My mother in law had passed away before I got married. I remember, when I got married and came to my in laws place, my father in law told me.. Don't worry, my son knows everything. He will help you and manage and slowly you can learn. In fact in my saaga maccha ritual which is like bahu has to cook for the first time in the in laws home and feed others.. My husband was in the kitchen cooking on behalf of me and none of his relatives objected or exchanged weird looks. So, such families exist but yes they are rare and I'm happy and blessed to have such a beautiful and rare family in my life. Thank you God.

@sainiharika3158

2 жыл бұрын

May God bless you and your family. Special kudos to your father in law. Please convey my regards for raising such a wonderful son. Hope you will pass on the same values ahead. Whether it is a girl or a boy, household work means work of everyone in the house.

@palakthakur8047

2 жыл бұрын

I just wish I get one like thiss 🙏

@deepachugh9237

2 жыл бұрын

Nice topic and need to adopt by everybody..

@arunanaik8683

2 жыл бұрын

You are so so lucky. I wish everyone get family like you have. 🙏🙏🙏

@sanji546

2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah mashaAllah

I wish every girl gets a mother-in-law like her

@lessonplan8838

2 жыл бұрын

Yes...

@yn-rq8vs

2 жыл бұрын

Right

@contentchannel3041

2 жыл бұрын

But to the reality no one gets

@Juyal.sanjay

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed, may every girl be like her too

@Ritwika-vv3do

2 жыл бұрын

@@contentchannel3041 no dear there are some girls who gets such mother in laws

My Mother in law have trained her sons in all household chores. Before my marriage, When my parents told to my mother in law that our daughter don't know cooking, then she said but my son can cook, So don't worry he will provide training to her. Her these words made me fan of her.

In India, it's common that mothers don't tell their boys to do housechores . Even my mom is also a part of this .

@Crystal-mx4gr

2 жыл бұрын

Yes my mom too.

@swadhinsharma5690

2 жыл бұрын

O99i9oooo

@sandhyabhadri1132

2 жыл бұрын

Are you feeling proud or feeling ashamed, my mom trained her sons to do house hold work, we girls enjoyed, working together. Thank my mom, we all feel proud of her.

@Crystal-mx4gr

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandhyabhadri1132 I feel upset doing household chores alone. I also want my brother to help me or at least do some small household chores. But my mom never agrees in making him work.

@bikassahu

2 жыл бұрын

@@Crystal-mx4gr she will be angry when she comes to know that her son is doing all the chores after marriage. So it's better to make a habit of that now.

In India.. mothers advice their sons tk get married so that "ek ghar sambhalne wali aa jaegi"..... My cousin brothers have lost both parents two years back..... Dono bhaiii aawaron ko tarh rhete hai..... My mother(their bua).... She always says ki jaldi se shadi krlo... Ek Ghar sambhalne wale ki zaroorat hai .... I am like... Wtf.... Do Jawan ladke h ghr Mei... Isn't two people enough to manage home??? But wait.... Not two people... Two boys are there...... And they are dependant on women to look after their stupid household so that they can enjoy life..... While on the other hand my cousin sister had been living in PG for past four years.... Wo apna saara kaam khud krti thi... Saara..... I have seen both scenarios..... Women living alone independently... And men living alone... Still seeking wives to manage homes

@sudhirchandra9790

2 жыл бұрын

Reason for this is how a mother (a women) brings up her son

@saminakothari

2 жыл бұрын

Wah kya equality hai India me

@anwayee005

2 жыл бұрын

It's really very nice that you can say this thing about ur mom Many people just don't All females have to stand together ❤️❤️❤️

@sainiharika3158

2 жыл бұрын

And when she actually does, she is labelled as ghar pe baithi rehti hai

@cahellythakkar668

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, see man needs women for " ghar chalana" and still there are many who believe women is "abla" They dont know what they are saying, people should know exact meaning of equality Great efforts from this video to make people understand, its not sort of blaming, just learning and understanding to get better life...

Earning money and doing household chores both are the responsibilities of both men & women...great job Life Tak🇮🇳🇮🇳

@mansi42

2 жыл бұрын

Rightly said

@aayushirawat9792

2 жыл бұрын

Aisa hr ghr me samjha nhi jata

@being7002

2 жыл бұрын

Ghanta.

@mythosumellikanlover9631

2 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said 👍👍

@draupadisglory1584

2 жыл бұрын

@@being7002 do log kam krenge to dono ke manage krne mein kya dikkat

In our house, both my daughter and son were taught to do the house hold chores. There's no shame in helping your spouse in managing the house. Very good video.

It's not a reality, it's just a film... Reality is very different..

@thegem597

2 жыл бұрын

True. But this needs to be reality.

@kprosshia4258

2 жыл бұрын

No it's not. It depends on how you are brought up. My brother- in- law always like to cook whenever he visits. My father-in-law always helps my mother-in-law by assisting in kitchen. My husband always helps me. But in my house my brothers have prejudice because my mother brought them up this way but now she is understood that this is a big problem. And m trying to rectify my younger brother atleast as he sometimes visits me and my husband draws him in to few tasks 😉.

@madhurimabanerjeeghosal1958

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly same indian society is far away from this progressiveness

@aquibssiddiqui6387

2 жыл бұрын

@@thegem597 This happens. I will not say with every1, but it definitely happens... if someone's luck is bad, so what can any1 do...

I wish every girl gets a mother- in- law like her.♥️♥️

Hope so NOT ONLY ALL MOTHER IN LAWS...ALL MOTHERS ALSO SHOULD BE LIKE THIS

I would say I am lucky my husband helps in house chores and serving to the guest including family. We distribute our work as per our schedule so that we can have quality time together

@shikhadhamne9866

2 жыл бұрын

You are lucky I would say😊

@TheHoneyzap

2 жыл бұрын

I would say don't call yourself lucky and give him brownie points for doing something that is his duty. He is doing what a sane adult would do irrespective of their gender.

I wish every one thinks like her mother-in-law ... So lucky she is...

Nirupama Aunty is such a fabulous actor! She should be in films.

@musarratchowdhury3578

2 жыл бұрын

I 100 per cent agree

@myhandle009

2 жыл бұрын

She has already acted in several films

@Ays67djd

2 жыл бұрын

She was in the films as well

Your video is an eye opener to all those mothers who think that their sons should never do household chores & its only the duty of daughters & daughter in laws to look after it. Hope if not all but a few will understand this fact after seeing your video & teach their sons right from beginning to do household chores & respect women for what they for their family. Great fan of you guys.

@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@simi4321

2 жыл бұрын

Mother in law is mother in law she will never change… her only intention is son should be well taken care of…

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

Жыл бұрын

Respect for everyone is fine now a days both do the work not only women so yes plus many do respect its not 1920s anymore though we respect our mothers work for the family

@lalithajairam6640

Жыл бұрын

My MIL actually said that she raised her son like a king and they don’t ask men to do anything in their home!

This video is a message to those people who think, if a guy is doing the housechores after marriage, then that guy became henpecked. I fall in love with your thoughts, your contents. Because #WhyNot

@archanasharma9034

2 жыл бұрын

Message

@bikassahu

2 жыл бұрын

@@archanasharma9034 thanks for noticing that silly mistake 😜

@gunjanagrawal8195

2 жыл бұрын

@@archanasharma9034 so judging u re... Hann Like mohalle vali auntie's 🙄🤔

@bikassahu

2 жыл бұрын

@@gunjanagrawal8195 🤣🤣 but it's an honest thing

@kalyanikonwar1377

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's true.. It happened with me also. .. When my husband helped me, he also got the title of - Henpecked Husband..

I wish every mother-in-law could behave like her. Women, especially working women need this kind of support from husband and their family. Love this video. Keep making such videos. Good job!

Sasu maa bhut achi hai Kash aise mile sabko 🥰😘

True... But in reality still man is unable to handle any responsibility but get married and produce kids.. Still I see my mom and my female friends doing both work houshold and ofc.. Pls man treat female too as human.. They too need rest

@vishalmanchandani6587

2 жыл бұрын

Then they should hire a maid for more help otherwise they should choose a job which would give them more time to manage home.

@tejalp2321

10 ай бұрын

@@vishalmanchandani6587wow! What a horrible thinking…small people have small thinking and this comment shows who you are! How about men learn to take care of half of the housework and split home responsibilities, rather than suggesting pick easier work, etc. In what country work with less responsibility exist that will allow professional growth? By adopting western food and fashion does not make Indians progressive, it’s the thinking that does and this backward thinking will not make India progressive for another 100 years!

Yes.. Equality begins at home and I will definitely teach my son to do house hold chores but still in India educated people think men shouldn't do any household chores.

@SimranKaur-mz2ny

2 жыл бұрын

Lol sorry if "those" people think like that then they're not educated...

@bhabeshnayak921

2 жыл бұрын

Both should , but serving food is a beautiful art of work , in Indian culture women with highly educated did it with their will

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

Жыл бұрын

Go ahead whose stopping you but do teach this also that it should be mutal from other side also and not one sided

@ahmedsijan8971

3 ай бұрын

Women don't provide to family but men provide for the family

Shivan's expressions yrrr.....He nails it in every role....

Amazing as always Aapki choti choti videos humein bhut bade lessons sikha jati hain 👏👏👏👌👌👌

@PampiKitchenVlogs

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 👌🏾👌🏾 my favourite channel

Whenever my wife leaves the home , she gives a strict instruction not to disturb any of the arrangements she made.

@prachiraizada8429

2 жыл бұрын

Strange

@subhradeeppaul2869

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

@sancharic3380

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@narendrakumarsingh988

2 жыл бұрын

क्यों भाई साहब, आप क्या पलक झपकते ही घर का कबाड़खाना बना देते हो( मजाक कर रहा हूँ, दिल पर मत लेना)😉😊😊😊

@ravijeeverma876

2 жыл бұрын

@@narendrakumarsingh988 घर तो पत्नी का होता है। मकान भले पति का होता हो

Excellent theme but difficult to digest in indian mentality

@pinkipal5453

2 жыл бұрын

Ya

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Excellent way to teach the son in front of daughter in law

My mother in law was like this my brother in law and sis in law"s couldn't see she treated me like daughter they devastated everything I still follow my m-i-l values 🙏

These guys never fails to surprise & shock the viewers.. keep it up guys... Ya it's a gud message for the society that men can do work and never fell awkward to do the same in front of their parents

Awesome life tak. I also wish every girl gets a mother-in-law like her👏👏👍👍

Because my husband always helped me, today we are what we are! I am proud to be a team. He is my best partener. Every one should do house chores, no shame in that. It shows you care for your spouse.

This doesn't happen in reality, but yes a good message and we should start following it since our childhood and our basic education 👍

@shruttisingh88

2 жыл бұрын

It does happen, I have such MIL 😀

@saumya3925

2 жыл бұрын

It does happen...my husband helps me even infront of relatives

@nilimamisra3819

2 жыл бұрын

It does happen. My mom was such a MIL , and all my brothers & nephews know and do cooking, cleaning, washing, every other household chore to share their respective working wives.. My husband who doesn't know proper cooking (nor has inclination) helps in other household chores, my father in law used to chop vegetables ( MIL is a home maker), and My BIL is actually fond of cooking and does that on daily basis and shares other works with my teacher SIL... All share work even in front of guests..

@honkchungeviet4638

2 жыл бұрын

In reality mother in law are 👿

@miyaanthony621

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, in reality this is very rare...

Very nice ... Everybody talks about change when it comes to their daughter n when it comes to sons.. They follow the same thing which they didn't like themselves in their... People need to understand that when we change ourselves then our society will change.. Excellent message .. Keep up the good work people.

Superb .... We need people with this mindset... Break the stereotypes

Huge fan of yours. My husband is really supportive and helps me a lot in household work however even our elders and our youngers too sometimes make us feel that I am at fault if he takes equal responsibility at home. I encourage both my kids irrespective of gender to be equal participants as per their age appropriate chores. Afterall we can change the society when started from our home. Hope this video reaches all those people.

@chandanabudur2434

2 жыл бұрын

That's great! But one correction, husband doesn't 'help' you in household work, he just does his share of household work, by saying he 'helped' we already subconsciously instill the idea the the main responsibility of household chores falls on woman

@bandybond6454

2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. Everytime my subconscious says my husband helps me, I correct myself and says he does work. Although I am extremely grateful to God for supporting husband and in-laws, but I keep training my subconscious not to be absolutely obliged and stuff like that and let my son learn that it takes both the parents for household chores and office. Nothing in our home is gender biased and I am extremely grateful to God that I never had to fight for this.

I wish every girl get this kind of mother in law

Good one.. both son or daughter should know basic house hold work to maange themself. Things are changing .. I could see girls proud ly saying "I don't know to cook" and boys saying "I know to cook well"

Old lady...great actor👌🏼

This is really a very nice video. Husband and wife should share work equally and home. This brings satisfaction in doing their share of job and relationships also stay in good place. I like aunty she is such a perfect actress and people like this in a family inspire. Anyways lovely series 🥰❤️👏👏

Truly great content. I am very fortunate that my in-laws have raised their son right. I feel blessed because growing up I saw my dad help mom with household chores though he did not manage to learn cooking per se. Now my husband not only helps me with chores he is also a great cook & a very hands-on father! 🙏🏼

Shivaan and Manu very nice acting. And Nirupama ji aapki akhomein to Saraswati devi hai. You are my favourite actress from Life tak. ❤❤❤

I'm really happy that my mother and father have always told my brother to do household chores and help in doing work at home. Because it's a big problem in society nowadays but slowly and steadily our generation is changing.

👍👍 SUPER COOL MOM/ MIL.. hope with such videos the old mentality in people vanishes n they start treating people equally..

Getting money and doing household chores are both men and women jobs great message great job life tak hats off to the life tak team for normalizing and speaking and confronting this topic

आपके जो विचार है, पेश करने का ढंग है बहोत सही है। I like your each and every film. God bless your whole team.

Great message , TRUTH should never be hidden. But presented in as many ways as possible!!! Congrats!! Good job!!

All of their casts are versatile in their acting, nails every role

When we talk about Equality openly then why do we hesitate in front of others to practice it !!

I am so lucky and thankful to my mother in law she teach him everything so he can help me..at age of 70 he is still enjoying to help me

Today I have taught both my fatherless son's to be good hubby's to their wives god willing when they settle down,my eldest son is an amazing chef he learnt to cook on his own.

Feels like a dream. Never going to happen in my case, coz I have a coward husband who is a parents puppet (I should be saying Puppy), and in-laws are just a piece of shiiit who hurt my kid, had it been US I should have sent them behind the bars for hurting a kid. Anyways I could get away from such awful people and atmosphere. Let them tell entire world that I am a bad daughter-in-law. Who cares. I need my peace of mind and I have it now 🙏

@rayeesaarazak7200

2 жыл бұрын

Hope you have a wonderful life.. Stay Bindaas. Our society people never change. This scene of video is like dream.. Will never come true..

@rupachatterjee9014

2 жыл бұрын

Proud of grl❤️

I was blessed with an amazing mother-in-law who is no more today but she was a mother to me so I called her in Konkani as Mai meaning mom ,so love my mai till we meet again may her loving soul rest in peace.

Mother in law is so good looking I have seen her in doordarshan shows and plays fabulous voice act and evergreen actress.

Really agar aise mother in law mile to life bohot heavenly hojayega

Wonderful portrayal of the hidden requirements of our hindu society , this gender difference is the core problem of our society which every working nd non working girl faces , congratulations to the whole team of the movie how simply they conveyed everything 👍

@yuvika9186

2 жыл бұрын

It's nit about Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Christian or any other religion. Its about Gender discrimination.

That's so true one day i told my husband to serve me food and she was like are beta ye to aurto ke kam hote hai admiyo ke thodi tab se i felt she is my mother in law not actual mother yeah so its the reality of the story

@_positivesoul

2 жыл бұрын

Meri chachi ka sirf ek hi beta hai aur unhone apne bete ko saare ghar ke kaam sikhayi hai aur vo bolti bhi hai mere bhai ko ki tum aur tumhari future wife mil ke saare kaam karaoge. Mujhe pata hai vo bohot achi mother in law banegi 😌

@shipragupta5587

2 жыл бұрын

Yes you are right

@seeratkapoor74

2 жыл бұрын

Same as my mother in law mein aati baad mein hoon office se , ye kam krle wo krle, mera phn pkda de , apne pti ko dekh le , yar pehle mein to kuch khaa loo, pani bhi ni peene dete,

Mother in law like this is blessing. Rare found.

Superb video ! Nice message ..hope ppl understand and change in our great country

I am proud mother can say that my sons who do give a helping hand , earlier they helped me, now they help their life partners, they are good at cooking too.

What a lovely video.. and what a subtle way of giving such an important message. good work .. loved it ❤

@purvithakkar3453

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing 👏

Aapke saare video hume bahot pasand hai ...Especially Aunty ji ....Aap laakho gharo k husband and wife k problem resolve kar rahi ho...Apne in chote chote videos se .....Jeevan bhar aap aur aapke videos humare dil pe raaj karenge.....

Bht badiaa mtlb apki story mtlb ya Puri vd bht achi lgi kafi psnd ayi acha lga jaankr ki ap is vd k through ek soch ko change krne ki koshish kri ha aj k time m jitna ghr ka km ldkiyon ko ana chhya utnaaa hi same ldkon ko bhi ana chhya or usm km ko krta hua koi shrm ki bt mtlb feel nh hona chhya...😊well done guyzz ....nice story 👍👍👍

Good one. In these modern times, both spouses pursue their respective careers, either by choice or by compulsion of high cost of living in cities. So, both boys & girls should learn key life skills like cooking n cleaning, and other domestic chores. Then they can assist their parents with household chores, and after marriage too they can run their houshold smoothly with their spouse. Both spouses should share the responsibility of running the family, incl raising their kids.

@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

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@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

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@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

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Perfect topic covered in this lockdown phase....

Nice video...I wish all mother in law's like this..

Perfect! every house should follow the equality. good video.

Imaginary mother in law ❤️

I love her she does super acting and must tell you after along long time nice substance

Lucky to have mom in law like this Good message God bless you all

Lucky are the girls who have such supportive and open minded in laws

Wow it is very nice concept my husband also do the same when anyone comes he don't do any help and he feels shame about it specially infront of my MIL ....change should begin

Always awesome, what a tasty dinner after this beautiful thought, Mom's should ask our Dad's for help in the home so that the boys can learn & follow suit. ☺

True... Equality begins at home.

Excellent, I stopped all videos after watching yours.your content is as we come across in day to day life situations. Great...

Why every role is played by manu?

U r right everyone should work equally, together Then it's a happy family

@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

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@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

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@shiningwordschannel6564

2 жыл бұрын

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Yeah video dekh kr mujhe bahut aacha laga and I like this video or sabke ghar mai yeah hei problem hota hai joh aap log ne baataya ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Nice msg for gender equality which must begin at home.. N especially tiny taught for our beloved sons😍

You guy's always make a video relates my life ❤️

Then in this content hats off to my parents coz they taught my brothers to treat a sister as a sister and a wife as a wife and not like their slaves or maid. They help equally. ❤

Agar itni achi sabhi aurton ki soch ho apne beton ko bhi household work ke liye guide karein ghar kabhi tutenge nahi par aise mother in law rare hoti hai..nice concept. 👍👍👏

Yes equality should be for everyone in family whether it is household work or at job side. 🌺

Brilliance and the trio ❤❤❤

I don't understand... If women are comfortable in earning money... Going to office.. working late hours.... Then why isn't men not comfortable in doing household chores...??? If electricity bill is shared among two.. then why can't preparing two meals of day???? That's because "purush satta" is too rigid in the society.... Men fear to come out of their comfort zones coz they fear that the world they have created for women can reconcile and cause harm to them ....

@dushyantkumar8009

2 жыл бұрын

सही कहा आपने। पितृसत्तात्मक समाज के कारण ही महिलाओं को बच्चों और घर के काम में उलझा कर रखा गया है

@ahmedsijan8971

3 ай бұрын

Women don't want to pay bills

Really love this video.....hope future indian families will be like this video family ...

Yes this is the real story of most of the family. U guys are really really coming with so heart teaching story.

I totally agree with you. I always inspire my son to do so.

@attoshiamohammed8804

2 жыл бұрын

Great concept

I wish to get a husband & mother in law like them. 🤭 We women literally feel like slaves in our house...even if you are earning equally household work is only your responsibility..not fair n..Wives are your life partners..not maids..why people dont understand this🥺

Pahle kitni tention thi pr maa ki ek samjhdari ne mahol Khushnuma bna diya.

Wonderful film with a good message which is really needed in today's society.

Pls make vedio on passive smoking 🚬 which effects children hugely

Watched at not even a minute. Great as always! Kuddos.

Very good msg 🙌 I wish Her Educated couple jo ek dusre ko financially support krte hai unko same attention milni chahiye mutual understanding me family ko issue kyu hota hai 🙄Live & let live 🙏

You three off doing good job ,carry on entertaining and supporting women, thanks you

In the present Era, its infact interesting if both are working for earning as well as both are doing household. It gives equal importance to your better half, as well you spend some quality time talking to each other, knowing each other food choice etc too. In fact usually every Sunday I like to make Morning Tea for my better half.

Beautiful ❤❤

Mind-blowing....No words....👌👍👏👏👏👏

Yessss, equality begins at home.... loved all your videos ♥️👍🏼

I don't think we have such mother in law, it looks gd in videos only

Loved the video and message. Yes still there are many homes where wives work alone and husbands don't contribute at all. Yes definitely all husbands should share the load, then life would be much easier for wives

M aur mere husband dono hi working h,but mere husband to bina kahe meri help krte h,aur sbke samne bhi krte h,jisko jo kehna h wo kehta rahe......

Awesome video. Very good and positive approach towards household chores. Keep getting more such best videos. I like shivan's acting a lot. And of course others.