I notice that most of these etiquette rules, not just in dining but in general, actually are practical and not just something to follow to be “proper”. For examples, waving the fork and knife in the air would pose a hazard, putting the utensils back on the mat would be unsanitary, bending down too low can hurt your back (and also would be dangerous if you get too close to the food especially if it’s hot), etc. These are pretty much based on maintaining safety and hygiene.

@ozllsdirmceklriuluondrheyd7457

2 жыл бұрын

LAVE

@clairmoon06

2 жыл бұрын

Also not allowed to talk before you swallow your food, to avoid choking

@onethree123d

2 жыл бұрын

It all boills down to having empathy for yourself and other people.

@StylingPrincessM

2 жыл бұрын

that's because etiquette was first "invented" so that everyone can feel good when interacting with each other; now people use 'not wanting to seem stuck up' as an excuse to not have proper manners, so they end up being rude and crossing over people's boundaries

@GastroVulpes

2 жыл бұрын

Too many restaurants I have been to expect you to keep your dirty cutlery, even when you have not one plate nor extra napkins on the table. I try to always hold onto my bread plate for this reason alone. I feel so comfortable and happy when the restaurant staff remove your plates, silverware on top, and either understand or bring a new set without even asking. A lot of people, staff and diners alike, do not know this; they are simply doing what they think is normal. 🥺🌹🍽 And yes, I am very certain this has only happened in America. I often just ask for new silverware if they try to have my keep it, and sometimes that request is met with hesitation. I think I've always been given a new set, though. 😅🌹🍽

*Is it just me or does anyone else instantly feels like straightening their back and putting a bit more effort into how they're going to present and eat their dinner?* I always feel like getting a glimpse of royalty after watching Jamila's videos on etiquette. Beautifully done as always. I dream of this production for my own channel :)

@waqaryounis9861

2 жыл бұрын

Relating to what you have mentioned. Yes applying the effort brings out a new personality to become better in the world of Business (Work), Casual (Home). I would also like to thank Jamila Musayeva for bringing a new trait into my daily life to become successful and enjoy life.

@danyf.1442

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely trying to sit in a more ladylike fashion right now 😂🙋

@waqaryounis9861

2 жыл бұрын

It's good, because being seated for a long period when busy can become uncomfortable. I choose the ladylike fashion seating positions that come into play as it releases good stress and can continue with my daily duties. @@danyf.1442

@IEVAKambarovaite

2 жыл бұрын

I'm very much work in progress when it comes to my posture. Something I need to be reminded of.

@waqaryounis9861

2 жыл бұрын

In your diary write or type my posture correction. Your schedule will then keep you updated as it will depend on what settings you have selected. Once you made the habit it will never be broken. @@IEVAKambarovaite

Jamila, I would like to know how to gracefully deal with little accidents that happen while dining. For example, when you drop a piece of food, if you drop your napkin or cutlery by accident, if you rip a stocking or whatever clumsy mistakes that could happen. It would be fun to watch and very educational 🤣.

@kellyroy7248

2 жыл бұрын

Great idea. Something always goes wrong when I’m out to a restaurant or event with my three kids.

@louisa7043

2 жыл бұрын

Saaame

@yasha6466

2 жыл бұрын

She mentioned it in her dining etiquette video. If I remembered it correctly, one shouldn't pick up the food or cutlery from the floor. kzread.info/dash/bejne/rHVmssiEgsbTYMo.html

@aleahcordoba4883

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Jamila!

@sabrinavave

2 жыл бұрын

as far as I know, when you drop some food, you NEVER pick it up, the waiter picks it up

I am not well off or wealthy by any means; I am simply middle class. I never go anywhere fancy to eat because of this but I still use your dining etiquette lessons when I am dining. Things I have noticed is that when I practice dining etiquette, even if the common person or waiter doesn’t understand what I’m doing, I look much more feminine and put together and I’ve noticed that doing these things commands more attention from my date and I get better service from my waiters and waitresses. Home training and soft skills truly benefit any woman in any situation

I like how polite and respectful you are! You are not criticizing, but rather giving useful suggestions on how to do things better

In France, the etiquette says that fork and knife position in the plate also has a meaning. Crossing them like you did in the video means you have finished and... didn't enjoy your food 😛. Putting them in parallel means you liked it, and putting them perpendicularly means you would like to have the next dish. Making an A, means you are having a pause

For the people around us, it is fancy. My kids complain about having to learn to be fancy when no one else does it. My husband learned! He recently went to a business celebratory lunch and his friend/boss leaned in and asked my husband what fork he should start with :) My mom is Mexican but taught me the basic use of fork and knife as a kid (siblings and dad need etiquette classes!) I later learned the rest on my own. When we were dating, my husband’s family gave me the nickname “la duquesa” the duchess because I use a fork and knife lol.

@vanessavega7080

Жыл бұрын

I wish I were exaggerating when I say I'm amazed at how many younger people don't know how to properly use cutlery.

Im 38 and im from Portugal. I did learn a lot of these "table manners" has a child, especially from my dad. I believe he learned these rules with priests in his school, because his family was humble. I really proud of my dad and all he taught me. Great video, you gained another follower. Thank you and congrats on being so polite and thoughfull speaking of Hailey.

@joanakawaharalino6091

2 жыл бұрын

Os Portugueses têm maneiras fantásticas! Também sou portuguesa, mas vivi em várias partes do mundo, e nós de facto, somos extraordinariamente bem educados :)

@bartsimpson3275

2 жыл бұрын

You : “I’m from Portugal” Me : who cares where u from sis

@althierjudea8558

2 жыл бұрын

@claudia ferreira in my case was grandparents especially not to talk when you have something in your mouth and not to place your elbows on the table and never chew like a cow to close your mouth and chew.😄

@nabamahjong

2 жыл бұрын

@@bartsimpson3275 me

This was so interesting! You addressed the issues very nicely and politely. Please do more reaction videos! :)

@user-df5jn4dt4v

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!💘

@ozllsdirmceklriuluondrheyd7457

2 жыл бұрын

LAVE

@insideoutcleanwithkathleen4854

2 жыл бұрын

The French must have lost their ways because the tine isn't placed down until finished to indicate removal so service doesn't interrupt conversation.

@maroua9279

2 жыл бұрын

I highly agree, I'm looking forward for more reaction videos

@BeaRichter

Жыл бұрын

@@insideoutcleanwithkathleen4854 That makes sense. Even in Germany we are not aloud to speak by eating, so the full mouth is a no go.

I am glad to know that there are still people like you who are concerned and interested in showing people the importance of how to behave at the table. However I think Haley did her role well. The video would lose its fun and spontaneity if she had to focus on the rules of etiquette.

@miewmiew8250

2 жыл бұрын

That's right

@StylingPrincessM

2 жыл бұрын

you can be fun & spontaneous and still have proper manners, one does not exclude the other

@worldwide2358

2 жыл бұрын

@@StylingPrincessM how I want this balance 😂🤌🏽

@florencembah2626

2 жыл бұрын

True, Hailey's a freespirited person, as much as manners are great she loves to have be goofy at times & that what I enjoyed most about the video

@irenekanel.ac.7721

2 жыл бұрын

I don't believe that not speaking with a full mouth or not waiving her cutlery would have taken away the fun and spontaneity.

I love how educational and respectful this video series are. Thank you for such a high quality material for everyone to learn!

@JamilaMusayeva

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻

Hailey is very animated and probably wasn’t as concerned with etiquette. She was still very charming and effortlessly beautiful. Still helpful to know these notes.

@mel_zzz_

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah but still is Vogue...surprised me alot they did the video without saying anything. It's not any magazine, for example a magazine for teenagers with a singer like Olivia Rodrigo saying her opinions about fast food in the comfort of her home. This it's a more relax environment, the goal is have fun, just following the most basic manners.

@silvialopez-jurado6979

2 жыл бұрын

effortlessly?😂

@sabinecallas8904

2 жыл бұрын

@@silvialopez-jurado6979 yes, effortlessly. got anything to say?

@silvialopez-jurado6979

2 жыл бұрын

@@sabinecallas8904 yes, It IS not true: expensive cosmétics, makeup, hairdresses, expensives clothes, gym, probably got some kind of stetic procedures (hyaluronic ácid in Lips and her nose IS different than before-rinoplasty maybe a bochectomy too) teeth whitening, manicure, etc

@Flower-hj4mq

2 жыл бұрын

🤣 😂😂😂😂

Elegance always makes a person look way better.

@JamilaMusayeva

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@nicegurl408

2 жыл бұрын

This reminded me of an old friend! He is the only other person I know who cares about etiquette too. He basically said that a woman can be a 10 until she sits down to eat. So we were laughing at me when the fork would just not pierce the tomato in the salad! (We were at a convention and stuck eating what they offered. I was pregnant so I was like screw it, I need to eat hahaha!)

@jasony8002

3 ай бұрын

@@JamilaMusayeva you are adorable

This is why i love your videos specifically, you educate us and talk about how to improve instead of mocking the person! That really talks about you and your professionalism, thank you! :)

Jamila, thank you for this discussion about this video! I haven't seen any of the videos, but it's good to learn some etiquette from a natural situation. I started eating with a fork downward when I moved to England, although it was really difficult and I still struggle!

Awesome video! I would love to see more things like that in the future. I feel like in this day and age, there cannot be enough videos about etiquette in all kinds of restaurant, work/school, or travelling settings, etc., etc.

I feel like the latest generation tries to come off as unassuming, authentic and friendly but they have lost the art of many etiquette rules that, when you think about it, are in place for the comfort of everyone at the table - and for your safety clearly. This is a nice reminder, as I myself tend to take heaps of food in my mouth and then blabber on in case I miss out on the conversations being had 🙈

In my opinion, I think Hailey was just focusing on entertaining the audience by exaggerating everything and show the non-etiquette way people can enjoy their lives without judgement, I think. She obviously was just having fun

@harmony7112

Жыл бұрын

Agree, besides not everyone knows etiquette rules , being a celebrity does not mean one knows the rules too; if one has become a celebrity, or is in the business world , better to learn the rules

@niamhwatson

10 ай бұрын

@@harmony7112 she kinda should though, I bet she went to private schools.

You are so kind in your reaction to this video. Thank you for the graceful education.

i love that the first clip had a little peak at the azerbaijani grand prix! i love f1 and i love you, so everytime the race happens at baku I'm extra excited to watch! Keep making more videos 💕

@Lasciatemi_Guidare

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Well done Baku. 🏎

Hello Jamila! I love your lessons on dining etiquette. I’ll remember and try to practice them at home so when I dine out, it will feel more natural for me.

Really enjoyed this video. Thanks for helping us out with our dining etiquette

Loved this!!! Thank you for the continuous amazing content. Take care

Loved this video! I would love to see more videos that are reactions to people's behaviors. Seeing the corrections are very helpful learning tool!

Such an awesome video! I really like that you did not judge the "left-hand way" of eating.

JAMILA, I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL THROUGH THE COMMENT YOU MADE ON THE VOGUE VIDEO AND I AM SO THANKFUL THAT YOU RESPONDED AND SHOW US HOW TO BEHAVE, IT WAS A GREAT IDEA! CONGRATULATIONS ON THE QUALITY OF CONTENT AND THANKS FOR SHARING WITH US. *YOU AND HAILEY HAVE THE SAME SWEET AND ELEGANT VIBE AND LOVE TO FOLLOW THEM HERE ON KZread.* GREETINGS FROM BRAZIL 💌

Your voice is sooo calming!

You are such a great teacher and so polite also you look gorgeous as always!

Thank you so so so so much Jamila for motivating me and I really really love your vlogs so so so much you inspired me so so so much and I will support you till end😭✨💕☺️

Loved it. Thank you always . Watching you means learning half way

Thank you. I have been waited for this video.

Really glad you did this video. I saw her video today.

I really like your videos. Thank you for everything you teach us.

This format is very similar to the MOVIE Club for Patreons! I love this kind of video and as usual it is packed with lots of takeaways we can use and start to practice on daily basis! Of course, special mention to how quick and fast this video was produced from conceptualisation, to filming, editing and posting here on KZread. And Jamila, you always look immaculate and stunning! We can see how much love and effort was poured into producing this ONE video alone. Such a good one!

I have never seen anyone eating as elegantly as Jamila. 🌟

@JamilaMusayeva

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

Belle! Merci pour la vidéo, Jamila💕

I really enjoyed this so much, thank you for the etiquette lesson in this reaction video.

This video is very interesting to me because I like both styles of Etiquette Dining. Jamila I am going to be looking forward to the next video clip because I enjoy learning and listening.

I am so glad that I have found your KZread channel! I wish that etiquette was a more common topic to teach at school to kids. Your videos are easy to understand and so useful, I hope you will reach out 1 million of subscribers soon! People are genuinely surprised about my well manners in social settings, and this is part of your teaching throughout your videos:) so thank you!

@claudianzau4212

2 жыл бұрын

It is sad that schools no longer teach etiquette

@reddthoughts

2 жыл бұрын

I believe etiquette must be taught at home by the parents and the family, just as good manners.

@carlabridgesmason3529

2 жыл бұрын

People (not all people) are so casual and downright sloppy with eating and dining manners are rare!

This video was so enjoyable for me thank you 🧡🧡

Informative & entertaining at the same time.Thank you.

I appreciate this video very much. Not only have I learned about dining etiquette but also about how to clearly explain and correct with respect. I've only watched a couple of your videos and I feel like I want to continue in doing so. Would really love to learn about and how to always act with proper manners and etiquette. ♡

I love the reaction videos keep them comin!

Hey Jamila, hope you're amazing. What I loved most is learning the right way of holding the fork when bringing it into your mouth, and learning how to take a break with the cutlery for talking. Thank you so much, it's very useful, and I'll put it to practice from now on.

@larynOneka8080

Жыл бұрын

Jamila was eating in the Continental/European dining style. Hailey Bieber was eating in the American dining style. Americans do not eat with fork tongs down. In The United States it would be rare to see anyone eating the way Jamila does.

Great informative Video Jamila, but I also like the way Hailey enjoyed her food. Love for both ladies.

Thank You very much 💘 it's actually very informative and I definitely learned new etiquettes

Great video! Thank you for the excellent content!

Really enjoyed the video, so enlightening!

Thank you, I would love more videos like this ❤️

such a lovely video! i would love to see more reaction videos :-)

Loved this so much! Thank you 💕

As usual so informative. I will never get tired of watching you. :*

Very interesting and useful video, with examples as clear as this it is easier to learn how to and how not to. Would love to see more videos like this.

Jamila, you are such a classy lady! So inspired, thank you! 😄 Your videos have been a breath of fresh air!

@JamilaMusayeva

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@brittanyjackson6432

2 жыл бұрын

@@JamilaMusayeva You're welcome! 😊

Great way to learn! Thank you!! ♡

It is always a pleasure to see you in action. Regards from Mexico City!

I love your videos so much, Jamila! I was wondering if you might consider doing an etiquette video on weddings, particularly gift giving, and funerals, especially how to offer condolences. I know that customs can differ from culture to culture, but I find myself uncertain about what to do when I may not know the people getting married or the person whose loved one passed away very well--we're still connected in some way, however, so I would like to know what to do in such situations. Thank you so much for all of the work and love you put into your channel!

Thank you for another educative video. I see a big difference in my manners since I started watching you. I feel like a different person, the better version of myself. What starts to make trouble is other people because now I notice their bad manners a lot. 😄

beautiful Jamila.This was an useful video . Thank you, also you were looking absolutely gorgeous ❤️❤️

I enjoyed this vid, I look forward on your future vids similar to this one

There is so much to learn from your videos.

More videos like this please! It really helps what to do and what to not

This is a great vedio, truly enjoyed watching this vedio , great efforts to put together everything in single vedio. Truly appreciated 🙏.

Love watching your videos as usual.

When I go to restaurant, I made a lot of noise with the cutlery when eating. It's very disturbing for others, I want to correct it, please give some tips. I would be grateful if you could please make a video about it.

@joyrainbowdress

2 жыл бұрын

im guessing you're indian, our people don't use a lot of cutlery other than spoons in our homes and some use just hands. going to a restaurant is an occasional activity and you can't build a skill without practice. try using cutlery at home for lunches for a week or two to practice.

thank u jamila❤

Thank you for your video. As always, very well explained. Gracias

Omg i love this video very very helpful thank you 🙏😘❤️

Thank You, Jamila! 💚

I'm wondering if there are etiquettes to eat burgers. Teach us Jamila!

@ssaturnrrings

2 жыл бұрын

I think I remember seeing a video where they'll eat it with fork and knife.

@maryscottoconnor9711

2 жыл бұрын

There is. You eat it with your hands, but you take a bite, then put it down, wipe your face with a napkin… take a drink if you like… repeat as necessary, while conversing and alternating with your side dishes (French fries, salad, etc.).

Excellent video. Thank you Jamila

Really enjoyed this episode!!!

I really enjoyed watching this kind of video format, as I could see the "mistake" being made and the proper way of doing it right after. I think it is very easy and nice to learn this way. Thank you

I’ve never seen anyone so pretty while eating. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Looking forward to more!

Excellent delivery 👏👏

absolutely love this!!!

Thank you so much for this video. It was very helpful. I do have a question. In less formal restaurants where the fish is served with rice on the same plate, is it proper to turn your fork tines up to eat the rice?

All these etiquette rules an manners seems normal for me, like, i don’t understand why this is conciderate as fancy haha. I’m french and i think that these things are standards that are Inculcated since the begining (if you have good education at home) but without saying thats an art, more like it’s just a normal way to eat 😋

@joshuapacheco66

2 жыл бұрын

@aleahcordoba4883

2 жыл бұрын

I know! But not in the US haha so sad

@ashesforsunshine

2 жыл бұрын

🙄

@rauriyaz7124

2 жыл бұрын

Been waiting for someone to say this 😊

@rebeccagilpin3245

2 жыл бұрын

@@aleahcordoba4883 I'm from the US and as soon as we are able to sit at the table, in a proper chair instead of a highchair, we are taught these manners in my family. My 2y/o neice can do everything but hold her cutlery properly but that's just because she hasn't reached that level of coordination in her development yet. And she's not some little princess; she wants to be a dinosaur when she grows up.

Woww learnt a lot🙏thank you so much

Great video! Thank you so much

I’m going to make sure that I always eat before going to any fancy dinner. If I was starving, having to eat like this would be an absolute torture! Lol

I admire you and Hailey alike. This was such a great video, Jamila

Very useful, very intricate detail about table manners I liked this it's much useful

Thank you for sharing etiquette technique ♡

I also noticed in the first clip the way she held her fork pointing up in her right hand while trying to use her knife with her left hand, it all looked extremely awkward. Loved this video, thanks for sharing your knowledge! PS: Quick question. I understand that when eating a "bite size" piece of fish or vegetable, it is easy to bring it to your mouth with the fork facing down. However, would it be correct to eat "smaller pieces" food like rice, ground beef, or even mashed potatoes with your fork facing up? What is the etiquette for these foods?

@GastroVulpes

2 жыл бұрын

This is a good question. ✨✨

@MrzBadaBing

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like I would use a spoon instead …watch closely to how food judges eat

Interesting how I thought about every etiquette rule Hailey broke while I was watching her Vogue video and now, suddenly, KZread suggests me this video...

@layzninja2138

2 жыл бұрын

Same

Loved it!

Loved it!!

Awwww Hailey is so animated. I think, she would be a riot to dine with because she’s interesting/expressive… the casual improper etiquette habits wouldn’t be extremely distracting in real time, I think

@strawberry2559

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. In fact, extreme etiquette will make the dine more boring and anxious

@jezabeltokio

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah itd makes me uncomfortable if someone I’m going out with is super into etiquete. Hailey seems fun to go out to eat with it:)

@ferdaozdemir

2 жыл бұрын

+1. I think Hailey us much more ınteresting to watch and the demonstrated look is sooo boring and impersonal..

@user-zw8uc4rm1m

Жыл бұрын

Americans equating waving sharp objects while talking as having a personality lol

@givebasicinfo8444

Жыл бұрын

In the USA No but really In Europ ppl actually eat a certain way at fancy Dinner, at a normal Dinner you can be more casual but at a nice Dinner everyone Eats with edict. You shouldn’t use your knife as you gesture with your hands - it’s not nice!

very useful，thank you so much

Thank you for your elegant, informative video :)

I really enjoyed it and do more like these videos to learn how to eat . Love u ❣️😍

I have learnt a lot in this video. Thanks Jamillah. Something popped in my mind, how do you it rice with a folk? Is it ok to turn it like a spoon?

This video is awesome and has cleared most of my doubts. Request you to kindly tell us as to how and where to place the cutlery after we have finished eating.

I loved this video 😍

Loved this! Thank you 🙏

Hi gorgeous Jamila 😍 Huge hug and best wishes from Kazakhstan 🇰🇿 ❤. Your videos are so calm like healing my soul ❤ One question: how can I order your book to my country? Thank u if u answer my question 😌

Hey, Jamila. You're doing an amazing job with your videos. I can't get enough. I noticed in your dining etiquette video you held the white wine glass at the stem as to not warm up the drink when drinking it but here you're holding the white wine by the bowl. So which way is accurate?

@HaileyJo

2 жыл бұрын

At 9:38, she is holding it by the stem, a little closer to the bowl but still not covering the bowl. I guess even more proper way would be to hold the stem closer to the base

@kerstinbain7378

2 жыл бұрын

@@HaileyJo Thank you, Hails.

Hi Jamila! Love your content. Can you please make a video on speaking etiquette esp for the youth

Very informative content of the video. Great job