Girl Chat I Turn Offs & Deal Breakers in Relationships

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Hi everyone,
Today's video is the first part of a new series of girl chat videos I will have on my channel called Boba & Chat! I am so happy to have my good friend Nawal here as we go over our turn off and deal breakers with men. We went over bad hygiene, lack of emotion, deen, finances, qabil among other things. Thank you to everyone who sent in a suggestions! This was super fun to film! Let me know what other topics you want me to discuss in the comments.
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  • @BellaBigDeal
    @BellaBigDeal4 жыл бұрын

    😂❤️ you guys are sooo sweeet I had so much fun recording this.. watching it with my whole family now 🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @Royal-in2yt

    @Royal-in2yt

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bella, I love your channel as well. Always flowlesss masha Allah. Its been a while since you last posted a video. I'm waiting habibti💖🌺

  • @BellaBigDeal

    @BellaBigDeal

    4 жыл бұрын

    Muna K hey love thank u for the kind remarks look out for me inshallah ill be more consistent this year!

  • @4sara12
    @4sara124 жыл бұрын

    Honestly needed this, it’s a nice break from depressing world we are in

  • @abdul-malikmustapha5394
    @abdul-malikmustapha53944 жыл бұрын

    deen literally means a way of life. A guy with a good deen embodies the character of Prophet Muhammad(PBUH).. your marriage is going to be so sweet

  • @abdir183
    @abdir1834 жыл бұрын

    What a pleasant surprise, best collaboration ever. A nice break from all the chaos that's going on right now.

  • @BintAbdullahi1
    @BintAbdullahi14 жыл бұрын

    Yesssss we’ve been waiting for this collab 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ayanbileh209
    @ayanbileh2094 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah this collab was everything 💕🙌🏾

  • @ImanBarkhadle
    @ImanBarkhadle4 жыл бұрын

    When you said you get offended that they didn’t offer but that you would ask, I related to that so much😂😂

  • @elephantintheroom8561
    @elephantintheroom85614 жыл бұрын

    This was so nice to watch 🥰 please do more of these segments.

  • @ifrahs1293
    @ifrahs12934 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah lovin’ this collab!!

  • @sadiqsamater4178
    @sadiqsamater41784 жыл бұрын

    One thing I like abt this video is as humans how diverse our turn ons and off are aka our perception . NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE'S TURN OFF INFLUENCE YOU

  • @FaraxiyoXasan
    @FaraxiyoXasan4 жыл бұрын

    AHHH MY TWO FAVEEESS 🇨🇦 🙏🏿❤️ Great video!!

  • @spitnothingbutthetruth-_-2466
    @spitnothingbutthetruth-_-24664 жыл бұрын

    I’m loving the colab!!!!!!! I want to see more

  • @DaintyAbby
    @DaintyAbby4 жыл бұрын

    your friend's personality... my goodness I'm HOOOOOKED. LOVE HER LOVE HER LOVE HER. Love you too Osob but man your friend is soooo nice.

  • @03mida
    @03mida4 жыл бұрын

    Omg who says princess? Am I your daughter? Lmao loved watching you two.

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂 you would be surprised

  • @maryanabdulahi7536
    @maryanabdulahi75364 жыл бұрын

    I loved this ! More girl talk ‼️❤️

  • @fMS23956
    @fMS239564 жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard!! Keep these coming!

  • @Kowzzaa
    @Kowzzaa4 жыл бұрын

    My deal breaker is when men ask me out after knowing me for few days as it makes me feel like I’m being forced to except their advances. I think a health relationship should start of with a friendship and then develop to into a relationship because the friendship will act as a bond between the couple regardless of what difficult they face later on

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same! I like to move slow.

  • @ashaabdikadir1818
    @ashaabdikadir18184 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah I enjoyed this, keep it coming siz.

  • @ardanagle4718
    @ardanagle47184 жыл бұрын

    Loved this Osob! Can u please do a skincare routine?

  • @hawaaabdullah8339
    @hawaaabdullah83394 жыл бұрын

    I love this collab! It’s so entertaining and educational. Can we have a second collaboration please?

  • @ladan346
    @ladan3464 жыл бұрын

    LOVED THIS!!!!!!

  • @SimplyyFadumaa
    @SimplyyFadumaa4 жыл бұрын

    Loved it!! And your friend is sooo pretty Allahuma Baarik!! You guys were speaking nothing but factsss the whole vid, my biggest turn off def has to be a man who has nothing going for him 🥴 how can you be so comfortable on your moms couch bud?? I agree with the tribe thing, that is the lasttt is my worries. I’m from Seattle and the tribe thing isn’t that big tbh

  • @Sluxlife
    @Sluxlife4 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so funny loved this video 💖

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @nawal4681
    @nawal46814 жыл бұрын

    First time coming across a KZreadr called Nawal gang shitttt💕

  • @baharaina719
    @baharaina7194 жыл бұрын

    Love this video! You guys please talk about dating apps! This is something that most ppl are not talking about, but it’s the way it is now. Would love to see what apps you use 😀 likes and disses 😀

  • @lunar4199
    @lunar41994 жыл бұрын

    You guys have such different energies lol. Osob is so chill and bella is going a thousand miles a minute lmao.

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol yup, must be why we get along so well

  • @anonanon973
    @anonanon9734 жыл бұрын

    Usually VERY picky with girl youtubers idk bro i get cringed out or just dont like their attitude but for some reason i LOVED yall personalities and subbed right away

  • @bahjaliyahh2136
    @bahjaliyahh21364 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️I love this mashallah May Allah bless you both

  • @BO-baddest
    @BO-baddest4 жыл бұрын

    Omgggg yes I feel you on the career part. My ex told me that studying political science is for dumb people. That he doesn't like my degree. I understand that it's difficult to find a job in that field but the fact that he put me down like that was so mean

  • @asistar87

    @asistar87

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gosh that’s so mean..I don’t understand how someone thinks they are helping you by telling you what you are studying is dumb..like how is that supposed to help. There is some people that just love to put themselves above others and undermine everything. Sometimes it be your own family!

  • @BO-baddest

    @BO-baddest

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@asistar87 Thank you and yesss!!!! He always bragged about himself but always put me down. n exactly sometimes family are so negative!!

  • @joy125634
    @joy1256344 жыл бұрын

    Really liked this girl chat. I've come across other similar video of somali girls and have found myself cringing and not completing the videos because I felt the level of conversation was basic/men centred. This video was defo not like that. Would love to see more!

  • @bellzibz
    @bellzibz4 жыл бұрын

    Best combo ever!!!

  • @tiyyas3022
    @tiyyas30224 жыл бұрын

    Wow, Osob- you called out my toxic trait straight up 😭😭; I won’t ask but I’m offended that you haven’t offered. My husband is not naturally caring when I’m sick and it drives me bonkers- I’m tryna practice sabr, but yo 3years in, when is he gonna get it 💀💀🥰

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know girl! It’s so important to express what we need. Men are not mind readers though I wish they were 😂

  • @fahima7998
    @fahima79984 жыл бұрын

    I love this video💘

  • @iman7094
    @iman70944 жыл бұрын

    i love this duo

  • @TheBlushingGiraffe
    @TheBlushingGiraffe4 жыл бұрын

    Two absolutely gorgeous women 😍😍😍😍 really enjoyed this video. Turn offs for me are a lack of manners for everyone from waiters to family members, childish behaviour like when hanging with their boys is a priority alllll the time and controlling vibes'

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hate that!

  • @misbahailia3345

    @misbahailia3345

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too. I guess all girls think the same. 💁

  • @Royal-in2yt
    @Royal-in2yt4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful ladies. I love the videos. Make some more soon💖😍😘

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    We will thank you

  • @BellaBigDeal

    @BellaBigDeal

    4 жыл бұрын

    inshallah sis

  • @wig99
    @wig994 жыл бұрын

    you’re both so beautiful, mashallah. ❤️

  • @iqlas8093
    @iqlas80934 жыл бұрын

    hellow ladies what a talk i love it.. wow manshallah where were you galz i longed for such chat thank you.

  • @BellaBigDeal

    @BellaBigDeal

    4 жыл бұрын

    thank you sista

  • @Rayan_04689
    @Rayan_046894 жыл бұрын

    Another great video sis pls come to London

  • @Ahmaalscorner
    @Ahmaalscorner4 жыл бұрын

    mashallah loved the chat ladies!

  • @aderasview9562
    @aderasview95624 жыл бұрын

    I love this video the energy from the woman with the brown hijab (sorry I forget names so quick and too lazy to check it while I type lol) anyway she’s definitely great vibes I agree with her 100%

  • @KhadijaFofana
    @KhadijaFofana4 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos

  • @hands1301
    @hands13014 жыл бұрын

    OMG this is soo good defo should do another one, the qabil part got me. By the way from the UK and we defo don’t have qabil problems 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Rayan_04689

    @Rayan_04689

    4 жыл бұрын

    My friend tells me she can't marry isaaq because they started the war .

  • @hands1301

    @hands1301

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yusra Ismail OMG 😆 where do you live? And what the heck, her parents must be very sick people 🤢. Really my family has every Somali qabil and we are proud. I would love 💕 anyone who is gabooye to join in my family

  • @Rayan_04689

    @Rayan_04689

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@hands1301 Im from London and isaaq people didnt even start war . Siad barres regime started it by discriminating against us. Its obviously BS her parents are telling her. I hate to say it but I feel like tribalism will never end because parents a telling their kids these things.

  • @aliyaadan704
    @aliyaadan7044 жыл бұрын

    U guys are so cute mashallah 😭❤️

  • @khadija16_ka44
    @khadija16_ka444 жыл бұрын

    Nawal has amazing teeth mashallah. pearl-like smile wlhi.

  • @yusufabdihussein7270
    @yusufabdihussein72704 жыл бұрын

    Mansha'Allah..

  • @aronibeauty
    @aronibeauty4 жыл бұрын

    Sis said financially literate 🤣

  • @munahassan7492
    @munahassan74924 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhh such pretty and funny girls mashallah. I was laughing the entire video !!

  • @muphasa1794
    @muphasa17944 жыл бұрын

    Ive seen few KZreadrs. You guys are reasonable mashallah

  • @Abdul-nk4dy
    @Abdul-nk4dy4 жыл бұрын

    These women are gorgeous Manshallah 😍😍😍

  • @saidaabdinassir7892
    @saidaabdinassir78924 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah my sisers ❤❤❤

  • @Saidastiles
    @Saidastiles4 жыл бұрын

    I wanna hang out with you ladies 🥰🥰 love this

  • @BellaBigDeal

    @BellaBigDeal

    4 жыл бұрын

    :) anytime sista

  • @aminajirde4797
    @aminajirde47974 жыл бұрын

    Good job

  • @jaboubaa928
    @jaboubaa9284 жыл бұрын

    Wow I really ❤️ you friend and need to checkout her channel.

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes check her out @bellabigdeal

  • @Destinay4lyf
    @Destinay4lyf4 жыл бұрын

    Saying baby and my love when it’s only week 2 of talking is such a turn off. Not that the word baby is offensive, but if you could say that to me and we’ve only known eachother for a week, what do you call all these other xaliimos in your luuq? It just shows me that the nigga is fast as hell

  • @CC-mv1cg
    @CC-mv1cg4 жыл бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @yarasulyman9054
    @yarasulyman90544 жыл бұрын

    Marry someone on the same level of ur deen so u can work on it together

  • @wandaba90
    @wandaba90 Жыл бұрын

    Osob side comments made me feel attacked looool same age as you two great advice mashaAllah tabarakAllah

  • @suns2027
    @suns20274 жыл бұрын

    ‘My deal breaker is tribe’ audubilah 😭😭

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    😢😩

  • @TheSoflydiva
    @TheSoflydiva4 жыл бұрын

    great video, what lip color are you wearing?

  • @hhhhccfg556
    @hhhhccfg5564 жыл бұрын

    Signed a mirror you’re the best sister

  • @tiyyas3022
    @tiyyas30224 жыл бұрын

    Girl even Imams are sayin “babe” in 2020😭😭😭! We just leveling up I guess

  • @otimemmanuel1870
    @otimemmanuel18704 жыл бұрын

    Guys your glowing

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Otim

  • @jaboubaa928
    @jaboubaa9284 жыл бұрын

    I have been married for 21 years and I don’t want to be called baby, honey or anything else.

  • @SS-cu8se

    @SS-cu8se

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol so funny, I used to cringe at the idea of being called baby by a love interest, and then I got married and bam lol I all of a sudden love it lol

  • @Fahmafaridabeauty
    @Fahmafaridabeauty4 жыл бұрын

    Mnsha allah beautiful girls ❤️

  • @europa3233
    @europa32333 жыл бұрын

    I don't know how I got surprised by the accent of a stranger, kinda presumptuous of me, but still surprising.

  • @aminajirde4797
    @aminajirde47974 жыл бұрын

    So funny

  • @zainabmohamed930
    @zainabmohamed9304 жыл бұрын

    First time I came across your channel nd I assumed you were from London den I hear your accents I’m like sis😂

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    People always say that to me, especially on snap lol idk why

  • @zainabmohamed930

    @zainabmohamed930

    4 жыл бұрын

    Osob Beauty idk why I was expecting it Lmaooo it’s cuh I’m from the uk Nd you could just tell whos from the uk idk how but I acc tho you were

  • @farhiyaa4880
    @farhiyaa48803 жыл бұрын

    Men wants their women to have more modest clothes..but persue the ladies dress less modest ....Make it make sense.

  • @kopend8638

    @kopend8638

    3 жыл бұрын

    Less modest is for friendly interactions

  • @and-hx5gr
    @and-hx5gr9 ай бұрын

    Are they even friends now? they do not even follow each other anymore?

  • @fddf560
    @fddf5604 жыл бұрын

    30? Mashallah you look 20

  • @cutechica100
    @cutechica1004 жыл бұрын

    First aaaahhh

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    So quick!

  • @crystalrubbie9383
    @crystalrubbie93834 жыл бұрын

    what is these men talking bout makeup .... like um sir i need more u gonna help ?????

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right! The nerve

  • @tlester6885
    @tlester68854 жыл бұрын

    I have a crush on you Osob ☺️

  • @misbahailia3345
    @misbahailia33453 жыл бұрын

    5:24 As far as I'm aware, I haven't come across a Qur'an verse where Allah advised women to not wear pants. Just me? 😐

  • @mehwishowais9793
    @mehwishowais97934 жыл бұрын

    Your bone structures...howww!!?its unreal!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @yasinzk9104
    @yasinzk91044 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah does the one in black have a man 👀😍

  • @laylamise1147
    @laylamise11474 жыл бұрын

    With qaabill it’s not bad in the U.K.

  • @Rayan_04689

    @Rayan_04689

    4 жыл бұрын

    Trust me it is my friend told me isaaq people started the war so she can't marry one

  • @kichw

    @kichw

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Rayan_04689 lmaooooooo how did that work out for her? Qabiliste chikaz are funny.

  • @HoyaZak
    @HoyaZak4 жыл бұрын

    Never build a man. Watch SheRaSeven1 KZread Chanel for great advices

  • @hhhhccfg556
    @hhhhccfg5564 жыл бұрын

    Love you my sis scribe to your other channel if I subscribe to your Friends channel oh I love her do you actually I was playing Roblox with her last time she was there and he’s like the best friend to me and also you are you are my best friend you are my Besty to my life

  • @BellaBigDeal

    @BellaBigDeal

    4 жыл бұрын

    your the best amira!!!

  • @unknown-xx4mi
    @unknown-xx4mi4 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah you’re 30?? I thought you were 22 or 23 max

  • @Kokohihellobye
    @Kokohihellobye3 жыл бұрын

    Where are you’re hijabs from Please 😍😍

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    3 жыл бұрын

    alene.ca

  • @zahraali4487
    @zahraali44874 жыл бұрын

    I’m very interested to know what they drinking 😭😂

  • @eidem3363

    @eidem3363

    4 жыл бұрын

    it's boba tea

  • @qazali6
    @qazali64 жыл бұрын

    "i wont ask you but i will be offended if you don offer" ladies smh

  • @jassimajassima
    @jassimajassima4 жыл бұрын

    لبس حاب ما عرف

  • @falischika6221
    @falischika62214 жыл бұрын

    Good funny video but Osob I thought you were Dhulbahante lmfaooo you have the akhlaq and the looks of a Dhulbahante chick. And I think Bella is Marehan 🤣😆

  • @kichw

    @kichw

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do tell what are they?

  • @jennag999
    @jennag9994 жыл бұрын

    At the end of the day the man is responsible for the woman (Quran). If he doesnt give you a curfew then what is the man for the woman? If he doesnt care where and when the woman is outside then he doesnt care about his responsibility and I cant imagine him having much Taqwa wAllahu alam

  • @user-li2fk9hy7f

    @user-li2fk9hy7f

    4 жыл бұрын

    What he is not is my/our Dad. Alhamdulillah God already filled that position, his position is being a husband. You Husband should care about were your going and want to know were you are only when the intention behind those questions is for safety reasons ,not out of ownership or anything like that. Also there’s many ways to show that someone cares. How hope you’re having a nice day and May Allah bless you in every way❤️

  • @zamzamguled9760

    @zamzamguled9760

    4 жыл бұрын

    K wait ! Didn’t you not know that the minute the meher happens that positions moves automatically to your husband lol. and your dad is no longer your responsibility!

  • @jennag999

    @jennag999

    4 жыл бұрын

    zamzam guled yes agree! Unfortunately a lot of women dont know that or just dont want any man telling them what to do or dont. I believe this is why lots of marriages fail.

  • @hidjabaya1220
    @hidjabaya12202 жыл бұрын

    Salaam alaikum ❤ We really like your content, mashallah! 😍 We believe that our amazing product will be great content for your audience. Hidjabaya is the first foldable prayer abaya in the Muslim fashion world. How we can create cooperation between us?

  • @ivorysmith239
    @ivorysmith2394 жыл бұрын

    Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” 17 Jesus replied, “BLESSED ARE YOU, Simon son of Jonah, for this was NOT revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by MY FATHER IN HEAVEN. (Matthew 16:16-17) I and the Father are one.” (John 10:30) Looking for the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of OUR GREAT GOD and SAVIOR, Christ Jesus (Titus 2:13). Then a cloud appeared and covered them, and a voice came from the cloud: "This is my Son, whom I love. Listen to him!" (Mark 9:7) Repent and accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. He was more than just a prophet He was God manifested in the flesh (1 Timothy 3:15) and He is coming back soon to Judge the world. that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, 11 and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER. (Philippians 2:10-11) Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God's wrath remains on them. (John 3:36)

  • @ChickwithaStick
    @ChickwithaStick4 жыл бұрын

    Rad content!! Check us out if you get a free sec!

  • @omriyo
    @omriyo4 жыл бұрын

    Nothing wrong with using terms of endearment. Why should people police their language of affection to one another. It's not ceeb or haram. Y'all need to get with it is what it is.

  • @OsobBeauty

    @OsobBeauty

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nothing wrong with it, we were joking around. Everyone has their own comfort level.

  • @Noname31a
    @Noname31a2 жыл бұрын

    Gosh the one in the Black is super annoying and seems childish and does not seem wife material from how she talks. The other seems mature and feminine and discerning. Guess why she was a wife once. And the other I would assume never married and men in her area may not want to marry her- her talk is just “gen z” even tho she is in her 30’s. Very odd how both are diff. Sleep downs no talk normally. People will talk you serious when you don’t speak fast.

  • @Noname31a

    @Noname31a

    2 жыл бұрын

    She interrupts a lot. Wow.

  • @Ali01007
    @Ali010074 жыл бұрын

    The girl in black doing too much really.

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