A wise woman once told me the key to a healthy relationship is: 1. God centered 2. Trust 3. Communication 4. Compromise (laying one’s self for the other)

@faithfamilyworldwide

2 жыл бұрын

Yes these are such great keys!

@jricaranomTV

2 жыл бұрын

True

@jricaranomTV

2 жыл бұрын

Nice

Such great advice! I was 22 when I began dating my husband. I was not the first to say I love you, but in the end we had an amazing 35 1/2 years of marriage til he passed away from cancer.

@bex82uk

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@therealdial

2 жыл бұрын

Aww I’m so sorry for your loss, but amazing for almost 36 beautiful years. God bless you❤️❤️

@intentionalchristianwoman

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry for your loss…thank you for sharing ❤️🙏

@saraf708

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry! I’ll pray for you! God bless❤️

@kennedyarvie9158

2 жыл бұрын

🤍🥺

My favourite youtubers! Women after Gods own heart. Not only beautiful on the outside but inside too. Your love for Jesus is the most important!

Just a random side note- Taylor your hair color is beautiful! It blends so well with the older highlights you had! + I always love Ashley's curls!

@angelenebeli9874

2 жыл бұрын

Saameeeee!!😭😆

Some of Taylor's responses to Ashley's advice has just been so relatable, like how she thought she was communicating well and then still expected the other person to read her mind, or being impatient during the friend stage of a relationship :)

That point about risk really hits home. I’ve pondered that question of “Is the risk worth it?” I’m also in that awkward friendship stage, but I’ve found that I can’t let fear take over my friendships in general. God had to show me that life is not without risk. If I never take risk, I will not get anywhere, and even a relationship with the right guy will involve risk. Thanks so much for sharing! This was a really helpful video❤️

12 years of marriage here and the things I’ve learned so far are: 1. He is God’s son so instead of trying to fix him go to God with your grievances and trust me God will often show you yourself (or maybe that’s just me lol) 2. Invest in your time with God because you will need Him… A lot lol. 3. Have fun! Never stop having fun. 4. Use I statements instead of you statements (for example instead of you are getting on my nerves say I am really struggling with hearing you clearly can we pause this conversation so I can work through my anxiety?)

Uncommon truths! Thank you for the sound advice! I realized that most of the times we love people the way we want to be loved rather than the way they deserve to be loved and often times such relationships suffer!

I have been married 13 years and for both men and women the advice is the same - a little patience and understanding go a long way. Communicate often and don’t let that person forget that they’re loved. And any men that subscribe - the answer to everything is this simple phrase - “Yes, honey, you’re absolutely right.” Memorize that and you will never fail 😂😂😂

@faithfamilyworldwide

2 жыл бұрын

Such great advice!

Your girls are so sweet.

Here's another thought to add to your wonderful advice: pay attention to your patterns, especially with broken relationships and regrettable decisions. We all have them and if you step back and fill in these blanks, you can see how you may be swirling in patterns that are apart from God's best for you. Here's an example from my life: I'm lonely->I look for a guy to pay attention to me->I do whatever it takes to attract him (good and bad things)->we have a relationship->now that we're together, I start criticizing his flaws and build up reasons he's not right for me->I break up->I'm lonely....(and so the pattern repeated for years). So, what's important about noticing this? I realized I didn't have a clear picture of what was important for me in men so I kept making poor connections, which reinforced my loneliness and desperation. After years of torturing myself and some really nice guys, I finally sat down, created a list of "My Ideal Mate" and prayed it to God that He would approve, correct it and hold me accountable to wait, if and until He provided someone that met God's criteria. Hope this isn't too long or confusing. I'm much older than you all are, but I sincerely appreciate your wisdom and hearts for Jesus.

Great advice! Communication is definitely a big one.

@faithfamilyworldwide

2 жыл бұрын

Yes communication is literally key!

I love this! All of these tips have tremendous wisdom behind them and I think are so important when cultivating a meaningful relationship. Sometimes, we as believers can put so much pressure on single folks to get married, but it truly does happen in God's own time. When we learn to truly be able to stand on our own with Christ is when I think we know we're ready to be in a relationship.

Thank you I'm not dating anyone but I like a boy at my church and I've prayed about it and I am still seeking the Lord`s will I just want to know the Lords will and I haven't talked to the boy but I just want the Lords will I have faith in the Lord no matter what always thank you God bless you💜💛

Great advice folks! God bless you and may He continue to use you

Really great advice! I am in a friendship stage with a guy I am talking to at work and it was out of nowhere at the start. Although I am starting to like him, I am still questioning whether or not he is the one. I am giving him to the Lord because I don’t think he is Christian and he knows I am. Thank you for those relationship advice because I am not good at dating at all. P.S. my sister got me your prayer journal for Christmas and I love it!

Didn’t know you were sisters, love you both

Hi Ash and Taylor I just wanted to hop on here in the comment section to say that I've been married 10 years going on 11 years soon & I found a lot of this you girls talk about on this vodeo to be very informative even to me as a Married Woman. Thank you sweet Sisters for coming together so often to point us to Christ and teach us God honest TRUTH 😘 I'm going to play this back to my husband... will give us something to talk about together later.

Thank you Ashley for this wonderful video 🥰 May God keep blessing you and your family && congratulations with you and Johnny may the Lord bless your marriage 🙏🏼😊🥰

so thankful for you two

I love you ladies. I love the way you study your Bible. Such incite ❣️

That's good about being content in each stage.

Very good advice! Love that you two are so close!💖

You girls are so cute.. I love the relationship you have. Your parents are so blessed. How many years a part are you two?

Y’all look so beautiful!! Love your content 💖

I will also be taking your advice 🙂

This was such a great video with amazing advice! God bless you beautiful ladies, love your channel🥰❤

Beautifully done. 🥰

Good Communication is sooooooooooo important!!! Great tips Ashley!!!

Really great advice! Communication is a huge thing in a relationship...talk, talk, talk...that's the way to success!

Beautiful advice! Thanks for sharing God Bless 💚

Thankyou for this video ❤❤❤ Ashley you gave me a lot to think about and good to know that you are so happy with Johnny. Taylor you are awesome girl love ya ❤❤❤

Such great advice ❤️ can’t wait to hear Taylor’s experience using it and her advice from her experience

Never heard that #5 before - Is this risk worth it? But honestly that’s a very wise advice, would have saved me time on that last relationship I was in..

Thank you for this video. It was super helpful and exactly what I needed to hear right now. Those points about communication and patience are something I need to work on

One of our members is attending Dallas theological seminary and he is getting married in March. He is filling the pulpit for me in May. He says he’s going to get up front and say “now that I know all about marriage :-) I’ll be celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary with my honey this June, and believe me, I am still learning. It’s been the joy of my life, but i’m still working on my PhD in Jeanne studies (that is my wife’s name) By the way, as I speak this, I am sipping white gull inn private blend door county coffee, mmmm!

Thank you so much Ash for those phenomenal pieces of advice. I indeed learnt a lot from my past relationship that was risk-worth taking. Even though we did not end up together I must say that the Lord worked on my character through it and I learnt how to fully depend on Him alone. God bless your ministry.

I love this channel so much!! Thanks for the advice:)

Great advice!! I loved this video

So thankful for you guys. When will be your next in depth bible study

This video is super encouraging 🌸💕

such good advice!!! Also taylor your hair looks sooo good that color! 💓

Taylor's point Christian culture of dating for marriage is so true. Like honestly, it's sounds too serious to think or even speak of marriage when deciding or starting to date someone. Can someone can enlighten me on this?

@cafecombaunilha

2 жыл бұрын

one very good advice i’ve received was: dating is always meant to be over. it always has an expiring date. why? because it can either lead to marriage or to breakup. so, with that in mind, be intentional about who you decide to date, because yeah, he/she should be what you would like to have as a husband/wife. the time span you will spend dating, however, should be spent as such, so be boyfriend and girlfriend, get to know each other deeply and within the boundaries the bible has set for us (it never mentions dating, of course, but we do know that some things can only happen between a married couple). during that time, you will be able to decide if the relationship has a future as marriage or not. we have to be intentional about all things, so dating should fall into that as well, is what i’m trying to say with too many words (sorry!)

@celine1196

2 жыл бұрын

@@cafecombaunilha wow thanks for this Daniella! It does give me a clearer pic of being intentional in dating because that person should look like my future husband. Whether or not we match, depends on learning about each other during the dating process ✨

@apracity7672

2 жыл бұрын

Well Christiana shouldnt date if they dont plan on getting married because that would lead to temptation and sin

This were beautiful be blessed!!!

I love the video, so sweet. I have sisters and they love advise time!!! Your channel is super cute and very motivating for young girls and it's an inspiration to my journey on YT. Taylor, I love your hair, it looks really good! ♡♡

God bless you. Good job. keep shining.

Ashley... You're right, COMMUNICATION is the BIG THING!! I'm not really a communicator neither. Lol 😀 Sometimes I wish I knew more about this stuff before I got involve with anyone. I didn't ask alot of questions. It's to late now because we're marry 👰 now. We don't believe in divorce. We want to do exactly what GOD wants and GOD doesn't like DIVORCE. We're working on alot of things. It's not easy but we're doing it!! PRAYING 🙏🙏 on it.

So wise Ashley!!

I love y'all!!!🥰🥰🥰

Thank you for your videos 💗

You both are so pretty girls! ♡♡♡

What are your thoughts on physical boundaries? Frontal hugs, kissing, etc.? (If you don't mind answering, of course.) I'm currently talking with someone right now that I'm starting to really like, and we have both told each other how we feel. We don't want to rush, we want to give it time for things to sit with us, and all that. I want to "set boundaries," if that make sense. Make it clear what I am and am not okay with, and to understand what he is and is not okay with. I'd just like to hear from you, or anyone else reading this, their thoughts on that, as well as advice for keeping God involved. :) Thanks!!

@faithfamilyworldwide

2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I when we were dating we had to set a ton of boundaries because we were very attracted to one another and we were not virgins when we got in a relationship so we had to be very careful because we desired to keep our relationship pure before God. So we didn’t do anything long and lingering. No long and lingering hugs, no lip kisses, and a curfew for how late we would hang out. I know you were not asking me but I hope that this helps a bit.

@apracity7672

2 жыл бұрын

Obviously, anything explicitly sexual is off the table (sex related stuff). However, for other things (like frontal hugs), that depends entirely on both you and him. For instance, if the feeling of breasts pressed upon another body can invoke lust and sensuality and sexual thoughts, that should be off the table. Paul tells us to flee from sexual immorality. Kissing can be done to show affection and love for another person without it being sexual (again, it all depends on the person and the type of kissing). The question shouldnt be "how close can I get to the line without crossing over", it should be "how can I be im this relationship and honor God". Its always better to be conservative and have more boundaries than needed, lest someome falls into temptation and stumbles into sin. Hope this helps

You guys are amazing

In love with u sisters🤗 I haven't been here for sooo long time because as u know already in UA we have such a difficult "situation". Sooo many updates🤩 wooooow💛💙

I love you both ♥️

very good tips!

this is so good!!

tips!! thank you

Communication* especially with my siblings

Great video! I was so excited when I got the notification. Side note: we have the same last name ! except I spell mine differently but pronounce it the same as you guys.

Happy New year.....Jesus Christ Bless you.......and your family......

Great advice

Thanku babies

Can we just give a shout out to how long Ashley's fingernail polish has lasted lol

Thanx for really great advice. I can really relate to the face where you are talking, but you feel scared to not put a dating lable on it. What would you say is a reasonable amount of time to just talk with a friend before going into dating, and what time when dating before going official in a realtionship? I felt so rushed to have it secured in a previouse dating realtionship that we ended up taking a step back from everything insted of moving slow. He suggested slow, but I was more in the state of, - I have no time to wait around...". How do you know when it is wise to be patient and wait for something official in a dating realtionship? Please help a sister out! Hugs from Sweden!

@oliviasjostrom5065

2 жыл бұрын

phase*

🤣🤣🤣I'm extroverted and yet I don't want to do the relationship thing now😑when a person approaches, I just go "I can't do this 😭" and somehow I almost always attract non believers😫

@hannahvijayanand8563

2 жыл бұрын

Samee! I have been thinking about it and I seriously cannot figure out how and why I always attract non believers😬🤦‍♀️

This is very off-topic but: what‘s your hairroutines 😍? Both of your hair looks so so healthy and beautiful all the time!

How many years apart are you as sisters ?! 😊

Love you too

Yes! Our security isn't from this relationship

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Try downloading Upwards

I love your channel 💓💓 could you make a video about overcoming eating disorders please ? 🙏🙏

@daniela.mieses8104

2 жыл бұрын

Hey, may God bless you! Ash shared her journey and uploaded videos about that same topic. I'll link some below. kzread.info/dash/bejne/aoV_1pp6eMrclMo.html%20 kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKWBwaptmLLJgZM.html

Sustitulos en spanish I'm so thankful girls

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Why i am thinking now to leave Germany and move to US? 🤔😅😍

💕 How old are you girls?

Oh my goodness is no one going to talk about how they look like twins!?

I’m 27 and single.hopefully I will be mature enough for marriage soon

Mr chris spells helped me get back my ex boyfriend after 7 months of break up. I am happy to get back to my ex now. He love me so much than before. Thank you Mr chris. #mrchrisspells

How old are you guyyysssss😩❤❤

You look like twins

I guess people who've known the channel for a ages see this KZreadr as a teacher/guru & have established a trust bond maybe follow off platform too but I'd say I hardly her & every video is 'giving advice, advice for you, what to do for your season, what this Psalm is saying' & it can just seem very... pressured & assuming. I thought this was a vlogger like Kian when I joined but nope! Maybe if I'd known her longer or I was younger it'd seem more sincere & be make more sense but there's no trust here in the content for me to be taking advice from a stranger.

@destinydiaz2010

2 жыл бұрын

I have followed this channel for years. And love the content these girls post here on KZread. I am much older but I can relate to them in many ways. And the love they have for Jesus is beautiful.

Shouldn’t single people be living their lives in freedom and use their time to expand and steward whatever God has given them to steward? Also expanding in their own passions and hobbies. Get new passions and new skills. Singlesness shouldn’t be dreaded. It’s not a curse. And marriage isn’t easy. But marriage should also not be dreaded. It is also not a curse. You’ll never get this much freedom and time ever again after you’re not single anymore. You should use singleness to your advantage and do all the things you’ve ever wanted to do. You’ll never have this much freedom ever again. Use it!