Phew chile, friendships are really more complicated than mjolo. You nailed this topic.Made me reflect on my friendships.

@NobueKhumalo

5 ай бұрын

You can say that again! ❤️

This is such an eye opener and an interesting view. I personally am guilty of carrying dead weight and like you pointed out,it’s that burden of being a people pleaser,but in all essence it is important to have an audit and make space for new friendship. I also need to put myself on a pedestal of shame 😰i am a lousy person at nurturing friendships,there are people i know i take for granted and i need to do better❤️.

@NobueKhumalo

5 ай бұрын

Totally get you. I think sometimes maintenance of the friendship becomes a task because you actually know there’s nothing left there but you have to act it out anyway and so people just don’t do it and before we know it we become strangers

❤

@NobueKhumalo

5 ай бұрын

❤️❤️

Learning to understand and accepting that sometimes it is okay to let go of certain friendships also helps protect your own heart from offense. Should a friend "Cut you off" due to perceiving and communicating that you two have grown apart. You are not left bitter, but with an understanding and genuine acceptance.

@NobueKhumalo

5 ай бұрын

True. I do believe though that it’s wrong to cut people off without having a conversation about why you’re doing it. You owe people decency at all times

First one today yeeeey 💃.This is such a very sensitive yet crucial topic. I think as you grow and transition into adulting and as you evolve as a person, friendships takes an alike route. As painful as it is, I'v had to shed some weight as well on some frienships that were nolonger serving me in that season and I think its important to accept that its okay and necessary for growth. Thank you for sharing Mrs K

@NobueKhumalo

5 ай бұрын

🥳 yay! Yeah it’s painful, we keep holding on hoping maybe one day the spark will return but we need to come to a point of realising that it doesn’t always last forever, and that’s ok.

I was robbed from being the first 😭😭.Anyway phakathi inside 😊

@NobueKhumalo

5 ай бұрын

Askies 😅

@ivymahori4519

5 ай бұрын

Kkkkkkk i’l wait for you next time sisi skwawari🤣