Gil's Arena Describes The STRUGGLE Of Life After The NBA

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Gil's Arena Describes The STRUGGLE Of Life After The NBA as Gilbert Arenas and The Gil's Arena Crew react to Nick Young's message to current hoopers to cherish the moment and detail their life experiences after retirement from the association.
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  • @Jukeboxster
    @Jukeboxster3 ай бұрын

    As a lifelong normal guy, it's not so bad. I imagine it does suck after being treated like a demigod for 10+ years.

  • @jaybraden5596

    @jaybraden5596

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah I thought I was hot shit until I went to prison while I was at a juco school. After chance after chance. It took me a while to realize....I gotta learn HVAC 😂😂 naw frfr 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯

  • @gilbertgaines672

    @gilbertgaines672

    3 ай бұрын

    Every professional sports players go through this. NFL, NHL, MLB, even NASCAR. Pleasing the crowd doing your best becomes addictive.

  • @cameroncurry8548

    @cameroncurry8548

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @pauljorden2932

    @pauljorden2932

    3 ай бұрын

    Respect ✊ 💯 agree

  • @SuperMt24

    @SuperMt24

    3 ай бұрын

    “Former Mexican”

  • @freemanahumada4700
    @freemanahumada47003 ай бұрын

    lol shard acting like he a retired megastar 😂

  • @wezhira2007

    @wezhira2007

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @RikiRouseScott

    @RikiRouseScott

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts 😂😂😂😂

  • @yaboykev536

    @yaboykev536

    3 ай бұрын

    In his mind he is. No one living in reality would unironically walk around wearing a crown 😂😂😂

  • @Barlowh2o

    @Barlowh2o

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 seriously

  • @jameswarner300

    @jameswarner300

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah McCants is living fantasy in his head, dude didn't even make the money Kenyon and Gilbert made although he's still rich, but he's not accepting it's over.

  • @srt392_quay4
    @srt392_quay43 ай бұрын

    K Mart low key laughing at Shad is beyond funny dab 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chikipsg
    @chikipsg3 ай бұрын

    What Gil is talking about happened to me as a highschool baseball player.. sadly.. not professional level but all i knew was baseball and all I wanted to be was a baseball player.. then one day I realized I wasnt going to make it to be big leagues and had to ask myself the big question“who are you?” .. thank God i didnt turn out bad 🙏🏼

  • @fortunateson2

    @fortunateson2

    3 ай бұрын

    Same here. I can't ev n watch baseball anymore. It's depressing and I absolutely love the game.

  • @crosstudio

    @crosstudio

    3 ай бұрын

    @@fortunateson2 give it a couple years and it will get better.

  • @BitcoinOnlyCentral

    @BitcoinOnlyCentral

    3 ай бұрын

    Shit that was me too bro, all my life i just thought i was going to play college football at worst , NFL was the goal. 3 year varsity starter, captain of the team my senior year, colleges sending letters, coaching coming to visit. Tore my ACL and damaged my cartilage in 7th game, never played a football game again. Was depressed and got fat until like 25-26 bro. I’m about to be 28. I was lost for so long

  • @fortunateson2

    @fortunateson2

    3 ай бұрын

    @@crosstudio well it's been quite some time considering I'm 40. I don't feel right doing anything else. If I would have known that no job or activity would ever give me the same peace, joy, and purpose as baseball once did I'd of never stopped playing. I should have listened to all of my coaches and uncles who told me "you're a natural, never stop playing." Perhaps I need therapy.

  • @crosstudio

    @crosstudio

    3 ай бұрын

    @@fortunateson2 have you tried coaching? That’s what got me going and now my son is playing college baseball. He’s been playing since Tee ball. His day is coming too. It comes for us all.

  • @MmaMadman85
    @MmaMadman853 ай бұрын

    Not even 30 seconds in and McCants is getting roasted LMAO

  • @stevefrank9444

    @stevefrank9444

    3 ай бұрын

    This shit crazy , Mayneee!!!

  • @MrJamb0ree

    @MrJamb0ree

    3 ай бұрын

    Love to see it

  • @weaklyxonin

    @weaklyxonin

    3 ай бұрын

    and he dwelled on it the whole segment lmao

  • @MikeyBee-

    @MikeyBee-

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣

  • @Mrbarberswag

    @Mrbarberswag

    3 ай бұрын

    his ass be hurt fr

  • @itsruffoutchea6636
    @itsruffoutchea66363 ай бұрын

    RUSTY CROWN 👑🤴🏾🤣

  • @kingnephi1881

    @kingnephi1881

    3 ай бұрын

    And he had the rusty crown on in the episode 😂

  • @mdbmock

    @mdbmock

    3 ай бұрын

    Clown on clown crime

  • @jonathonstanford5791

    @jonathonstanford5791

    3 ай бұрын

    He needs to take that dumb shit off anyway 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nonenone9493

    @nonenone9493

    3 ай бұрын

    rusty the clown

  • @Bigfrankk5

    @Bigfrankk5

    3 ай бұрын

    That crown was bought not given fo sho 😅

  • @Halechief
    @Halechief3 ай бұрын

    K-Mart trying not to laugh. That was the longest drink ever😅😅

  • @midzelife2653
    @midzelife26533 ай бұрын

    "Depression is part of the progression" For real this is one of the greatest quote I just heard much respect for you all my brothas

  • @davidpeters3857

    @davidpeters3857

    19 күн бұрын

    Shad talks like a 🤡 one minute and a genius the next

  • @yhassenbey
    @yhassenbey3 ай бұрын

    It's no way anyone listens to mccants without laughing lol ....bro is a character 🤣😂😭😭

  • @olemackronald

    @olemackronald

    3 ай бұрын

    More 🤡 than character!

  • @WAHollier54

    @WAHollier54

    3 ай бұрын

    Bro talking about he ain’t no citizen! Yo SS# says you’re a citizen for sure! 😂🤡

  • @db.teezy.

    @db.teezy.

    3 ай бұрын

    @@WAHollier54that’s a little too literal. You’re born with an SSN. But he’s definitely a goofy wit this crown

  • @johnlewis399
    @johnlewis3993 ай бұрын

    Yo I watched this clip while eating and K Mart made me put my food in the fridge. 😂😂😂 “eat till you full not till it’s gone” 😂😂😂

  • @cleonrogers9011

    @cleonrogers9011

    3 ай бұрын

    Bro I was doing the same thing , but I finished my food. I had a plate of rice and peas, corn on the COB , Mash Potatoes and Brownstew chicken. I had to finish 😂

  • @naheemniles4182

    @naheemniles4182

    3 ай бұрын

    @@cleonrogers9011can’t waste that

  • @unclericosfootballcamp2854

    @unclericosfootballcamp2854

    3 ай бұрын

    Bro, I was just eating chicken alfredo and some Hawaiian rolls. Bro I'm not even hungry😂. Just bored. As soon as he said that shit I started laughing 😂

  • @ibuynotesforsale

    @ibuynotesforsale

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @ReekBReacts

    @ReekBReacts

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @D.Sawyer3
    @D.Sawyer33 ай бұрын

    "It's rough though, you wake up and you used to having that routine, and it all changes, so now you gotta find a different routine." - Kenyon Martin

  • @mallygeedkm
    @mallygeedkm3 ай бұрын

    “I retired after college. I saw the vision.” This made my day. This level of self awareness is rare but I respect it.

  • @ian_does_cool_things
    @ian_does_cool_things3 ай бұрын

    McCants makes me go back and check his NBA career stats every time he talks just to make sure I’m not missing something. But hey, I love the confidence.

  • @yandjproductions6526

    @yandjproductions6526

    3 ай бұрын

    I had just looked right before I got to your comment 😂😂😂

  • @chrispina9266

    @chrispina9266

    3 ай бұрын

    But he was like that college regardless can’t forget in the nba it’s literally the best people in the world..

  • @uncleb7821

    @uncleb7821

    3 ай бұрын

    Where can we check your stats when you say some dumb sh*t? Oh wait, we don’t know who tf you clowns are.

  • @necrophagiakc

    @necrophagiakc

    3 ай бұрын

    😅😅 facts you'd think 25 and 10

  • @Bigedub101

    @Bigedub101

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@chrispina9266 exactly people forgot these dudes was pampered like Gil said since probably 10 years old. Even McCants had a time where he was the man and he was Hella good in school and ego was sooo big in college messed up his pro career

  • @kaydee1485
    @kaydee14853 ай бұрын

    The whole cast trying to keep a straight face after the clip like Rashad didnt just get flame-grilled😂😂😂

  • @kmax1223

    @kmax1223

    3 ай бұрын

    The rusty crown 😂

  • @p00lboy

    @p00lboy

    2 ай бұрын

    swaggy p demoted that rusty crown to the back of milk cartons

  • @nicomaxfield
    @nicomaxfield3 ай бұрын

    K-Mart was one of my favorite players to watch. As a Nets fan, he and his team were all I saw. I think he earned a good life post playing

  • @mallygeedkm
    @mallygeedkm3 ай бұрын

    Dominique Wilkins once said that he prepared for retirement 5 years before he retired. He setup his businesses, investments, work, family, etc so he could easily transition. Other players need to listen to that so they can do the same thing.

  • @user-bk8gx3jd7i
    @user-bk8gx3jd7i3 ай бұрын

    McCants waited until the end to give a real answer 😂. Make him go last in topics, he try too hard to be cool and need somebody else to be vulnerable before he say what he really feel. Man is 40 acting 14.

  • @sirrogerisme

    @sirrogerisme

    3 ай бұрын

    I swear he’s such a loser. And I actually mean that in the most respectful way possible

  • @ibrahimtall6209

    @ibrahimtall6209

    3 ай бұрын

    Nah mccants is the best

  • @slickrick1856

    @slickrick1856

    3 ай бұрын

    We all either know people like him or have matured enough ourselves to portray the real version ourselves without ego attached

  • @MrAaronchicago

    @MrAaronchicago

    3 ай бұрын

    If u don’t understand black culture and how we joke around then stay out of the discussion

  • @xceptionl1

    @xceptionl1

    3 ай бұрын

    @@MrAaronchicago its nothing about culture, you just insecure like mccants and feel attacked... and if him going on a nervous sounding ego trip is a joke thats some lame anti-charismatic humor. Whatever culture you in sucks then

  • @ninocrown3247
    @ninocrown32473 ай бұрын

    McCants came down to Earth a bit, after Gil gave a very humble, introspective answer. What he ended the clip with was more realistic and not all that ego and bravado.

  • @Bigedub101

    @Bigedub101

    3 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @yungred315

    @yungred315

    3 ай бұрын

    Word!! I peeped that too! This video wuz just so real & dope overall.. Nothin but 💯 shit #BigSalute

  • @tomiwa1a

    @tomiwa1a

    3 ай бұрын

    That's usually how it is. Someone has to be vulnerable and humble first to create a space for others to do the same.

  • @stinkylovecake

    @stinkylovecake

    3 ай бұрын

    Gill landed that softly too..

  • @RandolphClayMartin
    @RandolphClayMartin2 ай бұрын

    Gil's take was the best and he elaborated in the simplest way for ppl to understand

  • @JECZ23
    @JECZ233 ай бұрын

    Going from having a whole stadium cheer for you cuz you just hit a 3 or a dunk or a block etc to never experiencing that ever again is tough. Most ppl never hear a small crowd cheer for them let alone a whole stadium of thousands.

  • @rasulsamad5860

    @rasulsamad5860

    3 ай бұрын

    I had a small crown and that felt great

  • @JECZ23

    @JECZ23

    3 ай бұрын

    @@rasulsamad5860 exactly! 💯👍🏾

  • @yakimisrael5758
    @yakimisrael57583 ай бұрын

    The look on K-Mart's face listening to McCants say all that nonsense. Priceless 😂

  • @williamh9288

    @williamh9288

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @_saucegod

    @_saucegod

    3 ай бұрын

    He didn't even say anything wild lol I think its just cool/funny to laugh at McCants at this point bc he do be wild af sometimes.

  • @wl7291

    @wl7291

    3 ай бұрын

    @@_saucegod nah his whole statement was nonsense

  • @markadams9335

    @markadams9335

    3 ай бұрын

    🤴🏿🥊

  • @user-ft3jz6dx5j

    @user-ft3jz6dx5j

    3 ай бұрын

    Yea nonsense, “I’m a creative, I like to be creative” hahahahahha

  • @ChrisJoestarr
    @ChrisJoestarr3 ай бұрын

    Rashad ego is so high he talks like he’s had the status and career of Kobe or MJ

  • @Dayxh8

    @Dayxh8

    3 ай бұрын

    He never said that . He speaking on himself as a man not basketball . He knows his career average at best.

  • @willyoubemyfriend.

    @willyoubemyfriend.

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I mean you gotta believe in yourself first lol haha he funny AF & be so serious haha

  • @ThurstMETV

    @ThurstMETV

    3 ай бұрын

    He can’t help it lol. I don’t even listen to people that speak like him. They’re disingenuous at best and there’s likely no honesty in them. He said a bunch of nothing and didn’t add to the conversation lol

  • @48238JEFE

    @48238JEFE

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Dayxh8wasn’t even average

  • @RedCGaming12

    @RedCGaming12

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ThurstMETVhe’s a optimist so what

  • @MRBBALLMAN10
    @MRBBALLMAN103 ай бұрын

    People think because they retire with millions it still isn’t a struggle. Most will do “depression spending” before they figure out what’s wrong. I’ve seen retired NBA players barrow money from their AAU coaches several times. And they only been out the league 5 years. The money isn’t shit when your mental is still underdeveloped due to coddling from teen years to your 30s. Or 20s if you had a short career.

  • @SuperMt24
    @SuperMt243 ай бұрын

    McCants felt that rusty crown line😂

  • @Chavez787

    @Chavez787

    3 ай бұрын

    Dude needs to dump that stupid princess crown for real lol

  • @misterg2201

    @misterg2201

    3 ай бұрын

    McCants?

  • @SuperMt24

    @SuperMt24

    3 ай бұрын

    @@misterg2201 yea did I stutter, read my comment and shut your mouth you jabroni

  • @NorthMemphis901
    @NorthMemphis9013 ай бұрын

    K-Mart laughing at McCants 😂

  • @bscsneakerguy4401

    @bscsneakerguy4401

    3 ай бұрын

    Made my Sunday 😂😂

  • @robertdaniels3029

    @robertdaniels3029

    3 ай бұрын

    K mart laughing at Gil....

  • @drosims7993

    @drosims7993

    3 ай бұрын

    You can lowkey tell they don’t really like each other fr 😂

  • @chloethacker

    @chloethacker

    3 ай бұрын

    You make sure and tell Sheryl swoopes to suck a d

  • @brohypeify

    @brohypeify

    3 ай бұрын

    He's always goin' at McCants. It's disrespectful. Shit ain't funny

  • @adensmith8553
    @adensmith85533 ай бұрын

    Anyone that's good at something going through this. There will be a time where your skill is phased out or you become more trouble then you're worth. That point in life shows who you are as a person. Most star athletes grown up slower then normal people. So this hits them later in life.

  • @briceworks3347
    @briceworks33473 ай бұрын

    This clip felt like I watched a funeral 😂 the sad faces were too somber

  • @omalleyjefferson3513
    @omalleyjefferson35133 ай бұрын

    “You aint got no games today, watch these kids”🤣🤣😭

  • @cyrahomega
    @cyrahomega3 ай бұрын

    Gil’s take is 100% spot on. Since I got out the army I haven’t had a competitive space to unleash

  • @LiciKai

    @LiciKai

    3 ай бұрын

    Try teaching in NYC, DC, or LA! That will give you all of the excitement - challenge - and opportunity to really impact the country.

  • @rileymcphee9429

    @rileymcphee9429

    3 ай бұрын

    It takes a lot of time. Was an infantryman for 3 years until I passed out and was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. It took 4-5 years after discharge to feel myself again. The only way to get past the old memories is to make new ones, but they never really go away. Don't dwell on it, just accept it and find what makes you happy.

  • @derrickberry6241

    @derrickberry6241

    3 ай бұрын

    I totally agree after the army its like what do i do all i know is being a soldier

  • @acevinci

    @acevinci

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts, I’m transitioning out soon & the thoughts of what to do with my life are hitting hard

  • @saulw6270

    @saulw6270

    3 ай бұрын

    Gotta hit the gym n play a spot fr

  • @anthonyjaurrieta
    @anthonyjaurrieta3 ай бұрын

    This conversation is bigger than just Basketball. Thank you for the conversation and for everyone who shared. As somone moving on from plan A .... It makes me feel normal for once having to readjust and move onto other plans. Finding another purpose than the last 10 years. Reinventing and creating.

  • @leondarnell1
    @leondarnell13 ай бұрын

    This is an interesting topic because we see mega stars and it's hard to sympathize with "the struggle" of their life after the NBA BUT, for "normal" players, this can be somewhat relatable.

  • @Capz210
    @Capz2103 ай бұрын

    Depression is part of the progression , so beautiful I’m going through tough time now

  • @chrispina9266

    @chrispina9266

    3 ай бұрын

    Keep pushing

  • @GQLounge1

    @GQLounge1

    3 ай бұрын

    Keep your head up, get back in the gym, do things you used to love when you were younger. Find the joy in life. Stay blessed

  • @fallout_patty

    @fallout_patty

    3 ай бұрын

    It is beautiful, nothing grows without a little dirt, baby.

  • @Hummdulala

    @Hummdulala

    3 ай бұрын

    🔥❤

  • @TexasWreckShop

    @TexasWreckShop

    3 ай бұрын

    Purple drank I'ma grip and sip anything illegal you know I flip

  • @Dmagic716
    @Dmagic7163 ай бұрын

    Nick young got me crying lmao 😂

  • @SmooveTV718

    @SmooveTV718

    3 ай бұрын

    Nigga did McCants dirty for no reason😂😂

  • @JohnMFlores
    @JohnMFlores3 ай бұрын

    Appreciate Gil for being so honest and open. This platform is great.

  • @treywilliams6599
    @treywilliams65993 ай бұрын

    This was the best and most vulnerable and honest episode that I've ever seen . Wow , the Crown King has spoken , And I think he needs to get his own podcast cause he's definitely a star ⭐😊

  • @stuartmccleary1093
    @stuartmccleary10933 ай бұрын

    Rusty Crown 😂😂😂 McCants be flustered a whole episode off one comment

  • @patientzero291
    @patientzero2913 ай бұрын

    They need to talk more about the struggles of retired sports player's life

  • @elliotness11

    @elliotness11

    3 ай бұрын

    If you don’t know the right people or another skill, it’s gotta be hard mentally, forget financially, nobody talks about the mental

  • @JohnnytNatural

    @JohnnytNatural

    3 ай бұрын

    People don't like to talk about the negatives

  • @Oldasianguy

    @Oldasianguy

    3 ай бұрын

    Why? Only players would care. Tf I care about some rich athletes second stint of life?

  • @tomstorm7926

    @tomstorm7926

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Oldasianguyexactly

  • @user-Tripleggggggg

    @user-Tripleggggggg

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Oldasianguy75% of nba players go broke after the nba

  • @siriusblack745
    @siriusblack7453 ай бұрын

    Damn, his honesty at the end got me thinking honesty, best episode so far... damn "Depression is the way to progression. Can't have progression without depression." Deep

  • @khsballa3
    @khsballa33 ай бұрын

    EVERY HOOPER THAT PLAYED PAST HIGH SCHOOL GOES THROUGH THIS ONCE THE BALL STOPS NOT JUST NBA PLAYERS!

  • @future62
    @future623 ай бұрын

    Gil is the LAST person you want saying "I told you so" 😂

  • @robertdaniels3029

    @robertdaniels3029

    3 ай бұрын

    He had his problems but don't we all....

  • @future62

    @future62

    3 ай бұрын

    @@robertdaniels3029 for sure, we are all imperfect. My point is that Gil is an elite shit talker.

  • @thechocolatewriter8680

    @thechocolatewriter8680

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts! 😂

  • @LiciKai
    @LiciKai3 ай бұрын

    This is a real and intelligent conversation. Young athletes need this type of education.

  • @benz7558
    @benz75583 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the realness of this conversation. So many people struggle with everyday life & at times we forget that athletes are humans too & deal with real world struggles even with all the fame & money

  • @lutherodaniels3799
    @lutherodaniels37993 ай бұрын

    Man never seen a room of tough guys be so humble.

  • @SatagniSikder
    @SatagniSikder3 ай бұрын

    "Don't Cheat Now" Gil: Say what now 😮

  • @mshepherd2154
    @mshepherd21543 ай бұрын

    McCants “I always kept myself busy… just finished my 4th book” 😂😂

  • @vitocorleone7866

    @vitocorleone7866

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @bgat3107

    @bgat3107

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @JC-nl4hj

    @JC-nl4hj

    3 ай бұрын

    Thought it was just me. Like nigga that actually sounds the opposite of busy lol

  • @lebohangnkhabu5000

    @lebohangnkhabu5000

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jaypos444

    @jaypos444

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @D0m0daDon
    @D0m0daDon3 ай бұрын

    Love & respect Gilbert take on this one . Everything he said was factual he went deep in his bag & not jus give a surface answer to get the question over with or shield himself from understanding that regardless of his celebrity status , he is still a civilian with a few extra zeros in the bank account 🤝🏾🙏🏾

  • @danlatella8213
    @danlatella82133 ай бұрын

    Gil. You keep it more real than any other athlete podcast I've seen with relevant topics. You really give us insight into a world that we have no access to. Thank you for that!

  • @MollianoSilva-sw1cs
    @MollianoSilva-sw1cs3 ай бұрын

    As a person who grew up in the streets now tryna turn my life around nd leave that alone this really resonated with me I never had no structure or discipline growing up now being a father tryna be a productive citizen in society I completely understood the reality of yall situation leaving the game tryna be a father being depressed cuz your routine ain’t the same tryna fill that void in your life change bad habits or not let your bad habits ruin your now life thank you for this segment nd letting me know there’s still plenty of life to live this is why I watch Gil’s arena

  • @DeezzzzzzNuts12

    @DeezzzzzzNuts12

    15 күн бұрын

    You told on fam nem

  • @stringer2295
    @stringer22953 ай бұрын

    Thank you Gil because McCants is still in imagination land

  • @shyne1308

    @shyne1308

    3 ай бұрын

    You watching him, clearly he not. He doing his thing

  • @stringer2295

    @stringer2295

    3 ай бұрын

    @@shyne1308 I guess everybody has at least one fan lol

  • @ibrahimtall6209

    @ibrahimtall6209

    3 ай бұрын

    Nah mccants is the man. Bro takes care of his health, is outrageously self confident, but can keep it real like u hear at the end. Now he’s in what will soon b the biggest basketball media platform. He’s killing it. How one could hate mccants is beyond me. If u stack up ur achievements against his, how do u really compare?

  • @stringer2295

    @stringer2295

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ibrahimtall6209 you want me to compare my life to an ex NBA player who’s on a huge platform. Again, you fans are sometimes delusional.

  • @halftime814

    @halftime814

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@ibrahimtall6209 dudes a attention seeker I seen plenty of his kind he wears, do and say things to appear he's not the average person

  • @anthonymoore4757
    @anthonymoore47573 ай бұрын

    "Look at Gil whole couch, they miserable" yo that broke me up and they didnt like that Lol😂😅😂

  • @sylanderhopkins6665
    @sylanderhopkins66653 ай бұрын

    This is deep & sad 😢😢😢. This really hits homes

  • @theregulardegular5590
    @theregulardegular55903 ай бұрын

    This may be the realist segment they’ve had......this is REAL for these dudes!!

  • @bellob3llo
    @bellob3llo3 ай бұрын

    When mcants finally took off his shades and let go of his ego because of what nick young said, he said some REAL SPILL at the end 💯

  • @shyne1308

    @shyne1308

    3 ай бұрын

    Only weak men use the word ego

  • @lilblue007

    @lilblue007

    3 ай бұрын

    shhittt only weak as men tell other men how great they think they are @@shyne1308 lmao

  • @Iamyuyuthegoat

    @Iamyuyuthegoat

    3 ай бұрын

    He was tight nick came at him he threw shots at the end 😂 it’s okay.

  • @jstopgamingl1671

    @jstopgamingl1671

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@shyne1308 There's a difference between having pride and having an ego. Pride is having confidence in yourself while ego is being delusional about yourself so you're basically ppromoting people having no self awareness and living with delusionals of grandeur.

  • @bartekino

    @bartekino

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@shyne1308what is a ego Nga?

  • @justThadpaulk
    @justThadpaulk3 ай бұрын

    I was super depressed the first few years out of the military. There’s nothing to replace the feeling of camaraderie between the people you work closely with. It took me a couple of years to find myself. It was hard to adjust to the civilian world. Totally understand the conversation.

  • @theoneaboveall6768

    @theoneaboveall6768

    3 ай бұрын

    Agreed

  • @uncleb7821

    @uncleb7821

    3 ай бұрын

    Military fools think retiring from the service is comparable to STARS retiring from the craft. Thanks for your service, but you’re no star.

  • @justThadpaulk

    @justThadpaulk

    3 ай бұрын

    @@uncleb7821 I get that you’re trolling but you obviously don’t know me homie. I could care less about being a “star”. Just expressing my opinion like you.

  • @lebumjames1373

    @lebumjames1373

    3 ай бұрын

    @@uncleb7821only difference between him and a "star" is the paycheck and artificial fame. unless you're a star😊 most nba players are forgotten when the stop playing.

  • @axucaroso

    @axucaroso

    3 ай бұрын

    Time comes for us all. But if you can hold fast and hold on, you can learn to use that time to have a second or even a third life.

  • @jayperks4672
    @jayperks46723 ай бұрын

    Gil was the only one who spoke with reality his angle was well spoken and heart felt

  • @IrwineDuncan
    @IrwineDuncan3 ай бұрын

    Amazing, this is a video that speaks beyond basketball. What happens when anything is taken away in a world centered on attaining. RESPECT. Good segment.

  • @copacdagod5095
    @copacdagod50953 ай бұрын

    When Gil said "what was the question?" What he was saying was McCants said all that cap.

  • @juelz222

    @juelz222

    3 ай бұрын

    You can tell that Kenyon Martin caught that immediately and started choking on his drink 😂😂😂

  • @abdullahiali223

    @abdullahiali223

    3 ай бұрын

    bro was geeking

  • @indiefilmmillennial8338

    @indiefilmmillennial8338

    3 ай бұрын

    I really do wonder if McCants is playing the role of a clown to be entertaining, or if he’s just totally unaware.

  • @copacdagod5095

    @copacdagod5095

    3 ай бұрын

    @@indiefilmmillennial8338 I don't think so. I watched him on the Kardashians and I saw a little of that.

  • @ZimMill

    @ZimMill

    3 ай бұрын

    @@indiefilmmillennial8338He’s Definitely Not Playing A Role… That’s The Real Him

  • @dubzerolol
    @dubzerolol3 ай бұрын

    0:26 😂 McCants catching strays

  • @andrewalker2056

    @andrewalker2056

    3 ай бұрын

    Fam🤣🤣 the rusty crown

  • @Dr.WaltzFromChicago

    @Dr.WaltzFromChicago

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @madikedaniel8283

    @madikedaniel8283

    3 ай бұрын

    He took that shot personally 😂

  • @kevothegoat9891

    @kevothegoat9891

    3 ай бұрын

    Yoooo😂 that had me dying

  • @rmarciano491

    @rmarciano491

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @JerryCurlJoe
    @JerryCurlJoe3 ай бұрын

    Good input from everyone on the seat. Life is life. All apart of the journey

  • @anthonyholley2796
    @anthonyholley27963 ай бұрын

    Gil , assessment in life as a NBA player was excellent , raw and very informative!!

  • @ChrisSain1
    @ChrisSain13 ай бұрын

    We need more of these discussions from NBA guys. We hear it pretty consistent from NFL players. Much needed conversation that is often not had in detail or glossed over on all the Former Athlete Podcast.

  • @Augrills

    @Augrills

    3 ай бұрын

    Why? I don’t care if these dudes have been sad. I been sad too lol

  • @JonSnowsGhost
    @JonSnowsGhost3 ай бұрын

    The NBA should create an age 35+ NBA league for players who aren’t in the NBA anymore. 32 game season. 16 teams. 8 man roster. 8 minute quarters. Similar to the Senior PGA in Golf.

  • @dubzerolol

    @dubzerolol

    3 ай бұрын

    Big3 exists

  • @dondahighhh12

    @dondahighhh12

    3 ай бұрын

    it could be fun. like if its The Next Chapter, Big 3 but it wont take off because nba fans want drama not basketball

  • @plantbasedministries9233

    @plantbasedministries9233

    3 ай бұрын

    Exactly​@@dubzerolol

  • @tjrose9830

    @tjrose9830

    3 ай бұрын

    You basically just said the Big 3, Ice cube has said many times that the NBA holds the BIG3 back.

  • @MoesMammie-uf1yx

    @MoesMammie-uf1yx

    3 ай бұрын

    We ain't watching that or big 😁

  • @terrencetgriffin635
    @terrencetgriffin6353 ай бұрын

    The realest conversation this cast has ever had. Respect

  • @kyledayson4642
    @kyledayson46423 ай бұрын

    I love hearing Kenyon’s perspective. Real OG

  • @kivabolton4448
    @kivabolton44483 ай бұрын

    That Must’ve HURT , but A MAN has to have a PURPOSE , KEEP MOVING 💪🏾🙏🏾

  • @ItsGoodie
    @ItsGoodie3 ай бұрын

    K mart can't even pretend he don't like McCants lmaooooo I'm deady

  • @uncleb7821

    @uncleb7821

    3 ай бұрын

    Deady? Smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @ItsGoodie

    @ItsGoodie

    3 ай бұрын

    @@uncleb7821 outta the whole comment that's all you got huh son name uncleb tho tragic 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @thakiid8568

    @thakiid8568

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@uncleb7821😂😂😂

  • @novelaego2404

    @novelaego2404

    3 ай бұрын

    kmart is the worst one

  • @a-a-rondavis9438

    @a-a-rondavis9438

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@ItsGoodieilliterate moment

  • @yungred315
    @yungred3153 ай бұрын

    I'm literally going thru that depression/ figuring shit out & growin into my ultimate self part.... 😵😵 Sheeeesh! On God that shit hit home so so crazy it's wild... 😵 #SuperReal conversation right here!

  • @anthonybanks4958
    @anthonybanks49583 ай бұрын

    Very valuable & useful ^ timely subject, thanks for being open, honest & straight-forward....

  • @thecomicsarereal
    @thecomicsarereal3 ай бұрын

    This podcast over the past year has completely transformed everything I ever knew or assumed about Gil, which is a big statement about myself and my own biases, but it is also a testimony to the power of podcasting. I always knew Kenyon was an intellectual but I never knew Gil was.

  • @jimmertrey2334

    @jimmertrey2334

    3 ай бұрын

    Gil is one of the most hardest working athlete. All he did was drill

  • @wendellwadewilliams1
    @wendellwadewilliams13 ай бұрын

    As a former bodyguard of an NBA Hall of Fame player, I can say without question that the transition from a superstar athlete, to an average dude, is extremely hard for the majority of players. Especially for those who lacked the knowledge and/or discipline to secure the financial resources to sustain the lifestyle that they're accustomed to. Those are the players that suffer the most. Because the minute the money disappears, everything that came with the money disappears, e.g. fake ass women, fake ass friends, fake ass family members and fake ass business associates. And when that reality kicks in, it's extremely hard for them to process. And it's extremely hard to watch it unfold.

  • @Bigedub101

    @Bigedub101

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @DavidPat
    @DavidPat3 ай бұрын

    I'm really thankful that I was working on my nonprofit career alongside my professional sports career 🙏

  • @chefclt704
    @chefclt7043 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the honesty fellas. ✊🏽🙏🏾 We all go thru it at a certain time in life.

  • @Deejay4Real
    @Deejay4Real3 ай бұрын

    Nick Young had me DYING!!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @thehouseofschultes7009
    @thehouseofschultes70093 ай бұрын

    Probably the realest show you guys have had… 💯 Any real hooper living that post-hoop life can relate…

  • @tiffanymarshall6618
    @tiffanymarshall66183 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Gil. I understand you so clearly. Before, I didn't like you but I love you, Man❤

  • @kaiservirtuoso485
    @kaiservirtuoso485Ай бұрын

    awesome topic fellas! this relates to many corporate professionals as well. thank you for this!

  • @artartwell1992
    @artartwell19923 ай бұрын

    Love both k martin and McCants answers.... Gil keep it 💯 real at the end 💯 👌.. Fire 🔥 Kings 🤴 🔥 🙌.... Military prison and athletes all can relate 2 that Depression Gil. When reality kicks in, u find out who u really are..

  • @DattBoi954
    @DattBoi9543 ай бұрын

    Mccants lost in the sauce fr 🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂😂

  • @cosmicinsight3255

    @cosmicinsight3255

    3 ай бұрын

    Right bro took it a whole diffent route 🤣

  • @user-ir2xv3bk2l

    @user-ir2xv3bk2l

    3 ай бұрын

    This dude talk and act like he was 20 year HOFer or something. I honestly can’t even remember him in the NBA.

  • @ripchudd4892

    @ripchudd4892

    3 ай бұрын

    Talking about he ain't a civilian or a "normal nigga" but had a less than average career. If not for Gil's show, nobody would remember who he is, but he not normal? 😂

  • @antjr5223

    @antjr5223

    3 ай бұрын

    @@user-ir2xv3bk2lfacts his career at UNC is all I know after that it was a wrap

  • @Freedomstyler
    @Freedomstyler3 ай бұрын

    really good episode. Gil is one of my fav podcasters now.

  • @dmack6728
    @dmack67283 ай бұрын

    I believe that yall should be the one's that talk to these new ballers. I understood all yall points

  • @NuttinNyce
    @NuttinNyce3 ай бұрын

    Might be their best episode. They went deep and all their takes were really good.

  • @curtiscoffman6735
    @curtiscoffman67353 ай бұрын

    Mccants be killing me 😂😂

  • @6jackson650

    @6jackson650

    3 ай бұрын

    😭bro talking like he was jordan

  • @curtiscoffman6735

    @curtiscoffman6735

    3 ай бұрын

    @@6jackson650 bro yes like dude didnt even make it to all star game lol

  • @misterg2201

    @misterg2201

    3 ай бұрын

    McCants is Top 10

  • @mrflynn01
    @mrflynn0112 сағат бұрын

    This is the best show Gil has ever had!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @JonReynoldsESQ
    @JonReynoldsESQ3 ай бұрын

    Great segment! Really informative stuff.

  • @ChrisDMV301
    @ChrisDMV3013 ай бұрын

    People see the money and think life great But a lot of guys lose their purpose. You been age 13, for some younger, committed to one thing. Then there’s the aches and pains of the injuries from when you played. Losing your sense of purpose is one of the most harmful things athletes face post career. Especially mentally.

  • @RandomShowerThoughts

    @RandomShowerThoughts

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts, they’re rich, but it is a little sad. They should make a movie or soemthing about it

  • @christopherantoine9657

    @christopherantoine9657

    3 ай бұрын

    @@RandomShowerThoughts It's like you making millions playing a sport, but now you can't wake up without pain, on medications, some of your joints don't look correct, and you can't even play the sport you spent years trying to improve your craft in.

  • @RainbowBandana

    @RainbowBandana

    3 ай бұрын

    And not having a purpose is the rest of the 99% problem

  • @christopherantoine9657

    @christopherantoine9657

    3 ай бұрын

    @@RainbowBandana yeah. There's a very good chance even with money you're still going to have to deal with some issues

  • @sdsdssification

    @sdsdssification

    3 ай бұрын

    Except your purpose can change… like regular ass people lol

  • @robertdaniels3029
    @robertdaniels30293 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this....As a former college athlete, I really appreciated and identified with all that was said. Those years of practice and competing on the highest level and then to have it go away, never to return is a shock. what is normal after being pampered and living the " good " life. At least I can go to my old school see my name in the Hall of Fame and say, yes, you did accomplish something in your lifetime but this talk is so real...

  • @walkerenterprise1764

    @walkerenterprise1764

    3 ай бұрын

    What school and sport my dude? Keep it LITERALLY one step and day. And remember. Those coaches that showed you the skills and love, were once YOU. Become that for some young kid and make him dream and accomplish like you did. It may not fulfill you but, I promise you will understand the WHY.

  • @robertdaniels3029

    @robertdaniels3029

    3 ай бұрын

    I attended Texas A&I University in Kingsville, Texas. Same school that produced John Randle, gene Upshaw and Darrell Greene, all Hall of famers in football. I ran track and still have the school record in the 120 yd hh's today. I have gone on to teach on all levels of education, coach basketball and track and now have an international art company. Gi9ving back is important to me...@@walkerenterprise1764

  • @lutherodaniels3799

    @lutherodaniels3799

    3 ай бұрын

    Man I’m also a former college football player and when I was done, I stopped my routine and it has cost me later in life

  • @theb.o.a.t.8225
    @theb.o.a.t.8225Ай бұрын

    Life after the NBA is great for the elite of the elite, Kobe, Lebron, Jordan, Magic. You have to be iconic and your star power never dies. But for guys like Gil you have to actually do something after you retire

  • @jeffraymond8997
    @jeffraymond89973 ай бұрын

    If Gil talked like this and kept it honest like this it would be so much better than his hot takes

  • @mississippi2287
    @mississippi22873 ай бұрын

    Nick look like he was in ross

  • @FirstLast-sb6cg

    @FirstLast-sb6cg

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @alexanderwhite7105

    @alexanderwhite7105

    3 ай бұрын

    LOL, he was in Target. You could make out the Target brand socks in the background.

  • @christopherantoine9657
    @christopherantoine96573 ай бұрын

    It makes sense. Imagine working towards the NBA everyday. Like everyone can play a sport but practicing, chances are, every day. Shooting, dribbling, working on your skills. Before school, during and after. And then you do the same thing in college. And assuming you make it to the league now you have to work to stay in the league. And then one day, it's all over. You don't have to wake up early anymore. Don't get to practice, don't get to play games. You know have to figure out what to do with the rest of your life after a good chunk of it at that moment was basketball. And what sucks is that some of these guys probably haven't thought about what they like besides basketball. Never took the time to discover themselves. It's just basketball to them.

  • @ECBPhotography
    @ECBPhotography3 ай бұрын

    This was so quality...so raw...so deep..

  • @themountain59
    @themountain593 ай бұрын

    Most honest sequence so far ...Kudos!👍

  • @00700556
    @007005563 ай бұрын

    After playing college ball and going into the real world of a “job” I went through severe depression. Not having your brothers around, working out as a team everyday, the days of looking the those lights above your head on game day… practically your entire life since 4 has been acknowledged as a successful basketball player. It’s your identity. I eventually played professionally basketball but man that was hard to get over

  • @ajyearby2425

    @ajyearby2425

    3 ай бұрын

    That’s real. People who make goofy comments they never played high level sports or sacrificed anything in life. Played ball forever and military over 10 years and still going. I will be dealing with it even more soon when I retire.

  • @davidpark2509

    @davidpark2509

    3 ай бұрын

    What school did you play for?

  • @00700556

    @00700556

    3 ай бұрын

    @@davidpark2509 Played for UofSC.

  • @00700556

    @00700556

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ajyearby2425 My dad did the same thing. Still talks about it until this day.

  • @dsg3053

    @dsg3053

    2 ай бұрын

    You worshipped a game and the status. College is early 20s. You're just like other college students

  • @jameswarner300
    @jameswarner3003 ай бұрын

    This was arguably one of Gilbert Arenas best shows, educating the audience on real life. This was nice because it had nothing to do with propping up favorite NBA players, talking about the money being made, comparing eras etc. It's simple real homely talk. I could see it in their eyes how they missed the limelight, the cameras, the money, the attention etc. This platform is like gracefully detoxing from the game, because they know this is as close at it gets to where they came from. It's like a sad ending to a good story. And what people don't understand, is that playing professional sports allows them to live a fairytale lifestyle, living out all the fantasies they ever wanted in life. Traveling around the world, meeting celebrities from all walks of life, government officials, the women, wild sex parties, etc. Suddenly everything comes to a crashing end and it's all over. I see former players like Patrick Ewing, Gary Payton, Michael Jordan, Anfernee Penny Hardaway, George iceman Gervin as they've gained weight over the years as they've aged. Then you see people like Kareem Abdul Jabbar, Oscar Robertson, Jerry West, and you see father time has engulfed them so they stay away from the cameras as much as possible. Some end up going to jail in trying to keep that money flowing with fake insurance policies, Eddie Johnson went to prison after turning to a life of crime, he's now deceased. Once prolific scorer John Drew went homeless, as did Ray Williams and Delonte West. Heck I wouldn't be surprised if Shaquill Oneal suddenly died of a heart attack from gaining so much weight since his retirement, Kendrick Perkins as well, along with Antoine Walker. All of those guys are well over 350 to 400 lbs easily. Life after sports is gruesome. I didn't play professional sports but I played in college and recreational until around 36 before I stopped altogether, and I played at 175lbs at 6'4. I ended up gaining weight and ballooned all the way up to 335lbs before I decided to get it together and lose the weight, I got it all the way down to 198lbs at age 49, jogging, doing pushups, crunches and yoga. Plus I had to stop the eating and push away from the table at Kenyon Martin said. I know I'm being long winded but this was good stuff, thanks guys.

  • @stirlynharris404
    @stirlynharris4043 ай бұрын

    Love it. They keep it really. Life after the game initially can be very tough.

  • @jimmysweat2200
    @jimmysweat22003 ай бұрын

    You guys don't understand How much is available to you You guys are needed

  • @bighomey1090
    @bighomey10903 ай бұрын

    McCant is my guy but regardless of all he said , you’re still a civilian bro lol

  • @dot8531

    @dot8531

    Ай бұрын

    Lol facts, bro said a whole lot of nothing

  • @cokergeorge991
    @cokergeorge9913 ай бұрын

    Amazing segment. Straight intellectuals here. Speaking all facts. Keep educating brothers.

  • @JudahTribe-lt3ur
    @JudahTribe-lt3ur3 ай бұрын

    That’s real talk. Guys thanks for sharing.

  • @chantzjones1778
    @chantzjones17783 ай бұрын

    Gil Smoked this segment.. very well said

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