He wanted to stay with you because he knows your daughters is young

SHE LET THE CHILD MOLESTING COUSIN STAY AROUND HER CHILDREN???😢 WE WONDER WHY SOME CYCLES ARE "NOT" BROKEN!!!!😢 SMH!

@elaibesummers906

17 күн бұрын

@sheilawilliams9966 Why would even her own husband allow it? As a survivor of sexual abuse myself, I cannot for the life of me fathom why her monster of a cousin would be allowed in her house? Please someone needs to look into this 😢.

The abuse this woman suffered really warped her mind. She sounds strangely enamored of her abuser. Sprinkling GOD all over her stories of violence only makes matters worse. I really wish that she had been wise enough, to completely disconnect from the abusers in her family. 😢

I can forgive. However I don't have to be around that person who hurt me.

@Nita_100

17 күн бұрын

So many people *can't* get away from their abuser(s) they got away & let them come back to do more possible damage.🤬

Huh?!!!! You let him around your kids?!!! Aw hell naw. I'm sorry for what you went through but that was reckless to gamble your children's lives. Pedophiles don't ever change. That's crazy.... If something happened to them that's on you. You can be loving without putting your kids in harms way. It was was about you but would have been about your kids.

@gram5963

17 күн бұрын

Right! And I know that the dynamic between an abuser and their victim is super complicated and we can’t always judge where that leads someone. But allowing that man to even look in her kids’ direction…? I’m judging that. Two things can be true at the same time, so, I can definitely be heartbroken for the trauma and pain that she went through (and continues to go through) but I can also be angry and disgusted with her for putting her babies in the line of fire. She’s not a stupid woman. SHE KNEW BETTER.

“Make better choices” *but turns around and lets abuser have access to kids*

@Introverted.Bookworm

18 күн бұрын

Exactly. I am literally puzzled by her.

@napnini

18 күн бұрын

yea I had to stop the video after that.. wow! I understand forgiving.. but ain't no way ima let u around my kids!

If you invite the bear into your house, don't be surprised if it makes a mess of things.

The amount of SA in the black community is crazy, when i was growing up i was told that was a 'white thing'

@Texas_Made_

6 күн бұрын

OMGGG yess,I used to hate this ignorant statement..I don't associate with anyone who says something is "a white person thing" though 🫣🫣🫣

i went through s*xual abuse as a kid and i ABSOLUTELY DO know how to protect my children. there’s no excuse.

To tell a pedophile “just know we’re going to protect our kids” before you let him move in with you is the dumbest thing I’ve heard. You failed your kids on that tip. You knew exactly how nasty and evil he was and told him come on down. Your definition of forgiveness is a little wonky also.

@81thafellowsh

18 күн бұрын

A little

@Nita_100

18 күн бұрын

Of all places to ask to stay, he picks with her, knowing what he did to her for years 😢

@arialvarez3007

18 күн бұрын

@@Nita_100 EXACTLY! Just doesn’t make sense to me…

@arialvarez3007

18 күн бұрын

@@81thafellowsh would you tell me how? I want to understand?

@81thafellowsh

18 күн бұрын

You said a little wonky. I'm agreeing.

This just pissed me off.....

@chanelcampbell3032

18 күн бұрын

They could've kept this

@blackbutterfly5133

18 күн бұрын

I’m thinking she meant she came when her mom was 6 months pregnant. Just a mistake in wording

Forgive but don’t forget allowing this man around your children. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@arialvarez3007

18 күн бұрын

Absolutely!

@stellabellafontay9366

18 күн бұрын

Right.

No, no we not about to put that crap out there you can forgive but to be foolish and potentially repeat the cycle that's super reckless on both you and your husband. Aint no amount of forgiveness gonna let a sane person move a monster in around my babies. You got life on one side f-d up. Girl go seek a therapist at this point yall couldve kept this story for real.

@tamerianriese3441

16 күн бұрын

She seems enamored by her abuser even after his incarceration! Aint no way he would have come near my children

Cut the dum as music off or down

@YouTubeUzername

18 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@Yaadgyal09

18 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@Nita_100

18 күн бұрын

Calm down

@miaporche2256

17 күн бұрын

I laughed...

You allowed the cousin that took advantage of you to live with you & your children? SMH, totally insane, Idc how you sweeten up his actions.

@shanicesingletary6656

18 күн бұрын

Ok… I’m not the only one because girl what?!

@305Capricorn

18 күн бұрын

@@shanicesingletary6656 I couldn’t believe it. And she’s speaking on freeing generational curses but doing the same exact thing that would continue the abuse with her daughters.

@Introverted.Bookworm

18 күн бұрын

Like, what the heck?! History is going to repeat itself. He hasn't changed. Instead of protecting her kids, she does this. He is still the big monster. Forgiveness does not require reconciliation. Words are literally cheap. It means nothing. I can't believe this. I'm so hurt.

@hotfriedgriyoandpeeklees1522

18 күн бұрын

I am with you on that. I couldn't do it. My mind wouldn't allow me to feel comfortable with him

@Introverted.Bookworm

18 күн бұрын

@@305Capricorn Exactly. At least her mother tried the best she could. What is she doing to help her daughters? And if something happens to them (hopefully nothing already has), then what? Lady, think. She needs to use her brain and get off that emotional foolishness. It is not the time. You cannot sacrifice your daughters at the altar of forgiveness.

She should’ve done a lot more work with self before recording this! How do you let your own children be in close proximity to YOUR RAPIST!? What makes you think he’s changed? I pray that none of your children experienced abuse by him , but if they did it’s now your fault for allowing him to be there. Normalize forgiving for your OWN healing process, but do NOT normalize reconnecting with pedophiles- what example do you think that sets for your children and other people who have experienced SA? Victim or not, there is work that needs to be done in order to become a worthy advocate for others and she still has such a long way to go.

I cant even finish watching this

She definitely got forgiveness and reconciliation messed up. You can fully forgive and never see that person again.

LaTishia: THEY NEVER STOP!!

What?!?! You let him move in with your kids?????????😮😮😮😮

THIS MAKES ME NAUTIOUS AND SICK FOR THIS POOR LADY...

I watch this channel alot and this video makes me really unsettled and it just doesn't feel right. IMO there is really something wrong here. I feel so bad for what she went through, but, no. There's something really wrong here. Moving the pedophile into the home? And who cares if he's younger than she thought he was? He raped her repeatedly and murdered a man. Stay far away from such a person. Forgive from a distance if you want to forgive, a very huge distance!!

I am so so sorry this happened to you, its so heart breaking to hear your story and your father's awful treatment😢. I pray you continue to thrive and wish you peace.

Hallelujah🙌🏾 "with love and kindness have I drawn thee"

I can forgive, but don’t mean imma fool with you! Ain’t no way he’d be allowed around me let alone my children!

This story brought tears to my eyes. I went through sexual abuse started with my half sibling. I did all I could even at such a young age, offering myself to protect my sister. You really welcomed that monster of a cousin into your home with your own children? This raises a safe guarding issue. I need to know if you had any counselling at all? You went through so much trauma growing up. As a child you have no understanding and the chemicals are unbalanced in the brain. You can forgive yourself but dont forget. These monsters who have no conscience, go on to abuse by using any forms of manipulation to get what they want. I have knots in my stomach for the safety of your own children. Take it from a woman who has been there and is still affected many many years later. I pray healing, love and light into your life.💜❤️

My cousin s.a me my sister and brother. He's a year or 2 older then me. I'm the oldest of my 2 siblings. I have 3 kids of my own. My cousin is still around my family. I will not let him around my kids. I hate him. He's a drunk now. My brother is a drunk aswell. My brother's is hurting I know it. Because of that bastard cousin of ours

You are so strong. Thank you for sharing. You continue building your relationship with God.

This channel is irresponsible, these stories should be screened better. This woman and her husband allowed a pedòpħìłe to live with them and their defenseless young child and you guys still posted this story.

@flygirlkai9189

6 күн бұрын

It’s called unfiltered stories. Unfiltered…..

Nope, no way, not happening. Sex abusers don’t get cured. I believe you but I’d never put my little girl around a predator and murderer.

Born six months early is insane and a miracle

All these people that come and pure out there heart,I pray that all of those sick people would be jailed

Truly sorry you went through what no child should go through in life, God bless you for speaking out, for those who can't speak with abuse from their experience

Beautiful testimony. Love your transparency. Forgiveness is most definitely for us! Thank you and God bless you!

Thank You for sharing your soul ❤❤❤

So you let your abuser live with you 🙊

@kristinejohnson8230

17 күн бұрын

And sent him bread

Oh no he would not have been able to live with me & im not sorry about it either. I’m glad she was in the position as an adult to save her mama

all of these comments here JUDGING THIS WOMAN IS FCKING HORRENDOUS!!!!! I thank God for growth as well as everyone else should with this lady's experience. I honestly think, because everyone loved the guy, she was almost forced to "sweep it under the rug". thats why i believe she allowed him back in and thats why she still somewhat loved him as a child because she saw that everybody loved him. i have my own experience i can relate to on that so thats why i can understand. yall got to stop being so fcking judgy at yall BIG, grown age !!! these folks read these comments !!

So proud of you for pulling through and not letting it take you down. Your mama checking, that's her way, to know for sure- in her eyes and in her experience. Lord have mercy, generational abuse/trauma is a NASTY thing.. alot of people are so sheltered and brainwashed while growing up and with abuse, they don't know anything else or that there IS something else. It's absolutely tragic. When a childs innocence is taken,their light dims or extinguishes.. the world keeps getting darker, depravity is sweeping this planet at an alarming rate. The light must prevail, but it's hard to keep up the good fight with such sad shit on such a wide scale🤦🏻‍♀️. God, come back to us we need help♥️ Also, I always say, don't stay together "for the kids" having experienced my mother being abused physically verbally emotionally mentally by my father, those are some of my earliest memories, you best believe that shit scarred me for life.

If “god” was never a thing, everything you went through would still have happened. Know and understand your own strength. I’m sorry you went through this. I wish you the best

Everything you said is right.

So sorry you articulated your story very well

I feel like we have so much in common. The abuse at home and having to protect your mom. And, why I got older I started learning more about God and the scriptures how God teaches us to love ourselves and to forgive those that harmed us. It’s not easy to forgive someone that hurt you both directly and indirectly. Me seeing and hearing the fights. Always wonder when dad comes home is it gonna be ok or is there gonna be a huge fight tonight. I was always living in the edge with anxiety it did affect me I was outgoing and happy kid, but turned into a shy unhappy to teenager. Art and music were my passions too. I always loved playing sports and weightlifting at age 12. If I had confidence I would have joined the wrestling team in middle school. Anyways, I was bitterly angry at the people that harmed me even angry at my parents for making me grow to fast and not enjoy being a child then teenager. I would dislike some of my classmates because I just thought they were so immature and how are these kinds of people are popular? I learned they were just being children young teenagers having fun and they were the normal ones not me who was usually always serious. With my group of friends I was the funny one and athletic one. Playing sports and lighting weights made me feel strong and powerful because I had no power in my life at home. I’m in my 40s I’ve worked a lot on myself, but there’s still so much work to do. I just try to help others that are younger than me because I don’t want them to take most of their life to learn to love themselves and feel their are deserving of love. I missed out on so many opportunities because I didn’t have any support and it’s so hard to have to be my own cheerleader. I try to remind myself I don’t live in my past now and I’m an adult that has control of my life. I’ve experienced many good things also. Thanks for your story. I feel like we are sisters spiritually. The world needs more people like you.

I'm so sorry girl ❤my best wishes for you❤

SIS AMAZING AND BRAVERY OF YOU KEEP HELPING OTHERS I APPLAUD 👏🏽 YOU 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

Amen hallelujah

god blessed you to get thur this amen 🙏🙏🙏 am sooo sorry this happened to you

I believe in forgiveness and all but hth you invite a demon to dwell in your home with your young daughters. The fact y'all had to warn him should have been the reason to say HELL NO you can't come here!!

My last name is Lanier also. Very rare to see...sry for what u had to endure. May god cover u 🙏🏾

I have zero sympathy for you as you allowed this man around your kids smh .. just spineless smh

@Texas_Made_

6 күн бұрын

For real...how are you supposed to be a mother and can't even have the guts to stand up to a whole predator,kids look to YOU for protection😮

Imagine being a 4 year old little girl With a grown man’s manhood trying to go inside that baby.. My daughter is 4 and I would literally DIE! lord jesus

@jerrymcdougle4461

2 күн бұрын

He wasn't grown. When she was 4 he was 10.

Forgive yourself but forget about your predators.

God bless you 🙏 and all the best in life 💕

Wait! Did she just say, she was 6 mths early??? That's not possible

@donnacrenshaw3105

18 күн бұрын

It Is Possible, There's Newborns That Are Being Molested. These People Are Absolutely Sick.

@81thafellowsh

18 күн бұрын

No born 6 months early & the OP is correct. It's not possible.🤔​@@donnacrenshaw3105

@SuperTossiepop

18 күн бұрын

@@donnacrenshaw3105 no she said she was born 6months early so she survived birth at 3 months 👀

@CapeForBlackWomen

18 күн бұрын

She likely meant born early AT six months

@chanelcampbell3032

18 күн бұрын

​@@SuperTossiepopshe means that she was born at 6 months

she was born 6 months early???? so..3 months? maybe i’m somewhat ignorant but is that even possible?

Your mother stayed with that homicidal maniac?! Insanity!!!

Dcf needs to get involved she is failing to protect her kids

There's also no way in this lifetime or any other ,that I could NOT have made him dig a hole in the back yard for him to stay in. Lord says to forgive.. I'm sorry, your stronger than me, cuz hurting children is Unforgivable

@lesliewells-ig5dl

17 күн бұрын

I don't believe it was strength, it sounds like denial or something like that.

i remember my mother did mention to my gp about something that was physically wrong with me i dont remember who done it to me though and still dont know till this day

Hold on WHAT!? 😮WOW disgusting CPS needs to get involved.

It triggers me when she says he did what he needed to do. I know whay she means, but that wording is just so ....I don't know the word for it. It's not an accurate way to say it.

Omg… that’s horrible

🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪

Ok, I'm not feeling this one...

@tashacrisp2768

15 күн бұрын

Not at all something ain't sitting right with me the family seem like they were in some kinda cult she using GOD ALOT!!! I PERSONALLY THINK SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP AND IM PRAYING SHE GETS IT 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@tashacrisp2768

15 күн бұрын

Not at all something ain't sitting right with me the family seem like they were in some kinda cult she using GOD ALOT!!! I PERSONALLY THINK SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP AND IM PRAYING SHE GETS IT 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@allisonmitchell7379

13 күн бұрын

⁠@@tashacrisp2768what do u mean she’s “using” GOD a lot? I can’t figure out who sounds more ridiculous u or the person who’s comment u are responding to. How is she using GOD tho?! The only thing she said about GOD was that HE blessed her, HE healed her, gave her the ability to forgive her abusers. HE blessed her with a family and allowed her to be able to move on with her life. She was molested by her uncle when she was a child. Her mom was being abused by her father. How in TF did u get “cult vibes” from that? Clearly u don’t know what a cult is.

@allisonmitchell7379

13 күн бұрын

I don’t understand what it is that u aren’t feeling. This is her story, her testimony. If u don’t have anything nice to say then just keep your opinions to yourself.

You should have got out before with information

you were born 6 months early? that would make your mom 3 months along which is barely 14 weeks along.. no way a 14 week fetus survives.

Smh😢

My daughter turned on me and loves her abuser her cousin told me I should had died both mine turned but I couldn't handle it because I didn't know they refused to tell me when I asked questions

He wanted to stay with u cause he know u got girls he do not need to live there

So true!

I'm not clear on what approach he used? Coercion? Grooming?

I’m sorry but you were irresponsible for letting this person in your house around your daughters. How about YOU make better choose Ma’am!!

Its so funny how people give their power away to god….god didnt do anything you did this on your own and you found the strength

@mbatista5891

18 күн бұрын

People believing in a god is a mentally weak thing to do. They have to have some type of mental crutch instead of being real about their situation. They had to come to their owe rescue nothing else did. If there was a god those evil experiences would have never happened. What use is a pedo to prey on children when that is anti-nature and serves no purpose but to harm a person mentally and physically and possibly produces more messed up perverts like that.

@ceceprincess4758

18 күн бұрын

What?!. U are confused

@Andrea-ue2uw

17 күн бұрын

@@ceceprincess4758 nope…are you?

@AlanaGurl

17 күн бұрын

Agreed 💪🏾

@jerrymcdougle4461

2 күн бұрын

I agree.

Why are words showing up on the screen it seems a bit weird. Also i don't think its necessary to go into such detail of the abuse. I don't think it is helpful in any way and it doesn't seem right. Especially when certain words are being highlighted on the screen. Im really starting to wonder about this channel.

Reported

Naw sis 😒

I read the comments......your family is in trouble with you..also hidding behind food and sky daddy isnt going to work either...ADDRESS IT YOURSELF AND STOP LETTING SUCH CHARACTERS AROUND WTH😡😡😡

Toxic narcissist

@missybee1068

18 күн бұрын

😈 DEVILS roaming in families preying on the weak and small and the innocent. 😢

If this isnt BLACKISTAN story,i dont know what is yikes😬😬😬🫣