When you said “your presence alone is enough” is so true. The other day, my fiancé and I were building a drawer. He built it while I just sat there keeping him company and playing the instruction video. He said he felt so productive and good just by me being there. He always says “it’s so boring without you being here” when I am away from our home. I finally get it now.

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Yesss! How amazing. Thank you for sharing this ♥️

@lanamurray3835

8 ай бұрын

Yes! My husband was fixing our coffee machine for hours and said do you want anything? Food/drink, he said you to sit with me ☺️

You're right, once i have healed, I'm repulsed by their behaviors

@whitneymorgan957

8 ай бұрын

This !!! It’s internal , do the work within first .

@kiyanamackie1217

8 ай бұрын

Yes! I’m still in my healing journey (one month post break up) and I’ve already learnt so much about myself and what I want in my next partner.

I went on a date with a guy and he started talking about doing things to me sexually. I was so DISGUSTED thanks to my inner work! I feel like a Queen, don’t ASSUME you will have access to my treasure lol I told him I was not interested and I don’t accept men speaking to me that way or disrespecting me. It’s like calm down we haven’t even kissed yet….🙄

@ncamara670

8 ай бұрын

Eww, that is repulsive indeed. Why men think they can be so forward before they actually manage to build any kind of closeness? SMH

@monikaleszko5343

2 ай бұрын

Such a turn off & then you’re like maybe I should give him another chance 🤯🤯 gaslight yourself ! I did anyway. Never again !!!!!

Omg. A man crushing on celebrities and ogling other women is not only a turn-off but horribly disrespectful. RUN!!!

Alexis, can you please give us a story time as to how you met your man?How to remain patient in your single era?

@memyselfandi3421

8 ай бұрын

Yes please!!!

@Hxoxoxoxo

8 ай бұрын

I think she mentioned this in one of her videos but it was briefly but Yh that would definitely be a good video!

@sinskisin

8 ай бұрын

Pretty sure they aren’t together anymore

@xtrella3

8 ай бұрын

yes pls!!!

Hey Alexis, It really is shocking to me how disrespectful behaviour has become a "norm" for many people - men should be embarassed to behave that way. Thanks for making this video to reinfoce that. All the best, Liz

@yamiletsoler3464

8 ай бұрын

The thing is, many women allow it and even do the same to other men. It is very disappointing but we can only work on ourselves with the needed support.

@yamiletsoler3464

8 ай бұрын

And put our boundaries. Reject, block and move on.

Here is a really good question to ask yourself if you think that your man is not ‘that type of man’ to give you princess treatment: How would he behave if he had a chance to date his celebrity crush? Would he still be ‘not that type of person’ or give her his 1000%. She doesn’t even have to do anything, she doesn’t need to bring ANYTHING to the table JUST her presence. So the problem is not that he can’t but don’t. If anyone is experiencing this it’s high time to walk away because you’re no different than a celebrity 💋💋

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Love this ♥️

I agree with everything you said, when you do not accept low quality behaviors/men and realize your worth - it literally transforms your life.

Also there are plenty of men who do want to provide , if the man who is pursuing you doesn’t , simply move on. God didn’t create a limited amount of men who want to provide , it’s your belief/mindset.

Omg when they take 6-8 or more hours to text back or even text and you see them on social media postings or online ! 🤮

Alexis something happened to me a couple days ago. I went to the gas station to get some gas and a guy was walking pretty closely ahead of me and got to the door first. I thought he was going to open the door for me (letting me walk in first) but instead he held the door open for me. (He was in the door first but just held it open for me behind him.)We come out and he’s on the opposite side of the pump as me. We’re conversing and he asks for my number and if he could take me out. I decline and he asks me if I have a boyfriend I say no and he asks “am I not your type?” I respond “it’s not that you’re very handsome” and he says “so just not today”… when I got in the car I thought about what happened. He was attractive and had a very nice vehicle so why did I say no? Then it popped in my head that he didn’t open the door for me. So I guess my body knew to say no even if my mind didn’t catch up until later. It was something about it that just didn’t make me feel good. Thank you for your videos! ❤

@milicagosic

8 ай бұрын

Yess girl!! I love that🥰🥰🥰

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Aurielle! This is spot on, I JUST discussed this in the “Divine & Aligned” course. Your body knows 1ST, then your logic/head knows 2nd. You are very in tune with your body ♥️🙌🏽

@aurielle.g

8 ай бұрын

@@awwlexis thank you. You have helped so much ❤️

@aurielle.g

8 ай бұрын

@@milicagosic thank you 😊

The more I watch your videos, the more excited I am to explore life with joy and positivity in my countenance, actions and words and wait patiently for my ideal man. Thanks-a-ton!

Something is off with the DNA in the men these days because they don’t want to provide. And Yesss!! Would love to see a video on the relationship culture in Dubai!! 🙌🏽

@sarahmaxwell9236

8 ай бұрын

I agree. Men don't even open the door

@711PARNAERUE

8 ай бұрын

Every man I’ve come across in the last few years wanted to provide, they’re out there.

@saltandlight93

8 ай бұрын

Providing is the minimum they should also be emotionally stable and have integrity

@ZaniahSlayed

8 ай бұрын

That’s a limiting belief don’t manifest that energy anymore ❤

@jenthagem

8 ай бұрын

@@ZaniahSlayed u are totally right

Totally agree! I've never met a guy with this behavior that brought peace to my life. They were all emotionally erratic and demanding.

@giana6886

8 ай бұрын

Literally !

Alexis, you are such a queen. Thank you so much for the fire you brought to this video, I'm so disgusted with poor behaviour 😅😅 needed this 🙏❤️✊🏼

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you beautiful ♥️💯🙌🏽

@earthskool

8 ай бұрын

@@awwlexissubmitted to your contact form - looking forward to hearing back from you ☺️

@genteelcowgirl0119

8 ай бұрын

YES!

I truly agree with you 💯 %!!! You want a man who is authentic, LoVing, and cares about your mental, spiritual, physical, and emotional state. Trust is essential in a relationship, you want to be vulnerable, protected, and honored. Quit lying to yourself that porn is just a movie. No real man, should be watching, making you feel unworthy for them, and NOT ENOUGH!!!

Everything that’s an ick my ex did omg lesson learned 😩😭

@a.b.2405

Ай бұрын

Same!!

Hi gorgeous, I totally agree with you! Usually if you see a man doing that they automatically think that your insecure and just like you said it’s the opposite for me, I’m very secure in myself and I don’t think if a man is with me he should be checking other woman’s lol. Thanks for your precious time filming all these videos love ya❤

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

♥️🙏🏽✨😘

@saravieira8337

8 ай бұрын

❤ 💫

- Makes you feel safe, provides; treats you like the dream - Inappropriate, disrespectful behavior > I am so disgusted. - would I tell my fam about this? - decision > will I settle for this low vibe behavior or do I want high vibe? - would my husband do this?

4am wake up is spirit calling you, beloved.

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Absolutely love ♥️

@earthskool

8 ай бұрын

@@awwlexis looking forward to you seeing the email I sent to your contact form

I so need this video for myself. Like sometimes, my behavior with myself is so effing sick. I have done a turn off on my own behavior and negative self talk. Thanks for sharing this

The feminine guiding light I needed my whole life💓 thank you from the bottom of my heart

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

My sweet girl 🥰

Ahh yes ❤️Absolutely loved hearing “Why are you as a woman having a crush? And, men should be embarrassed to not pay and provide” It has become the easiest thing for me to be in my dark feminine energy, because keeping my inner child safe is my priority. Thank you for making this clear. You are doing your purpose and inspiring us🪷🦢🌟

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much love ♥️🙏🏽

@milicagosic

8 ай бұрын

@@awwlexis 🥰🥰🥰

I needed that, thank u Alexis

Thank you so much alexis! I NEED to hear this lol!!! My favortie thing to do on my rest days are to just binge all your videos on feminine guidance & knit or crochet while doing so! it helps me get my projects done & its like a really great self-help/ improvment podcast, also helps because theyre so long! I love them so much haha I just need to gobble up all this information. This is a big one for me & I am so grateful that I have found your account & have access to so many feminine energy videos! If you could or find any it would be so awsome if you could link any videos or podcasts of what healthy masculine energy men look like, sound like, or what they talk about haha I need good examples in my life.

Your videos are gold! This came at such a right time ♥️

thank you Alexis for this ❤ you are great ❤

Loving this savage alexis come out!!!! 👏🏼

Love your videos...thank you.

Thank you for this video! So timely!

I needed this video SO much. Thank you thank you thank you for teaching me how to embody my inner queen!!!!

Wow I really love this ❤thank you so much for this video

There's no amount of money that can create life. Love it.

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

♥️🙏🏽

love your content

love you Alexis and thank you 🙏❤

Alexis, thank you for sharing these concepts! Your beliefs are very similar to mine, however at some point in my life I was surrounded by people that believes in fairness and full of masculine energy woman. That's when I start to question my beliefs on relationships. I am so happy to know that what I believe is supported by you and many now (teary eyes). Alexis, please share your view on healthy relationships with son and mother vs son and other half🙏🙏 I love youu!!🧡🧡🧡

Loooove this video thank you❤❤❤

Love this! 💯 ❤❤❤

Alexis!!! This video came at a perfect time!! I love you so much I have been watching your channel for a little over a year now and it has helped me a lot and motivated me to be a stronger women. I for years was in toxic relationships and always treated as a doormat. But watching and following you has helped me stand up for myself, I know this video was different but it is needed for women who are too scared to stand up for themselves and for them to know to put that crown back on and that they are queens! Watching this made me want to ask that you do a video about what not to tolerate from a man on a first date! I recently experienced a guy plan to take me on a date and then was looking for me to confirm the date the day of. My response to it was that I left him alone but this happens to so many women as well as guys trying to ghost us and then try to come back. I thought this would be a good topic as it seems that women are excepting this! Love you souch keep this content coming ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

Great points made in this video 👏🏽 I think many of us younger women grew up in times where healthy relationship standards were being actively eroded. Now it has kind of peaked. Low standards and self sabotage are pushed through the popular culture and don't get me started on so-called celebrities. Those are mostly the worst examples of how men and women should approach relationships. You can give people a fair chance and still keep your standards as a woman.

So sorry i missed you at the retreat in Dubai. I never miss them😢. I just discovered you today. Thank you for your content 🙏

Alexis, omg I am listening to this after a breakup and it feels like a whole new video, so many gems, so many things standing out to me, thank you

Alexis, I needed this video. THANK YOU!! From Nairobi, Kenya.

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

You are more than welcome sweet girl ♥️

Yesssss, hello savage Alexis 😏 great video babe ❤❤❤

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Hello love. Thank you so much 🥰

Hi Alexis I just wanna say that I really love you and I appreciate all the offers you put into your videos to educate women round world thanks lot😊

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much sweet girl 🥰

Alexis this was (as always) such a gift. I experienced this type of disrespect yesterday and today this video was suggested to me, you're amazing. Thank you for sharing such empowering, abundant, powerful information!

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

My girl you are SO worthy of being treated with absolute respect and love. So glad you are here ♥️

Alexis, you helped me tremendously with writing down what I want in my man and what I am manifesting for myself upcoming. Your wisdom is a true gift for me in this moment of my life. Thank you for being the prophet from god to me❤😊

Awhhh the love I have for you♥️

Thank you lex

This one won't do another one will- abundance mindset!! I just got healing from that, thank you!!

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

♥️🙌🏽🙏🏽

I love the sincerity. To be honest I could see you were holding back and I feel this level of upfrontness was what was missing as it left out these valuable nuggets

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying this. Absolutely ♥️🙏🏽

What a beautiful thing, that a trip to Dubai has inspired you in such an amazing way. This video is fire! Thank you so much. You are going to change the world.

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

My sweet girl, thank you Monique ♥️

I love you Alexis 💗 You are big sister to me Your wise words are just nourishment for my soul I'm very grateful for you

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you love 🥰🥺

Alexis, I had the chance to go to Dubai in March 2023! What you experienced with the feminine and masculine energy is spot on! I noticed that too and came back home with a fresh perspective! I used to settle for relationships that were unfulfilling, where I felt uncomfortable and my feminine energy attacked. Since my trip to Dubai, I have allowed myself to ease back into my feminine energy, getting comfortable in my body and skin, speaking up when something bothers me and raising my standards, in love, relationships and life! I’m opening myself to receive and allow a man to provide without fear and anxiety x

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

That’s my girl. Isn’t it so amazing! Love that you got to experience this ♥️

Hi,ladies. Nice to meet you. ✨ There are many videos related to femininity but your channel feels so soft and elegant. I find it relaxing and comfortable. Thank you for sharing.

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you lovely 🥰

I absolutely love your content Alexis I don’t have any siblings so I truly view you as my older sister. You’re such a radiant bright light and you’re so precious! 💗💗

@awwlexis

6 ай бұрын

I am happy to be your sister! 🥹 Sending you so much love girl, so happy to have you here ♥️

I love this new you ❤❤❤

My love Alexis omg giiiirl❤ this video omgggg pleaseeee don’t fear to be this savage, the only way to Chanel god’s message through you is to be bold, we love you being like this, thank you for this wonderful message my love 🎉

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying this sweet girl. I love you ♥️

Hey Alexis, I already watched the videos about frens however I still feel like I need more on those videos

Hi dear, yes please a video to overcome a heart break 🙏🏼

Thank you.

انتي موهوبة جداً ،شكراَ لأنك جزء من عالمي ❤🌹

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you love. I am happy to be here ♥️

Sheeeshhhh u sound so smart, I think I need me one of you 😘✨️😉

Alexis the advice you just gave to the girl whose best friend and ex got together gave me chills! Your energy is so special

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much beautiful 🥺🙏🏽

@Pinkchopstix

8 ай бұрын

I been there and you got this. Keep working on being better versions of your self

As i was watching the video you brought up things my future ex does currently but also he does some of the inner work stuff but is very conderaditive for example you said focousing on one woman and starting a family, he does that but isnt taking our relationship or me seriously

Hey Alexis!! Can you do an affirmation video of some kind words you speak to yourself to upgrade feminine energy, wealth and mindset?

Thanks for those advices, it's helpful. ! BTW i never met a man providing. it's time to level up my standards

I was talking to someone about the way my dad behaves and I kept saying the words I’m disgusted” they kept telling me not to say that but it’s the only way for me to communicate how his behavior makes me feel sometimes

I love you Alexis❤

😭you're so right. I'm in a miserable marriage. And I remember accepting bad behaviour from him (eg. him undressing other women with his eyes in front of my eyes over 20 years ago 😭😭😭, not complementing me on our wedding day, in fact the opposite 😭 and now I feel stuck because we have kids and I think he'd be a much more neglectful and worse father to them if I wasn't around. I'm so sad.) But I love your content so much. 🧡. I hope one day I can be out of this relationship and happy, successful, peaceful free 💛

@lin3378

22 күн бұрын

is he fixable? I'm trying to help my parents fix their marriage T_T

I’m currently having a crush on someone and I’m here to do a checkup 😂

Yess make the grwm video

Hi Alexis! Is this a new pajama set from solista wear? It’s so cute!

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Aww you’re so sweet girl! This top is actually from Free People. Totally does remind me of Solistawear too! 😘

I haven't even finished watching the video and I'm already being tested 😅 A man who i was talking to and seeing for a few months, and who ghosted me 5 months ago, just checked on me and asked me how I'm doing. I replied respectfully that I'm well, but i don't have time to text with him back and forth. I'm not available for this man anymore. Although I really miss our conversations and he has some really good characteristics, but it felt like he needed some entertainment, and i deserve better than that. I'm so proud of myself for having set that boundary! It wasn't easy at all for me as a recovering people pleaser, but i still did it. Thank you Alexis for your advice and all the wisdom you share ❤

@laDulaSh

4 ай бұрын

Omg i wrote this comment before you mentioned the part of being tested! That's so crazy!

@awwlexis

4 ай бұрын

That’s my girl! I am so proud of you for that decision. Your younger self would be so proud of you too 😘🙏🏽

@laDulaSh

4 ай бұрын

@@awwlexis Thank you 🙏🏼🥺 I can't believe how fast the testing came though 😂

Thanks Alexis :) if you see this could you please share where your shirt/dress is from? The color and fabric are so lovely!

@awwlexis

3 ай бұрын

Thank you love 🥰 My dress is from “Free People”

444th like 🎉 this video was DIVINE! Thank you ❤✨

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Thank you love 🥰

Thank you so much for this, it means a lot. I’m in the phase where I’m trying to find good examples of real life single men that have done the inner work and are dedicated to growth. but it’s difficult, lol. I know they are out there tho, they have to be, somewhere, lol In the meantime I’m trying to find my tribe and cultivate good friendships with women. It’s always a pleasure to watch your videos! It feels like a nice girl friend chat 🩷

Hello, I was wondering if you can touch on balancing light/dark feminine energies and masculine energy, difference between, where is the line when I am too much in my masculine it just in my dark feminine, thank you soooo much!!!! ❤🎉 all of this content helps me a lot and already had improved relationships in my life and just my life in general

Yessss queen

I’m love the grwm video about your dubai experience, and I have a tricky question on my mind for a very long time. What if the women is way wealthier than the men, has a high cost lifestyles that the man cannot provide. This didn’t happen to me but I want to be prepared just in case. Thank you!

Hi 👋 im from the Middle East born and raised in Dubai and still living in Dubai. Im the one who asked you to open your subtitles for better understanding you specifically Arabic language. This video has translated to Arabic language so I got what r you saying ❤💓 That other one wasn’t available. I really don’t know how to open subtitles since I never created one single video other wise I would tell you 😻😄thank you dear I would love to meet you in Dubai ❤

No revenge is best revenge ❤

Ladies! I need friends like Alexis! I currently have 0 friends like her 😢 I’m in Ventura county California if anyone lives around here I’d love to meet you queens!❤

Alexis can you make content on how to do inner work?

You are my big sister on KZread💕

Also i know you said you’d love for us to see Dubai it got me thinking, have you ever considered a women’s retreat?! I would love something like that with a group of women coming together!!

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Yesss!!! It has been on my heart so much to do one with you girls. So amazing you say this ♥️🙏🏽

Are there any changes we can make in our relationship before we leave if we aren’t ready to leave right now but we want to give it a bit more time. Like 90 days till quitting time… lol (I just made that up) but I was thinking I’m going to give this 90 more days and if he’s not able to commit then I’ll go.

I've been thinking of going to Dubai 🥺

I don’t identify myself as an avoidant attachment style anymore. I am open to getting to know men and people in general. I see it as a slow process of getting to know guys then deciding if i want to be in a relationship with them. However, no one has approached me at all and im confused as to why since I have already decided that im available to only high conscious masculine men. Is there something im missing??

Tried downloading the app but having difficulties. Any help would be great!

What are good high quality dating apps or match makers to find these men

My standards are already un-existent and incredibly high, that's why I've been single my entire life

Hey girllll!!!!can you please make video on why am i attracted to many boys....I don't know why but I had so many crush that I start feeling that something is wrong in me....

Yes! People in Europe, specially Eastern Europe and Middle East are brutally honest!!! It was such a culture shock for me when I got to America and experienced all the fakenes, you see it from American tourists but in full as I experienced when i got here, specially white people

I think that a man shouldn't check out/have eyes for other women also if he is not with you. What do you think? Thank you Alexis❤

@awwlexis

8 ай бұрын

Absolutely! That is what I meant. And men are extra aware when with their girl ♥️

What are some examples of healthy masculine men we can watch online?

Do you have any recommendations for masculine men to watch

Previously in 2017/18, I dated this one man who was extremely threatened by my femininity , he slowly talked me into letting go of it. I did. Not a wise decision. The minute I did that, he got comfortable and took me for granted. He also began admiring other women exuding their femininity in front of me 😂 I laugh because he was a fool. Just because I paused being feminine for awhile didnt mean it was lost. Anyway, I dumped his ass.

Me and my husband were walking in the park last day and a lady with great body was jogging and my husband made a comment to me that ‘see she got a great body’ , usually I must have been joining him saying ‘yeah true’ but this time since this video was in my head I immediately made my disappointment to his comment and not talking to him since a day now, he said sorry not because he made that comment just because if that hurt me , am I making big deal of it with my child’s father 😢

Wondering if this works on kids 😅 my daughter had major attitude problems 🤣