Thank you for freeing my heart from the Guilt prison ...

@lifelosshope

4 ай бұрын

That’s so encouraging to hear Dina .. that you are releasing the guilt in your grief. Sending love and comfort x

Thank you so much for this very helpful video on grief in guilt - it was really spot on and eased my guilt so much. My husband of 40 years died on Feb. 3 due to an unexpected terminal illness that I could not have prevented but it is still hard. 😢

@lifelosshope

4 ай бұрын

Goodness Barbara.. your loss is so raw and recent.. that’s tragic to hear. The guilt and emotional turmoil in early grief is tough.. it’s so helpful to talk through what you feel. Glad this video has eased your guilt .. it makes my pain something purposeful.. sending love and prayers x

@barbaramednick4974

4 ай бұрын

Thank you Sarah - it has been very tough and my grief is overwhelming at times…My husband Phil was having trouble walking in late summer and started to fall due to what he thought was edema, but it was not…he said he went to the doctor but found out this was not true..when he went to ER in mid-January he died 3 weeks later…we were married for 40 years and he was the love of my life…

Thank you Sarah, this was so valuable. It has shown me many new things with my emotions. Thank you for helping me look into my belief’s. It has helped me see things differently.❤

@lifelosshope

Жыл бұрын

Thankful that it’s been helpful for you dear Tracy 🙏❤️

Loved this perspective

@lifelosshope

6 ай бұрын

Thank you.. just wondering what helped you best to shift your perspective? Sending love 🥰

I enjoy every one of your videos. They help me so much through the loss of my dear husband of 48 years.

@lifelosshope

6 ай бұрын

That’s encouraging to know the videos are a help in your tragic time of loss.. losing your husband is heartbreaking. Sending love and prayers 🥰

I’m still in the tsunami of guilt at the moment but pray that things will improve

@lifelosshope

Жыл бұрын

Am here for you John .. be gentle on yourself and am keeping you in my prayers.

@denisethompson1257

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. It is a very hard and hurtful journey. I'm praying for peace for you.

@1HeathersJourney

6 ай бұрын

After my dad died 6 1/2 years ago had a lot of guilt and a perspective that helped me as well was replacing the word guilt with regret guilt is something you did with ill intentions to harm somebody and regret is how you wish things had gone or been done differently.

I was basically verbally abusive to my husband when he was sick. I don't know why.We lost a time that could have been precious. Why did I act that way??? I hurt him.so much.

@lifelosshope

Жыл бұрын

Hi Denise .. I’ve heard many people say a similar thing and feel guilty about being short tempered or angry when caring for their loved ones.. frustration, fear, loss and exhaustion can make you react in ways that you normally wouldn’t… it’s hard to feel like you do about how you spoke to your husband when he was sick. Talk it through with a trusted person and be kind to yourself.. sure it’s normal to loose your normal self under immense pressure.. and eventually even forgive yourself 🙏❤️

@denisethompson1257

Жыл бұрын

@@lifelosshope I don't understand my self at all. When he got sicker I did not take him back to the hospital soon enough. We had already gone back two times ,maybe I didn't want to believe he was sick enough to go bsck.I was overwhelmed when I needed to step in and make decisions I made bad choices. Maybe partly because he had been was stubborn. Not I didn't want to hurt him, despite everything I loved him

I feel full of guilt awful to live with ever thing you have said is how l feel things good have been different if onley it is so hard finding some one that understands

@lifelosshope

4 ай бұрын

You’re so right Viv .. the guilt and ruminations of what ifs and if onlys are such a tortuous part of grief.. allowing your mind to work through these emotions and finding someone to listen is vital. Sending love and comfort x

guilt and regret after my father passed away I still unable recover since 2021 guilt for not being on time and also not leading a life in a right manner...now i feel nothing good I have failed being son i really failed... now I am in bit stable in my career but not able to do anything in life because past when my dad was alive didn't do much now ...i feel y should I enjoy or spend etc for my joy ,,, I don't think so I can overcome this pain',,i don't want this life any more

@lifelosshope

3 ай бұрын

Hold onto the hope that life will become more bearable.. get some good support to work through these difficult emotions of guilt and regret.. remember you are worthy and loved . Be gentle with yourself and take one moment at a time.. sending love and prayers for comfort.. you’re not alone 🥰