Always remember guys people can't use you if you're useless

@ZeistVK

21 күн бұрын

She said what she meant fr

@OilRig-1

21 күн бұрын

@@JustGolightthey cant use you if you have no use is what they said. If they have no personal advantage to being around you, then they wont stick around. (if the tactics dont work, they move on)

@JustGolight

21 күн бұрын

@@OilRig-1 that makes sense

@Andres71234

21 күн бұрын

You'd be useful to me 🥹😜

@j.lg.7973

21 күн бұрын

That's the motivation I need xD

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

@paulinebricks3441

6 күн бұрын

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@bartholetbay412

6 күн бұрын

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Shelly Renee White

@paulinebricks3441

6 күн бұрын

thank you, but how do i reach her?

@bartholetbay412

6 күн бұрын

look her name up online, you will find all you need to know about her. she is definitely going to help.

This opened my eyes to a friend I cut out 2 months ago being a gaslighter, thank you.

I'm just easy to gaslight.. My dad has been gaslighting me for a while now, and it was pretty obvious. Him and my mom aren't together, so I used to go over to his house. Though, due to some personal reasons I have stopped seeing him. When I told him that I would be taking a break from him, he said something along the lines of "So I don't matter anymore?" or "So you don't love your dad?". He's been saying stuff like that for a long time, and I only realized what was happening the last time he did it.

@almightyZAW

21 күн бұрын

That’s not gaslighting. Maybe he genuinely thinks you don’t love him. And honestly the way you talk it sounds like it. One tactic manipulators use is silent treatment or ghosting people when they don’t like things. This isolates the victim. I’m guessing the idea came from mom…because if this is your own tactic then well the shoe fits.

@soulsearcher7077

21 күн бұрын

@@almightyZAWWow that’s a whole lot of projection you’re doing to this individual. Obviously their dad is deeply toxic because these aren’t questions that a healthy person would ask anybody, much less a parent to their child. The questions themselves are tactics of manipulation.

@nadaibrahim8489

21 күн бұрын

​@@soulsearcher7077 Exactly 💯

@nadaibrahim8489

21 күн бұрын

Btw what your dad is doing is surely called "Guilt tripping" and it's still manipulating and toxic behaviour for the most part.

@doremifasolatido-ro7zs

9 күн бұрын

@@nadaibrahim8489my husband used to guilt tripping me everytime he goes to the store and after coming home he used to say "oh i have nothing for me because i prioritized other people ( which is me) because im nice" or i have nothing to eat blah blah blah but he got several cans of beer. and if he's telling me about his medical bill or anything about money and i just listen to him but didn't talk much because it's thesame story and he goes you don't care! I just cried after.

These two girls that i used to be friends with gaslighted me, hurt me mentally and physically. They denied it and claimed that they "cared" for me... thses two girls would away be on each other's sides, and make me feel bad...i try to stand up for myself but they don't take me seriously...

I’ll give you an example cause it happened to me for real: My ex and I were talking and I asked him to tell me when he was going to sleep cause I didn’t want to stay there waiting for his reply when in reality he was sleeping, and he said ok. The thing is that he left once again without saying anything. I was mad cause I’ve asked him something very easy but he broke it, so I had to wait the next day to tell him that I didn’t like that he left without saying anything, cause I asked him to tell me that and he also agreed. It’s a simple message you know? He got mad at me saying that if I care about these things it means I have nothing in my life and that I had to find something to do, and the conversation was suddenly about me. This is about respect, he didn’t respect something that I care about and instead of acknowledging it and apologizing he flipped the conversation. All of a sudden I was the problem, not him. Beware of these kind of tactics

@specialtwice4975

20 күн бұрын

The key of your story is his anger. Gaslighters will get angry when you want truth, reciprocation, care, kindness, etc. Their anger is the sign to look out for. Example, my ex and I were together. She told me over and over again that I was "the only one". But I had a gut feeling. Deep down I wondered if she was cheating. So I asked her, "Are you cheating on me?" She went into hysterics: "No! Why are you asking me such things?! Do you know upset that makes ME? I'm crying right now because of you, thanks, thanks a lot!" (Sob)" I felt so bad that I comforted her and bought her ice cream. Still, during the next week the feeling wouldn't leave me, she was always on the phone, always texting someone, she was distant with me, gave me silent treatment, and would not want my hugs. So the next week I asked: "Can I see your text?" She got angry, furious. "No! That's my phone! How dare you ask?! Do you know how rude that is? Wow, wow, you are awful person. Nobody who loves and trusts their partner asks that. Ever." I felt so bad... Well, turns out she was cheating that whole time. So that's how you know. They cry, get angry and turn on you, blame you. A caring partner would give you their phone without question or talk in a calm manner.

@ChocoParfaitFra

19 күн бұрын

@@specialtwice4975yes you’re right, they explode in anger when you’re asking for something that isn’t a big deal, I asked him other things that a normal person would have just agreed with and instead I received anger. I hate this treatment. Also I obviously developed anxiety when I want to ask for something that is basically about respect, I just ask to be respected and he overreacts. You know the feeling of walking on eggshells? That. I think they overreact when they know they’re wrong… it hurts but I learnt that it’s not my fault and not my responsibility if they react like that and it also means they know we are right

Yes, I'm dealing with an egotistically narcissistic gaslighter!

Except when your mental health professionals are the ones using manipulation to keep you stuck and they have many helpers within the community. Using also technology to aid in their evaluation of where you're at in order to show where they should aim their efforts. In the community I live these people are truly monsters with a maximum amount of control.

Here to see if I’m a gaslighter

Being termed as rude and manipulative when I set my boundaries.

My best friend has narcissistic tendencies. He always tells me that he gaslights and manipulates me and his friends subconsciously. I know it isn't good for me, but he keeps insisting that he's truly trying to change. I believe him and I love him very, very much. And no matter what, I'll continue to love him.

Always mark your guts

I feel like not being gaslighting

It’s bullying! Pure and simple!!! I’m dealing with one right now and I’m getting OUT!!!🤨

Fits recent games workshop antics.

one time my dad told me "anyone who believes in pride is evil" and later when i brought it up, he said "no. no, i didn't say that"

Guys gaslighting doesnt exist, dont worry about it. (And if you do im hurt that you dont trust me.)

Um... What if I'm the manipulator? What should I do? I always unconsciously do it

Thanks for the tips. Free candy for me!

Insempjavanje,omiljena zabava muskih narcisa

just a question, but when they apologize saying “i’m sorry you’re sad” is that a form of gaslighting? because i look more for “i’m sorry i made you sad” you know?

If only this video came to me earlier...

MANIPULATION.....EXPLAINED. ❤😊

Except I already knew all the facts. Gaslighting is definitely a sign of low self-esteem.

Third, love your channel!

As a counselor we do have to remember that evidence is the best producer of what is real and what is not. Logically three or four people are saying the same thing and your judgment is continuously bad that is actually bad

@dinkybansal688

18 күн бұрын

I don't agree with this cause those 3-4 people may have a different outlook on a certain thing and I may have a completely diff one but that doesn't mean that my argument is bad and wrong just because a bunch of people don't agree with me. They might be right in their heads, while I am in mine but in another scenario either I could be completely wrong or them but still you can't judge if someone is wrong or right just merely on the basis of how many people are against that person.

@stephenchiodo6266

18 күн бұрын

@@dinkybansal688 that is exactly what I am talking about

The link is not in the description. :/

What? No, gaslighting isn’t real!

@littlefox_100

21 күн бұрын

Yea....

For me its a joke. i will Crack At the moment when Saying it aint me

Like pretending English isn't your first language

Parallx - Alcea

@Piece-Of-Time

21 күн бұрын

Idk why did you write it here, but I searched it and it's fire

No it doesn't

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