Four Are Flatting

They want their own flat, but it';s going to be a big logistical exercise... and many say they can't do it.
We follow four adults with intellectual disabilities as they move out of home. / attitudepictures

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  • @yukiefromoz2573
    @yukiefromoz25734 жыл бұрын

    I like Travis. He is funny and very sweet. Ppl with disabilities are more capable than what we give them credit for.

  • @yukiefromoz2573

    @yukiefromoz2573

    3 жыл бұрын

    @T S Ya don't say...

  • @blindpeopledostuff3587
    @blindpeopledostuff35875 жыл бұрын

    It’s really nice that they got good people helping. The people that donated furniture too.

  • @bitwix621
    @bitwix6215 жыл бұрын

    Surely there must be some law preventing landlords from straight up saying they won’t rent to the disabled? If not, that’s outrageous.

  • @DavidDHahn

    @DavidDHahn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Often people are afraid to speak up, and those who are wronged do not have the time or money to pursue legal action. At a company I once worked at, a deaf woman almost didn't get a job due to her lack of hearing. She was hired only because I and another interviewer spoke up that accommodations could be made and the manager was about to blatantly discriminate in front of two witnesses. Three months later, we were laid off. I knew that would likely end up being the result, as did my co-worker.

  • @iLikeMyOwnPosts

    @iLikeMyOwnPosts

    3 жыл бұрын

    That stinks, David, but thank you for standing up for what is right!

  • @echofoxtrot2.051

    @echofoxtrot2.051

    Жыл бұрын

    We have laws to protect us in the US but I can't speak for New South Wales.

  • @rebeccamccready1135
    @rebeccamccready11354 жыл бұрын

    Amazing story I hope they find happiness and I’m hoping to move out in to my own place in a few years but will still have support because of my learning disability and I hope they have fun living together it gives them them the life skill of living independently which is a good thing all disabilities should have right to live with independent but with support ♥️

  • @camarojai6832
    @camarojai68323 жыл бұрын

    I’m so thankful a landlord gave them a chance. This is absolutely wonderful to watch. Never count anyone out

  • @jacquel2ne
    @jacquel2ne12 жыл бұрын

    Love it! Everyone looks so happy!

  • @keztukariri
    @keztukariri Жыл бұрын

    Thats so cool furniture city! So nice they got their beds and stuff brand new 🥰 well done to the parents (& the landlord!) for their effort and support ❤

  • @sandradearing604
    @sandradearing6044 жыл бұрын

    When there’s no one to have a strong says for these disabled adults, as in their families have passed away of old age, who will watch over them? If their families have to have such a strong say today in where they live it shows that the system is flawed NOW!

  • @johnboy384
    @johnboy38410 жыл бұрын

    Id love to know how its worked out for them. All the best. =)

  • @valerieannrumpf4151
    @valerieannrumpf41513 жыл бұрын

    There have been housing programs like this in the USA for the disabled run by non profit agencies for people with various disabilities. The wait list time for these types of programs varies that's because these programs have a huge impact on the way people with disabilities live.

  • @ElzaRydell
    @ElzaRydell5 жыл бұрын

    I hope their living happy ever after

  • @ShamrockNRoller

    @ShamrockNRoller

    4 жыл бұрын

    You made three mistakes in a seven-word sentence. It should be: "I hope THEY'RE living HAPPILY ever after."

  • @bt-jz7ki

    @bt-jz7ki

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ShamrockNRoller thanks for being the asshole so I didn't have to lmao

  • @ejnicks5644

    @ejnicks5644

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ShamrockNRoller Elza has a learning disability. Asshole is spot on. Actually I made that up, but... What if she really does? Isn't there a nicer way to correct her than seeming like an asshole?

  • @ShamrockNRoller

    @ShamrockNRoller

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ejnicks5644 Maybe I have a mental condition where I don't know how to deal with people properly in a social context. You were WAY more rude to me than I was to her. Good job simping, though. Maybe she'll notice you now and want to kiss you.

  • @brooke7030

    @brooke7030

    4 жыл бұрын

    ShamrockNRoll nah, you’re definitely the asshole in this situation.

  • @caitlinlyons8376
    @caitlinlyons83763 жыл бұрын

    Breaking my heart seeing Dana upset because as an autistic adult, I know the anxiety of leaving mom and dad and not understanding why, also I love Travis ❤️ he’s so funny 😂

  • @AbigailBGnath
    @AbigailBGnath7 жыл бұрын

    How horrible that landlords actually said they don't rent to the disabled! These are four incredible and lovely adults!

  • @junbh2

    @junbh2

    7 жыл бұрын

    Surely that's illegal?

  • @junbh2

    @junbh2

    7 жыл бұрын

    Also, they seem like they would be good tenants - like they said in the video, they don't want to have big parties and none of them smoke. And I assume their rent will be guaranteed in some way by the agency that is helping them, so they should be quite reliable.

  • @millybranch6471
    @millybranch64715 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic!

  • @thesparklingunicorn8543
    @thesparklingunicorn85433 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic group of people:)

  • @queenbuzybee4074
    @queenbuzybee407410 ай бұрын

    Very cool! I wonder how they’re doing today and really hope they‘re all well and happy!

  • @blindpeopledostuff3587
    @blindpeopledostuff35875 жыл бұрын

    It’s difficult when they’re not sure.

  • @H4CK41D
    @H4CK41D Жыл бұрын

    this is so cool what a lovely bunch, i wonder how theyre doing these days and if theyre still flatting together

  • @lovingmayberry2000
    @lovingmayberry20002 жыл бұрын

    9 years ago!! How are they doing?

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam73584 жыл бұрын

    Oh the other dances wow 👌🏽😋i love dance 2

  • @garaldtao1801
    @garaldtao18015 жыл бұрын

    This is a great idea except the it should have been done earlier rather than when their parents started to realize that they can no longer be the primary care giver. I have a developmentally disabled brother in law who could easilly achieve an independent lifestyle but his mother is dragging her feet and will not let go. I have been preaching this since he was 20 years old and now that he is turing 50, he will more than likely end up in a long term care facility when his mother can no longer be the primary care giver. Parents are selfish and are thinking of themselves more than their childern when they delay teaching their kids independence. If these parents were younger, these people will not find any independence until they are in their 40s or 50s much less in their 30s.

  • @jennifersherman7052

    @jennifersherman7052

    4 жыл бұрын

    @gerald tao. Hi. The things that I'm going to say and suggest are for the benefit of your brother-in-law and his mother. Help her, and that will, in turn, help him (going to an appropriate place where he can get the care and attention he needs). This is not a simple situation. I understand your concern. If it's too emotionally &/or physically difficult and painful for your brother-in-law's mother to address the topic of what will hapen to her son when she can no longer care for him, is there any reason that you can't research options and gather information FOR her? You really do sound like you care a lot. His mother nedds care, too. No one can know the pain and difficulties she is feeling. There is something about her decisions feels good to her. Selfish? I don't think anyone knows that. Her actions and decisions make it easy for people to assume she is selfish. To know what she is actually feeling or thinking is impossible, unless she shares that info.. Additionally, in extreme situstions like this, there are often often a myriad of thoughts and feelings. This can make it very difficult, or impossible, to understand thdmselves. This means that she might say she feels/thinks one way and never brings up her possible confusion about how she feels, her possible indecisiveness, and her impossibly extremely strong and complex fears. She is possibly overwhelmed. She may feel alone in the world. Loneliness or fear of loneliness can unconsciously or consciously, cause her to feel panicked, and, can often become a crisis of life or death. She could be feeling completely alienated from family and/or friends. Lack of support can possibly add to any fear/panic she might have, maybe making her so afraid, and/or, guilty, she desperately holds onto what's familiar. Perhaps, if you showed her that you were there (not necessarily physically) for her, she might feel less alone, etc.. Helping find info. that she finds impossible to deal with, just might allow her to feel less afraid, for herself and/or her son. She might not be aware that someone helping her is, to some degree, making life easier. She needs support, helpwise, and emotionally. This is a crucial component in what she experiences in the present and future. It would be fantastic if you, or someone in your family could do serious research into finding a person, group, organization, that is extremely familiar with these types of familial situations. The research might become doing some, or a lot, of networking, asking for referals and suggestions. This CAN be accomplished. Being optimistic and positive does absolute wonders in many ways! 😀 (Please, do not criticize her. That's the laxt thing she needs).

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam73584 жыл бұрын

    Interesting video

  • @echofoxtrot2.051
    @echofoxtrot2.051 Жыл бұрын

    I'm having to move out on my own soon. I have autism without intellectual disability.

  • @Austins126
    @Austins1266 жыл бұрын

    Has there been an update on this story?

  • @jasminwood3216

    @jasminwood3216

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stephanie Austin 8 years on and still are happily living together and are enjoying the flatting experience

  • @LessThanThree76

    @LessThanThree76

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jass Wood How do you know? Are there any official update videos?

  • @jasminwood3216

    @jasminwood3216

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@LessThanThree76 I'm actually a close relative to one of the four flatmates, but no there are no official update videos :)

  • @LessThanThree76

    @LessThanThree76

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jass Wood Ah, nice! ☺️ I’m so happy to hear that they are still flatting together ang getting along well. All of them are SO awesome! Thank you so much for letting me know. ❤️😃👏👏👏👏

  • @wemuk5170

    @wemuk5170

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jasmin Wood 👍🙏😊👏🙌

  • @lovingmayberry307
    @lovingmayberry3075 жыл бұрын

    "Flatting." I was completely confused; this is obviously not an American term. 💙 Are there updates on these sweet, deserving people??

  • @Chelle8847

    @Chelle8847

    5 жыл бұрын

    so was I, I'm in the UK, not heard that term before either

  • @jasminwood3216

    @jasminwood3216

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, 8 years later and they are still loving and enjoying living together “flatting”

  • @roflolwtfomg

    @roflolwtfomg

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah very common term here. We call a house that multiple different people live in a flat. And those people are flatting. Instead of being called roommates they are flatmates :)

  • @drewsantos2197
    @drewsantos21972 жыл бұрын

    Good man wearing "the stig"

  • @marilyntape9050
    @marilyntape90504 жыл бұрын

    Cool😃👍💜💜💜💜🇦🇺

  • @mellowbellow3002
    @mellowbellow30023 жыл бұрын

    💖

  • @janjan6661
    @janjan66612 жыл бұрын

    Are they working ? How do they afford rent?

  • @qiugezhang6847
    @qiugezhang68473 жыл бұрын

    I don’t understand this title at all. Am I the only confused 🤷‍♀️ one?

  • @raldrmt

    @raldrmt

    2 жыл бұрын

    Flatting means living in a flat.. more like sharing a house with friends or sometimes even strangers to share cost etc. Common in Australia and NZ. Maybe in the UK as well.

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    @rachelmartin2967 Жыл бұрын

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    @rachelmartin2967 Жыл бұрын

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  • @blindpeopledostuff3587
    @blindpeopledostuff35875 жыл бұрын

    They’re very lucky. Other people can’t even find a house and they have to do it on their own.

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    @rachelmartin2967 Жыл бұрын

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    11 ай бұрын

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