Story 1: Oop was a bad ass showing up in the earrings, also sis is going to learn the hard way that “if they cheat _with_ you, they’ll cheat _on_ you.”

Who needs enemies with family like OPs in the 1st story

A 33yr old with a 20 yr old for 5 years and the sister thought it was normal to have a child with him. That's sick

@karinefonte516

3 ай бұрын

I suspect she did what she taught to younger sister, right at the begining: had a few dates and then created situations where he felf compelled to compromise with her. It's a 42 year old woman on a "leftover woman" society, meaning the older, the useless, she got desperate to marry no matter how, no matter who.

@t900HAWK

2 ай бұрын

Wait a minute

@lanrelara9481

2 ай бұрын

@@t900HAWKthey met when she was 20…but yeah a man pushing his 40s still in a fwb situation is kind of a red flag

@t900HAWK

2 ай бұрын

@@lanrelara9481 for sure a red flag thought that was way worse than it sounded tho

Story 1: This “family” (especially the mom and sister) are insane with their bizarre mental gymnastics. Well sister is gonna learn the hard way about her new husband eventually. He’ll physically cheat because he got away with messaging other women. It’s just a slow burn karma

@jjujji4908

3 ай бұрын

Now give me a run down on story two

Second story: It's like normal for siblings to have small petty scabbles and feel uncomfortable seeing each other in a bathroom setting.

@Bingotaco

3 ай бұрын

Her correction made it worse too. Like, of course a 12 year old doesn't wanna stop playing just to bring a 5 year old to the bathroom.

@Taveren

2 ай бұрын

Also normal for a mom to be a lottle over protective, she openned her eyes

@sweeety969

19 күн бұрын

​@@Bingotaco it's not unreasonable of her to ask him to go to the toilet with the 5 year old though. All the 12 year old has to do is walk him in and out, it's not like she asked him to wipe his ass or change his diaper. And with bigger families everyone has to pitch in with things where they can.

@Bingotaco

19 күн бұрын

​@@sweeety969 yes I come from a larger family so I know what comes with it. But her attitude about it and everything to do with the child is completely unreasonable. Plus, if he's responsible enough to take the 5 year old to the bathroom, isn't he responsible enough to stay out in the park and continue playing with the 10 year old while she takes the 5 year old to the bathroom? And is the 10 year old also not able to take the 5 year old to the bathroom at the park? Bottom line is, sure she can ask him, that was never the issue, it's her attitude around it when there's at least 2 other solutions. This is all assuming the dad's not there at the time because maybe it's working hours, if he was though, one of the parents should go and a child should not be asked.

1) Glad to hear the OP took her Earrings and split. Dad seems to be the only almost sane one but 2/3rds of solid Toxic exposure is no place to love. 2) Glad for the update. She appeared to be a Stepmonster in the making at first.

Story 1 Bet in 2 yrs they will find out that the baby is not the ExBF and tried to blame it on OP

No it just sounds like the (should have been ex) just wanted to have him be a holiday only dad.

Last story: lol op nta but wat is sis threatening in all caps lmao

Story 3: Yeah, the kitchen table comment was a bit much. The better line would have been. "Mom said he could come, and that's why he's here." Let BIL stew or bring up his bigotry.

ahaha the bit at the end was perfection

I LOVED THE FINAL STORY. That was so great!

Story 2: so shes mad that her stepson... does as he is told... but isnt happy enough about it?

Geez some of y’all’s home life’s are just the worst. Sometimes your families are your biggest OP’s.

Where do people get "using oldest child as free child sitter" from OP in S2 asking the 12 year old to go to the bathroom with the 5 year old at the park. I mean it's a public bathroom and the kid needs to pearn to use these on his own, but is too young to go alone, its a good step towards independence to ask the older child to go with him. It's not like she's asking him to change his diaper, just to walk him in and out so he's not alone in there, right? So i don't see the problem.

The small base you guys made is pretty cool

Second story is so weird- why was all this decision making going on without the kid's biomum involved? Also, at that age, he doesn't get to dictate what's best for him and where he lives. It's a decision for co-parents, not op and her new man.

@sweeety969

19 күн бұрын

It's up to them to decide if they want to take him. Whether the bio mom allows it is another conversation that happens after they decide they want to live with him. I agree at that age it isn't up to him but he's old enough for his wishes to start factoring into his custody. It's roughly that age when children of divorce can begin to choose where they want to spend the majority of time. And being the partner of one of the co-parents, especially if she's the main caregiver in her house, entitles her to a say seeing as she's the one that's going to have to deal with him more often than his other parents if he lived with her.

bro I am begging you not to put in minutes of footage jumping up and down a tiny long tunnel. Ima puke.

@SecretVoices25

3 ай бұрын

😅😅

1st story isn't finished 🤦‍♀️

Feels more like the 1st OP is a weak coward and push over

@stanleyphinazee5354

3 ай бұрын

Thank you. Eventide she keeps saying "i shouldn't have did something, but did it anyways " was getting on my nerves. I went no contact....gurl where. U still stayed in touch even tho ur family. Dad included, treated u horrible,but according to op they're not? She accepting that AH FRIEND request and eanting to still b I her nieces and sister's life is just ughhh. Some folks r just gluttons for punishment 🙄

As a huge fan of Lego as a child EVEN THE BRAND WILL TELL YOU THERE IS NO LEGOS ITS LEGO!!!! NO S

S2: op nta its not up to op n her kids to "fix" her stepson. This is gonna blow up on ops kids.

@Maninawig

3 ай бұрын

Consider how what she said might influence her actions... for instance, she claims she is affraid her step-son will bully her kids, drawing the conclusion that she would be defensive around him, leading him to feel like she thinks him a pred'tor.... right before demanding he takes her kid into the bathroom alone.... The whole issue there is the OP's overprotection. Yes, boys, compete, they test their limits to know each other's limits, and they will tease each other about dumb things. It is psychologically how brothers bond. That is far from bullying, especially when that bond lets the brothers know when outsiders go beyond each other's limits. However, you might not be aware if this if you're an only child as is in OP's case.

@dead_vibes

3 ай бұрын

She is segregating their children. Also have you ever had siblings?

@vikaastrakh2828

3 ай бұрын

Yes, if she tries to discipline him, she would be in the wrong, as she is 'not his mom'. If he starts bullying her kids, she will be in the wrong, since there were red flags, and she 'preferred her husband and his kid over her kids'

@DragonMedic20

3 ай бұрын

Fiance needs to reconsider marrying OP. His kid needs to come first, and OP's reply sounds like word salad covering her ass because she got an YAH majority vote.

@Myloypip

3 ай бұрын

@@vikaastrakh2828she sounds like a bad stepmom

S3 sounds like a lot of narrative bias. ide want to hear all parties