@Denmosocial

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MR DANK

I am a lone wolf but feel like that term is kinda cringy.

@Denmosocial

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I agree brother!

WWJDD?

@Denmosocial

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what would Jake Cappeluti do

The twitch one was a terrible take lol

@davefrance4355

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I don't understand people who watch twitch

@OfficialBonusBandits

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@@davefrance4355 ok Dave fance

Great video really. Thanks for this. How about your girlfriend? Should she be like your inspiring friends? 31 y.o here.

@Denmosocial

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I need some more information here to properly answer brother. Please elaborate!

Cool vid except the term “lone wolf” just sounds kinda cringe I don’t think any ‘lone wolf’ would call themselves a lone wolf.

@ewikgeiwgwe8971

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Cool story lone wolf

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

Fair enough brother

HOW to make money online BRAAHHH