GIRL CHAT: Attending a Wedding You Don’t Approve Of

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Real fam, have you ever gone to a wedding even though you thought the relationship wouldn’t last?

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  • @deetheentertainer3879
    @deetheentertainer38794 жыл бұрын

    Tamera is sooooooo beautiful, this shade of blue is doing everything for her complexion

  • @BriaBarrows

    @BriaBarrows

    4 жыл бұрын

    so pretty

  • @emj970

    @emj970

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙌💙💙💙

  • @GameOn71213

    @GameOn71213

    4 жыл бұрын

    Girl yass she is everything

  • @GameOn71213

    @GameOn71213

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Kea Knight you think so, Loni got a white man herself, plus Tam is half white

  • @sarahtheblue

    @sarahtheblue

    4 жыл бұрын

    oh she is gorgeous!

  • @marshellsmith2224
    @marshellsmith22244 жыл бұрын

    Tamera is just STRAIGHT GLOWING! Her skin, her smile, and her spirit is SHOWING!

  • @baggergurl16

    @baggergurl16

    4 жыл бұрын

    Marshell Smith Anytime I see Tamera she is always glowing

  • @marshellsmith2224

    @marshellsmith2224

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@baggergurl16 YES girl! lol The light if Christ shines through her!

  • @linda.z.1682

    @linda.z.1682

    4 жыл бұрын

    that’s Jesus, only He can do that!🥰

  • @daphnebailey6223

    @daphnebailey6223

    4 жыл бұрын

    ikr she looks so beautiful 💙👩🏽‍🦱🤍

  • @marshellsmith2224

    @marshellsmith2224

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@daphnebailey6223 Yes! most definitely!

  • @LuisLuxe
    @LuisLuxe4 жыл бұрын

    “dont get married just to get married” yesssssssss👏🏽

  • @toogeeky4u

    @toogeeky4u

    4 жыл бұрын

    LuisLuxe love that!

  • @sweettee6827
    @sweettee68274 жыл бұрын

    Tamera: "To make a long story short..." Also Tamera: "Proceeds to give EVERY detail of the story." 😂😂😂😩

  • @lexi219

    @lexi219

    4 жыл бұрын

    You know full well whenever a black woman says "long story short...", you still got five minutes left of that story 😂

  • @sweettee6827

    @sweettee6827

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lexi219 #Facts 😂😂😂

  • @rauntieolofin1933

    @rauntieolofin1933

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol... I thought it was jst me... I love me some Tam though... but I had to skip to find out what happened 😄😄😃

  • @sweettee6827

    @sweettee6827

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rauntieolofin1933 right lol

  • @LadySunflower1224

    @LadySunflower1224

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @jordanoliver8809
    @jordanoliver88094 жыл бұрын

    Tamera: how did they handle you saying you weren’t gonna go? Loni: they just had to handle it. 😂😂😂

  • @OShawna23

    @OShawna23

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Oliver 🤣

  • @capricorn2723

    @capricorn2723

    4 жыл бұрын

    😩😩😂

  • @daphnebailey6223

    @daphnebailey6223

    4 жыл бұрын

    i love loni 💙😂

  • @yahiramontanez6645

    @yahiramontanez6645

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@daphnebailey6223 uterine

  • @QueenofHearts02
    @QueenofHearts024 жыл бұрын

    "REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION"...YES, YES, YESSSS! Whether it is in the form of employment, relationships, and friendships...I have come to know that statement is a fact. #praisehim!

  • @locafly

    @locafly

    4 жыл бұрын

    Queen say it again!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ShiningBright777

    @ShiningBright777

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen in Jesus name!!!

  • @alexkkx

    @alexkkx

    3 жыл бұрын

    AMEN!!! ✝️💖🙌🏼🙏🏼🕊

  • @catherinejohnson9555

    @catherinejohnson9555

    3 жыл бұрын

    and there's the truth right there!!!

  • @measme8586

    @measme8586

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is powerful. Can you open a counselling service?

  • @leomajor4145
    @leomajor41454 жыл бұрын

    I would attend any wedding as long as there's going to be good food.

  • @cogco4535

    @cogco4535

    4 жыл бұрын

    SAMEEEEE

  • @damiengarbutt7229

    @damiengarbutt7229

    4 жыл бұрын

    Here here. 🍾

  • @daylonwright3635

    @daylonwright3635

    4 жыл бұрын

    And an open bar 🥃

  • @daphnebailey6223

    @daphnebailey6223

    4 жыл бұрын

    SAMMMEE 😂😂😱

  • @ValeriiaJ

    @ValeriiaJ

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @JenJHayden
    @JenJHayden4 жыл бұрын

    would you ever attend a wedding you didn't approve of....have you seen the divorce rate? 😑 a lot of people should have said I don't at their OWN wedding.

  • @elenavernet8376

    @elenavernet8376

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jen J facts

  • @briethompson439

    @briethompson439

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @baggergurl16

    @baggergurl16

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good point

  • @candi7806

    @candi7806

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree with the divorce rates. If i may. Its due to our egos. Marriage and family forming is the most selfless thing you can fi if its done right.

  • @nicoletaelor279

    @nicoletaelor279

    4 жыл бұрын

    Candi Cerna I also think it comes from pressure to get married from parents/older relatives when they’re nowhere near ready to get married.

  • @redgurl60
    @redgurl604 жыл бұрын

    I was in a wedding where I knew it wouldn't last, but she was my friend and she needed all the support she could get. They had kids, so I understood why she was doing it. Her and I had an honest conversation, so she was clear on where I stood. I was the last bridesmaid before she walked down the aisle. I turned and asked her if she was sure, because it wasn't too late. Her dad looked at her and affirmed my statement. She said she wanted to do it, so I marched. You can't make grown folks do what you think is best for them. Sometimes they just have to find out on their own.

  • @maaanuervin

    @maaanuervin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nique Franklin are they still together?

  • @gcromer903

    @gcromer903

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's great support from you 👍🏼

  • @mayab.1633

    @mayab.1633

    4 жыл бұрын

    You just changed my opinion, thanks for the wise words 😊🌹

  • @daphnebailey6223

    @daphnebailey6223

    4 жыл бұрын

    love this 💕 she has to learn on her own but love how u were there 4 her😊

  • @tagaway6173

    @tagaway6173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update!

  • @daniaa1602
    @daniaa16024 жыл бұрын

    Its very easy to say "well just don't go" when its not your parent or sibling..

  • @amandatracey3287

    @amandatracey3287

    4 жыл бұрын

    YES! This is the issue I’ve been dealing with for months. My step-brother is set to get married in February and I’ve been pretty close with his fiancée. I was supposed to stand up in the wedding. We found out recently that my step-brother is a manipulative, abusive, toxic person and neither of them should be getting married and they definitely shouldn’t be bringing children into that unhealthy environment. He has pushed away all of his immediate family because we have all called both of them out on their lies and manipulation. I know my stepdad in particular has had a very hard time with it because it’s his son and he doesn’t want to believe that his son is this terrible person. Luckily, he’s able to see past it being his son and realize what is really happening and why their toxic relationship should not be supported. And Lord knows I told his fiancée these things. When she asked if I was still gonna be in the wedding, I told her no because her marriage is doomed to end in divorce but she doesn’t have the self respect to do what needs to be done. If you didn’t want the facts, you shouldn’t have asked. Not my fault you’re delusional and desperate🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @lisah.1149

    @lisah.1149

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or family in general...

  • @eMrsFreakyy

    @eMrsFreakyy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or best friend

  • @demibellini6915

    @demibellini6915

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I would have had this problem if my mom decided to get married where we lived. I genuinely wouldn’t have wanted to go, but the guy doesn’t know that that. Luckily they went and got married in another country.

  • @pamilton69

    @pamilton69

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right, I was a bridesmaid at my bestfriends wedding and didn't approve of it.

  • @rae4828
    @rae48284 жыл бұрын

    This blue is perfectttt for Tameras skin tone

  • @jasminefigueroa8343
    @jasminefigueroa83434 жыл бұрын

    Jeannie's "I want it back" was EVERYTHING

  • @londonpeach6223

    @londonpeach6223

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jeannie be coming through with the Real good conversation.

  • @johnanon3191

    @johnanon3191

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jeannie Mai was NOT here for it. She got mad. I'm with her though. I want my money back!

  • @rodneywhite406

    @rodneywhite406

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Jeannie. I came for an "I do". That's what I paid for!

  • @maaanuervin

    @maaanuervin

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was living for it!!!

  • @NiqueTheSneak1

    @NiqueTheSneak1

    3 жыл бұрын

    I loooooove her!! That gave me life right there lmao cuz she’s right, I want my damn money! I didn’t pay all this money for my suit and shoes for no damn party without the wedding! 🤬😂

  • @mariesadiebrown
    @mariesadiebrown4 жыл бұрын

    Loni makeup 💄 and hair💇🏾‍♀️ is on point💯

  • @starh.5122

    @starh.5122

    4 жыл бұрын

    It really is!!!!!

  • @BriLoveMusic

    @BriLoveMusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    And the way her velvety lipstick compliments her top 😍👌 She's so pretty. 🙄

  • @Eatloveexplore143

    @Eatloveexplore143

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was just bout to say this!! Lol

  • @moniquekyahlovewilson2374

    @moniquekyahlovewilson2374

    4 жыл бұрын

    I scrolled through the comments looking for this specific comment! I 100% agree. Loni looks great here.

  • @HannahMileyforever1

    @HannahMileyforever1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yoooo Loni is young but that makeup makes her look EVEN younger 😍😍😍😍 I cant stop looking at her!

  • @Ohhello_itskat
    @Ohhello_itskat4 жыл бұрын

    Whenever Jeanie opens her mouth I’M SHOOK. She has so much insight and wisdom in her words💙

  • @MsJojotiti
    @MsJojotiti4 жыл бұрын

    "They just had to handle it" Loni is savage! 😂😂😂

  • @lakendracollier5099
    @lakendracollier50994 жыл бұрын

    Going to the wedding wasn't the problem. Keeping your mouth shut after it fell apart trying not to say "I told ya so", is what's hard.

  • @ellemikaelson266

    @ellemikaelson266

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @emilyschultz6437
    @emilyschultz64374 жыл бұрын

    PUT THE ORIGINAL AIR DATE IN THE CAPTION PLEASE. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dsjenzen

    @dsjenzen

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup, this is an old video

  • @tvm-growthisunlimited9023

    @tvm-growthisunlimited9023

    4 жыл бұрын

    I significantly reduced the amount of time I click on The Real's videos because it's so time consuming to select what is dated as a new video but only to realize that I've looked at or skipped over it multiple times before due to it age.

  • @tellittomyvoicemail

    @tellittomyvoicemail

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank You!

  • @GB-ic1im
    @GB-ic1im4 жыл бұрын

    Loni: "Every week you get married..." 😂😂😂

  • @cococherrymango1225

    @cococherrymango1225

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Chosen Warrior Bruh lol

  • @clANAnett
    @clANAnett4 жыл бұрын

    tamera's stylist knows color theory all too well bc sis is GLOWING!

  • @aliciat4173
    @aliciat41734 жыл бұрын

    Jeannie's demand for a refund though...she was serious as a heart attack. She had me laughin so hard that i had to watch her reaction again!!

  • @its_celeste6722
    @its_celeste67224 жыл бұрын

    So the tea is that my dad is now going to marry the GIRL he was with when he was with my mother..which my sisters and I never liked for obviously reasons! (also she over all not a good person drama went down between her and my sis) and NOW my sisters and I along with my dads siblings are NOT going to be attending my dads wedding 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @May-ml4tg

    @May-ml4tg

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good for yall some people don't deserve your attendance

  • @cicif6473

    @cicif6473

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its_ Celeste I would like more tea

  • @twokidsmom5309

    @twokidsmom5309

    4 жыл бұрын

    It feels like the Girl is toxic and that it's not about not supporting your father, it's about making it clear she can't have your joy.

  • @its_celeste6722

    @its_celeste6722

    4 жыл бұрын

    Twokids Mom exactly..

  • @crystalscameraroll7192

    @crystalscameraroll7192

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its_ Celeste girl I feel you. My dad ended up marrying the girl he cheated on my mom with and left the family. She would send us pictures of the wedding and didn’t allow him to talk to us. 10 years later.. we’re helping him with his divorce!

  • @corylatham3835
    @corylatham38354 жыл бұрын

    "I want it back!" I agree with Jeannie XD

  • @dinkyboss

    @dinkyboss

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cory Latham lmaooo same! I totally felt her there 😤🤣

  • @jeannap8867
    @jeannap88674 жыл бұрын

    I’m with Jeanie. I bought a WEDDING gift and if there is no WEDDING , I want MY WEDDING gift back. Period pooh !

  • @zeytuunfiqi1276
    @zeytuunfiqi12764 жыл бұрын

    We can’t predict the future so let’s just enjoy the present and be thankful.

  • @BriaBarrows

    @BriaBarrows

    4 жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @BriaBarrows

    @BriaBarrows

    4 жыл бұрын

    i love this. i have trouble just saying in the present

  • @christinalucas1002

    @christinalucas1002

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree but ladies (and guys) don't ignore red flags and hope for the best

  • @cm5394

    @cm5394

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree, but a wedding where maybe you know one person is unfaithful already or abusive that’s not something that’s going to get better

  • @jeni3386

    @jeni3386

    4 жыл бұрын

    C Mac right. But that’s like what Adrianne said. There’s a difference in having an opinion about if someone is going to last forever or not. And not being able to attend the wedding because you’re against it. Now the reason you’re against it might be one of the things that you listed. But if not, I think that the comment you replied to is pretty accurate. Like Adrianne said, you can’t see the sparks they feel.

  • @Msdufr
    @Msdufr4 жыл бұрын

    Adrian is a lot wiser than she gets credit for.

  • @deliapalacios5968
    @deliapalacios59684 жыл бұрын

    At my parents wedding a drunk man walked in right when the pastor said “speak now or forever hold your peace” and screamed “I WANT TO MARRY HER” and then was escorted out

  • @las3rdams3l

    @las3rdams3l

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @debofChrist

    @debofChrist

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣😭

  • @Candaicelovesjesus

    @Candaicelovesjesus

    4 жыл бұрын

    Delia Palacios 💀👀😩🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅😅😅😅😅

  • @jayjaythelisma8680

    @jayjaythelisma8680

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tjandcj123

    @tjandcj123

    4 жыл бұрын

    Delia Palacios 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  • @ricardocintron3954
    @ricardocintron39544 жыл бұрын

    Tam Tam is SO BEAUTIFUL AND Vibrant in that dress YESS!! And Jeannies hair isssss poppinnnn

  • @cavmay5096
    @cavmay50964 жыл бұрын

    Thank u. i was debating going to a wedding i dont approve of. I just cant condone abusive relationships.

  • @monk3ysAn
    @monk3ysAn4 жыл бұрын

    Jeanie's response (7:37-7:50) was the best 13 seconds of my life!!!💀💀💀

  • @TshegoMolefe

    @TshegoMolefe

    2 жыл бұрын

    ..and I absolutely agree with her🤣🤣

  • @christinaa5582

    @christinaa5582

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol she was so serious 🤣

  • @delorianlove615
    @delorianlove6154 жыл бұрын

    Loni, once again slaying people’s life with the hair and perfect makeup 💄💕

  • @fayepatrice1672

    @fayepatrice1672

    4 жыл бұрын

    Her lipstick👏🏾🙌🏾👄

  • @MH-et4bo

    @MH-et4bo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Prettttyyyy

  • @TheNoblegaz
    @TheNoblegaz4 жыл бұрын

    "...Rejection is Gods' protection."

  • @biancam2460

    @biancam2460

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @oradsincesar90
    @oradsincesar904 жыл бұрын

    I was a Maid of Honor at a wedding I didn't approve of. But I talked to her about it, I told her why I didn't think it was a good idea but she still wanted me to be there.

  • @Deathbycurves
    @Deathbycurves4 жыл бұрын

    Honey, never regret how you handled things when you were younger. That's how you learn, baby! You handled it the best you could at the time, and you still were respectful and kind. Don't forget the things you did right!

  • @marieowens4943

    @marieowens4943

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cosign Ms. Maggs...it was a learning experience 😊

  • @cm5394

    @cm5394

    4 жыл бұрын

    I disagree with the idea of not regretting anything. If you can’t recognize that you did something you shouldn’t have done then you can’t learn from your mistakes

  • @ceairamgivens1052
    @ceairamgivens10524 жыл бұрын

    I feel like Loni is always just slightly off topic lol. She answers a different question than everyone else.

  • @IAintY0M0mma

    @IAintY0M0mma

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, i think she does yhar to be the "comic: of the group. She always comes with a punch line or joke. Like the Red head on the view, no shade

  • @madisonhartwick8114

    @madisonhartwick8114

    4 жыл бұрын

    CEAIRA M GIVENS I love it though, keeps the conversation moving

  • @rebeccaramos3246

    @rebeccaramos3246

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love her 🤣😂

  • @lilmissbubblzable

    @lilmissbubblzable

    4 жыл бұрын

    Different perspectives

  • @sfab5039

    @sfab5039

    4 жыл бұрын

    Always

  • @monapotter8757
    @monapotter87574 жыл бұрын

    I swear I feel like I am living Tamera’s younger life. I am 21 now and everything that Tamera went through in relationships, is the same thing I have or currently going through now. I can relate to her so much.

  • @BriLoveMusic

    @BriLoveMusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well you're gorgeous and obviously a kind heart. Keep praying for that good man. Just, never lower your standards because of a few faulty guys. I know the search is painful, but patience brings you good things. 💛

  • @monapotter8757

    @monapotter8757

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bri Love Thank you for your encouraging words. It really means a lot 💖. I pray that God continues to bless your kind heart. 🙏🏾

  • @noirfit9721
    @noirfit97214 жыл бұрын

    Loni and Tam are giving me life with these colors! Loni, that’s your color honey!!! And that blue is striking!

  • @farzana297
    @farzana2974 жыл бұрын

    i love loni and tamera's friendship.

  • @hyperactivegenie
    @hyperactivegenie4 жыл бұрын

    I like what Adrianne and Jeannie said about the people at your wedding being people who are doing life with you. They are your community who you should be able to count on in good and tough times.

  • @kenideg1558
    @kenideg15584 жыл бұрын

    If you don’t approve don’t go. Your opinion doesn’t matter

  • @dinkyboss

    @dinkyboss

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ken Guillaume the problem is if your friend is PUSHING you to go even if you disagree. Because I agree if you aren’t down don’t go. But that situation is tough depending on your reason

  • @kenideg1558

    @kenideg1558

    4 жыл бұрын

    dinkyboss true I agree just like Adrienne said if at the moment the pastor says may you remain silent forever don’t be thereb

  • @shumetesam7407

    @shumetesam7407

    4 жыл бұрын

    What if it's your closest sister wedding?

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio4 жыл бұрын

    Tam nailed it, I attended for her reasoning. I have DEFINITELY attended weddings that I knew were doomed, and sadly (in both cases) I was right. I just received an invite to one from a friend that is marrying a guy in Vegas in January. She is marrying a guy she met on Tinder, had a one night stand (in an alley against the wall), she moved him in to her house and he is CLEARLY using her. I will not be attending. 9:11 Exactly Loni! I agree. I've only been stood up once but it taught me to never treat anyone like that throughout my dating life. I had a date this past Friday night that I WISH I had stood up! LOL! Whoa howdy, he has to be a serial killer! Very odd....

  • @melissalajoie101

    @melissalajoie101

    4 жыл бұрын

    Belinda Joy hey I’m marrying my “one night stand” and it’s been 7 years! :)

  • @kathycollins4350

    @kathycollins4350

    4 жыл бұрын

    I soo agree with your opinion and your friend needs to be took aside and clued in on what a loser he is before she invests too much into this POS.. @Belinda Joy..

  • @melissalajoie101

    @melissalajoie101

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hehe @belinda no .... I guess the situation is a lil different then!

  • @j.graham8201

    @j.graham8201

    4 жыл бұрын

    LMAOOOO in an alley against the wall 😂😂

  • @larissaleann6081
    @larissaleann60814 жыл бұрын

    “They just had to handle it” 😂🤣 I love Loni

  • @namastewellness
    @namastewellness4 жыл бұрын

    Tamara: Five years later... Jeanie: How long after...? Tamara: It was five years.

  • @iMolikaMenThlang
    @iMolikaMenThlang4 жыл бұрын

    I said it once already and ima say it again. The divorce industry is a billion dollar industry. Go figure. 😏

  • @jayjaythelisma8680

    @jayjaythelisma8680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahaha

  • @ashsparkle4283
    @ashsparkle42834 жыл бұрын

    I'm like Tamera whenever something goes wrong with a guy I always blame myslef for everything. Its not good of me to think this way because it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me

  • @damiengarbutt7229
    @damiengarbutt72294 жыл бұрын

    My second eldest sister has been married 5 times. Every time she invites us to a wedding we just consider it a time to get off from work and eat free food and dance all night. We call her Liz Taylor. 🤣

  • @xomcrrockstarxo
    @xomcrrockstarxo4 жыл бұрын

    I love Loni. Sometimes she says exactly what I say. "They just had to deal with it" 😂😭

  • @callmecordelia7181
    @callmecordelia71814 жыл бұрын

    Wedding guests are witnesses to a covenant being formed. Great thought.

  • @rebekahharris8713
    @rebekahharris87134 жыл бұрын

    Loni is tooo funny..lol she said now you just pissed me off and i need his name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ChibiChick25
    @ChibiChick254 жыл бұрын

    Loni said it! Call a marriage what you want but at the end of the day it is a legally binding contract. That is why I consistently tell people I will have a prenup if I ever get married.

  • @samantha9852
    @samantha98524 жыл бұрын

    It depends on the situation, but if you really don't approve of the wedding then don't go.

  • @lynettesmith6153
    @lynettesmith61534 жыл бұрын

    Loni said they just gonna have to handle it 😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @cari3997
    @cari39974 жыл бұрын

    I attended a wedding that i didn't know the couple only 2 days before they married in Cancun. I ended up catching the bouquet. About the couple they're still holding strong 👍

  • @amandatracey3287

    @amandatracey3287

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m confused...you didn’t know the couple but you went to their wedding?

  • @cari3997

    @cari3997

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@amandatracey3287 My co-worker invited me, his brother also a co-worker is the brother-in-law to the bride.

  • @DevineSpecimen
    @DevineSpecimen4 жыл бұрын

    Lanis looks so beautiful and her makeup looks stunning 😍

  • @josie04
    @josie043 жыл бұрын

    I LOVEEEEE Adrienne’s energy. She’s so uplifting and such positive and funny vibes 👏🏿👏🏿

  • @seoulseokjin
    @seoulseokjin4 жыл бұрын

    Loni is always the realist in terms of being realistic/ grounded/ giving advice of The Real. Jeannie is real in terms of just spilling the tea with no filter. Tam and A def have some pink filters. They do have good points from time to time and they are kind/ good friends but for a panelist I like Loni and Jeannie best.

  • @lonestarlatina1955
    @lonestarlatina19554 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had a "Loni" in my life 😂💗💗

  • @pakomotshwarakgole9796

    @pakomotshwarakgole9796

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too😂😂I love her honestly 🤞🏿♥️

  • @TheShooteR28
    @TheShooteR284 жыл бұрын

    Tam said long story short, then proceeded to tell a mini- series LoL

  • @hokuokalani17
    @hokuokalani174 жыл бұрын

    Jeannie!!! Lol "I want it back!" Me too girl, right there with you!

  • @tamararussell1791
    @tamararussell17914 жыл бұрын

    Tamera looks so beautiful with her natural hair and skin glowing !!😍😍💙

  • @AlesSpot
    @AlesSpot4 жыл бұрын

    We all need a friend like Loni 😂

  • @soniandukwe8981
    @soniandukwe89814 жыл бұрын

    I did that before and I literally couldn’t look the groom in the eye when they came around to give hugs, so this time around, I told my friend straight up Im not attending this toxic fest.

  • @shanelchamik2177
    @shanelchamik21774 жыл бұрын

    I was a brides maid, she was my best friend I tried to advise but to no avail.. 4 years later with one child the guy has moved out at least 4 times, he's been arrested for physical assault and she's had a miscarriage due to physical assault. But short of kidnapping her there's nothing we can do apart from being there for her.

  • @ms.branch1207
    @ms.branch12074 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Tam. I would try to support my friend.

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee4 жыл бұрын

    Im gonna miss these daily 14m videos when the new season starts 🥺😩

  • @MajesticMyronn

    @MajesticMyronn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tameri Harding I’m sure they’re still gonna post these throwbacks lol

  • @DaniielaVergara

    @DaniielaVergara

    4 жыл бұрын

    they will be back in 2020🤣😭

  • @envy1xc

    @envy1xc

    4 жыл бұрын

    Daniela G SERIOUSLY?☠️☠️

  • @aimeem.h5909

    @aimeem.h5909

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm in the uk so dont watch the actual show just these videos. What do you mean by your comment?

  • @celaya17
    @celaya174 жыл бұрын

    10:38 omg I love, it reminded me of sister sister when she said “yeah” I got stood up

  • @karlamoreno1659
    @karlamoreno16594 жыл бұрын

    Yasssss Adrienne!! A marriage is a covenant with God ❤ It's a beautiful promise!

  • @IsabellaYBella
    @IsabellaYBella4 жыл бұрын

    Omg Tamara is goals!!! All the ladies are flawless but the way Tamara carries herself is like a goddess!! 😍

  • @ambriellemurray8442
    @ambriellemurray84424 жыл бұрын

    I may not support the wedding but I will always support my friend choices (unless it dangerous put her self in harm, etc). I agree with Tam on this one. You don’t know the future.

  • @naezie0439
    @naezie04394 жыл бұрын

    Loni... what happened!!!??? Hahahahaha I told youuuu i told you LOL

  • @AllisonLee333
    @AllisonLee3334 жыл бұрын

    I know some who marry just so they are not alone

  • @pathways678
    @pathways678 Жыл бұрын

    I've been in a wedding I didn't really think approve of and I know others felt the same way. No one said anything. Sometimes you gotta let people find out for themselves.

  • @QaadirHoward
    @QaadirHoward3 жыл бұрын

    “I ain’t ever seen nothing like that” -Loni -Me “because it didn’t happen Ms Malt liquor 🥃 USA”

  • @jakemcdaid7667

    @jakemcdaid7667

    3 жыл бұрын

    omgggg 💀💀

  • @khayirafarah2834

    @khayirafarah2834

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m screaming 😂😂

  • @QaadirHoward

    @QaadirHoward

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Open Minded Shoot me the link or it didnt happen bro. She stay lying with her non-drinking ass. Ms I looked crazy taking a spicy shot USA

  • @anxietyisms
    @anxietyisms4 жыл бұрын

    You can not approve of a wedding and still go to support them.

  • @shirleya662
    @shirleya6624 жыл бұрын

    Wow Tam is looking so good! Edges wow. Jennie is so beautiful as well 😍

  • @lovethyself4746
    @lovethyself47464 жыл бұрын

    Tamera!!! Is absolutely beautiful! Especially with her natural hair

  • @partygirl1215
    @partygirl12154 жыл бұрын

    Tamera looks so gorgeous in this video!

  • @princesszahara6953

    @princesszahara6953

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tanisha Patel she always do

  • @myperspective4U2C
    @myperspective4U2C4 жыл бұрын

    A lot of people thought my marriage wouldn't last for no more than a year because we got married fast. We are 8 YEARS STRONG 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪!! So in their face!! Moral of the story, just because you don't "approve" of something doesn't mean you are right. I agree with Tamara on this one!

  • @tripletsgirl

    @tripletsgirl

    4 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @summerlyric506
    @summerlyric5063 жыл бұрын

    Tamera's shimmy 😍😍😍 Loni looks great too. Her story about the side piece at the wedding is insane!

  • @muycaliente6196
    @muycaliente61964 жыл бұрын

    When I got stood up that one time when I was 16, I just went to cinema on my own and had a great time. It really was a gift, it helped me realise that YOU need to treat yourself as a Queen before anyone else does. You really do learn how fabulous being with yourself can be 😊

  • @rvarlcin59
    @rvarlcin594 жыл бұрын

    Lonnie, whatever happiness you have is showing through girl! You look gorgeous!

  • @misssarah7195
    @misssarah71954 жыл бұрын

    I was in a wedding where many of our friends felt the groom could do better. The best man didn't show in protest/disapproval and I went from being a bridesmaid to the best man minutes before the ceremony. I don't regret standing with my friend, they were getting married and deserved to have support. However their marriage did end when he came home from work early to find her in bed with another man so maybe when your friends question a relationship they might know what they are talking about.

  • @toonsnooper
    @toonsnooper2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe this is why jeanie didn’t invite them

  • @ajemroberts3903
    @ajemroberts39033 жыл бұрын

    I have a long time friend that was going to get married, I knew it wasn’t going to work, I told her my concern about it, twice and asked her if she was sure, she said yes and I was still going to be her maid of honor. I would have never mentioned it again and from that point I just supported her. She decided a week before not to get married, I was shocked but glad she made a decision that was right for her

  • @ganishya
    @ganishya4 жыл бұрын

    Good to know that even beautiful celebrities like Tamera can be ghosted...it's a human thing

  • @ScottD_
    @ScottD_4 жыл бұрын

    If you tell your friend that you don’t approve of their wedding then get ready to lose that friend

  • @dinkyboss

    @dinkyboss

    4 жыл бұрын

    sarah nah same result unfortunately. people don’t like being told about themselves. no matter how noble your intentions they may still feel attacked or judged one way or another. In that situation you either bite your tongue or prepare to leave that friendship behind 😐

  • @ScottD_

    @ScottD_

    4 жыл бұрын

    sarah you’d be surprised

  • @smilealwaysnatasha3423

    @smilealwaysnatasha3423

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true.

  • @BriLoveMusic

    @BriLoveMusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ScottD_ A friend who doesn't want friends to protect and defend them isn't a "friend" worth fighting for. Love doesn't mean supporting everything you want. A truly good friend would at least reluctantly accept that.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn4 жыл бұрын

    Last time I checked being stood up is one of the worst things ever... but you can turn the negative of that situation into a positive outcome... don't let that ruin your mood ! But why can't people just be honest upfront and say I don't want to date you... you're just wasting their time and giving the other party false hope

  • @phillipswatson3452

    @phillipswatson3452

    4 жыл бұрын

    😜LOL😜WHY CAN'T PEOPLE GIVE THERE HONEST OPINION WITHOUT YOU THROWING A TANTRUM ALWAYS SAYING MINE YOUR OWN BUSINESS...WHEN ITS NOT TO YOUR LIKING?!?! 💃BYE🏃 VERY CHILDISH! !

  • @MajesticMyronn

    @MajesticMyronn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Phillips Watson u and this tantrum word being thrower around is getting on my damn nerves... I am 18 not 3... I don’t know you so I suggest you leave me alone harassing me with this bullshit... your comment has literally nothing to do with the topic I’m referring to so please leave me alone ! Thank you and have a nice day !

  • @ryaltygibsn8506
    @ryaltygibsn85064 жыл бұрын

    I Love you guys!!! You ladies look Gorgeous!!! Love all the way from Guyana!!

  • @jg3865
    @jg38653 жыл бұрын

    Loni looks amazing!

  • @sarahjames927
    @sarahjames9274 жыл бұрын

    When my best friend got married I approved of the match but I didn’t/don’t like the guy. But he’s good for her and too her. I can be a woman and acknowledge that. And therefore I was at the wedding. People need to understand that approval doesn’t mean like. If they are good to the other and it’s a relationship that looks strong and has been tested my personal feeling should not matter.

  • @nicolejones1812
    @nicolejones18124 жыл бұрын

    I fell off my bed when she said it was the other woman.😂😂

  • @anisadlamini6385
    @anisadlamini63854 жыл бұрын

    loni's makeup looks amazing

  • @yazmigianna2422
    @yazmigianna24224 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE THE LOOKS IN THIS ONE!!!! and Jeannie's reaction to Adriennes story was MEEEE LMFAOOOOOO

  • @twokidsmom5309
    @twokidsmom53094 жыл бұрын

    I've been to a wedding that I didn't approve of. However, the friend I supported on her happy day appreciated my attendance and that's why I went.

  • @JG-co5nx
    @JG-co5nx4 жыл бұрын

    All the ladies look so beautiful and well styled. It all pairs well together.

  • @MH-et4bo
    @MH-et4bo4 жыл бұрын

    Adriannes red lipstick is BOMB

  • @aliciap8583
    @aliciap85834 жыл бұрын

    Adrian was a whole mood in this, everything she is saying is ON POINT. 👌

  • @midnightmave
    @midnightmave3 жыл бұрын

    This is why an old friend won't be invited to my wedding. They were over critical of everything, especially my fiancé and when I asked for more support they said "fine, if you want me to lie to you, I just won't say anything at all." I don't need that negativity in my life.

  • @dani09eveline
    @dani09eveline4 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t approve my best friends first wedding and I wasn’t the only one and she asked us to object at her bachelorette party. But I wasn’t doing that. It was her choice to get married. When it came to the speak now or forever hold you peace there was a longgggg Pause. The whole wedding was cringe. I was there to be supportive

  • @sharonrobinson8320
    @sharonrobinson83202 жыл бұрын

    I love watching the real for fashion and the topics they are great.

  • @missondo4887
    @missondo48874 жыл бұрын

    Loni makeup is flawless- she looks amazing here

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