Five (5) SUBTLE signs of a envious friend cause a envious friend is a dangerous enemy...

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  • @nouchkam1939
    @nouchkam193911 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed?? Watch part 2 here m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/rJOWwaqspNfThco.html&pp=ygUJbm91Y2hrYSBt

  • @Zlervo
    @Zlervo Жыл бұрын

    Friends who steal ideas are also envious people.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup they most definitely are!

  • @Yikkoofficial
    @Yikkoofficial Жыл бұрын

    They copycat. They will copy anything they can because they lack personality.

  • @MsSassydiva12

    @MsSassydiva12

    9 ай бұрын

    Facts 💯

  • @gildamartinez4604

    @gildamartinez4604

    9 ай бұрын

    I tend to copy. I like cute things, if I see it, I want it. Not to be the person wearing that item. And if it becomes a thing where I'm copying a specific person then I think we just have a lot in common or they might inspire me

  • @Yikkoofficial

    @Yikkoofficial

    9 ай бұрын

    @@gildamartinez4604 interesting perspective

  • @Ratryoshka

    @Ratryoshka

    8 ай бұрын

    Tbh theres a difference between someone who tries to copy others doing things to genuinely learn to do them, and someone who copies other people cuz theyre envious of them

  • @Yikkoofficial

    @Yikkoofficial

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Ratryoshka Either way it comes from deep seated insecurity

  • @Belevaqua
    @Belevaqua2 ай бұрын

    When I was a young wife with four little boys- money was TIGHT!. I had been pining for Vanilla Lace body spray and cream…..My frenemy asked me to go with her to the mall to pay a bill with her….We went into Victoria’s Secret. She bought Vanilla Lace products- enough for THREE women! Her little girl whispered, “Mama, are you buying some for auntie?” She just quietly folded the VERY LARGE bag and we went home. ( She NEEDED to SHOW me that she COULD buy it on a whim.) Fast forward 35 years. She is divorced, and her kids can’t stand her. We went on to prosper and I now own TWO homes and live at the beach! 🏖️ GOD IS GOOD!🎉🎉🎉

  • @iselaconstanten1292
    @iselaconstanten1292 Жыл бұрын

    Do not tell anyone what you’re planning to buy, until they see it on you 🤣

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    This is such wise advice i wish someone told me this in my early 20's @iselaconstanten1292

  • @MS-ns4ki

    @MS-ns4ki

    10 ай бұрын

    Bling bling - for an average ring, it infuriated everyone LMAO

  • @ediamonds366

    @ediamonds366

    10 ай бұрын

    glow up in silence

  • @alicec.6195
    @alicec.61959 ай бұрын

    Some people are just weird. Forever 11 years old.

  • @Thareallyrics16
    @Thareallyrics16 Жыл бұрын

    I went through this with a friend. I used to tell her everything, but she would hide what she was doing. I also noticed she started to mention my plans around people that I didn’t want to know…she would always say that it was an accident. Things became really clear when I started to get more attention to her. It’s really pissed her off and she started making comments about living in people’s shadow. I started to distance myself and I no longer share things with her.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    I am soo sorry you had to go through this, so effed up of her to tell your business to others and subtexting you about being in the shadows lol she crazy 🤪 I am glad you were able to distance your self from her for your own good

  • @NEO_Trojanmuldrop4

    @NEO_Trojanmuldrop4

    3 ай бұрын

    I deal with this exact issue but with men. It s the most annoying. But also hurtful shit. You sit there thinking someone is your friend but they really aren’t

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan Жыл бұрын

    This is an important topic. Especially considering the Shanquilla Robinson case.💞🙏🏻

  • @hnewman2907
    @hnewman29079 ай бұрын

    Had a friend I cut off a month ago and found out he was envious of my family, personality, height(he is 5’9 and feels inferior), and who knows what else. Every time we hung out he would just go on and on non stop about himself and his career and cars. He always tried to make everything a point or lesson, kind of like he was trying to give me advice on my life even though I did not ask for it. Such people drain your energy. Leave them.

  • @camilleyvette9269
    @camilleyvette9269 Жыл бұрын

    I had a envious “friend” set me up to get my car stolen 😩 I noticed the envy but I didn’t think it could get this far

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg soo sorry to hear that girl, pls be careful in these streets sadly we have all been guilty of ignoring red flags at times but truth is ignoring the signs sometimes can be fatal. I am glad you safe 🙂

  • @haidenmorgan

    @haidenmorgan

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nouchkam1939 I just found out some of my closest people were plotting to rob my jewelry n hold it for years before selling you can't trust anyone it seems like

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg @ambrosiation i am soo glad that you found out before they were able to put their plan to execution. Please 🙏 be safe, it's rough out here... envy is REAL!

  • @katejohn2874

    @katejohn2874

    Жыл бұрын

    so true, they always show the signs but we ignore

  • @MzNoir_Rain444

    @MzNoir_Rain444

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep 👍🏾 😅😢

  • @vturner
    @vturner5 ай бұрын

    this happened to me !! I told my friend I wanted to take a bartending class & sent her the website. She said we should wait bc she didnt have the 500$ yet… We went 2 months without seeing eachother & speaking much which caught my eye but I didnt think much of it. She called out of the blue insisting on seeing me to catch up, we sat down & the first thing she said is Oh, I just finished the class, I can officially bartend…… 😐

  • @NEO_Trojanmuldrop4

    @NEO_Trojanmuldrop4

    3 ай бұрын

    wtf

  • @everythingbeautyboutique5002

    @everythingbeautyboutique5002

    Ай бұрын

    Wow that’s crazy I don’t understand why people do this..

  • @vturner

    @vturner

    Ай бұрын

    @@everythingbeautyboutique5002 my husband said she was jealous and/or in a competition with me. Looking back now there were soo many red flags lol

  • @almightybeanchild

    @almightybeanchild

    2 күн бұрын

    I hope you're no longer her friend

  • @CandaceNia
    @CandaceNia10 ай бұрын

    I had a “friend” buy a purse i told her i wanted my whole life in my face and it was the last 1. I told her i was torn between that bag and another and she literally turned around and said “i’ll take it”. Even the store clerks were shocked.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    10 ай бұрын

    Omg 😲 what a bitc*!!! I am imagining the store staff face 😳 she was prob secretly competiting with you... So many people are in secret competition with us and we don't even know smh...Did you keep speaking to her afterwards??

  • @NEO_Trojanmuldrop4

    @NEO_Trojanmuldrop4

    3 ай бұрын

    That’s just evil

  • @everythingbeautyboutique5002

    @everythingbeautyboutique5002

    Ай бұрын

    😮

  • @everythingbeautyboutique5002

    @everythingbeautyboutique5002

    Ай бұрын

    @@NEO_Trojanmuldrop4for real

  • @shannonbrophy3687
    @shannonbrophy36872 жыл бұрын

    I really need and want a close female friendship. It's not cool when the friend is a slimy B.....

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup making friends specially as a adult can be hard af but hand in there they are good women out there too.. Any update on the 1200 calories??

  • @shannonbrophy3687

    @shannonbrophy3687

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nouchkam1939 for the past few days, I've been trying to stay under 1200 calories, and it's been really tough. When you first changed your eating habits, did you ever find yourself waking in the night due to sugar cravings, etc?

  • @helpthechildrenusa7259

    @helpthechildrenusa7259

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Shannon, I am looking for a mutually respectful female friendship. Maybe we can chat somewhere and try getting to know each other?

  • @mcleanroom7997
    @mcleanroom7997 Жыл бұрын

    I wouldn’t tell anyone that I was getting citizenship.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    And that's perfectly fine as long as you won't be mad if others don't tell you as well

  • @adwoaboakye265
    @adwoaboakye265 Жыл бұрын

    You are so beautiful ❤

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you gorgeous ❤️

  • @ntebalengsefahamela5851
    @ntebalengsefahamela5851 Жыл бұрын

    More blessings upon your life chosen one🤩😘🥰

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen sweet darling 😍 this comment means to me more then you will EVER know thank you chosen one ❤️

  • @kmydesire12
    @kmydesire12 Жыл бұрын

    I know someone I spoke to everyday for hours and when she came in town she said nothing

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't understand, why would she do that? Did you ask her? Would she then talk later on the phone?? What a weirdo...

  • @Rollacoastertycoon

    @Rollacoastertycoon

    Жыл бұрын

    They don’t even look you in the eyes

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Cause they cowards @adriandejesus4243

  • @vturner
    @vturner5 ай бұрын

    copying is one thing but acting like u didnt copy me & lying straight to my face or acting surprised is what I have an issue with

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    5 ай бұрын

    This is key 🔑 it's one thing to be "inspired" by someone, it's a totally different ballgame though to blatantly copy them, lie about it and even be in a secret competition with them

  • @180waves
    @180waves Жыл бұрын

    Your place is so nice! ❤

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you Josh ♥️ Stay stuned apartment tour coming next...

  • @Vanessa_Martinez
    @Vanessa_Martinez9 ай бұрын

    That’s weird and a red flag to buy the belt and never said… “ oooh I like that “…. She was trying to one up you definitely. Get it before you.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes as i told her about wanted to buy the belt, she didn't say a single thing had she said anything like she liked it or something like that it would have been different, i woudnt have mind..

  • @demetriahewlett6508
    @demetriahewlett6508 Жыл бұрын

    You did good with this topic 🙌

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, i am glad you liked it 😌

  • @bellastone-le9eb
    @bellastone-le9eb9 ай бұрын

    I just met an envious person in my friends group. She talks bad and gossips about everyone with an anointing. They compromise everyone.

  • @mariakayy22
    @mariakayy22 Жыл бұрын

    Yea she was wierd af

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey Mariah she truly was, I am soo glad to the nightmare is over now...

  • @Vanessa_Martinez
    @Vanessa_Martinez9 ай бұрын

    You’re a very pretty lady love your glowing skin and lipstick/gloss.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    9 ай бұрын

    Aww thank you gorgeous 💕 greatful for you ❤️ ❤️

  • @partrabavonmyer9293
    @partrabavonmyer9293 Жыл бұрын

    i’m sorry you had to deal with that bae, i’m dealing with a similar situation. thank you for the video.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes unfortunately envious people can be extremely mean spirited. No one deserves to go through sad and you seems lovely, pls make sure you separate yourself from her/them. Stay safe babe ❤️

  • @alexisonthebeat2438
    @alexisonthebeat24389 ай бұрын

    She had to get the belt before you. What a hater.

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    9 ай бұрын

    She truly was a frenemy, omg @alexisonthebeat2438 is that you on the pic? You look absolutely phenomenal 😍 i know you got plenty envious friends for sure

  • @vieuxdia
    @vieuxdia2 жыл бұрын

    Nothing, zero, nada 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lavendarzen
    @lavendarzen Жыл бұрын

    Girl, you are gorgeous

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww greatful for you 💓

  • @celesteessel4500
    @celesteessel45009 ай бұрын

    8:18 this i dont mind, if they dont want to share everything, that’s alright -- 8:47 oh…… I withhold info from people , but ppl have different access and responsibility levels. I have a lot of loose friendships, and i dont mind with loose ones not sharing and if they dont share with me. Maybe if I have a closer friend it’ll be different the types of things we share

  • @nouchkam1939

    @nouchkam1939

    9 ай бұрын

    Hey sweet darling @celesteessel4500, i don't think that in and out itself you reholding information is a problem, but reholding an info and then rubbing your accomplishment down your friends throat would be one, or having a friend that shares litterally everything and then reholding some things from them, but then again this is a opinion based video. Thanks for watching 😘 and i am greatful you took time out of your i am sure busy schedule to engage and share your perspective 🤎

  • @celesteessel4500

    @celesteessel4500

    9 ай бұрын

    @@nouchkam1939 💗💗 thank you for the response, it is an interesting topic !!

  • @Larryjohn4488
    @Larryjohn44889 ай бұрын

    You sound like a high maintenance friend. I dont think your friend was jealous of you, you just had high expectations of what you think friendship should be. Your definition of friendship might not be the same for everyone. As much as you might want to share everything, your friend might want to keep somethings to herself. Some people dont share because they dont want to jinx it, surprise you or just dont want you to feel disappointed if it doesn't work out for them.

  • @SublimeSubliminalHeir
    @SublimeSubliminalHeir9 ай бұрын

    Yepp

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k9 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @LGRangeStove-vg8ig
    @LGRangeStove-vg8ig8 ай бұрын

    LOL

  • @ashajeremiahqw8775
    @ashajeremiahqw87752 ай бұрын

    I kinda disagree with the third one you have accomplishments they never show up at all so why would I continue to share accomplishments on what I am doing with them especially if they lied throughout the friendship

  • @ALLfemalesLiecheatnsteal
    @ALLfemalesLiecheatnsteal9 ай бұрын

    ❤avoid those with mommy daddy issues… adopted single mother raised all same gender siblings only child… statistically, are the worst

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